The Path to Realising Self-Worth in CRAZY RICH ASIANS (Movie Commentary & Reaction)

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ส.ค. 2022
  • Crazy Rich Asians movie commentary reaction
    Crazy Rich Asians is an interesting story for a movie commentary. It's fun and heartwarming at times, sad and frustrating at others. Ultimately, it feels like a movie about self discovery as much as anything else and we enjoyed it a lot
    Join this channel to get access to perks:
    / @themoviebudz1988
    The Movie Budz also like these channels:
    Nics & Nacs
    Skylar Watching Movies
    BIllyBinges
    Sophie Lents
    DylanisinTrouble
    Trin Lovell
    Steph Leone
    Zzavid
    Amanda The Jedi
    It's Totally Cody
    Movies In Depth
    Rebecca Rose
    Nickflix
    Angelina
    TimotheeReacts
    Sean Thompson
    The Punk Rock MBA
    D’Angelo Wallace
    Brianne Worth
    Drew Gooden
    Kurtis Connor
    Danny Gonzalez
    Scott Cramer
    Jarvis Johnson
    Leon Lush
    Some More News
    Thought Slime
  • ภาพยนตร์และแอนิเมชัน

ความคิดเห็น • 401

  • @rodolfoceballos6278
    @rodolfoceballos6278 ปีที่แล้ว +1256

    An incredible detail in the scene where Rachel and Elenor play the game, is that Rachel actually had a wining hand, and as she tells Elenor that she turned Nick down, she gives Elenor the piece she needed to win the game. Elenor wins the game because of Rachel, which mirrors the sacrifice she made for Nick, essentially showing Elenor that she does in fact understand sacrifice and selflessness.

    • @-chenlanying5818
      @-chenlanying5818 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      28:47 what did they said

    • @addangel
      @addangel ปีที่แล้ว +11

      uuh good point about the selflessness and sacrifice. I always thought the talk with his mom came off a tad arrogant, but your explanation definitely makes more sense

  • @michelle6337
    @michelle6337 ปีที่แล้ว +949

    The fact that Astrid didn't call out Michael until his actions affected their son kind of broke my heart. She wouldn't stand up for herself, but didn't hesitate when her child was involved. Also, the "It's not my job to make you feel like a man" is perhaps my favorite line in the whole movie. Relationships are not vehicles for validation, and taking your insecurities out on your partner is not it.

    • @Lee-Llhm
      @Lee-Llhm ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Read the books it’s not that simple

    • @EmmarainePink
      @EmmarainePink ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@Lee-Llhm well we're talking about the movie, so...

    • @ashleydowney1222
      @ashleydowney1222 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@EmmarainePink I mean as someone who has read all the books. It wasn't that simple in the books. And it wasn't simple in the movie either. Relationships shouldn't be vehicles for validation. But it happens all the time. Doesn't help that culture and media tells over and over that being in a relationship will valid and complete us.

    • @cici_tlb4009
      @cici_tlb4009 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@ashleydowney1222 as someone who reads the books too. THIS IS THE MOVIE WE’RE TALKING ABOUT.

  • @Chuuzus
    @Chuuzus ปีที่แล้ว +1220

    the wedding scene in crazy rich asians is the best wedding scene i have ever seen in any movie. that was the best use of music in a movie.

    • @GA-ix7kn
      @GA-ix7kn ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Chuuzus! ♥️♥️♥️

    • @themoviebudz1988
      @themoviebudz1988  ปีที่แล้ว +100

      It's quite beautiful 😊 - Sam

    • @tonzyjc
      @tonzyjc ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I cried watching it in theaters 🙈

    • @iamangieh
      @iamangieh ปีที่แล้ว +17

      GURL NEVER THOUGHT I’D FIND YOU ROUND THESE PARTS 😭 i knew you had taste 😏💞💞

    • @Chuuzus
      @Chuuzus ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@iamangieh ariannaaa what are you doing here? 😂🖤

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +885

    The fact that Asian Aunties have been so accurately represented in this movie and I love it.

  • @pintsizedpicasso3402
    @pintsizedpicasso3402 ปีที่แล้ว +473

    Fun fact, Eleanor's ring actually belongs Michelle Yoeh! When she saw the ring they originally planned to use for Eleanor she was so unimpressed that she brought one from home😂 Now her ring is a prop that we go down in cinema history!🤩

    • @katherinewilson1853
      @katherinewilson1853 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Michelle Yeoh is so classy.

    • @ot7biasedmashups
      @ot7biasedmashups ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@katherinewilson1853 an absolute icon

    • @HBoyle
      @HBoyle ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And so fitting with her character 🤣🤣

  • @AgeoftheGeek
    @AgeoftheGeek ปีที่แล้ว +1107

    The mom giving her ring for Nick to propose was a great touch, especially considering the meaning of the ring. It was a good way to signal that Nick's mother had placed that stamp of approval without having to say it. Knowing they set up Astrid's future love for the sequel in the last moments of the film is the best teaser. I can't wait for her movie!

