We used to have a receptionist at our office who was obsessed with crashing funerals. Yes, I promise she actually crashed funerals of people she didn't know. Her obsession got so out of control, at one point, that she started having fellow employees clock her in, on the morning of a funeral, so she could still ... theoretically...still be paid for the hours she was off engaging in her fake mourning. Once she was caught, she very rapidly ended her obsession, as she was also a single mom with two kids.
Remember going to birthday parties as a child and there was always one kid who desperately wanted to "help" open the presents? That's what this is giving.
Professional wedding officiant/minister here. I NEVER tell my couples anything negative on their wedding day. I put out fires the couple doesn't even know about. I performed one ceremony the day after a close relative of mine died. I'd cried all night and the morning of the wedding, but put myself together and performed a gorgeous ceremony. The couple never knew I was grieving. As it should be!
@revgurley This is exactly how it should be done - professionally. We have to distinguish the private from the professional life and act mature. And I'm sorry for your loss!
@@revgurley absolutely! Your personal life shouldn’t affect the couple. Unless you lost someone DIRECTLY related (wife, child, brother, sister, husband, mother, father). But canceling last moment on a wedding is really hard. Especially for the couple (unless you found a replacement for them). Also, I’m so sad for your loss. But happy for heavens gain. I pray they see the face of God. ETA: I know you said close relative. In your case, it would’ve been acceptable to find a replacement officiant and be able to properly grieve. Losing someone is always difficult. Especially when they were close to you.
Anybody notice that when the MUA posted after the wedding that she would learn from this and do better in the future, that the one thing she didn’t say was, “I’m sorry.” She never apologized!!! 😡
YES! I was thinking the same thing! She acted like it was just a misunderstanding. Utter baloney! Also made it sound like the misunderstanding was not her but one of the people in her employ.
I think because she doesn’t think she did anything wrong. Maybe she’ll see all this stuff and make that connection that it’s inappropriate. Probably not 🤷🏻♀️
I wanted to put a timestamp here, because I was damn sure, the phrase did come out of her mouth.. Technically it did, but she said it to the viewer because the video took too long to make, and not to the couple or anyone involved so... I can't say it counts, so you're actually right.
The fact the bridal party was still so gracious in making sure they stated, repeatedly, that the MUAs work was lovely,speaks volumes to their character. Even justifiably upset, they have gone out of their way to make sure only her behavior\choices were called out, but not she and her team’s skills. Classy.
They also wanted to avoid a lawsuit if her business does become affected by the virality of this drama. They want to make it clear that they haven't bad mouthed her or her business.
Probably wanted to make sure they got their wedding content at the end of it. Lots of folks are afraid to complain if there's a chance they could 'lose' photos or videos...
@@a1m2k3y No that wouldn’t be the reason because she was strictly only supposed to be the makeup artist they already had a photographer & videographer for the wedding. This chick is seriously delusional
@@flyingnow4233 I honestly can't see how anyone would want to hire her at this point. I saw a video of another MUA that worked with her and this woman seems to be just a lousy person in general.
Dude nooooooooo hell nooooo yo and then sh ed look so homey with a whole black T-shirt dress on with her leg showing when you do someone’s make up you have to be very, very classy here
I’m starting to think her bf didn’t actually cheat, but that they were broken up and she didn’t want to acknowledge it. With these wedding stories, it would make sense 😬
She used her pain from being cheated on as an excuse to act however she wants. Doesn't matter if it's one wedding or ten, that's not a mistake, it's a choice.
She, not once, said I'm sorry, not once! I was emotional. WE take responsibility. WE will try to not let this happen again. Who is We. Is she just a part of a company? WE take responsibility, not I but we, yet still no, I'm sorry😢!!!
That sounds like the excuse people use when a child does something wrong and they don't want to teach their kid and say "they are just a child". Nope just nope
i love the way your editor edits these videos. always throwing in little visual jokes like the dj turntable or the vote counter of you saying wait, okay, listen. always cracks me up.
As a wedding coordinator I tell the bride that I am happy to be the "bad guy" that removes people or tells people to leave her alone, nicely with a smile of course, as I refuse to let them be main characters on someone else's day.
I don't think wine would've stopped her 😬 She left and went back to the venue several times. Even the groomsmen were trying to tell her to leave, but she wouldn't take the hint
@@revinaque1342seriously... Predatory. I think the couple needs to lawyer up both of them. If anything I think this woman needs to eat some humble pie. Made of her own ego.. she should seriously return all funds. And hope hope to the high heavens the Stars... 😅 They don't sue her for their whole wedding's 🎉
@@MzClementine honestly her brand/business is over now no one is going to hire her with that drama behind her back, anyone who look her up will automatically see this drama which stupidly created on her own accord 😂.. she had to starts all over again and probably with different career but that’s her karma 💅
When my cousin got married I wasn't in the mood to celebrate because my cat had died 3 days prior. I told her the day before during dinner just so she wouldn't think I wasn't happy for her if I seemed a bit down during the wedding. She was really understanding about it. And _that's_ how you deal with having feelings about personal tragedies while at a wedding. And if you're a vendor not a guest, then YOU LEAVE after delivering your services!
Her video was CRAZY. She kept talking about how she "Did NOTHING Wrong." Then she had posted an "Apology" video where she said sorry, but then immediately, renegged, and started talking shit again. Theres a full rundown video on Derrick Branch Channel that had me fr mad at this make up artist I have never met before in my life lol.
The most funny thing for me was in her first video when she was explaining how the groom told her to leave the first time, and she went to cry in her car, and she was hyping herself with something along the lines "my bride needs me, I cannot leave my bride" and she went back...I was screaming when I heard that😂😂😂
She was clearly emotional and feeling things she may not have felt in the right head space. I usually stay home when I'm emotional because I, too, tend to ruin things when I'm emotional whether I plan on it or not.
Omg yes! She took what the groom said as a challenge!! 🤡 She legit said she told herself, "Go back in there! Don't let anyone break you down." Like um, that was not anyone, that was THE groom. It was HIS day, not the mua!
Story time. I was a make up artist years ago for a wedding. My family and the grooms family had been friends for decades. I did make up for 5 family members the bridal party and the bride. After HOURS of work, they asked me to stay for the rest of the day. I stayed, I wasn’t a stranger, I knew lots of people at the wedding. At the reception a VEEERRRYYY drunk cousin and her boyfriend kept trying to “sneak” off to the BRIDAL SUITE to…..giggity. The family put it on ME to be run interference. They knew what was happening, they SPECIFICALLY asked me to stop them. Ok, Mission accepted, u want to go do your thang…go for it just not in the bridal suite… so so tacky... anyways I see them go into the room… I need to go get lip gloss to touch up the bride. They try again, I need to get the bride her shall. A third time…..gotta check my phone. The boyfriend gets mad at me. Starts calling me names but whatever, he’s hammered and I’m doing what I’ve been ASKED to do. I succeed in my mission. Cut to the next day….the cousin tells her family I was rude to her and ruined her time at the wedding. The entire family ends up mad at me and almost 20 years later STILL talk about how i ruined the whole family’s time. Never got paid either. Moral of the story….whether you are a stranger or not….if you don’t have a formal invitation….dont stay. (Second moral….get paid up front…..no matter how long everyone has known each other)
I’m filled with righteous indignation in your behalf. Good grief, you started as a hero and ended up a martyr! Seriously, that sounded like A+ quality interference in the most noble of causes, up against slobbering drunks who could have actually physically harmed you, and they threw you under the bus after putting you up to it? Aw hell naw! No, I think it was the plan all along. “We don’t want to get the heat for stopping this but it needs to be stopped… I know! We’ll send someone else to do it and blame them when things go south!” I dunno how much the bridal couple knew about it, but even if they were complicit I hope you still recognize that your actions were pure. You did a kindness for people who didn’t appreciate it, and potentially for a couple who never even knew you did it in their behalf, not to ruin their wedding, and otherwise would have thanked you. The family’s rudeness doesn’t invalidate that good deed, as far as I’m concerned.
That is SHOCKING and I know the family is going to get some karma kicking them in the kaboose for doing you dirty like that… having you be the heavy AND THEN getting mad at you for doing what they asked AND THEN not paying you?? The absolute audacity of it. Karma’s a b**** and she comes to collect. They better watch their backs.
@@najadahmer4862Helen Keller right there.. although that's a little insulting cuz that woman was brilliant. 😅 Literally she needs to offer all money of all services that she did to them. Back. I think both couples need to lower her up. She would be so lucky not to have to pay for the wedding. No joke.. Unbelievable. I'm only human . 🤔 I beg to differ. 😅
Moral of the story: Never hire a wedding vendor who makes TikToks. If a vendor says, "What's TikTok?", hire them. Hire *professionals,* not *influencers.*
My photographer for my wedding was a high school friend. She took the best pictures I have of myself. When I told her I wanted a picture of her with us, she was so shocked. I appreciated her so much and her pictures were worth everything. ❤
I went to beauty school and one of the first things my teacher said about events was that you shouldn’t stay. If you’re invited as a guest you’ll just keep getting asked to touch up makeup throughout the night without getting paid. I also don’t care how “emotional” you are, your first move shouldn’t be to vent on TikTok! Most people wouldn’t, so don’t blame it on being emotional.
