Sadly some old fashioned Koreans don't think his restricting and oppressive behavior is a problem which is scary but Koreans as a whole especially the younger generation are slowly but surely getting rid of these views.
i thinks its because they are married couple ..most audience are either single but not really married to their partners so they dont think its an issue....also they dont want to be blame in ruining someones marriage as long as they are not bothered by it they wont care koreans or not most people do that
What they mean by concern is something that cannot be fixed easily. Some people might have thought that if the fist person fixed his ways the problem would be solved so they didnt click.
I think as long as he wasn't SO controlling it would be okay. Like calling her when she's even using the bathroom and things like that are a bit too much imo but everything else I think... we honestly don't know everything behind their lives obviously. So I think it's hard for us to judge.
The first concern isn't that considered harassment and stalking like that's not legal in Korea right? Honestly kudos to the First Lady I would've divorced him in a heartbeat even if it would hurt my children I don't think I would be able to live a sane life like that.
Sραcє Pєиgυιи And in my opinion not leaving an abusive partner and parent is doing more damage to children in the long run than staying with them would. At least, that's happened when my parents got a divorce. I am so glad they did. It helped me reconsider many things and view them differently. So that my self confidence actually raised up because of it.
He claimed that she had cancer and surgery 2 yrs ago, that's why he became controlling. But according to his wife, his controlling behavior has been for over 14 yrs of marriage. His story is inconsistent. He must be a very insecure and selfish individual to be that controlling toward his wife.
I don't know if it can be legally classified as harassment and stalking if you are married to them, though it should be considered as such... if he was an ex-partner doing the same thing he is now I believe it would be different, but because she is in a willing relationship with him I don't know if it can legally be considered stalking?
Im addicted to Hello Counselor now XD it makes me realise that life is not easy but we should go forward and make the change to be the best version we can be
The first concern, my blood is still boiling. There were so many red flags in what he was saying. How can a person ask for free time from her own husband. What Era is he living in? He does not love that woman. I can't understand how she stayed with him for 14 years. A year would have long enough. At this rate, he would probably hurt her badly if she tried to leave. To him she is an object that he owns. I feel so deeply sad for that lady.
Miz Kelo exactly. idk if u could call it him being TOO love-y, because if he had no respect for her and treats her like an object, how can you even call that love at all?
Dongyeop is THE MAN!!! He straight up told it like it is to that first husband!! He put her in the hospital and then got sad about it; what sense does that make?!!?! Dongyeoppie comes through from time to time!
Just being in modern age doesnt work.just being in one develop country hasnt this problem doesn't mean it is in other countries..all countries are going some problems whether ot is developed countries or not. Ppl need to work on it
Let's all be honest when it came to the first concern we knew what the guest really wanted to say to that man. If it wasn't for the age rating of the show I bet everyone would have cussed that man out.
Jessalynn C Exactly! I know that if I was on this show, I couldn't have a filter, they might as well use that sound affect from spongebob whenever I talk.
Jamikka McNabb if I was the wife I would have left him, 10 years is ways too long to be putting up with his bull shit. I don't get how she stayed for 14.
Interviewer: "I heard you were extremely quick at math" Me: "yes, as a matter of fact I am" Interviewer: "Whats 14x27" Me: "49" Interviewer: "that's not even close" me: "yeah, but it was fast".
devronl08 he told the interviewer he was quick at maths not specifically 'good' at maths so he just gave a random answer very quickly to the question asked by the interviewer 😂😂
the first problem was just sad.. i truly believe she should've just divorced him. he has no type of respect for and it's not even called being stubborn. he's so fucking cocky and needs a chill pill.
Safia Mohamed he shameless said u came here for 1 hour so i give u one hour like she was a piece of trash or a toy like if that was me i would say when we get home im not staying with u anymore
Rizzy it's just pathetic. it's like she's his servant. the fact that he checked up on her just because she wanted to pee. 🤦🏾♀️. i would dead ass want to be a host there but i might be kicked out for throwing something at someone stupid. 😭😂😂😂😂.
omg ailee slapping her leg out of anger LOOOL. she was trying so hard to hold back her anger. im glad shin dong yeob said something important regarding stress. many have no idea stress is a factor of many things. hope he realizes it and changes
I was so frustrated the entire time. I'm kind of mad that nobody mentioned the fact she's neglecting those dogs, especially the collies. They NEED lots of exercise like any other herding breed. Being tired or busy isn't an excuse lmao.
Yes! I only have a beta fish with two aquatic snails and two budgies. Because I know that's the best I can do with my schedule and income. The beta fish is five years old and still swimming. The aquatic snails are almost five as well. My budgies are seven years old and show no signs of disease, stress, or aging. And their plumage and cage are very well cleaned, frequently. I gave my pets the best they deserve without destroying my savings account. You should only have what you deserve.
Her excuse of being "busy" and not having time to look after them was not an excuse at all. Those dogs are living things that need love and attention, they aren't toys. The mom doesn't want dogs at all yet she is forced to care for them, while her daughter who does want them isn't looking after them. I also didn't like the fact that the daughter kept giggling and making light of the situation, her mom is busy providing and yet has to come home to a dirty home, someone needed to smack the daughter in her rude face and set her straight.
