Best Time to Move Out Of Parent's House?
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When I moved out my parents house my depression went lower
Sad how y'all hate your families typical
@@riverdaletales8457 sad that some families ruin kids lives.
You are so lucky. I wish I could move out of my parents house. I hate it when my parents tell me what to do
@@jonjonboi3701 stack your paper up keep working hard you’ll get there
that’s the dream dude 🙏🏼 hope you’re doing better
At 22 I left home and my life got much better, honestly the best time to leave is if you’re done school and working making solid income, flap your wings and fly. Leaving home doesn’t mean you don’t see the family again, it changes the whole dynamic and the entire routine day to day.
Isn't the best time at college so you can make friends and discover the new area?
@@heyyou4688 “make friends” that won’t ever matter in the long run. Best time to move out is when you’re stable and can build yourself up. Once you’re financially free. Then you can build a family and maybe take care of your parents to pay back what they’ve done for you and keep a strong extended family. Or at least that’s what I’m trying to do by the time i have a family. Trust me, once they see you visibly grow with with the amount of responsibility you’ve taken your parents will most likely give you all the responsibility and let you do you. They won’t appear as naggy as they once were because they’ve done all the stressing for years and are over it.
@@bigsmall2842 I think that depends on your values in life
@@bigsmall2842 i like what you said ✌🏻
So true! I don't get when some people get so bent out of shape over the concept of young adults flying the nest.
Becoming independent is _NOT_ tantamount to "abandoning" your parents!
And parents teaching their kids to be self-sufficient adults is _NOT_ "abandoning" your daughter or son!
I’m 22 , I just moved out. I save 25% of my income. Feels amazing.
Peter Muturi so I save 95% and stay home
Is that 25% of your annual income?
I save 95% of my income but im depressed as heck living here lol. If i rent, ill be able to save only 30% of income
KyleTVProductions depressed? Why
@@Countcho mee too. Im 21 still living with my parents and saving 60-70% of my income. But i feel depressed asf.i guess Dave is right, as soon as your wings are big and strong enough then it's time to jump. That's how we learn to fly.
I feel like for myself I need to leave. Its called growing up I don't feel like life is always great there are ups and downs you gotta learn sometime .
Thank it’s like you have to face your own challenge 💯mothers and some father love is great but you just have to face life yourself ❗️parents mean well but gotta grow on your own at some point
@Justice Stanford I'm in your shoes. I want to move out early January next year, but I'm gonna wait and save up money. Plus school isn't open for in person classes until next year August
@Justice Stanford I too feel the same way; want to move out, but the cost of renting in my area is insane + I am looking to find what I really want to do in life as my current job is not very great and has no real future in my eyes
I want to move out too man. I feel bad. I feel like I'm not a real man due to the fact I still depend on my parents. I will be sad when I leave my parents but on the bright side I'm not thinking about moving far away from them. The problem is I'm going to school and I don't think I'm capable of working at the same time and be able to keep up with the workload I get for school. Only time I could work is in the summer. I'm graduating this year so I'm planning on moving out next year. The rent in California is high but I'm gonna stick around here for while than move out to a different state.
@@shadow-man8715 dude, don’t feel bad. The US is the most individualistic country in the entire world, but that doesn’t mean that it’s world/cultural views are correct. Are people in other countries not men because they don’t have (and have never had) American ideals? Of course not! That being said, you can’t be extremely lazy if you live with your parents. At that point it’s detrimental. For example, if you’re 18-22 and wait until you graduate college to leave, that’s perfectly ok. Or, you could be learning a trade or skill. As long as you are improving yourself or doing something productive, don’t feel ashamed.
You don't want to be a mooch, however, living with parents can be a huge financial jumpstart for young people. Pay your fair share, but try to build as big of a cash pile as possible and develop discipline before you move out, you'll have a huge advantage.
In my case, it's a financial burden. Not much in savings and in debt because my fam can't seem to pay for bills on time and don't bother to help with groceries or house hold necessities. Getting married in a couple months and they will have a rude awakening once I leave home.
No privacy, also in America evryone has a separate bedroom of their home and big houses , here in India we live in box houses, I hate it , no privacy
@@JV-bc8um Same here, I help pay the whole family phone bill that’s around 300* and wifi etc on top of that they ask me for more money that I can have in my savings, I literally had 5k saved up but they need it. I bought a 2015 Dodge Charger cash but after I got my saving back up all gone but I love my parents but I need to move out already, I have discipline with bills and money management but living with them and helping them all the time will burden me.
honestly investing is better at the young age than regular saving up especially with how fast inflation is increasing
@@investigate711 yeah I got into investing this year right after I graduated from college and Im glad I did.
staying home if you have a good relationship with family can be a great kickstarter. I stayed and saved over 30k in 2 years. I paid all of my expenses, contributed by picking up the phone, electric bill and some groceries here and there; which (in comparison to $1100-1300 rent where I live) is easy to budget for. I was pretty much able to put away one paycheck in savings and use the other for bills and expenses every month. I also used this time to over pay on my student loan
Well done😀😊
dannie curlett right
i think you can handle staying at your parents easier because you're a girl. i think men have a stronger need to move out
Mohamed Osama why you say that? I agree with you bro. Just want to know your answer.
