One Hour Better: Following the Visibility Rule

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  • @eileenlester4342
    @eileenlester4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    Being disabled, it's not feasible for me to put things away as soon as I find them. I put them in a small laundry basket... and when I am finished decluttering the area... I put the basket on my small walker...and move it from place to place to put everything in its proper spot. 🌞

    • @sarahlyon157
      @sarahlyon157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I was a caregiver and so many of my clients did this! I loved helping them work on decluttering projects and they always appreciated that I could take things to their final home right away. :D

    • @CalmVibesVee
      @CalmVibesVee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Excellent process!

    • @cami9447
      @cami9447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      My walker is my laundry hauler…well actually anything that fits to go from one room to another.. take care Eileen.

    • @PASwiftUTube
      @PASwiftUTube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Working smarter not harder. Great idea.

    • @eileenlester4342
      @eileenlester4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@cami9447 Me too!!! Blessings. 🌞

  • @elfstarsaka
    @elfstarsaka ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I know this is an older video but I want to thank you for acknowledging not everyone has recycling access! I grew up rural outside the city limits, we didn't even get city trash service (had to pay a private company) and if we wanted to recycle we would have had to haul everything to the recycling center and pay them to take it. Where I live now, we get 1 bin that is picked up every two weeks. Anything that doesn't fit into that bin ends up going in the trash. There's a town yard that's open a few weekends in the summer where we can bring some stuff, but they don't take cardboard! So we recycle what we can but there's a limit. I think sometimes city/suburban people judge without realizing the things they have access to that not everyone does.

  • @barbaracarr17
    @barbaracarr17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    So many things people want to recycle aren't really recyclable anyway. I just participated in a Zoom meeting in our area with the waste hauler. Wishful recycling is a thing. We all need to get a grip on the fact we just need to consumer less. I thought I knew what I could recycle. I was wrong

    • @funnymemos3056
      @funnymemos3056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes recycling isn’t as easy as it should be. I would gladly take my stuff to a recycling center if there was one available anywhere near me

    • @robinr5337
      @robinr5337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏👏👏👏

  • @seanagarrow7488
    @seanagarrow7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    For the person with general “tiredness”…for the person who lacks stamina…for the person who gets easily distracted…for the person who has only a few minutes at a time…(& many more constraints)… There’s nothing that works as well as the “no mess decluttering method”…
    Whether it’s a shoebox or a room, it’s genius! Thanks for elimination of piles Dana…

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      YES! She has helped me so much on my journey!
      "Do the dishes"
      "Where would you look for it first? Now TAKE IT THERE!"
      "DUH Donations"
      I hear her voice in my head all the time when I'm decluttering! Lol

    • @cindymcelya736
      @cindymcelya736 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrinaRaysTrekofLife 7

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cindymcelya736 "7" What?
      Sorry, but I didn't understand your reply.

  • @carynmeyer118
    @carynmeyer118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    It seems to upset people in my real life, but I call everything trash, junk, mess, etc when I'm decluttering my house. "Don't call your things trash!!! This is NICE!!" Like OK, objectively.... sure. But If I need to MOVE STUFF out of my life, it helps me if I can emotionally distance from it. If I think of things as "That Objectively Nice Thing From Auntie Vi That I am NOT Into" I feel like I have to keep it, because it's "nice". But If think of it as "That Mess" it becomes much easier to move it out.

    • @eileenlester4342
      @eileenlester4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      One person's trash is another person's treasure. I give it away so that someone else can enjoy it. 🌞

    • @leahrenea2709
      @leahrenea2709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I love that 💕!!! It totally makes sense because if I think it's pretty I will want to keep it

    • @EveryPeachInReach
      @EveryPeachInReach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I have stepped on toes inadvertently when I have even used the word declutter. One lady thought I was insinuating that all the stuff she had in her house was just junk, so I had to explain that no, the stuff wasn't trash, but it was stuff she didn't need and wanted to get rid of.

    • @patriciabecker8573
      @patriciabecker8573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What a great idea! I try to tell myself that I’ve enjoyed having that item for a while but it’s time to “bless” someone else with it.

