It's not about love. It's about meeting their needs only. One of the many Narcissist I've encountered said, "Its not about love." Those exact words fell right out of his mouth. Yet, when he knew I was highly upset. He would say, "I want to go back to the beginning with you. I don't want to be with out you!" My response is "If it's not about love, than he will be perfectly fine!!!" Then he would ghost. Come back in at a much later time. Expecting that I had forgotten his ignorance. Nope!!! Didn't forget. Done, Done, and Done!!!
... Ex. covert narc & his words means that nothing to me... coz his actions did speak louder... & intense verbal, emotional abuse last 4 years that made our daughter suicidal... Narc ruined my home, my trust in him, my love for him... Now I hang only on Jesus to fix my mess&3 kids souls wounds... Coz narc clearly walks with demons spirits to steal, kill, destroy... I'm not imbecile to accept ex. narc or any demonic shit not from real Christian culture... 🤔💯🇬🇧
Congrats on getting out! 👍 I also love when they say "love is not enough" 😂😂 Literally every person that wanted to use me (mostly sexually) said that to me. I figured that one out before I was 20 😂😂 Also, these ugly geezers always return once you are over them. They're so funny transparent, once you have the knowledge 😂👍
Interesting. I can see a close connection between anxiety and closeness to narcs. Now, why are more and more people so increasingly anxious? Maybe there are more and more narcs out there?... Just a thought. Sending you healing 👍
Good afternoon, Dave. Great video. Yes, I've often viewed life around a narc as a cross examination: everything you say can and will be used against you the rest of your relationship. And they do. They weaponize everything you share with them, thinking you can trust them. So glad I'm out of those relationships now. And yes, I'm ready for God to be my advocate. God makes my choices now, if it's His will that I have someone again.
Dave helped me figure this out when noone else believed or had any understanding. It's been almost 2 years free and just now getting over what I allowed to happen. A true narc is the "most wicked" people I have ever been around when I figured out WTH was going on and then it all made sense....stay strong people.
The narcissists run once the realize our light is REAL…. They are searching for other vampires, they can’t handle the truth, nor can they handle PURE love…….. they will canabalize one another… Thank you , DAVE!!! 💪🌟♥️💪🌎
Stay lined up with God my people and God will turn it around for you. At some point you'll get the breakthrough if you remain in obedience to God and keep yielding to His Holy Spirit.
Drinking tea, thank you for posting today. Sitting here waiting to forget my narcissist. Lost potentiality, we remember the potential, not the reality. "Waiting for this person to come back and make everything ok".. Instead, we need to wait on the Kingdom of God!
Two years I was discarded out of know where , the love bombing had been the most beautiful thing I had ever known I just desperately wanted to be loved , I didn’t understand it , I didn’t realise he was a narc . I was at my lowest even though I have been through some traumas in my life this was the last thing my brain coukd cope with. It’s been a journey of going back and forth finding him with other women , being told how horrible I was , awful person that I am and I believed him, In fact I wanted to end my life ….. but every single day I watched these videos after googling and educated myself with narcissism … last April after he treated me awful I walked out of his house and u never spoke to him again he tried , he tried to do be horrible , to hurt me I ignored it and watched Daves videos , I’m now free I see exactly what I went through , I can honestly say I am so happy now so if u r out there in the early stages keep watching dave , I feel your pain but eventually you feel like I do now . Block them , never unblock and never contact them ever again. Dave you saved my life quite literally I can’t thank you enough . Amen 🙏
Amen Dave. Those dating sites are full of evil people. I got cussed out for nothing once. It's distgusting what's on those dating sites. Deleted mine month ago. I'm still Mrs B trying to be A. Blocking and unblocking. Mainly cause he's left everything he owns here and if he ever got into a relationship I don't think I could ever look at him again. Please keep me in your prayers. I found out I have an oversized ovary and some cyst. Ovarian cancer runs in my family and I'm kinda scared. The narc doesn't care if I'm dead or alive. That's what I need to keep telling myself to move on. Thank you for all you do. God bless.
Get the cysts removed if they are too big. Otherwise please don't worry, many woman have cysts and they cause no problem. Listen to the doctors, drink green tea daily, meditate often and go to regular medical checkups. There is a connection between stress and cyst growth. You owe it to yourself to remove stress (Narcs) from your life. You will find love somewhere else girl! You will not be alone. But you owe it to yourself to remove all stress now and care for yourself. Yes, narcs do not care, that's why they are narcs. Don't be too upset please, just move on for your own beautiful sake 🦋. You will be loved. Not from any Narc, but you will find love and safety in yourself and than with someone else. Stay blessed and I send you healing and strengt. 💪
I like the coffee thing and when Dave says abruptly says GUYS!! .. thanks Dave!! You quite literally saved my life 4years ago.. I escaped a total shit storm of gas lighting and mental f k Erie so off the charts... Thanks again Dave...
