GOING BALD AT 21 - I HATED MY HAIR :(

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  • @Baldcafe
    @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🎯 From Hiding to Thriving-Your Confidence Awaits!
    📘 Grab THE POWER SHIFT & Let's Do It Together Mate 👉 www.baldcafe.com
    - One Click to Own Your Look and Thrive! Don’t Wait Any Longer?

  • @tomdawson5281
    @tomdawson5281 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    3:57 love hearing this as so true, this is a lot of people’s worry when going through this at a young age, what a guy, a lot of respect man

    • @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
      @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Trouble is in a world where most meet through online dating (overwhelmingly), hair loss is enough for a girl to disqualify where she might not have otherwise. And it's pure cope to say that every girl who would is shallow and therefore not someone you would want to date anyway as most will tell themselves and others.

    • @tomdawson5281
      @tomdawson5281 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ that’s why I wouldn’t wanna use apps and just in person, very superficial, but yeah defo it’s hard to make that first impression on apps

    • @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
      @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ I get you. But it's very difficult to date not on apps. Especially as you get older and people get busier (less friends to go to things with and less women to meet if you do)

  • @mclark1515
    @mclark1515 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Same thing with me, was taking over my life, hairspray everyday, not wanting to dive into the pool on holiday, once I shaved it off I was free.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is literally it 👌

    • @danceswithcomicbooks7733
      @danceswithcomicbooks7733 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I cant swim.

    • @YusufHayder-c4m
      @YusufHayder-c4m 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Check out raw primal diet and praise God, can reverse baldness I believe so

  • @pavelbivol5028
    @pavelbivol5028 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    The fact that this guy is a DJ actually made me think about how cool it would be if Billy Corgan is featured in one of your videos one day.

  • @nikkapron5258
    @nikkapron5258 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This year I will be 22 and I already have quite sparse hair with large bald patches on my forehead. I understand that in a couple of years I will need to take an important step - to cut my hair. And thanks to your channel, thanks to your guests who share their stories, I feel more relaxed about it. Thank you for what you are doing!

    • @EtMexicano-ve1oc
      @EtMexicano-ve1oc 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Inicia com o pente da máquina número 4 é depois pouco a pouco voçê chega na 0. Foi dessa forma qué fiz também

  • @supahninjatoast6579
    @supahninjatoast6579 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I started watching all of BaldCafe’s video about a month ago, and seeing all these other gentlemen with the same confidence issues I’ve been facing, and it gave me the courage to shave my head.
    I was extra self-conscious because I have some moles on my head, so that was the biggest excuse I had been making for the last 5 years, but my I was so worried that I wore a hat 24/7.
    When I gamed, a hat, when I did literally anything or went anywhere, I had a hat on.
    Now that I have shaved my head I feel free, and just like all the other men who gained the courage to do it, I feel good.
    I don’t wear a hat anymore, and no one seems to care. I never got any negative comments about it.
    And honestly men, if anyone gives you shit, they’re probably jealous.
    There’s something about a man with a bald head and beard that have this aura, or confidence about them, and it’s a good feeling.
    So if any of you out there are feeling the way I did, if shaving your head is something you’ve been thinking about, just do it. You’ll love yourself afterwards.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Man this is absolutely awesome and a true testament to Baldcafe and why I continue to do it. Onwards and upwards brother. Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @T1M07HY
    @T1M07HY 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Great interview with great statements! Rock the bald look since 1,5 years now and this channel here really helped and encouraged me doing it!

  • @All_the_arcs
    @All_the_arcs 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I had to do it, started around 16 now I'm 18 and honestly feel a lot better and makes me focus on other areas in my life way more than just stressing about something that is adamant on leaving me

  • @Ag45727
    @Ag45727 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Babe wake up there’s a new bald cafe

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Legend

    • @Jacob-nu4nd
      @Jacob-nu4nd 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She was up late last night, cheating on you with a guy with a head full of hair

  • @r12004rewy
    @r12004rewy 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So much more confidence and now so happy that he's taken the bald step and shaved it off.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same. Happy for bro living his DJ’ing best life now

  • @iWerli
    @iWerli 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I finally decided to bite the bullet yesterday after coming across these videos lol
    I had the full emo hair in highschool in 2014, and it became my identity and after 2015 it was clearly going. Ever since 2016 I wasn't able to go out without a hat and the hat eventually became my identity rather than my hair, and it was such a burden to hide my hair from everyone at all times
    A compilation of these videos popped up and I decided to say F it after binging 50+ videos. I noticed that 95-99% of people who went from balding to bald looked way better
    It's definitely sad to have to accept that what used to make me me is gone, but I'm happy to not have to hide it anymore. I miss having hair but accepting it is always better than being in denial and hiding my head from the world. Keeping a hat on during intimacy has to be one of the most embarrassing feelings I've ever felt and knowing I don't have to deal with the insecurity of that anymore is so freeing

