I just want to give advice that whoever is going through this situation and can't bear the pain the feelings the heartbreak Plzz try to learn about this disorder as much as you can so that you can understand that this is a blessing frow Allah that he saves you from a Monster and this is not a end of your life but the beginning of peace and alot of happiness in sha Allah❤️
Alhumdulillah Allah ny mjhy ur mery byty ko mehfooz krliya My ex was also narcissist.. And jyse apny kaha saroba k is relationship ko kyse nibhaya jae tw phyli bat aap jis din apni boundries set krogy ur naa bolna seekhogy usi din aapko divorce ka behtreen tohfa mil jaega😁🤣 Q k narcissist naa nhi sun skty blkul bh nh they need constant attention and supply Bss jee hozori kro nhi tw divorce ly k apni behetreen ur pur sukoon zindagi guzaro... Jb se meri divorce hoi hai I feel k mai bht pur sukoon hn... Alhumdulillah❤❤❤
@@sarobakhan beshk beshkk❤️ Jazak Allah apki dua k lye🥺 Trust me mai aapky ur dono byto k lye bh duayen krti hn bht q k I can totally understand your feelings and can relate to your story In sha Allah Allah paak aapko ur bcho ko behetreen naim ul bdl dyga ❤️❤️
Only 10 months and saw all of this. Seperated for 4 months and roz sochti hun koi love marriage k baad b esa kese krskta hai.. denial men hun k kaash iss cheez ka koi ilaaj ho.. kaash wo theek hojaye realize krle or wapis ajaye. Veryyy toxic people. Can relate to every single word.
Apne bacho pe dhyaan dene ki zarurat hai khaas kar bete ko, qki bete ko Nek nhi banaoge to wo biwi ki kadar nhi karega, use Sirf ek istemal ki chiz sajhhta hai na buwi ki parwah na mohabbat na kadar na izzat, aur ladki ka kasur nikalega fir Divorce 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Ya Allah saroba... Ap Ka ek ek lafz ... mjhy lgra tha MRI Zindagi k 5 sal 10 mahiny ko explain krri ho ap.... Me aksar apny husband SE puchti thi Kiya me PGL hogae Hun.. ? . AJ Kiya glti krdi meny ? AJ q naraz hn mjhsy? MRI Taraf q nae dkhty kbi. Mjhsy bt q nae krty kbi... Me Zindagi me khud ko kbi itna Akela mehsus nae Kiya tha jitna pechly pury sal Kiya... Wo ksi or me interested hogay .. mjhy apni walidah k rehm o karam pe Chor Diya.. literally mjhy pury ghr ki JIS me 8 log rhty hn ,mjhy maid Bana Diya ... Mra confidenc blkl khtm hogya .. 😢 me ksi BHI insan SE bt krti to mry hath kanpty thy... Mjhy kis nehej p le la k chora.. 😢 me khud ko mirror me dkhti rhti thi k Kiya Kami h mjhpe ab Jo mra shohar mjhy dkhna BHI psnd nae krta... mjhy to ilm BHI nae tha k mry sth ho Kiya Raha h , Allah NE mjhy himmat Di or me mama k ghr agae, or unhony ek dafa BHI rabta Krny ki koshish Nahi kri... Khair. Alhumdulilah me ab bht bhtr Hun.. mry sth mra Allah h . Mry ghr waly hn... Mjhy parishan Krny k liye mra Sara Saman BHI ROK liya h lkn me parishan nae Hun. Qk Allah kbi BHI haq Hala ki chez ko zaya nae hony deta....
Allah bohat bada hai aur bada karsaaz hai...wo sab ki haqeeqat saamne le ata hai..Allah ne tumhain waqt rehte bacha liya.. Alhamdulillah ❤️❤️ Khush raho Ameen sum Ameen ❤️
Sameeeeee , they call you are assumptive. And aise log apko pagal kr dete han. No apologies, no validation. And above all , they think they are better than every other man. Chahey basic shakal kyu na ho. All their exes were bad , all their family is bad , every person around them they consider bad . Basically they are the only good ones 😂
Thank you! Much needed video. We go through these kind of situations on a daily basis. Aur sabr kerna perta hai aur ignore bhi. Aap please strict husband aur narcissistic husband ka difference bata dein and please islamically bata dein. Apki aik video se ittefaq nahi tha mera lekin apki har video se bohat seekhnay ko milta hai. Please mana mat kijiyega and ill wait for your video eagerly. Ammi tou bus har baat per kehdeti hain sabr kero. Aur jo auratein sabr nahi kerteen unki divorce hojati hai. Mujhe bhi ammi se ye sun sun ker lagta hai k jese mein hi ghalat hun. But it makes me 😢 agar parents support na karein aur unexpected divorce hojaye tou kya karein?