@@Suave26 I honestly don't have a definitive answer, but from what I can tell, females are used to being told what to do by someone else, and men are not, little boys are, men aren't. I can only speak for myself, i'm 18 and I do not want to take orders from no body. I know what's good for me and I will do it. i'm not a dumb kid who needs to be told what to do or else he'll hurt himself. so i wanna move out of my parents' home to be free. girls get told what to do when they're young just like boys, but when we're adults husbands tell their wives what to do the whole time and it's been like that since the birth of humans
"I want you to have 3 to 6 months worth of expenses".
Corona Virus: LOL
Weakkkk 😭
Yeah but lawns still need to be cut guy
😂😂😂
I was still working 🤷♀️ and I still am
18 months
There's a BIG difference between a 40 year old living in his mom's basement playing video games all day doing nothing, & a recent college grade, or someone older who just doesn't make enough to get a place of their own, but they work, pay their own bills, help around the house, etc.
That guy is a bum
I make 100,000 per year as software developer with computer science degree age 31 also no kids & no wife
I feel like the faster you accept responsibility is the faster you become an adult no matter what age you are. I swear I became the most happy when I became self sufficient. There’s nothing more fulfilling then listening to your self and supporting yourself. I recently just did a video on the same topic pretty sure y’all will like it. Much love ❤️
I disagree, I would like to say I’m pretty responsible for the most part and I still live at home 21 I don’t make that much, trying to make more. If I moved out I would probably just barely maybe be able to pay all the bills each month rent utilities insurance everything. Why would I do that, just be able to get by and not be able to save, rather than be able to have fun save close to all my money living at home with my mom. Eventually I will have a lot of money saved up to almost buy a house cash. You tell me what’s better. I am working on getting a better income. To each their own though. Edit: also didn’t mention I get along great with my mom and family. I feel closer to her than a lot of other people feel to their moms. She is amazing and I am grateful that she is my mom. It gives us a better family dynamic
@@richardcarlson8272 that’s good stuff actually. In our culture, we can’t abandon our parents, and we are responsible in taking care of them when they get older. They worked hard to give birth and take care of us, and we aren’t even supposed to scoff at them when they say something we don’t like, simply because they are our parents. It stems from religious teachings etc. but I’m glad I learned these values and wouldn’t mind sharing a house with my parents for my whole life.
@@richardcarlson8272 Thats the thing though. Any issues/problems you have when you move out are yours. No one elses.
Children are potentially adults.
@@DiamondScuff I’m the Richard account. I get that, I also get paying bills and things, which is why I’m trying to stay with my mom for a while so I can be financially stable when I do move out. My plan is to have around 200k and no consumer debt when I move out
Dave is right. Kids grow up and feel different when they are supporting themselves. It's called growing up and not mooching off parents.
Too many parents and or/the people they allowed to be in power mooched off their kids’ futures
@karen Hardie What a spot on comment you got right there!!!! I couldn't agree more!!!
@@BlakeAlexander12 i know right? parents are the one whos breaking away futures and healthy lives
My advice as a mid 40’s man. Stay home for awhile but save 50% or more of your income. Don’t blow all your money. Bank it then make a move
Thank you
@@asj4785 your welcome. Hope you do it. Saves you a lot of pain when you get older
What do you think
I'm so ready to get out it ain't even funny.
@beantownn54 im 29 also planning to move out next year in february
Same im tired
Yeah I felt the same when I left about a month ago. I love my family, but it was way past time for me.
Man ong
The same.. I’m 29 years old and clashing with my mother.. feels like I have not a life myself. I want my own place ..
I am 26, works as an elementary school teacher. And i am still living with my parents🙁
That sucks
Same as much as you can and when you move out you move into your own home
Sorry save
@@regs1917 where do you live?
@@regs1917 oh ok. Where I was born most children live in the same house or yard for their entire lives.