Thats me, wanting them to come back and make things ok, but i KNOW its not possible, yet still i long for it so much. GOD, I dont know how He got me this way, even when I know better.
I tell my narc sister often that I love her, but she never says it back. I said it to her a few weeks ago and she replied "You love me, but you don't like me." This kind of reasoning is so confusing.
Love you Dave you are the best.......you help me to cope with that psycho that try to tear me down....they use their kids, relatives and friends to put u down to zero
Happy Saturday Dave, this experience helped me with my success. I always tried to be perfect for him. An unattainable goal. My magazine model/ambassador screening was based on being beautifully imperfect: I wanted to them to see the imperfect me. A huge risk as models are usually expected to be flawless. And, they liked my message of showing the blind can be beautiful without seeing what’s considered beautiful to the sighted. Love you to the moon and back Dave. You’re my hero. Your voice is beautiful. I consider you my friend. Hugs. 💕
Christina, you are beautiful. What one person sees as flaws, another sees as beautiful. If anyone could just for one day see themselves through the eyes of someone who truly loves them (not a Narc pretender), we would all be so different and all feel so different always. When you love someone every wrinkle is beautiful. This is the secret cosmetic companies and narcs dont want you to know, because they want to keep you trapped in their enslavement. You are free now, and you are beautiful. 🦋 Stay blessed.
My ex diagnosed with NPD, would often quote the Tina Turner song "What's love got to do with it." One day I actually listened to the lyrics, he was telling me about himself! What's love but a second hand emotion. I should have got that red flag!
".. Woman of a certain *age*, are a little afraid, they don't like taking chances..having played the waiting game..." 😉 *Age* means knowledge here 👍 Tina was with Ike long enough to know about Narc abuse. 😋
The devil is in my trauma bond. You are right. It is a deep wound that the devil repeatedly pokes. As Ms. A I see that clearly and do all I can to heal and not succumb to the resurfacing pain by forgiving the narc
Pray for yourself, not for them. Keep remembering the angry, sad, disappointing feelings they created in you, because once you forget those feelings in connection with those people, they come back. They can sense when you fully forgive them and they come to you for a next round. Keep some of that emotion connected with them in your mental archives for when you need it. It will make your life easier, not harder 😉
The mother of my child, I reached deep despite the unknown disorder at the time. I saw the hurt child within and yet she didn’t hesitate. I sent her to get help at a mental facility and she runs out of the car, finds a new supply and calls me a week later cursing me out, telling me I’m a narcissist. So much confusion and madness, the rage I felt… she hasn’t contacted me, nor checked on her new born son.
Got thrown out with the trash 6 months ago suddenly. She went to a new supply suspiciously quickly. I blocked her a month ago. Today I hear that she and the new toy are off to Costa Rica for two weeks. I finally don’t care that much. Big change for me. Get wrecked lady.
I’m going through the exact same thing!! I found out she was engaged over NYE!!! That’ll be 2 live-in boyfriends and an engagement in under a year!! Her poor children.
@@lungbusteroutdoors4783 she’s got 5 different kids with four daddies. I think about them often. They will only learn that people are expendable. So sad. Good luck!
Great that you guys are out. Sorry but, why do you get involved with women who have kids from multiple daddys? Don't you see the pattern before you step in? That one is on you. For the future avoid such women!
I AM Mrs. A all the way due to Christ and His Blood setting me Free!! He as in the narc is never welcome here. IT is Finished! The narc husband has hoovered but I gave nothing! He has flattened my tire and used 3rd parties within these few weeks to harass me. I have just stayed focused and busy. I have 2 jobs now and stick to myself with JESUS only.
AMEN..stay in prayer...I'm asking GOD to cover me every day from the narc I was involved with...They are literally Satan's children. And speak the language of there father.. The devil
just a few days ago mine asked me to come back I have been gone almost 2 years . I moved as far across the united states as u can get. he's had one woman move in and she's gone. Said to me I'm talking to someone . She called me chunky , so I believe I really do care for you and miss u . Come back you have 24 hrs to make up your mind.. I have not responded. Haven't heard from him since either. Of course the answer is NO... So sad this condition.....
