Stop Putting Someone On A Pedestal The Size Of Mount Everest | Third Parties | Cheating
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I’m cryinggggg 😂😂😂😂
Stop it Dylan 😭😭😭
Whyyyyy😂😂😂😂😂
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I usually don't comment, but please, listen and actually apply what Dylan says. I've been watching him for almost 2 years now, and my life has improved drastically. It all starts from within. His content is so authentic, and it shows! It's unfortunate that, despite how clearly Dylan has been communicating, people are still acting out of desperation and wondering why change isn't occurring. Please take a moment to clock yourself. I promise you, the moment you stand tall and stop caring about how people are behaving and showing up, things will start shifting in your favor quickly. You don't need to be perfect, but you need to be honest with your approach and stop being afraid of losing the little of what you may be getting. Hands off completely. Unless you work in a circus, I see no reason why anyone should be entertaining clownery. People who play games are playing with themselves. Also, genuinely ask yourself, if the roles were reversed, what would be attractive to me? I know that if I did something wrong in a relationship (platonic, romantic, familial, professional, etc.) and someone genuinely took a step back, honored themselves and their boundaries in a balanced, healthy, loving way... I'd be like, 'Wow, they actually live by what they say.' VERY ATTRACTIVE, FOLKS. In addition, ask yourself why you are attracted to experiences, behaviors, habits, etc. that are not exactly what you wish to experience. This is where accountability is extremely important because the moment you become grounded in yourself and your beliefs, that attraction to tomfoolery is gone like the wind, baby. Furthermore, there is a lot of nonsense spewed online about navigating relationships with others that really stems from 'pick me' behavior. You don't need to subscribe to it. Unsubscribe immediately because many people are projecting their own negative programming that stems from their experiences. You are worthy just as you are in this moment. Go look in the mirror or take a picture of your younger self and remember how special you are. Other people's beauty and light will never take away or compare to your own. There is nobody like you, and that is your power. My mother always told me that I was named Diamond for a reason. It's okay for your crown to tilt, but never let it fall. Trust that by honoring yourself, others have no CHOICE but to honor you!!! It really is that simple. Life is way too precious to not actually be receptive to everything that you desire. Playtime is over and I claim what’s mine. NOW 😌🤭🤪✨
This was beautiful 😍 Well said! Sometimes, we might forget about taking the steps back to remember that we're number 1, but you said nothing but facts lol 👏 👑
@@lisacastro3899 thank you queen! I’ve realized it only gets easier to call back our energy and remember that. Also, I’ve been affirming that I’m an excellent writer and can communicate with anyone so I appreciate it 😝
@@dt6964 Of course ☺️ and it seems your assumptions are proving true haha Yes, I agree. We gotta keep going and realizing that it stems from us. From experience, the less I cared about them, the more they tried to get my attention. Sure, I have an SP or two in mind, whose stories I'm changing for my favor, but hey, the world is full of options, too. Even better, it's lovely just to love ourselves most. 😘💅
Damn right Ms Diamond 💎
"people who play games are playing with themselves" LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Yooo he said he wanted a 50-50 relationship or a sugar mama and I walked. GUESS who changed his tune. GUESS who started sending me gifts + looking at me with eyes dripping in love
Please tell me what you did I’m in the same situation 🥹
@@AmahleKhoza-vq5zuknew her worth, walked away with confidence and knew that by doing that, he would come back and change in the way she wanted. it’s all about deciding what you want to create with confidence and persisting/knowing it into being :)
Thank you for the reply ❤️ by walking away you mean breaking up with him ?
She knew her worth n value n what we truly desired n she gladly walked away when he presented not that with confidence so of course he changed his tune cuz if he didn’t he would lose her for good n he clearly didn’t want that. Get it girllll 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼
@@AmahleKhoza-vq5zu I told him "I hear you want ........ and I can let go. we don't have to do this any more." then I took space for myself
I cried all day today after stalking Instagram. Why did this video come up... Daddy always comes up when needed.
Just happened to me today and now I’m watching his videos too. They are helping. I’m still a little bit fearful of what’s to come but I’m taking a leap. Can’t keep going through these toxic emotional cycles.
It took a minute but after I got my self concept together I like naturally and kinda magically just stopped giving a fuck lol them wack ass desperate longing feelings are GONE just like that. Like boy bye you tried it. Thank you sm Dylan!
