When Splitting the Bill Unleashes DRAMA | First Dates | Channel 4
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- 'That is such a red flag'
Whether you're all about tradition, or going Dutch is more your style, there's nothing more awkward than the moment the bill is placed on your table. For some of these couples, it was make or break...
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“Shut up I want to be a gentleman” is an oxymoron.
Very...
1. You should just BE and not say, because it shows you want to present yourself a certain way which may not be sincere to your character. i.e. actions speak louder than words.
2. The obvious one...telling a lady to shut up and then trying to be a gentleman is counter intuitive and a contradiction.
Most people this generation want to "play" the part and not "be" the part.
You have to BE about it not fake it for an afternoon.
He was a moron..
@@Jameslawzfacts just let her pay but I can understand why he didn’t because it might not be in his culture. Also there’s some paranoia about how some women will say they will pay and then talk trash behind the man’s back saying “oh he should have fought harder and paid regardless” basically as if they were testing the guy
Tbf she also shushed him which is just as disrespectful so they’re as bad as each other 😂
Just let her pay tho, I don’t care enough about the whole fighting over who pays thing plus then she’s more likely to come again for another date - women offer to pay because it makes them look less like a gold digger. It’s a longer term strategy than men typically think in but suggests interest so be humble and let her pay - see the strategy and use it to your advantage rather than arguing about stuff that doesn’t matter - plenty of time for that when they’re comfy ;)
Shushing is not shut up. Someone saying shush is what they do in a museum. Not shut up. He was rude. He took the L@@thoughtfulalbatros9683
Him: 'I wanna be a gentleman'
Also him: 'Just shut up!'
😂
He wasn’t being serious😂 aint like he said it harshly it was more in a joking way
@harleypease4766 Maybe if he was with a friend he'd known for a while, but not with a woman he'd just met
Did she not shush him???
@@poursmoregravy569get over it, she was rude
The 5th guy was so honest & genuine about his situation. Love the last couple and that gentleman was the best
First couple- fighting to pay (most likely an ego boost thing)
Last couple- split the bill in a peaceful way (empathy)
First couple won't last.
Last couple won't fist.
THE LAST couple was the sweetest couple I think I've ever seen. His appreciation for everything is beautiful.
She didnt like him but wanted to exchange numbers, yeah she wanted that option just in case 😂😂
It's called insurance option. Hint: you don't want to be someone's second choice
She didn't want it really, it was a goodwill gesture.
Or maybe swapping numbers to just be friends.
Or she just wasn't sure
she wanted to run his pockets
Glad they had that convo at the end about financial difficulties. It’s all about the heart and the last guy was so honest and I’m glad the woman didn’t judge him :) very different tone from the previous guy who didn’t want to pay and was just being a bit of a jerk.
The second to last guy said he was brass, meaning broke.
@@solo636 didn't like the second-to-last couple at all. He was broke and she was a whiner.
If you're skint, why are you even going on the show?
the 2nd to last couple date went downhill when the woman told him that she had 5 or 6 kids and this is a very old clip.@@shanfarco1574
My husband paid and I never even saw the bill..now married him for 15 years😂😂😂😂
Is he still paying for everything?
Is your husband the only guy you ever went on a date with?
Proud of that are you?
Are you both British?
As he should 🥰
She said yoked like egg yolked lmaooooooooo glad he dodged that red flag 😂
its a yolk like a horse not an egg, no idea what shes talking about lol
*yoke
I think it may have been a biblical meaning I'm not sure
@@JaffaCakes-c7d She admitted her ex was a Christian and wanted her to be a Christian with him too, not being yoked with him (i.e. not believing in Jesus) - was his and her dealbreaker, so that was never going to work out
@user-vu8pm4dw6d a yoke is the wooden thing they put on oxen when they're pulling a wagon. You'll see it in old movies.
Usually 2 ox are yoked together to pull a wagon so it means like "we're not bound together by something"
Solution - each bring their own food and eat in separate buildings.
