If you want the truth of why people can “clock” you, it’s because there are various differences in skeletal anatomy between the sexes. Facial feminization helps with the brow ridge, laryngeal shaving helps…. There’s still a matter of the pelvis and shoulders. Men have shoulders that are wider than their hips. Women are about equal. Those are the major ones. As a musically inclined person, your voice is quite feminine to me. The quote of Ayn Rand reads to me that you are an introspective person. A lot of intelligent people are their own worst enemy. I hope you find what you’re looking for. Best.
Please people and they are,, making you jump for there approval you are easy to trick into introspection and you don't need this when are you going to get it you are easy to love and they are not, making you feel loved
I know this is an older video but you deserved better. Never be second best, but feelings make everything harder. Bless you. New to your channel. Big Hugs 🤗
10 years from now, you will be at a soirée, a glass of wine in your hands tell the story and laugh about this experience. It's embarrassing NOW but keep your head up. Some day you will look back and laugh about it.
I think it will be rolled back. When all the detransitioner law suits and sports women law suits for lost medals, parents suing school boards for lack of consent and forced trans/LGBTQ indoctrination , etc. start rolling in.
In no way to be critical, I'm just curious. So you are trans. Ok but you have made the transition. So when are you going to be able to not straddle between the two? To hold on to you being trans. means to me that you are never fully "a male" and never fully a female. So are you happy being just in the middle or are you at some point going to give yourself fully over to who you really are? Just saying. It's your life do what you want.
Good points, being trans does sometimes feel like you are living in between worlds. Once I have my sexual Reassignment Surgery I'll be able to identify as fully female.
Actually, lorazepam is pharmacologically different to diazepam. When I had my wisdom teeth removed (in the chair with no anaesthetic or even nitrous) my mum gave me what I thought sounded & looked like a tiny dose. Despite the fact that I wasn't completely naive to diazepam, it thankfully really bombed me out! I'm not surprised combining it with a drink was.. a lot.
Sounds like his Mom is processing all of this and making adjustments. Taking a wait and see attitude. She loves her son and wants to keep a relationship with him.
Love it! What a great bit of comic relief for the boyfriend's mother to notice your makeup bag🤣🤣🤣 Sounds like maybe she's slowly accepting that, although she may have had some initial misgivings, she is happy that her son has found someone to love. And someone who is having fun loving him. ☺️ Hang in there you two. Sounds like the makings of a beautiful relationship 💕 Ahh, love is in the air! 💘 Jackie 🌺💃
Lee, I have so much sympathy for you and the continuing drama between you and your future in-laws. Have you ever considered inviting the mother out to lunch. Perhaps if just the two of sit down and try to work things out. Being honest with each other might help resolve your outstanding issues. Make sure she knows that you love her son.
@@leefrancis007 You two will probably never like each other but if you want to continue this relationship with her son then you do need to come to Some sort of arrangement, Don’t put your boyfriend in a situation that makes him decide on you or his parents because you will lose that battle. Try to convince her that you are a good woman with a good job/career making good money and supporting yourself. In other words a responsible adult and not some crazy bimbo.
Hello Lee, great video. I am trans and when I met my boyfriends mother, she didn’t care I was trans? She cared more that I was fat. She told my boyfriend I looked like a fatso? In the long run, we made it through and he moved out and we now live together. But til today, she says I am fat. It’s so strange how some mothers end up thinking. So don’t feel so bad, in my boyfriends moms head, I am a lard. I just laugh 😆 about it now because I love myself for me. And so does my boyfriend 😂
Hey life is just filtering out the bad stuff and getting you ready for a beautiful person to come your way. You are very evidently an amazing girl and there is one lucky laddie out there who is going to reap all the benefits of dating such a lovely person.
Hi Lee, love your videos. It's rare and admirable to see someone so honestly bare so much of themselves to the general public in the way that you do. You are truly a stronger person than you give yourself credit for. I for one, see you as an inspiration for alot of us girls out here dealing with the ups and downs of our own transition's. Keep moving forward and always stay true to yourself and no matter what happens with Alphas parents, keep it real with him and all will work out in the end.
A lot of parents want to be grandparents. Maybe your boyfriend has siblings? If so, that is fortunate for you because then, hopefully, less pressure will be on him to provide them.