    • @pintsizedpicasso3402
      @pintsizedpicasso3402 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Great example of show don't tell!😂I still remember when I saw this in theaters with my family and that scene was the first time I ever genuinely gasped at a film! My sister had these face-splitting smiles and were grabbing onto each other excitedly. We probably would have screamed with joy but there was no sound was coming out of mouths😂🤣

    • @tiffanykim2773
      @tiffanykim2773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pintsizedpicasso3402 when is it coming out?

    • @angelablinne7223
      @angelablinne7223 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@tiffanykim2773 Not for a while, there has been some drama with script writers quitting because pay wasn't fair.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +613

    Awkwafina and Constance Wu have such brilliant comedic chemistry. Not to say that the other actors aren’t equally funny.

  • @kathyastrom1315
    @kathyastrom1315 ปีที่แล้ว +902

    The costumer did a great job with the outfits here. I especially like Astrid’s blue and white striped shirt for the bury-the-fish scene. They had established back in New York that blue and white were for Chinese funerals, and here we have it at a funeral! Also, that makeover scene might be my favorite one ever-the commentary is hilarious.

    • @carlalussini
      @carlalussini ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This reaction was the first time I noticed it! Such a great little thing.

    • @ailarov
      @ailarov ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah since this movie was sponsored by a lot of brands showcase their collection

    • @pepperwilliams4303
      @pepperwilliams4303 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Interesting. And also her marriage just had died

    • @katherinewilson1853
      @katherinewilson1853 ปีที่แล้ว

      I noticed and loved that too. lol

    • @tuiteyfruity5010
      @tuiteyfruity5010 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ohmygosh I didn’t notice that!!! Now my eyes are opened

  • @TheConstantSeeker
    @TheConstantSeeker ปีที่แล้ว +342

    That smile and nod that Eleanor gives Rachel at the end hits me every time. It's not a gesture of full acceptance and everything is going to be great from now on, but a simple moment of acknowledgment and respect. Tremendous moment.

    • @yukiminying2634
      @yukiminying2634 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm also curious about something else, as in why she left the shot in that scene. She could have stay, but she left.
      Could that mean that she, being the obstacle, or perhaps the wall to Nick to protect him from all the 'bad stuff' has been let down.
      In other words, could it be that she was saying 'i won't be in your way anymore'

  • @natureboy95
    @natureboy95 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    I admit, when I was watching this in the theater, the wedding scene stood out most to me, quite literally caught my breath the moment the water started coming down the aisle!
    Though the mahjong scene is probably the most poignant, her choice in the game mirroring her choice with Nick, giving away the piece to let Nick's mother win and making sure she knew that - excellent writing that could (and in a lot of cases, was) overlooked!

    • @anocturne_
      @anocturne_ ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I fcking love the mahjong scene! Not only do they both share the same winning tile, but Rachel actually DREW her winning tile, which is considered a better and heavier win as opposed to winning the round due to someone else throwing away the tile you needed. I also really love the fact that Rachel’s background as a professor of game theory was brought back to full circle with this scene; absolutely playing Eleanor like a fiddle and willingly allowing her to win. The dialogue, the actual game, the weighted first and last stare between the mothers were so brilliantly shot!

    • @catherineliu06
      @catherineliu06 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      AND they were discarding the "east" and "west" cards just like their opposite cultures.
      I was super excited about her drawing the winning tile and giving it up just like the game theory in the beginning. I was trying to explain it to my friend while in the movie theater. I freaking loved this movie

  • @Maja942
    @Maja942 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    I really want to read the book! Apparently, they didn't want to commit to slander the 1% the way the book did, so it's 50% escapism and 50% soft critique.
    Astrid's husband never cheated in the book, he was treated terribly by the family and their love wasn't enough to sustain the constant bullying and ostracization he faced. They are a reflection of what could become of Nic and Rachel in the future, two good people's love ruined bc of elitism and snobbish & proud families, and the "rich" party in the relationship being too much of a people pleaser to really commit to abandoning their family. That's why Nic's proposal and him choosing Rachel was a turning point in the book probably - it gave her the opportunity to make a proper tactical move to end up with Nick while evading that fate. If it hadn't worked, she'd rather give him up than risk becoming like Astrid & Michael.
    It was never about Rachel being not chinese enough, but very clearly phrased that it was her background of poverty. She was simply from the wrong class. I really enjoyed this movie, but I would have liked seeing the original concept, too. Like, how far are you willing to go for love? Not sure I would put up with a family like that, but then again, that seems selfish, too, when you think about it.

    • @komal146
      @komal146 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I think ir was both. Rich people love intermarrying and conformity. And that includes both class and cultural background. At least according to the movie.

