EX CULT MEMBERS discuss "Order History"

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  • @AlexandraG_
    @AlexandraG_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    So happy to know all those babies are being raised outside the cult with happy free mothers! Awesome to see you ladies all doing well!

  • @trendnbrbie
    @trendnbrbie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    michelle voice has changed a lot, she doesn't sound so timid and shy anymore which is good!

    • @isabellasalinas9390
      @isabellasalinas9390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I would love yo see a one on one interview if possible !

    • @teamcougars
      @teamcougars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed! She is such a warrior so much more confident ❤️❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❣️

  • @norms3420
    @norms3420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Always want to see more of these conversations! It’s wonderful to see everyone thriving and so full of personality! Rachel and Michelle seem so much more comfortable with themselves than they did on Escaping Polygamy! Can’t wait for parts 2 & 3!

  • @Anniekelseyty
    @Anniekelseyty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    i have always felt old and late compared to most of my friends who were married and having kids between 14 and 17 i was married at 20 but left and started new and am now married 10 years and have a 6 yo son. like a normal person kinda lol U can leave, U can rebuild, U can do it. but its hard and always there. you all are amazing. sending love.

  • @rachaelkopp3792
    @rachaelkopp3792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yesss we want parts 2 & 3!!! ❤ The whole "how to be a good wives" reads almost identical to the teaching of Bill Gothard and the IBLP (Duggar cult).

  • @Jenniferalvarez19818
    @Jenniferalvarez19818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ava it’s so good to see you finally. You look amazing and so happy. I’m so glad for all of you women that you are now happy and thriving outside of the cult you all were born into

  • @anrach579
    @anrach579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I, for one, would love to see Parts 2 and 3. I am so glad that y'all got out of something that made y'all so unhappy. Stay strong.

  • @irma1313mimi
    @irma1313mimi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s really good to see you guys laughing at those “rules” 😂 I remember how exposed I felt the first time I wore a spaghetti strap top 😊oh too think and now I have tattoos, and through it all my God has never left me! I always refer “My God” as opposed to the culty gods that are made up by the cults big and small near and far, it is hard but the same time not be shocked by the cults that are still around in this day and age. So glad you girls are speaking your truths ❤

  • @mackenzie-deltadurocher
    @mackenzie-deltadurocher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "You're not touching my kid when you've treated your own kids like crap"
    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 protect those babies Papa!!

  • @crafterdeidra
    @crafterdeidra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So glad to see you all together and listening you tell the stories what happened in the cult. Ava looks amazing. I didn't recognize her at all. Loved this video. Thanks for sharing with us!

  • @audraprice4142
    @audraprice4142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Okay, wait WHAT??..obviously Paul doesn't know anatomy. There is no possible way you can choose what the sex of a baby will be by deciding when to have sex. That just blows my mind.
    I am so happy y'all got out of there. I have learned so much about the life y'all grew up in. I had never even heard of this until I started watching your show. I really enjoy watching your videos, so keep them coming.

  • @dorothymonza
    @dorothymonza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love getting to be a fly on the wall to these conversations! It's amazing to see you all doing well--you are all so strong! Would love to see a part 2 and part 3!

  • @adaywithroandkay5532
    @adaywithroandkay5532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh my gosh, those adorable little baby faces 😍 I’m so proud of all of you for working to give the next generation a better life ❤️

    • @teamcougars
      @teamcougars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right?! Amanda should send this video to everyone she knows still in the order so she can show them how much they’ve been lied to about life outside the cult ❣️❤️‍🩹❣️

  • @DawnReneeDC
    @DawnReneeDC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I clicked so fast to watch this. I ABSOLUTELY love your channel. So glad that all of you escaped. I didn't even recognize Ava, everyone looks amazing

    • @Dee-ur1hk
      @Dee-ur1hk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ME TOO!!!