    • @msdixie1972
      @msdixie1972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Those people are emotional hoarders, unhealthily attached to things. I can say this because I get it myself!

  • @Right-laneRubberDucky
    @Right-laneRubberDucky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    My Mom has a saying for the flat surface problem: "How many times do you want to pick this up and put it down again?", and my favorite: "I only have so many 'bend-overs' for the day, do I want to use it on this again?". Gotta love the hard earned Mom knowledge... tried and tested.

  • @jinxigrl
    @jinxigrl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Honestly, I have learned to love the "take it there now" because I get a lot of steps on my fitbit!

    • @fabienneclavier5984
      @fabienneclavier5984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True! Great way to exercise without having the feeling it's exercise!

    • @jenniferhoke9181
      @jenniferhoke9181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking it would be a great way to increase steps!!

  • @auntlizzy1308
    @auntlizzy1308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Tell Reid he can never quit. He is the icing on the cake.

    • @jennaalce4016
      @jennaalce4016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The credits are always a must read. And worth it every time. What a guy

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He makes me laugh every time!!!

    • @roborefpam
      @roborefpam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely! Reid is doing an amazing job. I realized with his end credits of this episode, that he is actually doing an exceptional technical (artistic) job - I could certainly not tell at all that he had to cut out so many "Okay"s.

  • @Isabel_fit
    @Isabel_fit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This is my favorite series! Dana, thank you for providing this content! Also, thank you to the volunteers who allow themselves to be vulnerable by showing their clutter to us! It is so helpful seeing real people declutter ♥️

  • @RLL620
    @RLL620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love the 1 hour better, there is something about beating the clock, just make decisions faster....

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      HAHA So true! It's so much easier jump to quick decisions when the clock is ticking and the camera is rolling!
      I recently took the tools that Dana taught me and started my journey again! I even started posting videos of my progress (s-l-o-w but steady) to hopefully motivate others! It's nice to declutter along with someone and not feel so alone.
      Happy decluttering!

  • @kimcoburn9798
    @kimcoburn9798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    "Visibility Rule" is genius!! Everything you explained resonates with me. God bless this young family.

  • @granitemoss1451
    @granitemoss1451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I love your method for making space in a 'container' that's too full already and how it keeps you focused and away from getting overwhelmed. It's brilliant.

  • @Candiegirl13
    @Candiegirl13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I think it would be cool to revisit people you visited before see if they kept it up.

  • @annarchydeclutteranddesign413
    @annarchydeclutteranddesign413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Regarding envelopes - my Mother had the great idea of ripping in half every envelope as she had taken things out of them, so she would know they were ready to dispose of, and would not have to check them again. : )

    • @timekabolden5309
      @timekabolden5309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg!!! I just did that earlier. I had to tell myself, to let it go, because I'm not going to mail anything back.

    • @terrilloyd3691
      @terrilloyd3691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great idea 💡

    • @wendyinegbenedo1307
      @wendyinegbenedo1307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes we rip ours in half too. If its ripped in half, we know its trash, shred, recycle, or that bill has been paid. ❤

    • @beckyharding6571
      @beckyharding6571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have to do this! Otherwise I end up with a pile of "I think I need to deal with this" and it turns out it's all empty envelopes! 🙈

  • @patdennis2586
    @patdennis2586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    A new habit that might help keep the table decluttered is to reset it with the dishes for the next meal after each meal is over and the table is cleared again. It could become a visual reminder that the table is for eating at not laying random stuff on.

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wow! Great idea!!

    • @LilCraftyNook
      @LilCraftyNook 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I did that at Christmas last year and it was amazing!! (I have a beautiful set I had never used!)

    • @AmelieHarms
      @AmelieHarms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@LilCraftyNook Thank you! I'm going to try that out this Yule. It's the perfect time to test out that visual reminder idea and would look so pretty. And the prettiness would encourage me to actually do it.

