How to Narrate Your Life Story
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 มิ.ย. 2017
- The difference between despair and hope often boils down to different ways of telling stories from the same set of facts. Some of the art of living means learning how to tell the story of our lives back to ourselves.
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“At moments of sorrow and exhaustion, it is only too easy to look back over the years and feel that our lives have, in essence, been meaningless. We take stock of just how much has gone wrong: how many errors there have been; how many unfulfilled plans and frustrated dreams we’ve had...”
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"No one ever gets anywhere important in one go. We have to be able to forgive ourselves for our first drafts." Holy cow this quote is relevant to me. My favorite video from you guys in a while. Please keep up the good work!
I agree !
when a TH-cam channel shapes your thoughts more than your parents
Nishit Dua whole team of professionals behind the scene. read their bio on their website
Nishit Dua probably not your parents probably influence more than you would first think.
Fairy Khamari true dude True but sad
Semper Reformanda lol
Nishit Dua Truth😷
This video caught me off guard and has left me speechless. In the good way.
Every video that you guys make is a confort to me. I love to know that i'm not the only one who thinks and questions the very basic human condition, the little feellings in our daily routine. Thank you guys from Brazil!
Destructor EFX I love this channel too idk why but some people call it a cult lol
This video is beautiful. Rejection and failure are hard to accept, but when you do accept it as part of life, you see it as something beautiful. A journey of battles to reach victory, not a journey of despair.
Forget me narrating my life story, I want Morgan Freeman to do it
Devon Lowe I'd prefer Sir David Attenborough.
y'all sucks there's no other best narrator than Alain himself
I'd rather have wayne june narrate it.
or David Attenborough
+Adi ya..
I defy anyone to find a more soothing, wise & meaning-packed 5 minutes on TH-cam. You have my deep thanks.❤
My life is based on a true story
jack amiegbe and you're played by Brendan Fraser
Mine too, I just strive not to be played by Nicolas Cage.
i strive to be played by Nicolas Cage
I am Nicholas Cage
Good. Be honest with yourself, even if it makes you miserable. It's your only hope of avoiding future misery.
Hi, Thank you! I really needed this today.I'm sick, needing a kidney transplant and on dialysis,I'm living with my sister and her family for the moment but she's decided to kick me out. So I'm having to go to the government welfare office this morning to apply for help.
I was our Mother's caregiver for twenty five years after she was hit by a drunk driver and permanently disabled. After she passed I got sick and now when I'm the one that needs help,I'm made to feel like an unwanted burden.
People keep telling me it's her problem and not me, but it still hurts to feel so easily discarded. Trying to tell my story to myself in a positive light. Hope it works:/ Thanks.
Michael Pesavento I wish you good luck
Michael Pesavento oh my word :( i will pray for you love from south africa
Michael Pesavento 😭😭
Hi Thank you, Do you follow "Steven Jay"? he's from SA and does mostly reaction vid's now. Thanks.
Hi Benjamin, Thank you and good luck to you too.
Did you know your first name means "Child Of Joy"? :) Thanks.
I spent nearly one and a half hour translating your video into my mother tounge- vietnamese as your video was so inspiring and meaningful. Please approve my translation, I put so much hope in it
Tạ Thu Huyền Thank you for your translation
That’s so beautiful 😻 wish I could hear it anyway I don’t speak that language
The only thing I feel like saying, is that the way you talk to yourself makes all the difference. And I'm usually very hard on myself, so I'm not saying it's easy. But once you start doing it, once you start accepting and loving your story, it will get easier and easier.
Femrys Watson we often forget how to be a best friend to our self..
Unfortunately, we do. We look for people to make our lives better, but we need to begin with ourselves...
No one can make our life better, except ourselves. We always look happiness in others, but the true happiness lays in us.
His voice makes me sleepy 😌 I listen every night to fall sleep 😴
I recommend anyone to write their own autobiography, even if you're the only one that reads it. You'll be surprised at the things you remember when you start remembering.
I used hesitate to watch these videos because the truths within them seemed too harsh for me to take anything from. However, I feel finding this channel was one of the best things I discovered on the internet. These videos are so informative and straight forward, but still offers a profound simplicity. Your videos have impacted me just after a couple months of watching these videos! Thank you.
me narrating my life
21yo: Wow I can't wait to become an adult.
22yo: Whoa.
23yo: Ummm...
24yo: Wait.
25yo: Oh God.
26yo: Please make it stop.
Duncan Lycan ha... wait another 10 years. 😅
Duncan Lycan you mean 16: ohh I can't wait to become an adult
30 yo: This is more like it.
