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To the narrator of the video about the second to last story: Dude? The OP just said that he isn’t very sociable with a group of people and that is no reason for you to go off on him for wanting to leave. If I wasn’t sociable like the OP, I’d definitely do the same. So I’m on the OP’s side!
Get your head out of your @$$, Dumb@$$. The father of the groom OP clearly has a mild form of social anxiety disorder. I would be on your side if the OP left during the wedding ceremony, but no, he left during the RECEPTION, as in the main event was DONE. He was clearly uncomfortable with the situation as a whole but he was able to tough it out until the ceremony ended. You need to start considering the view of the person who is uncomfortable with being in situations like that. What’s even more is that the OP kept his son informed that he would leave early AND that he TOLD his son that he was leaving. Where in that situation is the OP not showing consideration for his son? He didn’t interrupt ceremony, he didn’t yell out to everyone else and inform them that he was leaving, and he didn’t make a scene. He only told his son and the mother decided to go with him, that’s actually being very considerate given that he was uncomfortable with the situation in the first place and the mother decided to go so she wouldn’t have to drive alone.
@@themysteriousoa4466 that’s what i was thinking. My Grandpa would literally sneak out of parties or just stay in the bathroom and read, and I know that I’m not a big fan of parties either, so i completely understand OP and the fact that the son said he was fine with OP leaving
@Jeffhogleberg_45 why couldn't he just suck it up for his kid though? I hate being around people, especially crowds, but if it's for someone I care for I'll suck it up.
I fear for the Kid in the first story: The fact that that the Family of the OP’s fiancée antagonized the OP instead of confronting the kid tells me that not only is she going to grow up thinking it’s ok to hurt people, but also grow up thinking that she can abuse her innocents by antagonizing anyone that confronts her.
A doll verses my living dog?? That whole family is insane and they are definitely raising a future serial killer, just wait until mommy messes up and let's see what happens
mommy is not gonna afford what shew wants one day, and that girl is gonna do something DRASTIC, or when one of her family menbers that oh so defended her sets up a boundering maybe their pets are gonna be the one's getting ended
@@cototototorra7106The behavior that kid displayed is a sign of her potentially becoming physical towards the parents or other family members' kids in the future imo.
Story 1..Maybe not slap a kid specifically in the face ....... if the dog was as important as OP says.. then they should have kept a better eye on the dog while around so many people. Story 2.. the gf is stupid... just leave her.. after that many issues and she she still doesnt get it.. .. its not worth staying with that bs
story 5, you are wrong for the reason that he told them early + the son said NOTHING about it before the wedding or during + the son never told em he was upset after the wedding + it isnt the guy just being a bit tierd or a bit uncomfortable no he is very uncomfortable at big social gatherings such as this one + HE ATLEAST SHOWED UP
I think slapping a child as punishment is bad up to an limit. Trying to un-alive something a slap is NEEDED and the family should have heard the entire story until they make judgments on who to side with. Definitely not the jerk.
Reminds me of a former friend who peed in the *indoor* stairwell of a coffee house/bakery, right outside the bathroom, while the rest of us were in line to use it. There was a long line because there was an open air music festival outside, and each of us had purchased an item out of respect/to compensate the business for using the bathroom. Said friend could've gone out and found an alley or something if it was that urgent. Everyone in our party (particularly his girlfriend) was so confounded, disturbed, and embarrassed, while he acted like nothing had happened. I apologized to everyone in line on his behalf, dropped $100 on the counter for the business' cleaning trouble, and left without any of the girls in our party actually getting to use the bathroom, the whole point of being there. I never initiated contact with this guy again after that, counseled his girl to dump him (he later dumped her in an extraordinary cruel way), and avoided him in social settings, because clearly we were not operating from a shared moral sense or set of values.
Not psychopath, sociopath. She KNEW what she was doing was wrong. She just didn’t care and wanted revenge at the expense of a living being’s existence. THAT sociopathic behavior.
look up antisocial personality and conduct disorder. abusing animals is psychopathic behavior. the term sociopath is not in clinical use nowadays. you need remediation in your intro to psych content.
Story 5- Not gonna lie, the dad isn’t the jerk. If people aren’t socially comfortable (like me) or just doesn’t really want to see the in-laws, it is their choice. I can see that the dad leaving the sons wedding isn’t really nice for the son as his parents isn’t there for the rest of his happy day, but at the end of the day the OP’s wife wanted to go home with him as she didn’t feel comfortable coming home with everyone else. Everyone just wants to be physically, mentally and emotionally safe. It was probably the sons wife or family members that turned the son on his dad to make him feel bad for leaving his son’s wedding.
I agree, I don't see how he's the jerk when no one asked him to stay. The son never made it known how much he wanted the OP there. If the son had, the OP probably would be.
@@AnimeGamer501st That's a very misogynistic comment, dude. In the story, it's OP who wanted to leave early because he was uncomfortable. His wife left with him because she didn't feel comfortable driving by herself in the dark.
I don't like the narrator berated OP for the EXACT SAME THING as the in-law and son, it's STUPID. I'm not that bad socially, but I'm more of the type of person who'd stay just long enough to be there, maybe feature in a few pictures, then leave after showing them some final extra support. I honestly wouldn't go to these things unless I had a solid reason.
Story 1 is deeply concerning. Obviously I don't see the OP as the a-hole in this case, since trying to end an animal like that would likely elicit a similar response from me. But the bigger issue is the kid in question. Unless she gets proper treatment, that is a HUGE red flag for what she may develop into later in life. She derived joy from seeing suffering of an animal with the intent to end it. She knew what she was doing the ENTIRE TIME and enjoyed her actions. That girl needs therapy yesterday, or else they may grow up to be a genuine monster.
If she does that for getting the "wrong" present imagine what she could end up doing to someone who actually wrongs her. She is an actual hazard to society at only 9.
If that kid was willing enough to take out a dog, that means that she would be more than willing enough to take out a person, and that's concerning unless she gets help ASAP.
Story number 1 the OP needed to have the child charged with animal cruelty. Story number 2 the OP needs to break up with his girlfriend immediately because that problem is only gonna get worse and she’s going to break even more expensive stuff.
Other than the spitting, Libra took all the right actions. I'm also adopted and I feel for her and Leo. When I was a kid and someone did similar to me, I replied, "Your mum /had/ you, while my mum /chose/ me. Who do you think has more love now?" (I was a bit of a brat about it when I was younger, before I lost my dad.)
The first story: OP is so NOT the butthole. That child is a sociopath in the making. The fact that she was completely unrepentant, laughed about it and declared she was just having “fun” shows how completely unhinged this child is. Clearly, she has not been taught boundaries, that the word no is a completely valid response or any sense of accountability. Therefore, she has no fear of reprisals or consequences for her actions. With the whole family rallying behind her, it's of no surprise whatsoever that, at nearly ten, she's abusing animals. Which, if you didn't know, is how many serial killers started out. Anybody who defends her saying she's just a kid, that she was just playing or that OP is too sensitive or the little brat didn't know what she was doing, they're gaslighting her. The kid needs counseling. If they don't get her help post haste, they’re enabling her, and, in effect raising a monster. They're going to wish they were firmer with her when she ends up in juvenile hall or jail or prison.
@@kamion53 A verbal reprimand when she tried to harm an animal and was totally unrepentant about it? I don't think so. Obviously this type of behavior has been enabled and overlooked by her parents not to mention the rest of the family. Something tells me she's never gotten anything even remotely resembling a disciplinary glare or being forced to stand in the corner. A nine-year-old should at least have a sense of empathy. Retaliating for not getting a gift from someone by harming and trying to kill that person's pet? That's definitely not normal behavior for a child.