Guys I watched this and she noticed during reception that for an hour BRIDE AND GROOM WERE NOT THERE , Groom is Jew and there is some Tradition where the New couple are in the room in isolation and its holy , no unmarried man or woman are allowed to enter . SHE ACTUALLY WENT IN THERE TO GET HER MAKE UP BAGS AT THE SAME TIME , SHE SAID SHE KNEW THE COUPLE ARE IN THE ROOM AND SHE ENTERED IN THE SAME ROOM WITHOUT ANNOUNCING OR PERMISSION. AFTER THAT WHEN COUPLE WERE IN THE RECEPTION SHE ASKED THEM FOR MAKING CONTENT THAT WAS THE TIME GROOM WAS ANGRY SAID"NO YOU'RE GETTING ON MY NERVES". Tradition or not You don't enter at the same room of couple no matter how important matter it is without their permission. I personally feel like she was trying to be nosy to see what they are doing. 😠 I LOVE YOU PETTY QUEEN❤ PLEASE BEWARE OF SUCH PPL DURING YOUR WEDDING ❤ Sending You Lots Of Good Luck❤
It's called Yichud. I've seen others mention that. No wonder the groom was so angry. I'm also sure the bride had talked to him about this and he was standing up for his new wife (as he should).
When she was kicked out by the groom then went to the bride, I thought for sure, she was going to ask to be paid for her Extra Help & time she spent helping & was rudely told to leave! But after hearing what she actually did, I'm like, did she just go ask mom after being told no by dad😂? I used to get in Trouble if I asked my mom, like she was my first stop, instead of being my second chance at a yes! It seems this girl wasn't raised properly & I'm surprised that she didn't wear white!!!
That is the very first time the bride and groom are ever technically allowed to be alone together. It's a very VERY special part of a Jewish wedding and they have that first moment alone for the rest of their lives. The fact that she went in that room is such a huge imposition!! I'm surprised someone physically did not throw her out!!
That's true. I've heard about this. Apparently in the olden days some couples would consummate the marriage then, but nowadays they usually enjoy a glass of wine, have the photos of just them taken, some couples pray together, some brides change into a reception outfit. That's why you don't disturb them!
OMFG!!! I had heard what I thought was the full story but this is SOOOOOOO far from anything resembling even the most minute possibility of living next door to social acceptability. She needs to be an inpatient somewhere. Fr
Almost shot my coffee out my nose when she said, “…but I’m human, and WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES……………it’s just not fair that THEIR special days is overshadowed WITH THIS……..”. HON, and I say this with no due respect, YOU did THIS to THEM. What a non-apology, sheesh🤦🏻♀️
I think she has mental problems she was manic 1 minute then crying the next. Basically she should go for counselling and the council should teach you how to write a proper apology. "Sorry but" is not sorry.
I just had my wedding about two weekends go and i did not even notice my photographer moving around at all and she got amazing photos. That is all uncalled for she is the makeup artist and that is it.
Hey Lotte, I just wanted to let you know that I lost my mum recently and have been going through grief. The other night I was having a tearful moment and my partner said, ‘Do you want me to put on Sherbert Urrbrae?’ I had no idea what he was talking about but once the penny dropped I thought it was so sweet that he mentioned you because he knows you make me happy xoxox
I’m sorry about your mum. I lost the only aunt of mine that I know and I miss her so much. I hope you are being good to yourself and that you are doing okay as can be.❤💐 Your partner sounds like a kind and thoughtful person. Tell them they get a 10/10 and all the gold stars and prizes for just being thoughtful and supportive of you. I hope you stay happy together forever. ☺️
The fact that she tried to gain sympathy by accusing the couple of racism was so disgusting to me. I remember a Black beauty influencer talked about how if it was an all Black wedding she would have been kicked out very quickly, but they kept her longer because they didn’t want to seem rude or look racist. And still the MUA tried to say it was about race! Just totally try to slander the couple after she ruined their day.
Yeah I feel like I would’ve kicked her out far sooner. Likely ask a family member to do so. I’m African American too. It wasn’t racist. It was unprofessional
Sorry, I'm not trying to be rude, but isn't the couple biracial though? I mean, I remember watching clips of the MUA's TikToks on another channel and if I'm not mistaken the bride is black, while the groom is white. Or am I mistaken? I'm kind of confused😅 @@xxKuroKajixx
I literally JUST went to her TikTok after watching this video and she was on live talking to a client over speaker phone yet again, being unprofessional. I stated what she was doing is unprofessional and then she blocked me. I’d assume anyone who says anything to her gets blocked.
10+ year Event planner here - you have to leave your drama at the gates, do NOT take your problems to someone's wedding, and do NOT insert yourself into bridal party, photos, first looks, ANYTHING. We are meant to be behind the scenes, problem solving and making their day perfect. This sounds like an actual nightmare.
As far as the second wedding, the first one that was talked about, when the first girl that spoke said that the make-up artist left and then came back. Well, I have seen this same story on another post and the first woman talking about it here left out the fact that she said that the reason she left was that the groom was mad at her and asked her to leave, but that she ain't gonna let NO MAN talk to her or treat her that way, so she going back. And that is why she went back to the wedding, was to give the groom a piece of her mind. I don't know if the video is still up or if anyone can find it, but it was there at some point. Crazy stuff!
It’s not just about weddings … I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to pull coworkers aside that work with me in the medical field and say to them: the patients don’t need to know about your troubles, they have more troubles than you right now 😤🙄 it just blows my mind when someone can’t step out of themselves for a few hours and be an actual PROFESSIONAL 🤦♀️ when did professionalism actually die??? Cuz I must’ve missed it 🤷♀️
@@shirleymalley5420 agreed, but sadly, longer than that. I watched nurses doing it during my practicums (in nursing school) when they know they are being watched because they are mentoring/teaching so they should be on their best behavior so as not to pass on bad habits. And I left the medical field altogether in 2017.
@SoManyRandomRamblings I took the hardest psw course do the full yr in 6months, very hard but I was honor roll..... but some of things they said and believe I couldn't be apart of it. Can't wear a body cam for your protection like a cop, and yet they can say and do anything to ya like be handsy and your expect to chalk it up to thats the job .... ya I do t think so. Ntm seems like very few places are actually professional anymore.... while they look at you like your trash lmfao
@@shirleymalley5420 yikes. That's not a healthy environment for people who need social workers to be in (i assume that's what psw stands for), it's not like that energy magically goes away when they aren't being inappropriate. I feel so sorry for your clients. And sorry for you having to deal with it too
@SoManyRandomRamblings I meant that they say clients can do whatever they want and as the worker you have to just deal with it and not ok. And if nothing g protecting the workers than they can literally say anything they want and be beli3ved.....and let's be real here I'd be the one they donit to lmfao
I am a recovering people pleaser. All of the people who have a history of using me, now call me bad names. I now understand that I'm better off without them.
I literally watched so many videos about that delulu MUA! She also lost the groom's lighter!!!!! She was in all pictures! Kicked out AND went back for more!!!!
So she's actually a content (drama) creator who happens to do makeup. Got it. If/when my daughter ever gets married, it will be made clear to the hair and makeup persons (unless they are friends beforehand or relatives) they are not invited to the wedding/reception. Especially if they are as emo as that one. Nope.
I work at a hospital, and I'm going through some heavy stuff rn, but when I'm around the patients then got better believe i give my absolute best self! They have enough on their plates, i dont need to add any stress or worry bc I'm there to make them feel comfortable and cared for! That goes for any position of service
If there are delays because of your official function at an event (a wedding in this case) that’s somewhat forgivable, stuff happens, things get broken/lost/used up, but no way in HELL do you purposely delay things for your own interests!
EVERY bride needs a “brut squad,” or a brut person. That’s the one who has the cojones to tell ANYONE who needs telling, what to do or where to go. I was part of the brut squad at my SIL’s wedding, and it was a blast. It ended up changing how her new in-laws acted towards her, for the better.
My aunt showed up to her youngest son’s wedding with the knowledge that her oldest son, his brother, literally just died….. she somehow found the courage to hold her shit together for the entire wedding and celebration and nobody knew a thing except for her and my uncle. THAT is mind-blowingly badass…. Absolutely gut wrenching that she had to at all, but still incredibly badass. Also, every year when we celebrate my cousins anniversary, she will not allow herself to fall apart in front of her grandbabies, etc. I have tremendous respect and love for that woman!
@Clarachk Wow! That is the most heartbreaking story of strength and courage I've ever read. Your aunt and uncle are both incredibly badass for having held it together that day and every year since.
Omg this entire situation is so WEIRDDDDD! I just did makeup at a wedding last weekend , our clients are(typically)basically strangers to us. They are not our friends or even acquaintances. Why would you EVER feel comfortable not only attending but inserting yourself like this at a strangers wedding!?!?! She is the epitome of delulu
Just me over here absolutely loving how Charlotte is basically telling all her future wedding vendors and guests how to NOT behave at her upcoming wedding. Love this for you girlie!! I hope they're taking notes.
Semi-pro makeup artist here (friends and referrals): I try my hardest to be literally invisible on wedding days. Will I pose for a pic if asked? Sure. Help zip up a bridesmaid dress? Absolutely. But as soon as makeup is done and touch ups if asked/needed, I check in with bride, make sure she’s good, and then I LEAVE. I cannot believe this MUA. it is truly wild to me.
2:55 I can understand why as a service provider especially for weddings why you would make and post content. HOWEVER I don’t understand why she would film and post the entire wedding from beginning to end if most of that “content” didn’t even involve your wedding service that you provide.
My friends made up artist was not only trying to get through the 1st anniversary of her baby's death, but her grandma had died the day before. No one knew. You woukd never have guessed. She was lovely and even bought a thoughtful gift for the bride.
I got my coffee, I got my greens, now I got my tea. It’s gone be a GREAT DAY! and I needed it. My grandaddy died and the funeral was Monday. Been kinda down since. Charlotte always makes everything better.
People REALLY should take these Tok Tok manipulators to court and sue them for slander & defamation. It’s just gross and never any accountability. Truly, it’s not acceptable and there ARE losses experienced.
Like all the photos where she will have to be edited out of. That will add a bit to the cost. But I do know that they can do it only because on reddit there is a whole reddit dedicated to fixing photos and these folks are miracle workers.
@@Emeraldwitch30 oh yeah, there are people who can do that for a fee. So the asshat makeup artist needs to be billed for that. I would encourage my client to let me bill the person responsible.
