Western culture is different than ours. In West, most children live on their own after a certain age, hence getting married and living with the partner is not that emotional for them. In India, most children live with their parents until they get married and thats why it's more emotional that her house/relationships change drastically. Infact in East India, in certain section of society, its the groom that leaves his parent's house and live with the girl's family. Add to that, the idea of arranged marriage.
In India , for a daughter it's a great pain to leave her parents.... Parents love their kids till the day they die.. immortal love here between parents and kids... cannot explain more ..
Great reaction. Loved it. From what I've seen of this film (DHADKHAN), Shilpa is manipulated by her father to get married to a man of his choosing, and that is why she looks terrified, or heartbroken even. Her mother is understanding, but is unable to stand up to her stubborn husband, because he threatens to kill himself if his daughter marries the man she loves. I don't think I could hug my father the way she did after that. You're absolutely right, the style of singing is 'Qawwali', and it derives from Sufism. This type of music and singing is mostly devotional. Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan became an International icon for his 'Qawwali' singing, and he performed live at many prestigious venues around the world including the Royal Albert Hall :)
In India, a girl's life changes after marriage. Once she was a family member in her parents home after marriage she becomes a guest in her parents home and becomes a family member in her husband's home. This over night change in girl's life makes her and her parents emotional at the time of leaving her parents home.
Brides are usually very nervous and yes to some extent terrified even as they have to leave their family, their old home, had to change their life to go to a new home to spend it with their partner and his family..there are added responsibilities,added expectations..It's not that they lose connection from their parents, she still has her old family but priorities change..The house which was her home whole life becomes her maternal home..It's a bittersweet moment for every girl where there is happiness of getting your life partner but pain of going away from parents.. Here she was so upset because she had to leave her first love and marry the guy of her father's choice.. She is heartbroken from leaving her love and her family both although later it turns out that her father indeed chose the best ever guy for her but at this point she is sad...
That's why divorce rates remain low in India .. as so many people are emotionally involved in your wedding . Just imagine that if there is so much weeping on a happy occasion .. what's gonna happen if the couple decides that they are bored of each other. If you get divorced for petty reasons then your family name is ruined and nobody would want to have any future alliance with your family .. there is a lot at stake. But if marriage is abusive .. then only divorce is acceptable to society by and large.
It does feel like a loss in a real life too. Been through it and no matter how far or close you live, it is just difficult to leave your childhood home and family. In this case there is not only the pain of leaving the family but also the fact that her marriage was forceful
Yes they can meet . They can come. This song is mainly between father and daughter. How he take care to this moment when she will be someone else. Hard
No it's not like that ,they can't come back from their husbands house to her father's house, they can come but not for much days. One day they have to go back to their husbands house. So this is the grief that she is leaving her father her mother. And the house where she was since the birth but now onwards this is not her home. Now her home is her husband's home. This is the after merriage ritual know as vidaai or bidaai ( means she is going to say good bye to her parents and her home) 😊
Yess they can meet anytime they want, as in indian culture children’s doesn’t leave their parents untill unless they have job in other city. So the girl leave their parents at the time of marriage. That is why wedding is mixture of lots of happiness and dance. On the other hand a little pain of leaving parents
Qawali is a form of singing quite special with meaningful lyrics Before there was often a qawali in many indian movies but nowadays qawalis have almosy disappeared in films Coming to the wedding scene itself iy is called bidaai or rukhsati What happened on oldet times is that often when a girl from a village got married to some guy from another village she would not have the opportunity to visit her parents for years and maybr fr z whole lifetime Thats why bidaai songs are always so emotional because they are so meaningful When hindus get married they make seven vows and in the last one they wsh that their coffin comes out of their hiusbands house meaning that they hope to spend their whole life with the husband and never break their weddng
This is the whole meaning of the scene u have watched from movie dhadkan I suggest that u watch a qawali ftom the movie Veer Zaara For sure u will love it
When I hear this song i am crying because I have a sister when sister marry they going another house ❤️ but at same time we are happy now new relationship start
She is sad because she has to leave her parents. Also in this movie she was not allowed to marry the man she loved. But got arranged marriage with akshay.
In India, marriage is not a matter between two persons. Its a marriage between families and still at many places even villages get involved. So many emotions are invested that two strangers do their best to make it work. No wonder divorce rate is so less in India.
A Brit Reacts To Bollywood!! WoW I'm Lhiak British Born from Oxford City, UK in England🇬🇧you're reaction to songs and explaining those stories lines of movies is fantastic and interesting in listening to and watching, please please please could you react to this Superhit Madhuri Dixit song"Oh Mere Rajkumar" from the(1996) Movie:- "Rajkumar" its a big movie made upon a huge scale an the songs in Rajkumar we're shown by the late choreographer Saroj Khan ji and Madhuri Dixit's dancing talent and moves will shock you leave you speechless💖💖💖She's Queen Of Our hearts💖💖💖 too and that..Amen Amen
Its funny, In the west the bride enjoys and their is no "not enjoying" part in the marriage and then get divorced in 2 - 5 years but in India, they dont "seem to enjoy" but literally live with each other till death parts them!! 😂
Check out Taboo by peter Gabriel and Nusrat Fateh for movie natural born killer to kinda see his control on vocal range and why hes consider a legend. Take care
It's a loss for girl's father and her mother ...marriage in India is nyc but not good for father and mother ....they gave birth to her and gave their daughter to other family ...