    • @grogers511
      @grogers511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Scottish Lassie This was a different concept for me too. But, a lot of people like to keep their table set. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @charitybankhead3030
      @charitybankhead3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Have yall met toddlers? 😅

  • @barbkandel777
    @barbkandel777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Dana, I love this "One hour better" series! It's so fun to watch! Oh Reid, I say OK all the time too. It might be a mom thing. LOL

  • @jeanneclark99
    @jeanneclark99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    You are so right, Dana: Applying the visibility rule adds SOOOOO much momentum. Thanks for helping me start my day!

  • @salvease
    @salvease 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of my LIFE CHANGING mantras when decluttering OR shopping comes at 13:37:
    "I love it so much but I don't need it."

  • @SupremeViola
    @SupremeViola ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know this is an old video, but I just discovered this process and my MIND IS BLOWN.
    I am the child of a literal diagnosed hoarder, so mess management isn't something I was ever taught (and boy, was the idea of getting rid of things stressful). Accepting that progress is progress and that is fine in and of itself is so freeing.

  • @mindymudge7247
    @mindymudge7247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Reid you make the end of the video hilarious, thanks for that . Dana you are the best at helping people learn how to clear their clutter and never put people down. I love that!

  • @susieq1672
    @susieq1672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Over the last few years (and many misc power cords later) I grab some masking/duct tape and a marker the minute a new corded device is unwrapped and label what the cord is for. Others might laugh, but I have a whole box of “DUH what heck does this cord belong to???) the Love Dana’s humour and honesty (I wasn’t born with the organizing gene either)

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a great idea!!

    • @arashy
      @arashy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Won’t the cords get sticky? My labeled Ziploc bags for loose cords waste space, so I’m still looking for a solution.

    • @pamelal939
      @pamelal939 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can write title onto bread bag tie and clip it onto the cord.

    • @CoveredandCommitted
      @CoveredandCommitted 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same problem here! Decluttering my basement and can’t believe how many random cords there are!

  • @seansgirl80
    @seansgirl80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Perfect timing! I’m procrasti-watching instead of clearing my kitchen island ( it looks just like this lady’s table!) and it’s just the motivator I need. I especially liked the reminder about what happens when the clutter builds again. Definitely something that happens to me often with the island! Thank you x

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HAHA So true! It's so much easier to sit and watch rather than getting up and getting started!!
      I have watched so many decluttering videos this past year and learned SO MUCH!!
      Finally I was like "OK MY TURN, I NEED TO TAKE ACTION!!"
      So I took the tools that Dana taught me and started my journey again! I even started posting videos of my progress (s-l-o-w but steady) to hopefully motivate others! It's nice to declutter along with someone and not feel so alone.
      Happy decluttering!
      I hope your kitchen Island is looking better now. Horizontal spaces are always "catch all spaces" for me! IDK why, but if there's a clear flat surface, I'll find something to pile on there!!😑🤦‍♀️

    • @salsarmemimi7292
      @salsarmemimi7292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I recently decluttered and clean my huge kitchen island. My goodness it looks wonderful. I’m working hard to keep it nice. I know it’s only been over a week, but it still looks great. Blessings to you from Texas.

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@salsarmemimi7292
      Great job!!
      Yes! It makes such a visual impact when those counters/islands are clear!!
      I cleared my kitchen and bathroom counters back in March 2021 when I started my decluttering journey and they have stayed that way!
      Of course they get things accumulated here and there, but now a simple 5 minute pick up gets them back to clear (as opposed to 30 minutes or an hour! Lol)
      It's so nice to wake up to clear counters!
      START UP THE DAILY "5 Minute Pick Up "and yours will stay that way too!!
      Good job!!
      (I believe Dana K White is the one that I learned the 5 minute pick up from. Her videos have helped me learn so much and helped me to start my journey and also helped me to start posting decluttering videos of my journey too.)
      Happy decluttering!
      Keep going! 💪

  • @granitemoss1451
    @granitemoss1451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I cleaned a kitchen drawer yesterday that holds paper things and clips and rubberbands and such. I thought it was 'clean' as I did it a year or two ago and it just needed some neatening to close nicely. I often think we don't have much trash hanging about but this drawer was the exception for sure! Duplicate school paperwork from year to year, used notebooks with only a handful of useable clean sheets within...I made progress very quickly and it made a HUGE difference and felt great. It's not a place anyone but me sees much, but it sure is nicer now when I go in there for something.

