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My parents also prioritized being polite, actually, it was not my mom or dad but another family member, they told me to always say please and thank you, table manners, and also stuff like how to set a table, I am great full for them because without them I wouldn’t be who I am today ❤
00:00 intro 01:15 be the example 02:07 have realistic expectations 03:39 be patient 05:13 start basic 06:04 please & thank you 07:20 greeting people 08:21 table manners
If I was your son...only thing I'd be doing is being at home doing what you tell me to do with no back talk or arguing. I'd do all of the cleaning so you don't have to worry with it! I'd help out in all other areas. My only happiness would be to obey you and make you happy!
I tried step #4, but then they sent me on some really weird field trips and now i have PTSD 😂. I like your channel man, keep it up. You just gained yourself a subscriber.
This is great information, thank you for sharing. I’m raising my 8yo son with the help of my parents. He’s very strong willed, and we are struggling with having him be consistent with saying yes/no ma’am/sir, please and thank you. I was raised this way and still speak with these considerations. Also, we are struggling with him following instructions. We have to repeat several times to stop the back talking/reasoning or him being side tracked on his own agenda. How do we instill the importance of listening and obeying?
Boundaries are very important. Also at 8 years old, much of the time it's not even them intentionally not following directions, their brains just don't seem to grasp everything or they don't remember. Try to provide instruction in small amounts or even 1 task at a time. Be calm but firm.
I'm 15 and I have been obeying my mom since I was 5-6. I obey my mom to the max, she is the one that is in total control. Everyday, I come home from school and the 1 st thing I do, is give her my phone...don't want any distractions, then I do my homework, then all the chores for that day, which must be done to my moms satisfaction. Then I do whatever she tells me to do with no back talk or arguing. On the weekends, I do want she wants me to do, Before I have my "Free time" If I was your son...only thing I'd be doing is being at home doing what you tell me to do with no back talk or arguing. I'd do all of the cleaning so you don't have to worry with it! I'd help out in all other areas. My only happiness would be to obey you and make you happy!
what's the best way of getting your kid to stop interupting you while talking? excuse me is one of the importantt manners to me bc if i hear mom a million times how am I expected not to lose my temper. what is the best way implementing "excuse me"?
Ha, my toddler was a well behaved kid in restaurants, people commented on it, but I don't think it's all the parent's doing. For her it was just me anticipating her needs so she wasn't a wreck when we went out, and now that she's older her shyness keeps her polite. But now she's a monster at home and I feel like a failure 🤗
I have a little brother and he yells every-time he gets something wrong, like when we have arguments. He wines he screams when he doesn’t know something, and embarrasses my family in public. He never says “hi” instead he says in a very concerned voice “who in the world are you?” In an angry tone. He watches his iPad non-stop so whenever we take it away he starts screaming like crazy and disturbing my parents work. He show no respect to us and thinks he head of everything. My mum is very kind, my dad is just fun, but I don’t know how he got this bold personality. When learning he runs away and starts yelling and punching my dad. I don’t know how we can fix him, so I’ll try this and see if it’ll make him a LITTLE more polite. Wish me luck 😅
I believe in old English etiquette if you are one that polishes and shine your shoes to increase the look of your fashion then proper Etiquette polishes and shines you
Sorry using my wife's phone till I have a new one I have a 1 and a half year old son that I get every other week. We are going to court soon. My question is do you have any tips on how to transition from bi weekly father to full time father
why my toddler boy when he play alone its a little loud like when he play stuff animal toys his screaming try to copy cat the sound of animals. And also when he play he to create too much noise stumping our floor using his toy cabinet and drawer. And when I rty to stop him telling to be quite he does it more. what should i do better
I’ve noticed that young children are being taught to greet adults by their first name. For example “Miss Cindy” or “Mr. Ken. They even do this if the woman is married! I find this rude because it’s disrespectful for kids to greet adults by their first or by the wrong title.
I was taught to address people as they present themselves. True, at the time it meant only one person did I call by their first name. However, times change. Wearing a hat indoors comes from knights wearing helmets which hid their identities. Rude and maybe dangerous! Wearing a hat inside doesn't mean you're sinister now, though.
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Totally agree with you. Manners show HOW respectful a person is.Very important to have.
My parents also prioritized being polite, actually, it was not my mom or dad but another family member, they told me to always say please and thank you, table manners, and also stuff like how to set a table, I am great full for them because without them I wouldn’t be who I am today ❤
I'm glad you had that other family member to help you because a lot of parents are dropping the ball and not caring.
00:00 intro
01:15 be the example
02:07 have realistic expectations
03:39 be patient
05:13 start basic
06:04 please & thank you
07:20 greeting people
08:21 table manners
Adults need to be taught this, I get tired of getting commands, instead of would you please and the words thank you.
Manners and being considerate are important. But kids deserve to be treated with manners boundaries and respect too.
My 11 year old just came from her fathers house to my house, with no manners. She steals, lies and slams doors then cries only when she's in trouble.
If I was your son...only thing I'd be doing is being at home doing what you tell me to do with no back talk or arguing.
I'd do all of the cleaning so you don't have to worry with it! I'd help out in all other areas.
My only happiness would be to obey you and make you happy!
Thank you! This is required viewing in my GMRC Class. It's for parents but it has application in the classroom.
I tried step #4, but then they sent me on some really weird field trips and now i have PTSD 😂. I like your channel man, keep it up. You just gained yourself a subscriber.