40 yo: I will define what I want and get it
50 yo: That's it? Everything I wanted is anticlimactic compared to working for it. What now...stand around with hands in pockets? BORING.
60 yo: See what is precious and value it. Think "How the hell am I 60. I feel pretty much as I did at 21, except I have learned a few things. I worry that mine bones are about to get creaky. If time actually goes this fast, I could be dead in what seems like 10 minutes. Damn."
... ? Damn. ;)
Duncan Lycan this is so me. So true. Smh
Duncan Lycan Well in my country you become an adult at 18.
I failed medchool in Berlin 2 years ago. My entire life fell apart. I had to move back to the city where my parents stay, because my jobs were bound to the condition of me being a medstudent. I am 28 now, have been struggling against suicidal impulses, lost major parts of my humorous, extroverted personality, have become isolated (I have no friends in this city), alone. I struggle everyday to try to get back into another medical school (outside germany), but there are many barriers that end up preventing it (tuition in UK and US, language barriers in other EU countries etc.). I hate my life and don't know what to do. All my life I was the straight A student. Always did my best. In medschool, while others went partying, relaxing or sleeping, I was working in one of my 3 jobs to get through the month, while trying to pass my exams and have a perfect attendance in university. In the end, a heavy depression and burn-out, ruined an important exam. I failed 2 times in a row (didn't attend the first time and failed the remaining two attempts.. always the same way... months of hard studying, just to sit in front of the exam and suddenly having no knowledge to draw upon.. as if the hours of mental torture and discipline neverhappened..). Now the guys that always copied my answers during exams or whom I explained things, who had money and a life, are wearing white coats, treat patients and tell others how hard they worked, while I went above and beyond my limits and lost everything. I want to be a doctor. There is no other profession I can see myself in. I am lost.
Thank you for sharing your story. I had a similar experience in some ways, dropping out of college after burn out. Have you considered becoming a medic?
Honor Wayson Hey it's just a process . I was a bright kid in Med school too but lost my exams in finals . It took me 3 attempts & endless days of isolation & endless nights of depression to fight back .
Just don't give up coz after a few years u will b so proud of urself fr fighting back & treating patients . Never lose hope . Lots of hugs & love ❤️❤️❤️
I hope you will be ok!! Thank you for sharing this. I hope you find a way to enjoy other things in life than work.
Honor Wayson I’m a young medical doctor... with 1 year of practice, I feel so so empty inside. Keep your head up brother.
Sometimes I think what could get me through those years as med student and my early years of practice, what is important is not being a doctor itself, but what can I do for others or for my self if I become a doctor. Being a doctor is not the end result, it is just a mean to do what I like to do. At the end, if everything seems to fail you or me, it is okay for not being a doctor as long as I can do what I like to do. I can be a nurse, therapist, teacher, psychologist, it doesn't matter. So what you like to do if ever you become a doctor? Never too late to quit, never too late to start again. I hope everything goes well now.
shine on you crazy diamond!
Smiling Iam, Shining thru to the other side. Trusting myself, Loving myself. Unleashing the BEST VERSION OF ME...
Remember this guys: "No one gets anywhere important in just one go"
Thank you Alain De Botton. Your voice is so compassionate, and your message so sincere. So happy to live on this time of humanity when we can reach wise people at the other side of the planet by just a simple click. I feel truly lucky
I think this is probably my favorite video from School of Life.
And the music helped to make the video better.
Excellent video. I personally always focus on the negatives in life and beat myself up for mistakes and missed opportunities. When in fact, mistakes are an essential part of learning and improving.
On social media, we tend to only see the good highlights of other peoples lives making us feel less successful and valued. But we all make mistakes. We're only human after all. Have a good day everyone.
KCG - Kodie Collings Gaming so true
practicing self love is tough, and it's a slow process, but it's worth it.
I'm still trying, but it's crazy how far I've come, like I make mistakes now and instead of my brain going directly to self destruct, I'm like it's ok, mistakes happen
I love the style of this video. It makes me feel like I am being read to. It feels like a bedtime picture book for grown ups, where complicated problems are clearly stated and placed within a safely viewed but whole and honest construct. I appreciate these videos and the time I spend with them daily.
So true! Great artwork..
This is so beautiful. Thank you ❤️
Unexpectedly cried watching this. It feels so seen knowing that you have power, you ultimately create meaning in your life. No matter the challenges. Akin to an artist or author that creates a piece of art and shows to the public after many attempts behind the scenes without others knowledge. Whatever reason family, culture, religion, gender, social class, sexual orientation that is independent of your self prescribed identities that make you as an individual you, like your decisions, inner self reflections, etc. As a young person, its so easy to do what is safe, what gains you acceptance from ppl around you. But to be yourself. That honestly takes not just time. It sometimes means messing up. I just turned 27. And something I learned paradoxically is the process and adventure of maturing but most of all unlearning things actually help to be more of who and where you want to be. Some get there quick, others more time.