You have 24 hours to make up your mind?🙄 Is that a hostage situation? 🤣😂😂.. What a looosser.. You are worth so much more girl.! 🦋 Everyone who has a soul is worth so much more! These are real demons. Can't believe he pressured you into a hostage like situation (incl. an insult - you'd be chunky, which you aren't, and even if you were that's irrelevant) , that's just pathetic of him😂🤣 stay strong. You are on the right path 👍
Although versatile and diversified these hobgoblins still have only 1 recipe, 1 mantra, and 1 goal. So they'll always keep coming back with the same old sour song and dance routine whether it's 20-minutes or 20-years, just to see if enough time has elapsed to promote forgetfulness of the prongs that gigged the family frog. Even evil leaders know that by erasing previous history the people will fall for the same schpeels that laid waste to nations past.
Exactly! Well said..that's why they gaslight so much too...they try to erase history as its happening And why they love to hoover...as time passes they hope all their past victims forgot most of their transgressions
In my eyes anyone watching someone or using people for any sort of clout is a narc. You see it was very easy for me to say bye to the loser ex once I opened my eyes, there isn't much anyone can say to me in my walk to make me doubt myself. It is the online clout chaser the needs to get a grip of theirselves and leave decent people alone. Love & light Wish u the best good luck!
Hiya everyone just taught I'd share this bit of information about my narcists ex and what's he's doing but thinks I'm a fool. but I'm well ahead of him.hes a new profile up on Facebook pretending to be single and has left the new supply maybe to see would I maybe fall for this bs... anyway I opened another profile new SIM cause I wanted to check if his other page was still their and Shure enough his old profile is still their with the new supply still on it but when I go back on my original profile I see I'm blocked from the account with the new supply..and can only see his new fake single page
I tried so hard to get into the narcissist but something wouldn't allow me ..I stayed with him but something didn't set with right ..I didn't give him a lot...m I hard hearted
Jenny Cochrane expects you too get back to raising her son, feeding everyone, supplying copious amounts of entertainment, and pleasure.. While she hides away in the bathtub, or on the couch with her phone glued to her face. Ahh good times
There can be male " harem garages".... I knew a woman, beautiful but npd, who went thru men like knife thru butter...I felt bad for her victims. She was charming though, for sure.
What is the longest somone has went without a hoover from the ex-narc? It has been almost 2 years since I heard a word. It was a breakup with not another word "no closure"when she was caught red handed cheating and lying. Will she try it someday are am I most likely clear from this?
Could be years for these demons...my ex...we were together 5 yrs...just hoovered back to his ex after 5 years..don't wait around...forget the TRASH! They have people on a cycle which is disgusting.
One time over 15 years. It was our bully in class. It took me 10 minutes to remember who she was when she called me, because I had simply forgotten she exists 😂. This hurt her more, than when I told her to f*off and never to contact me again, because I had not forgotten how she treated all of us back then. Of course she did not apologize to anyone of us. She called because she needed supply😂🤣 Even if she had apologized I would have rejected her anyway. Once a Narc, always a Narc. Don't wait for a hoover, go live your life, forget that demon even exists 😇
I had an epiphany the other day. I realize that God put this man in my life himself because I needed to learn a lesson. The lesson was that I was supposed to love unconditionally the way Jesus loved us. Jesus loves us in a way that no matter what we do we will always be forgiven. That’s the kind of love that you go through with a narcissist. So the narcissist has to meet an empath so they can start growing in the process because they’re stuck and us we need the narcissist so we can have unconditional love the way God requires us to have love. Unfortunately this is a necessary evil for some Christians to go to a higher purpose. If someone else wants a different explanation I can do it because I am beginning to see things that I didn’t see before.
@@aliceocholi4291 Narcissist are people who are the exact opposite of who we are trying to reach to BE someone like us. So when we meet a narcissist they are supposed to meet us so they can grow into their better selves, and for us to keep on moving UP on our process. Its a NECESSITY because of the level we are going to reach. Discernment, empathy, unconditional love, strength, patience, passion etc. Because the love we feel for a narcissist is for someone who is treating us incredibly bad and hates us. So therefore, we are loving people who hate us, and that is the kind of love God is looking for. So we need them. Praise God.
I agree to a point. Eventually you have to disengage emotionally from the narc after the epiphany. Then take what you've learned and only invest yourself in trustworthy individuals. Jesus First. And everyone else second. Like your dependent children and work.
@@AlvaradoMaria I can't accept that. And even the love of God, whatever that may personally be to you on your belief system, is conditional and would be better described as divine or perpetual. Love is most certainly conditional, you discriminate when you choose your life partner in a monogamous relationship, otherwise anyone would do. You can't love someone who hurts you, to stay in that situation, that's self abuse (and certainly abuse from the other person). Without boundaries, which is a form of self love, you can't love others. Even the Christian God has boundaries for his love, thinking commandments and the good book in general.
