The Hardest Truth About Family Time: How Many Moments Are Left?

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  • @yvonnejackson1696
    @yvonnejackson1696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You gotta stay in the game. How many times have I heard someone say- I’ve worked hard all my life so now I’m going to rest and take it easy. Next thing I know I’m paying my respects to the family.
    Settle your differences with others because you never know if that’s the last time you’ll speak with them-good one 👍

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Yvonne as always thanks again for watching and leaving a comment here as I do appreciate it. Make sure you have another great day today 👍

    • @larryherbert252
      @larryherbert252 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So very true, we never know when the last time will be

  • @Razdanvinodk
    @Razdanvinodk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “ Love your family. Spend time, be kind, and serve one another. Make no room for regrets. Tomorrow is not promised and today is short.” 💯🙏🇮🇳

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey there thanks for watching and leaving another comment here as I do appreciate it. I love your comment. Make sure you have another great day today 👍

  • @SeanC1959
    @SeanC1959 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said Brenden. I have a sister who lives a long way from me - the only close family that I have. We maintain contact as often as possible and catch up when we can. We're both in our 60s so time isn't on our side, so making the most of our time with loved one is important. Cheers and thanks for the positive outlook. Cheers and have a great day. Sean.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Sean as always thanks for watching and leaving another comment as I do appreciate it. Time is going by isn't it? So you've got to enjoy the time you have together while you have it. Have a great day today mate 👍

  • @anne-mariefinch7728
    @anne-mariefinch7728 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video really resonated with me. I am a divorcee of many years with adult children and an elderly mom who needs me to drop in every day.
    There are difficult conversations that I have had with my children, probably more to come.
    I get tired with visiting mom and doing things for her, but remind myself that one day she will no longer be here. So I try to remain tolerant and grateful

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Anne-Marie thanks for watching and leaving a comment here as I do appreciate it. I'm in a very similar situation to you. Although I don't get sick of visiting Mum because I know she's not going to be here forever and she's done a lot for me over the years. Good luck on the path ahead and make sure you have a great day today 👍

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing.Its easy for some families to bond but hard for others to even talk.I tried hard to bring harmony into my late fathers family but it failed.
    Being the first born,had lots of responsibilities since my dad died 30 years ago when i was barely 30.
    I worked and helped my 8 sibling into adulthood but they never appreciated because they still expect me to do everything even when i'm a granny myself.
    My mum,in her 80's seems to divide her family and so i stopped alot of interactions with them.They are not honest.
    Thank God if you live that life full of laughter with siblings or the elderly parents.Surprisingly they all profess being born again.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Justina thanks for watching and leaving a comment here as I do appreciate it. You sound like you've had a tough task and you've done your best and that's all you can ask for. Good luck on your path ahead and make sure you have a great day today 👍

  • @TimSilvey-b7k
    @TimSilvey-b7k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its great you're able to be with your mom. I lost my mom to dementia 3 years ago next month. I truely miss seeing her.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry to hear that Tim. I know my mum won't be around forever that's why I'm making sure that I see her as often as I can. I guess we all have to go through this at some stage.

    • @TimSilvey-b7k
      @TimSilvey-b7k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @BrendenSharp
      Thank you and enjoy the time you have with her.

    • @yvonnejackson1696
      @yvonnejackson1696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TimSilvey-b7k I’m so sorry to hear that. I lost my mother to dementia 10 years ago. It’s a long goodbye.

    • @TimSilvey-b7k
      @TimSilvey-b7k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @yvonnejackson1696
      I'm sorry hear of your loss. And thank you. All of my mom's sisters have passed from this horrible disease. Prayers 🙏 to you!

    • @yvonnejackson1696
      @yvonnejackson1696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TimSilvey-b7k Someone in my ancestry has passed down the APOE4 gene. Two of my mother’s five siblings and two of my nine cousins inherited this gene. I’m not going to have my DNA run unless I start showing symptoms or unless my daughter tells me to.
      Of course other things can cause or mitigate this bad disease. Good luck to you. I wish you well.

