India & Durk: Desirability, Illusion & Pearls | What’s Really Tea With Ig’s Fav Couple?

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  • @NallahBrown
    @NallahBrown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1127

    You truly have skill! From the writings the research, psychological breakdown, editing. Bravo Queen! You are appreciated and your hard work behind the scenes does not go unnoticed 💐💐💐💐

    • @_simplykennedy
      @_simplykennedy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      yessss!! hats off to her for real

    • @pambeforethestorm9784
      @pambeforethestorm9784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🗣💯💯❤👑‼️‼️

    • @bizzle24
      @bizzle24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truly does,everything is a illusion stay away from social medial it’s the devil.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Nallah! I appreciate you for acknowledging all of the effort that it takes to push these videos out. Thank you so much for all of your support it means the world to me. 💙✨

    • @theylove_5725
      @theylove_5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes I love her channel I really be so happy when she post and I wish more young ppl like myself(I’m 19) that’s lost into social media would watch her

  • @veeguillory8838
    @veeguillory8838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +700

    "don't ever get to comfortable to where you forget your worth" ...powerful message 💯

  • @WinyMary
    @WinyMary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1237

    “There’s power in desirability. When people don’t know anything about you, they tend to desire you more” 🙌💯💯 Thank you for this!! I have had a social media cleanse this year. Removed everything, I plan on being a complete better version of myself 🙏🏾 remain private & humble YALL!!

    • @prettyminaj5268
      @prettyminaj5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Do you have social media breaks too and if so, how long?

    • @WinyMary
      @WinyMary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@prettyminaj5268 yes I do, I do a 6months cleanse each year. This year, I have had no socials since last year December 13th (my bday) // I’m honestly just trying to reinvent myself and trying to figure my own future without distractions. I highly recommend social media breaks! You see yourself more deeply when it’s only you and your mind. You can always try it slow, like maybe 1 month without it and see how much things change. Take it slow and enjoy the process 🙌💯

    • @prettyminaj5268
      @prettyminaj5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@WinyMary I'm taking a 6 month break, we'll see how that goes wish me luck. I've lost myself during the past year and just want to find myself again and go on a soul search. Tysm for replying back to me and wishing u all the best sis💖💖💖

    • @WinyMary
      @WinyMary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@prettyminaj5268 I will be honest, it’s hard asf at first. I cried months straight but that’s part of healing. You cry but you’ll always get right back up!! Good Luck, you’ll feel so amazing when 2023 happens we won’t even recognise you! 🙌💯 & Thank youu🥺🥰

    • @pambeforethestorm9784
      @pambeforethestorm9784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@WinyMary Yesssss!!! I LOVE this!!! 💯❤👑

  • @aliatianna888
    @aliatianna888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1156

    What I’ve learned in my 25 years of living is that you can be everything a man could ever want and need, the “perfect” rare woman. You could be the perfect woman for his image and his soul. And still, you won’t be enough to a man that’s never satisfied.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      🗣🗣🗣

    • @rickyjackson6538
      @rickyjackson6538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Right, in other words to a man who wants the world 🌎 instead of just happiness

    • @neverlacking4965
      @neverlacking4965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Speak for yourself woman in this generation is the same exact way lol

    • @rickyjackson6538
      @rickyjackson6538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@neverlacking4965 she did, she said what she learned 🤷😂🤣😂

    • @aliatianna888
      @aliatianna888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@neverlacking4965 what “I” have learned.

  • @theredrubyclub
    @theredrubyclub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1375

    This is one relationship I have never idealized lol I just never bought into, especially with Durk having multiple baby mothers; for more that’s a sign of sexual irresponsibility and lack of self control.

  • @eboknee4047
    @eboknee4047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    “What we actually feel is empathy and sadness…” that alone made me reflect on how even my last relationship was not built on true love or desire, but full blown pity. Smh and even in that relationship I got comfortable enough to let someone who was broken hurt me several times over until i took my power back. You have a gift, very compelling video.

    • @Starrfish2k
      @Starrfish2k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That’s how hood men do it! They’ve seen and been through horrible things and subconsciously use that to enable there toxic behavior!

    • @choklitfactory
      @choklitfactory ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I feel that a lot of black women pity black men, the struggles they go through and the pain they feel. Especially in relationships! Empathy does not equate love and we need to understand that implementing boundaries protects ourselves. Often what we don't understand is the toll this takes on us as men will almost certainly will take out their pain and sadness on us.