  • @reginaeudy9249
    @reginaeudy9249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I loved all of the information in this video and please thank your volunteer for letting us in her home. Seeing it in action really helps to understand it better. I've been a long time subscriber and I am so happy you started making videos again this year. I hope you will continue because you help more people than you realize. Thank you!

  • @Cecily-Pimprenelle
    @Cecily-Pimprenelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Love your method. Love the realism of it not being perfect or completely done at the end... and yet, with the goal being ”make it better in one hour” it does feel like success. Thanks for the motivation!

    • @carolgeorge6409
      @carolgeorge6409 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it surprised me how well it works for me and also for my daily pick up to”take it there right now” when I pick something up and start ti put it back down. It gets me moving

  • @irisbear9421
    @irisbear9421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought that table was smaller than it ended up being after an hour! Good work ladies!

  • @heathersmeather
    @heathersmeather 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She did a really good job. I remember my table getting cluttered a lot when my kids were small.

  • @melaniemartin6566
    @melaniemartin6566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Parting with the purple eyeglasses case reminded me of the breakup line "It's not you, it's me" LOL There's nothing wrong with it, it's just not needed in your life and you free it up for someone else to enjoy.

  • @catherineellis3925
    @catherineellis3925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So much progress in just an hour! Inspiring! Would be great to see a before and after comparison at the end of the video.

  • @rynaard
    @rynaard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really enjoy seeing practical application of your decluttering methods. Thank you for the great videos It has made a difference in my house!

  • @nicolescholet691
    @nicolescholet691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Yay! I'm loving this series so much, so excited to see another installment! It is so inspirational and helpful.

  • @danabrown2391
    @danabrown2391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    That was wonderful! You explain it to clearly and demonstrate how and why!

  • @nancedavis5649
    @nancedavis5649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I enjoyed seeing her scripture verses on the wall! God's Word is Lifegiving! Inspiring! My kitchen table used to look like that and I stuff shifted for many, many years. Now, in my 'beginning-to-declutter- life", The table is usually visibly clear (just a recent shipment of supplements on it today). But my desk!!! That area needs a One hour better/Visibility Rule following focus!!! Thanks for the inspiration to not get discouraged and to attack it in do-able time slots!

  • @arashy
    @arashy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Although I don’t set a timer, your decluttering steps have made a BIG impact. I work till the momentum subsides. Now I don’t feel the need to wait until I have a free day to declutter. Thank you soooo much!!!

  • @alanbirkner6571
    @alanbirkner6571 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My kids are 49, 46, and 42. I saved only a few art projects from each year. If you flatten cardboard cartons as soon as they come, it saves space. If you need one later,
    you can retape. I brought home scrap paper from work for drawing and homework. I still flatten and roll plastic bags. Then store in a small bag, or recycle. We've always
    lived in a small space. Tina, Al's wife

  • @CalmVibesVee
    @CalmVibesVee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are doing such a great ministry of help Dana. What an honorable and loving gift you are to so many.
    Its taken a journey of trial and error but i did finally learn that if 1-2 things were on a space that should stay clear it WILL breed. If I keep it completely clear (consistent habit) it gathers less. Its a strange thing to observe but its true for our house. It took a few years of the baseline normal look of the kitchen counters, dryer, or any flat surface to be completely empty. So when there is one coffee cup in the middle of the counter i now see it and atleast immediately move it to the sink and usually clean it and put on drying area. If not something else will appear on the counter very quickly besides that cup.
    Im here to cheer everyone on in this long journey of putting things away radically fast. We can train ourselves to do this. And if its difficult to do that there is too much inventory in the house to manage or no home for it. Thre is grace and mercy for this process, there is also deliverance from any bondage in keeping too much stuff to manage. We must downsize to live in peace. Ladies we are the gate keeper of home peace. Onward! You can do this!