    • @-chenlanying5818
      @-chenlanying5818 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@komal146 28:47 what did they said

    • @what-a-marvelous-tune
      @what-a-marvelous-tune ปีที่แล้ว +20

      When it comes to book-to-movie adaptations, people rarely get it right. I, however, always look at it this way; we have two retellings of the same story. And with Crazy Rich Asians I think both are incredibly interesting takes.

    • @Lee-Llhm
      @Lee-Llhm ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I’ve read all the books and this movie is actually pretty accurate. In the book Michael’s cheating is actually explained. I think they only put the cheating part to leave the story open ended incase they wanted to add another movie. Things actually get worse for Astrid and Michael’s relationship in the books, that was a journey.
      Nick and Rachel’s relationship is also explored deeper. The entire family’s dynamic is explained so well I really hope they make a second movie.

    • @ashleydowney1222
      @ashleydowney1222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't love the book. A tad bit too crass for me.

  • @amby8719
    @amby8719 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    i love how this movie shows how in america, we chase after "individualism" and individual success. while in asian culture it's about family and supporting your family always. i think both are very great mindsets to have, but finding a balance between the two is important.

    • @musicallover8401
      @musicallover8401 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well put

    • @lydiawulanastri6454
      @lydiawulanastri6454 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      same thing here. as an Asian who grew up in Asia (specifically Indonesia), the comparison of "eastern = collectivism" and "western = individualism" were always repeated back to back on my education/schooling and every day culture, aka both from formal and informal 'sources'. it resulted in me growing up to believe that collectivism is always better than the "selfish" individualism because that was what I was constantly thought. but as time goes and I became more aware of the western side of their culture from popular media like the internet, movies, songs, etc. I started to contemplate that maybe it isn't always 'one is better than the other.' most of the time, a balance will be preferable. this movie portrays it really well in my opinion.

  • @emilylouise1971
    @emilylouise1971 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    In the books Astrid’s husband never cheated he purposely made it look like he did so she would leave him and she finds that out. Which hurts so much worse to know your parter didn’t love someone else more they just really wanted to leave the relationship

    • @jackieelizabeth8614
      @jackieelizabeth8614 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But he's so so much worse in the books

    • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
      @user-pt5cl2ro6f หลายเดือนก่อน

      And presented it in an elaborate way that hurt you even more! It's sadistic really.He couldn't simply communicate it and had to hurt the whole family more than necessary.

  • @henninggirl261
    @henninggirl261 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    The emerald ring that the mom is wearing is real and belongs to the actress, Michelle Yeoh. They had a fake one made but it looked really bad. So she got this one from her personal collection.

    • @mel_zzz_
      @mel_zzz_ ปีที่แล้ว +43

      She is the real crazy rich Asian in the cast. I can just imagine her face seeing the fake one 🤣🤣🤣.

  • @rubybee2180
    @rubybee2180 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    You know what, I realized after watching this movie many times that Rachel could be an asset to the Young family business being an economics professor... and they don't see that lol

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Astrid is an icon, a legend and she is the moment. She’s absolutely fabulous!

  • @tracey5324
    @tracey5324 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I always imagined that Nick's 'poor' circumstances at the start of the film was him establishing independance. Many families like this use money as a means of control- if he didn't behave he didn't get cash and he had ignored his mother's orders to return home.
    By the time he found himself in a relationship he realised that he could absolutely live this life. How they took to his choice of wife was the final factor on if he stayed or ran.

  • @tapphic
    @tapphic ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So ironic how Elenore is preaching about putting family first when her own husband bailed on the entire wedding party for work bc "when work calls, dad answers" loll

  • @iamangieh
    @iamangieh ปีที่แล้ว +101

    because Nick’s mom knew that the grandmother wouldn’t give Nick the family ring either, she gave HER OWN ring to Nick to propose to Rachel 😭💞

    • @Lee-Llhm
      @Lee-Llhm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Read the books you’ll see things a little different

  • @laurajaynenolan2149
    @laurajaynenolan2149 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Asian aunties really are something else ngl. I went on 1 date and my Gran who lives in a specialist dementia care unit knew about it, I told nobody but he told his mum who lives in Hong Kong and she told someone in his church over here and my Gran goes to the very same church but just for events. It’s an Asian church so even though he is from Hong Kong and my family is Thai there was STILL crossover!

  • @stuffwithsoph8264
    @stuffwithsoph8264 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Thank you for not gatekeeping culture, I'm half Greek, half Ukrainan but born and raised Canadian, I've dated a lot of people who were kids of immigrants or immigrants themselves and have struggled with people who always look down on me and say I'm not Greek or Ukrainan, culture is a really fluid thing

  • @tweeeeeeeg7634
    @tweeeeeeeg7634 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    The scene where the mom and Rachel are on the stairs is always so symbolic to me, the way they start on the same level, only for Rachel to get pushed down a step as the mom puts her down emotionally too 👌🏻 it’s so good 😩

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Kevin Kwan is that writer who can make a family tree hilarious. Also, do watch the video where he goes to Fashion Week with Asian celebrities. Brilliance.