Its good you got out sooner other wise you would see more darker sides .you still have light in your eyes the victims of narcissistic abuse have dull hopeless eyes because this is a hopeless situation that never never never improves if you keep going on.there is always loss in all ways you lose yourself worth,relations,purpose and finally hope at the end you become a zoombie
I had this kind of condition..but yes I am working on myself Alhamdulillah and I really wanted to get back the shine in my eyes I had before marriage 🤗❤️
Each and every word is 100% true. My father is a Narcissist and unfortunately my mother suffered all these things. Nowadays most of the women they just leave such person and they will definitely move on and for sure they will become successful in life. But unfortunately my mother became a victim along with her we all suffered alot. Main apni sabhi behno ko ek advice Dena chahungi, Pehle toh Allah har behen beti k naseeb acche kare. Aur agar koyi behen iss situation ko already face kar rahi hai toh fauran hi aise Aadmi ko chodde. Allah per yaqeen rakhe, Allah per bharosa rakhe, himmat karle aur aise aadmi ko bus aap chodde.
Me is cheez se gzr rhi hun ab m kia krun mn ghr m b bt ki lkn koi mera sath nh derha me chup hoke bethne k ilawa m kuch nh krskti ab mrne ka khyal arha h suicide krne ka or koi rasta nzr nh arha plz help me
Jse m mohbt krty hu wo b same aese e hy bolta h m aagy thik hojaunga but na mujhy waqt deta h na ahmyt deta h mujhy atka k rkha h mujhy kch smjh nhi aarhy m kya kru💔
Mairi piyari sis ap ko main kya likhon ap nay aik aik baat bilkul sahi keh rahe hain main iss azab ko abi tak seh rahe hoon q k mairy buchy mairy samnay aa jatay mujhy b apnay bucho k naam rakhny ki ijazzat nai thee aj 22 saal guzar diya main aaisy pagal k sath mujhy bht restrictions k sath rehna para mujhy hr cheez sa mana kerty hain tum make up maat karo sadda raho lakin khud hr jaaga pr modern larkiyon ko tarrtay rehtay hain lakin main nay ouci ghar main reh kr inn sa aalg rehti hoon mujhy ab inn ki koi zaroort nai rahe mairy koi pasand nai rahe sub khuch maar diya main nay
Allah aap ko bohat ajar de ga...aap dekhiye ga aap k ye hi bachay aap ko itna sukoon den gay k aap ye waqt bhool jayen gi...Allah kisi ka dabar zaya nahi karta aap bas tayaar hojayen khush rehne k lye ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very basic explanation and exploration of narcissistic personality but its not a disorder, just the opposite of sanguine personality etc Can you demarcate between the narcissistic personality and senguine type of a personality from the psychological point of view?
I just want to give advice that whoever is going through this situation and can't bear the pain the feelings the heartbreak
Plzz try to learn about this disorder as much as you can so that you can understand that this is a blessing frow Allah that he saves you from a Monster and this is not a end of your life but the beginning of peace and alot of happiness in sha Allah❤️
Uffffff....so true..... You spoke out my heart....
thanks for sharing its my story
Alhumdulillah Allah ny mjhy ur mery byty ko mehfooz krliya
My ex was also narcissist..
And jyse apny kaha saroba k is relationship ko kyse nibhaya jae tw phyli bat aap jis din apni boundries set krogy ur naa bolna seekhogy usi din aapko divorce ka behtreen tohfa mil jaega😁🤣
Q k narcissist naa nhi sun skty blkul bh nh they need constant attention and supply
Bss jee hozori kro nhi tw divorce ly k apni behetreen ur pur sukoon zindagi guzaro...
Jb se meri divorce hoi hai I feel k mai bht pur sukoon hn...
Alhumdulillah❤❤❤
That's what I said...they cannot take NO to anything they want..
But Allah dekhta hai na k hum ne aakhri hadd tak koshish ki...usi ka ajar to wo intehaai khoobsoorat deta hai
Alhamdulillah
MashaAllah ❤️ Allah agay bhi madad kare aapki ❤️
@@sarobakhan beshk beshkk❤️
Jazak Allah apki dua k lye🥺
Trust me mai aapky ur dono byto k lye bh duayen krti hn bht q k I can totally understand your feelings and can relate to your story
In sha Allah
Allah paak aapko ur bcho ko behetreen naim ul bdl dyga ❤️❤️
JazakAllah...khush raho...Bas duaayen hi chahiye hain...❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow... So relatable.. Alhumdulillah I am out of that.