I started home until I was 31. I always contributed to the house, but I saved almost $200,000. Because I did this my business has skyrocket and I can live wherever I want
Same plan here. 29, almost have 200k saved. Once I hit that mark I'm moving out. except I'm not starting a business haha, kkudos to you for that
CONGRATULATIONS 🎉 Your parents seem amazing, I’m glad they didn’t make you uncomfortable and you were able to stay that long ! 😩
@@KasiMalula lol I was very uncomfortable, but the future reward allowed me to be motivated
@@benevolent6705 thanks. Very proud of you
@@TheFactorySevendont mind me asking but how much do you charge for to teach me
I'm 21, debt free besides my house. Moved out when I was 18 and I'm glad I did.
Dalton Dunn how did you do it 🤔🤔
How?
howwwww
Dalton Dunn
Tell me how pls
I’m 16 and I can’t wait to leave
Schnauzer God stop asking how and go do it.
You know this man is humble when he says "better than i deserve" to how are you
Or depressed one. Poor Dave has earn every single bit of it to be saying to that. Sad
It's the stupidest/weirdest saying I've ever heard
@@Baz_09 how? lol
Dave is Christian, so
@@Baz_09 fr
Being 19 now I can confidently say i wish i wasn't such a knucklehead 2 years ago, if you're a 15 or 16 year old reading this and you're wondering what the best thing to do is, get a job now it doesn't even have to be a great one, washing dishes, stocking shelves or really anything, if you just subside off of mostly food from home and are able to control your spending habits unlike I was you can be sitting on 40,000 $ in 2 years, looking back on it I really wish I would've taken this approach, once you start stacking up piles of 20$ it gets addicting to save your money
Listen kids he is telling the truth.
same i am 20 and spend 18 year in school for nothing
I’m 16 and I’m just working during the summer making 1000 a paycheck about. I invest 500 every paycheck into my Roth IRA. I only eat my moms food and my only consistent expense is gas for my truck. I just don’t know what I’m gonna do with college. I refuse to take on debt so community college it is. I’ll probably get scholarships but unless it’s a free ride I’m going the cheap route.
@@slugoo6474 Don’t call it a cheap route consider it a smart route ! Same boat gere
35k at 21 is amazing
No it’s not😂
No that’s not amazing at all rayan
Colin Graham It is considering the majority of 21 year olds in the UK are at uni and dept 😂
CORONA VIRUS It is considering the majority of 21 year olds in the UK are at uni and dept 😂
As a 21 year old in college with 6k, I'd say 35k is a lot.
Matie stay at home at 21 and keep saving really REALLY hard rice and beans no fancy restaurants no car leasing etc by the time you are 25 you will be financially independent and you can start a decent life! Good luck
Miklós Kecskés I agree with you. No shame at all in living with family
Yeah, I agree with that, too. Although, realistically, he's not going to be financially independent at 25. But I think staying home for at least another year and saving hard would be a good idea. 5K savings doesn't go far even in moderate cost areas like Tampa.
I mean I understand what you are saying, but 21 and STILL living at home??? That is just way too weird. This guy needs to get out of the house NOW.
21 and living at home is not a big deal as long as he is working hard and saving money, which it sounds like he is.
Nothing wrong at all...but if its no solid end game..trying to move on from it can be difficult. Plus this country in general is a high cost of living and those that become a hindrance make it more difficult.
Everyone nowadays tells you to stay home save up to you are ready which leads to a revolving effect next thing you are 30 years old still living with your parents!
I clicked on this video and this kid just told my exact situation. 21, lawn care business, about 30-40k a year, still livin at home
KEEP living at home! And invest!
Lol, and if you took that advice ^ you’d realize literally the next month how obviously right the comment was
Stay Home And Save For At Least 2 More Years. Don’t Rush To Just Up & Leave
@@BlakeAlexander12 this is the right words right here. Invest your money buy real estate
Stay at home, save Ur money and buy when u can!
After graduating college I never moved back home. I actually planned to but I just never did. I was still able to save 20k one year after graduation and keep up with my finances.
The trick was I lived below my means. I didn’t live at home but I did have roommates and my rent was never over $600 a month.
THIS
I'll be fine living under 700ft². Under 600 is better as long as I pay under $800 or so.
I just couldn’t live with roommates I def need my own space although it is more expensive
If I gotta have roommates I might as well just move back home lol
@@ME-ke3sr yeah I can only live with a select people! People who clean up after themselves and etc. so I get you 100%. Been living on my own for a year now. Will never have roommates again lol. Unless it’s my husband 😂
Moved out at 18 my brother moved out the first time before 18. I wonder how easy life would have been if we had a stable home life but whatever. It was stressful but also fun to do things on my own mostly
A 21 year old in CA, will never make this phone call. Living at home at 25, is the new moving out at 18 in Sunny California 2018.
I am a proud boomerang adult, saving my $$$$ aggressively, and looking to be debt free in 8 months.
Good on you. I'm staying with family at the moment as well and loving it!