Living in a house full of poop and pee can also be a health risk. Their relationship together as a mother and daughter is not an excuse for her to be irresponsible esp when it's not her house. I also like how Ailee points out @ 47:29 that she should be the one cleaning after the pee. You could see from her face that she's not joking.
I really enjoy Dongeyop's (not sure if I spelled his name right) MCing! He has a calming voice, speaks gently and speaks very well, he is always careful about what to say and does a great job MCing Hello Counsellor (all of MCs do, but he stands out to me the most). Hello Counsellor fighting! Great show❤
Do they really think 1 hour every week is enough? freedoom is something it shouldn't be discussed, not even your husband or wife, that's something you've born with, it's in your humans right OMFG!, if you need to ask for it, then you're a simple slave. we live once, does she really think live like that, being chained to a man who didn't trust her enough to go to the super market alone, who is watching you 24/7, jealous of anything because she NEVER give him a single reason to Distrust. Okay he probably loves her but his way of love is almost obssesion and that's it's already illness literally the second case is me with my mom xD i don't like dogs but she loves bring them home since i have memory it's a constant battle (which i win yey!) but with this case i could say to that daughter "this is my house if you want those dogs buy your own a bring as many pets as you want" really bring them home and no take care of them? how selfish a person could be, his mother work until 3:00 am WTF?!! the guy in the last concern... he's cuteeeee!!! i admit that girl has talent, but what is the point of take a selca if you're life is in danger? no only the case of the russian guy who died taking a selca there's more similars cases, and that's sad
Omg leaving dogs alone in a tiny room for 12 hours without outdoor access is not okay, regardless of breed. It takes huge toll on the animals not just physically but mentally as well, that's why they start to show behaviour that we humans think are annoying like biting furniture, become hyper and uncontrollable etc. Animals can also get depressed and as a fellow dog owner my heart is hurting. This would be illegal in my country and reported to Animal Protective Service. If she has such a busy life then don't get pets, they need to be taken care of like a child THEY ARE NOT JUST CUTE TOYS. Would you let your child be isolated for 12 hours????
I´m really feeling bad for the dogs in the second concern. How can you get yourself 3 dogs and not take care of them. Especially bigger dogs need a lot of space to run freely.. this borders on animal abuse.
Ailees body is different to ideal korean body image that seems all want. Its refreshing, somthing different to skinny ones. She looks healthy and not skinny.
RoniDinn uhh no. Thick means fit just more curves in the right places. As long as she is eating healthy and exercising it should not be a problem. Plus she is proportional. However, I'm not her nutritionist, so I would not know her eating habits.
People just shouldn't have pets if they can't take care of them. The mother never agreed to have the pet so why must she be the one to train and clean up after them.
Gladys Mba same with people who have children... on other episodes of hello counselor there are lots of ppl who don’t treat their children right :/ ;; i agree with you on this
@@stuff3878 just wanted someone to write this.... Good you too saw through her... Like girl, if the mother didn't love you, she won't be caring for your pets and second, your mom cares for the family and does her restaurant job as well.. and you are juggling jobs saying you want to save and then go on to compare her mom's appendectomy to her migraine... I was like is this girl for real?!!! She's very very selfish
The first concern just gets me so worked up and you can tell Ailee was holding back! Honestly if he really "loved" her as he claims he does, he would trust her!!
I can relate to the second concern. I once lived with a host family who had 4 dogs and 2 cats. The dogs didn't get along well they barked all the time and fought and chased the cats around. There was pee and poop everywhere and the appartement was always smelly. My host family called their pets their babies and darlings but would barely take control or responsibility for them. They weren't potty trained nor did they went outside with them more than one time a day for 10 minutes maximum. Getting that many pets without being able to care for them is in my opinion only for selfish reasons. They might give you joy for the 2h or so you can give them per day but if you can't look after them and see that they are suffering, the right move is to give them away to someone who can give them what they deserve and actually does that.
I feel like ppl have interesting way to distinguishing whether or not it is a concern. They say: if you change blah blah blah then it won't be a concern so I'm going to vote it is not a concern. If that friend or family member can change then of course people won't think it is a concern, it is because they don't change that is why people write it in as a concern, but for people to just say as long as they change, it is not a concern does not fully understand. Of course as long as they change, it is not a concern, but it is because THEY DON'T change, that is why their friends or family write to the show and try to have people help convince the person. But everyone has their own understanding and interpretation, this is just my opinion. It frustrates me a little when people keep saying as long as the person do this or change this then it isn't a concern and don't press the button.
I completely agree with you - that's something that has always bothered me about this show, haha. Like, they'll spend the whole time discussing it like it's a huge deal and then the guests will be like, "I don't think it's a concern. I think if they just do this and this and this and this then it can probably get better." Like, their feedback is going to have a HUGE impact on whether the person in question actually takes it seriously, and if they literally have the celebrity guests on the show saying it isn't a concern, the person will probably just go back to thinking it's not a huge deal no matter what progress was made.