  • @georgewootton2644
    @georgewootton2644 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brenden so true .... "hold your loved ones close". Excellent video on that subject mate.
    On aging I ran one marathon in my early 30's and used to run 5 miles every second day for years and as I got older 3 miles every second day (rain or shine). I retired at 57 years and decided at that time as much as I loved running it was time to walk instead (most days for about 70 minutes at a moderately fast pace) so as to hopefully age graciously! I'm 75 years old now and have not had any health related issues. I know you know but unfortunately many sports played when younger are hard on ones body ... examples being football, soccer, hockey, tennis etc. and cause issues with knees, hips etc. One must weigh the love of sports with the potential damage especially as we get older.
    Hope you have a great day my friend ... I look forward to your next video.
    PS I also do push ups every second day combined with about 30 minutes weight training for muscle tone.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@georgewootton2644 Hey George as always thanks for watching and leaving another comment here as I do appreciate it. Sounds to me like you've got a great attitude and you're keeping yourself nice and healthy which is great news as you move ahead in life. Someone told me the other day that pickleball which is really popular especially with older people is apparently the orthopaedic surgeon's best friend ever. I think they're getting lots of clients that just get a little excited and push themselves too hard. Lastly make sure you have another great day today mate 👍

    • @georgewootton2644
      @georgewootton2644 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@BrendenSharp Brenden ... I've heard that about pickleball also!

  • @markembacher-r9w
    @markembacher-r9w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cheers Brenden,more wonderful logical wisdom from yaself,this message reinforces the right way to stay close to loved ones,cheers Mark

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Mark thanks again for watching and contributing to the comments here as I do appreciate it. 👍

    • @raysorayaray
      @raysorayaray 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Will meet my daughter and my grandchild easther and my son in law in sydney. I live in indonesia❤❤❤ enjoy your time🎉🎉

  • @richardguthrie3422
    @richardguthrie3422 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good on you Brenden. A good message.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Richard as always thanks for and leaving a message here as I do appreciate it. Make sure you have another great day today mate, 👍

  • @LifeAsAllen
    @LifeAsAllen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great message Brenden.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks Allen make sure you have a great day today mate 👍

  • @alanpecora5967
    @alanpecora5967 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brenden you have motivated this 65 year old to move more! Ty

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Alan thanks for watching and leaving a comment here as I do appreciate it. Glad I was able to help motivate you to get out and keep active as it's so important as we age. And lastly make sure you have a great day today mate, 👍

  • @butchfajardo8832
    @butchfajardo8832 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You really live in a beautiful place! And a beautiful place to exercise everyday!

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi Butch thanks for watching and leaving another comment here as I do appreciate it. The path that I walk on is very beautiful that's right. I'm a lucky man. Make sure you have a great day today mate 👍

    • @butchfajardo8832
      @butchfajardo8832 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BrendenSharp , thanks also for your reply! Have a great day also!

  • @alandavies4049
    @alandavies4049 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Brenden,good topic. Perfect lenth video. I hate those shorts.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Alan thanks for watching and leaving a comment here as I do appreciate it. I've been starting to experiment by chopping up my long videos into shorts because some people only watch shorts but I will keep making the long videos anyway. Make sure you have another great day again today mate 👍

  • @stephenyoutubin4476
    @stephenyoutubin4476 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hello Brenden, I live in Massachusetts USA and just turned 61 years ago. I had my right hip replaced two years ago because of arthritis. I worked about two years in real bad pain until the procedure. Hip is Like new again and back to normal. I did gain 25 lbs. with the bad hip because of the pain of walking. Back to my ideal weight and always eat correctly and my calisthenics.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Stephen thanks for watching and leaving a comment as I do appreciate it. That's great news about your new hip and that you are feeling much better. I'll let my friend know that's just about to have a hip replacement to make him feel better. And lastly make sure you have a great day today mate 👍