@@luisbarboza2042 regardless, the fact that she was ready to kill an animal to get back at its owner for not getting her the present she thought she was entitled to is not normal child behavior. I can only imagine how many warning signs there were that her parents ignored, pushed aside and swept under the rug because their daughter is “perfect.”
A 9yo tries to *intentionally* hurt a dog? If I were in OP's shoes, that "family" would be looking at kidsized coffins at the end of the night. Oh, and hurting animals is a telltale sign of a potential serial criminal. There are a *lot* of serial unaliverers who began their "passion of pain" by hurting/unaliving animals. So I h´would love to hear Stacys family justifying her actions when she's in court for murder and other heinous crimes.
A lot of children unfortunately have... an underdeveloped sense of empathy. Children can be incredibly psychopathic in their behaviour. I'd know, I used to be pretty evil as a kid in a similar manner. Nowadays as an adult, I would find these things abhorrent and I can't even hurt a stray rat.
If that was my dog that kid would either be picking up some teeth or be knocked out! Yes, she clearly needs help and I hope she gets it before it's too late. That being said, she also needs to learn that in life, actions have consequences.
@@IMADINOSAURNOTABIRDyeah same. And if I accidentily stepped on a mouse I'd be so upset at myself for hurting the poor thing At a previous job I saw someone from what I think was pest control come in pull back a curtain and pull out a strip of sticky tap with all living mice out of what is guess was an inhumane mouse trap the poor move were flailing around stuck to the tape it had me in tears and sick to my stomach but v the guy just casually tossed the sticky strip and flailing mice into the trash. I had to go take a few minutes to calm down and that horrid scene had never left me. I can't bring myself to use any but live catch and release traps so unwanted guests are removed maybe spooked but unhurt
Story 1 - NAH. Further to all the other comments, OP checked on the dog after an hour or more but the adults didn't notice their kid was missing that whole time? Seems like her parents didn't want to admit they f'd up.
Story 1: No the op is definitely not the jerk. If i had this freak of a child try to do that to my dog i would slap her as well and probably knock her out. She is a monster for doing that and to think she did that all over some stupid doll is honestly embarrassing. But bigger than that the sister-in-law and brother-in-law and basically everyone who takes Stacy's side is messed up . I would cut ties immediately and maybe put stacy in a psych ward
Wedding one , sorry but the guy isn’t necessarily the jerk , I also hate social gatherings and I completely understand not wanting to be in the large crowd ect , however , maybe would of gone about leaving early in a better way than the way op did it
But he apparently does this all the time. I have autism and anxiety. I've been to big events that made me have breakdowns afterwards. Do you know why? Because I love the people I do that for. I may not be a parent, but I raised my younger sister and have custody of her. She called me mom. I try to make it to every occasion she invites me to. She knows that I have a problem with crowds and that I'll step away to get a breather. I've sat at a table full of food I could not eat so I could attend events. Op and his wife didn't even stay for pictures. He told his son that they'd leave during the reception, not before it. The son probably thought he'd at least get to have pictures of his family on this important day. The way OP wrote it, it seems he would have stayed if the food was something he preferred.
@@LuisDiaz-wv4xr I get that and yes maybe he should of made a bit of an effort to stay longer but , social anxiety is a thing , but since that’s not mentioned here I do feel like the op just couldn’t be bothered being there , in that case he’s the jerk but if it’s due to social anxiety ect then not so much ect
I can imagine one day when Stacy kills someone, the family will help hide the body or even use the OP at the scapegoat to protect their "golden child".
Story 1 is extremely concerning. The fact the family is defending her lays a foundation of how this girl is going to grow up. And it isnt good. Most serial killers have had the ssme history or killing small animals. The fact the child is ten and doing this makes it even scarier. She needs help. I hope the parents put a stop to this otherwise.... Well I rather not put it here, but you can figure it out.
STORY 5: Some people just do not have a great social battery and cant be around many people. Not the jerk. The narrator is a complete jerk for how he is talking about the OP for thinking about their own mental health. OP stepped out of their comfort space and went to the ceremony AND attended the reception, that is a lot for some people. OP even told their son that they wouldn't stay long and even said their good-byes and didn't sneak off. The OP handled this the best way possible.
Agree. I don't have any problem socializing in big events with many people but I can't stay at that event for too long or I would be nauseous so I always leave early.
Agree if my dad wanted to leave my wedding early I'd be "like ya sure let me just snap this photo of us box ya any food ya want to take home and love ya dad message me when ya get home so I know ya made it" like dude my dad spent his hole life taking care of me who the hell cares if he's gone early he was still there took the time not to mention the gas money to come if he wants to leave early I say the gas money he used alone proved his love for me and my day
100% agreed. As someone with social anxiety, it can be debilitating when it gets bad. OP verbally declared his boundaries and limits, knew when he needed to see to his mental health, and took care of himself. I understand the son/groom being disappointed that his parents left, but the dude grew up with his dad; if he didn't recognize his dad's anxiety with social situations at this point, he's completely missed the mark. That said, the son wasn't the AH until he reamed his dad over the phone.
*Story 1:* OMG! *Stacy* is worse than twisted. Why would anyone want to kill someone's beloved dog? So she didn't get the doll she wanted last Christmas? So what? I fail to see how that justifies killing her beloved pet. OP's not the jerk, Stacy is. OP was right to bitchslap Stacy.
I have severe sensory issues, such a large party would be very painful, I would most definitely, step outside frequently, leave early, or just not go as it would be extremly draining just to maintain my composure, let alone stand. It is not out of the question that the father in story 4 would have similar issues, making parties and large gatherings feel equivilent to a physical beating.
i really don't get why the narrator gets so mad about the wedding story. op left calmly because he doesn't feel well in crowds and calmly informed the couple. was he supposed to make a scene? is it because of the leftovers? i am very confused. did narrator forget he read the op was at the wedding but not the party afterwards?
How would OP be the jerk in Story 5? He told his son that he was not going to stay and he was fine with it! How does one person forgetting something make someone else a jerk because of that?
Yeah, and the narrator being a jerk too. Story 5 Op admits being a downer, he rather go home instead of staying and ruining everybody else's good time at the wedding.
Story #1 - I would be instantly cutting ties with everyone in my family after they blocked me, because it seems they're only interested in believing what that brat says even when it was revealed what she did and why she did it. They're gonna have to eat a slice of humble pie before the OP forgives them.
Story 1. That child WILL end up harming people. ps. That child reminded me of an episode of Angel. Team thought the child did nasty things due to being possessed - turned out he just did things for the sake of it (even the trapped possessing demon was scared of that child), climax of the episode he tried to burn his sister alive because she had more marshmallows in her hot chocolate.
story 2: I want to tell you, that when I was in school, I had a teacher who did that, She was a terrible person, So when it was revenge time we put some thumb-tacks on her chair, and when she sat down she screamed in pain. She spent the next few hours having the school nurse picking out the tacks out of her fat ass
The last story: good on Libra for standing up for herself. If she hadn't figured that out now, she would have been a doormat for much of, if not, her whole life. I only wish I hadn't been a people-pleaser or the wallflower that I was in my preteen and formative years. Even my own family picked on me claiming they were just kidding, that I needed to grow up, be the bigger person and learn how to take a joke. I later learned that what they were doing was called the devaluation. It's where the abuser gaslights the victim into believing that they are in fact overreacting and should be ashamed of their emotions. Perhaps I would have had better self-esteem. So, to OP: no, your daughter is not the butthole. She's a wildcat and will fight for those she loves. Good for her.