I really am thankful that hello counselor has started dealing with problems more seriously and not just messing around! Also it's because if you watch earlier episodes, the concerns weren't as bad as they are now so the jokes made sense but now the MCs talk about divorce aswell and give really serious and helpful advice along with light hearted jokes! It's made the show more loveable and the different approach is really refreshing to watch! Will always be a fan! :D PS. 17:35 best moment of the episode lol also i love how taejoon literally always gets up to help women :')
the moment they said lamb skewer I thought of jungkook and yoongi XDDDD anyways I swear ailee is sooo beautiful, I love when she has a bit more meat on her bones
Am I the only one that thinks that the second story the daughter is really selfish? Like she can hardly raise one dog right and she gets three dogs. Her mom cleans for her and she's tired of it so she came and said she wants more time with her daughter. Then the daughter goes oh I was born in a financial crisis so my mom was always negative and we didn't have that bond. Her friend reveals that the mom only slept two hours just to wake up and make her kids breakfast and how she goes to the hospital 2 times a week because she has health problems. Then later on the daughter says something how she watched her parents go through financial problems so she works a lot because she's young and want to live comfortably when she's older. That's what her mom is supposed to be doing being comfortable because she's older but has to clean up her daughters mess and she's tired. It doesn't seem that the daughter is appreciating all her mothers efforts for her.
she's selfish and urgh.. i don't know how she can stand be in the room with dog poops everywhere and claimed too busy to clean. -_- so pretty as a person but urgh disgusting
Y'all the last concern the squad looks so 🔥 She definitely has a talent for photography and she and her friends are cute. As long as she doesn't harm herself or her friends while taking photos i think its a great way to keep a diary.
Idk why but I thought Ailee was super skinny (like unhealthy skinny) but i love that she doesn't look like she's been starving. She's so pretty and i love her voice! ❤️❤️
True but the thing is Sam DEFINITELY knows Dave! So he should have little to no problem with connections! He even knows music stars like Jessi, who also has been on the show!
'The person who put her into the surgery room was you'. This gave me goosebumps. It needed to be said. Harshly. He did it. This forst story is amazingly sad from start to finish
The girl in the third concern wasn't as bad of a concern to me. I believe her friends are her friends precisely because she's so adventurous. The only problem is from their point of view is that although they may not mind taking pictures sometimes, they aren't as passionate or obsessive as she is about taking them. The danger part is debatable because some of the most memorable and talked about pictures are in dangerous climates, like war photos for example. From the photographer's perspective, these pictures will tell the story as well as the words ever could. Reading about the civil rights movement is far different from seeing actual footage of it's hardships. What she needs to do is become a photographer. Whether freelance or full time. Because she obviously has the talent and passion to do it. However, she needs to stop relying on her friends to take her pictures for her. Give them more time and attention but her friends also must be understanding of her passion. I really hope she pursues that profession in the near future.
If Jimin Has No Jams Then What Even Are Jams? ?? he was already famous, but when he appeared on "the return of Superman" with his family, he became even more famous. most bcuz everyone know him as "William's dad" his cute little baby
A good point was made at 55:12. She's basically her mom but instead of working for children she's working for dogs. She works so hard to protect them because she loves them but they're living a crappy life.
to all the people saying the first woman should just get a divorce don't realize that divorce in Korea is not like in the US or other western countries where it wont affect the woman's life really. In Korea being a divorcee can keep you from getting jobs, being promoted and can give your kids a hard time too, the same goes for being a single mom. Also her husband could get total custody of her kids and that would also be hard. It sucks that the society is more prone to those types of reaction but your advice from behind your computer could never practically help that woman unless you yourself flew to Korea and decided to help her financially or legally.
Finally! I was worried about Ailee's health because she always looks thin and underweight, I'm happy that she's finally gained weight and she looks healthy now. I'm not hating on her so please don't misunderstand. I love Ailee and I'm a big fan of Ailee
If I were the daughter in the first concern, I'd tell my dad right at that moment that the woman concerned is my mum and she deserves, by all means, to be treated right. i don't care if they're both busy with the family's businesses because all i do care is for my mum to be treated like a human being and not a property. if my dad doesn't listen, i'll blatantly tell my mum that i'd go with her and let's leave this emotionally abusive husband/father. my mum is free to divorce her husband and as her daughter, i'll support her all the way...
The husband has signs of borderline personality disorder. Perhaps the most obvious being that in he's actually pushing and alienating his favourite person by trying so hard to hold on to her. He needs treatment as he'll only get worse as he's come this far that the process of detachment would be more detrimental than his wife enduring another 10 years. I was concerned because i could see in his eyes that he wouldn't know what to do he'd rather kill himself which is what is scary.
My head hurts so much after the first concern 😣it's too frustrating, Idek how many times I banged my head in the wall 🙄. His control over her is beyond obsessive 😞. They should both really try to enjoy life, even just a little bit.
I really feel sorry for the lady in the first concern she seem like such a nice and intelligent person and it is a shame that she is with a man who gives her no autonomy and respect.
I also hate when he says he follows her around because he loves her. If you did truly love her then why the hell are you treating her like a piece of property that has to respond to your every beck and call rather then the equal that she is. It is concerns like these that really get my blood boiling.
I don't mean anything offensive or wrong or anything but the mom(in the 2nd concern) is SMOKEN HOT! like I wouldn't even give her mid 40's..WOW! I don't mean that women can't be like that but she's the first Korean lady on THAT SHOW that looks fine in her 50's
This is my first time seeing this hello counselor episode and the beginning with sam is so funny! "Have you been saying you want a girl in front of the doctor? And she didn't tell you?" "No" "Then its a boy" LMAO IT WAS. Bentley is also very cute!