I think it is funny that you say Liberal in thinking but where Conservative. Not all Conservatives think like that. It's sad in a way that people who are trans or what not always think we Conservatives hate your kind. We don't. We don't care who you are if you are happy that is fine by me and others who think like I do. Don't listen to all the BS about Conservatives. Let's sit down as you said and have a conversation and you will see we are more open minded than you or anyone thinks. Myself I love all that you are doing and I am glad that you are happy in your Life. May the gods and goddesses watch over you on your journey in life.
Being conservative means conserving a traditional way of life. You can’t be conservative and support trans ppl. People confuse conservatism and being right wing. Blair white stopped referring to herself as a conservative because she realised the hypocrisy of it. She can’t preach something and then practice something completely different. Trans ppl by default are progressive. The average trans person is living a more progressive lifestyle than even the most hardcore antifa follower.
You are beautiful inside and out. I love your videos, very informative and you seem to know the right things to say to keep people listening too. And you have a sexy voice. Particularly after this video, I just wanted to give you a massive hug. Thank you for being you and I would be proud to be out anywhere with you beautiful lady..
Hi, Lee!😊😊😊😊. That was a great story about going stealth mode with no noise effect. As for me, I did my own stealth mode when I looked at the christmas presents last year in 2019.💙💙💙💙💙💙. So...yeah. Have a wonderful night and take care.😊😙💙💙💙💙💙💜💜💜💜💜😊⭐⭐⭐👍
Oh LUV, that was an EXPERIENCE eh!!??🤣🤯 But, it seems things worked out!🖤 Life takes us thru things and everyone got some kind of "THING" goin on!🤣! In as much, Alpha Male seems to know what a good girl he HAS! CHEERS U2!!!😘
I am a new subscriber and I love your videos also just wondering what was the name of that piano music that you had in the beginning of your video was?
I know this is a repost, but one of your more enjoyable stories. About Alpha ' s parents and a discussion, well both sides would have to want that, so...
I am mostly stealth, but this is a small country. I have a rare name, it makes things difficult. Finland has a fascist rule that names are gendered and if you want to change your name before you change your legal sex, then you have to take one that is outside their silly list of names. I don't know if they are still that strict. With a foreign name you can also be target of xenophobia.
Good luck with the future relationship together . There are going to be issues if the relationship develops further , but if you are true to yourselves then good things can come from this relationship . Mothers in general want the best for their children and whilst that can create issues , deep down they want their children to be happy . It does not matter that you are trans or not, parents can put all sort of obstacles in the way of relationships that you have to remember that you are not dating the parents but the boy here. If he is as gorgeous as you perceive , you will do what your heart tells you. I have my fingers and toes crossed for you both. For now it is about discovering each other and what makes you both so special to each other. If that becomes even more meaningful that you think about committing to each other , then cross that bridge when you reach it. The first love is always the one that cuts deepest and if this is what you discover , don’t regret whatever happens . Love is such a very special thing that we should celebrate it when we find it. You are an amazing young lady and very beautiful one . You are smart and a catch for anybody looking to be with you. Whilst that is no guarantee that it will win his mother over, she will always admire the girl who has captured her son’s heart , because deep down she wants him to be happy. Perhaps she wants grandchildren - but , it is the bound you build that over comes the barriers you may encounter on the road together that cements and strengthens your relationship . Take your time developing your love and be kind and loving in thoughts towards those who may come across opposed to that relationship , and then positive things may come from it . I really believe there is some magical in your togetherness right now. Whether this blossoms in to something more I cannot tell, but it is suggesting it might. And who does not love a romantic love story . Bless you my dear and continue to be strong . Just be you and true to your heart . You can achieve so much and will I am sure, so I will look forward to hearing how your romance develops . Other girls have been lucky in finding the guy if their dreams , so can you if you both remain true and honest to yourselves . All my love and best wishes for the road that unfolds ahead, as he sounds pretty special to me.