  • @phunt8551
    @phunt8551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please continue doing these episode. I am starting to understand that one hour is enough time....thank you

  • @NovasYouTubeName
    @NovasYouTubeName 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    So helpful to see this in action and what to do when one space distracts me from another that I’m “suppose to” be working on. Listening to your book “decluttering at the speed of life” and ohhhhh my gosh am I glad I found you Dana! After the zillion other decluttering meat gods I’ve tried and failed at you and The Minimal Mom are making it so I can ACTUALLY see results and get rid of stuff instead of stuff shift!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️👍🏼

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HAHA So true!
      I have watched so many videos and learned SO MUCH!! Especially from Dana and Dawn!
      Finally I was like "OK MY TURN!!"
      So I took the tools that Dana and Dawn taught me and started my journey again! I even started posting videos of my progress (s-l-o-w but steady) to hopefully motivate others who are struggling too! It's nice to declutter along with someone and not feel so alone.
      I'm finally making progress too!
      Happy decluttering!

  • @katherinelipari6610
    @katherinelipari6610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Visibility was such a game changer for me. I definitely tend to go working in a drawer when I feel like improving my house it just killed my spirit when I afterward still had a crazy-pants house!

  • @JayeEllis
    @JayeEllis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "It's hard because I love it so much, but..."
    This is my cue to thank it for being in my life, and let someone else enjoy it, too.

  • @FoD1975
    @FoD1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brilliant! It just works - every single time! Especially the container concept - so easy to whip things out that aren’t as wanted as whatever is being put in! Thank you! 😊

  • @annw1395
    @annw1395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love these videos where you're at someone else's house. And I love the funny credits.

  • @myjewelry4u
    @myjewelry4u ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always focus on what is visible, I don’t start with a closet, drawer or my bedroom. Doors close. My main living space for the family is first. It inspires me to continue in the smaller areas. Don’t actually look at my house now, 5 people all working but that’s always my goal.

  • @cinnie2543
    @cinnie2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dana, I feel like I have you right here, helping me reclaim my house. Reid, you do an excellent job and really brighten the credits!

  • @reemmasoud77
    @reemmasoud77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1. Your son Reid is just hilarious! Love his editor notes at the end he always makes me laugh out loud every single time 🤣🤣🤣
    2. Thank you thank you THANK YOU for these 1 Hour Better videos! You put your method into practice and make it look so easy and that gets me super motivated to declutter! You're amazing and you have no idea how much you're helping us ex-slobs get our sh*t together! You're the only decluttering expert that resonates with me because you've been there, done that! The other perfectly organized so called experts can never understand the way we think or even scratch the surface when it comes to changing our mindset.
    Love your 1 Hour Better videos please keep posting them!

  • @laurent4809
    @laurent4809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love this! One hour better. Such a momentum builder.

  • @MW-km5pu
    @MW-km5pu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Something that helps us keep our dining table clear of clutter after we managed to get it cleared off was putting place mats on the table. We are visually reminded that the “big open flat space” is for eating and not collecting. We still manage to place an item or two on occasion, but it was walked to its home before the next meal!

  • @CicadaXiii
    @CicadaXiii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are the most amazing tutor for people like me with ADHD!! I can tell you so “get it” 🥰 Thank you!! I’m super far advanced into my minimalism (I know that’s not your specialty area as you’ve said it other videos) but as a person with the attention things you’re so Perfectly Inspiring!! You help so much!! 🙏🏻

  • @SpicyMelange
    @SpicyMelange ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used this rule last night to put a lot of things away. The progress is really noticeable! I also sometimes put things into a bin to sort out when on a conference call or in a support group on zoom. It helps a lot! Thanks Dana! My home thanks you.

  • @ritatharp5238
    @ritatharp5238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi! Thank you for sharing. I appreciate you stopping & addressing some of the problems and issues with clearing off the table.