Hello everyone. I just want to say that thanks to Dylan James i manifested my SP. What we went through and the situations that normally a person would give up because they were so hopeless and there was no chance that we could end up together were unimaginable... but I never gave up and I fought, above all, I fought with my own mind and the belief that we would be together. And here we are, live together, planning travels, our future and we even plan to get married.
Dont ever give up! and i am telling you things was Hopeless! and pathethic and just unbelievable!! So I am going to say only one thing - Everything is possible!!!!!!!!
Thank You Dylan for leading me.
Can you tell more about your process? What did you do to get where you are now? I am struggle a little bit so I need some faith hahaha
@@Wicky91 Hey. sure. So my SP was my boss and he also was in long term relationship we had an affair last more then a year then he end with me ive got so depressed i was a mess i left a job but i couldnt even find new work place beacuse mentally i wasnt able to even look (and i was homeless at the same time [lving with friends for a month] ) so i come back to that job again.... at the time we were on a good terms as a boss and employee i was pretending that everything was fine that i dont have any feelings for him but i was in terrible state of mind... took about 3 years just working, smiling, and me get into the roight path with myself then i found Dylans channel (of course i was reading books (Joseph Murphy helped) watching others channels also but Dylan kind of make me feel good and more positive and easy through whole process of manifesting. what i learn the most is that Circumstances Dont Matter!!! that was the key for me.!! so just from nowhere things start to switch at one point i wanted him to move from work or i wanted to change job beacuse it was so hard for me but suddenly just like that he come to me just start to flirting and we got closer a bit so i knew this is it. hes mine now i knew it! then and he got moved to another city then he finish relationship, universe was just move things around just for us to end up together.. i was shocked!. I mean even the way i act crazy things and what i said or situations normally i think that person could run away from me xD. but he never did he never gave up on me and i was fighting for him so much. (meaning manifeting him) and everything start to taking place what was on my mind... things like i imagine us move in together or in some specific place spending time or or things he wanted to do.... came to live! excaclty what i wanted and imagine in my head! anyway the main thing is that you just have to know it and owned it!. Belief is no 1. and that nothing or anyone or NO MATTER WHAT CANNOT DISTROY THAT WHAT U WANT! and no matter what the hell happens even end of the world!! u can have it!!! u still owned it and its yours! im telling You no matter what!!!! things will go around crazy just to get you what u want. unbelievable things! there is no limits for universe. nothing is impossible! literally NOTHING! hope i helped a little. Good luck!
Hey I don't want to sound rude but you had an affair with your boss and you manifested him back? Meaning your boss was already in a committed relationship as you have mentioned?
Yes he was. @@Meowmeowmum
@@ewaadamina what did you do, like sleep affirmation, or meditation/visualisation? I've been getting mixed results for the last 3 weeks. my sp has a new girlfriend. We have a child together, so I see him every week. For a moment he acts very nice and I also hear that he had an argument with his girlfriend about me. when I got a new job and the first thing I want to do was call him but I didn’t than 5 minutes later he called me. and other times he acts very strange and distant. my self concept is quite stable, but I don't really know why the results are so unstable. it's very frustrating.
We need an affirmation night tape about putting ourselves on a pedestal & not them!!😭😭❤️❤️❤️
Just do it already u don’t need affirmations
@@josephludlow3942 affirmations are a plus in this journey! If it was like that, we wouldn’t need any of the affirmation tapes he is giving us. We would just “do it”
@@josephludlow3942whew .. this
i'm already cackling by the title 🤣
Me too lmao 😂
😆😆 stalking their igs wondering if they want to be with that person - so why are you operating that way 💀- I used to do this lol
This video is so important because a lot of coaches encourage ignoring disrespect. But Dylan reminds people that maintaining boundaries and self respect is key to getting what you want. Super empowering video, thanks Dylan!
what does ignoring disrespect exactly mean?
@@mewsao to turn a blind eye to being disrespected and just wait for things to turn around. Not sure how else to describe it
Exactly. They say don't respond at all. Like what am I supposed to do when he's in my living room? I think a lot of these coaches are thinking from relationships that aren't long term or people that are just in the talking stages. Some coaches need to realize there are a lot of people in marriages or LTR who live together are trying to manifest or repair a better relationship. So you can't just not answer the text. You share a house 😂. Ignoring them isn't feasible.