  • @Lukemasonmedia
    @Lukemasonmedia 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Feeling like you always have to wear a hat or being afraid to walk in the wind or go swimming is so not worth it , shaving something that’s clearly already lost is the best freeing feeling ever

    • @tristan5098
      @tristan5098 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have not hairloss but injust don't like to swim lol

  • @unterstrichteo
    @unterstrichteo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I just love this channel. Thanks for doing this :)

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My pleasure man. On a mission 🫡

  • @___Q_
    @___Q_ 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The very first second caught me off guard, I thought you whipped out a knife, haha.

  • @Tidda86
    @Tidda86 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Well done Ryan!!!!

  • @luke8ty6
    @luke8ty6 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I was born with a naturally bigger forehead than most which I never thought much of, but after this year, I started to notice serious recession on my hairline, especially in the corners. After finding these videos, at 22 y/o I decided to shave my hair off. I felt so much relief and freedom.#NoRegrets

    • @ItsBosky
      @ItsBosky 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s me in this vid… I had the exact same always worried I had a bigger forehead before I shaved it

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      King

  • @tonyjenkins3937
    @tonyjenkins3937 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Shaving 🪒 your head is the best thing ever bald is Beautiful get Brave do the Shave

    • @LakituKoopa
      @LakituKoopa 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      indeed it is. Now I am not balding and usually have slightly longer, thick hair but I recently decided to try and go for the bald look. I like how it looks, how it feels and there is something therapeutical and liberating shaving off your hair. It actually is not this bad being bald and I think it even adds a lot to a man if one decides for it.

  • @keroclow9059
    @keroclow9059 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Not sure if he suits it. But he seems pretty happy so thats much better tbh.

  • @Life_is_a_yourney
    @Life_is_a_yourney 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Looks great!

  • @shyman99
    @shyman99 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Reminds me of Moby. Hopefully he will grow more hair on his face as time goes on because he is stud.

  • @danijelkruselj1855
    @danijelkruselj1855 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have diagnosed Lichen planopilaris where a hair falls not natural..it leaves scars. So small bald spots are small islands. It was for me since last 4.5 years frustrating. Now I am encouraged to share my head with the trimmer on 0.5 mm.

  • @Yesdaddyz
    @Yesdaddyz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Harry looks like a civil war general

    • @Gordy-fj1jy
      @Gordy-fj1jy 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Must be preparing for the next Gettysburg movie

  • @bohurley690
    @bohurley690 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Dude I been struggling for 10 years literally wearing a hat everyday all day and I still can't go out without a hat I feel naked.

    • @ghostmail
      @ghostmail 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Have you buzzed your hair off yet?

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Please read my book brother especially the last chapter on how
      To break free from becoming a hat slave. Could be the difference for you 👍

    • @Lukemasonmedia
      @Lukemasonmedia 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Have you shaved your head yet? Cause if not just do it man

    • @bohurley690
      @bohurley690 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes I have shaved my head for a long time now it's a deeper issue even if I'm alone in the house I wear hat and I look in the mirror and I don't feel like I look bad bald its just like literally feeling like I'm naked with out it. Thanks for the replies fellas

    • @megmucklebones7538
      @megmucklebones7538 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I lost mine by 20, just shaved it and forgotten. Other people seem to mention it more. But, I do get a fair few compliments saying my head is a good shape and that I look better without hair. I'm also 49 and have no wrinkles and a good athletic shape.

  • @ramoo1012
    @ramoo1012 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Perfect just got home from work!

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Enjoy!

  • @donaldallen9804
    @donaldallen9804 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The best thing is shave your head and be free of the stress and the anguish

  • @d947
    @d947 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a legend!

  • @GREEVIP
    @GREEVIP 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    nice stash, Harry!

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you 🙏

  • @theincrediblejoj
    @theincrediblejoj 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video. Shaved my head after thinning hair & bald spot - liberating & it’s how God made me so I have no shame in that

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes!!

  • @Retro.Warfare
    @Retro.Warfare 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good Job Harry! - Thanks for the kind words oin insta! ;)

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Of course man 👍 🫡

  • @michaelnedsmar9106
    @michaelnedsmar9106 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    As a Baldy , i treat myself to 3 or 4 new baseball caps each year , buy top notch razer , Ciem from Lidls 😅 and still fork out less than what many blokes spend in hairdressers each year .

  • @silver47official
    @silver47official 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good for him.