I'm have to try your really what I need a butiful woman who wants love and you trap your self instant To do a person who goes out with you because you think he has to carry the burdon of everyone who don't like trans gender girls
If I were dating you and my mom didn't like you it's because your really compstishion for her son's love Mom's are more jealous of the son's love then the husband
I am a parent to an adult daughter and a grandparent to adult granddaughter and grandson .I’ve been through the relationship issues with my daughter and granddaughter over the years about them being straight , gay or bisexual. I’m very open minded on this. It’s there happiness is all I want for them in a relationship. It’s about a parent or grandparent being support and understanding. I hope everything works out find for you and alpha man. It’s about the love and happiness you two have and develop that’s important. The support of parents and other family members are important. You are a very beautiful and very special woman . You have a lot of love to give. Remember that. Wishing you the best.👍
Far out that sounds tough! I think if you could just be yourself without judgement things would of been so much better, but that's it judgment that is so so wrong and dehumanizing..... the biggest problem of how the world views us wonderful people😪..it needs to change..xx💕
This sounds like what happened to me and my ex. His mother came to visit him, and he kept me hidden but he wanted to see where he lived...he lived in my apartment. And she found out about me, and said I was beautiful and sweet...but when we told her I was trans...well, she didn't approve(but she thought she was being sweet). I was nice to her after that, but couldn't wait until that bitch left my house lol.
Nothing kills a vibe like false pretenses.
It sounds like mum is just being overprotective. If you were cis, you'd probably have the same issues with her.
If you want the truth of why people can “clock” you, it’s because there are various differences in skeletal anatomy between the sexes.
Facial feminization helps with the brow ridge, laryngeal shaving helps…. There’s still a matter of the pelvis and shoulders. Men have shoulders that are wider than their hips. Women are about equal. Those are the major ones. As a musically inclined person, your voice is quite feminine to me.
The quote of Ayn Rand reads to me that you are an introspective person. A lot of intelligent people are their own worst enemy. I hope you find what you’re looking for. Best.
If a man isn’t man enough to date whom he wants to date, then you are better off without him.
Please people and they are,, making you jump for there approval you are easy to trick into introspection and you don't need this when are you going to get it you are easy to love and they are not, making you feel loved
I know this is an older video but you deserved better. Never be second best, but feelings make everything harder. Bless you. New to your channel. Big Hugs 🤗
10 years from now, you will be at a soirée, a glass of wine in your hands tell the story and laugh about this experience. It's embarrassing NOW but keep your head up. Some day you will look back and laugh about it.
I think it will be rolled back. When all the detransitioner law suits and sports women law suits for lost medals, parents suing school boards for lack of consent and forced trans/LGBTQ indoctrination , etc. start rolling in.
You are I sorry to say a beautiful girl that is in love with the Idea of being
Loved
All Trans women and men and just LARP’s
In no way to be critical, I'm just curious. So you are trans. Ok but you have made the transition. So when are you going to be able to not straddle between the two? To hold on to you being trans. means to me that you are never fully "a male" and never fully a female. So are you happy being just in the middle or are you at some point going to give yourself fully over to who you really are? Just saying. It's your life do what you want.
Good points, being trans does sometimes feel like you are living in between worlds. Once I have my sexual Reassignment Surgery I'll be able to identify as fully female.
@@leefrancis007 Thank you for your reply. Even now I accept that you are female.
Actually, lorazepam is pharmacologically different to diazepam. When I had my wisdom teeth removed (in the chair with no anaesthetic or even nitrous) my mum gave me what I thought sounded & looked like a tiny dose. Despite the fact that I wasn't completely naive to diazepam, it thankfully really bombed me out! I'm not surprised combining it with a drink was.. a lot.
Yes I don't remember a lot of what I said. 🤦
Sounds like his Mom is processing all of this and making adjustments. Taking a wait and see attitude. She loves her son and wants to keep a relationship with him.
Love it! What a great bit of comic relief for the boyfriend's mother to notice your makeup bag🤣🤣🤣 Sounds like maybe she's slowly accepting that, although she may have had some initial misgivings, she is happy that her son has found someone to love. And someone who is having fun loving him. ☺️
Hang in there you two. Sounds like the makings of a beautiful relationship 💕 Ahh, love is in the air! 💘 Jackie 🌺💃
That was a lovely story. It's a shame his Mum made things difficult. Curiously, how was his Dad with you two dating?
Lee,
I have so much sympathy for you and the continuing drama between you and your future in-laws. Have you ever considered inviting the mother out to lunch. Perhaps if just the two of sit down and try to work things out. Being honest with each other might help resolve your outstanding issues. Make sure she knows that you love her son.