You should to react to the songs of B Praak ➡️ Filhall ➡️ Filhaal 2 ➡️ Besharam Bewaffa ➡️ Qismat 2 His voice lets you feel every emotion 😥 ▶️ 😊 ▶️ 🤗 ▶️ 😭▶️ 😍▶️ 😁 ▶️ 💔
Western culture is different than ours. In West, most children live on their own after a certain age, hence getting married and living with the partner is not that emotional for them. In India, most children live with their parents until they get married and thats why it's more emotional that her house/relationships change drastically. Infact in East India, in certain section of society, its the groom that leaves his parent's house and live with the girl's family.
Add to that, the idea of arranged marriage.
Well Said ✌👍
it's forced marriage
@@worlddictionary662I will not disagree, almost 50 -60 % of arrange marriage are forced one only..
Shadi se pahle physical hone se lakh guna acchi he ye shadi
In India , for a daughter it's a great pain to leave her parents.... Parents love their kids till the day they die.. immortal love here between parents and kids... cannot explain more ..
7:57 hahaha, in indian culture i believe the youngers touch feet of elders for blessings
Great reaction. Loved it.
From what I've seen of this film (DHADKHAN), Shilpa is manipulated by her father to get married to a man of his choosing, and that is why she looks terrified, or heartbroken even. Her mother is understanding, but is unable to stand up to her stubborn husband, because he threatens to kill himself if his daughter marries the man she loves. I don't think I could hug my father the way she did after that.
You're absolutely right, the style of singing is 'Qawwali', and it derives from Sufism. This type of music and singing is mostly devotional. Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan became an International icon for his 'Qawwali' singing, and he performed live at many prestigious venues around the world including the Royal Albert Hall :)
In India, a girl's life changes after marriage. Once she was a family member in her parents home after marriage she becomes a guest in her parents home and becomes a family member in her husband's home. This over night change in girl's life makes her and her parents emotional at the time of leaving her parents home.
Brides are usually very nervous and yes to some extent terrified even as they have to leave their family, their old home, had to change their life to go to a new home to spend it with their partner and his family..there are added responsibilities,added expectations..It's not that they lose connection from their parents, she still has her old family but priorities change..The house which was her home whole life becomes her maternal home..It's a bittersweet moment for every girl where there is happiness of getting your life partner but pain of going away from parents..
Here she was so upset because she had to leave her first love and marry the guy of her father's choice.. She is heartbroken from leaving her love and her family both although later it turns out that her father indeed chose the best ever guy for her but at this point she is sad...
The bride is all the more sad because she's forced into a marriage against her will
That's why divorce rates remain low in India .. as so many people are emotionally involved in your wedding .
Just imagine that if there is so much weeping on a happy occasion .. what's gonna happen if the couple decides that they are bored of each other.
If you get divorced for petty reasons then your family name is ruined and nobody would want to have any future alliance with your family .. there is a lot at stake.
But if marriage is abusive .. then only divorce is acceptable to society by and large.
Qader Khan did a great job lip syncing the song and with the body movements agh
It does feel like a loss in a real life too. Been through it and no matter how far or
close you live, it is just difficult to leave your childhood home and family.
In this case there is not only the pain of leaving the family but also the fact that her marriage was forceful
After marriage she never remain the family member she will be for the husband house for rest of the life
As it's so called soulmate...
loved the reaction ....omg where do u get such recommendations to react. superb a great song
Yes they can meet . They can come.
This song is mainly between father and daughter. How he take care to this moment when she will be someone else.
Hard
No it's not like that ,they can't come back from their husbands house to her father's house, they can come but not for much days. One day they have to go back to their husbands house. So this is the grief that she is leaving her father her mother. And the house where she was since the birth but now onwards this is not her home. Now her home is her husband's home. This is the after merriage ritual know as vidaai or bidaai ( means she is going to say good bye to her parents and her home) 😊
Wow u feel they whole moment ❤ just love your reaction
Yess they can meet anytime they want, as in indian culture children’s doesn’t leave their parents untill unless they have job in other city. So the girl leave their parents at the time of marriage. That is why wedding is mixture of lots of happiness and dance. On the other hand a little pain of leaving parents
This is how Indian Arrange marriages are like
Qawali is a form of singing quite special with meaningful lyrics
Before there was often a qawali in many indian movies but nowadays qawalis have almosy disappeared in films
Coming to the wedding scene itself iy is called bidaai or rukhsati
What happened on oldet times is that often when a girl from a village got married to some guy from another village she would not have the opportunity to visit her parents for years and maybr fr z whole lifetime
Thats why bidaai songs are always so emotional because they are so meaningful
When hindus get married they make seven vows and in the last one they wsh that their coffin comes out of their hiusbands house meaning that they hope to spend their whole life with the husband and never break their weddng
And come back to their parents house
This is the whole meaning of the scene u have watched from movie dhadkan
I suggest that u watch a qawali ftom the movie Veer Zaara
For sure u will love it
If you like her, you should watch her in the song Shut up and bounce from the film Dostana. This movie Dhadkan was an imposition hit.