Yeah, unfortunately true. I tell most young people who aren't going to be star earners to leave the state if they don't want to live with mom & dad forever and/or be perpetually broke/ in debt.
mysticaltyger2009 I wouldn't be able to leave CA since it is the highest paying state for my profession. Sadly, it is a curse and a blessing.
might have to move out of the state period....harsh reality for many although some will just stay and barely make it
Drummergeorge lol real talk..
Man I’m so lucky my parents are easy going. In my culture you move and get married but I’m 23 and I’m trying to take advantage of living with my parents.
If my parents were toxic I too would move, I’m very lucky to have cool parents.
Do yourself a favour and don’t get married at 23
@@brady8877 yea i probably won’t get married until I’m 40.
Yeah having non toxic parents is a blessing. Stay with them and contribute to the house hold while saving and piling cash.
Ur so lucky.
getting married is a huge huge decision.. but other than that.. you seem like youre on the right path.. keep working hard.
Don’t move out if everyone gets along. Either pay your parents rent or set aside and invest the money saved if you’re allowed to live there free.
Tanah Merah
It DOSENT work where I live
Nathaniel
Welp I’m 16 and I only have half siblings and they all hate me.
I probably will go to college at 18 my gf wants to go to the same college as me so it’ll work out
@Nathaniel that feeling of freedom must feel amazing man👍🏻
No way move out if you can afford it!
If the person giving advice isn't a millionaire I'm not taking it
I still haven’t moved out but I’m looking forward to trying ima be 27 next year when I do
21 and own a few businesses and I’m (hopefully) moving out with my business partner in a few months. A year ago I had no clue where i was headed in life and was pretty depressed. Crazy how things can change so fast!
What’s your income u seem like you’re doing extremely well
That’s amazing. I hope I’ll say the same thing soon cause I’m kinda where you were before😢
@@cmr_77 Keep it up man, just do whatever it takes to reach your goals
I would rent one of those industrial spaces to keep all the equipment and live in it in the back
Industrial spaces? Do explain what this even is.
I would say it depends on your relationship with your parents and your goals. Save and pay off debt if you get along with your parents. If you don’t get along with your parents then move out and move on.
I live in Orange County California where a 1 bedroom apartment costs $2K/month. I pay my mom $500/month to live at home and pay for everything else. I’m currently putting $15K into a 401K and $15k into an index fund investment account.
Houses costs $1M so it’s going to take me a while to save up enough for a down payment.
There are more affordable housing options available
I know 35 year olds with the same mentality living with their parents seems like they are scared to move out and spend money on traveling and restaurants
I agree with what Mr.Ramsey is saying regarding saving an emergency fund and thinking about what to do at 31 or 41. But I don't think that just because the caller is 21 and has things going well for him financially is a reason to move out. The caller needs to be prepared and mature enough to face the other responsibilities and even challenges on this own.
In Hawaii, multigenerational homes are the norm. Part of it is cultural, most of if it's cost. A one person household making 80k can qualify for some low income apartments being built.
Hawaii cost of living is no joke! Many can make it on thier own. Some other states are starting to be the same way that dont have a high cost of living because of the inflation of the country
I have a bunch of friends who lived at home until they're like 28 .
Yes they stacked cash but they're insanely immature still .
You just don't grow up
Literally my brother. He’s 28 and still smooches of mom and dad. He claims he does it because everything’s expensive and he just wants to save money, which would be ok if he at least did his own chores, which he doesn’t. He still acts like a little boy and leaves a mess all throughout the house and demands others to clean it up. He’s annoying he’s almost 30, bearded and balding I don’t know why he’s afraid of being a man and having his own place. He makes like $70k, only gives dad like $200 for “rent” and calls it a day. Whenever he buys pizza he makes it a big deal that he’s buying food for everyone when it’s just 1 box of medium sized pizza lol.
@@Me-eb3wv that's called a loser
I been out my father house sense my teens it’s hard spent many nights on friends couch or floor work smart work hard and stay humble it’s not as easy for anyone that came from a broken home but you can do it never give up god bless
I'm going 24 and I'm still at home, unfortunately renting in Ireland makes moving out impossible with rents in limerick averaging 1200 euros per month. Dublin is worse with rents reaching 2000/2500 a month. The minimum wage might be 10.15 but if your working 40 hours a week to get roughly 420 then it almost takes three weeks working full time to able to afford your rent every month. I honestly see no other opinion but to leave Ireland and get a job abroad if I want to be able to afford living independently. I don't want to work 5 or 6 days a week to just get by on rent each month, I want to work to live and so I can go to work, enjoy it and not constantly be worried about the bills that they stacked on top renters in Ireland. Very few properties have their monthly Bill's covered in the rent. Unless you have a high income in this country then moving out it is extremely difficult.