I'd definitely need valium for that lunch. But seriously maybe that's a good idea
@@leefrancis007
You two will probably never like each other but if you want to continue this relationship with her son then you do need to come to
Some sort of arrangement, Don’t put your boyfriend in a situation that makes him decide on you or his parents because you will lose that battle.
Try to convince her that you are a good woman with a good job/career making good money and supporting yourself. In other words a responsible adult and not some crazy bimbo.
Hello Lee, great video. I am trans and when I met my boyfriends mother, she didn’t care I was trans? She cared more that I was fat. She told my boyfriend I looked like a fatso? In the long run, we made it through and he moved out and we now live together. But til today, she says I am fat. It’s so strange how some mothers end up thinking. So don’t feel so bad, in my boyfriends moms head, I am a lard. I just laugh 😆 about it now because I love myself for me. And so does my boyfriend 😂
I hope I find a mother-in-law like yours.
Hey life is just filtering out the bad stuff and getting you ready for a beautiful person to come your way. You are very evidently an amazing girl and there is one lucky laddie out there who is going to reap all the benefits of dating such a lovely person.
Hi Lee, love your videos. It's rare and admirable to see someone so honestly bare so much of themselves to the general public in the way that you do. You are truly a stronger person than you give yourself credit for. I for one, see you as an inspiration for alot of us girls out here dealing with the ups and downs of our own transition's. Keep moving forward and always stay true to yourself and no matter what happens with Alphas parents, keep it real with him and all will work out in the end.
A lot of parents want to be grandparents. Maybe your boyfriend has siblings? If so, that is fortunate for you because then, hopefully, less pressure will be on him to provide them.
I think it is funny that you say Liberal in thinking but where Conservative. Not all Conservatives think like that. It's sad in a way that people who are trans or what not always think we Conservatives hate your kind. We don't. We don't care who you are if you are happy that is fine by me and others who think like I do. Don't listen to all the BS about Conservatives. Let's sit down as you said and have a conversation and you will see we are more open minded than you or anyone thinks. Myself I love all that you are doing and I am glad that you are happy in your Life.
May the gods and goddesses watch over you on your journey in life.
I agree with what you are saying
@@leefrancis007 thank you for understanding
Being conservative means conserving a traditional way of life. You can’t be conservative and support trans ppl. People confuse conservatism and being right wing. Blair white stopped referring to herself as a conservative because she realised the hypocrisy of it. She can’t preach something and then practice something completely different. Trans ppl by default are progressive. The average trans person is living a more progressive lifestyle than even the most hardcore antifa follower.
Chain I’m never let me dress up as a girl my mom will never ever ever dress up as a girl, my mom we never let me dress up as a girl
You are beautiful inside and out. I love your videos, very informative and you seem to know the right things to say to keep people listening too. And you have a sexy voice. Particularly after this video, I just wanted to give you a massive hug. Thank you for being you and I would be proud to be out anywhere with you beautiful lady..
Hi, Lee!😊😊😊😊. That was a great story about going stealth mode with no noise effect. As for me, I did my own stealth mode when I looked at the christmas presents last year in 2019.💙💙💙💙💙💙. So...yeah. Have a wonderful night and take care.😊😙💙💙💙💙💙💜💜💜💜💜😊⭐⭐⭐👍
Lock downs, ppffttt !!!
I think you did that for an excuse to cuddle with alpha male🥰😍
Oh LUV, that was an EXPERIENCE eh!!??🤣🤯 But, it seems things worked out!🖤 Life takes us thru things and everyone got some kind of "THING" goin on!🤣! In as much, Alpha Male seems to know what a good girl he HAS! CHEERS U2!!!😘
I am a new subscriber and I love your videos
also just wondering what was the name of that piano music that you had in the beginning of your video was?
I know this is a repost, but one of your more enjoyable stories. About Alpha ' s parents and a discussion, well both sides would have to want that, so...
Hey how you doing haven't heard from you you ok?
I am mostly stealth, but this is a small country. I have a rare name, it makes things difficult. Finland has a fascist rule that names are gendered and if you want to change your name before you change your legal sex, then you have to take one that is outside their silly list of names. I don't know if they are still that strict. With a foreign name you can also be target of xenophobia.
