"You at your core are conscious awareness" - this has been spoken many times by many...I would actually like it f you could do a video solely on the meaning of this. Because, again, it is said so often, nd often said as if the sayer just delivered the most profound secret - BUT how we can interpret it in a way which can actually set us free? understanding THIS...has always been just beyond reach for me, the meaning always evasive. Thanks for posting this.
The reason it is evasive, is because it has to be experienced by yourself in order to be understood. To most people all these explanations are gibberish until experienced… then it all makes sense… Setting yourself free is your own job to do (actually undo) after the experience/realization/epiphany. This will also make sense to you after having had your first non-dual experience.
You’re very welcome. I had the experience I spoke of in this video nearly 3 years before I ever heard of nondualism or Advaita Vedanta. Although I knew what I knew to be true from experience, I had no words for it and had never heard of anyone who experienced it as well until I stumbled on advaita. That’s why I now talk about it from every angle I can.
Oddly enough, I had an experience similar to what you describe, but I was only about 14 at the time and definitely not a seeker. I used to try to imagine, that, if I fell off the earth that I would fall forever into endless space. I tried to hold onto what that might feel like, and it was like a vast void suddenly opened up and that I was about to be annihilated and I drew back in an instant of terror. Didn't realise what was happening then.! But something in me now, "gets " this.
Beautiful. And thank you for sharing. That’s why I’m sharing my own experiences on my channel. I think more and more people need to hear others experiences to help make sense of their own because all experiences do not necessarily look identical, but it doesn’t mean the underlying truth they point to is not the same. I struggled for years after my experience thinking I need to experience more because my life didn’t mirror a yogi’s life. So how could I know the same truths while I hadn’t spent decades in devotion etc? It’s time for humanity to wake up. And we are. ❤️🙏🏼
@@JillMarieKelly "It’s time for humanity to wake up." Yes, I think that it is in the process of happening now. Reminds me that Issac Newton believed humanity would undergo a transformation sometime on or after the year 2060.
First, Thank You very much for this video! I'm your 263rd subscriber. Your approach is soothing and easy to listen to and understand (although I am still confused :). Two things come to mind: (1) I started Sam Harris' "Waking Up" app about two years ago, but only really got serious about meditating daily about six months ago. I have PTSD and generalized anxiety, and I'm ADD, and I think that makes mindfulness meditation more difficult. As Jethro Tull would say, "And the train (of thought) it won't stop going no way to slow down." (2) About 3 years ago I did Dimethyltryptamine (DMT) Very many times over a 10 month period to treat a spinal cord injury. In the last couple months of tripping I'd find myself floating in a burnt-orange mist at the edge of an endless Black Void. I found this very discomforting bc I was certain that if I floated off into The Void I would cease to exist and worse, Everyone and everything I knew would also cease to exist. So during these trips I'd resist floating out of the mist and into The Void. Now I think that maybe I should not have resisted, and instead I should have surrendered and allowed myself to enter The Void. No real specific questions I guess. I just felt compelled to share my experiences.
You're more than welcome! The concept of non-duality is very confusing for the mind. Non-duality is an experience that becomes a knowing, so it's okay and perfectly normal to be confused. (1) Stop trying. I know that may seem counterintuitive because we're always taught that to achieve something we must DO something, but awareness is something you already ARE, so there's nothing to achieve. With that being said, instead of trying to quiet the mind, just observe it. All day long. You can do whatever it is you do and just observe your thoughts as they arise. No judgement. No attachment. Just watch them. Do this as a practice and you'll see a dramatic shift. When? I cannot say as it's different for each person, but it works. (2) Resist nothing. Again, it's more about surrendering than achieving, directing, or controlling. You are already perfect. Always have been. Let go of any labels and just BE. I'm so glad you're here and I look forward to many more engaging conversations. 🙏
@@Raksasa187 thank you so very much 😊 my aim is to recognize that words re inherently dual in nature and therefore inaccurate, yet do my best to use as simple and direct language to explain the unexplainable.
Thanks for this remark, "surrendering the need to know." That's a big hurdle for me. I tripped on DMT many times and when I met entities they'd tell me to stop trying to "take notes" but I just couldn't stop. For some reason I think this is connected to my having "trust" issues - I trust no one, not even myself.