I hope u read this comment saroba...Thank u so much .... From India...
@@quran-wayoflife5725 ❤️
My friend's husband is totally as it is. 101%
Bohot badhiya Knowledge di h aapne
Yor r 💯 persent right..My Ex Husband is also Same...I lost myself😢😢
JazakAllah dear Saroba..May Allah gives you lots of happiness ❤
Bilkul sahi kaha...same mere saat b hua hai.💯💯💯
omg although ive never been through ths situation, but objectively speaking it was a valuable vlog.
Allah bless u sis❤may Allah reward u with best of deen n dunya aameen
Zabardast keep it up bht acha explain kia aap ne jaise mere dill ki awaz ko alfaz mil gay hon👌👍
Allah ap ko lambi zindagi da or bht zayda khush rakhy Ameen .
Only 10 months and saw all of this. Seperated for 4 months and roz sochti hun koi love marriage k baad b esa kese krskta hai.. denial men hun k kaash iss cheez ka koi ilaaj ho.. kaash wo theek hojaye realize krle or wapis ajaye. Veryyy toxic people. Can relate to every single word.
Exactly 💯
Explained very well. ❤
Apne bacho pe dhyaan dene ki zarurat hai khaas kar bete ko, qki bete ko Nek nhi banaoge to wo biwi ki kadar nhi karega, use Sirf ek istemal ki chiz sajhhta hai na buwi ki parwah na mohabbat na kadar na izzat, aur ladki ka kasur nikalega fir Divorce 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Ama ji who maa hai she knows her duty well
Thank you ❤
Ryt 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Bilkul such mera husband bhi esa tha .
Ya Allah saroba... Ap Ka ek ek lafz ... mjhy lgra tha MRI Zindagi k 5 sal 10 mahiny ko explain krri ho ap.... Me aksar apny husband SE puchti thi Kiya me PGL hogae Hun.. ? . AJ Kiya glti krdi meny ? AJ q naraz hn mjhsy? MRI Taraf q nae dkhty kbi. Mjhsy bt q nae krty kbi... Me Zindagi me khud ko kbi itna Akela mehsus nae Kiya tha jitna pechly pury sal Kiya... Wo ksi or me interested hogay .. mjhy apni walidah k rehm o karam pe Chor Diya.. literally mjhy pury ghr ki JIS me 8 log rhty hn ,mjhy maid Bana Diya ... Mra confidenc blkl khtm hogya .. 😢 me ksi BHI insan SE bt krti to mry hath kanpty thy... Mjhy kis nehej p le la k chora.. 😢 me khud ko mirror me dkhti rhti thi k Kiya Kami h mjhpe ab Jo mra shohar mjhy dkhna BHI psnd nae krta... mjhy to ilm BHI nae tha k mry sth ho Kiya Raha h , Allah NE mjhy himmat Di or me mama k ghr agae, or unhony ek dafa BHI rabta Krny ki koshish Nahi kri... Khair. Alhumdulilah me ab bht bhtr Hun.. mry sth mra Allah h . Mry ghr waly hn... Mjhy parishan Krny k liye mra Sara Saman BHI ROK liya h lkn me parishan nae Hun. Qk Allah kbi BHI haq Hala ki chez ko zaya nae hony deta....
Allah bohat bada hai aur bada karsaaz hai...wo sab ki haqeeqat saamne le ata hai..Allah ne tumhain waqt rehte bacha liya.. Alhamdulillah ❤️❤️
Khush raho Ameen sum Ameen ❤️
Sameeeeee , they call you are assumptive. And aise log apko pagal kr dete han. No apologies, no validation. And above all , they think they are better than every other man. Chahey basic shakal kyu na ho. All their exes were bad , all their family is bad , every person around them they consider bad . Basically they are the only good ones 😂
Same situation with me
What i do i dont understand
I faced this situation ...
Thank you! Much needed video. We go through these kind of situations on a daily basis. Aur sabr kerna perta hai aur ignore bhi. Aap please strict husband aur narcissistic husband ka difference bata dein and please islamically bata dein. Apki aik video se ittefaq nahi tha mera lekin apki har video se bohat seekhnay ko milta hai. Please mana mat kijiyega and ill wait for your video eagerly. Ammi tou bus har baat per kehdeti hain sabr kero. Aur jo auratein sabr nahi kerteen unki divorce hojati hai. Mujhe bhi ammi se ye sun sun ker lagta hai k jese mein hi ghalat hun. But it makes me 😢 agar parents support na karein aur unexpected divorce hojaye tou kya karein?