Wow that's really interesting
Your eyes are so BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!
long time ago i know ....but you should have shown her this video...that might have worked.
maybe ?
Good luck with the future relationship together . There are going to be issues if the relationship develops further , but if you are true to yourselves then good things can come from this relationship .
Mothers in general want the best for their children and whilst that can create issues , deep down they want their children to be happy .
It does not matter that you are trans or not, parents can put all sort of obstacles in the way of relationships that you have to remember that you are not dating the parents but the boy here. If he is as gorgeous as you perceive , you will do what your heart tells you.
I have my fingers and toes crossed for you both. For now it is about discovering each other and what makes you both so special to each other. If that becomes even more meaningful that you think about committing to each other , then cross that bridge when you reach it.
The first love is always the one that cuts deepest and if this is what you discover , don’t regret whatever happens . Love is such a very special thing that we should celebrate it when we find it.
You are an amazing young lady and very beautiful one . You are smart and a catch for anybody looking to be with you. Whilst that is no guarantee that it will win his mother over, she will always admire the girl who has captured her son’s heart , because deep down she wants him to be happy. Perhaps she wants grandchildren - but , it is the bound you build that over comes the barriers you may encounter on the road together that cements and strengthens your relationship . Take your time developing your love and be kind and loving in thoughts towards those who may come across opposed to that relationship , and then positive things may come from it .
I really believe there is some magical in your togetherness right now. Whether this blossoms in to something more I cannot tell, but it is suggesting it might. And who does not love a romantic love story .
Bless you my dear and continue to be strong . Just be you and true to your heart . You can achieve so much and will I am sure, so I will look forward to hearing how your romance develops . Other girls have been lucky in finding the guy if their dreams , so can you if you both remain true and honest to yourselves .
All my love and best wishes for the road that unfolds ahead, as he sounds pretty special to me.
Drop this guy God is dream I am smitten with you I won't to kiss you all over and over again I'm going to try to streel you
I'm have to try your really what I need a butiful woman who wants love and you trap your self instant
To do a person who goes out with you because you think he has to carry the burdon of everyone who don't like trans gender girls
If I were dating you and my mom didn't like you it's because your really compstishion for her son's love Mom's are more jealous of the son's love then the husband
When I wanted to be with her or you my mom crying and give it to you because I loved her
I don't know what your thinking probably that I am a
Lonely person yes I am good looking lonely person that already sure I going to get in your life
Lee ... what a stressful story! Yikes!
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤❤❤❤❤❤🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀
I'm sorry you had to go through this.
I am in love
hi
I am a parent to an adult daughter and a grandparent to adult granddaughter and grandson .I’ve been through the relationship issues with my daughter and granddaughter over the years about them being straight , gay or bisexual. I’m very open minded on this. It’s there happiness is all I want for them in a relationship. It’s about a parent or grandparent being support and understanding. I hope everything works out find for you and alpha man. It’s about the love and happiness you two have and develop that’s important. The support of parents and other family members are important. You are a very beautiful and very special woman . You have a lot of love to give. Remember that. Wishing you the best.👍
Far out that sounds tough! I think if you could just be yourself without judgement things would of been so much better, but that's it judgment that is so so wrong and dehumanizing..... the biggest problem of how the world views us wonderful people😪..it needs to change..xx💕
If she can’t accept you’re trans, how do you think she’ll react to your OF? He has to choose between you and her.
This sounds like what happened to me and my ex. His mother came to visit him, and he kept me hidden but he wanted to see where he lived...he lived in my apartment. And she found out about me, and said I was beautiful and sweet...but when we told her I was trans...well, she didn't approve(but she thought she was being sweet). I was nice to her after that, but couldn't wait until that bitch left my house lol.
Awww yes I know how u feel!!
You are a beauty, that should be enough…. Also, star science?
You look sis I don't see trans at all
Hello, you are very beautiful
No matter who has an issue, trans is beautiful.
Hi beautiful Lee xoxo.
your awsome as a girl 😍
I love you so much baby
Worked for me.
Do you like foot massages?
Who doesn't 😌
I absolutely love giving them
Shes beautiful and sweet her parents should love her I would have if my son dated her
HELLO ..SWEETILE .I LOVE YOU ...