The results of things we did in our lives got us to where we are today. There is no perfect life. Perfect decision. That is not say take life trivially, but the narrative of one's life value is unique. Its not staight forward and its difficult to know whats the proper decision. That is your judgment and honestly thats terrifying but also amazing. Why? Because with more experience and mishaps you become a more effective and decisive and competent you. Not judging your life based off an ideal stranger's life crafted on social, not your parents, peers, or community. Life is a creative endeavor not a scientific measurement not can a robot replace you as a human being as a whole be better at who you are. Being a better you is all you can create to do, hopefully the product is fun, functional, and sharing and collabing w others is mutually inspirational thru lifes that is layered with struggles and emotions but as well as love
tears rolling..... I felt warmth to read the comments...thank you TSOL... I always smile when I get a notification of a new video.
Beautifully written, narrated, and animated videos that are honest, meaningful, compassionate, and always manage to console and calm. Love this channel
You have no idea how much I needed this today. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Life itself is meaningless, but living is not.
Well said!
Life and living have a meaning, kindness.
@Cliff Hanley I mean that we have to spread kindness everyday in life so therefor life and livings meanings are kindness for me. Kindness, positivity, helpfulness, belief and faith are all the keys to achieve. (I know this by my own experience.) May not be for you though...depends on your destiny and experience.
Well said 🙌
I simply cannot get enough of these inspirational videos. After watching a marathon of these videos, I gained much confidence to believe how my suppressed negative thoughts are definitely worth challenging. This is life changing! Thank you!
This was so relatable, it made me take a step back and revaluate my negative outlook towards my life. This video gave me hope, thank you.
Your videos couldn't be more fantastic. Thank you for so much wisdom. I'm sure you bring peace to many of us who watch them.
I am convinced that the producer of these videos has had compassion instilled in their core being to a depth that is quite remarkable.
Thank you for sharing your compassion, wisdom, and knowledge.
Thank you for making this video on the right time for my life, last night I'm contemplating on why I was keep on being rejected on any job interview, my papers where rejected yesterday as well. I'm thinking on giving up again or just push through this. My perseverance is waning, my prayers are now a shout of plea rather than faith, I know deapair won't lead me to anya good, but I just want to have a peaceful and kind work environment but even that is difficult to find. I'm crying.
This made me tear up a bit...
The feelings couldn't have been more perfectly worded, and the emotions are absolutely real. Thank you so much for making this beautiful video and making me more hopeful about life.
I don't know how you manage to do this at the very exact moment of my life when I need it the most. Thank you school of life you really are an amazing TH-cam channel, you deserve everything.
The School of Life is hands down the best TH-cam channel out there.
It seems almost tailored to my interests.
Keep up the good work guys!
Really appreciate the content you're putting out there.
One of your best videos in a while
Joshua Pimm I second your words
and I third them!
fourth
Your faith has got to be greater than your fear. Your love must be greater than everything. Stay positive, because whether you are alright or not, if you can or cant, you are correct either way. So don't fill your mind and heart with anxiety based on negative expectations, instead do the contrary believe in the higher version of yourself guided through love and understanding towards your existence and life. Luv 2 all.
This video made me tear up a little. It's very crucial to remember we are not our own enemy and treat ourselves kindly. This serves as an educational reminder, as well as shedding light on our outlook of life itself. Thank you.
that is so beautiful...after experiencing the end of a lovely relationship that is exactly what I needed...thank you guys!
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This episode more than any other saved my whole day. No exaggerating. Thank you. Will be playing this every morning til it's memorized.
This is so beautiful, so important, and so relevant. I've never immediately re-watched a video on TH-cam before in my life. And I imagine I'll be coming back to this on a regular basis. Thank you for this beautifully made video-packed full of value but also put together in such a way that feels soothing and healing to watch.
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Thank you so much School of life for always making me feel better in hard times!!
You guys always make such thoughtful and moving videos. I was feeling really depressed and being super hard on myself. Thank you for reminding me of these truths. : ' )
You've given me peace I've never been able to find on my own before. Thank you for your work.
This is probably the sweetest nicest thing I've seen in a long time. Thank you!
I didn't know how much I'd needed to hear these words until now. Thank you so much for what you do, School of Life.