The only thing I would advice OP on in this story is to talk to Libra about not escalating a situation and all I men by that is the spitting. Up to that point it was verbal, spitting on her intentionally would be escalating it to physical.
Story #5: You have my sympathy. I suffer from Autism and it makes social interaction extremely difficult, to the point where I wear headphones pretty much 24/7 to avoid social interaction. If your situation is similar to mine, you're not the jerk. However, if you just have a minor dislike of interacting with people, but can speak coherently to people if necessary, then you are very much the jerk.
@@melissavarner7576 not like that like after things are cooled down, the son an his father will have a talk about why op didn't attend to the wedding party and he has to stay at home
even without autism being in a large crowd of people can make people feel very uncomfortable and if the son doesn't understand that everyone else's feelings also matter even though it is his big day then he kind of deserves a reality check
I don't have autism however I have limits when it comes to social events or a place with many people. If I reach the limit I start to feel nauseous and have bad anxiety.
Omg it never crossed my mind that she would full on sit an animal or a baby without looking. That habit I honestly think would send her ass straight to jail.
Number 3 you’re not the jerk, she literally could have used the other bathroom. In protest she peed on the floor, like a dog trying to mark its territory… just no, she’s a human, she knows that’s not okay. And she just wanted to make you feel bad
If the child in story 1 has any younger siblings in the future, she WILL smother them for one reason or another, and the parents will be the only ones to blame.
It's amazing that the police & Cps werent called. They're trying to make it seem like the kid wasn't doing anything but the brat was full on trying to kill ops pet. That kids gonna end up as the next famous serial killer or at best, in a mental asylum
First story. I would have dragged Stacey up the stairs, keeping a tight grip on her arm and told her parents what had happened. Or I'd have slapped her harder then told parents to take the deranged child out of my house and no Christmas or birthday presents again. I'm sorry but no one, not even a child, does that to my family... And yes I will say family.
Found the post of the 1st story and OP replied to a couple people saying she is scared of confrontation because of some things that happened in her childhood, so when she does go to tell the parents of Stacy after the situation what happened, she was too late and the parents are still mad at her, even with OP saying she will pay for a therapist. Stacy's parents are raising a serial killer in the making, and NEED to deal with this instead of babying an intelligent 9 yr old 😬
Story 1: I know this is extreme, but I honestly say have that kid experience something that scares her straight if she has SOME sense of morality. I legit could have been a potential psychopath myself, but I was scared greatly by almost being ripped away into CPS by a teacher friend of my mom. While it happened as I was also a pathological liar as a kid then, this experience was frightening and made me embrace my morality completely while stopping the habit of lying. Also instilled the belief that sometimes, you might need to taste the poison yourself to understand it.
Story 1: I wouldn’t blame OP for putting Stacey in a box…then filling it with cement, padlocking it shut, and dumping it into the water…just like my Great Uncle Alphonse did to his enemies. **eats walnuts**
The wedding story. The op is only the jerk for forcing his wife to leave. We don't know what kind of issues they are suffering. In normal circumstances, yes, staying the whole wedding would be expected, but I suspect he may have issues with large crowds or being out of his house. Doesn't make him a jerk, makes him need some help. Jumping down his throat like you did is the wrong approach and makes you the jerk. Something that seems to be happening more often recently.
op didn't force his wife to go with him, he said that she can come with him, he didn't leave during the wedding he left after the wedding and didn't stay for the ceremony
@viviennemorgan7217 he left after the ceremony and didn't stay for the dinner. You didn't listen to it. And his wife absolutely felt forced to leave as she didn't know the area and didn't want to drive by herself home. He put her in a position of "come home now and be comfortable or stay and be stressed going home." Unless you listened to a different story.
@@AkselJade he asked his wife if she wants to leave with him, he never said all that and force his wife to leave or be stressed out, he said hey you can leave with me he's offering her to come with him.
The scariest characteristics of becoming sociopath is unliving animals. Most murderers were intelligent and acted out their “curiosity”. The fact this idiot family is excusing this behavior is scary.
All the people in the comments are pissing me off cause they’re also acting like the slap is the worst thing, and not the child literally almost ending a creature’s life with no remorse for a selfish reason. I want to be fair and reasonable, but it’s so hard to not want to scream because of people not looking at the bigger picture.
The wedding story: OP is not the jerk for leaving the wedding. Sounds like he has social anxiety and a large party can cause a lot of issues for someone like that. I am the same way. Being at a part with a lot of people is completely exhausting to me so I avoid them. My anxiety levels skyrocket, my blood pressure goes up, and I even start dropping things and stumbling. Call me a jerk if you want, but I honestly can't physically handle situations like that for more than a few minutes. Thankfully, my daughter understands and I'll be sitting on the side of the room at her wedding next month rather than right in the middle of the crowd.
The wedding story... I have crippling anxiety so I probably would have left to keep from having an anxiety attack. Next... as an adopted child my favorite response to this kind of taunt was "my parents chose me, yours got STUCK with you."
The last story was nice and all, and I'm not doubting a kid standing up to a bully. What I am skeptical of is the kid actually saying all of that stuff to the bully.
If I was in the shoes of the OP in that first story,I would have locked Stacy in that airtight box for the same amount of time she put that dog in there. Edit:Yes,I know I would get arrested.
Nah just put her in an air tight box and say "oh i think she went missing" make it look like she trapped herself in there by accident though so you don't get caught if/when they find the body.
The girl in the first story is definitely going to grow up to be a serial killer. As for the girl in the last story. If she was my daughter I’d take her out to get her favorite food and buy them both a new toy or something they wanted.
Stacy deserved far worse than just a slap, if anyone did something like that to my dogs their ass is ending up in the ground. 9 years old is more than old enough for her to understand what she's doing, that evil little demon is a total sociopath. OP is not the jerk, the only thing they did wrong was not beating the absolute shit out of Stacy.
Story 1: they really ought to 20:44 put that girl in that same airtight container for an hour or so and see how ahe likes it! She has to be suffering from either psychopathy or sociopathy if she premeditated this whole thing for easily a year. Final story: that girl wanted the smoke but she wasn't prepared for it. Maybe you should learn her lesson and shape up.
i said this on the Op's post too NTA- If she tries to kill a dog at such a young age ,she could be a possible huge danger when she becomes a teenager and adult .most serial killers start with animals. And that the family chooses the child's side is very gross ,they are enabling her behaviour that is very wrong.
Story 1 - 🤬 That is absolutely full grounds to punch the kid directly in the face as hard as you want. Story 5 - Absolutely the AH. Your son wouldn't be in the wrong if he chooses to cut you off entirely. Story 6 - 😮😅I like your daughter. Very good for your daughter, she did nothing wrong. More stupid bullies like that Need to be knocked back down a few pegs.