😂😂😂😂 that killed me
😂😂😂
She wants to pay so shes not gonna have to see Him lol
Even if he pays, she is not obliged to pay
I feel I'd deliberately get my card declined on the next date to get me a real one too. Those couples were lovely tbh
"Just shut up, for once".... ON THE FIRST DATE LOOOOOL
The couple at the end:
- the man: I was homeless for 2 years.
- the woman: but you don't have these obstructions anymore, do you?
- the man: no
- the woman: good, then you can pay for it
:)))))
so inconsiderate!
I found her considerate refusing to enable and believing in his capabilities to provide despite his past.
@@jfaustin1742 Why should a man be expected to "provide" for a woman? Women have jobs nowadays. Gone are the days where they were forbidden from having bank accounts or sources of incomes. It makes no logical sense why the man should be expected to pay for everything.
If you are broke, u should be working on yourself not dating. Get your priorities straight ?
Imagine living in YMCA and coming to a restaurant like this… madness. Not every man is ready to date, yet they will date any women who he can find to except the bare minimum below effort then once hes mad it he will leave you for his dream women
@@user-bz5vj5xm5l Are you suggesting that poor people aren't deserving of love, relationships, or romance?
that "shut up" was a HUGE red flag
It truly was! And the irony of him making a huge song-and-dance about being a "gentleman" by paying the bill...😬
"He told me we weren't yolked. Like egg yolks."
"Yoked."
"Yeah, like eggs... So after my PhD here I am."
The last one was so heart-warming. Everyone deserves a chance.
If she wanted to pay, fair game, she’s a keeper! Just make sure you pay for the second one!
My attitude is that you owe each other nothing.. if she chooses to pay it was her choice however I’d rather pay my own way.
The solution to this is that you split the bill in the spirit that you are not paying for yourself, but 'treating' the other person as a gift.
The first lady in the red dress had every right to want to split the bill. He was being controlling and when he told her to shut up he crossed the line.
They aren’t known for being very nice to women& want them covered up head to toe
She's dumb enough to see him again it's her own fault
He was a bit of a ass
She shushed him first….they were both being unreasonably dominant in the situation
@@Man_fay_the_Bruoh go away with your anti-Islamic propaganda. Many women dress that way dod their faith, not men. It’s a CHOICE, funny you don’t know about it.
If you're being this difficult, why even go on a date. Who cares bout who pays???
Thank God I am happily married to the best man/husband. Honestly.
Searching for a spouse is hard work… brings back flashbacks, especially the first date… crazy
The last one is beyond sweet. Love that moment for them
I have a phd. I expect man to pay for date. What's the use of that phd then?
She's gorgeous. She can be picky.
MEN SHOULD PAY FOR YOUR TIME!!! WTH
@@Be1smaht Most women aren't worth the time.
@@Be1smaht well if you're an escort I guess
@@samsongomah1318incel popping into any opportunity to moan about women 😂 pathetic
It's so funny how these same women would say "it's not the 1950s anymore" or some bs, and then want a 50s husband. So jarring.
VERY JARRING. Feminists like to pick and choose.
They resort to traditional roles when it offers them some financial gain. Every other traditional gender role?? Obviously toxic 🙄
@@Den-nd6cd No, you just like to cherry-pick fringe cases then blame feminism as a whole, incel
@@Goliath1337Resorting to name calling? Tut tut tut. The last refuge of an unwanted, barren feminist.
If the man offers to pay for the date, then fine, they should NOT be expected to, and the woman should be prepared to split the bill if asked. There should be politeness on both sides.
If its a first date, whoever did the asking out pays the bill, simple! After that it's whoever or split the bill.
If i was on a date and the guy wanted to split the bill, i would take that as a clear indication that he isn't THAT interested in me. I would be fine with paying half but wouldn't see him again as he clearly isn't that keen.
Just pay for what you buy, damn
So you don’t believe in equality for men and women then?
THANKS MOTHER!!!! haha 😄 😂😅😂😅
I believe the young couple where the guy had the card issues and the very last were both matches made in heaven. So genuine and so lovely…
The first girl was genuinely honest, genuinely honest about paying the bill and then genuinely honest about taking half his pension
The last couple was too adorable. I hope they work out
Shusshing him like that is reason enough to run from her! No wonder she’s single.
