All of these stories are heartbreaking. But the stories of Fathers abusing their own children are the saddest for me to hear. Mainly because time after time you hear those grown children still yearning for their Father to love them. All they knew from their Fathers was abuse and being used and despite that still wanting to have a real Father. I cannot imagine how painful that must be.
For many years I was abused by many people ... Not many of my family know this ..,sometimes I think it would help them understand why I behaved the way I did .. Turned it around now and life can begin again ❤
Marilyn, your body was saying NO. "I will not go any further until you face what we went through." There is an amazing book called "when the body says NO." And it explains so much..... if you have childhood abuse and trauma, please read this!
I am a Certified Facilitator of Darkness to Light child sexual abuse prevention. This documentary is excellent. I am thankful for all survivors who are willing to share their story. I believe the more people share their stories the more we can get people to realize what an epidemic this is and to start learning the facts versus myths.
i can NOT understand that there is ANY Statute Of Limitations on child abuse in any/every form it manifests. each and every state must ABOLISH the Statute Of Limitations on child abuse and ALL sexual violations regardless of age.
Because pedophiles run the government and courts. They make the laws lax on purpose. Children and abuse are not the world's priority as sick as that shit is
Just found this channel. As heartbreaking and enraging these stories are, I'm in amazement of the human ability to live through torture and still endure. Our experience on earth is not easy. It's actually quite painful. But it's the lessons we take away from that suffering that are so important. Every one of these people are breathtaking. ☮️💗💯
All these stories....all this heartbreak. I want to gather all of your childhood selves into my arms and weep over you all, weep with you until there are no more tears in the world and tell you all how much God loves you....and how sorry I am you all experienced this~ and are stuck with these memories for the remainder of your adult lives.
I’m so grateful for these brave people who took the worst of their young life situations and sharpened them into instruments of creation ; to bring forward their own particular introspection , self forgiveness and peace of heart - that’s nearly impossible to do without being outwardly abused sexually or psychologically as a child , a young adult or most of all as a fully aware adult. I’m proud for these people in so many many ways - thank you all for your directness , your willingness NOT to blame or shame but to create your own peace. Sincerely, Tom Beeton , Los Angeles
Yes, the most agreeable person. Me too, Donna ❤️ It created in me the *perfect* doormat and victim.... and mine wasn't even sexual abuse. It was only physical and psychologically. Still horrific.
I have the same dream every few months. I dream that I have to safe a child victim from sexual abuse. Sometimes I succeed and sometimes I don't. Sometimes I ask other people to help me and they act like it's normal. I have never been a victim of sexual abuse. But I think it is so terrible and I want to do anything I can to safe someone.
Good on you. Even in your dreams you're doing the right thing. We can help by talking about it and spreading the word. We need to get mandatory sex ed in every school in the US along with an abuse awareness training class for children age 5/kindergarten-12th grade. Have it every single year! Some kids dont even know that being abused is abuse until years later. We have to change this!
All of this and every bit of it is me … much therapy , 32 years of AA (of course I became a drug abuser and alcoholic) , and just all kinds of work, has made me a survivor. Day by Day I am Surviving !
One of the ways to help children at an early age is to talk to them and explain that their private parts are THEIR PRIVATE parts, that NO ONE can touch them there. Parents have that responsibility but a school programme should be established as of the first grade with sessions explaining the same thing and setting up a system where children can draw, take part in plays, and specialist present who could monitor and identify if some children seems to be keeping a dark secret that is harming them. According to some statistics 14 year old - boys mostly - are the ones to start sexual acts on possibly much younger siblings. So there too, parents need to warm their teenagers about these risks and school programmes need to be put in place education to warn and sensitize them on the harm they do. Check out the story and amazing work on recovery of an incest survivor and her dedication to prevent it th-cam.com/video/ALEfE3rNCqI/w-d-xo.html
My abuse started at 6 by an older boy in school, who was threatening me. I was terrified. It went on for a year before i said something. Then a second person started to do it. And at home i was being physically abused. It ruined my childhood. I still at 41 go to therapy. This kind of abuse literally snatches your soul away from you. 😢
These good people are not just survivors, they are thrivers , growing anew So so difficult to even conceive us for most of us Thriver , from surviver let’s maybe think about that a bit :))
Wasn’t there an entire recent documentary on the Charleston teacher?? I know it’s on Amazon. It’s about a lot of those students taking their lives over the years. Something like 30 male alumni.