"I listen to your song when I rest."
"You must have broken up with many women."
AILEE GOT ME DYING
Demie Truong me too😂😂
me too
Demie Truong OHHHHH
THE BURN!
Same!!! But who's the guy XD I haven't paid much attention to the k-world for a while now haha
That first one....there's so many red flags that make me suspect it's an abusive relationship. Maybe not physically, but definitely emotionally.
Kayleigh Sunshine actually we can completely afirm that it is an abusive relationship by all they said.
Kayleigh Sunshine and by the way the wife behaved.
Yess .. ughh
I rather be single for the rest of my life than marrying him. I'm sorry
The fact that some people didn't vote on the first concern is a concern itself.
Sadly some old fashioned Koreans don't think his restricting and oppressive behavior is a problem which is scary but Koreans as a whole especially the younger generation are slowly but surely getting rid of these views.
True
i thinks its because they are married couple ..most audience are either single but not really married to their partners so they dont think its an issue....also they dont want to be blame in ruining someones marriage as long as they are not bothered by it they wont care koreans or not most people do that
true
What they mean by concern is something that cannot be fixed easily. Some people might have thought that if the fist person fixed his ways the problem would be solved so they didnt click.
Ailee slapping her thighs out of frustration is me😬
Omfg she wants 1h /week free to read books...honey all this aint right😬😦😧
Not 1 hr in a week, she just wanted 1 hr free every 3-4 months!!! That's just so so soo sad!!!
I think as long as he wasn't SO controlling it would be okay. Like calling her when she's even using the bathroom and things like that are a bit too much imo but everything else I think... we honestly don't know everything behind their lives obviously. So I think it's hard for us to judge.
THICK AF I CAN'T :'(
she's in my top 10 hottest kpop idol for me seriously , probably in my top 3
Samee😤😧😦😥😬
The first concern isn't that considered harassment and stalking like that's not legal in Korea right? Honestly kudos to the First Lady I would've divorced him in a heartbeat even if it would hurt my children I don't think I would be able to live a sane life like that.
Sραcє Pєиgυιи And in my opinion not leaving an abusive partner and parent is doing more damage to children in the long run than staying with them would. At least, that's happened when my parents got a divorce. I am so glad they did. It helped me reconsider many things and view them differently. So that my self confidence actually raised up because of it.
He claimed that she had cancer and surgery 2 yrs ago, that's why he became controlling. But according to his wife, his controlling behavior has been for over 14 yrs of marriage. His story is inconsistent. He must be a very insecure and selfish individual to be that controlling toward his wife.
I don't know if it can be legally classified as harassment and stalking if you are married to them, though it should be considered as such... if he was an ex-partner doing the same thing he is now I believe it would be different, but because she is in a willing relationship with him I don't know if it can legally be considered stalking?
I'd divorce him on the basis that i don't want my sons to learn such behaviour and my daughters to think it's okay. Simple
He's a weird ass man. I would of left him straight away, his obsession could lead to something more dangerous.
I love Ailee, she is such a beauty and she just shines, I wish she could be in more variety shows:)
Im addicted to Hello Counselor now XD it makes me realise that life is not easy but we should go forward and make the change to be the best version we can be
14 years of marriage: "I don't trust her yet." That relationship can't be healthy and probably won't ever be.
If that girl or boy would be me:
👁👄👁
💧 💧 *sToP iT lEtS dIvOrCe*
Being obsessive does not make you romantic
The first concern, my blood is still boiling. There were so many red flags in what he was saying. How can a person ask for free time from her own husband. What Era is he living in? He does not love that woman. I can't understand how she stayed with him for 14 years. A year would have long enough. At this rate, he would probably hurt her badly if she tried to leave. To him she is an object that he owns. I feel so deeply sad for that lady.
Miz Kelo exactly. idk if u could call it him being TOO love-y, because if he had no respect for her and treats her like an object, how can you even call that love at all?
Dongyeop is THE MAN!!! He straight up told it like it is to that first husband!! He put her in the hospital and then got sad about it; what sense does that make?!!?! Dongyeoppie comes through from time to time!
Aileeeee slay
I can't believe that in 2017 and women still have to debate about having 1h of freedom in a week
my hearteu kpop ruined ma lifeu sister its not debating 1 hour per week but debating 1 hour for 3 to 4 month
how sad 😔 😞
and there are American men and women complaining about how feminism is cancer smh.
Exactly!!!!!
Just being in modern age doesnt work.just being in one develop country hasnt this problem doesn't mean it is in other countries..all countries are going some problems whether ot is developed countries or not. Ppl need to work on it
Let's all be honest when it came to the first concern we knew what the guest really wanted to say to that man. If it wasn't for the age rating of the show I bet everyone would have cussed that man out.
Halley Joseph i feel like some episodes should be rated 19+ for this very reason
Jessalynn C Exactly! I know that if I was on this show, I couldn't have a filter, they might as well use that sound affect from spongebob whenever I talk.
Halley Joseph honestly same. So mamy of these parents and husbands have me biting my tongue or cursing at my phone
He would have been buried with his restaurants with how he made other people feel from his stubbornness.
Jamikka McNabb if I was the wife I would have left him, 10 years is ways too long to be putting up with his bull shit. I don't get how she stayed for 14.