Moments like this made me glad I'm gay. There are no dated expectations based on your sex. 🤣
Who pays? You or your date? Or just Dutch everything?
@@stratfordbaby Can be either. The positive aspect is there's no expectation on either of us.
Best part about gay dating! I don't think I've ever not split the bill. If someone were to offer, I'd decline and say I'd like to pay my half, but if they were to insist, then I'd happily let them. As long the decision isn't made for me without my input, then that's fine.
I’d never expect a guy to pay for me .. I’m paying what I’m eating 😂
It's funny a long time ago I went on a date with a Manager from Harrod's and he insisted on splitting the bill it was the best money I ever spent because he 💯 was NOT the person for me. It saved me a lot of time working it out. I highly recommended finding out as fast as possible. Time is the most valuable thing we have. I wouldn't have minded but he drove me mad to go out and he picked the restaurant then it was the way he demanded I paid half. Not to mention he spent all night telling me about how expensive he's amazing new flat is and the new car he was picking up next week and how good I would look in it 😂😂😂😂
I have never really thought about what a guy pays to prepare for date but as a woman its flipping expensive! Hairdressers, outfits and paying for safe travel all adds up. Funny enough the cheapest but thoughtful dates have always been the best.
The blonde woman was extremely masculine in her personality. This is what dating in the UK is like as a man. Also, how rare is it for a woman to even notice that most men exist are to even make an effort when you do actually approach them and try and make a connection. Everyone is glued to their phones.
Go Philippines lol..just don't bring them here. The village idiots in the office will brainwash her and get her to leave you and take you to the cleaners.
Lady in red I know a bunch of guys- my ex-boyfriends who would happily let you pay the bill. EVERY TIME. hahahahah
“Just shut up for once” excuse me?
If a man wants to pay for you, why would you fight so hard. Just give him th credit for paying
As a man you ain’t paying for my my dinner, f**k no. I’ll pay for my own dinner. 💪🏻😎💯
Women in America want equal pay but still want the guy to cover the check. 'Nuff said
“Treat me good and I’ll give you the world”
What does that even mean?
I don’t want the world, I want an equal partner.
As a man, I’ll always take the lead to pay. But, some girls don’t even offer, and that’s the biggest red flag for me.
1st case: He wanted to see her again. She held the door open for him and all. Took all his manhood.
That was her intention, sadly.
The 3rd girl is the keeper! Rest, I dont know!
The girl at 5:00 is the nicest one IMO
As a gentleman that American woman said i expect the man to pay the bill as if sunshine welcome to the ends pay your own shhhh
The last couple will be just fine… very well suited and good natured. Wish them the very best in life
always split the bill... always.
The double standards of many modern women blows my mind. They *insist* on being treated equally... until money is involved of course. Well, if women really want to tip the balance, then YOU pay for the WHOLE fkn meal like WE have been expected to - now THAT is 'equality' 💪
P.S. Single and still looking 🙏
It's Schrodiinger's feminism!
Cnt if you can’t afford a date then don’t go a dating show 😑😂
The man shouldn’t be obligated to pay in this day and age.
@@TheAArmstrongshut it, he couldn’t even pay for himself!
@@wildthang9355 Yer, the lady can pay…
@@TheAArmstrongyou sound like a bum
I mean how many women say they want to pay to be nice but internally find it unmanly if a man DOESNT pay so can’t blame the first guy. Most women are not like her and actually beyond willing to pay
3rd guy whose card got declined. They’re young so it’s kinda funny and they all rolled with the punches well. So cute
The guy whose card got declined 4 times ....he got a real one 😂❤
Yes what happened to them!? Does anyone know!?
@@BobbyWgn no I don't know I'll look around the internet though
there first date story (if they are still together) would be the best
Red flag.
@@celtictarotreadings333 😹😹😹 it could be
The last woman was so classy, mature, and accepting. That’s one good woman. I also admired his honesty. Hope he treats her well and becomes a chef!
timestamp ?
Hope she treats him well too.