All Time Greatest Song 💞
When I hear this song i am crying because I have a sister when sister marry they going another house ❤️ but at same time we are happy now new relationship start
She is sad because she has to leave her parents. Also in this movie she was not allowed to marry the man she loved. But got arranged marriage with akshay.
7:27 brother wana tell u 1 thing at the that spot nusrat sb vocal scale is soo high no one can touch this ❤ n no one xan do ever
Bride can visit her parents, but after marriage it will be not like before...
In India, marriage is not a matter between two persons. Its a marriage between families and still at many places even villages get involved.
So many emotions are invested that two strangers do their best to make it work. No wonder divorce rate is so less in India.
I am laughing at your reaction 😅😅😅
Love this movie and the music .. watched it so many time 💕💕
A Brit Reacts To Bollywood!! WoW I'm Lhiak British Born from Oxford City, UK in England🇬🇧you're reaction to songs and explaining those stories lines of movies is fantastic and interesting in listening to and watching, please please please could you react to this Superhit Madhuri Dixit song"Oh Mere Rajkumar" from the(1996) Movie:- "Rajkumar" its a big movie made upon a huge scale an the songs in Rajkumar we're shown by the late choreographer Saroj Khan ji and Madhuri Dixit's dancing talent and moves will shock you leave you speechless💖💖💖She's Queen Of Our hearts💖💖💖 too and that..Amen Amen
You would watch it Mathews it's a masterpiece
Dharkan means heart beeping
Love this song soo much you should do dilwale dulhania le jayenge it’s such a good song
Love Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan
You should watch the movie. You will love it.
Its funny, In the west the bride enjoys and their is no "not enjoying" part in the marriage and then get divorced in 2 - 5 years but in India, they dont "seem to enjoy" but literally live with each other till death parts them!! 😂
Thank you so much for this song l really love this song
Nusrat Alli Fateh Khan Singh ,I'm laughing 😂😂
Kadar sir acting ♥️
wonderful movie ❤
It's kawwali for wedding ceremony
Check out Taboo by peter Gabriel and Nusrat Fateh for movie natural born killer to kinda see his control on vocal range and why hes consider a legend. Take care
React to chabeela song from sawariya it hss rani Mukherjee she is fabulous performer
He must react to that song , he'll be amazed .
Bro how did you get into hindi movies and songs,?
This is Indian marriage sir
You have to see satyam shivam sundaram film song
2:20
Matt could you please react to the song "Aksar is duniya mein" from Dhadkan movie...
💓It's worth reacting too.
It's a loss for girl's father and her mother ...marriage in India is nyc but not good for father and mother ....they gave birth to her and gave their daughter to other family ...
Only Indian can understand this song
Also Pakistani 😢❤
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In India marriage is very expensive decoration and all
Plz watch qawali from movie Veer Zaara
AAYA TERE DAR PAR DIWANA
Indian song written in Pakistani language sung by Pakistani singer
Hey react Shilpa sherry song aksar is duniya me (dhadkan)
Good joice movie reaction bro
Please reat on yeh to " such hai ki bhagwan hai " song from Hum sath sath hai movie
Reaction this movie pleasee🙏🖤
Pls react to the song KONCHUM MAINAKKALE frm the tamil film KANDUKONDEN KANDUKONDEN plsss.......
Yes it is not we'll marriage you should watch movie
React to songs from Andaaz and Bewafaa also starring Akshay Kumar around the same timeframe (early 2000s)....I think you'll love those too
React aakshay and Shilpa Shetty song Na Na Kartey pyar.
Please react on song 'kun faya kun' song from Rockstar film
Coz she is in love with someone else
You should to react to the songs of B Praak
➡️ Filhall
➡️ Filhaal 2
➡️ Besharam Bewaffa
➡️ Qismat 2
His voice lets you feel every emotion 😥 ▶️ 😊 ▶️ 🤗 ▶️ 😭▶️ 😍▶️ 😁 ▶️ 💔
She looks so sad because it is Bollywood
Why bro, why are you reacting to an hindi song 😂😂😂😂
next song please ➡️ Aksar Is Duniya Mein 🙏🙏🙏💕
Shilpa Shetty's wedding dress by far the most tackiest. Pakistani Singers are the only reason i like the country.
Thank God u like something about us 🤣
@@alover466 init, at least Pakistan got some credit for this song 🤣