"Awareness cannot exist with duality, and mind cannot exist without duality. Awareness is non-dual, and mind is dual. If you go outwards you will move into the world of duality. If you go inwards you will move into the world of non-duality; you will become non-polar. Enlightenment is the realization of the non-dual. When there is I, it creates thou. When there is I it creates duality, and all is lost in duality. When there is no I, then there is non-duality. Then you are one with existence, utterly one. Then you are nothing but a pulsation of existence itself, just a ripple in the lake of this infinite consciousness. If you are divided in two, into man and woman, negative/ positive, darkness/light, mind/heart, thought/feeling - if you are divided in two, your energy will be going downward. Division is the way of the downward. When you are undivided, one, you start moving upward. To be one is to move upward, to be two is to move downward. Duality is the way to hell, non-duality is the way to heaven. These are the two planes of humanity: duality, the plane of duality, what Hindus call DWAITA, the plane of two; and non-duality, the plane of one, the plane of the non-dual. When you are divided you are in this world; when you are undivided, you have transcended - you are no longer here, you have penetrated into the Beyond. Then boundaries meet and the boundaries meet in you. So the whole effort is how to become undivided, how to become one. This has to be the criterion whether you have reached the goal or not. If there is still something as its polar opposite, you have not reached; you are still in the duality. One can move from one duality to another duality; it does not make any change. One has to move from duality to non-duality, because non-duality is the ultimate. The ultimate has no opposite to it. It is the final synthesis where all opposites have melted into one, when male and female have melted into one. REMEMBER, when we use the word ‘oneness’, that too is part of duality. If there is no duality how can there be oneness? That’s why Hindus never use ‘oneness’. If you ask Shankara, “What is the nature of existence?” he says, “Non-dual, ADVAITA, not two.” He will never say one, because how can you say one? If there is only one, how can you say one? One needs two to be meaningful. If there is no possibility of the second, of the two, then what is the use of saying that it is one? Shankara says, “At the most, I can say not two, but I cannot say positively one. I can say what the reality is not: it is not two. I cannot say what it is, because meaning, words, all become useless.” Enlightenment simply means you disappear, you become the whole. There is no question of separation or no separation. There is no question of oneness, because even the word `oneness’ hides behind it twoness. What do you mean when you say oneness? - you mean twoness. The mystics have avoided using the word `oneness’, but you cannot. In the very nature of intellectual understanding you can go a little roundabout - and that’s what people like Shankara have done. They talk about non-duality, no-twoness; they don’t talk about oneness. They want to indicate oneness, but they don’t want to use the word `oneness’ because oneness points towards twoness. Enlightenment means the point from where you take a jump into the non-dual. Before that point is duality. Everything is divided. Language creates duality, language exists through duality. It cannot indicate the non-dual. If I say ‘day’, immediately I create night. If I say ‘life’, immediately I create death. If I say ‘good’, immediately bad is created. If I say ‘no’, just by the side of the no, yes is existing. Language can exist only through the opposite. That’s why we see life as always divided - God and devil. Drop language, drop this linguistic pattern. Once language is no more on your mind and you look directly into reality, day IS night. Suddenly you will start laughing at why you missed it so long! Day, every day turns into night; night turns into day every morning again, and you have been missing. Life is always turning into death, death always turns again into life, and you have been missing. They are not two, they are one whole. This is the non-dual, ADWAITA. This is the most essential religion."
I’m glad you recognize my point - words will never be accurate as they are limiting. Even the word religion and the structure around it is limiting and makes it less. The word oneness is inaccurate as it too is limiting. This is why I said that a personal experience may be the only way to truly understand because it is only then that words are no longer needed and even the most talented philosophers cannot explain it because explanation requires words. Adwaita is beautiful.
@@JillMarieKelly I totaly agree ,i just made this conclusion way back at the end of my surch who took 20 years .In fact it's the disappearence of the seeker and what remains is not the presence of some one who understands but the absence of someone who doesn't understand .
Jill Marie Kelly 🙏 When 'you' dissolve into the nothingness, you realize there is *_"somethingness"_* in that nothingness. But that "somethingness" (of the nothingness) can't be described or defined because our mind cannot process it as it is beyond mind. That "somethingness" is One's *_True (Self) Nature_* which neither comes nor goes, neither increases nor decreases. It is formless, timeless, self existing, innovative & creative, infinite, is not born, never dies & eternal, and pervades the entire Universe. 😊🙏🙇♂️🌷
What a beautiful video and i totally get it thank you. I had this opening into deeper presence or non duality a year ago but it kind of “slipped” away somehow, even though i know it’s always here and what we are.
@@josephmitchell6796 thank you. The experience of non duality brings a profound shift, and it can seem to slip away, but that’s why “dying to the self daily” is important. Maintain our awareness of the truth of our Self daily. This is why I started my channel. Once the experience, knowing, or awareness comes, it’s different for everyone. Some learn through words alone, some devotion, some it’s a spontaneous awakening. Even the after effect can be slightly different for each person. It’s a practice. Thanks for sharing and hope to see you in the community again. 🙏🏼
In the description now! Thanks for the reminder to add it! My channel is less than a month old, so I'm learning all the details. 😀th-cam.com/video/RPCOT_rbddc/w-d-xo.htmlsi=v_x4nhxzVV8UtO7r
Jill Marie Kelly 🙏 In *_Non-duality_* practices, _There are no followers or Masters;_ _Nothing to learn & no one to teach;_ _The Four Noble Truths are pathless;_ _To whom whose mind is abide-less;_ _Shall realize the Dharma suddenly;_ _Is the Open Secret of all practices!_ 😊🙏🙇♂️🌷
Thanks for sharing your experiences. When you got sucked into the void, was it like black darkness void or white light void like nothingness? The mind was curious to know what your process was. Haha 😄 Take care.
@@quiet-s8k I saw blinding light then got pulled through the light and beyond it. What was on the other side of form (light) was All That Was. It was formless, colorless, no sound, no sight, nothing yet everything and I was that. The nothingness yet everything was can best be described as pure potential, Brahman, God, All That Is. It’s been called many things. I say nothing yet everything at the same time because there are no words that could ever encapsulate it.
Hi, thanks for sharing your beautiful experience. I’d appreciate it if you could instruct us the breath work you were doing when your awakening moment happened. In future video,. Cheers!!!
It's all relative. POV is what precisely what it is. What is good? What is bad? If one chooses to see good, they see good. If one chooses to see it differently, they do. Everything is as it is. All POV are acceptable. All have the innate ability to think and feel as they do.