AILEEE I MISS HER SO MUCH
Lillian Nguyen sameeeee
Omg same
Lillian Nguyen sameee me too
Lillian Nguyen are you related to tyler?
@@asmamohdaziz582 I know it's not headed to me, but I WISH that I was!!😂😂😢😢😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Interviewer: "I heard you were extremely quick at math"
Me: "yes, as a matter of fact I am"
Interviewer: "Whats 14x27"
Me: "49"
Interviewer: "that's not even close"
me: "yeah, but it was fast".
haha
eljaydl old but gold
wait...I don't get it.....
devronl08 he told the interviewer he was quick at maths not specifically 'good' at maths so he just gave a random answer very quickly to the question asked by the interviewer 😂😂
Simply Vinusha Ah okay, I got I lol. Thanks.
the first problem was just sad.. i truly believe she should've just divorced him. he has no type of respect for and it's not even called being stubborn. he's so fucking cocky and needs a chill pill.
Safia Mohamed he shameless said u came here for 1 hour so i give u one hour like she was a piece of trash or a toy like if that was me i would say when we get home im not staying with u anymore
Rizzy it's just pathetic. it's like she's his servant. the fact that he checked up on her just because she wanted to pee. 🤦🏾♀️. i would dead ass want to be a host there but i might be kicked out for throwing something at someone stupid. 😭😂😂😂😂.
I'd probably get fired because I tried to choke someone lol
I'd probably get fired because I tried to choke someone lol
k-multifandom k-multifandom LETS BE FRIENDS 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
omg ailee slapping her leg out of anger LOOOL. she was trying so hard to hold back her anger. im glad shin dong yeob said something important regarding stress. many have no idea stress is a factor of many things. hope he realizes it and changes
Really tho iresponsible people should not adopt animals she's just hurting everyone including her dogs and giving excuses
smash the cookies right. If she can't take care of something, she shouldn't have it!
I was so frustrated the entire time. I'm kind of mad that nobody mentioned the fact she's neglecting those dogs, especially the collies. They NEED lots of exercise like any other herding breed. Being tired or busy isn't an excuse lmao.
Yes! I only have a beta fish with two aquatic snails and two budgies. Because I know that's the best I can do with my schedule and income. The beta fish is five years old and still swimming. The aquatic snails are almost five as well. My budgies are seven years old and show no signs of disease, stress, or aging. And their plumage and cage are very well cleaned, frequently. I gave my pets the best they deserve without destroying my savings account. You should only have what you deserve.
Her excuse of being "busy" and not having time to look after them was not an excuse at all. Those dogs are living things that need love and attention, they aren't toys. The mom doesn't want dogs at all yet she is forced to care for them, while her daughter who does want them isn't looking after them. I also didn't like the fact that the daughter kept giggling and making light of the situation, her mom is busy providing and yet has to come home to a dirty home, someone needed to smack the daughter in her rude face and set her straight.
Living in a house full of poop and pee can also be a health risk. Their relationship together as a mother and daughter is not an excuse for her to be irresponsible esp when it's not her house. I also like how Ailee points out @ 47:29 that she should be the one cleaning after the pee. You could see from her face that she's not joking.
The first man makes my blood boil. I wish Ailee ripped him to shreds. also Ailee and Sam in the same episode? YES
I really enjoy Dongeyop's (not sure if I spelled his name right) MCing! He has a calming voice, speaks gently and speaks very well, he is always careful about what to say and does a great job MCing Hello Counsellor (all of MCs do, but he stands out to me the most). Hello Counsellor fighting! Great show❤
Ailee never let's us down with her beautiful voice
The husband got on my nerves the whole time let her live or she will leave.
The picture that the last girl took of her friend and the boy was seriously goals like...
Do they really think 1 hour every week is enough? freedoom is something it shouldn't be discussed, not even your husband or wife, that's something you've born with, it's in your humans right OMFG!, if you need to ask for it, then you're a simple slave.
we live once, does she really think live like that, being chained to a man who didn't trust her enough to go to the super market alone, who is watching you 24/7, jealous of anything because she NEVER give him a single reason to Distrust. Okay he probably loves her but his way of love is almost obssesion and that's it's already illness
literally the second case is me with my mom xD i don't like dogs but she loves bring them home since i have memory it's a constant battle (which i win yey!) but with this case i could say to that daughter "this is my house if you want those dogs buy your own a bring as many pets as you want" really bring them home and no take care of them? how selfish a person could be, his mother work until 3:00 am WTF?!!
the guy in the last concern... he's cuteeeee!!! i admit that girl has talent, but what is the point of take a selca if you're life is in danger? no only the case of the russian guy who died taking a selca there's more similars cases, and that's sad
Its okay. After 10 years . . 😏 (jk)
Lol, omg every time he said that i wanted to hit him! 😂😂😂
MXMB same girl same
MXMB 😂🙅👎
Never gonna get married.
Satisfaction gets lower. This has been studied numerous times and no one listens.
0:21 She has one one the best voices. Singer Ailee.
YES, SHE DOES 😍
Omg leaving dogs alone in a tiny room for 12 hours without outdoor access is not okay, regardless of breed. It takes huge toll on the animals not just physically but mentally as well, that's why they start to show behaviour that we humans think are annoying like biting furniture, become hyper and uncontrollable etc. Animals can also get depressed and as a fellow dog owner my heart is hurting. This would be illegal in my country and reported to Animal Protective Service. If she has such a busy life then don't get pets, they need to be taken care of like a child THEY ARE NOT JUST CUTE TOYS. Would you let your child be isolated for 12 hours????