About the one where the father left the wedding early I’d avoid a gathering that large too, unless they allowed me to keep something on like headphones in order drown out the noise, and even then I’d still be uncomfortable, because I can’t socialize about what I like, and even then, during a wedding, I’ll still try to avoid socializing as much as I can, cuz I’m a person who tends to like things other people aren’t into as much (video games being one of them) TL:DR *SOME OF US AREN’T SOCIAL, MAN* I legitimately felt like I wanted to punch you in the face when you called a man selfish for *NOT WANTING TO BE AROUND A HUNDRED AND FIFTY PEOPLE* *they are not the jerk, be more considerate of less-than-social people damnit*
For the wedding story - I personally do not think the OP was the jerk until the daughter-in-law stuff happened. As an introvert I know how it feels to feel very uncomfortable in public situations for a long time. And just being on my phone in a corner doesn’t help me. But then the way that the OP handled their daughter-in-law, was extremely inappropriate, and makes them the jerk in that part. Instead of yelling at the daughter-in-law and being a jerk, they could’ve explained their issues with social environments and could’ve been much more peaceful. (Just my opinion though 🤷♀️)
I don't make many comments telling how I disagree with something a poster said, But with that dad who left the son's wedding early, I do actually believe that he is justified. He let his son know beforehand and his son didn't seem to mind at all, He also told us beforehand that he has a low social battery, so He needs to recharge more frequently. As an introvert myself who absolutely hates huge gatherings, I'm floored by your response. Are you telling me that introverts don't have the right to recharge? His dad literally let him know beforehand, presumably asking if it was okay if he could leave early or not. His son is the asshole here because he was not truthful when he said he didn't mind. OPs son is an adult and should be able to communicate how he feels to his parents. Even if I was an extrovert, My dad is an introvert, And if I invited him to my [hypothetical] really large wedding, He would most likely tell me the same thing that op told his son. And I would be okay with that. Because I know that my dad has such a small social battery. I really think you should rethink your response on that...
story 1: okay what the fuck, there's no WAY stacey had no clue what an airtight box was, she's a straight-a student, for crying out loud. if i was op, i would've done worse, not a dog person but that's just horrendous to do to any living creature. how would she like it if she was trapped in an airtight container and left in the basement? the parents sound absolutely terrible too, like they're blocking op over their daughter's behavior? nah, stacey has to be put on some kinda medication or therapy or she's gonna turn out to be a fucking serial killer. all op did was protect her dog and teach stacey some discipline, which mom and dad clearly never did to their 'sWeEt LiTtlE aNgEl'
When it comes to the story with the dog..... maby I am also a psychopath but I would have punched the girl full force and to clarify I am a 20 years 1.90m (6,2 feet) man who is on the heavy side and I to classic boxing since I was 14..... soo this would be in the best case scenario for her a concussion....
Story 5: OP is NOT the jerk. There are people out there that don't feel comfortable or safe in large gatherings, wither they know the people at the gatherings or not. Plus OP told his son that he was going to leave early after the ceremony and the son had no problem with that. It sounds like the wife had a problem with it and got the son to turn on his father. And it shouldn't matter who's event/special day you’re attending. No one should be foreced to go/stay somewhere with a large group of people if that makes them feel uncomfortable/unsafe
Story 1: Yes but with Good reason. However she isn't your kid. You should have confronted sistsd in law about her brat. You are AHole for hitting a child thats not your own but the brat fully deserved it. And her parents are raising her to be a psycho. Fiance needs to get his family to see that and tell them its that brat or him and force the familynto get brat help. Next year Brat can have a Bag of Heather's Dog Poop for Christmas. I think you were a justified AHole here.
Story 5: i don't think the OP is a jerk at all since he already informed he would leave early and it seems the son did show no disagreement with his decision! I mean his son didn't tried to explain him to stay dad common its my wedding you can't do that! But instead he says atleast wait for the cake and food then go. So this explains that the son probably didn't cared about dad being around him either untill he realised he needed him when he had already left! On top of that, the son's wife straight on berates him and insults him instead of just asking out first that why did he not stay? It was ur son's wedding! No, she instead had an outburst so definitely she has a temper issue and both of them were definitely not raised well...!!!
I dont ciment on this kind of video but story 1 made my blod boil. Only a slap? Its to little if some one would hurt my cat or try to off him id do more than that. Lets just say flyng shoes dishes objects would be includet. You understand what you want from here.
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To the narrator of the video about the second to last story: Dude? The OP just said that he isn’t very sociable with a group of people and that is no reason for you to go off on him for wanting to leave. If I wasn’t sociable like the OP, I’d definitely do the same. So I’m on the OP’s side!
Get your head out of your @$$, Dumb@$$.
The father of the groom OP clearly has a mild form of social anxiety disorder. I would be on your side if the OP left during the wedding ceremony, but no, he left during the RECEPTION, as in the main event was DONE. He was clearly uncomfortable with the situation as a whole but he was able to tough it out until the ceremony ended. You need to start considering the view of the person who is uncomfortable with being in situations like that. What’s even more is that the OP kept his son informed that he would leave early AND that he TOLD his son that he was leaving. Where in that situation is the OP not showing consideration for his son? He didn’t interrupt ceremony, he didn’t yell out to everyone else and inform them that he was leaving, and he didn’t make a scene. He only told his son and the mother decided to go with him, that’s actually being very considerate given that he was uncomfortable with the situation in the first place and the mother decided to go so she wouldn’t have to drive alone.
@@themysteriousoa4466 that’s what i was thinking. My Grandpa would literally sneak out of parties or just stay in the bathroom and read, and I know that I’m not a big fan of parties either, so i completely understand OP and the fact that the son said he was fine with OP leaving
@Jeffhogleberg_45 why couldn't he just suck it up for his kid though? I hate being around people, especially crowds, but if it's for someone I care for I'll suck it up.
I fear for the Kid in the first story: The fact that that the Family of the OP’s fiancée antagonized the OP instead of confronting the kid tells me that not only is she going to grow up thinking it’s ok to hurt people, but also grow up thinking that she can abuse her innocents by antagonizing anyone that confronts her.
If I were OP in story 1, I would have simply put the little girl in an air tight container.
A doll verses my living dog?? That whole family is insane and they are definitely raising a future serial killer, just wait until mommy messes up and let's see what happens
mommy is not gonna afford what shew wants one day, and that girl is gonna do something DRASTIC, or when one of her family menbers that oh so defended her sets up a boundering maybe their pets are gonna be the one's getting ended
@@cototototorra7106The behavior that kid displayed is a sign of her potentially becoming physical towards the parents or other family members' kids in the future imo.
@@JewelWildmoon yeah, they will crawl back one by one to OP until only the mother is left alone with her demon
Story 6: the nice comeback is saying "at least my family want's me"
Story 1..Maybe not slap a kid specifically in the face ....... if the dog was as important as OP says.. then they should have kept a better eye on the dog while around so many people.
Story 2.. the gf is stupid... just leave her.. after that many issues and she she still doesnt get it.. .. its not worth staying with that bs
story 5, you are wrong for the reason that he told them early + the son said NOTHING about it before the wedding or during + the son never told em he was upset after the wedding + it isnt the guy just being a bit tierd or a bit uncomfortable no he is very uncomfortable at big social gatherings such as this one + HE ATLEAST SHOWED UP
I think slapping a child as punishment is bad up to an limit. Trying to un-alive something a slap is NEEDED and the family should have heard the entire story until they make judgments on who to side with. Definitely not the jerk.
Nah nah I would've Anakin skywalker'd that bitch screw that an eye for an eye
For legal reasons this statement is a joke
@@fire-squid5694 no it’s not an joke
@@Aceshigh451 I meant my previous comment haha, sorry if I didn't make that obvious :')
I would have slapped really hard so she can remember for the rest of her life.
Did... did I just hear that a grown ass woman peed on the floor because she didn't like the smaller bathroom? No wonder her parents wanted her out.