    • @nerd_by_nature5046
      @nerd_by_nature5046 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That video was insane! I love how one of the girls, Heart Evangelista, actually started hand painting on purses after she had stained hers and didn't want it to just go to waste.

    • @gerardrojas6050
      @gerardrojas6050 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nerd_by_nature5046 omg i know i also love her Heart Evangelista, truly a crazy rich asian
      i hope they react to it to to see how different asians are with wester rich family and how they take fashion and branding so differently

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +47

    4:16 The entire Radio1Asia Sequence was so funny because it’s true. Every Asian Communication Network functions the same way across countries.

  • @alexconverse4839
    @alexconverse4839 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The realization about Rachel’s mom went VERY different in the book. It happened in a cabin in the middle of nowhere, nick will literally ABOUT to propose, and Rachel screamed at her mom in anger for lying

  • @CarWashReviews-Ethan
    @CarWashReviews-Ethan ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I like the fact the writer(s) of the Book/film also gave other characters (such as Astrid, the Gohs, and Nick's other family members) the floor not just Rachel and Nick. It just made them more humanizing despite being one of the most rich and pretentious people of the world.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Rachel’s mom is the MVP of this movie. You see where the humour comes from.

    • @valleya6114
      @valleya6114 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah... that look she gave Nick's mom at the mahjong game says "In digging into my personal business you hurt my daughter, I'll remember that... watch your back". Priceless!

  • @shinryouzen
    @shinryouzen ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I freakin love this movie, i aint rich but the family dynamics are so relatable
    Edit: 42:05 for context eyelid tape goes on top of the eyelid and basically tapes the upper eyelid skin to scrunch it together to form a fake temporary “double eyelid”. It’s a thing in a lot of Asian makeup stores since a lot of Asians have monolids or epicanthic folds so it’s to get the double eyelid look.

  • @carlalussini
    @carlalussini ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just realized, Astra went to the Bachelorette weekend dressed in white and blue, because she's unconsciously (it is navy for an island trip, after all) grieving death of her marriage, even if she can't accept it yet.

  • @DarleneLesmana
    @DarleneLesmana ปีที่แล้ว +58

    i lived in sg for a few years and it broke me and here's a couple of things about the movie:
    singapore has one of the worst property markets, despite having a lot of government housing. it's a running joke there that people get married to get a better chance at getting government housing. so the "humble abode" is an insane amount of money. it depends on the location, but still, insane
    also, just like the uk, accents are a huge thing in singapore, where you can tell so much about a person based on how they speak. yes it can tell you about class, but people could also tell which school people went to. peik lin's mom's accent is more of a typical singaporean accent while nick's mom sounds more like how singapore politicians talk. having a foreign accent -not even a posh one, just a foreign, native english speaker accent- makes people think you're rich (and sometimes stuck up ngl). definitely led to a few weird convos with taxi drivers and hawker aunties because i look local but sounded foreign.
    and also, hawkers (the food scene in the beginning) are awesome. you can get a good meal for a few bucks, and iirc there's a stall that has a michellin star. i used to get nasi lemak at the hawker behind the school i went to for like 2.50.

    • @regina_filange2.0
      @regina_filange2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's so interesting to read. Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @Suzy24
    @Suzy24 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’m so disappointed that they haven’t made a sequel yet the second book is so good

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    You guys are one the best when it comes to movie reactions. The whole vibe between the two of you is surely unbeatable. Crazy Rich Asians gives you that warm, fuzzy feeling that you don’t ever want to let go of. The fact that family stays together til the end is so reassuring to a lot of people who may feel loneliness deep within.

  • @finncruz8748
    @finncruz8748 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The auntie on the plane is an absolute vibe. Literal spirit animal.Telling her to hurry up but then being invested in the convo😂😂

  • @rosyface15
    @rosyface15 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    As a recommendation: a very good movie that I think k has an interesting take on the "east vs. west" mentality but without villianizing either side I think is "The Farewell". A great indie movie by an Asian director

    • @katara2021
      @katara2021 ปีที่แล้ว

      That movie was beautiful.