@@wolderufaelatelabachew1855 wonderful question. In that experience, I was everything and everyone. There was no loneliness because I was everyone. Not curious about anything because I was everything. I was All That Is. It was direct experience and realization of Atman Is Brahman although, at the time of the experience, I never heard that phrase before. Hope this answer helps. If I can help in any other way please let me know. 🙏🏼
"Nothing" is an illusion as there is an underlying unrealized potential energy that is sitting idle, producing no thing. Awareness arises first from this ocean of potential, not matter. From awareness we give rise to time/space and matter for the sake of experience. While this video is correct, don't over emphasize the idea that this world is not real, for your experience is VERY REAL to you.
Precisely! I kept the verbiage as simplistic and direct as possible for the sake of this video because it’s designed for those who feel they don’t quite understand the concept despite having heard all the standard philosophical teachings around it. Thanks for engaging with the community and hope to see you in here again. . I appreciate your pov. 🙏🏼
Actually, the mind is what’s between you and understanding non-duality. Beliefs are bad substitutes for experiences. I don’t think I would have believed or accepted non-duality as a belief system without experiencing an ego disillusion back when I was an atheist and ended up laughing the whole time on how short sighted I’ve lived my whole life identifying with my life story and forgetting that I created all of that! I would probably dismiss it as contradictory new age bullshit and a mere of wishful thinking lol I didn’t even know the term non-duality back then and had to search to understand what was that state of consciousness I have experienced where the separation between me and my environment almost didn’t exist and where I was not my strong opinions, fears, politics, wants or my look and where this realization that I am eternal and infinite came from. I was puzzled because that realization I’ve got during my ego disillusion was not a new information to me. It was just something I forgot. It was like, how could I forget something that obvious!! My first words after my mind came back was “ you don’t know what you don’t know” I don’t understand how some people can comprehend non-duality intellectually only. Their minds must be more open and creative than mine. Mine is annoyingly skeptic. Thankfully, I know now that I am not “him” lol
I can relate sooooo very much! I had the same experience of not knowing about non-duality or Advaita Vedanta prior to my experience. It took nearly two years between my experience and stumbling upon that terminology before I could even put it into words. I knew what I knew from that experience but had zero language available to try and help anyone looking for help. That is what birthed my channel-wanting to help others who may be seeking. I’ve listened to a few Advaita and Non-dual teachers and while I understand it perfectly-I contribute that only to having experienced it personally and directly. I always feel like they’re talking in circles never able to actually answer the questioner because it’s not possible for the questioner to fully grasp it without an experience and often the language used to describe it is not direct enough. But, I think the more people who share their experience the better. I’m actually writing a book that I’m hoping will help others who haven’t yet had a direct experience to become a little more aware of their ego and mind and open that door just a little so the ego can loosen its grip and they can see who they really are and stop identifying as their persona. Thanks for sharing your experience. What brought yours on?
@@JillMarieKellyyeah! There’s no any reference or earthly words! Some stuff can be only experienced, not explained. I was in an ayahuasca ceremony to debunk it but jokes on me lol Actually my second ceremony is tomorrow. I wonder how it will feel and what I will experience now I intellectually know the explanation. I think it’s gonna be different this time:) First time, the anxiety only came when my ego didn’t want to surrender. I was repeating my name, my address, my age, my birthday to hold on to what I naïvely thought constitutes who I am ,then the moment I surrendered , and I said “I will be back. I’ll be back” I realized the truth. This time I won’t be afraid to let go because I know it’s not real. But I like that first time I didn’t have any preconceived notions or anything to expect to the level that I didn’t even know the name of what I experienced because that eliminates the placebo effect entirely. I was not looking for a specific result or a specific experience from the ayahuasca. I was skeptic but open minded and had zero spiritual knowledge. I couldn’t stand what I thought of as “the fluffy language of spiritual teachers” I am on the spectrum so I’m very logical. I quit my family religion when I was 12 because my critical thinking skills are very dominant. I always say I kill my own buzz sometimes for truth seeking. One of the things that I cannot stand is when people believe stuff because they feel good not because they are true and when people don’t check the premises behind their motives to form a specific opinion. What I experienced was not a new knowledge, it was something I remembered and my mind doesn’t dare to doubt it because It knows what I experienced and it knows that it only took it one little drink to disappear. I can’t take my mind seriously anymore lol
I say nothing because I had no form, no gender, no memories, aspirations, no senses, etc. I was simply conscious awareness. I had no personal identity whatsoever. Great question!
Wonderful explanation of non-duality. Your understanding of the subject is perfect. That is why you are able to explain it in such simple terms that even a layman is able to understand the principles and practice of non-duality without the help of any other personal teacher or guru. In these days of TH-cam a large number of people are able to understand and practice non-duality because great teachers have chosen to teach through this medium. However, some of them are charging some fees for their teachings. I am not sure whether you are able to obtain the necessary guru dakshina for imparting the impeccable knowledge to one and all without any discrimination. In the olden days the gurus used to receive some dakshina from their students. Only after payment of the dakshina the duty of the student was considered complete. Love your teachings and your simplicity which is the hallmark of every person who has achieved the state of non-duality.❤
I guess I'll be taking the Thomas route to belief, i.e. I'll believe it when I see it, which isn't as negative sounding as it appears, I simply mean... once I encounter the evidence and fully understand the nuances, then I'll embrace the belief.
That makes perfect sense! In fact, I believe it takes a direct personal experience of sorts for one to fully understand it because words don’t do it justice.