Reminds me of a former friend who peed in the *indoor* stairwell of a coffee house/bakery, right outside the bathroom, while the rest of us were in line to use it. There was a long line because there was an open air music festival outside, and each of us had purchased an item out of respect/to compensate the business for using the bathroom. Said friend could've gone out and found an alley or something if it was that urgent. Everyone in our party (particularly his girlfriend) was so confounded, disturbed, and embarrassed, while he acted like nothing had happened. I apologized to everyone in line on his behalf, dropped $100 on the counter for the business' cleaning trouble, and left without any of the girls in our party actually getting to use the bathroom, the whole point of being there. I never initiated contact with this guy again after that, counseled his girl to dump him (he later dumped her in an extraordinary cruel way), and avoided him in social settings, because clearly we were not operating from a shared moral sense or set of values.
Not psychopath, sociopath. She KNEW what she was doing was wrong. She just didn’t care and wanted revenge at the expense of a living being’s existence. THAT sociopathic behavior.
I agree with you
look up antisocial personality and conduct disorder. abusing animals is psychopathic behavior. the term sociopath is not in clinical use nowadays. you need remediation in your intro to psych content.
Psychopath means without empathy in law. A sociopath is a self obsessed jerk. That child, however, is probably both.
But killing animals is a psychopath behavior.
Future serial killer
Story 5- Not gonna lie, the dad isn’t the jerk. If people aren’t socially comfortable (like me) or just doesn’t really want to see the in-laws, it is their choice. I can see that the dad leaving the sons wedding isn’t really nice for the son as his parents isn’t there for the rest of his happy day, but at the end of the day the OP’s wife wanted to go home with him as she didn’t feel comfortable coming home with everyone else. Everyone just wants to be physically, mentally and emotionally safe. It was probably the sons wife or family members that turned the son on his dad to make him feel bad for leaving his son’s wedding.
Yeah a lot of dudes are P whipped like that nowadays you know the whole happy wife happy life being you know
I agree, I don't see how he's the jerk when no one asked him to stay. The son never made it known how much he wanted the OP there. If the son had, the OP probably would be.
@@AnimeGamer501st That's a very misogynistic comment, dude. In the story, it's OP who wanted to leave early because he was uncomfortable. His wife left with him because she didn't feel comfortable driving by herself in the dark.
All I need to say is agreed, you shouldn't put someone down for their discomfort in a situation.
I don't like the narrator berated OP for the EXACT SAME THING as the in-law and son, it's STUPID.
I'm not that bad socially, but I'm more of the type of person who'd stay just long enough to be there, maybe feature in a few pictures, then leave after showing them some final extra support.
I honestly wouldn't go to these things unless I had a solid reason.
Story 1 is deeply concerning. Obviously I don't see the OP as the a-hole in this case, since trying to end an animal like that would likely elicit a similar response from me. But the bigger issue is the kid in question.
Unless she gets proper treatment, that is a HUGE red flag for what she may develop into later in life. She derived joy from seeing suffering of an animal with the intent to end it. She knew what she was doing the ENTIRE TIME and enjoyed her actions.
That girl needs therapy yesterday, or else they may grow up to be a genuine monster.
If she does that for getting the "wrong" present imagine what she could end up doing to someone who actually wrongs her. She is an actual hazard to society at only 9.
If that kid was willing enough to take out a dog, that means that she would be more than willing enough to take out a person, and that's concerning unless she gets help ASAP.
Story number 1 the OP needed to have the child charged with animal cruelty.
Story number 2 the OP needs to break up with his girlfriend immediately because that problem is only gonna get worse and she’s going to break even more expensive stuff.
2: Wife
@@gtdc4685 .... is that your biggest problem???? ... ok.
The best comeback an adopted kid can throw is "at least I have proof my parents wanted me."
Damnnnn, that's a good one. I'm never good with comebacks until after the fact. Which is highly annoying.
Other than the spitting, Libra took all the right actions. I'm also adopted and I feel for her and Leo. When I was a kid and someone did similar to me, I replied, "Your mum /had/ you, while my mum /chose/ me. Who do you think has more love now?" (I was a bit of a brat about it when I was younger, before I lost my dad.)
Yeah if she tried to kill your dog, you had every right to slap her.
The first story: OP is so NOT the butthole. That child is a sociopath in the making. The fact that she was completely unrepentant, laughed about it and declared she was just having “fun” shows how completely unhinged this child is. Clearly, she has not been taught boundaries, that the word no is a completely valid response or any sense of accountability. Therefore, she has no fear of reprisals or consequences for her actions. With the whole family rallying behind her, it's of no surprise whatsoever that, at nearly ten, she's abusing animals. Which, if you didn't know, is how many serial killers started out. Anybody who defends her saying she's just a kid, that she was just playing or that OP is too sensitive or the little brat didn't know what she was doing, they're gaslighting her. The kid needs counseling. If they don't get her help post haste, they’re enabling her, and, in effect raising a monster. They're going to wish they were firmer with her when she ends up in juvenile hall or jail or prison.
I think a verbal reprimandum she could shrug off and forget, but she will remember her first slap in the face for the rest of her life.
@@kamion53 A verbal reprimand when she tried to harm an animal and was totally unrepentant about it? I don't think so. Obviously this type of behavior has been enabled and overlooked by her parents not to mention the rest of the family. Something tells me she's never gotten anything even remotely resembling a disciplinary glare or being forced to stand in the corner. A nine-year-old should at least have a sense of empathy. Retaliating for not getting a gift from someone by harming and trying to kill that person's pet? That's definitely not normal behavior for a child.
Psychopath more likely
@@luisbarboza2042 regardless, the fact that she was ready to kill an animal to get back at its owner for not getting her the present she thought she was entitled to is not normal child behavior. I can only imagine how many warning signs there were that her parents ignored, pushed aside and swept under the rug because their daughter is “perfect.”
The kid shouldn't not be protected for this. And maybe she should visit some doctors if she knowed what she doing.
A 9yo tries to *intentionally* hurt a dog? If I were in OP's shoes, that "family" would be looking at kidsized coffins at the end of the night. Oh, and hurting animals is a telltale sign of a potential serial criminal. There are a *lot* of serial unaliverers who began their "passion of pain" by hurting/unaliving animals. So I h´would love to hear Stacys family justifying her actions when she's in court for murder and other heinous crimes.
A lot of children unfortunately have... an underdeveloped sense of empathy. Children can be incredibly psychopathic in their behaviour.
I'd know, I used to be pretty evil as a kid in a similar manner. Nowadays as an adult, I would find these things abhorrent and I can't even hurt a stray rat.
If that was my dog that kid would either be picking up some teeth or be knocked out! Yes, she clearly needs help and I hope she gets it before it's too late. That being said, she also needs to learn that in life, actions have consequences.
@@rheokalyke367wow, I've been an empathetic child then. I can't hurt a mouse in my house(intentionally).
@@IMADINOSAURNOTABIRDyeah same. And if I accidentily stepped on a mouse I'd be so upset at myself for hurting the poor thing
At a previous job I saw someone from what I think was pest control come in pull back a curtain and pull out a strip of sticky tap with all living mice out of what is guess was an inhumane mouse trap the poor move were flailing around stuck to the tape it had me in tears and sick to my stomach but v the guy just casually tossed the sticky strip and flailing mice into the trash. I had to go take a few minutes to calm down and that horrid scene had never left me. I can't bring myself to use any but live catch and release traps so unwanted guests are removed maybe spooked but unhurt
Oh, Stacy would have been "such a good child" and an "Angel".
For the first story: Two words: Future Serial Killer, oops, three words.
Story 1 - NAH. Further to all the other comments, OP checked on the dog after an hour or more but the adults didn't notice their kid was missing that whole time? Seems like her parents didn't want to admit they f'd up.