  • @jessicaderstine4061
    @jessicaderstine4061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think I must have a sickness 😂
    My literally at work, helping someone declutter. So on my lunch, I'm watching you and Dawn. 😂🙌

  • @imyourfriend8582
    @imyourfriend8582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Okay, you are officially *the* most helpful decluttering guru. Thank you ❤️

  • @natashyas4149
    @natashyas4149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this one hour better series. Helps me see the quick difference!

  • @tinabennett8524
    @tinabennett8524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had not heard the phrase “stuff shift” I had been saying slide puzzle to describe my chaos management (referring to the plastic slide puzzles from my childhood party favors) Over twenty years, 6 occupants, two bedrooms one bath. Stuff shift has been our life and may well continue to be, however management of what we value, and need. As well as efficient storage and a less cluttered appearance is my goal now. You have been the best help to me on this journey, I enjoy your humor and understand now things I was not understanding before. You brought a clarity and a reality to the process. The better is good motto has been one of the most simple and dramatic things. Realizing that all progress is better, watching your videos as I sorted or cleaned, or listening to an audiobook helped Thanks Dana!!

  • @lauramathews3151
    @lauramathews3151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We call it the Dropsies. Not like the historical term for fainting and seizures narcolepsy, edema etc. But that we drop things when we come into the house from the front door back door, garage etc...

  • @SassyST
    @SassyST 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found myself feeling so happy for her as time was ticking away and the clutter was going away! Very motivating, thank you. As a disabled woman with multiple fused vertebra and limited mobility, THIS method actually looks doable! Thank you for this series ❤️

  • @theresaduplessis6529
    @theresaduplessis6529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you. Always good to see your rules in action. 🤗

  • @GoogleUser-wx8mw
    @GoogleUser-wx8mw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfect timing; I needed a Dana K. White motivational video. Sifted through important papers yesterday, brought the ones that needed to be destroyed to a place that will fine shred + recycle the papers (!), so now I have room in my file cabinet for legit things. But . . . that pile of boxes on the desk from cleaning and organizing the closet isn't mostly paper (gasp!). Those boxes mostly house my old cassette tapes. Okay, there are a few that I sometimes listen to, but really, these boxes of cassettes just need to GO. They weigh me down and are keeping me from using the desk in my office. Tomorrow is garbage day, so TODAY I am getting rid of at least 90% of them and reclaiming my space. The container (space in the office) gets to be the bad guy who makes the decision. I'm armed with everything you have taught us + Cass' statement, "If it isn't a firm yes, then it is a NO." Have a great week!

  • @jessical.5391
    @jessical.5391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am applying the visibility rule and it's working like a charm. Beautiful!!

  • @ArleneAdkinsZell
    @ArleneAdkinsZell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the great tips! I live alone, still manage to clutter this place up.

  • @emilylong9887
    @emilylong9887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Total agree with the visibility rule. I have the main area of my house decluttered for the most part. I have been binging decluttering videos the last few days during nap time to tackle my bedroom. It’s a hot mess lol. Unfortunately what’s left is my hubby’s stuff but I finally got him to clean off his dresser and omg it makes the world of difference. I’m hoping the visibility rule kicks in for him and he agrees to do more (like his closet lol.)

  • @CassieW-97
    @CassieW-97 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Found you this year through Minimal Mom. Your declutterring method has changed my life. Thank you! I have signed up for Take Back Your Home Sept 2024!

  • @freeschmidt
    @freeschmidt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a Halloween party and the mess was stressing me out, but putting this on as something to listen to while I work helped me deal with the task and now things are nearly restored to order. Thank you for sharing your no-nonsense method.

  • @elizabethnelms2564
    @elizabethnelms2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for helping teachers! We have so much more stuff than most people going to and from school.

  • @DeborahElaine-g3z
    @DeborahElaine-g3z 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You inspired me. I put just 15 minutes on a timer (bc that felt manageable). I goofed around for the first few minutes but by the time the timer went off I was motivated enough to finish another 15 minutes, and then another. I spent almost an hour cleaning an area I've been putting off for months.

  • @clmaynor
    @clmaynor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I seem to have the attention span of a 5-year-old most of the time so this timer method sounds very helpful.