This is probably my favourite school of life video, because it is true, our lifes are stories of overcoming difficulties and failures and stories that dont have big obstacles, self-doubt and rising from the ashes are boring.
this piece is the best one yet. it really warms my heart. thank you so much.
thank you for inspiring me to see my life with being able to have a voice of reason commentating about life and sort of a little description of the way to think of positive ways to change it for the better. it made my windows to my soul wet from rain.
thank you for this. this video now makes me want to smile when I go through humiliating times and say "its okay, im growing"
Thank you, Alain. I really needed that.
i feel like every time im going through something in my life a new video seems to pop up from the school of life talking to me about my problem as if they know me and what im thinking like these videos were made just for me
I gasp in admiration at how true every word is of this...Not a word seems wasted.Such poignancy and truth are rarely to be found....
This video made me tear up...
I love you, TheSchoolOfLife.
probably the most valuable channel on the internet
This is so true, we must learn from our mistakes, some that we control other we can't. We must know that we are all incredible beings. We are masterpieces of the universe.
This gave me so much peace... Thanks School of Life, keep on!
Thank you so much for this video. There are stories in my family that I want to tell including my own. This video helped me think about the low points of life in redemptive ways that I hadn't considered before. My goal is to not only tell the high points but to give a full picture from a POV that sees the best in people, life and the circumstances we tend to encounter. Thank you again. I'll be watching this video several times as a reminder of the kind of mindset I want to cultivate.
Moving. This channel is of the utmost importance. Thank you, School of Life.
This is such a great source of inspiration. thank you for your work , it really does help.
It's almost as if this video was made for me. This is exactly what I'm going through.
in tears. I needed this. thank you.
I started crying in the beginning :(
I must thank you guys for such amazing videos. I have had so much peace in my life, like I tell you I am thriving..
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You guys have no idea how amazing and helpful you are to so many people
Simple and yet wonderful text, sound track, and illustrations. Changed my day, cleared my mind.
it's only morning and this already made my day. thank you so much.
I'm in love with your animations😍
Thank you for spreading the light, please continue.
I love knowing I signify nothing. That we all mean nothing.
It’s deeply comforting as a thought, because if we don’t matter then neither do our failures.
This acceptance and joy at contemplating meaningless fills me with awe at the sheer massive scale of this gorgeous universe. And comfort at the fact that no matter how fucked up we get as a species, we will most likely not fuck up the whole damn universe by ourselves.
"Horrors of a first draft" how beautifully put! I shall remember this line forever.
Ritwik Ghosh yes it resonated with me too ☺️
thank you for these heart felt videos, sharing with friend who need it. Your videos and philosophy are very valuable to me.
This is the most uplifting video I have watched in a long time. Thank you 🙏 so much!
I needed that, thanks School of life
I can't believe this! I was just having a conversation this morning with a young man in his early twenty' s I said to him allway's be aware of your
self awareness and of others as well
There is a lot of underlying currents in one's life not untill you walk a mile in another person's shoes can you begin to evaluate their path of their life.
This was incredibly well done
This video is simply amazing. It touched my heart and my soul. Thank you!
I love The School of Life; they do an amazing job of helping you put things into a perspective you otherwise wouldn't have seen unless pointed out to you. Sometimes you just need to hear someone say out loud the things your subconscious is trying to tell you. I think a lot of people in my generation(Millenials) would benefit from this and other videos on this channel.
Thank you. Great stuff to be reminded of on my birthday. Life could've been better, but could've been worse. I think of my past and what could've been worse. I think of my future and what could be better.
This was much needed! :)
Thanks for everything School of Life!!
One of your best videos. Very well presented. Thank you for this :)
this channel doesn't have any respect on religion and dreams,but it feels good that someone cares about "us"
This lifted me up when I needed it most. Thank you.
Beautiful! Thank you for this nugget of truth and wonderful reminder.
I need this on paper to read when things get out of hand. Love and thank you :)
I really appreciate these videos. Please keep it up you guys are doing an excellent service to the world
i love you Alain !! Thank you for this channel you beautiful human being !!!
Simple, yet powerfully supportive video suggesting that we might consider viewing our lives through 'kinder', less disparaging eyes......
that Tetris part hit me hard
this channel is part of my life. keep posting. keep sharing ❤️
Absolutely brilliant. The best explanation of personal storytelling. Thank you. 👌🏽❤️
I don't usually comment, but this was wonderful and has really helped me process a difficult period in my life. Thank you :)
life can be meaningful even when it involves a lot of failure and humiliation - what a beautiful quote!
Beautiful message, thank you.
I honestly needed this. Thank you.