Yeah well... besides all that Jill, I'm deeply seeking the truth and I find I'm hearing too many conflicting answers which makes the search much harder than it should be! So you might respect I couldn't afford to take your belief entirely on board, but just as it is for the rest of us, all it is, is an opinion at the end of the day, unless you can fly or meditate yourself into invisibility while we witness it, but the best thing I got from your video was looking at your attractive face, you don't happen to have room in your life for a 70 year old cruiser do you? Take care!
@ exactly. I get it and have felt the same exact way tbh with you. It’s confusing to hear so many conflicting claims that this or that is the truth. It’s like, how do all of us “know” what we’re claiming? That was always my question, anyhow. But, this is why I now say I think a personal, direct experience of sorts - anything from an ahha moment that hits differently to an out of this world omg experience. An experience is just that - an experience. I can say that it IS easier than what it’s made out to be because you’re already all that you seek. It’s our self-made identities that mask that.
You know what? I actually believe you're right in what you say, only thing is, the Thomas in me has to see it for himself and I haven't reached there yet, I do believe I'm going to see something incredibly phenomenal when I get there, but I'm really struggling at fighting against the resistance right now, I've been fighting for the truth for over 40 years now and I know the resistance is strongly against this, so it's not surprising that I'm going through so much, might get there just before I enter the last snooze.
Thanks for sharing your pov. If you felt it didn’t explain it in the way you understand it or would explain it, that’s ok - However, if you feel you don’t understand it and you’d like to and this video was of no particular help for you please let me know if there’s a specific question you have that I can attempt to help with. I appreciate your pov and engagement. 🙏🏼
Nondualism has been around for thousands of years so no need to explain it. Talking, explaining just never does it. Its not an intellectual pursuit, even if you could get a degree in it...would be meaningless....you are a new kid on the block...one of many, this pandemic of new age nondual so called Advaita Vedanta teachers... With these podcasters often the messenger is more important than the so called message. Suggest read Ramana Maharishi etc, or give Robert Adams a look..his collected works...silence is eventually the seekers destination as it is the beginning and the end...
@@johndean8052 you’re right. Nondualism and advaita Vedanta is not new in any way. And I just found out it even existed within the past few months. And you’re 100% right that it could never be understood- it must be experienced - which is what I say in my video. It’s my goal to make videos using more direct language for this who are seeking and who don’t find the traditional dogmatic language helpful. After a direct experience, I assume one would have no need to watch videos or read books. I had no awareness of nondualism as a concept or of advaita Vedanta when I had my direct personal experience. So I now make videos to help people who may have also had experiences of nondualism but have no one to guide them to help them explain what they experienced. I am respectfully curious. What brought you to a non duality video?
All that we have to do is just let go and accept what is so?? Sorry! I've made it an occasional hobby listening to you NON DUALIST and your explanation uses the exact same wording as all of them, that to me FAIL miserably! When I pointed out that your belief system is no different to any religion that requires a leap of faith the last guru of ND said he won't answer me because I'm a NON Intellectual. I've looked into the face of the faithful who have excepted their religions answer to suffering and they all have the same look of ecstasy. Are you right or are they right? Often I hear that time doesn't exist, but to me it's what I believe. I'm talking about DEEP time, that is truly unfathomable to beings that live a mere 100 years at best, time is merely change and somehow life emerged and evolved and as sure as that has happened we also will surely die and our life processes stop and so will our awareness. I am old and except my coming death, I don't look forward to it but death is part of living, and to me there is no meaning to our lives except what we make of it for ourselves while we have life, only when we are gone we are just gone!!! I see no rational evidence for a heaven or hell, neither a mindless oneness what ever that is??
@@MykolasGilbert I feel your frustration. I hear you. And I’m happy to answer ANY questions you have. One question or 100. I’m sorry that you’ve been previously left unanswered.
"You at your core are conscious awareness" - this has been spoken many times by many...I would actually like it f you could do a video solely on the meaning of this. Because, again, it is said so often, nd often said as if the sayer just delivered the most profound secret - BUT how we can interpret it in a way which can actually set us free? understanding THIS...has always been just beyond reach for me, the meaning always evasive. Thanks for posting this.
I’ll make a video solely on this. You ARE free. Stay tuned for it because I hope it will help bring clarity and peace.
@@JillMarieKelly Thank you, am very grateful.
The reason it is evasive, is because it has to be experienced by yourself in order to be understood.
To most people all these explanations are gibberish until experienced… then it all makes sense…
Setting yourself free is your own job to do (actually undo) after the experience/realization/epiphany. This will also make sense to you after having had your first non-dual experience.
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That's a wonderfully intuitive explanation, thank you.
@@ahmetl9192 you’re very welcome 😊
Thank your for talking about nonduality.
You’re very welcome. I had the experience I spoke of in this video nearly 3 years before I ever heard of nondualism or Advaita Vedanta. Although I knew what I knew to be true from experience, I had no words for it and had never heard of anyone who experienced it as well until I stumbled on advaita. That’s why I now talk about it from every angle I can.
Thanks for sharing your trip 🙏☮
Thank you!! You and me are the reflection of life.
Oddly enough, I had an experience similar to what you describe, but I was only about 14 at the time and definitely not a seeker. I used to try to imagine, that, if I fell off the earth that I would fall forever into endless space. I tried to hold onto what that might feel like, and it was like a vast void suddenly opened up and that I was about to be annihilated and I drew back in an instant of terror. Didn't realise what was happening then.! But something in me now, "gets " this.