Maria when you talk about learning to love unconditionally in the context of a romantic relationship it makes me cringe 😬 because romantic relationships are conditional, even friendships are conditional. I think you are confusing forgiveness/mercy with unconditional love. Unconditional love is what a parent gives to a child, loving and supporting the child. The child doesn’t emotionally support the parent and is not there to make the parent happy. In a sense spouses have certain emotional and physical responsibilities to each other and they have to have the same values and walk in agreement, I would say that that is conditional. Also you can’t work for or buy someone’s love they either love you or they don’t, and we know narcissist don’t love anyone.
I don’t think “receive the kingdom of God as a child” means when you were in your youth. It means receive it as a child does. You can imagine an adult pushing people out of the way, using their size or stature, raising their voice, making demands which contain a hint of self importance. I think Jesus is saying don’t do it this way, but as a child does.
Here's one reason why I think Jesus meant "receive the kingdom of God as a little child" meaning the way a little child receives rather than just hearing Gods words when you're still young is.. Just imagine someone highly self-important being in heaven. Do you think there's anyone in heaven saying "I'm big let me go first" or "I'm white, so I'm better than you" or "I have all this money, so I come ahead of those who have less". Just think about heaven including that type of people and what it would be like. It would be just like earth. Jesus really stressed the message of "turn and become like children" or "it is these (little ones) who are greatest in the kingdom of heaven" or "the least of those among you will be greatest in the kingdom of heaven" or "the son of man didn't come to be served but to serve and give his life as ransom for many", or even "many are called, but few will be chosen". He so says "build treasure for yourself in heaven". No amount of earthly status can grant you access to the kingdom of heaven, that's why a message such as "truly I tell you, those who do not receive the kingdom of heaven as a little child, will not enter" means so much more than having some earthly ranking within a religion.
@@Narcologyunscripted I aint having a go at you I grew up with this Narc I knew her father mother the whole family it was sad watching the abuse she suffered and I don't understand why God would allow this to a child so terrified it runs from its self she abuses herself every day I have known her all of her life she is 60 now and I pray God ends her suffering soon they do not abandon God the devil terrified her out of existence
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It's not about love. It's about meeting their needs only. One of the many Narcissist I've encountered said, "Its not about love." Those exact words fell right out of his mouth. Yet, when he knew I was highly upset. He would say, "I want to go back to the beginning with you. I don't want to be with out you!" My response is "If it's not about love, than he will be perfectly fine!!!" Then he would ghost. Come back in at a much later time. Expecting that I had forgotten his ignorance. Nope!!! Didn't forget. Done, Done, and Done!!!
... Ex. covert narc & his words means that nothing to me... coz his actions did speak louder... & intense verbal, emotional abuse last 4 years that made our daughter suicidal... Narc ruined my home, my trust in him, my love for him... Now I hang only on Jesus to fix my mess&3 kids souls wounds... Coz narc clearly walks with demons spirits to steal, kill, destroy... I'm not imbecile to accept ex. narc or any demonic shit not from real Christian culture... 🤔💯🇬🇧
Congrats on getting out! 👍
I also love when they say "love is not enough" 😂😂 Literally every person that wanted to use me (mostly sexually) said that to me. I figured that one out before I was 20 😂😂 Also, these ugly geezers always return once you are over them. They're so funny transparent, once you have the knowledge 😂👍
My anxiety is almost gone! I'm starting to have moments of joy! Amen
Me too thank GOD Im a business owner I stop going to work, only when I had to did i go......everyday gets better
Amen sister !!! Keep the fine fight
Interesting. I can see a close connection between anxiety and closeness to narcs. Now, why are more and more people so increasingly anxious? Maybe there are more and more narcs out there?... Just a thought. Sending you healing 👍
It takes a while but it does go.
Good afternoon, Dave. Great video. Yes, I've often viewed life around a narc as a cross examination: everything you say can and will be used against you the rest of your relationship. And they do. They weaponize everything you share with them, thinking you can trust them. So glad I'm out of those relationships now. And yes, I'm ready for God to be my advocate. God makes my choices now, if it's His will that I have someone again.
"So by you sleeping with other people you came to this understanding, this epiphany that I'm your person" 😂 That line right there🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Pure Gold!