The flowers in the first wedding were stunning and I don’t even want to imagine the price tag.. but such a beautiful choice of colors.. but now the heart broken make up artist is in all the pics & videos! I would’ve put her out!
I literally found myself saying “how are you not embarrassed?!” Out loud!… I’ve loved having these wedding Videos! I got married yesterday and the lead up to my wedding with these wedding related videos have been AMAZING! ❤️
I might add a clause to a contract for a wedding vendor specifically stating that after your job has been carried out and you're no longer needed you will leave immediately unless asked personally by the couple to stay.
OK storytime! I work in an industry where I am often around people who have recently lost a loved one. My role is to place a value on the contents of an estate, which means that I am in the decedent's house along with at least one of their children, usually the executor. Well, very recently I was at such a house, doing my job. As always I was as quiet and respectful as possible while going about my work. That same evening, after I got home from work, I learned that my elderly dad had died. I contacted the client (who had just lost a loved one barely 2 weeks' previous) and explained what had happened, and I would probably have to go over the agreed-upon deadline by a few days. They completely sympathized and granted an extension of the deadline. That has allowed me to quietly grieve, and the necessary work is a welcome distraction from my own family emergency. You get what you give. Give respect, get respect. As for this MUA....how much more selfish can one person be? Especially on a wedding day...or two?!
It's the entitlement to someone else's wedding day for me! People are so desperate for "likes" and attention that they would do it at the expense of SOMEONE ELSES day?! 😆 Get or make your own day girl !!! My husband and I invited exactly 22 people to our wedding and kept it very intimate and private... Were people mad they were not invited? YES!! Did they get over it? Hopefully! Lol!! In a few days, we will be celebrating 11 years of a wonderful marriage!! Weddings are nice but not as nice and important as actually knowing how to make a marriage work.. Weddings are way too idolized now days! Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk 🙃
I love this, I hope in the future I can find someone who will agree with me that inviting only a handful of ppl would be better than a giant soiree (personally)
Im praying this poor woman gets the professional help she so clearly needs. This break up is obviously the catalyst of this. Abandonment issues are not a joke. And hers got so out if control that she did the most crazy entitled outrageous acts just trying to prove to herself that someone accepts her. She needs better friends and professional help NOW!!!!
She needs professional help, alright, but this is a character/personality issue that has surely been a problem since well before these events. I have to wonder what led to her breakup...
I actually saw a video from another MUA that worked with her and apparently she is just kind of a lousy person. She always tries to hangout and stay at the weddings. One wedding they did together she took the tip the bride gave them and instead of splitting it, said it was just for her (even though she wasn't the one that did the bride's makeup) and lied about the amount. The whole breakup thing is just a way to get people to feel sorry for her.
Nah. You don't get to claim being a victim when you're victimizing other people! People can experience trauma without traumatizing others. Decent people do it all the time.
I take the "im human, and we all make mistakes." Making the video about shifting blame to be honest, blame onto what or who? No idea. I just don't think she is sincere.
“Shakes head in disbelief” cannot believe the crass woman is getting all that work. She has no professional boundaries. She needs to get into theatre (as she likes drama).
As someone who works in cosmetics it is absolutely essential to deliver what you promise, work to time, ensure your client is delighted, and not bother them with any drama or negativity. Clients can sometimes not love something you did and not have the ability to communicate that they didn’t like it. Due to being too shy, not liking conflict, and etc. That is why it is paramount that you go out of your way to read your client and give them room during the experience to take it in and doublecheck that they are satisfied and happy with the work. The idea that you would be late, give your client pushback, insert yourself in their personal matters, or make any moment about you is bonkers, and so unprofessional.
I’ve done makeup for many women on their wedding day and I’ve only stayed once because it was my absolute best friend. And the dj wouldn’t let me dance with my best friend at all. Any time I tried I was directed away. I never told her until she asked why I didn’t come see her on the dance floor, a week later. I left to decorate her suite though. It looked amazing by the time me and our other absolute bestie were done. ETA: she was upset I didn’t tell her. Really upset. But she understood why.
@@LaurenRobinson-p6f right though!! I was thoroughly mad. That’s why I left for a bit and thought decorating her suit with roses and candles and such would be the perfect excuse to walk away and gather myself. Because sometimes I gotta strangle hold the ghetto me into submission when appropriate.
@@erikarussell1142sounds like the DJ needed a strangle hold! I had a band at my wedding 44 years ago and I had to go tell them to turn the sound down because I wasn't screaming at my guests like I was in some disco or pub comma it was that loud. They looked at me weird and I just pointed to my white dress and told them I was surprised and if they didn't do as I said they could leave. I should have said something to the MC who was also supplied by the venue. I can't even remember if we told them what kind of music we liked!
Wow, AI did a really good job writing that apology for her. None of what came out of her mouth during that "apology" it was from the heart or gleaned from self-reflection on your actions at that wedding and previous weddings. I would encourage no one to hire her to do your makeup for your wedding or any other event where she could linger and cause trouble. No one needs another complication in their day that you have to pay for to be there.
100% agree with you on that… well, 95%. The one dispute is that it was AI, because it seemed pretty calculated to avoid any real personal accountability. She claimed to take full responsibility at the start of it and then proceeded to phrase everything else in generalities. “Better communication in the future” instead of a specific ownership of the things she did wrong. As though the problems were all the result of miscommunication, not her own deliberate disregard for their wishes. It reeked of “there were mistakes on both sides” without actually saying it. You’re left wondering exactly what she took responsibility for except for caring too much!
5:20 Yes! I'm pretty sure the word you're looking for is ✨ barrage ✨ (it means to bombard someone with something, perfectly accurate for this scenario)
This raised everyone's blood pressure. Some videos should come with a medical warning. 😂 Also a public service warning that it may cause irrational anger.
Photographer and videographer were extremely patient. I'm surprised that they weren't worried that she would ruin their work. I'm sure they were worried.
Dude, I was my SIL’s bridemaid a WEEK after getting a major concussion , getting diagnosed with thyroid cancer and still having a bit of a black eye ( bless the makeup artist, she was a magician and hid it so well). You know what I didn’t do? Make it my brother or new sister’s problem. They said they would have understood if I stepped down from my spot since we weren’t sure if I would be out of the hospital in time for all the pre-wedding stuff… but I pulled it off and it was literally the BEST wedding I’ve ever been too. It was just nice to have that bright moment in our family since right before this my brother had brain cancer so he had postponed his wedding ( also the panini and all that). Then I had my whole thing. Then my mom got thyroid cancer . So it has been a rough few years.
Wow. You and your family have gone through the wringer. I hope things are improving. You're incredibly strong. You made me laugh calling it the panini.
@@paulagoeringer9466 oh thank you so much for you concern. It really wasn’t that bad for my mom and I with thyroid cancer , it is “a good cancer” so we only had to have surgery and need hormone replacement for the rest of our lives. WAY easier than my brother who had to have surgery and radiation. That was so hard to see since my brother was always my big , strong brother who was always so stoic and brave. It was rough seeing him so afraid for a while … but at least we have GREAT stories to tell around the dinner table on holidays. Modern medicine is truly a miracle and I HIGHLY suggest everyone takes lumps and bumps seriously. If you are suspicious that something isn’t right, please please go to the doctor. If you catch it early it makes everything much easier. Once it spreads it is a bear to get rid of
I was in my cousin’s wedding a year after my fiancé passed away. It was extremely difficult for me to be at a wedding at that time, let alone in a wedding. However, I didn’t let it show at all how upset I was. I wanted my cousin to have the best wedding day. Also, from a brides perspective, my husband and I got married a couple of weeks ago. There was so much going on that we didn’t even get to eat. The night went by incredibly fast and we were lucky we even had to chance to dance with our guests. So to take up a bride’s time like that is absolutely insane.
I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s awful. But you’re a gem for being kind to your cousin. Yes time flies. I think I ate a bit. But didn’t have any cake 😢. My friend told me after the wedding she had a migraine (because when I got my pics back one of them she looked in pain). She never told me. Also my maid of honour went to her and my mom crying because apparently my sister was mean to her in the limo? The other passengers told me it’s not true. Also, only found out much later as friend and I were gossiping.
@@Mama_Bear524 thank you! I’m so lucky to have my husband after such a devastating loss. He respects my late fiancé so much, and even planned a private toast for him at our wedding with a couple of our friends. The only cake we got was what we cut. All I wanted that night was a cannoli from the dessert bar but they were gone by the time I got there, and we found out later that guests packed them up to take home.
Thank you Charlotte for explaining it as someone who doesn’t know much about makeup artist etiquette. I could tell she’s doing wrong but also MEGA wrong
Ma'am??? I have never heard of so much unprofessionalism packed into 48 hours. EDIT: And then the apology video-- Mmkay, sis, we need to talk. Because none, and I mean none, of what you did was a mistake. You were in fact, told what you were doing wrong, and then kept on with the behavior. But before we even get to the day itself, we gotta back up to the moment you KNEW that you would be emotionally comprised and possibly unable to do both of these weddings. It should have been way back at that point where you take a moment for yourself, as a human, and sort out your frustrations and feelings. It was NOT at someone else's wedding, trying to use the positive atmosphere as borderline free therapy. And believe me, I get it, at times it's hard as hell to be professional, but that is what a job demands of you, and you failed at several points of your service and even genuine criticism of your work, like going 2 hours over your allotted time and setting back the schedules of people you barely know. And I'm mad, because not one second of your apology recognizes this, which is at the heart of what you did wrong here. I'm mad on the behalf of both bridal parties.
None of her apology recognised it because she blatantly, as suggested in this video, just had AI write it for her. She couldn't even be bothered to write one up herself that actually addresses her specific choices and actions she made during those two people's weddings.