Beautiful. And thank you for sharing. That’s why I’m sharing my own experiences on my channel. I think more and more people need to hear others experiences to help make sense of their own because all experiences do not necessarily look identical, but it doesn’t mean the underlying truth they point to is not the same. I struggled for years after my experience thinking I need to experience more because my life didn’t mirror a yogi’s life. So how could I know the same truths while I hadn’t spent decades in devotion etc? It’s time for humanity to wake up. And we are. ❤️🙏🏼
@@JillMarieKelly "It’s time for humanity to wake up." Yes, I think that it is in the process of happening now. Reminds me that Issac Newton believed humanity would undergo a transformation sometime on or after the year 2060.
First, Thank You very much for this video! I'm your 263rd subscriber. Your approach is soothing and easy to listen to and understand (although I am still confused :).
Two things come to mind:
(1) I started Sam Harris' "Waking Up" app about two years ago, but only really got serious about meditating daily about six months ago. I have PTSD and generalized anxiety, and I'm ADD, and I think that makes mindfulness meditation more difficult. As Jethro Tull would say, "And the train (of thought) it won't stop going no way to slow down."
(2) About 3 years ago I did Dimethyltryptamine (DMT) Very many times over a 10 month period to treat a spinal cord injury. In the last couple months of tripping I'd find myself floating in a burnt-orange mist at the edge of an endless Black Void. I found this very discomforting bc I was certain that if I floated off into The Void I would cease to exist and worse, Everyone and everything I knew would also cease to exist. So during these trips I'd resist floating out of the mist and into The Void. Now I think that maybe I should not have resisted, and instead I should have surrendered and allowed myself to enter The Void. No real specific questions I guess. I just felt compelled to share my experiences.
You're more than welcome!
The concept of non-duality is very confusing for the mind. Non-duality is an experience that becomes a knowing, so it's okay and perfectly normal to be confused.
(1) Stop trying. I know that may seem counterintuitive because we're always taught that to achieve something we must DO something, but awareness is something you already ARE, so there's nothing to achieve. With that being said, instead of trying to quiet the mind, just observe it. All day long. You can do whatever it is you do and just observe your thoughts as they arise. No judgement. No attachment. Just watch them. Do this as a practice and you'll see a dramatic shift. When? I cannot say as it's different for each person, but it works.
(2) Resist nothing. Again, it's more about surrendering than achieving, directing, or controlling.
You are already perfect. Always have been. Let go of any labels and just BE. I'm so glad you're here and I look forward to many more engaging conversations. 🙏
@@JillMarieKelly Wow, thank you. Your response sounds like what Sam Harris says in some guided meditations.
@@istantinoplebullconsta642 I’ll have to check him out! I’ve never heard of him.
Good luck, you;re doing good x
Thanks for sharing your experiences.
@@TonyRedunzo you’re very welcome. I hope to see you in the community again. 🙏🏼
Perfect! I’ve had the exact same experience, three times. Permanently changed my understanding of reality.
@@paulbchen58 without a doubt, perspective cannot remain as it was prior to this experience. It’s simply not possible. 🙏🏼
Very helpful, thank you 🥰
You’re welcome 😊
i absolutely love the lectures by Swami Sarvapriyananda, but you explained it in a very well in simple way 🙏
@@Raksasa187 thank you so very much 😊 my aim is to recognize that words re inherently dual in nature and therefore inaccurate, yet do my best to use as simple and direct language to explain the unexplainable.
@JillMarieKelly and you are doing a great job!!
Much gratitude, friend.
Very helpful, especially what you said about "surrendering the need to know". Thank you. 😇🙏
@@1rsalc you’re very welcome.
Thanks for this remark, "surrendering the need to know." That's a big hurdle for me. I tripped on DMT many times and when I met entities they'd tell me to stop trying to "take notes" but I just couldn't stop. For some reason I think this is connected to my having "trust" issues - I trust no one, not even myself.
Thank you so very much!
@@elainereader9247 you’re very welcome!
Very good 🙏
@@TheRenaissanceGuys thank you 🙏🏼
"Awareness cannot exist with duality, and mind cannot exist without duality. Awareness is non-dual, and mind is dual.
If you go outwards you will move into the world of duality. If you go inwards you will move into the world of non-duality; you will become non-polar.
Enlightenment is the realization of the non-dual.
When there is I, it creates thou. When there is I it creates duality, and all is lost in duality. When there is no I, then there is non-duality. Then you are one with existence, utterly one. Then you are nothing but a pulsation of existence itself, just a ripple in the lake of this infinite consciousness.
If you are divided in two, into man and woman, negative/ positive, darkness/light, mind/heart, thought/feeling - if you are divided in two, your energy will be going downward. Division is the way of the downward. When you are undivided, one, you start moving upward. To be one is to move upward, to be two is to move downward. Duality is the way to hell, non-duality is the way to heaven.
These are the two planes of humanity: duality, the plane of duality, what Hindus call DWAITA, the plane of two; and non-duality, the plane of one, the plane of the non-dual. When you are divided you are in this world; when you are undivided, you have transcended - you are no longer here, you have penetrated into the Beyond. Then boundaries meet and the boundaries meet in you. So the whole effort is how to become undivided, how to become one.
This has to be the criterion whether you have reached the goal or not. If there is still something as its polar opposite, you have not reached; you are still in the duality. One can move from one duality to another duality; it does not make any change. One has to move from duality to non-duality, because non-duality is the ultimate. The ultimate has no opposite to it. It is the final synthesis where all opposites have melted into one, when male and female have melted into one.