Lol that's very true especially they say " your the only one I would never cheat anyone and your my world" 😂
@@texan4life763 who even says, "You're my world" only Christ should be in that place
@@fromhopelesstovictorious275 I know but that's what she says to me all the time!!! Lol
@@fromhopelesstovictorious275 the most obnoxious and evil people in the world!!!
They say your the " crazy one" lol
It's a huge red flag when they answer your question with a question.
I do that to them actually!! They HATE it and try to gaslight me by saying that I am the one that's defensive! Wow!
Spot on, I couldn't understand at first. Watching Narc video is giving me so much perspective. Soon to be x wife..
Dave helped me figure this out when noone else believed or had any understanding. It's been almost 2 years free and just now getting over what I allowed to happen. A true narc is the "most wicked" people I have ever been around when I figured out WTH was going on and then it all made sense....stay strong people.
The narcissists run once the realize our light is REAL…. They are searching for other vampires, they can’t handle the truth, nor can they handle PURE love…….. they will canabalize one another…
Thank you , DAVE!!! 💪🌟♥️💪🌎
i like this andi cant imagine that a soul and heart so black can end up happy in life . I wishno bad on anyone just want to be away from them forever
Stay lined up with God my people and God will turn it around for you. At some point you'll get the breakthrough if you remain in obedience to God and keep yielding to His Holy Spirit.
Drinking tea, thank you for posting today. Sitting here waiting to forget my narcissist. Lost potentiality, we remember the potential, not the reality. "Waiting for this person to come back and make everything ok".. Instead, we need to wait on the Kingdom of God!
That person is going to come back and ruin you.... I never imagined the evil most will gladly do
Two years I was discarded out of know where , the love bombing had been the most beautiful thing I had ever known I just desperately wanted to be loved , I didn’t understand it , I didn’t realise he was a narc . I was at my lowest even though I have been through some traumas in my life this was the last thing my brain coukd cope with. It’s been a journey of going back and forth finding him with other women , being told how horrible I was , awful person that I am and I believed him, In fact I wanted to end my life ….. but every single day I watched these videos after googling and educated myself with narcissism … last April after he treated me awful I walked out of his house and u never spoke to him again he tried , he tried to do be horrible , to hurt me I ignored it and watched Daves videos , I’m now free I see exactly what I went through , I can honestly say I am so happy now so if u r out there in the early stages keep watching dave , I feel your pain but eventually you feel like I do now . Block them , never unblock and never contact them ever again. Dave you saved my life quite literally I can’t thank you enough . Amen 🙏
Amen Dave. Those dating sites are full of evil people. I got cussed out for nothing once. It's distgusting what's on those dating sites. Deleted mine month ago. I'm still Mrs B trying to be A. Blocking and unblocking. Mainly cause he's left everything he owns here and if he ever got into a relationship I don't think I could ever look at him again. Please keep me in your prayers. I found out I have an oversized ovary and some cyst. Ovarian cancer runs in my family and I'm kinda scared. The narc doesn't care if I'm dead or alive. That's what I need to keep telling myself to move on. Thank you for all you do. God bless.
Get the cysts removed if they are too big. Otherwise please don't worry, many woman have cysts and they cause no problem. Listen to the doctors, drink green tea daily, meditate often and go to regular medical checkups. There is a connection between stress and cyst growth. You owe it to yourself to remove stress (Narcs) from your life. You will find love somewhere else girl! You will not be alone. But you owe it to yourself to remove all stress now and care for yourself. Yes, narcs do not care, that's why they are narcs. Don't be too upset please, just move on for your own beautiful sake 🦋. You will be loved. Not from any Narc, but you will find love and safety in yourself and than with someone else. Stay blessed and I send you healing and strengt. 💪
I like the coffee thing and when Dave says abruptly says GUYS!! ..
thanks Dave!! You quite literally saved my life 4years ago..
I escaped a total shit storm of gas lighting and mental f k Erie so off the charts...
Thanks again Dave...
Thats me, wanting them to come back and make things ok, but i KNOW its not possible, yet still i long for it so much. GOD, I dont know how He got me this way, even when I know better.
I hope I never hear from the Narcissist again. I just utterly despise the Narc.
Keep up the good work...been following you for years...finally escaped last year thank you for your guidance and insight..God Bless you.
Dave you are speaking the truth Never let the narcissist back know your life or you will suffer much more than you ever have before
I tell my narc sister often that I love her, but she never says it back. I said it to her a few weeks ago and she replied "You love me, but you don't like me." This kind of reasoning is so confusing.