I agree. That girl should give away the dogs to those who have better condition to raise them
The last concern was so fun. That girl is obsessed, but has a talent for photography!
Also, her friend was quite handsome!
@@carlossilvioo yes😌
last guy is fiiiinnnneeeeeee
The girl's other 2 friends were pretty too. While watching I was wondering how all attractive people end up being friends like that.
Panda On Steroids i know, i want pretty friends😂😭😭
I´m really feeling bad for the dogs in the second concern. How can you get yourself 3 dogs and not take care of them. Especially bigger dogs need a lot of space to run freely.. this borders on animal abuse.
CheshireCat1865 clap clap clap That was cruel.
I told my mom about it and she said that she would've killed the dogs with poison (facepalm)
I love how Ailee talked about her past bf openly. A truly QUEEN 💕
My question is how the hell do the moms look so flawless at their age?!???
BTS TRASHH Genes + 10 Step skin routine.
@@DefineMorena I do this 10 step routine too, but I still have huge dark circles with small wrinkles under my eyes((((
Ailees body is different to ideal korean body image that seems all want. Its refreshing, somthing different to skinny ones. She looks healthy and not skinny.
You realize you can be healthy and skinny right? I get what you’re saying though and am glad there’s someone of a different beauty type ideal.
Faith Jones yes but the Kpop starts that are skinny are like SKINNY, like they look like they’re starving
Faith Jones and many are underweight
IM SIMPLE, I SEE AILEE AND I CLICK.
lol I see William's dad , I click xD
Capramare relatable
Ailee is looking thick and healthy!!! I love it 😍😍😏
Lily Miura I'd say healthy. Not thick to me. Just right and healthy 😌
you mean fat and healthy , Lets not sugar coat things
RoniDinn She's not even fat??? What's up with your abnormal standards =_=
Lollll if she's fat what the hell is Honey Boo Boo's mom? The person was just saying she's not stick figure like she was a few months ago
RoniDinn uhh no. Thick means fit just more curves in the right places. As long as she is eating healthy and exercising it should not be a problem. Plus she is proportional. However, I'm not her nutritionist, so I would not know her eating habits.
Poor Ailee the first concern really brought memories back for her...
People just shouldn't have pets if they can't take care of them. The mother never agreed to have the pet so why must she be the one to train and clean up after them.
Gladys Mba same with people who have children... on other episodes of hello counselor there are lots of ppl who don’t treat their children right :/ ;; i agree with you on this
btw..i love the way you use the original logo of bts..so nostalgic
*I still wonder if they are still humans*
But ayo army dynamite
I feel so sad for the mother...😥 heart breaking.. the daughter is so selfish
@@stuff3878 just wanted someone to write this.... Good you too saw through her... Like girl, if the mother didn't love you, she won't be caring for your pets and second, your mom cares for the family and does her restaurant job as well.. and you are juggling jobs saying you want to save and then go on to compare her mom's appendectomy to her migraine... I was like is this girl for real?!!! She's very very selfish
The last girl was sooo entertaining 😂but can we all just appreciate how gorgeous ailee looked 😍
Lol when ailee kept hitting the floor during the first concern
The girl in the yellow I never knew it was her song
Glad I'm able to put a face to a great song
Ruby3023 Check out some of her other songs too if you like, she's very talent
Ruby3023 check out "Home" it's amazing hey
ailee's voice is beautiful I cri everytime
The first concern just gets me so worked up and you can tell Ailee was holding back! Honestly if he really "loved" her as he claims he does, he would trust her!!
14:25
Ailee: *Lord, help us all*
100% agree with your username
QUEEN AILEE SLAYING THE SHOW
Ailee and her face expression is priceless
I love this show sm
BLACKPINK IN YOUR AREA. I love u too 👶
samee
When I heard Ailee sing I started to tear up
I can relate to the second concern. I once lived with a host family who had 4 dogs and 2 cats. The dogs didn't get along well they barked all the time and fought and chased the cats around. There was pee and poop everywhere and the appartement was always smelly. My host family called their pets their babies and darlings but would barely take control or responsibility for them. They weren't potty trained nor did they went outside with them more than one time a day for 10 minutes maximum. Getting that many pets without being able to care for them is in my opinion only for selfish reasons. They might give you joy for the 2h or so you can give them per day but if you can't look after them and see that they are suffering, the right move is to give them away to someone who can give them what they deserve and actually does that.
I feel like ppl have interesting way to distinguishing whether or not it is a concern. They say: if you change blah blah blah then it won't be a concern so I'm going to vote it is not a concern. If that friend or family member can change then of course people won't think it is a concern, it is because they don't change that is why people write it in as a concern, but for people to just say as long as they change, it is not a concern does not fully understand. Of course as long as they change, it is not a concern, but it is because THEY DON'T change, that is why their friends or family write to the show and try to have people help convince the person.
But everyone has their own understanding and interpretation, this is just my opinion. It frustrates me a little when people keep saying as long as the person do this or change this then it isn't a concern and don't press the button.