    • @ImtheONEnotthetwo
      @ImtheONEnotthetwo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree! It’s the empathy and pity over true love.

  • @laurianeo5395
    @laurianeo5395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    DAMN GIRL , keep schoolin us . COMFORTABILITY IS HOW WE FORGET OUR WORTH ! hum such a statement right here. it resonates with my whole soul. greath job sis.

    • @hannahkevilynn8138
      @hannahkevilynn8138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hmm right. As ladies we are the chase and have to keep men on their toes. Even within a relationship have your own life don’t always be so accessible. Still be the IT Girrl

    • @Notthefather91
      @Notthefather91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hannahkevilynn8138 y’all don’t keep men on they toes you just get on their nerves

    • @pambeforethestorm9784
      @pambeforethestorm9784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts 💯 💯

    • @aokilee6684
      @aokilee6684 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How u didn’t know that yourself though?

    • @AlexusMusic
      @AlexusMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Literally!!

  • @wonderland6227
    @wonderland6227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    You have the secret sauce fr. Analysis + psychology + biology + analogies. This is education at its best not gossip or commentary. Thank you for using your talent for the greater good of black women

  • @Justteejayy
    @Justteejayy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I will never understand how women can pretend to hold themselves to such high standards while being cheated on constantly, lied to and strung along. India more than likely stays quiet because she's embarrassed. Hopefully she learns before she ends up with more kids and ran into the ground.

  • @ShannonMichelle7937
    @ShannonMichelle7937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Ooooh weeee this pearl analogy is EVERYTHING. I rewound it and played it TWICE. You’re profound. Nicely executed ☺️🥰 Subscribed!

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Shannon I’m glad you enjoyed this one. Thank you for your support! 💛✨

    • @trollallday151
      @trollallday151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sammmee

  • @wisdomdantecourt8179
    @wisdomdantecourt8179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    Silence is golden, literally! Thanks for dropping this gem! Bravo! 🏆👏💃

  • @AH-gn9bp
    @AH-gn9bp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Love all of your videos. People may only think that these videos may be about being in folks business… but they truly serve as cautionary tales for young women and men who are navigating living in this era of “modern love,” destruction and social media facades. It’s going over some people’s heads tho!

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Free game. Everyone is not ready. 👩🏽‍💻

  • @mukhethwaprogressmusia4142
    @mukhethwaprogressmusia4142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    I love it, please drop more frequently.

    • @sheweatie
      @sheweatie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes please!

    • @kenciatoussaint474
      @kenciatoussaint474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts

    • @elle_l808l
      @elle_l808l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥺

    • @precious7192
      @precious7192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s what I’m saying..

    • @WinyMary
      @WinyMary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve been saying this!!

  • @TheRealMsRoberts
    @TheRealMsRoberts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Sis, India is saying she’s a free agent. You were definitely on point about them.

    • @gretchenwieners7023
      @gretchenwieners7023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She must have came across this video 👀👀

    • @gretchenwieners7023
      @gretchenwieners7023 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inajyaharrington9889 that’s true however I only made this comment due to the timing in which this video came out and when they broke up, it was right around the same time. I really don’t care about either of these people and what they have going on😂🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @maggiebrooks2550
    @maggiebrooks2550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    One thing that I respect about India is that she hushes her mouth to the public. Who knows what goes on within a household, but it does need to stay within there. I have a friend who's mama knows when to stay silent and I was always marveled by that. It has to be a learned skill because it is just something that is such a rare sight to see. I just practice this humbly every single day.

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I don’t think this strategic on her part. I think she is just young and dumb and prob enjoys being envied so why speak any otherwise on your relationship and ruin the image. Some women try to keep it real and some women try to pretend.

    • @maggiebrooks2550
      @maggiebrooks2550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@toriyt2714 you're probably right baby

    • @dehjhunaeday5743
      @dehjhunaeday5743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@toriyt2714 i agree

    • @wednesday9623
      @wednesday9623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I agree with both you ladies. I wish i could stay more silent on my struggles & personal business also however i don't want to "turn a blind eye" in private to maintain a certain image.

    • @aphrojitex8972
      @aphrojitex8972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly, there’s definitely power in being private but it’s also healthy to vent. I think a balance would be best because sometimes keeping everything to yourself ultimately leads to losing yourself.