Hope everyone is having a great day! 🌹
Love you Dave you are the best.......you help me to cope with that psycho that try to tear me down....they use their kids, relatives and friends to put u down to zero
Happy Saturday Dave, this experience helped me with my success. I always tried to be perfect for him. An unattainable goal. My magazine model/ambassador screening was based on being beautifully imperfect: I wanted to them to see the imperfect me. A huge risk as models are usually expected to be flawless. And, they liked my message of showing the blind can be beautiful without seeing what’s considered beautiful to the sighted. Love you to the moon and back Dave. You’re my hero. Your voice is beautiful. I consider you my friend. Hugs. 💕
Christina, you are beautiful. What one person sees as flaws, another sees as beautiful. If anyone could just for one day see themselves through the eyes of someone who truly loves them (not a Narc pretender), we would all be so different and all feel so different always. When you love someone every wrinkle is beautiful. This is the secret cosmetic companies and narcs dont want you to know, because they want to keep you trapped in their enslavement. You are free now, and you are beautiful. 🦋 Stay blessed.
Thanks for mentioning... agreeing... that the Lord can deliver and heal anyone targeted by this form of spiritual warfare!
My ex diagnosed with NPD, would often quote the Tina Turner song "What's love got to do with it." One day I actually listened to the lyrics, he was telling me about himself!
What's love but a second hand emotion.
I should have got that red flag!
".. Woman of a certain *age*, are a little afraid, they don't like taking chances..having played the waiting game..." 😉 *Age* means knowledge here 👍
Tina was with Ike long enough to know about Narc abuse. 😋
PS. That song is called "I Don't Wanna Lose You" by Tina turner.
Listen to it please. It will open your eyes.
Stay blessed and stay strong. 😊
The devil is in my trauma bond. You are right. It is a deep wound that the devil repeatedly pokes. As Ms. A I see that clearly and do all I can to heal and not succumb to the resurfacing pain by forgiving the narc
When you pray for the Narc, pray for them to desire to heal three self like we do. Good luck
I don’t waste my time praying for the Narcs, I’ll pray for myself before that
@Lee Higginbotham disagree, but u go ahead
If you were really with a true narc you would not pray for them.
Agreed Carla. It's like praying for the devil. Don't waste your energy. Just run and save your own soul!
Thank you Dave - and for your consistency. You know your stuff. Coolis.
My pleasure!
I think it is ok to pray for them but don't feel sorry for them. I can forgive but I would never take him back or trust him again.
Pray for yourself, not for them. Keep remembering the angry, sad, disappointing feelings they created in you, because once you forget those feelings in connection with those people, they come back. They can sense when you fully forgive them and they come to you for a next round. Keep some of that emotion connected with them in your mental archives for when you need it. It will make your life easier, not harder 😉
Thank you Dave for all that you do for all of us absolutely AMAZING 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜🤗🤗
The mother of my child, I reached deep despite the unknown disorder at the time. I saw the hurt child within and yet she didn’t hesitate. I sent her to get help at a mental facility and she runs out of the car, finds a new supply and calls me a week later cursing me out, telling me I’m a narcissist. So much confusion and madness, the rage I felt… she hasn’t contacted me, nor checked on her new born son.
Hi Dave! As always you are right on. You’re helping so many. 👊
Dave!!!Great video...thank you
Long time no see, glad to see that you are well .
You are truly great with your words thankyou.
So nice of you
Yessss Dave amen 🙏🙏 u are so right thank you for the wisdom u are a blessing 💙💙💙
Got thrown out with the trash 6 months ago suddenly. She went to a new supply suspiciously quickly. I blocked her a month ago. Today I hear that she and the new toy are off to Costa Rica for two weeks. I finally don’t care that much. Big change for me. Get wrecked lady.
I’m going through the exact same thing!! I found out she was engaged over NYE!!! That’ll be 2 live-in boyfriends and an engagement in under a year!! Her poor children.
@@lungbusteroutdoors4783 she’s got 5 different kids with four daddies. I think about them often. They will only learn that people are expendable. So sad. Good luck!
Great that you guys are out. Sorry but, why do you get involved with women who have kids from multiple daddys? Don't you see the pattern before you step in? That one is on you. For the future avoid such women!
I'm hearing ya Dave...Good Take!
If the Glove doesn't fit, you must Acquit😂
Thanks Dave for all you do. ☺
Thank you for always uplifting my day with knowledge Dave 🙏♥️
absolutely!
@@Narcologyunscripted 🥰🥰🙏♥️🤗🤗
Thank you for this message
They can’t give or feel love but they will surely take it…bits and pieces now.