  • @jeffsanders3453
    @jeffsanders3453 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I remember the first time watching this and during the entire movie I kept thinking “they can’t get any richer can they?“ and they do. Every scene just get richer and richer and I loved it

  • @the_nikster1
    @the_nikster1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Astrid is my absolute favorite character in this movie. not only is she absolutely drop dead gorgeous, but she is an icon and just a beautiful person inside and out. we would all be so lucky to have a friend like her! ❤

  • @eleanorjones8613
    @eleanorjones8613 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Nick knew exactly how his family would react and that’s why he was ‘acting poor’ he was anticipating what life would be like and that’s why he didn’t warn her. Which sucks and he should’ve told her. I do like that legitimately apologizes though

  • @maggiebarbour4831
    @maggiebarbour4831 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Eleanor not only let them get married but, I don't know if you caught that she gave Nick her ring to give to Rachel so she could have the "family ring" that she never could have

  • @allier1867
    @allier1867 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    the eyelid tape is essentially a tape you strategically place on your eyelid to make your eyes look bigger. its popular in east asian countries

  • @raynacarraway440
    @raynacarraway440 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    God it doesn't matter how many times I've seen Crazy Rich Asians (which is a LOT, probably one of the films I've seen the most) I LOVE watching people watch it for the first time, especially the ring reveal at the end. I remember seeing that scene in theaters and iirc I cried lol

  • @Veronica.Celine
    @Veronica.Celine ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Your consistent work and uploading never goes unnoticed! We all love you both & the channel!

    • @themoviebudz1988
      @themoviebudz1988  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thanks, it can be tough. We appreciate the support 😊 - Sam

    • @hotstuff400
      @hotstuff400 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@themoviebudz1988 where can i send movie request pls.. id also love to donate

  • @monicacreator3168
    @monicacreator3168 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Unpopular opinion, but I disliked how Nick let Rachel at the mercy of his mother's attack. If it was because of the immigrant rule of always respecting your elders I wouldn't have mind it, but the fact that it's because "she's strong"??
    Absolutely no

    • @samswayzie
      @samswayzie ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s spelled Rachel

    • @KairiKH21
      @KairiKH21 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Great movie, but like most movies things couldve been better for sure. For me, Nick’s love of his family fidnt come off as very strong for me. Rachel heavily cared for her mom, or at least came across as such, so it frustrated me too when he didnt stand up for her much.

    • @monicacreator3168
      @monicacreator3168 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samswayzie oops, mistake

    • @yukiminying2634
      @yukiminying2634 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's quite frustrating indeed, but in that culture, defending yourself or someone that's not of blood, is considered a traitor/ disgrace or rude. Hence why some people rather not make a scene, and just take it all in. It's also a reflection of his progress of being under the mother's obedience and a goody two shoes. And because of this, the mother possibly leeches on this, making her unstoppable and also displaying some sort of authority over their children. Which then projects to other families that they have everything under control and are striving.

    • @monicacreator3168
      @monicacreator3168 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yukiminying2634 See, I would agree with you... if the story wasn't about a guy so in love that he's ready to abandon his family or what not.
      At the end of the movie, she gives the mom the ring and tells her he would have chosen her, but she doesn't want to break the family appart. Cool. Except at no point did he actually go against his family to defend her. So the movie is literally contradicting itself.
      I felt the same way when I read the novel too, about Nick

  • @relaxationstation7634
    @relaxationstation7634 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I can understand Nick not telling Rachel for a while into their relationship about his family. But I think it's kind of douche move that he tells her pretty much NOTHING right before she's about to visiting her family.

  • @paintedember3684
    @paintedember3684 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why am I just now realizing Rachel's specialization in Game Theory is the tie-in to the Mahjong scene. I was thinking of it as an intrinsic quality, saying she's good enough. But it's actually a tie-in to her mind, culture, and personal accomplishments saying she's good enough BECAUSE they're where she comes from.

  • @taylorswiftlover901
    @taylorswiftlover901 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    in the books i think that astrid's husband was waaaay more worse because from what i remembered he didn't even cheat at all. he just staged all the texts and all the suspicious stuff because he was insecure about astrid lol. i still think that astrid's development in the books were more fun to read compared to rachel's and i can't wait to see more of it in the future movies. thanks for reacting to this btw always love you guys' reactions :-))

    • @Lee-Llhm
      @Lee-Llhm ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly, Astrid’s development compared to Rachel’s was wayyyy more interesting. I don’t exactly like how her story line ended but it was interesting to see. And yeah Michael was absolutely horrible in the rest of the story. This is only one movie and I believe that they weren’t sure if there was to be a second one or not, also because of the run time they only lightly touched on Astrid and Michael’s relationship. If there is to be a second movie I think we’ll see more from what is in the books.

    • @ashleydowney1222
      @ashleydowney1222 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Lee-Llhm There have been issues with the second one. In 2019 the screenwriter Adele Lim left due to fact that she was paid a lot less than the male screenwriters of the the film. She only got $110K for helping screenwrite the film. And Peter Chiarelli made $800K-$1M for doing the exact same job. Peter Chiarelli offered to split his wages with Adele. He also left as well. They have hired another scientist writer. But there has issues with the cast's availability as well. Apparently the film is currently in the writing stage.

  • @jennaB209
    @jennaB209 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I saw this movie twice in theaters. There’s maybe 1 movie per year that can get me back in the theaters twice. It gives you all the happy feels with a little bit of a heavy heart at times. Such a rare gem!