I'm 23 and in a similar situation but live in London with parents. The rent is even crazier over here.
This is exactly how I feel about Toronto
Yup same I'm 24 and at a dead end job living with my mom. No hope to move out any time soon
there is other options then renting. buy a house or build a house! or even build a tinyhouse!
He makes 35k a year profit but has 5k in the bank. Time out kid.
And he lives at his parents house, so no rent too
@@obamium8385 He didn't say that though
@@Classymarc true
@@obamium8385 no rent ? I live with my parents and I have rent and I wouldn’t expect anything less. If you’re 18 or older you need to either get a job and contribute to the household (or move out) being an adult and not paying rent is a big no no.
@@riverdaletales8457 I make 80k no rent 😁
Best time: when you can afford to do so.
In this day in age, good luck with that.
I'm 20, about to move into my first apartment, after paying off my car and housing and retirement i'm still saving about 25% of my income. Feelsgoodman
I'm 26 living at home with my wife's parents.
@@kingdeedeedee1450 ouch
@@kingdeedeedee1450 loser
@@MrSupercalifragilest F*ck
@@MrSupercalifragilest you deserve that.
I'm still thinking how to move out since I roughly only make $5k per year. This guy calling is making$35k per year holy cow
Don’t move out if you make 5k a year. Find a job that pays you enough to pay rent my man
I am pretty sure you arent in the us becuase 5k a year is 416$ a month which can't be right since the minimum wage is waaay mire than that if so dont worry the us is an expensive place to live in so they also have higher wages all that matters is the cost of living relative to tour income so make some calculations and your good to go
@@A--lex yes I live in Malaysia. Where minimum wage is MR1200 ($277) per month. I once work as security guard, the salary is MR70 ($16) per day for 12 hours of work.
Same here in Portugal, 600$ month how much is rent... In your city?
Luziaf the Loner yea but rent is what $100 in your country
What about a parent who depends on adult children? Some parents are living on disability and social security, wants their children to stay.
Christina Ostil THAT'S ME
What about them?
A parent who depends on adult children due to illness or old age is not at all the same situation as an adult child who is aimlessly mooching off of their parents.
If your parents are mooching off of you, or didn't save for retirement because they assumed you'd take on some obligation to derail your life so you can fund the final third of theirs, well... that's a pretty f****d up situation. They didn't have to be financially responsible during their adulthood because "hey! That's what kids are for - to pay us reparations just for bothering to have them in the first place."
I digress.
More than likely though, truly ill and elderly parents just "don't want you to leave" because, welp, they love you and they're freaking dying. If all they want is to spend the end of their lives around you and maybe their grandbabies, then I'd say that's actually pretty sweet. When my grandmother died, I remember my mom said she would do anything to go back and sacrifice a few years of her independence if it meant those few years could be spent with her dying mother. Right now a few years may seem like a huge chunk of time for us adults to just give away to our parents simply because they're old now, but once they're gone, like in-the-dirt-and-never-coming-back gone, a few years feels so insignificant in comparison to the eternal permanence of their absence.
@@hollygamble15 this is totally eye opening, thanks!
Good stuff!
I got the boot day after high school graduation for smoking weed. It's been a little tough at times, but I've always lived a debt free life....
I wouldn’t move out yet but that’s just me just pay rent and help out and move out in a year or 2 or when you get the money you need to move out.
I’d be scared to talk to Dave because I know that he’s correct me every other word I say
I think if you have a good relationship with your parents you should continue to live with them. Why not? If they are willing to help you save up money and you are putting your fair share into the bills go for it. Your parents are a blessing and one day they won’t be there anymore. So enjoy and make the most of it. Just having that option is a blessing in it of itself.
I'm 19 and I'm moving out tomorrow because there is no job at my city . At least I found out that some of my "friends" are not real friends because they ignored me saying that I'm moving
I don't agree with encouraging young adults to go rent if it's working living at home he should stay and save for a purchase. He can actually help more than hurt the family and himself which in turn helps his family in the long run.
Yeah, people in America, especially the older generations, are completely elitist and have outdated views. The era that this guy grew up in vs our current situation isn’t REMOTELY CLOSE.
Well he has enough to move out and why would that hurt the family? Parents should not be depending on their own children to pay bills like what...
I decided to live on my own
I told my parents to take their belongings
Oh no..
At 35k/year you can live comfortably in Tampa, FL, provided that you are debt free. I've researched apartments there at they are fairly cheap for a 1 bedroom.
Yea and I'm sure they are running rampit whith ghetto thugs
@@mrmacmartinez3290 Facts. I live just outside Tampa, and East Tampa ("Suitcase City") is not a place you want to live if you absolutely do not have to. The cheap apartments DC Johnson is speaking of is Section 8 housing.