I completely agree with you - that's something that has always bothered me about this show, haha. Like, they'll spend the whole time discussing it like it's a huge deal and then the guests will be like, "I don't think it's a concern. I think if they just do this and this and this and this then it can probably get better." Like, their feedback is going to have a HUGE impact on whether the person in question actually takes it seriously, and if they literally have the celebrity guests on the show saying it isn't a concern, the person will probably just go back to thinking it's not a huge deal no matter what progress was made.
Me : oh new episode
Go fry some chicken and watch the episode
Haru Kim RAMEN!!! 🙆
silvervixen007 yasss
silvervixen007 chicken is da best for watching shows cuz if I can't eat ramen and hold my phone
I NEED SPICY RAMEN AND HOT TEA FIRST
Haru Kim oh i watch it on my laptop
I really am thankful that hello counselor has started dealing with problems more seriously and not just messing around! Also it's because if you watch earlier episodes, the concerns weren't as bad as they are now so the jokes made sense but now the MCs talk about divorce aswell and give really serious and helpful advice along with light hearted jokes! It's made the show more loveable and the different approach is really refreshing to watch! Will always be a fan! :D
PS. 17:35 best moment of the episode lol also i love how taejoon literally always gets up to help women :')
the moment they said lamb skewer I thought of jungkook and yoongi XDDDD anyways I swear ailee is sooo beautiful, I love when she has a bit more meat on her bones
Virginie Trepanier I thought of jungkook too😂😂
why do we see our boys everywhere we go XDDDDD
I thought of their fight in the MV 😂😂
Virginie Trepanier i thought of them too.😂😂😂
LololololLOlOLO I burst into laughter and tears when I saw your comment....THAT MOMENT IS JUST ME BCUZ MY COUSIN TOOK MY CHICKEN(leg part ㅠㅠ)
"i want to create a happy family" ... well good job.
Am I the only one that thinks that the second story the daughter is really selfish? Like she can hardly raise one dog right and she gets three dogs. Her mom cleans for her and she's tired of it so she came and said she wants more time with her daughter. Then the daughter goes oh I was born in a financial crisis so my mom was always negative and we didn't have that bond. Her friend reveals that the mom only slept two hours just to wake up and make her kids breakfast and how she goes to the hospital 2 times a week because she has health problems. Then later on the daughter says something how she watched her parents go through financial problems so she works a lot because she's young and want to live comfortably when she's older. That's what her mom is supposed to be doing being comfortable because she's older but has to clean up her daughters mess and she's tired. It doesn't seem that the daughter is appreciating all her mothers efforts for her.
she's selfish and urgh.. i don't know how she can stand be in the room with dog poops everywhere and claimed too busy to clean. -_- so pretty as a person but urgh disgusting
It's really weird seeing Sam without William but that's the reality of it
Ailee is so cutee~ I like her looks,
she looks chubby and it's cuteee it suits her (In my opinion)~ 😍😍😍 I miss heer~
Y'all the last concern the squad looks so 🔥 She definitely has a talent for photography and she and her friends are cute. As long as she doesn't harm herself or her friends while taking photos i think its a great way to keep a diary.
Idk why but I thought Ailee was super skinny (like unhealthy skinny) but i love that she doesn't look like she's been starving. She's so pretty and i love her voice! ❤️❤️
Okay the wife in the first concern has to run from that marriage not walk
Feranmi Bello . She doesn’t need to run she needs to fucking sprint.
Someone as possessive would probably hurt her if she tried to leave him. Men like him are often violent.
If they get Sam Hammington on the show... I can't wait til Dave and Erina or Jaein or Vai come!
I doubt it'll happen because they're just youtubers. Sam has been on Korean TV for almost 20 years, that's how people know him.
bethf07 Actually, a lot of people know Dave too in Korea. He's been on quite a few Korean shows recently. I don't know about Erina or Vai tho.
Erika Ramsey eh but he's not a tv celebrity like Sam
True but the thing is Sam DEFINITELY knows Dave! So he should have little to no problem with connections! He even knows music stars like Jessi, who also has been on the show!
Dave was on tv shows too
'The person who put her into the surgery room was you'. This gave me goosebumps. It needed to be said. Harshly. He did it. This forst story is amazingly sad from start to finish
HUNNY your excuse for nit being able to clean after your dogs was cause your too busy. if your yoo busy the. DONT FREAKING KEEP THE DOGS
The girl in the third concern wasn't as bad of a concern to me. I believe her friends are her friends precisely because she's so adventurous. The only problem is from their point of view is that although they may not mind taking pictures sometimes, they aren't as passionate or obsessive as she is about taking them. The danger part is debatable because some of the most memorable and talked about pictures are in dangerous climates, like war photos for example. From the photographer's perspective, these pictures will tell the story as well as the words ever could. Reading about the civil rights movement is far different from seeing actual footage of it's hardships. What she needs to do is become a photographer. Whether freelance or full time. Because she obviously has the talent and passion to do it. However, she needs to stop relying on her friends to take her pictures for her. Give them more time and attention but her friends also must be understanding of her passion. I really hope she pursues that profession in the near future.
AILEE !!! YAAAAAASS i want to see her more on shows like those !! 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Meriem sekkal i
The guy in the concern is so handsome! He can be an idol😭💞
Sam looks so good!! Really seems like he's taking care of himself, so happy for him 😄
The first concern is not love. That has nothing to do with love. Take your kids and run while everything is still on your name.