I AM Mrs. A all the way due to Christ and His Blood setting me Free!! He as in the narc is never welcome here. IT is Finished! The narc husband has hoovered but I gave nothing! He has flattened my tire and used 3rd parties within these few weeks to harass me. I have just stayed focused and busy. I have 2 jobs now and stick to myself with JESUS only.
AMEN..stay in prayer...I'm asking GOD to cover me every day from the narc I was involved with...They are literally Satan's children. And speak the language of there father.. The devil
Thanks Dave!
just a few days ago mine asked me to come back I have been gone almost 2 years . I moved as far across the united states as u can get. he's had one woman move in and she's gone. Said to me I'm talking to someone . She called me chunky , so I believe I really do care for you and miss u . Come back you have 24 hrs to make up your mind.. I have not responded. Haven't heard from him since either. Of course the answer is NO... So sad this condition.....
You have 24 hours to make up your mind?🙄 Is that a hostage situation? 🤣😂😂.. What a looosser.. You are worth so much more girl.! 🦋 Everyone who has a soul is worth so much more! These are real demons. Can't believe he pressured you into a hostage like situation (incl. an insult - you'd be chunky, which you aren't, and even if you were that's irrelevant) , that's just pathetic of him😂🤣 stay strong. You are on the right path 👍
Can't say shit if you don't answer the call. Pretty straightforward
💜🧚♀️💜waiting to forget the narc!(7 days)
You are beautiful man
Although versatile and diversified these hobgoblins still have only 1 recipe, 1 mantra, and 1 goal. So they'll always keep coming back with the same old sour song and dance routine whether it's 20-minutes or 20-years, just to see if enough time has elapsed to promote forgetfulness of the prongs that gigged the family frog. Even evil leaders know that by erasing previous history the people will fall for the same schpeels that laid waste to nations past.
Amen
Exactly! Well said..that's why they gaslight so much too...they try to erase history as its happening
And why they love to hoover...as time passes they hope all their past victims forgot most of their transgressions
I DON'T FORGET THEIR BEHAVIOR. I LEARNED TO KEEP BOUNDARIES & BE ALERT TO OTHER NARCISSISTS.
In my eyes anyone watching someone or using people for any sort of clout is a narc. You see it was very easy for me to say bye to the loser ex once I opened my eyes, there isn't much anyone can say to me in my walk to make me doubt myself. It is the online clout chaser the needs to get a grip of theirselves and leave decent people alone. Love & light
Wish u the best good luck!
I can not believe that this creatures existe it.
Happy New year dave
Hiya everyone just taught I'd share this bit of information about my narcists ex and what's he's doing but thinks I'm a fool. but I'm well ahead of him.hes a new profile up on Facebook pretending to be single and has left the new supply maybe to see would I maybe fall for this bs... anyway I opened another profile new SIM cause I wanted to check if his other page was still their and Shure enough his old profile is still their with the new supply still on it but when I go back on my original profile I see I'm blocked from the account with the new supply..and can only see his new fake single page
Why are you still checking on him? To heal you have to stop checking up on him. Just ignore him. Get healing.. 💪
Got my organic tea ‼️😊
I tried so hard to get into the narcissist but something wouldn't allow me ..I stayed with him but something didn't set with right ..I didn't give him a lot...m I hard hearted
Jenny Cochrane expects you too get back to raising her son, feeding everyone, supplying copious amounts of entertainment, and pleasure.. While she hides away in the bathtub, or on the couch with her phone glued to her face. Ahh good times
Yeah they expect a slave to a three year old
I'm going to this right now my ex-husband is pressuring me I still love him but I know I have to leave him alone
THANK YOU!
Thanks, Dave.
There can be male " harem garages".... I knew a woman, beautiful but npd, who went thru men like knife thru butter...I felt bad for her victims. She was charming though, for sure.
Thank you God bless ya dave
Thanks Dave! ❤️
No worries!
[♡][♡]thank you so much
you're welcome!
Dave I just love you
When I ask my x narc what love means? It's like she can't even answer at all! It could her 10 minutes them she say unconditional love hahaha 🤣 BS!
What is the longest somone has went without a hoover from the ex-narc? It has been almost 2 years since I heard a word. It was a breakup with not another word "no closure"when she was caught red handed cheating and lying. Will she try it someday are am I most likely clear from this?
Could be years for these demons...my ex...we were together 5 yrs...just hoovered back to his ex after 5 years..don't wait around...forget the TRASH! They have people on a cycle which is disgusting.