@@stevethea5250 the LAST one
@@TedEhioghae time
@@stevethea5250what part of the last one did you not understand?
Cutest last couple! That woman changed her core predispositions instantly because she had a genuine connection and he was so charming as she was so lovely with him.
Why did his mum not put money into the account BEFORE the date??? MY GOD.
🤣this comment should have come with trigger warning I laughed and spilt my cup of tea on myself
Last couple is touching my heart. I hope he treats her right and get a stable job.
He is sweet and I might get trashed for this comment, but he needs to focus on getting himself together and not go on dates at this time. Money isn't everything, but a man needs to walk in his masculinity.
Feel like he's developing and put himself on show to the world, her too ; I feel part of ur comment - also MAYBE was good for him to get dressed go for a meal with a woman see a fully thriving restaurant - speaking his truth and for her to meet a man like him he's a man and masculine and also she was a good one too? - so bit of both here imho x@@QueenD75172
@@QueenD75172he seems like the type that if he had it he would definitely cover the bill. I think it’s important to show compassion like she did. I’m sure she saw he was being genuine which is why she didn’t mind paying 1/2. I understand where you’re coming from but we should also embrace a man’s ability to be vulnerable
@@cristynna9187 I am compassionate. He is a sweetheart. But he needs to pause dating till he established himself. It is 100% different if one is already in a relationship - then I feel a person should stand by their partner. Anyways, I don't think we too far apart in our opinions. I was not trying to dump on him, some people are down on their luck, it says nothing about their value.
@@QueenD75172 "a man needs to walk in his masculinity." I think that says more about what kind of man you are looking for than what "a man" "needs" to be. And I don't mean that in a bad way. I'm not judging. Not everyone's looking for the same type of person and that's fine.
My advice is on the first date. Don't go somewhere expensive. Maybe a coffee shop if there is no spark you didn't spend over £10☺️
That's what me and my partner did.
Worked out great, and we ended up extending the date and going to dinner afterwards cause it was going so well. But if it wasn't going well we could have easily said goodbye after coffee. Much less stress and you can just enjoy yourselves than worrying about money!
@@bunn228 💯👍
You're fun aren't you lol
@@URFUTUREUKit’s more boring if you require spending money to have a good time 😂 fuckin dork
No just walk no food simple
The restaurant staff really bring all the entertainment to this show
100% even though they're actors they are hilarious
@theangelov
Wait.. are they not both waiters and actors??
@@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij Nah they're paid actors. The blonde is called Cici Coleman and the other main female lead is Laura Tott
As a man I would offer to pay on a first date but if she insists to split it I certainly wouldn't mind it. If I can't afford it, then it's not a good time to go on a date or I should've choosen a cheaper restaurant.
yet you are the kind of guy who would judge someone paying upfront for sxx not realising you are paying yourself
Depends on the country and woman. Americans nearly always want the man to pay. Germans and Swedes often go halves. UK is a mixed bag but usually split bills or take it in turns. In Serbia or Romania, usually the man pays for all dates. Its very cultural
As a UK lass I agree ☝🏾
As an American woman, I agree!
As a uk woman yeh I pay for us an next time he will pay . We share
@@paulawilkinson6341 Weird modern world we live in.
I’ve never once split bills when I was in the UK. 😂
The guy who declined the woman's phone number after she rejected him knows whatsup. No point in swapping number if you want something more and she don't. She will just use you for attention and validation.
I kinda felt like she left the door open for him, just a smidge though.
@@Samuel-tn7bn she did leave the door open a little, I agree but he slammed it in her face and locked it. Good for him. I wouldn't want someone who doesn't really want me.
@@shaunallingham1863exactly. That's what I thought. She doesn't want him but wants his number?! Like what for? A one night stand? Just ridiculous. Never give your time to someone who doesn't want u but wants to keep u around!
She wanted to 'save face', probably so she wouldn't look too 'mean'. He was like, "yeah fk that".