  • @tamarakohek5484
    @tamarakohek5484 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The wedding scene in this movie is breathtaking. Made me cry 🥰

    • @MaddyKahn
      @MaddyKahn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if i had that kind of money i would love to do that too🥰 literally got chills when i saw it in theaters

  • @Prof.SeverusSnape
    @Prof.SeverusSnape ปีที่แล้ว +17

    the thing that lowkey pisses me off about men like Michael is the fact that if it were the woman who was not as wealthy he would've been perfectly fine with that dynamic. I'm getting tired of repeating the fact that we're in the 21st century, and frankly, to me jealousy is one of the most unattractive and repulsive traits of human nature that a person could have.

    • @universalpower419
      @universalpower419 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well of course, that is the point, the person with power does not fell the insecurity...did you watch the movie? XD

    • @universalpower419
      @universalpower419 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      and He is not jealous of her, He is uncomfortable with the power dynamic

  • @candyisreading8813
    @candyisreading8813 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My sister and I always say that Nick is a nice guy but a TERRIBLE boyfriend (at times)! There were so many ways he could have made things easier for her. If it wasn't for Akwafina she would have met his mum in that very mid dress! (As cute as it was).

    • @RVandergeld
      @RVandergeld ปีที่แล้ว +5

      To be fair though the people in Nick's life would judge and make things harder for Rachel regardless of how much she prepared to fit their lifestyle. So ultimately he couldn't have prepared her any more than what she already knows that would significantly matter.

  • @DarleneLesmana
    @DarleneLesmana ปีที่แล้ว +3

    iirc, the author of this book is singaporean, but he was not at the premiere in singapore at all because if he came to singapore he would be arrested because he evaded conscription

  • @ashleydowney1222
    @ashleydowney1222 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love this movie. The book is definitely more explicit than the movie. I was working in a movie theater when this movie came out. I saw it twice in theaters. I didn't realize that Sam was half Thai. That's really cool.

  • @tainaaguiar5039
    @tainaaguiar5039 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The director personally wrote to Coldplay requesting their permission to do a rendition of Yellow in mandarin, as the word is used to characterize and reprimand Asians (especially East Asians) in the US.
    So yes, it was a deliberate choice :)

  • @hotstuff400
    @hotstuff400 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The mahjong and astrid last moments are cinematic greats! I will never forget these scenes let alone the movie itself. Lovely reaction guys! May I ask how can I make a movie request? Do you guys have patreon?

  • @SaraGonzalez-ih8ht
    @SaraGonzalez-ih8ht ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had an accident at my workplace a year ago and my mom was the one who picked me up and took me to the hospital, the way Rachel ran to her mom and how her voice cracked when she called for her and started crying after not breaking up until the mom shows up just gave me the most vivid flash back of that accident and how I did and acted the exact same way when I saw my mom had arrived and was there with me

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +23

    OMG OMG OMG OMG! Although I thought the movie would’ve been covered earlier. Also, finally I can watch your reaction to a movie I’ve actually seen.

    • @themoviebudz1988
      @themoviebudz1988  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We don't want to do all the biggest movies too early and then only be left with the less successful ones cause then we have less certainty about how the channel's going to go for the future. Loved this one tho - Sam

    • @PokhrajRoy.
      @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@themoviebudz1988 I’m always happy to see a video on the channel. Less for the movie, more for your reactions lol

  • @swati2088
    @swati2088 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I remember watching this movie and quite liked it but around the time it came out, I also saw rightful criticism from Singaporeans about how the movie shows only Chinese families and people in Singapore despite there being a large number of Malay and South Asian people living there too (which, yes its the 1% here - the richest which im assuming are majority chinese but still). People wrote about how the race dynamics and so on were never addressed. Something to think about!

  • @brigettemajake8118
    @brigettemajake8118 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Omg thank god. I really didn't want to be productive 😭

    • @themoviebudz1988
      @themoviebudz1988  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol, there's a time and a place for everything 😊 - Sam

  • @TheScarlettrouge
    @TheScarlettrouge ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rachel’s “mic drop” was when she revealed her hand. If she kept that tile she would have won. Which ties back to her lesson at the beginning.

  • @allisonbeattie4738
    @allisonbeattie4738 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Harry Shum Jr!!!!!!! My baby!!! Loved him in Shadowhunters and Glee!!