  • @surayyathesage623
    @surayyathesage623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    I was just thinking about this. The first thing I thought about is how relationships online are not what we think they are. On IG we see one thing, rarely do we see the ugly or the reality of a situation. I also thought about the concept of being a “pearl.” It’s true that women must preserve ourselves. These men are not worth us going against our feminine standards! Cause at the end of the day they will prioritize what they want in a woman when it comes to marriage. Durk ran through a whole bunch of women but wants India because of her “body count.” That’s a very prime example. If we are not what these men want, they won’t settle down. Men put their needs first in relationships. We should start doing the same. With regards to the entire situation, I wish India and Durk the best. Love is never perfect, but we must maintain our standards and desires moving forward. Another great video ❤.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Sis you just hit on some many great points! Thank you for commenting. ❤️

    • @AJJr-hc5lz
      @AJJr-hc5lz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "If we are not what these men want, they won't settle down" isn't that phrase true for men and women?

    • @dess234
      @dess234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@AJJr-hc5lz not necessarily. I feel like women settle way more than men do. Men are lowkey ruthless when it comes to not dealing with women they dont want. A lot of the time, men will show how they TRULY feel towards women they are dealing with but because as women sometimes we have the tendency to wanna try to "fix" or change a man and mold him into the man we want them to be, we stick around. I personally have never done that, but I've heard and seen it. Women fall in love with potential at times, men look at the now. Men do settle, but i feel like women settle down way more than men.

    • @aurastarlight2821
      @aurastarlight2821 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dess234 this statement is so true & we take a lot of shit of men .
      They are Lowkey ruthless when it come to the women they really don't wanna settle down with .
      If they start treating woman right maybe they can settle down.wit their dream girl or bad b!tch they always wanted but God not going bless them with a bad b!tch or their dream girl cuz they don't never satisfied & ungrateful

  • @Prettynolegirl
    @Prettynolegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    Please do a breakdown on Crisean and Blue face. They relationship is toxic af. I haven’t really been following WHATS going on but I see them all over the blogs for crazy shit.

    • @kaybayy4357
      @kaybayy4357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I second this. A breakdown of them would be so therapeutic.

    • @dyamondnelson6272
      @dyamondnelson6272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I don’t believe we need a breakdown for them if you watched her previous shaderoom interview and also watched the shaderoom

    • @deanna6742
      @deanna6742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@dyamondnelson6272 Agreed 😭

    • @Prettynolegirl
      @Prettynolegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@dyamondnelson6272 I haven’t watched any interviews but I’m saying there are women who idolize this relationship and her as well. It’s toxic for women especially black women. I think a breakdown would be great for their relationship as most relationships are case studies and it’s good for this type of content.

    • @Prettynolegirl
      @Prettynolegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaybayy4357 Yes it’s almost as if their relationship is total opposite from this one because Crisean runs to the internet and tells every little thing that happens in their relationship. It’s like watching a lifetime movie.

  • @loriharvey1659
    @loriharvey1659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Watched this video two days ago & woke up to seeing India tweet she’s a “free agent” … you really was on point with this video

    • @Sinofaries
      @Sinofaries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But when did they say there relationship was perfect dont all relationships have there problems I like how it’s only female in the comments 😭

    • @loriharvey1659
      @loriharvey1659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nobody said that they said their relationship was perfect… I didn’t even use the word perfect in my comment.. you did. And I think it’s word how their a man under my comment 🤧

    • @aderam648
      @aderam648 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sinofaries their not there

    • @pussydestroyer69285
      @pussydestroyer69285 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Sinofaries that nigga cheats on her ALL THE TIME. And has multiple baby mothers. So as a man you would stay with a woman with multiple baby daddies that constantly cheats on you???

  • @chakiram5234
    @chakiram5234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I can wholly appreciate the extensive amount of research you put into your videos. They’re literally gems within the black femininity space. If possible, could you do a video on how women can properly vet men?

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Vetting is actually up next! You’re at the right place at the right time Queen. Thank you for your support. 💙✨

    • @channelclanton5471
      @channelclanton5471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sis understood the assignment right

  • @britnetalmadge5331
    @britnetalmadge5331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    SIS!!!
    You did that. ATE IT UP! This was right on time. Everyone idolize their relationship amongst other celebrity relationships. Brokenness is real. Insecurity is real. This was so good. You should do a podcast if you don’t have one already. Great job boo.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much Britne! 💙✨

  • @sbrooks904
    @sbrooks904 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i LOVE watching shit like this as man. not speaking positively or negatively, just puts things in perspective.