@shaunallingham1863 it's a first date though, you can't know someones like in just a few hours
The last date was so sweet. He was honest and upfront before they were evem finished dinner and she respected that, as many women would. He's a keeper and I hope he reaches his potential
To me its a huge red flag. If he cant scrounge enough money for a date as a grown man, he should have waited until he could. It shows a level of entitlement and expectation that others will bail him out, and here he expects his date to bail him out. This is sign of the future with this guy.
Dude lives in a YMCA, I dated broke guys. There is no one sweeter than a man who is looking for his next shelter. He was the reddest flag of them all and that woman will soon find out
You have absolutely no idea what this guy has gone through, for all you know he could be have just had a massive set back in life and is now just finding his feet, he probably doesn’t plan on living in the ymca forever it’s just a temporary thing, you people are so quick to judge a book when you don’t know them at all
@@Drewski28622 For the judgmental ones! I've worked in a YMCA & I've worked with young offenders (male & female). With support, belief & guidance, some of these young people go on to make a positive contribution, nurture healthy & happy families, and make a personal & professional success of their lives.
@tubester4567 you're an idiot 😂 he did have enough money for his meal
If a guy is telling you to shut up, especially twice. Leave him.
He meant it i a. Jokey way
Because she is trying or forcing to be the lead- that doesn’t work
@@Boyzee355And telling your partner to shut up does work?
A real man can handle a women with power, but a weak man will make excuses and say it “it was a joke" or "it was so forced". Do yourself a favour, reach down, have a grab, see if your balls are still there, if they are start acting like the man you were born. Woman can do whatever they like whenever they like.
Or do as you're told and shut up 😏🤣🤣
The 2nd girl thinks being "yoked" is like egg yolk! With all her advanced degrees! 😂😂😂
i laughed so hard😭
she literally proved the ex’s point 😂😂😂
That goes to show she could really use some Bible lessons 😭
Yep.... She would've had that poor guy goin in circles and backslidden......🤣
City girl.
"I'll give you the world"
Bro you won't even buy your own food 😂
She can give him offsprings so in fact she can give him the world.
@@lifecreator6545 Only with his help
@@lifecreator6545He would be giving her offspring too so her role is nothing special.
@@Head-or-DeadI mean he would…but yk what he means. She’d be carrying his baby, both roles are equally important but one of them is 100x more physically and emotionally bearing and is therefore treated as such. Puts her in a more vulnerable state. On the other hand not everyone wants kids anyways
If you are broke why on earth are you even dating? You should be working on stop being broke. This women has no standards. Imagine he cant even sort himself out how is he going to provide when you have kids and a mortgage. Wake up girls. There r so many men out there who will give you the world like the 3rd guy, you dont need to settle for this, not even the bare minimum
I think the intention matters. If the woman knows she doesn't want another date then should try to split, if the guy doesn't let her then fair enough.
Agreed! If I knew I was going on a second date I’d let him pay intending to get the next one. If we didn’t want to see each other again then splitting the bill - it’s only polite imo
I agree but sometimes that can be determining factor on its it own. I wouldn't see a guy again if he made me paid even if he was nice. I'm from Asian culture too
Why is the bill splitting made into such a huge deal? If someone has said multiple times they want to pay for you then let them 🤣
conversely, if someone is declining, don't press it. The meal belongs to the person who order it so your request to pay for someone's meal can be accepted or declined and you should be able to accept it. This is like buying someone a drink, if someone refuses, move on.
Exactly 👍🏽
I guess insisting to pay for a guy could be a tad emasculating to some men!
@@lynneleverton8825certainly makes me feel awkward, however, it then makes me feel wanted, due to the rarity of it, as a man.
Seemed like an ego thing for both of them.
No second date with me if you tell me to shut up 🤷🏻♂️
Shut up.
Even "shut up FOR ONCE". Holy bejezuz.
Expecting the bill to be paid while bragging about your PHD and masters is a joke.
i aint gonna fight if someone wants to pay for me! haha
My fiance and I guess what the bill is going to be and whoever is closest to the actual amount 'wins'. The person who loses pays the bill and the winner leaves the tip. It's a fun game to play at the end of the date and it keeps us from going back and forth insisting for the other to let you pay the bill.