@mr macmartinez i was just about to say that...if its cheap its prolly in the hood
TopFlightSecurity415 somewhere relatively cheap for 35/k is not in the hood. There are really good areas even in Georgia and especially rural florida that are completely safe but on the cheaper side
Joy Art Joy not at all
I'm 27 with no kids 💪 single life work for the Airlines but still with my parents 🙃
Nothing to worry about we all have different journeys
In 2023, it is no longer as simple to purchase a place of your own. I know many people criticize the younger genreations for living at home with their parents into their mid 20's, but you almost have to in order to save enough money for a down payment on a home. My parents also were on board with me saving up for a home instead of wasting my money on rent for an apartment. I am now 30 getting ready to get married, have a place of my own and we both have full time jobs with finances not being a concern. It isn't always a bad thing living with your parents a little bit after college. In fact, if your parents are gracious enough to allow that, I would recommend that strategy rather than living paycheck to paycheck at 20 years old wasting your money on an apartment. Buying a house is a much better investment.
Not everybody in the world were raised by caring parents and who are understanding of the economic situation in the present. If I had had the career and savings I have today 10 to 15 years ago, I would have my own home. We are required more just to qualify to rent a studio. A lot of the older generations were lucky to have purchased their homes when everybody could afford to.
I live in India where most people in their late teens and early 20s unless they're moving to a different city for better education. For a typical middle-class family here, staying in the same city and house with your parents and working a job is pretty common so it reduces overall expenditure and increases savings. However, as we move up the social ladder, the children are at liberty to choose what they would prefer to do. So all in all, the best time to move out of your home would probably be when you can afford to do so.
Yes bro same with Hispanic its very common seeing adults still with at their parents houses it's just a cultural thing a lot of non whites share.
*This was a reply message that I wanted to give to one person in this comment section but I feel like many that people that are here need this*
"I'm only 16, I'm not someone smart enough to teach you but I really believe that no one is better or worse than the rest."
I'm watching this video because I want to move out as soon as I can. In a few years I hope to stand on my own two feet. Good luck to everyone else.
i was gone on 17 after high school. never looked back.
Need to move out for my own good, need a better job and get rid of this debt first. Looking to leave at 23
Is it an american culture to just go out of your parents as early as possible? Cause I'm kind of confuse as to why.
It's becoming an adult in American culture. Once you are out of high school and go on to college you move out, but now a days some are still living at home with their parents while attending college. It can be seen as a bad thing, because of social stigma, but what ever works for you
If you find a way to make money somehow at young age, this would be good part of your culture. I live in Turkey. I left the home at 13 cuz my highschool has the campus where you can live as scholarship . now Im 21 and I turn back to my home cuz my university is so close to here and even if I have the money , my parent doesnt encourage me to leave home. My parent's culture is so irrational in some situation and it seems we will have big conflict at this month
Move out because parents be all in business still treat you like a 5 year old like you not allowed to leave house can’t date that woman she no good don’t buy that item, don’t eat that food ect..... nag nag nag make life stressful
Freedom.
Yeah bunch of brainwashed egotistical insecure judging peeps lol
Great advice
I'm 26 and still live at home cause it's way easier with saving a solid amount of money and I also have less independence and stress. Plus I don't have a Girlfriend forcing me to move out or anything Soo I'm happy and I get along with my Parents.
To all the people saying living at home is "free" im saving 95% income. No.... all the free stuff is coming from your parents lol. Rather you admit it or not your paying for your bills or you're parents are....Nothing in life is free.
Yeah but you’re looked at as a complete loser
@@brady8877 by who?? Poor people who are using all their ones on rent and financing cars. Because idk why ppl try to look and pay for more than they can too look cool. I’m front of ppl they don’t like
@@DiamondScuff yes I think it’s amazing when parents do what they’re supposed to do and take care of their kids. You shouldn’t punish kids for living especially if u brought them into the world them wanting to be with you should even be a blessing my parents see their kids even wanting to be home as a good thing
@@maliamalis6389 I agree. But once you are in your mid 20s. Your not a kid. Sure your still your parents children but mentally you are not a kid anymore.
I am 29 years old living with my Mum and Dad in Dublin Ireland, one of the world most expensive cities for housing atm. Moving out is a dream. There is literally no houses or apartments available.
This guy has no idea what Europe is like.
Dave is so out of touch why is he riding someone who makes $35k when the median income is $32k so this guy is making more than over half of the country. He is making well over double minimum wage.
I’m 13 and am making 15k a year
@@eeb7068 That means nothing. It doesn't take away from the median income it is just one data point, your supposed salary.