Once it's over, I'm done. No snooping, no looking at social media. I don't want to know anything.
I think this also means not making yourself a third party/side piece. Once we see our value we are no longer attracted to unavailable people💖
Theres no 3rd party. Im happily married but I remember manifesting marriage and now that I have it, Ive been having alot of doubts. Such as, what if I wasn't cut out to be a wife...etc. This just reminded me that I have to stop doubting myself. Thank you!
Aw hun, I can understand when those doubts creep in. I suggest listening to to some positive affirmation tapes! You ARE a WONDERFUL & an AMAZING WIFE! 🩷🙏🏾
If anyone’s on a pedestal, it’s me 💅🏼
8:26 don't lose yourself to a person at the point that u lose yourself 😭
Needed to hear
True! The deep rooted cause is not the other person but our own self concept. Thank you for being so smartly upfron n calling us out
The “love you” at the end after that read is everything! And ended it on that note…love it! 🤣🤣🤣
"And you all wonder why I take breaks..." 🤣
😂 too funny
My problem is I got blocked when I started acting high value. No drama; I just didn't entertain his "I think we should start seeing other people" and low investment. He was very triggered and I got blocked. I love him a lot and I do not understand how my unbotheredness brought this about. Only now do I feel triggered. He doesn't know it, but I am. I even have some guilt issues and feel like explaining myself. Thankfully, I don't do it bc I know it's my emotions working. But I do want to give him a piece of me when I am no longer triggered. It's been over a month now that he's blocked me. It's a pitty as the connection is all I ever wanted (spiritually), I even appreciate the mirror but I am ready to go to the next level. I guess my understanding of his em unavailability is my weak spot. It's been years now and we go round and round in circles. I just want to lose the compassion as I am prone to feeling people's fears. I have no doubts whether I can get commitment from every other breathing guy, but him. This I want changed.
Love you Dylan! You've changed my life 180 degrees. Taught me the most important thing, i.e self-esteem, self-respect.
You also start to care "less" when you get older hahah. I demand respect, commitment, respect and peace.
So glad you’re back to posting regularly!! I’m not even trying to manifest an SP anymore like I was when I found you and still love this. Have come soooo far - can just remember how triggered I used to be watching your content haha
My best friend was cheated on multiple times...Ive never been cheated on but I think I took on her trauma. She is happily married and I used to be worried about 3rd parties. I think I liked the cortisol rush. With consciousness, Ive dropped all acknowledgement of 3rd parties.
honestly the most empowering relationship advice ive ever seen
im early so i wanna say thank you for always posting content and always reiterating these concepts in different ways for it to reach those in need
It’s like Dylan is a fly on my wall 😵 The checking behaviors cause so much pain. I am following your advice though and working on my self-concept and beliefs. I want true self-love. Your posts are so motivating, thank you Xox
I think this was your response to my email I sent after our coaching session. I know that you are right. Being fearless and not being afraid, those are tough words. I really appreciate you ❤J
Dylan definitely did some breath work before this video 😅🤣 perhaps afterwards too.
Stepping on toes and snatching wigs but definitely speaking the truth. Some people would rather settle than loving themselves and realizing their worth. Sweet loves, please stop inflicting pain and suffering upon yourselves because of what someone else is doing. And it’s ok to seek help…take care of your mental health and overall wellness. Much love !♥️🙏🏾
Perfect! Done all these things, and then changed and walked away realising my worth. Relief and peace.
A talkkk for sureee u are the person we all needdd more of ! This was a awakening
We should always be prioritising and valuing ourselves period! Thank you for the tough love Daddy Dylan! 🙏💕✨
DAMNNNNNN DYLAN!!! Bring it, I needed this! So freaking grateful for you. ❤️✨❤️✨
I normally don’t comment but he sounds like a higher version of myself giving me a lecture of how to love myself ❤
Love how you always kick my ass and say the things nobody else wants to say to me. Thanks for always giving me the hard truths. Love you Dylan
But they are on a pedestal the size of Whoville!!!!!!!!!!!
A ANT HILL!! 👏🏾
Dylan is The Truth!!! The first 1 min & 30 seconds was clutch! 👏🏾 👌🏾He is so right.
-Why be attached to somebody that is entertaining 3rd parties!?!