I went to holiday with a good friend. We ended up playing with our credit cards - having the waiter pick one 😂🤣😂 But to be fir it all somewhat evened out till the end hahaha
😂😂😂😂
What a cool idea! 😂
Ah hell no
Good idea and nice to see not every woman expect a man to pay for everything..
omg , that last couple made me cry. so authentic and real
Real people, my respect.
Honestly what a lovely real moment.
Romance is everything. I love to see two people genuinely into each other, but im a soppy sod 😂
That American girl said she didn't want a second date but definitely asked for his number for future booty call
Her ex was definitely correct 👀✝️
If he gave the number he'd have been just another option
Stop been a simp, she ain’t giving up no booty
Some guys are thirsty your always hoping. No he would've been another option .
@@lalosalamanca8574OK but she asked for his number
Online banking is the red flag. Not the fact that mommy is paying for the meal. Lmao
He's only like 16-17. It was from the teenage version of the show.
💯
oh oh looks like you just told on yourself as a gold digger, shaming a teenage boy... smdh...
What's wrong with online banking, pls? How else do people do their banking?
last couple made me smile so much. So sweet ❤
Last couple is humanity at its finest. People stop looking at artificial nonsense when dating.
Yes because the cost of living crisis is artificial and love pays the bill
@@user-bz5vj5xm5l Missed the point
@@user-bz5vj5xm5l🤣🤣🤣🤣. What the heck is wrong with these people? They act like love pays the bills. It does not keep a roof over your head or food on the table. When did those things became superficial?🤦
So In love with couple 3 and the last couple what genuine people hope it worked out for them
If people like eachother then splitting the bill should be no issue and be a sign of no expectations of eachother and a starting point of a possible relationship where you can accomplish things together instead of having i did this and i did that.. how about we did it together.
If a man wants to pay, I’d let him pay. It’s not something to get into a disagreement over. He said that she could pay next time so that could have been the end of it really.
@@MarianLivingLife I wasn't talking about that incident, I'm just saying that I think that life would be better without the expectation for a person to pay for your food and it's much nicer to start out a possible relationship with the mindset of doing things together instead of saying I paid for this or i did that for you.
Yup. I offer to pay on a first date and if she wants to split it then I don’t argue. But the assumption that I will always pay as the guy is a big red flag.
The last couple made my day ... So honest ,cute and caring ❤😊
I hope they lasted - looked lovely together ❤
Will go nowhere
@@johnnyboy123211 Haters are going nowhere 😅
@@nadineflow everyone wants a happy ending 💓
The problem nowadays is, men don't know how to be men. How to be successful, how to make money, how to treat women. 50/50 wtf is that!!!!!
The last couple was so cute, I like Isaac's transparency. I think a lot of british women offer to pay half because we understand that most men are making about the same as us, and UK wages aren't that high.
Most women use this as a covert test to see if he complies. Modern British women are some of the most masculine woman I have ever met. Im British and most of th girlfriends I have had are not from the UK.
@@rjflores438 What kind of ethnicity girls do you go for?
@@rjflores438. I agree. It’s almost always fake 😂
@@rjflores438okay passport bro keep dating your foreign women who want you to pay for everything
@rjflores438 I'm similar, am in UK but both of my gfs were from Asia
The last couple, absolutely adorable. And she was understanding of his circumstances.
This guy at the end was so charming and wonderful. She was lovely too, warms my heart.
Its funny how cultures are so different. In Nigeria the guy pays the bills,it is seen as insulting for the female to pay. If the guy can not afford to a certain restaurant,he tells her they should go to another he can afford. Maybe its because here the guy is the one in most cases who offered to take her out.
In Nigeria you don't have tons of women using men for free meals though.
@itsjustaname777 No, you have it worse for sure
I’m literally in tears…the last couple was just so heart❤ warming
These women expecting the traditional treatment,yet they don't act traditional
I would want to split the bill on a first date. If the other person responded in a nasty way or pushed it would give me more information about their ability to respect my boundaries. These are the sort of thing's communication should happen around.