  • @flutterbybird13
    @flutterbybird13 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending love and appreciation your way 🦋🦋🦋

  • @sheilaburgos4052
    @sheilaburgos4052 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes please parts 2 and 3

  • @AlexandraG_
    @AlexandraG_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I clicked as soon as I seen this notification! Loving these videos interviewing other ex members! Fascinating, love and support Amanda ❤ 💕

  • @erinbrown6962
    @erinbrown6962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Amanda!!! I hope you are well! OMG AVA!!!!!! I totally remember her for the show. Her story broke my heart but her strength was so remarkable!!!! ( just like all you girls), You girls are giving people so much hope and proving that we can do ANYTHING!!!! thank you again for sharing so much!!! You give me strength!!!

  • @HughMadBro
    @HughMadBro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Y’all are doing this with such class & strive 💜🖤 so damn proud of all of you & you’ve all grown into such gorgeous moms & ladies 🥺🤷🏼‍♀️😭

  • @cutthroatpixie
    @cutthroatpixie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    did not recognize michelle from the show at all! she looks so much happier :] i always enjoy these chat style videos, looking forward to the next two parts.

  • @maddiedoyle8
    @maddiedoyle8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my goodness!! It is so good to see michelle. I'm from the uk and cant watch every episode of escaping polygamy but I often think about everyone from the show and how they are now. I've not managed to see or hear any updates of Michelle's since she was emancipated. Keep spreading the awareness! If your from the cult and happen to be reading this. Please get help and get out. Theres a life out here for all of you and I promise most of us are so welcoming!

  • @faithbejin3799
    @faithbejin3799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I just saw Avas episode last night and she looks so much happier and confident!

  • @LolaUnwinona
    @LolaUnwinona 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it when you do casual conversations like this for videos! Love seeing the old flyers and photos too!

  • @themedicdroidx10
    @themedicdroidx10 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So so interesting thank you for sharing and allowing us to listen in. Yes I would really love to see parts 2 and 3.

  • @deannamack2199
    @deannamack2199 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truly enjoy all of your videos, but these types are my favorite! It's heartwarming to see you ladies thoroughly enjoying yourselves without all that Cult BS keeping you mundane. ❤from Ohio

  • @giigity
    @giigity 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, please post part 2 & 3! Thanks for letting us join in!

  • @elizabethfish5593
    @elizabethfish5593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg Rachel looks just like you! I don't remember noticing that on the show but it's wild how much you guys look alike.
    Love your videos so much. I'm so fascinated with the order and flds. I literally only have notifications turned on for your channel and Sam & Melissa's so I fully geeked out when you guys did your videos together!
    Keep uo

  • @SuzyQ8296
    @SuzyQ8296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom didn't grow up in order or a cult. But at public school in late 50's early 60's and in magazines that how to be a good wife sounded almost word for word what my taught me.

  • @Dee-ur1hk
    @Dee-ur1hk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y'all are so incredible!! You look so happy. I'm so sorry for all the pain you have gone threw. What am incredible journey you all have been on. I know our Father In Heaven is so PROUD of your all. The strength it has taken to leave AND stand your ground and follow your path. I know each and everyone of you (no matter where your are in your journey) are so incredibly loved and valued. I feel like all of you amazing and strong women have supported each other. Hang in there. I would love to see more of that book. Thank you for sharing your stories with all of us. ♥️

  • @susanmoran692
    @susanmoran692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fun video! Can’t wait to watching 2&3.

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good to see Ava/Michelle happy and doing well 🥰❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @MagicPranksJohn
    @MagicPranksJohn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Haha!! It's so funny watching you read, how to be a good wife. Haha!!! "I want to burn this." You always end on the best part. Now I gotta watch next episode. Haha

  • @shaquanacanada6678
    @shaquanacanada6678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ava looks amazing. Its so good to see her in one or f your videos. Im so happy for you guys and I love you Amanda

  • @michelefizer2774
    @michelefizer2774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love all your videos, Amanda. Thank you for educating us! Love and blessings from Virginia 😘

  • @aramintaverwys1934
    @aramintaverwys1934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes!!!! Both parts please Amanda!!! 💜💜💜💜

  • @8AmazingAcres
    @8AmazingAcres 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video, seeing you all happy and free to be yourselves now makes my heart happy!