  • @downtownon7thavenue
    @downtownon7thavenue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    There’s a lot to unpack here. I will say you did an amazing job with this video. People may not like what I have to say about this but part of the reason for Durk choosing India is because she puts up with a lot. Durk has children that are very close in age to him and India’s child. Also I want to clear some things up about Chicago. I’m from Cleveland so I’m not far and Chicago is one of the most beautiful cities in the country. It’s also very safe to live. The hood is the only war zone for some weird reason but the city itself is safe. That being said I really want to get to the bottom of why BW who grew up the way India did see street men as desirable. It’s weird at this point. Getting attention and money should not come at the cost of your dignity and respect. Money aside Durk has 5 kids with different women whom some he’s conceived while with India and stays in street mess. Let’s do better young ladies.

    • @lesbiannotthespian
      @lesbiannotthespian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thank you for your insight! I'm from Cleveland too, born and raised 💜

    • @labelmeposh
      @labelmeposh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lesbiannotthespian Me too. 💖

    • @downtownon7thavenue
      @downtownon7thavenue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lesbiannotthespian hey 👋🏾 there Cleveland 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @downtownon7thavenue
      @downtownon7thavenue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@labelmeposh ❤️❤️

    • @user-tn6fg2du6v
      @user-tn6fg2du6v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I agree wholeheartedly. I don’t envy India at all . There’s even been rumours of Durk being dl

  • @setbysabriya
    @setbysabriya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    You’re so wise and beyond your time. Thanks for your time. Thank you for the video💗

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      & thank you for your support! 💙✨

  • @luv4rina
    @luv4rina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I’m glad I found your channel as a young women ! You have taught me so much

    • @Nadianikita77
      @Nadianikita77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I swear with every video I watch of her I become more intelligent.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so glad you found it as well! ✨💙

  • @jorf5506
    @jorf5506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Since we taking about power , this right here was POWERFUL !

  • @lildominicanbabygurl
    @lildominicanbabygurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Crazy how people will do unto their children what their parents put them through….sending love and well wishes to Romeo 🥺

    • @lildominicanbabygurl
      @lildominicanbabygurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kamrynjordan2358 crazy how i said parents in plural form? Not necessarily implying just Durk. Also despite all that you’ve mentioned the mother is still in her sons life. Wild how people will judge the parent who stuck around versus the one that went ghost. Women are held to such a higher standard than men are.

    • @Miaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @Miaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You're right , its basic psychology alot of parents/people dont even realise what they're doing because they never chose to heal and realise the bad that happened to them . This is why they say "If you never heal from what hurt you , you'll bleed on people who didnt cut you " . Saddly this is very prevelant in the Black community how we discard emotional and psychical abuse as " Culture " and " Normal "

    • @lildominicanbabygurl
      @lildominicanbabygurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Miaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa thank you for that, I’ve never heard that quote before but it makes so much sense. Generational curses are so real!

    • @TSR228
      @TSR228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lildominicanbabygurl so true. Especially in the black community. They will blame the parent who stuck around and did the very best she could. No mentioning of the see through father. Makes me sick.

  • @Ariescertified
    @Ariescertified 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Sis i literally watched this video 5 times.. thank you for the countless messages of wisdom.. i re watch your videos alot and apply everything to my life.. thank you ! Thank you !!! Please post more sis !!! I can’t deal with weeks & weeks without this awesome content ❤️

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ayeee! ❤️ I’m so glad you are enjoying this one Kourtney! I’m honestly working on dropping more frequently. Thank you as always for your support.

    • @trollallday151
      @trollallday151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl everytime it shows up on my feed I watch it again 😩

    • @Ariescertified
      @Ariescertified 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trollallday151 WHAT !!!! It’s only right 💯💯

    • @trollallday151
      @trollallday151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ariescertified if your wig didn't lift or shift after seeing this, you in denial omg so good

    • @Ariescertified
      @Ariescertified 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trollallday151 i love her content and watch it weekly she keeps me on my toes sis 💯💯 the wisdom i needed as a child i get from her

  • @monisolaolubuyimo6024
    @monisolaolubuyimo6024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    you be having me yelling in the house like i’m in church!!

  • @devaughnchristopher
    @devaughnchristopher ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This woman got me feeling like I'm in church. Video hit my spirit. love the work. keep it coming.