Median household income for 2018 was $63,179
@@colin1818 I am talking individual. Household doesn't really matter. You may divorce, get widowed, never marry, spouse could lose their job, spouses could be working in a different state.
@@KS-cl8br - Simply dividing by two doesn't give you that answer then. You're over-simplifying. After all, many households only have one person in them yet still have a median income of $63k.
Love my parents respect them a lot. But, especially for men one must make his own decisions and become responsible for your own decisions. You need to start taking care of your parents and relieve your parents from taking care of YOU
He's doing better than most people his age.
It was time to move out when my dad broke a plate over my head
Young Eagles leave the nest when then can fly, and they never return.
Most young humans aren’t eagles then lol
Non of these adult children are acting like eagles, more like bridge dwelling pigeons.
Young eagles don't live in nonsensical capitalist societies. Everything is free for them.
I’m 19 and make 26k a year after tax and want to move out but still don’t feel like I make enough
That’s good for your age. Keep saving till you have enough for a down payment on a house and get a better income in the next couple of years but you are doing well
@@richardcarlson8272 or any apartment if he "lives beneath his means" then he's fine to move.
I'm kinda in this same situation, but I'm a truck driver. 22
My parents pushed me out of the house when I was 18, and as a female, I made it. No parents should allow moochers stay in their houses after 18. NEVER!
Boomer nimbies are the real moochers.
In many other cultures/countries, it is normal however to live with your parents until you're married. My mom saw 18 as a number haha
First video! Subbed!!!
I say as long as your 18 and helping out you can stay to save for a while
that dude is killing it
I’m 19 working full time at Jersey Mike’s at two different locations. I’m am a key holder at both stores. I get 402-45 hours a week and get paid bi-weekly. I make 11.5 an hour. I don’t mind living with my mom and stepdad but my grandma lives there and so do my two sisters, two niece, one nephew. My girlfriend works full tim at Duncan doughnut and is getting a big raise soon or switching jobs to go work at the bank. I just want some privacy
Got any debt?
Still stuck at home. With my mum during lockdown. Not enough money to get my own place. It's tough people. Really is.
where are you from
Im moving out but I was able to get into grad school, fully funded program. They pay for my tuition, housing and stipend for living expenses. It takes a huge load off my parents while I study to get my phd in Chemistry. Ill be having my own plce for a good 5 years and hopefully land a job after my degree work and make the move to a house instead of a one room apartment. Go at your own pace kids! Build a proper long term career. Flipping burgers will not pay a mortage or take care of more than one person in the long run. Dont give in to the peer pressure of society telling you to do something just for the sake of doing something.
Stay at home an keep saving i say
Chris v8 what if you stay at home cant keep saving
Some of us have toxic families
if your family or friend know you have money than they gonna borrow from you and pay later after a few years..🥴
💯
And start investing NOW while he has the change to get really ahead & not waste that opportunity/cost of time
i feel like this kid is just flexing tbh. Good for him though.
I'm helping out my parents with rent, what is your guys opinions on moving out when you're helping them be financially stable? I feel guilty leaving them, and technically I can afford to move out but not sure..
I think that’s very good. I would not move out in my opinion until u have you’re debts paid off a emergency fund and save a down payment for a house. This does not mean once u have this u have to move out right away, but I would at least do this. It good to help out your parents especially since their not financially stable. If I were u I would not get an apartment, that’s just my opinion (unless you’re gonna buy an apartment complex). To me I would rather help my parents, that also means paying less than what you would if u moved out on your own. But to me the biggest thing is personally I do not want to rent only want to buy a house or rental complex. To me renting is wasting money rather have the money go into equity in a house than to just be used on rent
Do what you want honestly, I don't know how old you are but getting out there and adulting is so important so you should keep that in mind. Is there any way they can become financial stable or work more or something. It's so tough situation but it sounds like (even if it's not their intention) that they are holding you back. Obviously they aren't trying to and you are helping them because you love them and that's so kind of you but it's still to an extent, holding you back from doing more in your life. Hope you figure out what you feel is right for YOU and I wish ur parents will❤
Honestly I’m 20 and still living with my parent and but ido know how to start living by myself.
I left my home in India and moved to Australia to study, but the people that I'm living with, I guess they don't match my chemistry and I miss my home so much. There is like so much negative energy in my mind right now as I have never lived far this long from my parents and never have worked and taken care of anything on my own. Now, here I have to work, pay rents and deal with everything on my own and it feels so dark for me right now. Any thoughts what should I do ?
Almost 33 here. Still living with my parents, no car, no debt at all and 300k in savings. Living with my parents was the key for saving this ammount.