-Like he said “Stop All That!”
-Why are they being put on a pedestal the size of Mt. Everest!?! Lol Yess Speak on it 👏🏾 🗣️
-When my vibe is high, everything is truly blissful and easy. I love it here & will only focus on maintaining my high self-concept! Thank you Dylan!🩵🧘🏽♀️
I'm just really happy you're back and consistently releasing new videos. ❤ I missed you!
Dylan you are f*cking on 🔥& I must say you are absolutely GLOWING! Love you ❤
Thank u Dylan. This is so liberating and inspiring
I appreciate the warnings but you never need to hold back imo 😂 I actually prefer to be read for filth cause the message sticks better that way and honestly I wish you did more videos like this!
Nothing like a Dylan grilling with my morning coffee ☕️✌️🙏🔥😂
You know it’s a good day when Dylan drops a video
You are the number one piority!
Before I got betrayed I had suspected it. I’m convinced that wasn’t intuition but that I manifested it.
saaaaame!
There’s no intuition. You had unconscious feelings/ thoughts that manifested that outcome.
The “gut feeling/intuition” is just subconscious program.
@@AJ-14.2 explain more please?
That intuition was limiting belief we are all changing it on this we have got this 🙏🙏🙏
Oo zaddy shaved
Thank you Dylan. In a 2 yr relationship and have been bugging out over the fact that my very loyal, doting, patient and kind bf is following girls he might’ve thought were cute while he wa single. He Doesn’t see any reason to unfollow bc he says he is not talking to anyone, and I can confirm he isn’t. Ig it’s a self concept issue, but yes I need to take him off the pedestal
Legit screaming. I love you Dylan YES.
Why am I still struggling to fully letting this person energetically go? The moment I think I am over I feel sadness all over again and it’s been like this for a long time now. I feel Dylan’s content inspires me but I am missing something out. I don’t know what to do because only thing left is to rewatch all his content until things start to click in my head again. I believe in the past I used to catch what he was explaining in his videos immediately now it’s taking me months to grasp and consolidate what he is saying
😂😂😂 i really felt his frustration. Dylan i promise you I’m laying down the law and not putting up with no BS but he conforms instantly ❤
I really needed to hear this, found out my bf of 4 years was cheating on me while away abroad working on a cruise, just because he wants to fulfill his dream of "sleeping with women from around the world", I felt so disgusted and knew I couldn't tolerate it anymore, I draw the line at cheating. Its been two weeks since I broke it off, and honestly this is the most difficult thing I've done in my life because I loved him with everything I had and he threw away what we had like it was nothing. Till this day I miss him and love him, but I'm not going to fight for him anymore. I honestly just want peace and to be happy. I need to start realising my self worth more and stop tolerating bs from people who don't even deserve it or deserve me. Thank you Dylan, I really needed to this ❤️
One word, i love you.. you are talking to us like you are our BFF ❤
I did walk away from many men that were not treating me right and they never tried to win me back or pursue me. Why is that?
I love you. Thank you for your words. You come across in a way that makes so much sense and I’m now binge watching your videos this morning and just bought both workshops. You are amazing. Thank you for your help
oooooh, this is amazing! the binge is real 😂😻
The title gets me because it’s so true speak the truth don’t hold back Dylan!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾✨
Loving this !! From personal experience, be careful who you get intimate with! It is not a game !!!!!😅😅
Okay You’re the best Dylan!😂❤️
You’re the only party. It took me a little bit to realize this and my worth and being/feeling choosen but I finally have. My SP is a singer and I feel like he’s the sweetest man ever and I’m gonna be with him period, whenever it shows up. I’m knowing this.
You’re a beautiful human being Dylan !
You always seem to know what I'm going through
Thank you dylan ugh! We need to recognize our value. No one is more valuable than ourselves.
Love this! Straight forward and not playing. Ty Dylan, for another great video!
Listen to me. There was this guy I had this massive crush on. I just had lost my boyfriend, so I wasn’t really ready, but I had a crush nonetheless. He was on tinder, very emotionally unavailable etc. I didn’t entertain this man, didn’t chase. I was so sure of myself, so sure that I was the opposite of a tinder woman (all due respect my sisters…)
It didn’t work as I ran away from our group of friends but a year later, the truth arised. He was in love with me. But tinder was easier for him. That’s it.