  • @patriciagurley_
    @patriciagurley_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Girl please drop more videos! The content is educational and very entertaining, i love it!

  • @taviasharnee
    @taviasharnee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You got a gift it didn’t sound like drama and putting people down but just speaking facts I like that

  • @elenam3798
    @elenam3798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    25 min?? We love!
    Edit: WOW! I’m 23 you are opening my eyes so much. You ARE the truth

  • @rhodolla2521
    @rhodolla2521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    This was such a powerful video queen ! It was deffo worth the wait 😩.Your wisdom always radiates out onto me , I always say this but your channel will forever be a blessing to all black women . May God richly bless you ❤️

    • @uchihakiller201
      @uchihakiller201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shes practicing 48 laws of power thats why. A book by robert greene.

  • @raheemkizis1994
    @raheemkizis1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    As a man listening too this gives me a whole insight of the mental stability of women I didn’t even know she’s spitting facts just finding your videos and I’m very impressed ☺️

  • @blessedc4256
    @blessedc4256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wow! You don’t drop gossip you drop gems! Every video gives me different views on the topic of discussion, and definitely opens for great conversation. I love it here! Thank you for dropping knowledge and teaching/reminding women we are the prize and to act like it☀️

  • @bonnyvision6020
    @bonnyvision6020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Yes! This was everything... keep dropping gems ❤️

  • @BlaxicanBeautyTV333
    @BlaxicanBeautyTV333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I love the end, this was a good video breakdown. Social media is so fake. I had a toxic relationship similar to this, it’s not worth the pain and same repetitive issues. These two are just famous and rich. India knows what she is doing. She chose a famous man and married for the bag. I admire her quiet closed off persona though. She reminds me of myself just a little but I let I too much slide with my son’s father but now I know better. Over time I couldn’t handle a man who constantly cheated and lied about the same things😂 it wasn’t healthy.

  • @MultiChiedza
    @MultiChiedza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Great analysis as usual, definitely worth the wait! ✨

  • @sansanchez2465
    @sansanchez2465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You did an amazing job with detailing this research. I love how you juxtaposed the meaning of an oyster pearl and India or a woman such as her. Great journalism sis! Tbh I empathize with India & relate to her lifestyle with such men. Durk is a hurt man inside as it’s seen through his eyes & India being submissive is his angel in a sense for a man from such as him.💙💙💯💯

  • @jmoney7575
    @jmoney7575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Now that the breakup rumors between them unfolding this video make sense💯

  • @nastajab9026
    @nastajab9026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Don’t normally leave foot print on the web with comments and likes!!!! You’re phenomenal with this can’t wait to see what else you have in store!!!!!!! 👏 excellent video be consistent and if your videos are this good it’s worth waiting for!!!!!

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey Nastaja thank you so much for all of your support. I appreciate you! 🤍

  • @ayemad
    @ayemad ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just discovered this channel and wow. I’m impressed! 🙌

  • @sashao5395
    @sashao5395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This was incredible! The message, all your points 👏🏼 Thank you for this video

  • @nicolefoster1968
    @nicolefoster1968 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Its your dialect for me...id come to ur ted talks...its giving wise... intelligence...and confidence.
    .teacher❤

  • @GorgeousSimmer2U
    @GorgeousSimmer2U 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is true. All an illusion. Look where the image of being the perfect couple has gotten Durk. A larger fan base. More streams. Everybody wants that relationship because the illusion gives PERFECT. Little do they know is, IT'S JUST THAT. Durk can't live in his true form because he is busy trying to please the public eye no matter if unhappiness comes along with it.

  • @issydelon
    @issydelon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This was really really well put together my god!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @prettyminaj5268
    @prettyminaj5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I enjoyed this video so much I'm watching it for the second time right now😭Deffo worth the wait! I hope when the time is right, you'll be able to upload weekly because this channel has the potential to succeed💖💖 Please do a video about Nicki & her jail bae, I would love a case study on that relationship too❤️‍🔥

  • @thetravelhottie
    @thetravelhottie ปีที่แล้ว +43

    When the baby mom talked about how the 7 year old son idolizes his own dad was so sad because he’s not supposed to look at his dad that way. That’s how is fans view him. His perception of durk should always be much deeper because that’s his DAD. Beyoncé’s children will never view her the way we do. To us, she one of the greatest female entertainers alive. When her fans see her, they might faint. To her children, she’s just MOM.