One time over 15 years. It was our bully in class. It took me 10 minutes to remember who she was when she called me, because I had simply forgotten she exists 😂. This hurt her more, than when I told her to f*off and never to contact me again, because I had not forgotten how she treated all of us back then. Of course she did not apologize to anyone of us. She called because she needed supply😂🤣 Even if she had apologized I would have rejected her anyway. Once a Narc, always a Narc. Don't wait for a hoover, go live your life, forget that demon even exists 😇
I had an epiphany the other day. I realize that God put this man in my life himself because I needed to learn a lesson. The lesson was that I was supposed to love unconditionally the way Jesus loved us. Jesus loves us in a way that no matter what we do we will always be forgiven. That’s the kind of love that you go through with a narcissist. So the narcissist has to meet an empath so they can start growing in the process because they’re stuck and us we need the narcissist so we can have unconditional love the way God requires us to have love. Unfortunately this is a necessary evil for some Christians to go to a higher purpose. If someone else wants a different explanation I can do it because I am beginning to see things that I didn’t see before.
I want more explanation, thanks.
@@aliceocholi4291 Narcissist are people who are the exact opposite of who we are trying to reach to BE someone like us. So when we meet a narcissist they are supposed to meet us so they can grow into their better selves, and for us to keep on moving UP on our process. Its a NECESSITY because of the level we are going to reach. Discernment, empathy, unconditional love, strength, patience, passion etc. Because the love we feel for a narcissist is for someone who is treating us incredibly bad and hates us. So therefore, we are loving people who hate us, and that is the kind of love God is looking for. So we need them. Praise God.
I agree to a point. Eventually you have to disengage emotionally from the narc after the epiphany. Then take what you've learned and only invest yourself in trustworthy individuals. Jesus First. And everyone else second. Like your dependent children and work.
@@AlvaradoMaria I can't accept that. And even the love of God, whatever that may personally be to you on your belief system, is conditional and would be better described as divine or perpetual.
Love is most certainly conditional, you discriminate when you choose your life partner in a monogamous relationship, otherwise anyone would do. You can't love someone who hurts you, to stay in that situation, that's self abuse (and certainly abuse from the other person). Without boundaries, which is a form of self love, you can't love others. Even the Christian God has boundaries for his love, thinking commandments and the good book in general.
Maria when you talk about learning to love unconditionally in the context of a romantic relationship it makes me cringe 😬 because romantic relationships are conditional, even friendships are conditional. I think you are confusing forgiveness/mercy with unconditional love. Unconditional love is what a parent gives to a child, loving and supporting the child. The child doesn’t emotionally support the parent and is not there to make the parent happy. In a sense spouses have certain emotional and physical responsibilities to each other and they have to have the same values and walk in agreement, I would say that that is conditional. Also you can’t work for or buy someone’s love they either love you or they don’t, and we know narcissist don’t love anyone.
Mine always used sex as her weapon of choice first thing that happened everytime she decided to come back
I don’t think “receive the kingdom of God as a child” means when you were in your youth. It means receive it as a child does. You can imagine an adult pushing people out of the way, using their size or stature, raising their voice, making demands which contain a hint of self importance. I think Jesus is saying don’t do it this way, but as a child does.
good take
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I honestly doubt it. If he ever comes he's dead 💀 for me even if he's dying he could confess to God
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Here's one reason why I think Jesus meant "receive the kingdom of God as a little child" meaning the way a little child receives rather than just hearing Gods words when you're still young is..
Just imagine someone highly self-important being in heaven. Do you think there's anyone in heaven saying "I'm big let me go first" or "I'm white, so I'm better than you" or "I have all this money, so I come ahead of those who have less". Just think about heaven including that type of people and what it would be like. It would be just like earth. Jesus really stressed the message of "turn and become like children" or "it is these (little ones) who are greatest in the kingdom of heaven" or "the least of those among you will be greatest in the kingdom of heaven" or "the son of man didn't come to be served but to serve and give his life as ransom for many", or even "many are called, but few will be chosen". He so says "build treasure for yourself in heaven". No amount of earthly status can grant you access to the kingdom of heaven, that's why a message such as "truly I tell you, those who do not receive the kingdom of heaven as a little child, will not enter" means so much more than having some earthly ranking within a religion.
great take
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twice! You are On it Queen!!!!!
I understand hate but god taught me to forgive and you don’t seem to this is a personality disorder cause didn’t god swear to protect the children
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@@Narcologyunscripted I aint having a go at you I grew up with this Narc I knew her father mother the whole family it was sad watching the abuse she suffered and I don't understand why God would allow this to a child so terrified it runs from its self she abuses herself every day I have known her all of her life she is 60 now and I pray God ends her suffering soon they do not abandon God the devil terrified her out of existence