Why Do We Hate? Yetzer Hara or Trauma?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ย. 2024
- Heichaltzu - The Secret of Love #2 | When We Crack the Shell of the Ego, We Can Greet the Sun
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I really do not get how can you surprise me again and again,after listening to ALL you lessons over 7 years. Thanks again for preserving my sanity during all these years...:)
I can't stop listening to this. Best series, please keep on. Yashar koach
I totally understand it personally.
I did not get the opportunity to do the inner work and grieve over being broken as a child and as an adult. Did not see where a preconditioned false idea about myself was affecting me and I did not get the opportunity to get to the bottom of it till I retired at age 77 where being a care giver for my profoundly non-verbal Autistic daughter was my only reason for existence. I got too old and her condition got more intense as she was aging so I had to let her go and move on to care in a group home and it broke my heart to lose her when it is perfectly normal for even a handicapped child to move on. She is happy and well cared for. I am blessed with the love and care of the rest of my grown children- nachas .
But now old and retired, widowed, the brokenness showed up and being “religious” was not helping.
Working through it allowing myself to grieve has opened my heart to really love Hashem. Forgiveness of my past abusers and myself for my stupidity has not been easy, but it’s the only way. I can now see my many successes. As I look back I can where Hashem has been with me and where my inner rebel has kept me strong!! I have had a strange life in someways but I am not a victim and I am enjoying my life even with grieving once in a while! Baroch Hashem! To everything you say I say Amen!
Beautiful sharing ❤ Thank- you so much!
I have been on this journey for about 25 years.
My parents, now almost 80, do not wish to dig into this soil, so have stopped inviting them to do so. For years I shared my support group work with them, and told them all about the healing I was working on. Which they dismissed as all my personal issues, and do not see anything for them there. That is okay.
I always believe it is never too late; people can choose to grow as long as they have breath.
You had enough on your plate trying to survive the day, as well as serving your special child.
(My parents both have their own baggage which they make choices about sorting through.)
I worked in a group home for 15 years. I am so glad to hear she is being well loved and cared for there. 😇
Excellent work!
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Thank you for teaching rabbi!!
Very helpful. I have been working on this. 🕊
You've been the favorite part of my day
I see how the IFS Psycology NO BAD PARTS is very connected and based on this class and Chassidus. Thank you Rabby YY for bringing Chassidus to be relevant
I can smell the anointing wafting from him. Great Rabbi.
Thank You.
Based on this teaching, that when one has become all about klipah (the external appearance) and has no healthy, coherent “fruit”, if you will, on the inside, looking at the contemporary cultural and political scene, the prevalent chaos and emnity is a feature, not a bug, and the wonder is that this olam ha-tohu hasn’t already collapsed into a smouldering heap. Certainly the vessels are banging and the shards are falling.
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Disclaimer... this deep emotional work cannot be done unless the person is currently in a physically and emotionally safe place.
There are victims of domestic violence that will NEVER be able to do this tikkun as long as they are trapped with the sociopath (abnormally selfish one-sided person) who keeps their victim under their control.
And disabled people who only realize the next day that they are still living in an abusive group home and unable to recognize their own physical and mental and emotional safety.
So yes- great video for some of us who are safe- but this is an inaccessible practice for those of us who still need protection and safety.
Please make some videos for those people who aren't safe and how to cope with that. Thank you!
Loving kindness to all people who are still not safe.
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Selfish people don't hate their victims. Selfish people don't obsess ruminating in hatred for those they've harmed. Selfish people forget their victims very fast.
It's the victim that can hate and ruminate tho the victim has done no harm.
Selfish people actually can "love" their victims with a certain type of love. One-sided people love their victims like a person loves a steak. But the cow doesn't feel loved. The cow feels hated even tho the greedy person "loves-enjoys" hamburgers!!! Selfish greedy people don't hate, even tho they look hateful it's really only aggression force for self gain, it's not really hatred. For the moment, the enjoy the gain and then they'll forget all about you; no problem. No hate.
where is the link to part one of this lecture?
th-cam.com/video/TI14YH6XDtA/w-d-xo.html
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