My MOH was in the hospital on my wedding day. It was so hard smiling and taking topics away from her health as she didn't want to talk about. She even sent her speech to one of my bridesmaids to speak for her 😭😭😭❤️
These kinds of stories make me feel so grateful that my own wedding included only 2 vendors (bakery for the cake and venue that included catering) and was very drama-free. The only mishap was that I specifically told the bakery about my almond allergy and they last minute decided to decorate it with marzipan flowers that were not discussed, so I couldn't eat the decorations. Can't imagine the stress that comes with including photographer, content creator, wedding planner, makeup&hair artists, florist etc.
I would NEVER allow a vendor other than the paid videographer/photographer to film ANYTHING including themselves doing their job. You are there to do a service and to be 100% focused on the job they were hired for. Don't even get your phone out.
Literally my EXACT reaction when watching this - though I'm not surprised at all at the same time. I've seen so many other people talk about how unprofessional she is - it's INSANE. This girl is really out here ruining her own career.
I'm a retired florist and only once in a blue moon did I need to be there tell the bride was dressed. Most communication after the brides flowers was with brudes maids and mothers. Normally make-up was being done as I left. LEFT! You do not get to hangout. DO YOUR JOB AND LEAVE. What's so hard about that normal action?
And us gingers! I'm not a ginger but love love red heads of all complexion. Congrats Charolette. p.s. I have my bag of potatoes with eyes & red wig ready. 😅❤❤❤
The first story is almost the exact experience I had with my MUA! She arrived 2hrs late, and the entire time she was doing my hair and makeup (while I was trying to write my vows, as I told her), she told me all about how she just found out she was cheated on and ALLLLLLLL the gory details. On my wedding day- way to set the mood! We had a trial two months in advance, and so I expected her to follow the agreed upon style, which she took reference photos of during the trial. Since she was running so far behind, she just started right away on my hair, and when I looked in the mirror it was a completely different style but it was too late to change it. It kept falling down all day and way droopy and weird. I felt so beautiful and confident after the trial with her, but I did not feel beautiful on my wedding day. My bridesmaids had to fix my hair at least three times that day. I definitely left a very honest and detailed Yelp review.
The problem with these situations with wedding vendors, is that they actually have SO much power the day of the wedding. Weddings have strict timelines, especially since you are paying different vendors for their time, and guests are showing up accordingly to your wedding schedule. I couldn’t ask my MUA to redo things because we were already so far behind schedule, and what if I piss her off? She could just leave and I’d be screwed. I can’t find a replacement the morning of my wedding, nor could I afford to. They might be there performing a service, but they can really screw the client over, so we did our best to just roll with the situation at the time.
I used to play ceremony music for weddings - there is no excuse for this. When you are a vendor at the wedding, you go to WORK. You are supposed to be in the background and the day should be as seamless as possible. In the cases where I was a long time friend or relative of the couple and playing music as a gift, the couple might want picture with me after. But as a vendor, it is your job to do everything you can to make that the best day ever for the couple ❤
There was a guy I really liked that I was chatting to for weeks leading up to my brother's wedding, and everyone encouraged me to invite him to the wedding. My sister-in-law told me to, even though I was super nervous about it and I didn't want to impose. I messaged him, told him I would love for him to be my plus one... Only to finally be told he actually had a girlfriend. When I tell you I was devastated AND humiliated in equal measure because I now had to tell everyone why he didn't want to come. I was a bridesmaid (1 of 2) but I had my sad day (not ON the wedding day), pulled up my big girl pants, and nailed my bridesmaid duties. It was an incredible day and I was so busy running around and making sure SIL had a good time that I completely forgot about my own issues. My point is I would NEVER be a drama queen at someone else's wedding, especially not someone I don't even know. My flabbers are gasted.
Oh, I’m so sorry! That had to hurt! Gotta say, though, that you make me think of guys who get mad when a girl says she has a boyfriend. Like, you’d rather get your hopes up and later find out she has one (or doesn’t want to date him, as it sometimes is)? Nah, man, that’s worse! Anyway, you sound really sweet and I hope things are better now. Half the pain of a blow like that is all the people who have no idea trying to ask innocent and kindly meant questions. You feel badly enough and now you have to make them feel badly too.
She is a professional wedding crasher with the guise of makeup artist.
THIS! She does this on purpose, she’s not clueless or heartbroken. Even posting videos about it was intentional.
Yes! You're exactly right. OMG is her makeup even done well?
We used to have a receptionist at our office who was obsessed with crashing funerals. Yes, I promise she actually crashed funerals of people she didn't know. Her obsession got so out of control, at one point, that she started having fellow employees clock her in, on the morning of a funeral, so she could still ... theoretically...still be paid for the hours she was off engaging in her fake mourning. Once she was caught, she very rapidly ended her obsession, as she was also a single mom with two kids.
Gotta be this. There is NO way she doesn’t know what she did. I just cannot believe it.
She would be crashing many more, if she was quiet and subtle about it! 😅 rookie mistake
Remember going to birthday parties as a child and there was always one kid who desperately wanted to "help" open the presents? That's what this is giving.
Reading this made me irrationally angry 😂
Oh and that kid usually has a parent who doesn’t stop them from “helping”. Drives me crazy.
Yes! Hit the nail on the head! Honestly, hearing her response, I thought this is a woman who grew up thinking that this is normal behavior.
Omgosh yes she also cled that girls husband old
Yeah and cut the cake and blow the flippen candles lmfaooooo
Professional wedding officiant/minister here. I NEVER tell my couples anything negative on their wedding day. I put out fires the couple doesn't even know about. I performed one ceremony the day after a close relative of mine died. I'd cried all night and the morning of the wedding, but put myself together and performed a gorgeous ceremony. The couple never knew I was grieving. As it should be!
@revgurley This is exactly how it should be done - professionally. We have to distinguish the private from the professional life and act mature. And I'm sorry for your loss!
@@revgurley absolutely! Your personal life shouldn’t affect the couple. Unless you lost someone DIRECTLY related (wife, child, brother, sister, husband, mother, father). But canceling last moment on a wedding is really hard. Especially for the couple (unless you found a replacement for them). Also, I’m so sad for your loss. But happy for heavens gain. I pray they see the face of God.
ETA: I know you said close relative. In your case, it would’ve been acceptable to find a replacement officiant and be able to properly grieve. Losing someone is always difficult. Especially when they were close to you.
You are true professional. And a strong person.
Are you by chance related to the Gurley’s that used to live in Andrews, Texas? They were good friends of mine.
@@chrisiestan5921 they key word is PROFESSIONALLY. Everything she did was unprofessional. As a former MUA, I did my job and got out of the way!!
Anybody notice that when the MUA posted after the wedding that she would learn from this and do better in the future, that the one thing she didn’t say was, “I’m sorry.” She never apologized!!! 😡
YES! I was thinking the same thing! She acted like it was just a misunderstanding. Utter baloney! Also made it sound like the misunderstanding was not her but one of the people in her employ.
Ditto that! I thought hang on - where exactly was the apology!!!
I think because she doesn’t think she did anything wrong. Maybe she’ll see all this stuff and make that connection that it’s inappropriate. Probably not 🤷🏻♀️
I noticed that, too. She acknowledged her behavior but never apologized. 😬
I wanted to put a timestamp here, because I was damn sure, the phrase did come out of her mouth.. Technically it did, but she said it to the viewer because the video took too long to make, and not to the couple or anyone involved so... I can't say it counts, so you're actually right.
The fact the bridal party was still so gracious in making sure they stated, repeatedly, that the MUAs work was lovely,speaks volumes to their character. Even justifiably upset, they have gone out of their way to make sure only her behavior\choices were called out, but not she and her team’s skills. Classy.
They also wanted to avoid a lawsuit if her business does become affected by the virality of this drama. They want to make it clear that they haven't bad mouthed her or her business.
You can do a good job and be a horrible human being ive seen it a million times
Probably wanted to make sure they got their wedding content at the end of it. Lots of folks are afraid to complain if there's a chance they could 'lose' photos or videos...
@@a1m2k3y
No that wouldn’t be the reason because she was strictly only supposed to be the makeup artist they already had a photographer & videographer for the wedding.
This chick is seriously delusional
Kicked out of TWO weddings, back to back in the SAME WEEKEND is CRAZY.
The delulu is strong with this one! Like gurl, read the room!
She's unprofessional and insane. She won't have any jobs soon if she won't change her ways.
@@flyingnow4233 I honestly can't see how anyone would want to hire her at this point. I saw a video of another MUA that worked with her and this woman seems to be just a lousy person in general.
My exact thoughts @@najadahmer4862
Dude nooooooooo hell nooooo yo and then sh ed look so homey with a whole black T-shirt dress on with her leg showing when you do someone’s make up you have to be very, very classy here
One wedding= mistake. 2 weddings back to back = PATTERN.
I’m starting to think her bf didn’t actually cheat, but that they were broken up and she didn’t want to acknowledge it. With these wedding stories, it would make sense 😬
@@Sbella.b883 agreed, because with her it's not a lack of awareness, things were spelled out for her, she legitimately only hears what she wants.
shes sick 😢
Agree 💯
She used her pain from being cheated on as an excuse to act however she wants. Doesn't matter if it's one wedding or ten, that's not a mistake, it's a choice.
"I'm human" is a classic excuse used by narcissists when called out on their shitty behaviour.
it's so triggering. "its the way I am" taking no accountability. we all make mistakes, yes. What she did is characteristic. She's an energy vampire
spot on, this woman is manipulative and no shame!
She, not once, said I'm sorry, not once! I was emotional. WE take responsibility. WE will try to not let this happen again. Who is We. Is she just a part of a company? WE take responsibility, not I but we, yet still no, I'm sorry😢!!!
That sounds like the excuse people use when a child does something wrong and they don't want to teach their kid and say "they are just a child". Nope just nope
@@marshawargo7238 saying we instead of I is distancing behavior, she legitimately doesn't want to actually take accountability at all.