Damn any and every institution that trains children and others to ignore their internal instincts!!! The instinct that tells one when something is wrong and to get help!!!
Help !!! 9 years and no one believes me no one will listen. I've been put in jail I've been attacked! Family abandoned me. EVERYBODY KNOWS THEY JUST DONT CARE !!! Out of the mouth of babes !!!
Marilyn still wanted her Fathers love too. Your parents are your parents. Even if you have a love/hate relationship. You always want it to be a better relationship.
It's so sad how an abuser can make you feel like you're the one who is wrong.
All of these stories are heartbreaking. But the stories of Fathers abusing their own children are the saddest for me to hear. Mainly because time after time you hear those grown children still yearning for their Father to love them. All they knew from their Fathers was abuse and being used and despite that still wanting to have a real Father. I cannot imagine how painful that must be.
There are spoken words in this documentary that I will write down and keep for the rest of my life. This is truly about Darkness to Light.
For many years I was abused by many people ...
Not many of my family know this ..,sometimes I think it would help them understand why I behaved the way I did ..
Turned it around now and life can begin again ❤
Marilyn, your body was saying NO. "I will not go any further until you face what we went through."
There is an amazing book called "when the body says NO." And it explains so much..... if you have childhood abuse and trauma, please read this!
Love you Marilyn!! Thank you for your courage to speak out and still help us survivors!! Thank you to all of the survivors for speaking out!!
I am a Certified Facilitator of Darkness to Light child sexual abuse prevention. This documentary is excellent. I am thankful for all survivors who are willing to share their story. I believe the more people share their stories the more we can get people to realize what an epidemic this is and to start learning the facts versus myths.
Thank you and Thank you to all the survivers sharing your story . Truly wonderful , Brave people to protect the innocent. Beautiful channel.
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Thank you for what you do
i can NOT understand that there is ANY Statute Of Limitations on child abuse in any/every form it manifests. each and every state must ABOLISH the Statute Of Limitations on child abuse and ALL sexual violations regardless of age.
Because pedophiles run the government and courts. They make the laws lax on purpose. Children and abuse are not the world's priority as sick as that shit is
Yes!
Just found this channel. As heartbreaking and enraging these stories are, I'm in amazement of the human ability to live through torture and still endure. Our experience on earth is not easy. It's actually quite painful. But it's the lessons we take away from that suffering that are so important. Every one of these people are breathtaking. ☮️💗💯
The pain that you live with goes on for the rest of our lives. It manifest in many ways . And when it's your own father 😓😭
All these stories....all this heartbreak. I want to gather all of your childhood selves into my arms and weep over you all, weep with you until there are no more tears in the world and tell you all how much God loves you....and how sorry I am you all experienced this~ and are stuck with these memories for the remainder of your adult lives.
I don't care how many times kind words are said, how much medicine is provided ----NOTHING WILL EVER TAKE THESE DEPLORABLE ACTS FROM US!!
I’m so grateful for these brave people who took the worst of their young life situations and sharpened them into instruments of creation ; to bring forward their own particular introspection , self forgiveness and peace of heart - that’s nearly impossible to do without being outwardly abused sexually or psychologically as a child , a young adult or most of all as a fully aware adult.
I’m proud for these people in so many many ways - thank you all for your directness , your willingness NOT to blame or shame but to create your own peace.
Sincerely, Tom Beeton , Los Angeles
Yes, the most agreeable person. Me too, Donna ❤️ It created in me the *perfect* doormat and victim.... and mine wasn't even sexual abuse. It was only physical and psychologically. Still horrific.
