@@Denmosocialyes especially in your Socializer community. I try to spend at least an hour just commenting on others guys posts who are asking for advice.
@@Denmosocial you actually featured me on one of your ‘Socializer of the week’ posts bro. We’ve talked on there as well my name is Aldair! I’m pretty sure you’ve seen me and my activities!
what a beautiful marketing strategy. Person doesn't know about an existing problem, marketers make them aware of the problem, and then they sell the solution.
@@sebstinsyeah this entire video is selling you dreams while telling you in your face that you’re a dumbass for listening lmfao. he uses his channel to sell his course.
How else are you supposed to sell a solution, if you don't have a problem. If you have a solution to sell, you better start making those problems. And this goes for everything in life. Politics especially.
Something you left out that's worth mentioning is that people just don't seem to have stimulating hobbies anymore. Going to the gym, scrolling through social media, gaming, and going out on Friday nights are about the extent of people's free time today and there's nothing very mentally stimulating about this. Yes, working out for an hour every day or so clears your mind, but once you get into it, its just another routine like having a shave in the morning. I learnt to play the piano in my early teens and learning a new piece of music gives me endless mental stimulation. I also do woodworking making all kinds of things and incorporate tasks like chopping wood into my exercise so that I actually get stuff done whilst keeping reasonably fit. I am also a member of a boating club and an astronomy club which allows me to meet new and likeminded people, which I really enjoy but there is virtually nobody my age (early/mid 20's). The vast majority are over 40, and you'd be hard pressed to find a club in a different scenario. For God's sake, do something interesting with your spare time and actually do things.
Pursue creative hobbies that let you create something totally unique and brand new in the world. Everyone should have a creative outlet, no matter how good they are at it.
I don't think anything has changed, I just think it takes a particular kind of person to want to do those things. Personally, my life is my hobbies, making things and engaging with my interests. I don't really understand what it would be like not to have obsessive interests like I do but I don't think it's like humanity has degraded. People have always been like this. I approve of your profile picture by the way. One of my hobbies is WW2 aircraft restoration at a local museum.
Called affordability. We work 40 hours a week and only have enough money to go to the gym. I don’t have $500 to drop on a piano or other instrument, I don’t have money for really any hobby. Ya know if we could all just get paid better we would all be happier. The single largest difference between our generation and the previous is quality of life and debt to income ratio. A single person could provide for an entire family, now two people working full time barely affords your basic needs.
@@kaydnburns5935 Can complain all you like but it doesn't cost me to do the majority of the things I do. Can get a good pencil and a sketchbook for a lot less than a gym membership and drawing people is probably the most soothing thing I do when I'm stressed out with work. If you have a computer to send this comment, you can download free software. You could design a liquid rocket engine on Onshape with a bit of OpenRocket if you felt like it. All the theory can be learned on MIT OpenCourseWave. I get these are just two pretty random examples but I don't buy your point that life is boring because you don't have money to spend on it. You seem to be inhibiting yourself from doing these things when you could just give it a go. I completely agree with you on the cost of living comments but regardless of unfixable things like that, we still need to enjoy our lives because they will end. Suddenly.
I was able to stay disciplined and by the time I was 30 I had a STEM degree, great career in IT/ACCOUNTING, and $30K in savings. Then the GREAT RECESSION hit, and I lost my career, savings, and great credit rating in my early 30s!!! The SAD REALITY is that you can do EVERYTHING right and one thing out of your control happens to you and it RUINS you!!!
"Bro" is out here selling snake oil "Bro," just wants to help the homies out "Bro" Buy my course "Bro." I Genuinely feel bad for the people looking up to you. Teaching people to never hold yourself personally accountable, basically saying "If your life sucks, it's not your fault! Everyone is out to get you! Everyone else made your life suck!" One of your greatest powers as a human being is the free will you have to take control of your life and your own actions. No one needs to spend $130 a month for a course from a 20 something year old who, just like the teachers he claims have no life experience, HAS NO LIFE EXPERIENCE. You have the power to choose the decisions you make in every moment, be responsible for your life and your own actions and become a well rounded person.
Shit, this is the best advice. Started watching this video, this is the shit he should be saying if he ain't already. Gonna do something else now, thanks
Best advice than the whole video. People like this will always share their 'wisdom' and point of view by comforting the viewer or making them worse to give a 'solution'(their course). I get the idea of not always will be your fault, but is your responsability at the end of the day.
The guy scrubbed toilets and worked construction, but worked his way towards financial freedom through online content that resonates with people online (sub count evidence of that). Crazy how you define that as no life experience. Entrepreneurship is the hardest thing in the world. Of course everyone has the autonomy to forge their life path, but understanding a common life path and the implications of factors like the school system and corporate environment, and putting it on the context of one's own life can be helpful on its own. This can one start making moves towards a better direction, and avoid common pitfalls. 35 minutes of free, helpful content by the way, in addition to other free resources. Probably hours of setting up equipment, recording, editing, branding, etc. And he's putting his name on the line, taking accountability many aren't brave enough to do. MrFrigid247, the man behind an anonymous account only offering critical comments without well thought out arguments on specific topic points.
Sounds like my friend that loves to moan about how much life sucks and then also moans at how terrible working hard is. So he just exists in a state of constant misery and can't even talk to me about how I live my life because it's a direct contradiction to his misery, and it stresses him out to know that being pitiful as he is, is not the best he could be doing. He would rather live in a state of denial and misery than put in the work.
your 21, of course your life is on track, it hasn't even started yet. good luck falling into drop shipping traps and wasting money on get rich quick courses and waste of time books
@@Denmosocial lmao 😂 Its my username for when I was going to start a TH-cam channel reposting TikTok’s and compilations 😆😆🫣 great name right ? Even made a fire Favicon / logo
My girlfriend and I broke up for 2 years to get my shit together when I was 20. Thought we were going to split for good. Both of us became better people. We both developed ourselves. She got a tech job. I started learning skills, got great grades in community college and transferred into a decent major at a good university. I almost failed high school and made it here. What he says is true. Don't fall into these traps. My girl got back together when we were at a good place. Her and I are now working hard and keep each other progressing forward. Sometimes you are truly not ready for a relationship if you haven't found your drive.