  • @margaretmatthews511
    @margaretmatthews511 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BETTER is GOOD!!! Is a great reminder. I also like, DONE is BETTER THAN PERFECT!!! Thank you for this video.

  • @fredanddino1
    @fredanddino1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you dana, you are awesome and nice and not judging and I finally understand some things, thanks to you and your explanations

  • @GratefulDeb270
    @GratefulDeb270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your videos, love your books, love how my decluttered house feels & looks. Ty… a million times thank you! 💕

  • @suzy1676
    @suzy1676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great perspective for those of us who get discouraged! 💜

  • @anj6787
    @anj6787 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Regarding the desire to recycle things in our decluttering journeys, but not having the ability to for whatever reason, I heard this phrase somewhere that helped me get past the guilt of just throwing the recyclables away for the time being: You have to save yourself first before you can save the world. It put it into perspective for me! I just wish I could remember who said it to give them credit.

  • @lindalarson5468
    @lindalarson5468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dana- I love your book, your videos and most important, your METHODOLOGY! It's brilliant! I wanted to share with you a term coined by a friend of mine that sums up my problem with clutter. That is, "memory piles." I create little piles of stuff to remind me to do something in the future. A pile of mail that I need to prompt me to call and deal with an insurance claim or contested bill or whatever. A blanket and my sewing box to remind me to mend a hem. An empty bottle to remind me to buy a replacement bottle. Memory piles are everywhere in my house and I have trouble breaking this habit. HELP! Do other people do this or is it just me?

    • @audreyandrea460
      @audreyandrea460 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This comment is late but the “take it there now” rule works for most of this. If you aren’t going to mend the blanket now, throw it out. If you aren’t going to get the replacement bottle now, throw away the empty one.
      But issues with insurance and bills? That’s a separate issue and if you have trouble managing bills then you need help from someone who can provide that kind of service for you, in real life, though, not on TH-cam.

  • @galynburnaman3509
    @galynburnaman3509 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of my favorite rules. Now, every time I finish anything, I hear you say It is better. Thank you, Dana. Keep up the great work.

  • @susanp7432
    @susanp7432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just what was needed this morning to get motivated!!! 👍

  • @jail434rural
    @jail434rural 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your “One Hour Better” series. It’s the most motivating for me. Because I actually get to put visual cleaning, with what I imagined it looking like from your books.

  • @ilonggakoday
    @ilonggakoday 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just finished ur 1st book -love it! and watching this has demonstrated how the process is both doable and fulfilling! Thank u for making me feel normal n possible:)

  • @lindacarr314
    @lindacarr314 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The no-mess decluttering method really works. It also works as an exercise program because you have to put stuff away as you find it, not just make another pile.

  • @gaynorprice-jones1826
    @gaynorprice-jones1826 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a super motivating video. I have health issues and whenever I've tried to declutter I have done the whole "empty every single drawer, wardrobe etc and pile it all on the bed". You know what I'm going to say next. I end up in too much pain or exhausted and everything goes back. Following Dana's advice I have started decluttering in bite size chunks. Yes it will take me a while and my flat is still very messy but I can see a difference already.

  • @beccismith4454
    @beccismith4454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay 👍🏼😉😁😄.
    I enjoy watching these, and while my kitchen table is not quite as full, it’s an impulse! Thank you

  • @minkademko2335
    @minkademko2335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This is weird. I just finished a solid dedicated MONTH of decluttering every room in the house, donated, trashed and bonfired an unbelievable amount of items. Now i don't feel much progress as i look around my rooms. It all feels too cluttered yet. Clearly, this is going to take another month of hard decision making, and lifestyle changes.

    • @jessicaderstine4061
      @jessicaderstine4061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      There are so many layers to big decluttered.
      You have done a good work!! 🙌
      Minimal Mom Dawn often talks about onion-like layers.
      I have a suggestion: in your next "round" simply quiet and declutter surfaces

    • @fleabitz1474
      @fleabitz1474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Be sure to take "before and after" pics. I feel the same way as you, but when I compare pics the progress is actually astonishing.