  • @GA-ix7kn
    @GA-ix7kn ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh no the wedding scene, makes me cry everytime 🥲

  • @bugrome2243
    @bugrome2243 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when i saw the wedding scene in theaters i started crying, it was just so well done and so beautiful

  • @TheCrayonMaster
    @TheCrayonMaster ปีที่แล้ว +5

    On the topic of going to school abroad...I went to a really good art university here in Canada, and I became friends with a girl from Thailand who was also attending this school. Her English was perfect, she attended a boarding school in India growing up, and used to say her English was better than her Thai because of that. Her family is rich and all still live in Thailand. I don't know how the conversation came up, but she was speaking with me and some other Canadian students about tuition...and she was shocked we all had student loans and that our parents couldn't afford to pay for our entire post-secondary education.
    Edit: Just finished watching. Sam, when I wrote this, I didn't know you're half Thai!😊

  • @tomasinamichele
    @tomasinamichele ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As someone who was called an "oreo" throughout childhood and not considered "black enough" I really appreciate your commentary on the subject 👍🏾

  • @redwolf9966
    @redwolf9966 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This movie is so beautiful I cried so many times when I watch the wedding scene, I saw this movie 6 times when it came out, and the first time I ever saw this movie when the plane scene came on and the twist happened everyone in the theater gasped all together everyone was shocked and taken aback it was honestly very beautiful. Also Fun fact Elenor’s (nicks mother) Ring is actually the Actress’s, Michelle Yeoh’s, one of her own rings from her own personal jewelry box.

  • @kashhhviii
    @kashhhviii ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you guys have the best commentary -- deep analysis, great humour, loads of awareness. quality content!

  • @roxirock5455
    @roxirock5455 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I would recommend Coraline for Halloween this year,know it's a bit early but still

    • @themoviebudz1988
      @themoviebudz1988  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We'd love to but we don't really touch anything Universal anymore due to their propensity for copyright claims no matter how well cut the video is - Sam

    • @roxirock5455
      @roxirock5455 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@themoviebudz1988 that sucks, thanks anyway

  • @valery5360
    @valery5360 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i LOVE Crazy Rich Asians im glad you watched it! the wedding was out of this world

  • @CloisForever29
    @CloisForever29 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I cried in the wedding scene. That scene was stunning♥️

  • @nashwaf9
    @nashwaf9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is my favorite movie, so i couldn't help but tear up at the end. it's been four years but i'm still in love.

  • @sweetpary
    @sweetpary ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love that you guys are so thoughtful in your reactions. I've watched this movie 4 or 5 times. Can't wait for the sequel.

  • @Gosperella26
    @Gosperella26 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "If I tried than I would suck..." This is why I lobe this channel 🤣😂 thanks Stef

  • @tamlynferreira8288
    @tamlynferreira8288 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this reaction. Haven't watched it yet but I asked for it in one of your other videos and you've done it. I'm so grateful. You guys get me through my degree honestly. Without your videos life would be so dreary. The pre service teachers appreciate you 🙏 ❤️ 💙

  • @leire5932
    @leire5932 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm so happy you guys reacted to this. I love this movie so much

  • @doppio_77
    @doppio_77 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this movie! I lived in Malaysia during the time of filming and lived across the street from the restaurant in the opening scene. Fun fact - that restaurant was not in New York, but in Malaysia.

  • @JMac7395
    @JMac7395 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    During the 80s & early 90s cell phones were used mostly by people that worked in certain parts of Corporate industry i.e finance, accounting etc. The late 90s is when it became popular to have one w/out working in the Corporate industry

  • @jow2716
    @jow2716 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What a great video! 😍To me I didn't understand it as an ethnic problem and more of an issue with the "specific cultural mindset" you get when you grow up in a place. So basically it's not that she's half-chinese per say, it's that she grew up in America (far away from the chinese culture) that is the real turn-off for the mother.
    She thinks (kind of rightfully so), that the fundamental difference of ideology between eastern and western culture (pursuite of one's happiness V/s sacrificing oneself to build a legacy) will lead to unsurmountable barriers in Nick and Rachel's relationship ; eventually leading him to either work hard to maintain his family's legacy with an unsupportive wife (therefore being unhappy in his marriage) OR turning down the legacy all together for a life in America (which Nick IS actually considering... so the mom's not actually far-off in her assumptions) and both options look terrible for her.
    I believe she is rather unhappy in her own marriage because she confesses to Rachel that she was ill-prepared to the kind of sacrifices this life meant and the father doesn't appear AT ALL in the movie... (can't be bothered to show-up to family events: "too much work"). She doesn't want that for her son and whomever he chooses to start a family with.
    Of course, in her reasonning she fails to take into account how much Rachel is prepared to fight for their relationship and what kind of sacrifices Nick is actually prepared to make in order to make it work. She is so stuck up in all the ways this could go wrong that she doesn't see how it could happen any differently (forgetting that Nick is not his father and Rachel is not her, so they might not end-up like Nick's parents at all).
    Anyway, this was my way-too-long and overly-complicated analysis on this movie! lol

  • @moon_sun1964
    @moon_sun1964 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are literally my top 5 favorite channel! Keep up the good work

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Out of Context Stef: “Let him dream of croissants.”

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very few lines in cinema compare to “I’m the rainbow sheep of the family.”