You KNOW that she would throw an absolute TANTRUM of epic proportion if someone did the same to her on her wedding day.
i love the way your editor edits these videos. always throwing in little visual jokes like the dj turntable or the vote counter of you saying wait, okay, listen. always cracks me up.
Whoever this editor is I absolutely love them
As a wedding coordinator I tell the bride that I am happy to be the "bad guy" that removes people or tells people to leave her alone, nicely with a smile of course, as I refuse to let them be main characters on someone else's day.
I didn't know that coordinators did that! That would be really handy.
@@rhonda8231 I don't know if every planner does but I don't think anyone should ruin my bride's day and they pay me to make it run smoothly
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Not all heroes wear capes
I'm TERRIBLE at advocating for myself. I'm AMAZING at advocating for people I care about and/or work with.
Someone should have said when she turned on the waterworks, "She doesn't even go here." Lmao
😂😂👌🏼
Omg yes!!
I would have😂😂😂😂
That would have been great!!!
She has a lot of feelings
She complained to the bride about the groom🤬where were the petty bridesmaids with the wine 😂
EXACTLY, serious fail on the man and maid of honor.
I don't think wine would've stopped her 😬 She left and went back to the venue several times. Even the groomsmen were trying to tell her to leave, but she wouldn't take the hint
@@revinaque1342seriously... Predatory. I think the couple needs to lawyer up both of them. If anything I think this woman needs to eat some humble pie. Made of her own ego.. she should seriously return all funds. And hope hope to the high heavens the Stars... 😅 They don't sue her for their whole wedding's 🎉
@@MzClementine honestly her brand/business is over now no one is going to hire her with that drama behind her back, anyone who look her up will automatically see this drama which stupidly created on her own accord 😂.. she had to starts all over again and probably with different career but that’s her karma 💅
😂😂😂😂😂
When my cousin got married I wasn't in the mood to celebrate because my cat had died 3 days prior. I told her the day before during dinner just so she wouldn't think I wasn't happy for her if I seemed a bit down during the wedding. She was really understanding about it.
And _that's_ how you deal with having feelings about personal tragedies while at a wedding. And if you're a vendor not a guest, then YOU LEAVE after delivering your services!
Her video was CRAZY. She kept talking about how she "Did NOTHING Wrong." Then she had posted an "Apology" video where she said sorry, but then immediately, renegged, and started talking shit again. Theres a full rundown video on Derrick Branch Channel that had me fr mad at this make up artist I have never met before in my life lol.
I watched it on Robert Reacts. Oh the tea was piping hot
*reneged, I am REALLY hoping that was an accidental misspell. Otherwise, it's kinda messed up.
@kelseylinder3959 it was auto corrected. That's why it was randomly capitalized too. Gtfo outta here tryna be on bullshit.
@@IAmStasianna Cool beans, wasn't trying to be an ass.
The most funny thing for me was in her first video when she was explaining how the groom told her to leave the first time, and she went to cry in her car, and she was hyping herself with something along the lines "my bride needs me, I cannot leave my bride" and she went back...I was screaming when I heard that😂😂😂
That was… so strange. Possessive of someone else’s bride that you met that morning? And for what?
She was clearly emotional and feeling things she may not have felt in the right head space. I usually stay home when I'm emotional because I, too, tend to ruin things when I'm emotional whether I plan on it or not.
Omg yes! She took what the groom said as a challenge!! 🤡
She legit said she told herself, "Go back in there! Don't let anyone break you down." Like um, that was not anyone, that was THE groom. It was HIS day, not the mua!
She is mentally unstable and needs professional help. I see why her man left her
Who tf does she think she is? Not friends or family, barely acquaintance
Story time. I was a make up artist years ago for a wedding. My family and the grooms family had been friends for decades. I did make up for 5 family members the bridal party and the bride. After HOURS of work, they asked me to stay for the rest of the day. I stayed, I wasn’t a stranger, I knew lots of people at the wedding. At the reception a VEEERRRYYY drunk cousin and her boyfriend kept trying to “sneak” off to the BRIDAL SUITE to…..giggity. The family put it on ME to be run interference. They knew what was happening, they SPECIFICALLY asked me to stop them. Ok, Mission accepted, u want to go do your thang…go for it just not in the bridal suite… so so tacky... anyways I see them go into the room… I need to go get lip gloss to touch up the bride. They try again, I need to get the bride her shall. A third time…..gotta check my phone. The boyfriend gets mad at me. Starts calling me names but whatever, he’s hammered and I’m doing what I’ve been ASKED to do. I succeed in my mission.
Cut to the next day….the cousin tells her family I was rude to her and ruined her time at the wedding.
The entire family ends up mad at me and almost 20 years later STILL talk about how i ruined the whole family’s time.
Never got paid either. Moral of the story….whether you are a stranger or not….if you don’t have a formal invitation….dont stay. (Second moral….get paid up front…..no matter how long everyone has known each other)
Damn, this was rough buddy. Them hard lessons really come at you hard. Hope your makeup business grew regardless 👊🏾
I’m filled with righteous indignation in your behalf. Good grief, you started as a hero and ended up a martyr! Seriously, that sounded like A+ quality interference in the most noble of causes, up against slobbering drunks who could have actually physically harmed you, and they threw you under the bus after putting you up to it? Aw hell naw!
No, I think it was the plan all along. “We don’t want to get the heat for stopping this but it needs to be stopped… I know! We’ll send someone else to do it and blame them when things go south!”
I dunno how much the bridal couple knew about it, but even if they were complicit I hope you still recognize that your actions were pure. You did a kindness for people who didn’t appreciate it, and potentially for a couple who never even knew you did it in their behalf, not to ruin their wedding, and otherwise would have thanked you. The family’s rudeness doesn’t invalidate that good deed, as far as I’m concerned.
That is SHOCKING and I know the family is going to get some karma kicking them in the kaboose for doing you dirty like that… having you be the heavy AND THEN getting mad at you for doing what they asked AND THEN not paying you?? The absolute audacity of it. Karma’s a b**** and she comes to collect. They better watch their backs.
What a family of twats. I'd have paid u double and shamed them both.
They probably got upset with you so they wouldn’t have to pay you 🤬 ugh I’m sorry this happened to you
The lack of self awareness the MUA has is mind boggling.
Agreed, this wedding isn't about you
No wonder her BF cheated.
Like girl, read the room, go home!
@@najadahmer4862Helen Keller right there.. although that's a little insulting cuz that woman was brilliant. 😅
Literally she needs to offer all money of all services that she did to them. Back. I think both couples need to lower her up. She would be so lucky not to have to pay for the wedding. No joke..
Unbelievable. I'm only human . 🤔 I beg to differ. 😅
@@pablodelsegundo9502Let's not do that. Her unprofessional-ness does not excuse her ex's cheating. That 💩is never ok.
Moral of the story: Never hire a wedding vendor who makes TikToks. If a vendor says, "What's TikTok?", hire them. Hire *professionals,* not *influencers.*
My photographer for my wedding was a high school friend. She took the best pictures I have of myself. When I told her I wanted a picture of her with us, she was so shocked. I appreciated her so much and her pictures were worth everything. ❤
I went to beauty school and one of the first things my teacher said about events was that you shouldn’t stay. If you’re invited as a guest you’ll just keep getting asked to touch up makeup throughout the night without getting paid. I also don’t care how “emotional” you are, your first move shouldn’t be to vent on TikTok! Most people wouldn’t, so don’t blame it on being emotional.
That’s a good point too. That’s probably the motivation sometimes for inviting the makeup artist to stay to eat.
Literally.. it’s supposed to be a quick process. Come, do your job, leave.
Guys I watched this and she noticed during reception that for an hour BRIDE AND GROOM WERE NOT THERE , Groom is Jew and there is some Tradition where the New couple are in the room in isolation and its holy , no unmarried man or woman are allowed to enter . SHE ACTUALLY WENT IN THERE TO GET HER MAKE UP BAGS AT THE SAME TIME , SHE SAID SHE KNEW THE COUPLE ARE IN THE ROOM AND SHE ENTERED IN THE SAME ROOM WITHOUT ANNOUNCING OR PERMISSION. AFTER THAT WHEN COUPLE WERE IN THE RECEPTION SHE ASKED THEM FOR MAKING CONTENT THAT WAS THE TIME GROOM WAS ANGRY SAID"NO YOU'RE GETTING ON MY NERVES". Tradition or not You don't enter at the same room of couple no matter how important matter it is without their permission. I personally feel like she was trying to be nosy to see what they are doing. 😠
I LOVE YOU PETTY QUEEN❤ PLEASE BEWARE OF SUCH PPL DURING YOUR WEDDING ❤
Sending You Lots Of Good Luck❤
It's called Yichud. I've seen others mention that. No wonder the groom was so angry. I'm also sure the bride had talked to him about this and he was standing up for his new wife (as he should).
When she was kicked out by the groom then went to the bride, I thought for sure, she was going to ask to be paid for her Extra Help & time she spent helping & was rudely told to leave! But after hearing what she actually did, I'm like, did she just go ask mom after being told no by dad😂?
I used to get in Trouble if I asked my mom, like she was my first stop, instead of being my second chance at a yes!
It seems this girl wasn't raised properly & I'm surprised that she didn't wear white!!!
That is the very first time the bride and groom are ever technically allowed to be alone together. It's a very VERY special part of a Jewish wedding and they have that first moment alone for the rest of their lives. The fact that she went in that room is such a huge imposition!! I'm surprised someone physically did not throw her out!!
That's true. I've heard about this. Apparently in the olden days some couples would consummate the marriage then, but nowadays they usually enjoy a glass of wine, have the photos of just them taken, some couples pray together, some brides change into a reception outfit. That's why you don't disturb them!
OMFG!!! I had heard what I thought was the full story but this is SOOOOOOO far from anything resembling even the most minute possibility of living next door to social acceptability.