REMEMBER, when we use the word ‘oneness’, that too is part of duality. If there is no duality how can there be oneness? That’s why Hindus never use ‘oneness’. If you ask Shankara, “What is the nature of existence?” he says, “Non-dual, ADVAITA, not two.” He will never say one, because how can you say one? If there is only one, how can you say one? One needs two to be meaningful. If there is no possibility of the second, of the two, then what is the use of saying that it is one? Shankara says, “At the most, I can say not two, but I cannot say positively one. I can say what the reality is not: it is not two. I cannot say what it is, because meaning, words, all become useless.”
Enlightenment simply means you disappear, you become the whole. There is no question of separation or no separation. There is no question of oneness, because even the word `oneness’ hides behind it twoness. What do you mean when you say oneness? - you mean twoness. The mystics have avoided using the word `oneness’, but you cannot. In the very nature of intellectual understanding you can go a little roundabout - and that’s what people like Shankara have done. They talk about non-duality, no-twoness; they don’t talk about oneness. They want to indicate oneness, but they don’t want to use the word `oneness’ because oneness points towards twoness.
Enlightenment means the point from where you take a jump into the non-dual. Before that point is duality. Everything is divided.
Language creates duality, language exists through duality. It cannot indicate the non-dual. If I say ‘day’, immediately I create night. If I say ‘life’, immediately I create death. If I say ‘good’, immediately bad is created. If I say ‘no’, just by the side of the no, yes is existing. Language can exist only through the opposite. That’s why we see life as always divided - God and devil. Drop language, drop this linguistic pattern. Once language is no more on your mind and you look directly into reality, day IS night. Suddenly you will start laughing at why you missed it so long! Day, every day turns into night; night turns into day every morning again, and you have been missing. Life is always turning into death, death always turns again into life, and you have been missing. They are not two, they are one whole. This is the non-dual, ADWAITA. This is the most essential religion."
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I’m glad you recognize my point - words will never be accurate as they are limiting. Even the word religion and the structure around it is limiting and makes it less. The word oneness is inaccurate as it too is limiting. This is why I said that a personal experience may be the only way to truly understand because it is only then that words are no longer needed and even the most talented philosophers cannot explain it because explanation requires words. Adwaita is beautiful.
There's no one moving from duality to non-duality .Duality and non-duality are both concepts .
@ truth. However, for those still seeking, words are required when they cannot be in presence.
@@JillMarieKelly I totaly agree ,i just made this conclusion way back at the end of my surch who took 20 years .In fact it's the disappearence of the seeker and what remains is not the presence of some one who understands but the absence of someone who doesn't understand .
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When 'you' dissolve into the nothingness, you realize there is *_"somethingness"_* in that nothingness.
But that "somethingness" (of the nothingness) can't be described or defined because our mind cannot process it as it is beyond mind.
That "somethingness" is One's *_True (Self) Nature_* which neither comes nor goes, neither increases nor decreases.
It is formless, timeless, self existing, innovative & creative, infinite, is not born, never dies & eternal, and pervades the entire Universe. 😊🙏🙇♂️🌷
Precisely! ✨
I create good and evil, darkness and light.... I should stop seeing everything for what it is not.
We are the whole universe. We are All That Is expressing as everything.
👉day and night 🕵️😊
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Yes near perfect and normalised. There is no other
What a beautiful video and i totally get it thank you. I had this opening into deeper presence or non duality a year ago but it kind of “slipped” away somehow, even though i know it’s always here and what we are.
@@josephmitchell6796 thank you. The experience of non duality brings a profound shift, and it can seem to slip away, but that’s why “dying to the self daily” is important. Maintain our awareness of the truth of our Self daily. This is why I started my channel. Once the experience, knowing, or awareness comes, it’s different for everyone. Some learn through words alone, some devotion, some it’s a spontaneous awakening. Even the after effect can be slightly different for each person. It’s a practice. Thanks for sharing and hope to see you in the community again. 🙏🏼
@ thank you for your response and i am definitely following thank you!
Great upload, JMK!
I don’t see the video you referenced you’d post in the description. Am I overlooking it?
In the description now! Thanks for the reminder to add it! My channel is less than a month old, so I'm learning all the details. 😀th-cam.com/video/RPCOT_rbddc/w-d-xo.htmlsi=v_x4nhxzVV8UtO7r
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@@ajithchandrakumara thank you 🙏🏼
Awesome! Love it.
Thanks! :)
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In *_Non-duality_* practices,
_There are no followers or Masters;_
_Nothing to learn & no one to teach;_
_The Four Noble Truths are pathless;_
_To whom whose mind is abide-less;_
_Shall realize the Dharma suddenly;_
_Is the Open Secret of all practices!_
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Thanks for sharing your experiences. When you got sucked into the void, was it like black darkness void or white light void like nothingness? The mind was curious to know what your process was. Haha 😄 Take care.
@@quiet-s8k I saw blinding light then got pulled through the light and beyond it. What was on the other side of form (light) was All That Was. It was formless, colorless, no sound, no sight, nothing yet everything and I was that. The nothingness yet everything was can best be described as pure potential, Brahman, God, All That Is. It’s been called many things. I say nothing yet everything at the same time because there are no words that could ever encapsulate it.
Hi, thanks for sharing your beautiful experience. I’d appreciate it if you could instruct us the breath work you were doing when your awakening moment happened. In future video,.
Cheers!!!
Love this!
Thank you. Glad you got something good out of it.