  • @imsokeiko
    @imsokeiko ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of my favorite movies. Learning the intricacies of the Mahjong scene (I think it was in a Vox article) added to the impact of Rachel's moves. Beautifully done.

  • @matildeskitchen
    @matildeskitchen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1 hour of you!!! yaaasss I love when you have a new video up :) it helps to watch your videos when anxiety gets the best of me and I can't sleep. thank you for giving me comfort in theses days.

  • @jaelin124
    @jaelin124 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for uploading today guys ❤️

  • @randomotakunerd
    @randomotakunerd ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I totally related to this way too much, ironically on both sides. My family is poor, but at the same time, my dad is the head of our family and pretty well respected, and I'm his only kid. And I'm just the third youngest kid in the family, that despite coming from a purely Latino family can't speak Spanish that well. I get the stress from having big expectations while at the same time get the struggles of being looked down upon for your class.

  • @elizabethavalos1880
    @elizabethavalos1880 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m at work and I just jumped in my seat with excitement seeing that y’all uploaded a new video!! Yay!!👏🏽

  • @nerd_by_nature5046
    @nerd_by_nature5046 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    AH! I LOVE this movie! A favorite I can always rewatch.
    The mahjong scene; *chefs kiss*. Beautiful.

    • @kathyastrom1315
      @kathyastrom1315 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are some really good articles that explain how the mahjong game reflects the dynamics between Rachel and Eleanor, especially useful to people like me who don’t play the game.

  • @corvus1374
    @corvus1374 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The guy at the end is Harry Shum. He was in Glee.

  • @neydaa_
    @neydaa_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watched this movie for the first time the other day on a lawn with a bunch of girls in Brooklyn, NYC. It was just what I needed after a breakup, and it taught me so much. My ex and I used to hang out in that park all the time and now I’ve replaced those memories with the memory of watching this movie. This movie means a lot to me now.

  • @trisha4551
    @trisha4551 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    UHM HELLO I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS SINCE FOREVERRRR

  • @TholoanaN
    @TholoanaN ปีที่แล้ว

    This is such a coincidence. I’ve literally been watching old reactions of “Crazy Rich Asians” and here you guys are with a shiny new one for me to watch.

  • @IrishHeart
    @IrishHeart ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I LOVE this movie!! And was just last night thinking about rewatching it and here you two are!!! So I shall watch with you instead :D

  • @stuffwithsoph8264
    @stuffwithsoph8264 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Watched this on a plane and I cried my eyes out and enjoyed it so immensly 😭💞

  • @regina_filange2.0
    @regina_filange2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Appreciate your insight on Western culture, esp when talking about how some movies say to forsake your roots, go embrace western culture. I live in the States, and it's hard to see just how much it takes over the rest of the world. I'm aware from my family's perspective (Grandparents from Mexico), but that's still right next door. I've watched this beautiful movie a few times, and you brought in a new insight. Thanks budz.

  • @Kiraiko44
    @Kiraiko44 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Classism is definitely universal, there's always people who feel like they're better than others because they have money everywhere you go.

  • @ezii113
    @ezii113 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been binge watching your reactions and I just love the commentary and great in depth analysis 🙌🏻

  • @cath.is.an.erizen
    @cath.is.an.erizen ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OH MY GOD i've been waiting for this reaction from you guys 😭🤎

  • @giuliahernandes5245
    @giuliahernandes5245 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeeeeeeeeees!!! Best. Movie. Ever 💗 I am so happy to see you guys reacting

  • @shanell6364
    @shanell6364 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi guys, haven’t made a comment on one of your videos in months but i still watch every single one, just wanna say thanks for the comfort these videos bring me :)

  • @herkyrn
    @herkyrn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Zoom in “LIAAR!” 🤣

  • @ma-ri-ko
    @ma-ri-ko ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i remember how many asian folks had hopes pinned on this movie and i'm glad it really paid off for them. there has been a massive shift in east asian actors getting work in the west, even commercial work. but for me, this was always made for hollywood. i personally see a lot of nods to romance movies of the 30's and 40's, romcoms of the 90's, the elegance and opulance of studio tentpole pictures (think audrey hepburn in roman holiday), so it feels like asians in a hollywood picture. it doesn't feel like an asian diaspora story. as much as there are relatable elements, like i totally get feeling like shit because people judge you harshly when you don't look like a foreigner but you act like one, i don't think those bits are the center of the movie.
    however, i can appreciate it for what it is and i always have a fun time with your commentaries 💖 i hope you get to see michelle yeoh really flex her range in "everything everywhere all at once"! cuz the main emotion i felt while watching "crazy rich asians" was twitterpation every time she came on screen. the poise, the gaze, the serve... icon.

  • @jimmiejam508
    @jimmiejam508 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    last time i clicked this fast was for your hunger games commentaries!! buckling in :)