That guy in 3rd concern....!😘❣️ OMFG......I'm flattered to death 😍😉 He's soooo good 🙈😱 wish I had a friend like him😋😍
the last concern the boy looked so handsome
my queen. Ailee
SAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quack Dragon I know Sam is Famous and all and he's on some T.V shows. What made him famous? I'm curious.
If Jimin Has No Jams Then What Even Are Jams? ?? he was already famous, but when he appeared on "the return of Superman" with his family, he became even more famous. most bcuz everyone know him as "William's dad" his cute little baby
If Jimin Has No Jams Then What Even Are Jams? ?? Hes on Return of Superman.
If Jimin Has No Jams Then What Even Are Jams? ??
My name rivals yours 😂👌
Why do I feel like he is always sad or uninterested lol. Maybe it's because he is concentrating.
Was it just me or was that friend group really pretty in the last concern? 😶
Ailee is so done with everyone's bullshit.
I love her.
I like how they have ailee and sam, now they can have american and australian opinions which are more open minded than korean👏
A good point was made at 55:12. She's basically her mom but instead of working for children she's working for dogs. She works so hard to protect them because she loves them but they're living a crappy life.
Ailee is to perfect for me to handle. And I'm not one to ship people bc I think it's stupid but Ailee & Taejoon would really make the cutest couple.
damn Ailee looks so good and she is such a beauty 😍
The thumbnail of ailee is like "yes, im the goddess of all" lmao
I exploded when she said her husband picks the clothes she wears and whenever he said "because I love her".......
Every time Ailee sings... I swear ...
to all the people saying the first woman should just get a divorce don't realize that divorce in Korea is not like in the US or other western countries where it wont affect the woman's life really. In Korea being a divorcee can keep you from getting jobs, being promoted and can give your kids a hard time too, the same goes for being a single mom. Also her husband could get total custody of her kids and that would also be hard. It sucks that the society is more prone to those types of reaction but your advice from behind your computer could never practically help that woman unless you yourself flew to Korea and decided to help her financially or legally.
Finally! I was worried about Ailee's health because she always looks thin and underweight, I'm happy that she's finally gained weight and she looks healthy now. I'm not hating on her so please don't misunderstand. I love Ailee and I'm a big fan of Ailee
If I were the daughter in the first concern, I'd tell my dad right at that moment that the woman concerned is my mum and she deserves, by all means, to be treated right. i don't care if they're both busy with the family's businesses because all i do care is for my mum to be treated like a human being and not a property. if my dad doesn't listen, i'll blatantly tell my mum that i'd go with her and let's leave this emotionally abusive husband/father. my mum is free to divorce her husband and as her daughter, i'll support her all the way...
19:49 ailee 😂😂👌
The husband has signs of borderline personality disorder. Perhaps the most obvious being that in he's actually pushing and alienating his favourite person by trying so hard to hold on to her. He needs treatment as he'll only get worse as he's come this far that the process of detachment would be more detrimental than his wife enduring another 10 years. I was concerned because i could see in his eyes that he wouldn't know what to do he'd rather kill himself which is what is scary.
The fact that the husband isn't even ashamed of his actions makes it so much worse ugh.
alexander hammington .
Iksha Limbu The kind of comment I was looking for 😂
You have forgotten your question.
Satisfied
Loving Ailee's new look, so thick & gorgeous!!!! 😊 💕💕
My head hurts so much after the first concern 😣it's too frustrating, Idek how many times I banged my head in the wall 🙄. His control over her is beyond obsessive 😞. They should both really try to enjoy life, even just a little bit.
Omg Ailee!! I love her!
I really feel sorry for the lady in the first concern she seem like such a nice and intelligent person and it is a shame that she is with a man who gives her no autonomy and respect.
I also hate when he says he follows her around because he loves her. If you did truly love her then why the hell are you treating her like a piece of property that has to respond to your every beck and call rather then the equal that she is. It is concerns like these that really get my blood boiling.
How dare this girl keep a border collie locked up inside. Those poor dogs. They are trapped with their own feces as well. Why is the girl laughing?
they can get sick including the whole family! It's really animal abuse ((
Is it just me or is the last guy who was friends w the girl rlly cute😂💞💞
1:09:48 - I almost freaked out. "Deep Blue Eyes" was being played in the bgm. I'm crying.
I don't mean anything offensive or wrong or anything but the mom(in the 2nd concern) is SMOKEN HOT! like I wouldn't even give her mid 40's..WOW!
I don't mean that women can't be like that but she's the first Korean lady on THAT SHOW that looks fine in her 50's
the best thing about this show are the comedic cartoony additions and comments that are written on the screen xD
This is my first time seeing this hello counselor episode and the beginning with sam is so funny!
"Have you been saying you want a girl in front of the doctor? And she didn't tell you?"
"No"
"Then its a boy"
LMAO IT WAS. Bentley is also very cute!
Aileeeeee I MISS YOU SO MUCH QUEEN
omg when taejoon was playing with the dogs... ugh too cute
I have to say..Noh Taeho really looks like an idol.I feel like he's gonna get scouted by some entertainment companies to become an idol or an actor.
Anything with ailee 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️❤️❤️