Story 1: No the op is definitely not the jerk. If i had this freak of a child try to do that to my dog i would slap her as well and probably knock her out. She is a monster for doing that and to think she did that all over some stupid doll is honestly embarrassing. But bigger than that the sister-in-law and brother-in-law and basically everyone who takes Stacy's side is messed up . I would cut ties immediately and maybe put stacy in a psych ward
Wedding one , sorry but the guy isn’t necessarily the jerk , I also hate social gatherings and I completely understand not wanting to be in the large crowd ect , however , maybe would of gone about leaving early in a better way than the way op did it
But he apparently does this all the time.
I have autism and anxiety. I've been to big events that made me have breakdowns afterwards. Do you know why? Because I love the people I do that for.
I may not be a parent, but I raised my younger sister and have custody of her. She called me mom. I try to make it to every occasion she invites me to. She knows that I have a problem with crowds and that I'll step away to get a breather. I've sat at a table full of food I could not eat so I could attend events.
Op and his wife didn't even stay for pictures. He told his son that they'd leave during the reception, not before it. The son probably thought he'd at least get to have pictures of his family on this important day. The way OP wrote it, it seems he would have stayed if the food was something he preferred.
Is not like his son is getting married every week. Couldn't he suck it up just this time and be there for him? OP does sounds selfish.
@@LuisDiaz-wv4xr I get that and yes maybe he should of made a bit of an effort to stay longer but , social anxiety is a thing , but since that’s not mentioned here I do feel like the op just couldn’t be bothered being there , in that case he’s the jerk but if it’s due to social anxiety ect then not so much ect
He shouldnt have gone to the wedding at all. Weddings are a waste of time.
OP1: Budding serial killer. Anyone who sides with her is deluded. I wonder who and what else she's hurt.
I can imagine one day when Stacy kills someone, the family will help hide the body or even use the OP at the scapegoat to protect their "golden child".
The first story, the slap should have been painful. secondly, OP should have reported the girl to the SPCA and to Family services.
#1: slapped WEAKLY? Dang slap her so hard that her head turns 360° for trying to kiII a dog
I would've done the same thing, only twice the impact. And that family is absolutely toxic siding with their "perfect" daughter.
how often are those "perfect" daughters or sons not the biggest bullies, that never get corrected by their parents.
Closed fist.
Story 1 is extremely concerning. The fact the family is defending her lays a foundation of how this girl is going to grow up.
And it isnt good.
Most serial killers have had the ssme history or killing small animals. The fact the child is ten and doing this makes it even scarier.
She needs help. I hope the parents put a stop to this otherwise....
Well I rather not put it here, but you can figure it out.
STORY 5: Some people just do not have a great social battery and cant be around many people. Not the jerk. The narrator is a complete jerk for how he is talking about the OP for thinking about their own mental health. OP stepped out of their comfort space and went to the ceremony AND attended the reception, that is a lot for some people. OP even told their son that they wouldn't stay long and even said their good-byes and didn't sneak off. The OP handled this the best way possible.
Agree. I don't have any problem socializing in big events with many people but I can't stay at that event for too long or I would be nauseous so I always leave early.
Agree if my dad wanted to leave my wedding early I'd be "like ya sure let me just snap this photo of us box ya any food ya want to take home and love ya dad message me when ya get home so I know ya made it" like dude my dad spent his hole life taking care of me who the hell cares if he's gone early he was still there took the time not to mention the gas money to come if he wants to leave early I say the gas money he used alone proved his love for me and my day
100% agreed. As someone with social anxiety, it can be debilitating when it gets bad. OP verbally declared his boundaries and limits, knew when he needed to see to his mental health, and took care of himself. I understand the son/groom being disappointed that his parents left, but the dude grew up with his dad; if he didn't recognize his dad's anxiety with social situations at this point, he's completely missed the mark. That said, the son wasn't the AH until he reamed his dad over the phone.
The narrator sucks
I agree. They also told their son waaaay before the wedding as well
*Story 1:* OMG! *Stacy* is worse than twisted. Why would anyone want to kill someone's beloved dog? So she didn't get the doll she wanted last Christmas? So what? I fail to see how that justifies killing her beloved pet. OP's not the jerk, Stacy is. OP was right to bitchslap Stacy.
The rest of the family is also got something wrong w/ them if they side w/ the psycho kid and knew why she did it
Hell no I grabbed my niece when she threw my cat out the window I so wanted to beat her for that WHY MY CAT WHEN HE WASN'T DOING ANYTHING
Both parties suck, you don't hit a child, if it's not yours especially. You bring them to their parents and ask that family to leave.
Wasn't a bslap it wasn't hard I'll bend her over my knee and have my dog bit her ass jk not that far but you get the point
I would have probably done worse than hit her that child needed a dose of reality
For the wedding one, im actually with the dad, he's NTA. It's not a lack of love, he has warned them in advance
I have severe sensory issues, such a large party would be very painful, I would most definitely, step outside frequently, leave early, or just not go as it would be extremly draining just to maintain my composure, let alone stand.
It is not out of the question that the father in story 4 would have similar issues, making parties and large gatherings feel equivilent to a physical beating.
i really don't get why the narrator gets so mad about the wedding story. op left calmly because he doesn't feel well in crowds and calmly informed the couple. was he supposed to make a scene? is it because of the leftovers? i am very confused. did narrator forget he read the op was at the wedding but not the party afterwards?
Idk really is confusing
Narrator doesn’t seem to understand social anxiety and prefers to judge
@@angelaschultze2404 yup, I can't stand this narrator at times, he just goes off people who aren't the jerk because he feels like it.
How would OP be the jerk in Story 5? He told his son that he was not going to stay and he was fine with it! How does one person forgetting something make someone else a jerk because of that?
Yeah, and the narrator being a jerk too. Story 5 Op admits being a downer, he rather go home instead of staying and ruining everybody else's good time at the wedding.
@@NormanMedina-lg1vshow is the narrator the jerk he tells stories
Story #1 - I would be instantly cutting ties with everyone in my family after they blocked me, because it seems they're only interested in believing what that brat says even when it was revealed what she did and why she did it. They're gonna have to eat a slice of humble pie before the OP forgives them.
Story 1. That child WILL end up harming people.
ps. That child reminded me of an episode of Angel. Team thought the child did nasty things due to being possessed - turned out he just did things for the sake of it (even the trapped possessing demon was scared of that child), climax of the episode he tried to burn his sister alive because she had more marshmallows in her hot chocolate.
DAMN. You know it's bad when even the demon that possessed them is afraid.
story 1: That child is displaying legit psychopathic behavior. There needs to be a hell of a lot more than just slapping being done.
For story 1, if anyone tried to harm my fur-baby, I would've slugged them. Regardless of age.
I'd have drug her downstairs and beat the brakes off the parents
And if anyone has a problem with it, I'd slap the parents instead cuz it sounds like they're encouraging the behavior.
@@JewelWildmoon Yeah, bad behavior needs to learn the hard way of why it should never be encouraged
@@DarkBlades9001one word gun
If she had to go that bad, she should have used the other bathroom and she needs to clean up the mess
I'd just pre-package my response to her lying about it. Just belt out
"You dumb broad, YOU PISSED ON THE FLOOR"
story 2: I want to tell you, that when I was in school, I had a teacher who did that, She was a terrible person, So when it was revenge time we put some thumb-tacks on her chair, and when she sat down she screamed in pain. She spent the next few hours having the school nurse picking out the tacks out of her fat ass
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The last story: good on Libra for standing up for herself. If she hadn't figured that out now, she would have been a doormat for much of, if not, her whole life.