  • @jontellmims6713
    @jontellmims6713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    That’s why I never idolize this industry relationships half of them are fake for PR and the other half you never know what’s happening behind close doors!

  • @Balgees24
    @Balgees24 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really hope young black women are learning from this and taking notes.

  • @AmberSeti
    @AmberSeti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Finally you’re back! Please drop content every week if you can, no pressure

  • @papillonnoir255
    @papillonnoir255 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just found you today 💖! Currently binging on the content. As an older woman I am so happy this generation has such wonderful teachers and true empowered black woman sisters. You have a true gift as a teacher among us. Thank you.

  • @warriorhippie
    @warriorhippie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Thank you for this messages. To me, it seems like they’re in a trauma bond relationship. They are essentially bonded by similar past trauma, poverty and pain. Unfortunately, most black people view trauma bond relationships as a right to passage and a badge of honor. We need to stop romanticizing struggle and pain.

  • @choklitfactory
    @choklitfactory ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nahhhhh you killed it with this video. This is truly next level tea. I love the amount of research that went into this. Very sad all the women and children Durk has left in his path of dysfunction. And I agree, his eyes show a lot of real pain, the wideness of them shows an innocence that has long left him. These are dangerous ppl. Very interesting. I love the last line about the power of the illusion of what one allows ppl to see about them. That's were the true power lies. Real game right there.

  • @mackeynee4110
    @mackeynee4110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I never idolized their relationship. Everytime I see them I think about how they always have to watch their backs whenever they step out. Due to the fact of who Durk is affiliated with. Not to mention not being their for his kids outside of India.

  • @gatacalifas
    @gatacalifas ปีที่แล้ว +4

    miss, you're such a smart woman and put my thoughts into words! thank you for your videos

  • @Astronaut.soda1
    @Astronaut.soda1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is why you shouldn’t have relationship goals you and your partner create your own story/happiness! Forget what it looks like, what it is is more important!

  • @kedabug8937
    @kedabug8937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Yes sis ! You did yo research I love it but yes this video was so worth the wait you are so smart & make everything make sense you are the friend that every woman needs & wants! Every thing you said was facts literally every word please keep sharing your gift with the world us woman need these type of videos I know I know do Im so glad I discovered you 💙

  • @MaryMcke
    @MaryMcke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is my first time ever visiting this page I usually don’t listen to stuff like this but it caught my eye just cause I’ve been griping about all of this rapper baby mama stuff this fad that is taking over in black culture I don’t know who this woman is but she needs to talk show! She needs a counseling LLC this is so beautifully put I could not agree more these girls need to come and sit at her feet and let her tell them the truth because this was spot on and it was so beautiful and so needed and so gentle and caring yet confrontational at the same time but in a healthy way so I appreciate everything she said this video was spot on🙏🏽❤️

  • @Kozyasskee
    @Kozyasskee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I just noticed Durk has sanpaku eyes. People with these eyes are subject to a lot of misfortune and tragedy.

    • @ja-near8214
      @ja-near8214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wow. I’ve never heard of that. Can’t wait to look that up.

    • @1of1terri
      @1of1terri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omg imma look that up

    • @munequa81
      @munequa81 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yessss i was just gonna say that.

    • @godsgirl7201
      @godsgirl7201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

    • @godsgirl7201
      @godsgirl7201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's India's eyes?

  • @bigbizenergy
    @bigbizenergy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You did that sis!! Please drop more frequently!!

  • @PrettyyAngell
    @PrettyyAngell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Please keep dropping these gems I love them💛💛

  • @meganharwell1446
    @meganharwell1446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    You finally DROPPED I’ve always said one of the main reasons why Durk loves India SHE DONT SPEAK ON SHIT NOT FLASHY SHES FROM THE CHI AS WELL SO SHE KNOWS WASSUP

    • @meganharwell1446
      @meganharwell1446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol ion think India suffering on the inside at all hun , if she really truley was she know how to leave TRUST ME & as far as FATHERING OTHER CHILDREN MAYBE TRUE MAY NOT INDIA CONTROLS THAT PART SIMPLY BY NOT SPEAKING ON IT & THE KIDS GETS NO TYPE OF ACKNOWLEDGMENT PERIODDDDDDDDD

    • @meganharwell1446
      @meganharwell1446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Bold&Black MuvA lol 😂 it ain’t that serious love you got yo opinion and I do to it’s okay sis keep the paragraph cause ion read them be blessed babe 🌸

    • @Pokemonfan543
      @Pokemonfan543 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Bold&Black MuvA don’t go back n forth with women who condone cheating and outside babies.