Aap ne meri last upload ki hui video dekhi hai?
I hope it will help you in dealing situations and heartbreak
Its good you got out sooner other wise you would see more darker sides .you still have light in your eyes the victims of narcissistic abuse have dull hopeless eyes because this is a hopeless situation that never never never improves if you keep going on.there is always loss in all ways you lose yourself worth,relations,purpose and finally hope at the end you become a zoombie
I had this kind of condition..but yes I am working on myself Alhamdulillah and I really wanted to get back the shine in my eyes I had before marriage 🤗❤️
Each and every word is 100% true.
My father is a Narcissist and unfortunately my mother suffered all these things.
Nowadays most of the women they just leave such person and they will definitely move on and for sure they will become successful in life. But unfortunately my mother became a victim along with her we all suffered alot.
Main apni sabhi behno ko ek advice Dena chahungi, Pehle toh Allah har behen beti k naseeb acche kare. Aur agar koyi behen iss situation ko already face kar rahi hai toh fauran hi aise Aadmi ko chodde. Allah per yaqeen rakhe, Allah per bharosa rakhe, himmat karle aur aise aadmi ko bus aap chodde.
Me is cheez se gzr rhi hun ab m kia krun mn ghr m b bt ki lkn koi mera sath nh derha me chup hoke bethne k ilawa m kuch nh krskti ab mrne ka khyal arha h suicide krne ka or koi rasta nzr nh arha plz help me
Sister aap muje bata skti hain k yeh full screen video aap kounc app s banati hain?
Koi app nahi hai...normal camera hai...landscape mode pe banayen videos
@@sarobakhan which app you use for editing
Kya drug addicted or narcissist behavior same he??
Nahi
Phr?? Agr wo Banda drug addicted ho or jhoot bh safai se Bolta ho to?? Asy husband ko bh chor dena chahye qk wo bacho ka kharcha bh nhe deta
kash main waqt per samaj jati aur aaj behtar zindgi guzar rahi hoti.
Allah hai...and dair nahi hui hai...apna khayaal rakha karen...aap sahi hon gi to sab ka khayaal rakh sako gi
I leant so much new subscriber
Jse m mohbt krty hu wo b same aese e hy bolta h m aagy thik hojaunga but na mujhy waqt deta h na ahmyt deta h mujhy atka k rkha h mujhy kch smjh nhi aarhy m kya kru💔
❤❤❤
Acha kr rahe ho
Yes esa he hoty hai ye Narc Mera recent divorce hua after 2 decades
Mere husband v yeh se hi hai 😢
Hamari priorities wrong relation select karti hein aksar
Bt believe wife kids dont matter family's friend matter so much talking from experience,
Saroba you should consult a doctor - probably a pulmonologist - because you have severe shortness of breath.
Mairi piyari sis ap ko main kya likhon ap nay aik aik baat bilkul sahi keh rahe hain main iss azab ko abi tak seh rahe hoon q k mairy buchy mairy samnay aa jatay mujhy b apnay bucho k naam rakhny ki ijazzat nai thee aj 22 saal guzar diya main aaisy pagal k sath mujhy bht restrictions k sath rehna para mujhy hr cheez sa mana kerty hain tum make up maat karo sadda raho lakin khud hr jaaga pr modern larkiyon ko tarrtay rehtay hain lakin main nay ouci ghar main reh kr inn sa aalg rehti hoon mujhy ab inn ki koi zaroort nai rahe mairy koi pasand nai rahe sub khuch maar diya main nay
Ap mujhy paly milli hotti to kitna khuch seekh laiti ap sa aj main nay ap ka channel subscribe kr diya hai mairy dill ka bojh halka ho gaya
Allah aap ko bohat ajar de ga...aap dekhiye ga aap k ye hi bachay aap ko itna sukoon den gay k aap ye waqt bhool jayen gi...Allah kisi ka dabar zaya nahi karta aap bas tayaar hojayen khush rehne k lye ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very basic explanation and exploration of narcissistic personality but its not a disorder, just the opposite of sanguine personality etc
Can you demarcate between the narcissistic personality and senguine type of a personality from the psychological point of view?
You are on every video?
But only for giving judgements and criticizing?