Same
Exactly.. I don’t know this person… neither do they know me.
Would never be nasty, important to be gracious. But would be the first and last date we would have as obvs not compatible. Wouldn't want to have to explain this stuff either.
In this situation, I would politely pay my portion and just never talk to you again. For a woman, a man paying the bill shows he's serious about her. It's like putting action to that fact that the man sees something more or wants to explore more. If the man doesn't pay, then I automatically think he isn't that into me and so I should just move on.
@@ayarikiyo2178 Based on how many guys lament about 'wasted money', I'm pretty sure plenty of guys want to pay the bill because they want to keep up their ego, and also make you feel indebted enough to either get sexual or agree to a second date. Similarly, a guy who splits on the first date could either be a bum or just an understanding person who doesn't want to make you feel indebted, or wants to complement your independence.
A yoke is a wooden beam sometimes used between a pair of oxen or other animals to enable them to pull together on a load when working in pairs. So, to be “yoked” means to be well matched. It has nothing to do with egg yolks…
First guy is so uptight. Jeez if she's that insistent just let her pay, don't need to turn it into a drama.
Goes both ways 😅
True
The fact she thinks having a phd makes her more attractive shows how little woman know about men. If she is a nice person and treats you with respect then it doesn’t matter if she works in Burger King a man will still like you.
Like and actually be in a relationship is different. A man who also have a masters or PhD will appreciate her than someone who works at burger King.
The personality and Energy matters more. Having all those certificates does not make you a wonderful person nor does it make you less ignorant
Why would we want a man that doesn't care at all about our education or intelligence?
@@ninaowusu8157 The person who works at Burger King could be the area manager with a degree/masters in business & accounting.
It made me laugh that did. But but but… I’ve got a PH Deee! 🤦🏽♂️
The first couple was just cringy 🤦🏻♀️ he is a real gentleman and wants to wine & dine his date. She on the other hand tries to be feminist or something there is a time for that not on date specifically if he is insisting
Why can’t she pay, it’s not feminism ya numpty, just because you are feeling all insecure that a women dared move into what has been historically masculine behaviour does not actually means it’s masculine, sometimes paying for something is just that and nothing more.
He's no great shake either, he lacks communication and listening capabilities. He doesn't want to pay but socially feels that he has to, so she is helping him out but is too proud
They both have toxic egos - both ridiculous .. a real gentlemen’s wouldn’t have been so rude.. it was all about her ego v his
Guy calling his mum for money has got himself a real keeper there
The waitress laughing cuz the card declined 😢😂
0:42 The Pakistani bloke telling her to shut up. At that point I WOULD LET HIM PAY. And that would be the final date.
He’s Indian
Second girl waited for his answer before saying no 😂
She was going to say no. She'd previously stated that a man splitting the bill doesn't warrant a second date with her.
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalistdisappointed she couldn’t use him for a free meal I guess
It was so embarassing watching that first woman fight to pay for the bill... let him be a gentleman for Gods sake!
Toxic feminism at its finest
@@Julie-wx2gfshe really was😂😂
A gentleman is a gentleman regardless, its not something you 'let him' be. She literally requested him to let her pay, and the gentlemanly response would have been to graciously accept her request, instead of making a big deal out of it asking her to shut up, and thinking that mess he made was gentlemanly in any way simply because he paid the bill for a meal 😂
I know, it was so excessive and weird to argue like that. Just accept the gesture, it isn't a threat!
@@usbwgwywysge No, she made the gesture first. 'Ill get it', 'no I genuinely insist'.
It is he who argued, felt threatened, and did not let her be herself and do what she originally wished to do. Made a big deal out of nothing.
if a guy ever made me pay for anything, he would never see my face again
Are you a traditional women?
sure I'm .. but even if i wasn't no man in my country would ever let a women pay @@wausjackbauer128
Do you expect everything for free or do you have a job?
@@tomcrawley3343 a man should provide
If your broke just say so! Drizzle drizzle
Some girls will go on multiple dates with no intention of continuing for free meals believe it or not
I know one...its ended bad for her.
@@derky3592How did it end up bad for her?