Brandon CCB you can buy a house in cash with that kind of money
ominous450 I know but I don't wanna buy a house. I want to invest in stocks and make more money 😊
I'd rather live on my own and have $5k in savings than live with my parents and have $300k saved up.
Lemons19902010 I’d much rather have 300k. I applaud Brandon CCB for having that much money. I don’t think I’ll ever have that much even if I was still with my parents.
Dude that’s not normal
im 19 and moving out at the end of this May- i'm supposed to sign my lease today👍🏼
how is it going so far
Lot’s of young people live with parents till they finish college. My advise, assuming good relationship with the parents, is for him to grow his business till he’s 25 or só while saving to buy a house. No point incurring all the extra cost while still starting his adult life.
If that's what he's doing and his folks are okay with it, then okay. He should at least pay them rent and/or give them a cut of the profits for supporting him while building the business so he's not taking advantage of his parents.
See what I just did there? Not change my stance for the sake of argument and present a viable solution.
Might wanna try it sometime.
I'm planning to move out at 18 while my brother stopped school at is 20 turning 21 this year i' turning 18 this year and will be enlisting in the military and will save 25% of my income until im in my 30s and will probably start a private security company and I also dont want to have kids so i think thats a win win
i am planning to move out at around 28. its just not a financially good idea to move out before then. i am trying to become a doctor and not worrying about my rent and food lets me focus on school at 100% and get really good marks.
He asked nothing about moving out. How did this become a video about moving out?
The caller asked a hidden question that Dave was able to pick up on. Wise man Dave is.
Most people with potential dont make it or reach half of it because of who their raised by.parents with failing kids wont agree an want take a bit of blame either.
After a certain age, it's time to go, unless is a different certain situation and circumstances, but most should be on their own after 18 to young 20s I think, I was out in early 20s and never moved back home, and I love it. It makes you stronger as an individual, and more responsibile,. Good luck to all. 👍🤞
What year did u move out
I dont know how I'm going to move out my parents house, I love em to much
you could always visit, or if that’s not enough it wouldn’t hurt to move back in
I want to buy a big house for my whole family
work very hard! make smart financial decisions & keep faith ! I believe in you 🌟
when i see ppl's life i feel like we in Saudi Arabia live easy life
we have free Education + 300$ salary every month for the University students
here in Saudi Arabia we move from our parents house after we marriage
and the father will bought a car when you are 18
MAY GOD MAKE ALL PPL HAPPY AND SAVE
Dude thats nice
300$ a month is bullcrap unless Saudi has a low tax on real estate i live in the philippines and im in the military my rank currently is a private first class and I earn $600 a month real estate here costs mildly expensive a 2BR/1BR 50 square feet costs $20k.
I need to move out but I don't have any savings, job or business.
I'm 18, still haven't worked a full year yet but I make roughly $1,500 a month from my part time job. Though my parents take half my check to "teach" me about money. But they act like that's just thiers and I still have to pay for a lot of stuff in my own and even ask for more when they want to help others out. I've been working 5 month but only have $2,500 saved. I don't know if they're right or if I should do something about this. To add to this, even the thought of me growing more independent makes them mad and keep guilt tripping me that I don't love them anymore and don't need them. I don't know what to do.
I’m 18 and I also have a part time job but I have to deal with sports which takes a lot of my time
your 18 you legally an adult you can move out or search certain apartments around wherever you live and start grinding and saving where you dont need parents anymore it looks like they feel entitled or need a reward for raising a child or some type of restitution for it when they shouldnt you go have to step up and do you
I lived with my parents off and on from 2008-2015. Age 34-41 years old. Still dated and got laid quite a bit. Women didn’t seem to care. I dated a doctor, nurse, and a girl going for her PHD at the time. I was also able to help my parents quite a bit around the house and with errands. I think the fact that I have a great relationship with my folks, and the fact that I was very helpful around the house made it work as well as could be expected.
You probably were gifted by God with a long schlong, so this is why those women did not care. They were size queens and hence would not care about your financial situation or that you were living with parents. I know losers with nothing in their wallets but bang the hottest chicks because they are well endowed. I have money but I can't because God cursed me with a small wiener and so women ignore me.
I haven't watched the video, but the answer is as soon as humanly possible 😂
I’m 17 and have to move out by 18 is there any advice anyone can give me that would be very much appreciated
When I stop communicating with my family, my income becomes higher, I am happier, and I lost weight.
On One thing I am determined, I am gonna move out at 18, for sure.
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19 for me I hope
@@beautiful10381 yeah, I mean, same, till the end of my 18th year
@@kushagragupta8068 why
@@beautiful10381 why
I think moving out now is a good idea.
About to move out soon with one of my friends & I'm 18
Stay home, long as possible!!!! Bank all you can.