The 2 guys have a blank stare as they talk as if they are living the moment they are talking about in that second
I am in tears from Marilyn's story
I have the same dream every few months. I dream that I have to safe a child victim from sexual abuse. Sometimes I succeed and sometimes I don't. Sometimes I ask other people to help me and they act like it's normal.
I have never been a victim of sexual abuse. But I think it is so terrible and I want to do anything I can to safe someone.
I HAD THOSE DREAMS TOO..
Good on you. Even in your dreams you're doing the right thing. We can help by talking about it and spreading the word. We need to get mandatory sex ed in every school in the US along with an abuse awareness training class for children age 5/kindergarten-12th grade. Have it every single year! Some kids dont even know that being abused is abuse until years later. We have to change this!
All of this and every bit of it is me … much therapy , 32 years of AA (of course I became a drug abuser and alcoholic) , and just all kinds of work, has made me a survivor. Day by Day I am Surviving !
Thank you for sharing your stories
One of the ways to help children at an early age is to talk to them and explain that their private parts are THEIR PRIVATE parts, that NO ONE can touch them there. Parents have that responsibility but a school programme should be established as of the first grade with sessions explaining the same thing and setting up a system where children can draw, take part in plays, and specialist present who could monitor and identify if some children seems to be keeping a dark secret that is harming them. According to some statistics 14 year old - boys mostly - are the ones to start sexual acts on possibly much younger siblings. So there too, parents need to warm their teenagers about these risks and school programmes need to be put in place education to warn and sensitize them on the harm they do. Check out the story and amazing work on recovery of an incest survivor and her dedication to prevent it th-cam.com/video/ALEfE3rNCqI/w-d-xo.html
This is so effed up on so many levels!
I want to hug you all. So brave. So strong. ❤️💪
All such beautiful people.♥️
You aren't a bad person, no one deserves to have their innocence stolen.
This makes me so sad😢. They are very brave to tell their stories..
My abuse started at 6 by an older boy in school, who was threatening me. I was terrified. It went on for a year before i said something. Then a second person started to do it. And at home i was being physically abused. It ruined my childhood. I still at 41 go to therapy. This kind of abuse literally snatches your soul away from you. 😢
These good people are not just survivors, they are thrivers , growing anew
So so difficult to even conceive us for most of us
Thriver , from surviver let’s maybe think about that a bit :))
💚🙏 thank.you for sharing
Wasn’t there an entire recent documentary on the Charleston teacher?? I know it’s on Amazon. It’s about a lot of those students taking their lives over the years. Something like 30 male alumni.
Damn any and every institution that trains children and others to ignore their internal instincts!!! The instinct that tells one when something is wrong and to get help!!!
you're beautiful and i am sorry you've had some tough times but you are obviously strong and will be ok
where r the mothers? They look away. oh, how horrible.
I can't imagine being her mother and not doing anything
My story is bizarre in a whole lot another way I don't know how am I gonna heal or will I ever will be?
Excellent, but still exist looks like never is going to stop.
No, it's not...
I think you’re right. It’s everywhere. So common
Is this the full video i would like the watch the entire movie
my heros
This is sad
Help !!! 9 years and no one believes me no one will listen. I've been put in jail I've been attacked! Family abandoned me.
EVERYBODY KNOWS THEY JUST DONT CARE !!! Out of the mouth of babes !!!
I just want to hug them all. 🥲
Wow
Wired
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A black lady speaking baffles me. I know I will never understand why she still wants her father’s love even after death
He was still her father, and children always long for their parents' love.
vieuphoria1008 that is her story, and must respect her wishes to allow her to heal.
Marilyn still wanted her Fathers love too. Your parents are your parents. Even if you have a love/hate relationship. You always want it to be a better relationship.
Me too. I would NOTHING to do with him!
It made me sad to hear that she wanted to sing with him
Not enough people see this