  • @dariansdoor7098
    @dariansdoor7098 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok sis. I’m an older woman. I don’t follow the shade room or know who many of these women and women But honey this content is givingggggg. Most of these lessons I learned the hard way but I’m just going down the rabbit hole of your channel and I just love your material, honesty, your advice. “Game for a Lame” I gotta let my younger sisters hear this. ❤

  • @nicolekarmah7103
    @nicolekarmah7103 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I fear men from the hardcore streets.
    Anybody who got bodies under their belts, i would never entrust them with my self.
    It can be draining

  • @Latifahh15
    @Latifahh15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Girllll! 🎯🎯🎯 I got chills! 💯 When India said she was a free agent I FELT her! I feel she truly means it and that it was a difficult decision but she’s certain & sure of, like you said she’s private and only shows what she wants us to know. I’m betting she will not be returning and I hope so but regardless I’m so proud of her, I like India so I wish her the best, b/c what Durk said in response was SOO sickening 🙄 🤦🏿‍♀️ def giving narcissistic & extremely childish.

    • @freemygrandma8752
      @freemygrandma8752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      India ain't nobody and neither is Lil Durk. I really get sick of y'all giving these women a pass for dating dudes who are obviously in the streets. GTFO

  • @g.johnson5007
    @g.johnson5007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I could never be with a man who doesn’t take care of his child…

    • @prettyminaj5268
      @prettyminaj5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I don't even wanna be with a guy who has kids in the first place

  • @BeautyWithShayOfficial
    @BeautyWithShayOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is an AMAZING analysis of these two and their relationship ‼️‼️‼️❤️‍🔥
    YOU DID GREAT

  • @dshay751
    @dshay751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love your platform keep giving us the authentic truth no matter who mad . People need to know the truth about the bliss and fame

  • @yanaupnext
    @yanaupnext 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    this was sooooo good 💗 I love them, but I always think to myself does she not get scared & stressed out having to deal with this lifestyle

  • @TeeNicole10
    @TeeNicole10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    INDIA SOUNDS LIKE SHE'S SLOWWWWWWW🥴🥴🥴 YALL HEARD THE WAY SHE TALK🥴

  • @Roccofan
    @Roccofan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your video essays are excellent.

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was goooooooood!!! So many gems you dropped in this video!!!!!

  • @wednesday9623
    @wednesday9623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I clicked into this thinking this was just gossip, but i came away remembering my worth. I subbed straight away❤

  • @ruthmelicharles5062
    @ruthmelicharles5062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    People have to stop looking to social media for life, body and relationship goals. India is a gorgeous gem of a woman, I wish her well. But I hope she finds her peace with everything. Thanks for this video though, nicely put.

  • @Cwenjae
    @Cwenjae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Great video I didn’t know half of the stuff you spoke on about these two. I never seen them as a “power couple” or however society praises them but to each it’s own🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @trichelleharris610
    @trichelleharris610 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im sorry "his large eyes" took me out 😂😂

  • @macalloway1
    @macalloway1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is quality content.Aside from Durk taking care of his kids(if he dont thats foul) Ive been saying for a while ladies cant just bring their box to a relationship with a famous millionaire. If someone finances your lifestyle you lose the leverage to expect monogomy and i think India is smart enough to understand this. She also smart enough to not let one of her friends that would give anything to have Durk "cheat" on them tell her"girl you better leave him. Dont let him disrespect you like that". Most of those girls that tell women in high profile relationships what to do would be happy to be a baby mama or side chick of the guy they talkin bad on.

  • @rubyemerald2187
    @rubyemerald2187 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Part 2 to this please 🙏

  • @amircollins8065
    @amircollins8065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I think breakdowns on popular relationships and people that influence us through this “world wide web” is truly your niche! Your uncovering the deep truth behind the glamour of the these dynamics so that we can avoid them. I think breakdowns on TI AND TINY, Coach Stormy Wellington, Marjorie Harvey and more would be great lessons. I love this channel. I woke up everyday waiting for the video even though it was pushed back consistently. I believe IN YOUR MESSAGE❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amir!!! Thank you so much for always support Wildheart Waves. I appreciate you. ❤️

  • @labelmeposh
    @labelmeposh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Durk is scary to me. Idc how large his eyes are.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😭

    • @labelmeposh
      @labelmeposh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WildheartWaves Girl they look soulless to me. And India is farrrrr from naive, she knows EXACTLY what she got.