Thanks for subscribing!
You explained this very well indeed.
I think,that videos teaching kids good manners should be being taught by nurseries and/or preschools.
Yes because sometimes kids don’t have parents or bad ones who to look up too
This is great information, thank you for sharing. I’m raising my 8yo son with the help of my parents. He’s very strong willed, and we are struggling with having him be consistent with saying yes/no ma’am/sir, please and thank you. I was raised this way and still speak with these considerations. Also, we are struggling with him following instructions. We have to repeat several times to stop the back talking/reasoning or him being side tracked on his own agenda. How do we instill the importance of listening and obeying?
Boundaries are very important. Also at 8 years old, much of the time it's not even them intentionally not following directions, their brains just don't seem to grasp everything or they don't remember. Try to provide instruction in small amounts or even 1 task at a time. Be calm but firm.
I'm 15 and I have been obeying my mom since I was 5-6.
I obey my mom to the max, she is the one that is in total control.
Everyday, I come home from school and the 1 st thing I do, is give her my phone...don't want any distractions, then I do my homework, then all the chores for that day, which must be done to my moms satisfaction. Then I do whatever she tells me to do with no back talk or arguing.
On the weekends, I do want she wants me to do, Before I have my "Free time"
If I was your son...only thing I'd be doing is being at home doing what you tell me to do with no back talk or arguing.
I'd do all of the cleaning so you don't have to worry with it! I'd help out in all other areas.
My only happiness would be to obey you and make you happy!
@@perryh.5306 where you going with this lol
@@tava831 I'm responding to a post.....where are you going with your comment?
@@perryh.5306 Just curious if you're being sarcastic or not? Alot of kids don't enjoy listening to their parents, if you do cudos.
what's the best way of getting your kid to stop interupting you while talking? excuse me is one of the importantt manners to me bc if i hear mom a million times how am I expected not to lose my temper. what is the best way implementing "excuse me"?
How old is the child?
@@DadUniversity for teaching this to a 4 y/o, what would you advise?
Great ,it sounds realistic....surmised points briefly, I hope it works with my kids too. Appreciate it.
How to teach 3/4 year old to greet people when they strongly refuse to do so ? And are so shy?
Ha, my toddler was a well behaved kid in restaurants, people commented on it, but I don't think it's all the parent's doing. For her it was just me anticipating her needs so she wasn't a wreck when we went out, and now that she's older her shyness keeps her polite. But now she's a monster at home and I feel like a failure 🤗
Not a failure at all, totally normal. Continue to learn and you will be awesome.
I have a little brother and he yells every-time he gets something wrong, like when we have arguments. He wines he screams when he doesn’t know something, and embarrasses my family in public. He never says “hi” instead he says in a very concerned voice “who in the world are you?” In an angry tone. He watches his iPad non-stop so whenever we take it away he starts screaming like crazy and disturbing my parents work. He show no respect to us and thinks he head of everything. My mum is very kind, my dad is just fun, but I don’t know how he got this bold personality. When learning he runs away and starts yelling and punching my dad.
I don’t know how we can fix him, so I’ll try this and see if it’ll make him a LITTLE more polite. Wish me luck 😅
Some parents don’t even have matters smh 🤦♀️
I love this my kid is polite 🤣🤣🤣
Great video.....for my grandson ty
Its sad people still don't know how to raise a kid modern era needs to setup for the better we Never learn from past.
Thank you so much for the video!
I believe in old English etiquette if you are one that polishes and shine your shoes to increase the look of your fashion then proper Etiquette polishes and shines you
Is a dry hello a respectful reply to good morning?
Completely agree with you
Sorry using my wife's phone till I have a new one I have a 1 and a half year old son that I get every other week. We are going to court soon. My question is do you have any tips on how to transition from bi weekly father to full time father
I have only been full time so I don't know the nuances of a transition like that. I would imagine it's not easy but confident you will do great.
This is a great video! Thank you
big thank you 😊
why my toddler boy when he play alone its a little loud like when he play stuff animal toys his screaming try to copy cat the sound of animals. And also when he play he to create too much noise stumping our floor using his toy cabinet and drawer. And when I rty to stop him telling to be quite he does it more. what should i do better
👍🏿 This is amazing
Im 19 and freaking out lmao
Totally normal
00:00 - intro
01:15 - be the example
02:07
good thing this is a video because my dad is starting to hate me
Being polite and respectful also includes not generalising about the fact kids today are less polite than they were in previous generations
Hi I am Lisa
I’ve noticed that young children are being taught to greet adults by their first name. For example “Miss Cindy” or “Mr. Ken. They even do this if the woman is married! I find this rude because it’s disrespectful for kids to greet adults by their first or by the wrong title.
This isn't the 50's anymore....get over it.
@@perryh.5306 I see you weren’t taught manners either
I was taught to address people as they present themselves. True, at the time it meant only one person did I call by their first name. However, times change. Wearing a hat indoors comes from knights wearing helmets which hid their identities. Rude and maybe dangerous! Wearing a hat inside doesn't mean you're sinister now, though.
May I know what you think is appropriate?
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What about an 8 yr old
why do you have a camera filming you being filmed by another camera? That makes no sense and is distracting.
Only 900 Likes Lolo. Saying a lot about people....
Too much droning on about parents when we thought it would be a good video to show an impolite teenager.
No