I only wish I hadn't been a people-pleaser or the wallflower that I was in my preteen and formative years. Even my own family picked on me claiming they were just kidding, that I needed to grow up, be the bigger person and learn how to take a joke. I later learned that what they were doing was called the devaluation. It's where the abuser gaslights the victim into believing that they are in fact overreacting and should be ashamed of their emotions. Perhaps I would have had better self-esteem. So, to OP: no, your daughter is not the butthole. She's a wildcat and will fight for those she loves. Good for her.
The only thing I would advice OP on in this story is to talk to Libra about not escalating a situation and all I men by that is the spitting. Up to that point it was verbal, spitting on her intentionally would be escalating it to physical.
Next time it might be a toddler shut in an airtight bin!! That girl is dangerous!!!
Those who blocked you, sided with Stacy, they aren't your family. They aren't people who want in your life.
Kid: haha I tried killing a dog!
OP: "slaps the kid"
The entire family: HOW DARE YOU SLAP HER!?
Me: EXCUSE ME?! She tried to KILL a PET!
Story #5: You have my sympathy. I suffer from Autism and it makes social interaction extremely difficult, to the point where I wear headphones pretty much 24/7 to avoid social interaction. If your situation is similar to mine, you're not the jerk.
However, if you just have a minor dislike of interacting with people, but can speak coherently to people if necessary, then you are very much the jerk.
i feel like op should have a talk with his son.
OP did talk to his son. Social anxiety can control your life.
@@melissavarner7576 not like that like after things are cooled down, the son an his father will have a talk about why op didn't attend to the wedding party and he has to stay at home
even without autism being in a large crowd of people can make people feel very uncomfortable and if the son doesn't understand that everyone else's feelings also matter even though it is his big day then he kind of deserves a reality check
I don't have autism however I have limits when it comes to social events or a place with many people. If I reach the limit I start to feel nauseous and have bad anxiety.
Sit story: worst cast? No no no. What if you had a small pet or a baby? And she sat on them? Damn, her situational awareness is lower than mine.
Omg it never crossed my mind that she would full on sit an animal or a baby without looking. That habit I honestly think would send her ass straight to jail.
Can’t wait to see when she kills a closer family member animal and see if the rest of the family still sides with her
Number 3 you’re not the jerk, she literally could have used the other bathroom. In protest she peed on the floor, like a dog trying to mark its territory… just no, she’s a human, she knows that’s not okay. And she just wanted to make you feel bad
Story 1 CUT CONTACT WITH THAT SIDE forever and let the family deal with the repercussions
If the child in story 1 has any younger siblings in the future, she WILL smother them for one reason or another, and the parents will be the only ones to blame.
It's amazing that the police & Cps werent called. They're trying to make it seem like the kid wasn't doing anything but the brat was full on trying to kill ops pet. That kids gonna end up as the next famous serial killer or at best, in a mental asylum
First person def shouldve called John Wick.
First story. I would have dragged Stacey up the stairs, keeping a tight grip on her arm and told her parents what had happened. Or I'd have slapped her harder then told parents to take the deranged child out of my house and no Christmas or birthday presents again. I'm sorry but no one, not even a child, does that to my family... And yes I will say family.
Good person.
I would’ve done the exact same thing
Read story 1 on the sub. Demon child indeed
Found the post of the 1st story and OP replied to a couple people saying she is scared of confrontation because of some things that happened in her childhood, so when she does go to tell the parents of Stacy after the situation what happened, she was too late and the parents are still mad at her, even with OP saying she will pay for a therapist. Stacy's parents are raising a serial killer in the making, and NEED to deal with this instead of babying an intelligent 9 yr old 😬
Story 1: I know this is extreme, but I honestly say have that kid experience something that scares her straight if she has SOME sense of morality. I legit could have been a potential psychopath myself, but I was scared greatly by almost being ripped away into CPS by a teacher friend of my mom. While it happened as I was also a pathological liar as a kid then, this experience was frightening and made me embrace my morality completely while stopping the habit of lying.
Also instilled the belief that sometimes, you might need to taste the poison yourself to understand it.
Story 1: I wouldn’t blame OP for putting Stacey in a box…then filling it with cement, padlocking it shut, and dumping it into the water…just like my Great Uncle Alphonse did to his enemies. **eats walnuts**
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He what 😂
@@JewelWildmoon (Dick Tracy reference)
Story 1 OP is not the jerk however OP you need to contact CPS and alert them about Stacey's behaviour
Everyone knows that killing animals is the first sign of a serial killer.
The wedding story. The op is only the jerk for forcing his wife to leave. We don't know what kind of issues they are suffering. In normal circumstances, yes, staying the whole wedding would be expected, but I suspect he may have issues with large crowds or being out of his house. Doesn't make him a jerk, makes him need some help. Jumping down his throat like you did is the wrong approach and makes you the jerk. Something that seems to be happening more often recently.
op didn't force his wife to go with him, he said that she can come with him, he didn't leave during the wedding he left after the wedding and didn't stay for the ceremony
He didn’t force her to leave him and his family brought TWO cars because op was leaving early after watching his son get married.
@viviennemorgan7217 he left after the ceremony and didn't stay for the dinner. You didn't listen to it. And his wife absolutely felt forced to leave as she didn't know the area and didn't want to drive by herself home. He put her in a position of "come home now and be comfortable or stay and be stressed going home."
Unless you listened to a different story.
@@AkselJade i did listen to it and I know that op left after the wedding.
@@AkselJade he asked his wife if she wants to leave with him, he never said all that and force his wife to leave or be stressed out, he said hey you can leave with me he's offering her to come with him.
The scariest characteristics of becoming sociopath is unliving animals. Most murderers were intelligent and acted out their “curiosity”. The fact this idiot family is excusing this behavior is scary.
All the people in the comments are pissing me off cause they’re also acting like the slap is the worst thing, and not the child literally almost ending a creature’s life with no remorse for a selfish reason. I want to be fair and reasonable, but it’s so hard to not want to scream because of people not looking at the bigger picture.
I am inclined to think that expecting your partner to be housebroken is a reasonable expectation.
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The wedding story: OP is not the jerk for leaving the wedding. Sounds like he has social anxiety and a large party can cause a lot of issues for someone like that. I am the same way. Being at a part with a lot of people is completely exhausting to me so I avoid them. My anxiety levels skyrocket, my blood pressure goes up, and I even start dropping things and stumbling. Call me a jerk if you want, but I honestly can't physically handle situations like that for more than a few minutes. Thankfully, my daughter understands and I'll be sitting on the side of the room at her wedding next month rather than right in the middle of the crowd.
The wedding story am I the jerk you don’t understand social anxiety and are judging the op
My thoughts exactly.
The wedding story... I have crippling anxiety so I probably would have left to keep from having an anxiety attack. Next... as an adopted child my favorite response to this kind of taunt was "my parents chose me, yours got STUCK with you."
The last story was nice and all, and I'm not doubting a kid standing up to a bully.
What I am skeptical of is the kid actually saying all of that stuff to the bully.
If I was in the shoes of the OP in that first story,I would have locked Stacy in that airtight box for the same amount of time she put that dog in there.
Edit:Yes,I know I would get arrested.
dude you do know that's going to make you get arrested.
~ And I would hope you enjoy your jail cell.
@5jerry1 the evil little shit would deserve to feel the pain and suffering she imposed on an innocent animal.
Nah just put her in an air tight box and say "oh i think she went missing" make it look like she trapped herself in there by accident though so you don't get caught if/when they find the body.