  • @Kollenesnow
    @Kollenesnow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They stopped using real crystal for the glass.
    Probably cuz we were banishing their demons with sound frequency lol. 🍷

  • @nodawnnoday34
    @nodawnnoday34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh I’m so glad that Michelle is okay!!!

  • @mkwythes
    @mkwythes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos!!!
    I think you might be able to fidget with your camera settings to adjust the size frame it’s recording in to fix the warped effect, or it might be the sizing of the frame in your editor. Just a tip 💖

  • @forgetmenot5226
    @forgetmenot5226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such inspirational women, thanks for sharing your experiences.
    Any chance part 2&3 could have a subtitles? The auto generated ones are terrible.

  • @camariebrooke2082
    @camariebrooke2082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clicked instantly 😍 love you Amanda!

  • @ashleykirby9591
    @ashleykirby9591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely do more videos like this . It would be great to see everyone that has left .

  • @jamparker969
    @jamparker969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these types of videos! Please post the other parts!

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Even Paul’s voice is so evil sounding he is proof that the devil is walking amongst us every single day 😈

  • @bookworm481
    @bookworm481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please post part 2 and 3. I love your videos!

  • @jessicajurado5395
    @jessicajurado5395 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah, this video was everywhere. Either way, I enjoy it. Glad many of you ladies are happy and escaped the brainwashed. You lovely power ladies are warriors.

  • @dajanaj3090
    @dajanaj3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I didn't recognize ava happy that she is also doing great 😍

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amanda can you please do an update for us on Mandy? Did she ever get her dad to a safe place? I hope 🤞 She was so strong and persistent trying to get him to safety ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @jenniferhuff4895
      @jenniferhuff4895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would like to hear about Mandy as well. I think she is a great and brave daughter.

  • @emilymorgan334
    @emilymorgan334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this type of video definitely want to see the rest

  • @saraxhoney
    @saraxhoney 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes please for part 2 and 3!! ♡

  • @meowmeg7624
    @meowmeg7624 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so intrigued And fascinated by your videos thanks for sharing all you do

  • @ElizaEbbyOlsen1313
    @ElizaEbbyOlsen1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Part 2&3 for sure!!! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @swimgirl24
    @swimgirl24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such beautiful and strong women!! I’m so happy your children will be raised outside of such insanity. We need better laws. You’re totally right that girls shouldn’t be forced to be married at 16!

  • @emilysilver9844
    @emilysilver9844 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They would be taking an annual inventory or quarterly for taxation purposes - depreciation of assets etc

  • @kmackblack
    @kmackblack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amanda you and your sister look so much alike! All 4 beautiful ladies and such an easy convo to listen to. You warned at the beginning it’s “chaotic” but I disagree. It’s just casual and natural.

  • @Tootsie-yj1rz
    @Tootsie-yj1rz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amanda you should do updates on the people that were on escaped polygamy

  • @katlizski
    @katlizski 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When he was talking about the timing to be with your wife there's a book called" The baby dust method" to help determine the sex of your baby. I have three boys and my last was a girl this method actually worked for us.but creepy that he telling everyone this do the group has more girls.

  • @mackenzie-deltadurocher
    @mackenzie-deltadurocher 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to see part 2 and 3!

  • @aliyahahmadjan3327
    @aliyahahmadjan3327 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this 💕😇 everyone’s so happy.

  • @greatjob_barbara
    @greatjob_barbara 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for letting us in

  • @longlifeprinters9
    @longlifeprinters9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is so ironic that he was talking to men about needing more girl babies for the men to marry later, basically saying we don't want some of you men around because we want more wives for ourselves. (I know, "for their exaltation"). This system is messed up, no matter how righteous they think they are living.

  • @allanachittick4657
    @allanachittick4657 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amanda's eye rolling KILLS ME

  • @RosesandBlingPapercrafts
    @RosesandBlingPapercrafts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how in the covenant they assume that all women will be able to have children 😳

  • @AlexandraG_
    @AlexandraG_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't wait for part 2 and 3 😊

  • @suemiller3405
    @suemiller3405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not just the polygamists that instruct the wives to be like that! I was in a very unhappy marriage and I read Christian books telling me how to be a "good wife" and tried all kinds of things so that my husband would love me. It didn't work. I donated a big stack of books on how to make my marriage work when he left me.