    • @dezzyduke6963
      @dezzyduke6963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No fr 😂

    • @shanicesaa3210
      @shanicesaa3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same 😭

    • @kaylaholmes1018
      @kaylaholmes1018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💀💀😅

  • @thelifeofdeaon3427
    @thelifeofdeaon3427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So glad I stumbled upon your page. Eloquently written and presented 🔥

  • @Mizztaylor86
    @Mizztaylor86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love how you told this story, all facts and very well said. It’s deep. 💜

  • @bigp410
    @bigp410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I JUST FOUND YOUR CHANNEL AND IM SO HAPPY I DID

  • @IndustriousnessOrderline-ew6oz
    @IndustriousnessOrderline-ew6oz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s ending was special. I’m a guy that honestly thought relationships videos were bogus but your ending and your delivery made me rethink how I treat women in my life. Wanna let you know how powerful your work was!

  • @ASW___
    @ASW___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I did not expect this break down! Wow

  • @megmeg2468
    @megmeg2468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    We want one on crisean and blue face… that whole mess is a content mine

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I feel like we NEED this one! It’s getting outta hand lol 🧐

    • @prettyminaj5268
      @prettyminaj5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@WildheartWaves PLEASE don't take as long as you did with this one😩

    • @letsglowuptogether7778
      @letsglowuptogether7778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@prettyminaj5268 🤣🤣 for real. I don’t even want to see it

  • @Justforme7
    @Justforme7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i hope more young women watch this channel. I am in my early 30's and all these relationships and how young people in our community are behaving needs to be paid attention to closer closer!

  • @Reikimakesmehappy
    @Reikimakesmehappy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    So worth the wait...amazing video. It made me kinda sad but explained alot.

  • @Ariescertified
    @Ariescertified 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    110k views sis!!!!!!! Well deserved

  • @sunonymous1
    @sunonymous1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When you posted that pic of the little girl, I literally said, why you posting Willow? Until you posted Willow. They are TWINS. 😩😭😭😭 You broke this down. After the incident with the people breaking into Durk’s GA home and India being apart of the shoot out with the intruders, that’s all I needed to know about her. She on a while diff level, she just portray something diff to us.

  • @cjd8645
    @cjd8645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Analysis and so well spoken. ♥️ More people need to hear this who idolize this relationship and others like it.

  • @anisa3610
    @anisa3610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was such a beautiful video. You thoroughly covered and peeled back those layers to this dysfunctional but convenient relationship. I personally have never understood the making all your business public but I am glad that they at least keep those issues within their home. Now, I didn't like the issue on Durk's son with Travonne but I really hope that clears up, whether all the statements claimed were true or not. But I can only imagine how that little boy feels, it's like having a really good dream that you think it's real but then you wake up, or even window shopping at your favorite expensive toy store- it's so close yet so far in that you can't afford it. Again, I love your style girl. I look forward to other videos

  • @theknicole
    @theknicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    His baby Nikki is so humble & real! I’ve been following her for a while

    • @prettyminaj5268
      @prettyminaj5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're soo pretty omgggg❤️

  • @MEUltra
    @MEUltra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What you said about speaking less really helped me thank you for dropping this knowledge ❤️

  • @dyamondnelson6272
    @dyamondnelson6272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Herbo and taina next!!

    • @iandiriri
      @iandiriri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This 🙌🏾

    • @surayyathesage623
      @surayyathesage623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes! We need one on Herbo, Taina, and Ari. Another break down!

    • @theylove_5725
      @theylove_5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope she sees this comment

  • @Themeekprincesses
    @Themeekprincesses 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These words were powerful & strong!!!!!!! I loved the breakdown of pearls also!!!

  • @ultimatevixn
    @ultimatevixn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Durks eyes are empty. they may be big, but there is no life in them. I see no spirit. it's like he goes through the motions but there is no emotion. Hopefully one day India will see it and get away.

  • @channelclanton5471
    @channelclanton5471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is my first time here. Ommggg girl I love it.. your delivery is impeccable 🦋

  • @arnellmarie
    @arnellmarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow! Your writing is so descriptive, your voice so confident yet calm. I can listen to you all day. #newsubbie

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! 🙏🏽✨💕