Something good? ...oh dear.
Out of what?
It's all relative. POV is what precisely what it is. What is good? What is bad? If one chooses to see good, they see good. If one chooses to see it differently, they do. Everything is as it is. All POV are acceptable. All have the innate ability to think and feel as they do.
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Thanks for engaging. 🙏🏼
Hi Jill Marie I do have a question during your experience do you felt omnipotent&omnipresent?
@@wolderufaelatelabachew1855 wonderful question. In that experience, I was everything and everyone. There was no loneliness because I was everyone. Not curious about anything because I was everything. I was All That Is. It was direct experience and realization of Atman Is Brahman although, at the time of the experience, I never heard that phrase before. Hope this answer helps. If I can help in any other way please let me know. 🙏🏼
Hi Jill Marie
When you say I was everyone do you felt that you were all peoples of the world?
@ of course. Everyone is everyone. All is all.
Thank you for your answer
@ of course. That’s what I’m here for.
"Nothing" is an illusion as there is an underlying unrealized potential energy that is sitting idle, producing no thing. Awareness arises first from this ocean of potential, not matter. From awareness we give rise to time/space and matter for the sake of experience. While this video is correct, don't over emphasize the idea that this world is not real, for your experience is VERY REAL to you.
Precisely! I kept the verbiage as simplistic and direct as possible for the sake of this video because it’s designed for those who feel they don’t quite understand the concept despite having heard all the standard philosophical teachings around it. Thanks for engaging with the community and hope to see you in here again. . I appreciate your pov. 🙏🏼
Actually, the mind is what’s between you and understanding non-duality.
Beliefs are bad substitutes for experiences. I don’t think I would have believed or accepted non-duality as a belief system without experiencing an ego disillusion back when I was an atheist and ended up laughing the whole time on how short sighted I’ve lived my whole life identifying with my life story and forgetting that I created all of that! I would probably dismiss it as contradictory new age bullshit and a mere of wishful thinking lol
I didn’t even know the term non-duality back then and had to search to understand what was that state of consciousness I have experienced where the separation between me and my environment almost didn’t exist and where I was not my strong opinions, fears, politics, wants or my look and where this realization that I am eternal and infinite came from. I was puzzled because that realization I’ve got during my ego disillusion was not a new information to me. It was just something I forgot. It was like, how could I forget something that obvious!! My first words after my mind came back was “ you don’t know what you don’t know”
I don’t understand how some people can comprehend non-duality intellectually only. Their minds must be more open and creative than mine. Mine is annoyingly skeptic. Thankfully, I know now that I am not “him” lol
I can relate sooooo very much! I had the same experience of not knowing about non-duality or Advaita Vedanta prior to my experience. It took nearly two years between my experience and stumbling upon that terminology before I could even put it into words. I knew what I knew from that experience but had zero language available to try and help anyone looking for help. That is what birthed my channel-wanting to help others who may be seeking. I’ve listened to a few Advaita and Non-dual teachers and while I understand it perfectly-I contribute that only to having experienced it personally and directly. I always feel like they’re talking in circles never able to actually answer the questioner because it’s not possible for the questioner to fully grasp it without an experience and often the language used to describe it is not direct enough. But, I think the more people who share their experience the better. I’m actually writing a book that I’m hoping will help others who haven’t yet had a direct experience to become a little more aware of their ego and mind and open that door just a little so the ego can loosen its grip and they can see who they really are and stop identifying as their persona. Thanks for sharing your experience. What brought yours on?
@@JillMarieKellyyeah! There’s no any reference or earthly words! Some stuff can be only experienced, not explained. I was in an ayahuasca ceremony to debunk it but jokes on me lol Actually my second ceremony is tomorrow. I wonder how it will feel and what I will experience now I intellectually know the explanation. I think it’s gonna be different this time:) First time, the anxiety only came when my ego didn’t want to surrender. I was repeating my name, my address, my age, my birthday to hold on to what I naïvely thought constitutes who I am ,then the moment I surrendered , and I said “I will be back. I’ll be back” I realized the truth. This time I won’t be afraid to let go because I know it’s not real. But I like that first time I didn’t have any preconceived notions or anything to expect to the level that I didn’t even know the name of what I experienced because that eliminates the placebo effect entirely. I was not looking for a specific result or a specific experience from the ayahuasca. I was skeptic but open minded and had zero spiritual knowledge. I couldn’t stand what I thought of as “the fluffy language of spiritual teachers” I am on the spectrum so I’m very logical. I quit my family religion when I was 12 because my critical thinking skills are very dominant. I always say I kill my own buzz sometimes for truth seeking. One of the things that I cannot stand is when people believe stuff because they feel good not because they are true and when people don’t check the premises behind their motives to form a specific opinion. What I experienced was not a new knowledge, it was something I remembered and my mind doesn’t dare to doubt it because It knows what I experienced and it knows that it only took it one little drink to disappear. I can’t take my mind seriously anymore lol
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Can you explain once you were nothing. Why can you remember or explain the nothingnes. In other words in nothingnes is nothing to remember. Right?
I say nothing because I had no form, no gender, no memories, aspirations, no senses, etc. I was simply conscious awareness. I had no personal identity whatsoever. Great question!