  • @smileyhannah021
    @smileyhannah021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @AmandaRae, the Order marriage covenant sounds nearly EXACTLY like how the LDS temple sealing covenant does. Of course, LDS members only believe in monogamy. Thanks for this insight! So interesting to see what they took from the LDS church and twisted it.

  • @jakemann280
    @jakemann280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could you make a video talking about the girl problem in the order? That’s so crazy that’s it like a rarity to have a daughter. Is because all the girls are leaving? Also keep up the great work!

  • @tarabrowning1872
    @tarabrowning1872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rachel with her blonde hair looks just like you Amanda ❣️

  • @catperson6937
    @catperson6937 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Want to see 2 and 3 please!

  • @hellodenise9612
    @hellodenise9612 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The world could use some of those rules now!

  • @tammyboss91
    @tammyboss91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hell yeah I wanna see all the parts

  • @findingpeace1550
    @findingpeace1550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did it end? Part 2 and 3?! You mean I have to wait for them?!! I love comparing your cult to mine. It’s so interesting!

  • @tiad2125
    @tiad2125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been wondering what happen to Rachel and "Ava"! I've literally rewatched all the episodes of escaping polygamy 5x if not more...will there be more episodes?!

  • @Dexy83
    @Dexy83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amanda, I just listened to a podcast about Lucas Call. It's about abuse/murder of a child whose mother was reported to CPS after she refused to baptize her children in the Morman cult. (Not sure which sect) There's a lot more, but I instantly thought of your videos about disabled people and their treatment. 🤯🤬

  • @IshaSoul
    @IshaSoul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In the wedding vows, I read the phrase “unwedded husband” and at first I thought it was a typo but then I saw it was in there twice. I’m guessing this has to do with polygamy?
    Maybe you answer this in the video I’m only 6 minutes in. I’ll edit this if I find the answer.
    Btw I enjoy this style of video. Just to be able to listen in while you all chat about your experiences.

    • @smileandnod
      @smileandnod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was wondering that too!

  • @helenpennington3901
    @helenpennington3901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Amanda, first you should b very proud of yourself you've overcome many things and achieved even more well done it take courage to do what you and the other ladies have done o and of course the men.
    You have educated this older woman thankyou please could you let me know what happened to vanna the young girl that fell pregnant after leaving flds iv often thought about her
    Lot's of hugs to all of you
    Keep smiling

  • @Justme.531
    @Justme.531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've always wondered if (I can't remember if it was your sister or not) the girl who was in an accident and awarded money for it was ever able to get the rest of that money out or did they just keep it ?

    • @Jennifer-bc1yg
      @Jennifer-bc1yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Since Jennifer stayed in the Order (she was bribed by being allowed to marry Michael) I doubt it.

    • @Justme.531
      @Justme.531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jennifer-bc1yg oh yes I remember that now !

  • @tiffanyrose8344
    @tiffanyrose8344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always enjoy your videos... But they need to change the title of that how to be a good wife pamphlet to " some things men can do to help their wife"!! 🤣🤣😂

  • @maggierascon4565
    @maggierascon4565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow so surprised to see Ava

  • @AliceEvelyn93
    @AliceEvelyn93 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadly, this video is so hard to hear all the voices at times.. I personally prefer the interview style. However, love the information and content :)

  • @kcorralejo91
    @kcorralejo91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quick question, what if another man wants to marry a woman who is already a plural wife? 🤔🤔

    • @kamisweet3321
      @kamisweet3321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Order doesn't allow that. They can only marry virgins.

    • @kcorralejo91
      @kcorralejo91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kamisweet3321 thanks for clarifying that.

  • @kasie680
    @kasie680 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those how to be a good wife come from the 40s-50s you can find them in old magazines 🙈🙊

  • @cassidynichols-dahill1066
    @cassidynichols-dahill1066 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the second time I’ve heard you mention the 24th of July. What is that?