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@fleabitz1474 Great suggestion!
      I recently started decluttering again and I'm taking photos and also posting videos! It really does help to see the before and after!
      I still have so far to go! Lol

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Minka Yes, it can take several go arounds!
      Be proud of the progress that you have made!
      If you feel it's still too cluttered, then you just haven't found your "clutter threshold" yet.
      Dana has been on her journey for about 10 years and Dawn has been on hers for about 7, I think.
      This process takes time.
      Embrace the joy of "better" and keep going until you look around and feel peace.
      Happy decluttering! 😊❤

    • @TrinaRaysTrekofLife
      @TrinaRaysTrekofLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@jessicaderstine4061 Yes! So true!
      It's definitely not a "one and done" for most of us who have been building up our clutter for years!! Lol
      I'm still on the first outer skin of my onion!!! LOL
      Thankfully though, I'm making progress after learning so much from Dana and Dawn! They even inspired me to start making my own videos! It really helps to make quicker decisions when the timer is going and the camera is rolling!! Lol
      Happy decluttering! 😊❤

  • @carolc6860
    @carolc6860 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy you are back and doing new videos.

  • @yvonneschermerhorn866
    @yvonneschermerhorn866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A helpful video! No pressure!

  • @catherineshaklee76
    @catherineshaklee76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was FANTASTIC and totally doable!!!!!!!! 👏👏👏

  • @annelumsden5775
    @annelumsden5775 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Visual pollution. After watching this I went and decluttered our kitchen table. Thankyou so much

  • @thaixgrrl
    @thaixgrrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the really simple and easy to follow and do guidelines for decluttering! I already had success decluttering a space in my living room one hour after watching for the first time!

  • @mistieh3016
    @mistieh3016 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you and your channel! I work with business owners on processes. I encourage them to “touch” a piece of info once. Basically put in permanent home. My gosh I so needed you to help me realize I needed to do this in my real tangible world! Thank you!

  • @Pausereflectandbreathe
    @Pausereflectandbreathe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is what I need to do in the kitchen. Thank you!❤️🙏

  • @hollyb5432
    @hollyb5432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Reid's commentary at the end of your videos! 😁

  • @magpiesmith971
    @magpiesmith971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been watching your videos and then applying the info to my cleaning/organizing/decluttering time, and I’m happy to say that it’s working! I’m so glad I watched the first video I saw on TH-cam ❤. Thank you!

  • @keirajones5062
    @keirajones5062 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I live in NZ and we are lucky in that the council gives every household two bins, one for recycling one for all other rubbish, and I take them to the curb on Wednesday night and garbage trucks collect them. Not so good when I forget though.

  • @emacwakeup
    @emacwakeup 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this, but I don't need it - best mentality to have.

  • @BeckyLord-hk3ue
    @BeckyLord-hk3ue หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your humorous comments as you explain your system. You are actually describing me and know me so well! Lol

  • @mrschorbastechnologyvideos3729
    @mrschorbastechnologyvideos3729 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't believe how helpful your methods are!

  • @jhjln8712
    @jhjln8712 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really helpful to see this in process with a real live person!

  • @jac4YouTube
    @jac4YouTube 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And if the space looks good YOU FEEL GOOD

  • @kathleenhill5838
    @kathleenhill5838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It seems like a constant battle to keep stuff from accumulating on the table.

  • @debh4999
    @debh4999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can identify with your term "messify". That's me for sure!
    You really motivate me with your style of decluttering!!!
    Keep posting those videos!😊

  • @virginiakingsford2232
    @virginiakingsford2232 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I decided we didn’t need a table anymore because it was just another place for junk when I first got with my husband. We are both better now at not dumping stuff as much so when we move to our next place if we can get a table I will since I know it won’t fit now.

  • @normajeanmcdaniel4491
    @normajeanmcdaniel4491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Off I go! Thank you for this video, volunteering your space, etc. Very useful info.😊

  • @lindamusser7370
    @lindamusser7370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love "The power of the visible."