Absolutely loved this video thank you so much for the words of encouragement ❤
This is sooooo true! Honestly it works in business too.
Hahahaha. I understand why you take breaks😂 Thank you Dylan❤
We are in NC but I needed this reminder. Thank You so much
This is my favorite version of Dylan 💯
Wow Dylan, you are such a blessing for some of us that is listening and watching you 🙏🏼
We got this Dylanaters! I put him on while I work so I can feel coached lmao
Thank you so much Dylan 😍🥰
Boo, thank you for reminding me/you/us how it is. Idk about 3rd parties. Can't be bothered. I listened to your healthy meditation. Lost five lbs and counting. ❤ big storm in Phoenix blew down a big tree. Not a scratch on my car, or house. Eating healthy and got two stroke in me saw. I was a Sawyer, per the Forest Service. This fallen tree reminded me I might be 38, bit of baby weight... but picking up my saw reminded me I'm still that bitch. Anyone need wood? It's good, mesquite. All cut up... good for bbq ...free for the taking. Sounds weird, not to this community, but.... sometimes...it takes a big tree.. hey, if a tree falls and there is no one to hear it....😂🤷🥰❤️
I love it! Thank you Dylan ❤
These videos have come out at the perfect time because I really need them right now!
LOVE THIS DYLAN! YOU ARE AWESOME! 😁💖
Dylan… 😮🥺 … I’m at a loss for words… for how much I needed to hear what you had to say 🙏🏻❤️ An absolute must watch video for anyone navigating manifesting a relationship. You have a unique ability to hold a proverbial mirror up to our faces… make us get a good look and actually like what we see. That’s a real superpower! You are truly a life altering coach! Thank you for this 🙌🏻❤️
PS ~ Btw your smile is beautiful!! ❤️
It’s all about your IDENTITY.
I get answers of alot of my questions which i was looking for from this video.
Soo yeah once again thankuuuuu sooo much.
Love you 😍
Missed you Dylan!!! Welcome back!! You look amazing and sound even better than ever ❤
“If you want to turn off turn off right now” phone dies hahahaha for god sake! Xx back on!
Love the content daddy! Love it
Adam is inspiring on tik Tok. Living his work out videos ❤
Hi Dylan, Quick question. Ive always been self conscious that I'm not knowledgeable at work/I'm an overthinker and that people seem to not understand me also can't think properly when I'm under pressure. If i were to listen to one of your manifestation tapes, which one would be the best one to listen to? The limitless one?
Thank you for asking this 🙏
I experience the same thing with work.
Hi, I was the same way with school (not believing I’m good enough/smart enough, etc) and I listen to the “I am the best” subliminal. It’s helped a lot - I still have my moments of self doubt but at the end of the day I know im capable💓
The size of Mount Everest 😂 I used to do that with things people, I think this is all to do with feeling worthy from my experience. Yes!!! You said it. Self worth issues, exactly!!
Truth spoken
Best fu*king headline EVER 💣
So glad you’re back! I’m TH-cam exclusive and your girl has missed uuuu
THANK YOU 😊 We appreciate you so much 💕💕
My advice is to completely remove yourself from social media. Give your brain a much needed break from it. Your absence alone will move mountains. You’ll see!
I feel like you are scolding me 😭😭😭
Needed to hear this x 🏴
Thanks Dylan! Love all your new content! This video was great!
❤ PREACH❤ LOVE LOVE LOVE ❤
Thank you for being honest.
OMG HES BACK
Good vibes as always 🙏🏽❤️
This was EVERYTHING! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ YOU SOOOO MUCH, DYLAN!!!+
Watched this video again and smiling on the train omgosh 😂😩
the sass I KNOW AND LOVE! it's the pauses for me ;)
OMG Dylan I love you that was a whole read 😂
The last 15 seconds of this video will forever live rent free in my head ✨🗣️ 🏠
🙌🏽 Exactly, thank you!
We don’t have to wait or ask for anything when you know your worth n value you own that to your core knowing your the baddest sexiest most amazing woman feeling confident n fulfilled within herself. No waiting no begging no chasing just out here living your best life happy af 😁😁 walk it be it know who you are n put the focus on yourself it’s a game changer. I’m the best choice and i know it there’s nothing to convince i feel it to my core