    • @allisoneames8634
      @allisoneames8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a holiday in Utah called Pioneer Day. It’s like the 4th of July again

  • @michaelcantu4850
    @michaelcantu4850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the show coming back

  • @embethperidot2969
    @embethperidot2969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wasn´t in the Order or anything like that, but I feel like it is important for girls who just left the order to wait to have kids until they are more familiar and adapted to their new life. Moms who wait have better salaries, for example. Please, not trying to tell people what they should do, just expressing my input here. It is important to recover and take care of yourself first to be able to take care of somebody else.

    • @allisoneames8634
      @allisoneames8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone’s journey is different. There is no right or wrong way of life. Of course there is an ideal picture society paints for families but not everyone will fit that and that doesn’t mean those parents are any less capable.

  • @saltytomato84
    @saltytomato84 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The FLDS, AUB and others also celebrate July 24th. It’s my birthday. 🥳 😑🤣

    • @kenk3843
      @kenk3843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a Utah(Mormon Founders) holiday.....not a polygamous holiday.

    • @saltytomato84
      @saltytomato84 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kenk3843 founders were polygamists lol

    • @kenk3843
      @kenk3843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saltytomato84 you're right:) but most the state still celebrates the holiday

  • @amandamandirola9797
    @amandamandirola9797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I wanna know what you guys really think of the potential true story of Mormonism where it wasn’t a God or angels or anything it was a lizard they gave him the keys? I would love to know your thoughts.

  • @amyeli33
    @amyeli33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. He thought he knew when you could have a boy vs. a girl. I don't think that is accurate.

  • @tiffersakasnimeandcatlover46
    @tiffersakasnimeandcatlover46 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to hear more about you guy's cult

  • @kcorralejo91
    @kcorralejo91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also, will jessica ever resurface? You should invite her to your channel as well

  • @pickypants9696
    @pickypants9696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your videos, but you're right. This video was really disjointed and difficult to follow and listen to with everyone talking over each other. 😊

  • @sarinabina7068
    @sarinabina7068 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's a good argument against what these men are doing: The amount of male and female births are almost 50/50. If God wanted people to practice polygamy, wouldn't he make more women than men? The fact that they don't have enough women to make this work should be a sign to them

  • @kaylahall1219
    @kaylahall1219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    They straight up stole words from LDS ceremonies! I feel like they are perverted and twisted though.

  • @ANNEWHETSTONE
    @ANNEWHETSTONE 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So many unwritten rules and things not explained. Or told horrible things if you leave. Sounds familiar. Im so glad you and your sisters/ friend were able to get out of there.
    Some of the Mennonites of south America are very similar. Thankfully i did not grow up that way. More FLDS. Baby making machines and very cut off from the outside world.

    • @lel7841
      @lel7841 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are Mennonites in South America? Wtf....

  • @brittanysellars5267
    @brittanysellars5267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why dose this church has so much in common in the lds church not flds church

  • @Smokeguy583
    @Smokeguy583 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you still helping people

  • @ummerfarooq5383
    @ummerfarooq5383 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iyas son of Abdullah son of Abu Dhubab reported the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) as saying:
    Do not beat Allah's handmaidens, but when Umar came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and said: Women have become emboldened towards their husbands, he (the Prophet) gave permission to beat them. Then many women came round the family of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) complaining against their husbands. So the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: Many women have gone round Muhammad's family complaining against their husbands. They are not the best among you.
    Sunan Abi Dawud, 2146
    In-Book Reference: Book 12, Hadith 101
    English Reference: Book 11, Hadith 2141
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    • @shaanhashmi5836
      @shaanhashmi5836 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is absolutely no point to post this comment within this forum ESPECIALLY without providing context and extended definition regarding the content. Please erase this post..
      Look at the decency of those thousands of viewers whom did not write negative responses.. Thank you

    • @ummerfarooq5383
      @ummerfarooq5383 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shaanhashmi5836 _The name Shaan is primarily a male name of Indian origin that means Pride._