Wonderful explanation of non-duality. Your understanding of the subject is perfect. That is why you are able to explain it in such simple terms that even a layman is able to understand the principles and practice of non-duality without the help of any other personal teacher or guru. In these days of TH-cam a large number of people are able to understand and practice non-duality because great teachers have chosen to teach through this medium. However, some of them are charging some fees for their teachings. I am not sure whether you are able to obtain the necessary guru dakshina for imparting the impeccable knowledge to one and all without any discrimination. In the olden days the gurus used to receive some dakshina from their students. Only after payment of the dakshina the duty of the student was considered complete. Love your teachings and your simplicity which is the hallmark of every person who has achieved the state of non-duality.❤
@@muralidharankv169 I felt the sincerity of your message and am in gratitude 🙏🏼
I guess I'll be taking the Thomas route to belief, i.e. I'll believe it when I see it, which isn't as negative sounding as it appears, I simply mean... once I encounter the evidence and fully understand the nuances, then I'll embrace the belief.
That makes perfect sense! In fact, I believe it takes a direct personal experience of sorts for one to fully understand it because words don’t do it justice.
Yeah well... besides all that Jill, I'm deeply seeking the truth and I find I'm hearing too many conflicting answers which makes the search much harder than it should be!
So you might respect I couldn't afford to take your belief entirely on board, but just as it is for the rest of us, all it is, is an opinion at the end of the day, unless you can fly or meditate yourself into invisibility while we witness it, but the best thing I got from your video was looking at your attractive face, you don't happen to have room in your life for a 70 year old cruiser do you?
Take care!
@ exactly. I get it and have felt the same exact way tbh with you. It’s confusing to hear so many conflicting claims that this or that is the truth. It’s like, how do all of us “know” what we’re claiming? That was always my question, anyhow. But, this is why I now say I think a personal, direct experience of sorts - anything from an ahha moment that hits differently to an out of this world omg experience. An experience is just that - an experience. I can say that it IS easier than what it’s made out to be because you’re already all that you seek. It’s our self-made identities that mask that.
You know what? I actually believe you're right in what you say, only thing is, the Thomas in me has to see it for himself and I haven't reached there yet, I do believe I'm going to see something incredibly phenomenal when I get there, but I'm really struggling at fighting against the resistance right now, I've been fighting for the truth for over 40 years now and I know the resistance is strongly against this, so it's not surprising that I'm going through so much, might get there just before I enter the last snooze.
@ so ask yourself this: what does Thomas believe should/will happen when it all clicks? And where did this belief come from?
Non-duality, not explained by this video at all
Thanks for sharing your pov. If you felt it didn’t explain it in the way you understand it or would explain it, that’s ok - However, if you feel you don’t understand it and you’d like to and this video was of no particular help for you please let me know if there’s a specific question you have that I can attempt to help with. I appreciate your pov and engagement. 🙏🏼
Words cast spells
Who are you trying to explain it to? Rorri Maesu says useaMirroR
Ultimately, there’s only me as there is only one. Hence the compassion and love. It’s Self love. ❤️
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That's not Advaita Vedanta, that's called Megalomania my friend.
ok :)
If my body is not me and I am alive then the body cannot die because it was never alive DOH! LoL too much fun .)
Life has become a ton of fun!
Nondualism has been around for thousands of years so no need to explain it. Talking, explaining just never does it. Its not an intellectual pursuit, even if you could get a degree in it...would be meaningless....you are a new kid on the block...one of many, this pandemic of new age nondual so called Advaita Vedanta teachers... With these podcasters often the messenger is more important than the so called message. Suggest read Ramana Maharishi etc, or give Robert Adams a look..his collected works...silence is eventually the seekers destination as it is the beginning and the end...
@@johndean8052 you’re right. Nondualism and advaita Vedanta is not new in any way. And I just found out it even existed within the past few months. And you’re 100% right that it could never be understood- it must be experienced - which is what I say in my video.
It’s my goal to make videos using more direct language for this who are seeking and who don’t find the traditional dogmatic language helpful. After a direct experience, I assume one would have no need to watch videos or read books.
I had no awareness of nondualism as a concept or of advaita Vedanta when I had my direct personal experience. So I now make videos to help people who may have also had experiences of nondualism but have no one to guide them to help them explain what they experienced.
I am respectfully curious. What brought you to a non duality video?
Very poor explanation, just frazes.
@@goranmancevski5550 thanks for your pov. Is there something about it I can further explain for you or a particular question you have I can help with?
You say it's a "very poor explanation, just frazes" but at least it's not a very poor spelling of the word, "Phrases!"
All that we have to do is just let go and accept what is so?? Sorry! I've made it an occasional hobby listening to you NON DUALIST and your explanation uses the exact same wording as all of them, that to me FAIL miserably! When I pointed out that your belief system is no different to any religion that requires a leap of faith the last guru of ND said he won't answer me because I'm a NON Intellectual. I've looked into the face of the faithful who have excepted their religions answer to suffering and they all have the same look of ecstasy. Are you right or are they right? Often I hear that time doesn't exist, but to me it's what I believe. I'm talking about DEEP time, that is truly unfathomable to beings that live a mere 100 years at best, time is merely change and somehow life emerged and evolved and as sure as that has happened we also will surely die and our life processes stop and so will our awareness. I am old and except my coming death, I don't look forward to it but death is part of living, and to me there is no meaning to our lives except what we make of it for ourselves while we have life, only when we are gone we are just gone!!! I see no rational evidence for a heaven or hell, neither a mindless oneness what ever that is??
@@MykolasGilbert I feel your frustration. I hear you. And I’m happy to answer ANY questions you have. One question or 100. I’m sorry that you’ve been previously left unanswered.