  • @J0P-o1j
    @J0P-o1j 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I started going bald on top probably 18 or 19 but did take a while to notice and shave it off at probably 21 or so. Watched a Patrick Stewart clip where he talks about it over and over as i was shaving and people were shocked but it was ok nobody really took the mick out of me, and I felt good happy and relieved sometimes the good thing to do is to just take the plunge shave it own it wear a hat when it's cold. Exactly as you said at the end it's not a thing when it's not a thing. Dont know if I was making a point here only detailing my experience. It'll be ok.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Appreciate you sharing your experience man

  • @Adonyx96
    @Adonyx96 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kinda looks like Chris Coleman now, I hope he will never murder his entire family.

  • @Kamopanda
    @Kamopanda 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My hair is falling out in clumps in the shower.

  • @damian72678
    @damian72678 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well, I have some kind of stupid thinking by the time I started losing my hair - currently 23 yrs old.. I have that feeling like "My head looks big", even though its more like "normal sized" I still can't imagine myself looking any good. Spent so much time watching my hair loss that I lost a feeling that I can still look good, don't know how to describe it. Not sure if anyone had thoughts like it

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Honestly mate read my book. There is an entire chapter dedicated to this. Take a look at www.baldcafe.com

  • @IWillSpeakPortguese
    @IWillSpeakPortguese 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Idk why I dont look that Masculine when i get little hair on my Head so Thats why I trim it once a month But not bald

  • @alexanderlane6007
    @alexanderlane6007 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I always find it strange these guys use beard clippers for the first shave I’d buy the full hair clippers for it

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      When the Inspiration hits you just gotta go for it

    • @silver47official
      @silver47official 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. I much prefer a wood sander. Leaves a nice polish after too.

  • @Anonymous-p7q2h
    @Anonymous-p7q2h 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anybody have the link to the weight loss journey video he made? Thanks

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Here you go mate - I lost 30lbs By Making One Change
      th-cam.com/video/sfqMSEhGezs/w-d-xo.html

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And this one - th-cam.com/video/aeQHiwDHvjQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=jAZ_NisIzx5-mPuD

    • @Anonymous-p7q2h
      @Anonymous-p7q2h 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks mate. 😊

  • @kawagonzo6951
    @kawagonzo6951 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    dude needs beard asap! his dome bigger than his jaw making him look unbalanced

  • @steveb1972
    @steveb1972 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Please lads don’t get angry, but I just don’t get why the huge stress?
    When my hair started going I just took the trimmer to it. No big deal. I’d love to shave, but the family don’t like the idea - yet!

    • @Lukemasonmedia
      @Lukemasonmedia 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Probably because you appear older and you already have a wife and what not. For young guys it’s a confidence murderer, especially for those who don’t have a wife yet and are worried about what women will think of your thinning hair

    • @JohnnyWalkerBlack142
      @JohnnyWalkerBlack142 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm not sure of your age. If you are a younger guy, it is a lot harder

  • @Letsbox1
    @Letsbox1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    tyson furyyyyy

  • @Daytripper58
    @Daytripper58 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Is he speaking English?

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes mate

  • @budaibence720
    @budaibence720 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You dont need hair😅

  • @alexbayer2365
    @alexbayer2365 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s not so bad. I would say Norwood 2.t5.
    Only one minoxidil can help.

    • @KishoreG2396
      @KishoreG2396 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That is NW 4 my man

    • @Bakanelli
      @Bakanelli 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Finasteride or Dutasteride are the ONLY longtherm options

    • @deanhorn2369
      @deanhorn2369 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​​@@Bakanelliim a norwood 3 at 23 and finasteride isnt working for me using it since 18 now I use dutasteride and hope it wil work but I care about my hair because I have 2 huge deep scars on the back and it looks so ugly and my girlfriend left me for it I almost comitted suicide.

    • @Gordy-fj1jy
      @Gordy-fj1jy 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@BakanelliAgreed 100%

    • @alexbayer2365
      @alexbayer2365 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Bakanelli minoxidil can be longtherm too. Why not? It’s effective.

  • @Jacob-nu4nd
    @Jacob-nu4nd 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This dude does not look good with that big egg head. Very rare guys look good bald

    • @danceswithcomicbooks7733
      @danceswithcomicbooks7733 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think its the camera. Wven he leans forward the top of his head looks bigger and his chin looks narrower. In the regular pictures it isnt that bad.

    • @Dont-be-ANGLOPHOBIC
      @Dont-be-ANGLOPHOBIC 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Seems GD 2 me

  • @Garrett-e4i
    @Garrett-e4i 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Im planning to get bald this week. my hairfall is crazy 🥹

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You can do it bro. Let us know how you get on

    • @Garrett-e4i
      @Garrett-e4i 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Baldcafe im already bald 1hr ago and I love it. thanks bro!

  • @AbdulKhader-786
    @AbdulKhader-786 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love trolling bald people