  • @larryherbert252
    @larryherbert252 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Family is importance, my son and l are in contact just about every day, plus during the summer months we go fishing together,before my dad passed away we all went fishing together, kind of fell out touch with some other family, brother, sister, communication is opening back up, that’s more important than material things, big fall out because l sold my parents home that was willed to me, each 1 of us was in the will, brother and sister was NOT left out, so they both got what was given to them in the will, didn’t talk to me for years.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Larry thanks for watching and leaving a comment here as I do appreciate it. You can't control how other people think you can only control how you think and act. Make sure you have a great day today mate 👍

  • @owenmcgheeandbdawg
    @owenmcgheeandbdawg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love my family although there's only one sister left and she doesn't care. I guess that's a symptom of getting older. I look forward to your videos, you are like a virtual big brother. Thank You for Being.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Owen, thanks for watching and leaving a message here as I do appreciate it. I'm happy that you look at me like I'm a big brother, that makes me feel good so thank you very much. I'll keep trying to put out content that helps people. Finally, make sure you have a great day today mate 👍

  • @VietnamSteve
    @VietnamSteve 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video - well done 👍

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks mate I appreciate it. Did you see that Da Nang apparently got hit by a typhoon? Nowhere near as bad as the one that hit you guys though.

    • @VietnamSteve
      @VietnamSteve 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BrendenSharp I cancelled my trip there today and have returned to ha long from weekend in Hanoi - next weekend hcmc - sister here

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @VietnamSteve I was going to ask you when your sister was arriving for the grand tour. Let me know when you're planning on doing another live stream too.

    • @VietnamSteve
      @VietnamSteve 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BrendenSharp will do

  • @streaming5332
    @streaming5332 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The moment of truth is when your mother passes away. No parents left. My mother had 98 years and never lost her marbles. Brendens mum still looks okay.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@streaming5332 Hi there thanks for watching and leaving another comment. You're correct in assuming my mum has still got her marbles. She reads every day, plays games on her iPad and writes in her journal. She's probably the most positive person I know. She'll be 99 in July but she's got it in her mind that she's going to live to 103!

    • @streaming5332
      @streaming5332 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@BrendenSharpyour mother is amazing, heading towards a letter from King Charles.

  • @streaming5332
    @streaming5332 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brekkie looks good.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey there thanks for watching and leaving a comment as I do appreciate it. Ricky was good, but it's getting bloody expensive here in Melbourne now. Make sure you have a great day today 👍

  • @stevenwistort9903
    @stevenwistort9903 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep it up mate. Make the Lord priority.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Steven thanks for watching and leaving a comment here as I do appreciate it. Good luck on your own path ahead and make sure you have a great day today mate 👍

  • @andrewlilley3660
    @andrewlilley3660 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Families are strange. I don't have kids; I never wanted them. However, I do know what's involved in raising them. My sister imposed her kids on me. I took them to and from school and looked after them for years while she was at work.
    I think my outlook on family is a product of a very short childhood, my dad died when I was nine and my childhood ended there. I was tasked with looking after my younger sister while my mother went out to work, and fell into the egg cook and bottle washer role.
    I cared for the Old Lady for the best of ten years, as it was her mortal dread to enter a care home. I don't have any form of relationship with my elder brother and am fast losing respect for my sister as she's now planning her third marriage. I simply haven't the energy or enthusiasm to give to her new relationship.
    I think modern marriages and long-term relationships are messed up, too many social distractions and external pressures.
    I find the most pleasure in a good walk, I've cycled and jogged all my adult life, and though I think this may have given some benefit, I'm pretty sure it's more than a little responsible for the aches and pains I get now.
    All the best your talks and walks are very interesting.

    • @BrendenSharp
      @BrendenSharp  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi Andrew thanks for watching and leaving a very detailed comment here as I do appreciate it. I know everyone is different and everyone has their own story. Good luck on your path ahead and make sure you have a great day today mate 👍