She needs to be an inpatient somewhere. Fr
Almost shot my coffee out my nose when she said, “…but I’m human, and WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES……………it’s just not fair that THEIR special days is overshadowed WITH THIS……..”. HON, and I say this with no due respect, YOU did THIS to THEM. What a non-apology, sheesh🤦🏻♀️
I think she has mental problems she was manic 1 minute then crying the next. Basically she should go for counselling and the council should teach you how to write a proper apology. "Sorry but" is not sorry.
@allisonfisher9304 I that post that was odd too. Yes, humans do have bad days, and make mistakes. But the same big mistake, two days in a row?
The "Meghan Markle" of it all.....
"Everything before but is bullshit."
I just had my wedding about two weekends go and i did not even notice my photographer moving around at all and she got amazing photos. That is all uncalled for she is the makeup artist and that is it.
Hey Lotte, I just wanted to let you know that I lost my mum recently and have been going through grief. The other night I was having a tearful moment and my partner said, ‘Do you want me to put on Sherbert Urrbrae?’
I had no idea what he was talking about but once the penny dropped I thought it was so sweet that he mentioned you because he knows you make me happy xoxox
My condolences 💐
I’m sorry about your mum. I lost the only aunt of mine that I know and I miss her so much. I hope you are being good to yourself and that you are doing okay as can be.❤💐
Your partner sounds like a kind and thoughtful person. Tell them they get a 10/10 and all the gold stars and prizes for just being thoughtful and supportive of you.
I hope you stay happy together forever. ☺️
@@ladykiwi2946 Thank you for your sweet message. I’m so sorry about your Aunt 🥺
They are with us in our hearts and live on through us Xox
@@chiwantsteaThank you xox
I am so sorry for your loss ❤ that sounds like you have a thoughtful and considerate partner!! Charlotte makes me feel better too
The fact that she tried to gain sympathy by accusing the couple of racism was so disgusting to me. I remember a Black beauty influencer talked about how if it was an all Black wedding she would have been kicked out very quickly, but they kept her longer because they didn’t want to seem rude or look racist. And still the MUA tried to say it was about race! Just totally try to slander the couple after she ruined their day.
That bothered me too. Its taking advantage of the fact the couple was white to excuse her awful behavior. Really grinds my gears seeing that bs
Yeah I feel like I would’ve kicked her out far sooner. Likely ask a family member to do so. I’m African American too. It wasn’t racist. It was unprofessional
Sorry, I'm not trying to be rude, but isn't the couple biracial though? I mean, I remember watching clips of the MUA's TikToks on another channel and if I'm not mistaken the bride is black, while the groom is white. Or am I mistaken? I'm kind of confused😅 @@xxKuroKajixx
@@nurnadhirahsaing6169I think they’re talking about the second wedding at 6:19 you can see her in the photos the bride is taking with her bridesmaids
@@SGR05 Oh, I see. Thank you 🙏
I literally JUST went to her TikTok after watching this video and she was on live talking to a client over speaker phone yet again, being unprofessional. I stated what she was doing is unprofessional and then she blocked me. I’d assume anyone who says anything to her gets blocked.
Wow
What’s her TikTok?
What was she sayyyiiiinngg
What’s her tiktok
10+ year Event planner here - you have to leave your drama at the gates, do NOT take your problems to someone's wedding, and do NOT insert yourself into bridal party, photos, first looks, ANYTHING. We are meant to be behind the scenes, problem solving and making their day perfect. This sounds like an actual nightmare.
Im so happy for you that you picked your dress. Im so happy for you and Mike.
As far as the second wedding, the first one that was talked about, when the first girl that spoke said that the make-up artist left and then came back. Well, I have seen this same story on another post and the first woman talking about it here left out the fact that she said that the reason she left was that the groom was mad at her and asked her to leave, but that she ain't gonna let NO MAN talk to her or treat her that way, so she going back. And that is why she went back to the wedding, was to give the groom a piece of her mind. I don't know if the video is still up or if anyone can find it, but it was there at some point. Crazy stuff!
It’s not just about weddings … I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to pull coworkers aside that work with me in the medical field and say to them: the patients don’t need to know about your troubles, they have more troubles than you right now 😤🙄 it just blows my mind when someone can’t step out of themselves for a few hours and be an actual PROFESSIONAL 🤦♀️ when did professionalism actually die??? Cuz I must’ve missed it 🤷♀️
Least 6-7 yrs girl....I've been saying this.
@@shirleymalley5420 agreed, but sadly, longer than that. I watched nurses doing it during my practicums (in nursing school) when they know they are being watched because they are mentoring/teaching so they should be on their best behavior so as not to pass on bad habits.
And I left the medical field altogether in 2017.
@SoManyRandomRamblings I took the hardest psw course do the full yr in 6months, very hard but I was honor roll..... but some of things they said and believe I couldn't be apart of it. Can't wear a body cam for your protection like a cop, and yet they can say and do anything to ya like be handsy and your expect to chalk it up to thats the job .... ya I do t think so. Ntm seems like very few places are actually professional anymore.... while they look at you like your trash lmfao
@@shirleymalley5420 yikes. That's not a healthy environment for people who need social workers to be in (i assume that's what psw stands for), it's not like that energy magically goes away when they aren't being inappropriate. I feel so sorry for your clients. And sorry for you having to deal with it too
@SoManyRandomRamblings I meant that they say clients can do whatever they want and as the worker you have to just deal with it and not ok. And if nothing g protecting the workers than they can literally say anything they want and be beli3ved.....and let's be real here I'd be the one they donit to lmfao
She knew that the bride was a people pleaser and kept pushing her to stay! Even the bride said that she was a people pleaser!
Bride needs one of Charlottes mugs...
I am a recovering people pleaser. All of the people who have a history of using me, now call me bad names. I now understand that I'm better off without them.
Glad that the husband backed her up!
I've also saw someone say that this MUA specifically pics clients that she can tell are people pleasers so that she can basically walk all over them.
Completely ignored boundaries until she had another person tell her as well. It ticks me off. Ppl shouldn't hsve to get nasty before ppl listen
I literally watched so many videos about that delulu MUA! She also lost the groom's lighter!!!!! She was in all pictures! Kicked out AND went back for more!!!!
This is just The Worst off the chain behavior. Dulu Confirmed!
Sounds like someone is a serial attention seeker.
So she's actually a content (drama) creator who happens to do makeup. Got it. If/when my daughter ever gets married, it will be made clear to the hair and makeup persons (unless they are friends beforehand or relatives) they are not invited to the wedding/reception. Especially if they are as emo as that one. Nope.
A narcissist on parade. How was she NOT EMBARRASSED!!!
It’s so embarrassing and she tried to play the victim
I work at a hospital, and I'm going through some heavy stuff rn, but when I'm around the patients then got better believe i give my absolute best self! They have enough on their plates, i dont need to add any stress or worry bc I'm there to make them feel comfortable and cared for!
That goes for any position of service
If there are delays because of your official function at an event (a wedding in this case) that’s somewhat forgivable, stuff happens, things get broken/lost/used up, but no way in HELL do you purposely delay things for your own interests!
Only tears that the bride or groom should see on their big day ARE TEARS OF JOY
EVERY bride needs a “brut squad,” or a brut person. That’s the one who has the cojones to tell ANYONE who needs telling, what to do or where to go. I was part of the brut squad at my SIL’s wedding, and it was a blast. It ended up changing how her new in-laws acted towards her, for the better.
Brute squad is a big YES!
I’m getting married in 17 days and I have two. They’re called my Batmans 😂 and they both have no problem going vigilante on someone acting up.
now THAT sounds like a great role to have in a wedding 😂 I'd happily volunteer for that privilege!!
Im this squad! Here we call you the high table usher. Everyone in my circle knows this and Im always "booked" for this role😂😂😂
I volunteer as tribute! 🙋🏼♀️
My aunt showed up to her youngest son’s wedding with the knowledge that her oldest son, his brother, literally just died….. she somehow found the courage to hold her shit together for the entire wedding and celebration and nobody knew a thing except for her and my uncle. THAT is mind-blowingly badass…. Absolutely gut wrenching that she had to at all, but still incredibly badass. Also, every year when we celebrate my cousins anniversary, she will not allow herself to fall apart in front of her grandbabies, etc. I have tremendous respect and love for that woman!
@Clarachk Wow! That is the most heartbreaking story of strength and courage I've ever read. Your aunt and uncle are both incredibly badass for having held it together that day and every year since.
That is called absolute class.
Omg this entire situation is so WEIRDDDDD! I just did makeup at a wedding last weekend , our clients are(typically)basically strangers to us. They are not our friends or even acquaintances. Why would you EVER feel comfortable not only attending but inserting yourself like this at a strangers wedding!?!?! She is the epitome of delulu
7:56 I love you charlotte! I exclaim “absolutely noooot” about 5x a day to my dogs 😂❤
Just me over here absolutely loving how Charlotte is basically telling all her future wedding vendors and guests how to NOT behave at her upcoming wedding. Love this for you girlie!! I hope they're taking notes.
The make up artist thought she was the main character that day!
Every day, it seems
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Semi-pro makeup artist here (friends and referrals): I try my hardest to be literally invisible on wedding days. Will I pose for a pic if asked? Sure. Help zip up a bridesmaid dress? Absolutely. But as soon as makeup is done and touch ups if asked/needed, I check in with bride, make sure she’s good, and then I LEAVE. I cannot believe this MUA. it is truly wild to me.
2:55 I can understand why as a service provider especially for weddings why you would make and post content. HOWEVER I don’t understand why she would film and post the entire wedding from beginning to end if most of that “content” didn’t even involve your wedding service that you provide.
My friends made up artist was not only trying to get through the 1st anniversary of her baby's death, but her grandma had died the day before.