The girl in the first story is definitely going to grow up to be a serial killer. As for the girl in the last story. If she was my daughter I’d take her out to get her favorite food and buy them both a new toy or something they wanted.
That final story holy crap a child said that?
Story 1: Isn't that usually how serial killers start. That start with small helpless animals then move over to humans.
Number 2 you’re not the jerk, she needs to own up to her actions and she needs to learn to be mindful.
If she did that to my 2 and a half year old Shar Pei I would have killed her. YOU DON'T JUST DO THAT TO PEOPLE'S DOGS!
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The spitting on the shoes might have been a little much, but putting a bully in her place is priceless
Stacy deserved far worse than just a slap, if anyone did something like that to my dogs their ass is ending up in the ground. 9 years old is more than old enough for her to understand what she's doing, that evil little demon is a total sociopath. OP is not the jerk, the only thing they did wrong was not beating the absolute shit out of Stacy.
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I don't think a 9 y\o is in any way immature to do such thing for just fun and on top of that she's an A+ student! WTF was wrong with her!?
1st had me nearly crying in rage. if someone tried to kill my dog, id get revenge on them. hes my best friend fr
I say cut off the part of the family that wants to side with that little monster if they want to raise a psychopath go ahead just exclude OP from it.
The brat in the first story is a crazy monster. I hope if the parents have any other kids in future, they don’t ask the brat to babysit.
No you’re not a jerk for a nine year old kid trying to ☠️ your dog it’s been protecting and yes she deserved it Big time
the first story that child needs to be locked up in an mental facility for the rest of her life
Story 1: they really ought to 20:44 put that girl in that same airtight container for an hour or so and see how ahe likes it! She has to be suffering from either psychopathy or sociopathy if she premeditated this whole thing for easily a year.
Final story: that girl wanted the smoke but she wasn't prepared for it. Maybe you should learn her lesson and shape up.
Wanting to unalive someones dog......uh anybody ever watch john wick?
If that little imp tried to kill my beloved dog she'd be getting a pretty harsh spanking.
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i said this on the Op's post too NTA-
If she tries to kill a dog at such a young age ,she could be a possible huge danger when she becomes a teenager and adult .most serial killers start with animals. And that the family chooses the child's side is very gross ,they are enabling her behaviour that is very wrong.
she already is an huge danger
giggling and said duh?! I would have put her in an air tight box and sat on it.
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Story number one that stacy needs to be eent to a mental hospital
Story 1 - 🤬 That is absolutely full grounds to punch the kid directly in the face as hard as you want.
Story 5 - Absolutely the AH. Your son wouldn't be in the wrong if he chooses to cut you off entirely.
Story 6 - 😮😅I like your daughter. Very good for your daughter, she did nothing wrong. More stupid bullies like that Need to be knocked back down a few pegs.
Bye bye front teeth 😂
I wod put that dumb girl in a box am ask is it stil fun
About the one where the father left the wedding early
I’d avoid a gathering that large too, unless they allowed me to keep something on like headphones in order drown out the noise, and even then I’d still be uncomfortable, because I can’t socialize about what I like, and even then, during a wedding, I’ll still try to avoid socializing as much as I can, cuz I’m a person who tends to like things other people aren’t into as much (video games being one of them)
TL:DR *SOME OF US AREN’T SOCIAL, MAN*
I legitimately felt like I wanted to punch you in the face when you called a man selfish for *NOT WANTING TO BE AROUND A HUNDRED AND FIFTY PEOPLE*
*they are not the jerk, be more considerate of less-than-social people damnit*
Stacy would not make it out of that basement
For the wedding story - I personally do not think the OP was the jerk until the daughter-in-law stuff happened. As an introvert I know how it feels to feel very uncomfortable in public situations for a long time. And just being on my phone in a corner doesn’t help me. But then the way that the OP handled their daughter-in-law, was extremely inappropriate, and makes them the jerk in that part. Instead of yelling at the daughter-in-law and being a jerk, they could’ve explained their issues with social environments and could’ve been much more peaceful.
(Just my opinion though 🤷♀️)
As someone who’s also adopted, I can confirm JULIA is the ONLY jerk in the last story!
Love watching ur videos!
I don't make many comments telling how I disagree with something a poster said, But with that dad who left the son's wedding early, I do actually believe that he is justified.
He let his son know beforehand and his son didn't seem to mind at all, He also told us beforehand that he has a low social battery, so He needs to recharge more frequently.
As an introvert myself who absolutely hates huge gatherings, I'm floored by your response. Are you telling me that introverts don't have the right to recharge?
His dad literally let him know beforehand, presumably asking if it was okay if he could leave early or not. His son is the asshole here because he was not truthful when he said he didn't mind.
OPs son is an adult and should be able to communicate how he feels to his parents.
Even if I was an extrovert, My dad is an introvert, And if I invited him to my [hypothetical] really large wedding, He would most likely tell me the same thing that op told his son. And I would be okay with that. Because I know that my dad has such a small social battery.
I really think you should rethink your response on that...
story 1: okay what the fuck, there's no WAY stacey had no clue what an airtight box was, she's a straight-a student, for crying out loud. if i was op, i would've done worse, not a dog person but that's just horrendous to do to any living creature. how would she like it if she was trapped in an airtight container and left in the basement? the parents sound absolutely terrible too, like they're blocking op over their daughter's behavior? nah, stacey has to be put on some kinda medication or therapy or she's gonna turn out to be a fucking serial killer. all op did was protect her dog and teach stacey some discipline, which mom and dad clearly never did to their 'sWeEt LiTtlE aNgEl'
When it comes to the story with the dog..... maby I am also a psychopath but I would have punched the girl full force and to clarify I am a 20 years 1.90m (6,2 feet) man who is on the heavy side and I to classic boxing since I was 14..... soo this would be in the best case scenario for her a concussion....
Story 5: OP is NOT the jerk. There are people out there that don't feel comfortable or safe in large gatherings, wither they know the people at the gatherings or not. Plus OP told his son that he was going to leave early after the ceremony and the son had no problem with that. It sounds like the wife had a problem with it and got the son to turn on his father. And it shouldn't matter who's event/special day you’re attending. No one should be foreced to go/stay somewhere with a large group of people if that makes them feel uncomfortable/unsafe
Story 1: Yes but with Good reason. However she isn't your kid. You should have confronted sistsd in law about her brat. You are AHole for hitting a child thats not your own but the brat fully deserved it. And her parents are raising her to be a psycho. Fiance needs to get his family to see that and tell them its that brat or him and force the familynto get brat help. Next year Brat can have a Bag of Heather's Dog Poop for Christmas. I think you were a justified AHole here.
Fact pertaining to Story 1: Animal torture was actually recorded in 21% of serial killers, 45% of school shooters, and 25% of aggressive inmates...
Story 5: i don't think the OP is a jerk at all since he already informed he would leave early and it seems the son did show no disagreement with his decision! I mean his son didn't tried to explain him to stay dad common its my wedding you can't do that! But instead he says atleast wait for the cake and food then go. So this explains that the son probably didn't cared about dad being around him either untill he realised he needed him when he had already left! On top of that, the son's wife straight on berates him and insults him instead of just asking out first that why did he not stay? It was ur son's wedding! No, she instead had an outburst so definitely she has a temper issue and both of them were definitely not raised well...!!!
I dont ciment on this kind of video but story 1 made my blod boil.
Only a slap?
Its to little if some one would hurt my cat or try to off him id do more than that.
Lets just say flyng shoes dishes objects would be includet.
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