No one knew. You woukd never have guessed.
She was lovely and even bought a thoughtful gift for the bride.
I got my coffee, I got my greens, now I got my tea. It’s gone be a GREAT DAY! and I needed it. My grandaddy died and the funeral was Monday. Been kinda down since. Charlotte always makes everything better.
Sorry for your loss ❤❤❤
I am SO sorry for your loss, so hard to lose family. Charlotte makes things better for sure! HUGS!
Sorry for your loss, sending hugs 🫂
My condolences. So sorry for your loss.
sorry for your loss, sending love to you and your family 💖
People REALLY should take these Tok Tok manipulators to court and sue them for slander & defamation. It’s just gross and never any accountability.
Truly, it’s not acceptable and there ARE losses experienced.
Like all the photos where she will have to be edited out of. That will add a bit to the cost.
But I do know that they can do it only because on reddit there is a whole reddit dedicated to fixing photos and these folks are miracle workers.
@@Emeraldwitch30 oh yeah, there are people who can do that for a fee. So the asshat makeup artist needs to be billed for that. I would encourage my client to let me bill the person responsible.
Awe! Thank you for including my video!
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You got my follow!
The flowers in the first wedding were stunning and I don’t even want to imagine the price tag.. but such a beautiful choice of colors.. but now the heart broken make up artist is in all the pics & videos! I would’ve put her out!
I would be big mad!! If she ruined her photos and videos I would definitely take her to civil court!
I literally found myself saying “how are you not embarrassed?!” Out loud!…
I’ve loved having these wedding Videos! I got married yesterday and the lead up to my wedding with these wedding related videos have been AMAZING! ❤️
I might add a clause to a contract for a wedding vendor specifically stating that after your job has been carried out and you're no longer needed you will leave immediately unless asked personally by the couple to stay.
Great idea
New caveat unlocked!
It’s sad that in this day and age, the common sense respectful actions have to be specified in a contract.
Thank you so much. It brings me so much joy that you covered this!!
@@hollytroxel3757 🫶🏼 we love the donation to this amazing bright woman. She lights all of our lives.
You are so welcome! Thank you for the donation you didn’t have to do that❤
7:04 no wonder she got cheated on, the dude probably told her he is breaking up with her and she just didn't take it
That's what I was thinking too. She's painting herself as a victim in every story.
OK storytime! I work in an industry where I am often around people who have recently lost a loved one. My role is to place a value on the contents of an estate, which means that I am in the decedent's house along with at least one of their children, usually the executor. Well, very recently I was at such a house, doing my job. As always I was as quiet and respectful as possible while going about my work. That same evening, after I got home from work, I learned that my elderly dad had died. I contacted the client (who had just lost a loved one barely 2 weeks' previous) and explained what had happened, and I would probably have to go over the agreed-upon deadline by a few days. They completely sympathized and granted an extension of the deadline. That has allowed me to quietly grieve, and the necessary work is a welcome distraction from my own family emergency. You get what you give. Give respect, get respect. As for this MUA....how much more selfish can one person be? Especially on a wedding day...or two?!
It's the entitlement to someone else's wedding day for me!
People are so desperate for "likes" and attention that they would do it at the expense of SOMEONE ELSES day?! 😆
Get or make your own day girl !!!
My husband and I invited exactly 22 people to our wedding and kept it very intimate and private...
Were people mad they were not invited? YES!!
Did they get over it? Hopefully! Lol!!
In a few days, we will be celebrating 11 years of a wonderful marriage!!
Weddings are nice but not as nice and important as actually knowing how to make a marriage work..
Weddings are way too idolized now days!
Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk 🙃
I love this, I hope in the future I can find someone who will agree with me that inviting only a handful of ppl would be better than a giant soiree (personally)
How are you not EMBARRASSED!!!😂 Girl is delulu😂😂😂😂
Im praying this poor woman gets the professional help she so clearly needs. This break up is obviously the catalyst of this. Abandonment issues are not a joke. And hers got so out if control that she did the most crazy entitled outrageous acts just trying to prove to herself that someone accepts her. She needs better friends and professional help NOW!!!!
Have you considered she got dumped because this is what she's like all the time and the man got fed up with her sh*t?
She needs professional help, alright, but this is a character/personality issue that has surely been a problem since well before these events. I have to wonder what led to her breakup...
I actually saw a video from another MUA that worked with her and apparently she is just kind of a lousy person. She always tries to hangout and stay at the weddings. One wedding they did together she took the tip the bride gave them and instead of splitting it, said it was just for her (even though she wasn't the one that did the bride's makeup) and lied about the amount. The whole breakup thing is just a way to get people to feel sorry for her.
Nah. You don't get to claim being a victim when you're victimizing other people! People can experience trauma without traumatizing others. Decent people do it all the time.
I take the "im human, and we all make mistakes." Making the video about shifting blame to be honest, blame onto what or who? No idea. I just don't think she is sincere.
“Shakes head in disbelief” cannot believe the crass woman is getting all that work. She has no professional boundaries. She needs to get into theatre (as she likes drama).
5:51 If this happened to Charlotte: "Mike wants me to leave!" 😭😭 "GET OUT!!" 🥔👸
As someone who works in cosmetics it is absolutely essential to deliver what you promise, work to time, ensure your client is delighted, and not bother them with any drama or negativity. Clients can sometimes not love something you did and not have the ability to communicate that they didn’t like it. Due to being too shy, not liking conflict, and etc. That is why it is paramount that you go out of your way to read your client and give them room during the experience to take it in and doublecheck that they are satisfied and happy with the work. The idea that you would be late, give your client pushback, insert yourself in their personal matters, or make any moment about you is bonkers, and so unprofessional.
I’ve done makeup for many women on their wedding day and I’ve only stayed once because it was my absolute best friend. And the dj wouldn’t let me dance with my best friend at all. Any time I tried I was directed away. I never told her until she asked why I didn’t come see her on the dance floor, a week later. I left to decorate her suite though. It looked amazing by the time me and our other absolute bestie were done.
ETA: she was upset I didn’t tell her. Really upset. But she understood why.
what?
@@anniestumpy9918 I’m sorry?
That's so weird. Who did that DJ think they were?
@@LaurenRobinson-p6f right though!! I was thoroughly mad. That’s why I left for a bit and thought decorating her suit with roses and candles and such would be the perfect excuse to walk away and gather myself. Because sometimes I gotta strangle hold the ghetto me into submission when appropriate.
@@erikarussell1142sounds like the DJ needed a strangle hold! I had a band at my wedding 44 years ago and I had to go tell them to turn the sound down because I wasn't screaming at my guests like I was in some disco or pub comma it was that loud. They looked at me weird and I just pointed to my white dress and told them I was surprised and if they didn't do as I said they could leave. I should have said something to the MC who was also supplied by the venue. I can't even remember if we told them what kind of music we liked!
People often forget that weddings are the GROOM'S day TOO. If either part of the couple wants someone to leave, then they SHOULD!!
The editing of this video is particularly entertaining
In the words of our lovely Miss Charlotte...my flabbers are gasted.
Wow, AI did a really good job writing that apology for her. None of what came out of her mouth during that "apology" it was from the heart or gleaned from self-reflection on your actions at that wedding and previous weddings. I would encourage no one to hire her to do your makeup for your wedding or any other event where she could linger and cause trouble. No one needs another complication in their day that you have to pay for to be there.
100% agree with you on that… well, 95%. The one dispute is that it was AI, because it seemed pretty calculated to avoid any real personal accountability.
She claimed to take full responsibility at the start of it and then proceeded to phrase everything else in generalities. “Better communication in the future” instead of a specific ownership of the things she did wrong. As though the problems were all the result of miscommunication, not her own deliberate disregard for their wishes. It reeked of “there were mistakes on both sides” without actually saying it. You’re left wondering exactly what she took responsibility for except for caring too much!
@@BeeWhistler 💯
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congratulations!!! So thrilled for you, have the best day ever!! 💖💖💖💖
Congrats! I hope the two of you have a wonderful day!!!
Congratulations, bestie! I hope you have the most incredible, amazing, love-filled day!!! ❤❤❤
CONGRATS BABE!!!
I love that you waited to share this with us 🖤 we love you Charlotte!!
I needed this ❤ thanks Charlotte, you always have my back!
MUA was also 40 minutes late to her schedule coz she took her lunch that long. She also kept smoking during the whollllleee wedding.
SMOKING?!?
Gross
6:44 I love the editors!!
They're always so silly and quick with the goofy clip ins xD
5:20 Yes! I'm pretty sure the word you're looking for is ✨ barrage ✨ (it means to bombard someone with something, perfectly accurate for this scenario)
Pronounced "bah-RAJH" if anyone else has only ever read it and never heard it pronounced out loud.
Yes! Thank you! I’m a total logophile and was looking for this comment. 🖤
I have been IMpatiently waiting for you on this😂😂😂😂
Best recap of the situation that I have seen
10:59 TWO HOURS LATE 😭😭 oh lord the anxiety i had when we were 15 min late for my wedding I can only imagine
This gave me second hand ANGER!!! 😡🤬💀😂🤣
This raised everyone's blood pressure. Some videos should come with a medical warning. 😂 Also a public service warning that it may cause irrational anger.
Watching your videos feels like hanging out and chatting with my delulu bestie
Isn’t she the greatest ever?!?!
Absolutely. She makes my day fun. I enjoy a little petty.😅😊
Wait...are you calling CHARLOTTE delulu?!
Wait… I thought we were all now delulu besties… we’re not?? 😢
@@autumnmoon999 we all besties for sure
"i have the utmost professionalism" is the professionalism in the room with us right now
Photographer and videographer were extremely patient. I'm surprised that they weren't worried that she would ruin their work. I'm sure they were worried.
Dude, I was my SIL’s bridemaid a WEEK after getting a major concussion , getting diagnosed with thyroid cancer and still having a bit of a black eye ( bless the makeup artist, she was a magician and hid it so well). You know what I didn’t do? Make it my brother or new sister’s problem. They said they would have understood if I stepped down from my spot since we weren’t sure if I would be out of the hospital in time for all the pre-wedding stuff… but I pulled it off and it was literally the BEST wedding I’ve ever been too.
It was just nice to have that bright moment in our family since right before this my brother had brain cancer so he had postponed his wedding ( also the panini and all that). Then I had my whole thing. Then my mom got thyroid cancer . So it has been a rough few years.
Wow. You and your family have gone through the wringer. I hope things are improving. You're incredibly strong. You made me laugh calling it the panini.
@@paulagoeringer9466 oh thank you so much for you concern. It really wasn’t that bad for my mom and I with thyroid cancer , it is “a good cancer” so we only had to have surgery and need hormone replacement for the rest of our lives. WAY easier than my brother who had to have surgery and radiation. That was so hard to see since my brother was always my big , strong brother who was always so stoic and brave. It was rough seeing him so afraid for a while … but at least we have GREAT stories to tell around the dinner table on holidays.
Modern medicine is truly a miracle and I HIGHLY suggest everyone takes lumps and bumps seriously. If you are suspicious that something isn’t right, please please go to the doctor. If you catch it early it makes everything much easier. Once it spreads it is a bear to get rid of
I was waiting on the, “How are you not EMBARRASSED”!!!
What MUA was doing???? Was beyond embarrassing and straight into HOW ARE YOU NOT ASHAMED
I was in my cousin’s wedding a year after my fiancé passed away. It was extremely difficult for me to be at a wedding at that time, let alone in a wedding. However, I didn’t let it show at all how upset I was. I wanted my cousin to have the best wedding day. Also, from a brides perspective, my husband and I got married a couple of weeks ago. There was so much going on that we didn’t even get to eat. The night went by incredibly fast and we were lucky we even had to chance to dance with our guests. So to take up a bride’s time like that is absolutely insane.
I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s awful. But you’re a gem for being kind to your cousin.
Yes time flies. I think I ate a bit. But didn’t have any cake 😢.
My friend told me after the wedding she had a migraine (because when I got my pics back one of them she looked in pain). She never told me. Also my maid of honour went to her and my mom crying because apparently my sister was mean to her in the limo? The other passengers told me it’s not true. Also, only found out much later as friend and I were gossiping.
@@Mama_Bear524 thank you! I’m so lucky to have my husband after such a devastating loss. He respects my late fiancé so much, and even planned a private toast for him at our wedding with a couple of our friends. The only cake we got was what we cut. All I wanted that night was a cannoli from the dessert bar but they were gone by the time I got there, and we found out later that guests packed them up to take home.
Not the editor calling out the apology 😂😂😂
Congrats on getting your dress as well❤🎉😊
Thank you Charlotte for explaining it as someone who doesn’t know much about makeup artist etiquette. I could tell she’s doing wrong but also MEGA wrong
Ma'am???
I have never heard of so much unprofessionalism packed into 48 hours.
EDIT: And then the apology video--
Mmkay, sis, we need to talk. Because none, and I mean none, of what you did was a mistake. You were in fact, told what you were doing wrong, and then kept on with the behavior.
But before we even get to the day itself, we gotta back up to the moment you KNEW that you would be emotionally comprised and possibly unable to do both of these weddings.
It should have been way back at that point where you take a moment for yourself, as a human, and sort out your frustrations and feelings. It was NOT at someone else's wedding, trying to use the positive atmosphere as borderline free therapy.
And believe me, I get it, at times it's hard as hell to be professional, but that is what a job demands of you, and you failed at several points of your service and even genuine criticism of your work, like going 2 hours over your allotted time and setting back the schedules of people you barely know.
And I'm mad, because not one second of your apology recognizes this, which is at the heart of what you did wrong here. I'm mad on the behalf of both bridal parties.
Word, word, WORD!! The only reason she's "sorry" is because she's been seriously exposed by everyone concerned.
None of her apology recognised it because she blatantly, as suggested in this video, just had AI write it for her. She couldn't even be bothered to write one up herself that actually addresses her specific choices and actions she made during those two people's weddings.
@@EmiliFaust This sentence just dealt Psychic Damage to me. I don't wanna believe this is true.
She should change her name, change her city, her country, her hair, maybe enlist in the army.
"did y'all hear about the makeup artist who got kicked out of a wedding" sounds like the beginning of a really corny joke/pun
My MOH was in the hospital on my wedding day. It was so hard smiling and taking topics away from her health as she didn't want to talk about. She even sent her speech to one of my bridesmaids to speak for her 😭😭😭❤️
These kinds of stories make me feel so grateful that my own wedding included only 2 vendors (bakery for the cake and venue that included catering) and was very drama-free. The only mishap was that I specifically told the bakery about my almond allergy and they last minute decided to decorate it with marzipan flowers that were not discussed, so I couldn't eat the decorations. Can't imagine the stress that comes with including photographer, content creator, wedding planner, makeup&hair artists, florist etc.
I would NEVER allow a vendor other than the paid videographer/photographer to film ANYTHING including themselves doing their job. You are there to do a service and to be 100% focused on the job they were hired for. Don't even get your phone out.
Even if you got a client's permission for a pic to showcase your work, you keep it in your portfolio.
@@sjsimom2 exactly...can you imagine someone uploading your wedding without your approval...I'd flip...lol
I saw Markie cover the first part... But there was a whol SECOND wedding?!? Where did she find the audacity?? HOW IS SHE NOT EMBARRASSED???
Literally my EXACT reaction when watching this - though I'm not surprised at all at the same time. I've seen so many other people talk about how unprofessional she is - it's INSANE. This girl is really out here ruining her own career.
she was not embarrassed cause she wasnt aware to start with HAHAH
That's where I saw the story. Markie is my dramagate plug😂
Shout out to everyone who watches both Markie and Charlotte!
Everyone heard this in Charlotte's voice and it was PERFECT. 😂
I'm a retired florist and only once in a blue moon did I need to be there tell the bride was dressed. Most communication after the brides flowers was with brudes maids and mothers. Normally make-up was being done as I left. LEFT! You do not get to hangout. DO YOUR JOB AND LEAVE. What's so hard about that normal action?
I've been waiting for this! And Charlotte did not disappoint!!! 😂
FINALLYYYYYY! Im so happy youre covering. The MUA story. Lol
Warning to everyone working weddings; If you ruin Charlotte's wedding, the potato army will come for you 💀😘
AMEN TO THAT!!
Love this❤
😂😂😂
@@CharlotteDobre we mean it. Got your back, girlfriend.
And us gingers! I'm not a ginger but love love red heads of all complexion. Congrats Charolette. p.s. I have my bag of potatoes with eyes & red wig ready. 😅❤❤❤
The first story is almost the exact experience I had with my MUA! She arrived 2hrs late, and the entire time she was doing my hair and makeup (while I was trying to write my vows, as I told her), she told me all about how she just found out she was cheated on and ALLLLLLLL the gory details. On my wedding day- way to set the mood! We had a trial two months in advance, and so I expected her to follow the agreed upon style, which she took reference photos of during the trial. Since she was running so far behind, she just started right away on my hair, and when I looked in the mirror it was a completely different style but it was too late to change it. It kept falling down all day and way droopy and weird. I felt so beautiful and confident after the trial with her, but I did not feel beautiful on my wedding day. My bridesmaids had to fix my hair at least three times that day. I definitely left a very honest and detailed Yelp review.
The problem with these situations with wedding vendors, is that they actually have SO much power the day of the wedding. Weddings have strict timelines, especially since you are paying different vendors for their time, and guests are showing up accordingly to your wedding schedule. I couldn’t ask my MUA to redo things because we were already so far behind schedule, and what if I piss her off? She could just leave and I’d be screwed. I can’t find a replacement the morning of my wedding, nor could I afford to. They might be there performing a service, but they can really screw the client over, so we did our best to just roll with the situation at the time.
That’s awful. I’m sorry that happened to you
So sorry this happened to you x
I used to play ceremony music for weddings - there is no excuse for this. When you are a vendor at the wedding, you go to WORK. You are supposed to be in the background and the day should be as seamless as possible. In the cases where I was a long time friend or relative of the couple and playing music as a gift, the couple might want picture with me after. But as a vendor, it is your job to do everything you can to make that the best day ever for the couple ❤
lmao, the 'wait, Okay, Listen' counter!!
18:20 😂 you my dear, deserves a raise for that prompt insert
There was a guy I really liked that I was chatting to for weeks leading up to my brother's wedding, and everyone encouraged me to invite him to the wedding. My sister-in-law told me to, even though I was super nervous about it and I didn't want to impose. I messaged him, told him I would love for him to be my plus one... Only to finally be told he actually had a girlfriend. When I tell you I was devastated AND humiliated in equal measure because I now had to tell everyone why he didn't want to come. I was a bridesmaid (1 of 2) but I had my sad day (not ON the wedding day), pulled up my big girl pants, and nailed my bridesmaid duties. It was an incredible day and I was so busy running around and making sure SIL had a good time that I completely forgot about my own issues. My point is I would NEVER be a drama queen at someone else's wedding, especially not someone I don't even know. My flabbers are gasted.
Oh, I’m so sorry! That had to hurt! Gotta say, though, that you make me think of guys who get mad when a girl says she has a boyfriend. Like, you’d rather get your hopes up and later find out she has one (or doesn’t want to date him, as it sometimes is)? Nah, man, that’s worse!
Anyway, you sound really sweet and I hope things are better now. Half the pain of a blow like that is all the people who have no idea trying to ask innocent and kindly meant questions. You feel badly enough and now you have to make them feel badly too.
i am just here to hear Charlotte say "hOw ARe yOu NoT eMBarAssED!!!"