Good advice man, I am really thankful for seeing this. So thank you. It gives me an idea of what to do right now, since I’m at the beginning of this same situation right now. So hopefully things turn out okay hahaha.
Dude its certainly unbelievable when cases as yours find out light. Great to hear both from you relation experience but mostly from the drive foundamental
Man its crazy to hear from others as my age. Personally I haven't experienced homeschool but I heard from close friends.Honestly I think its the right time and right place for you to turn everything upside down
Research. Google can be your best friend if you know "KEY WORDING". Say i wanna learn zoology? Well i reacher terms of zoology, like taxonomy. Taxonomy futhered my zoology knowledge. KNOW KEY WORDS TO USE. Nomenclature is also A KEEYY WOORDD in zoology!!
Was your age when I became aware of self help and started my journey, I’m only 20 now but in just 2 years i went from being a weed smoking bum to making my first 6 figure income this year, I own a house now, 2 nice cars and finally bagged a baddie, you can do it bro stay focused and go hard, I hope my perspective is able to shed a little positivity on the grind, it does pay off bro believe in yourself!
I feel like a big problem with public education is how government driven it is. The schools have 0 incentive to prepare you to be an adult, just to cram you with as much information as they can to make the government pay them. Realistically your knowledge base after 6th or seventh grade is all you need from general education, and then we should really be developing actual skills. It should not be possible to graduate high school without knowing how to drive a car, apply for a job or start a business, and file taxes.
I’m 42 and telling you that you can still change things even if you screwed some shit up before. It’s all about just starting to take the right steps and becoming the person you want to be.
So I don't know if I'm too late to comment this, nor I'm not sure if I belong here but here we are: I am just about to be turning 26 (as of making this comment) and I am happy to say that I am in a good headspace with my life! Mostly thanks to not having a huge ego, thinking more critically and keeping a balance with everything that I do. I'm also happy with how my TH-cam channel is going, and I've got a great girlfriend who may be on the chubby side, but that okay! I still love her and we always got each others backs. Sure do I wish some things were better in my 20s? Absolutely, it's human to think that way. But no matter what, I'm doing far better than where I was when I left school. But there's always room for a little bit of improvement. Even if it's just 1%. But hey, everyone is different. Everyone goes through life differently and at different paces. Some advice sticks around that works and some doesn't that don't. It all comes down to how one individual choose to live and take action in their lives.
Preying on insecurities? Check. Demonizing women? Check. Selling courses? Check. The best thing about being out of my 20's is being comfortable with who I am. And i can smell this toxic bullshit from a mile away. Great business strategy, bro.
Idk, women on dating apps in 2024 overestimate their values and get ego boosts thanks to countless thirsty simps DMing them. These thirsty men forget that half the population is female and yet they act like they’re a rare resource thanks to being unable to control their hormones. This builds up pressure in all men when even low value women think they deserve to be treated like goddesses.
Idk, women on dating apps in 2024 overestimate their values and get ego boosts thanks to countless thirsty simps DMing them. These thirsty men forget that half the population is female and yet they act like they’re a rare resource thanks to being unable to control their hormones. This builds up pressure in all men when even low value women think they deserve to be treated like goddesses.
24 years old, started university a bit late but on track to graduate business in 2 years, have been working 40 hours a week since 19, no savings but a car and stable apartment life, this video really helped me man, keep going bros.
I'm 23 years old, born with high functioning ASD, living with my parents, having no close friends, still working on my mental/physical health, and still don't fully know what I want to do with my life. And still a virgin. It sounds a little childish, and I sometimes feel ashamed of where I'm at right now, but it's alright. I still have time to figure things out before I turn 25. I'm still going strong. Thank you so much for the video. Keep up the good work!
2:19 School Brainwash 4:04 Bad Advice 7:42 First Career Opportunity, Stuck in your job 9:40 Moving out Living off independent, Isolation 14:02 Looking for help 15:03 Dating in 2024 20:02 You finally get a bf/gf 22:48 Midlife crisis
Same I'm 24 and I finally got serious about improving myself and I've started to really think deeply about what path I want to take in my life, I was incredibly lost at 21
Im 23 and its crazy how much your early years can impact everything you laid out here. What got me through was the unbending will to game the system wherever possible. I refused to make my life anything less than what I wanted. Now im a dad, married to my highschool crush, have a masters degree, make six figures, got my own place, and have over 100k in retirement. Everyone here can do the same thing if you put yourself in the right positions by planning ahead, creating layers of backup plans, and eliminate the option of failure.
I need friends like you man, I’m 20, can’t say I’m as accomplished as you but I’m the only one in my old friend group who made 6 figures last year, got my first house, and meanwhile my friends just play video games smoke weed and scroll social media all day 🥲
@@Jerrydiehard hey man, i want to break into cyber sec and consider it my path in iT. I hear you cant just jump in it and need either side of IT/software skills to jump into that type of role. any advice or tips would help as im really considering college for the first time after 3 years of graduating hs and working in trades
I’m 23 and lost most of my youth due to severe depression. I’m currently in the path of recovery and can finally think of a future I’d like to live in. Thank you so much for this video :)
just don't be surprised when you realize that the future you want well might never come along. stay afloat for what is, and not for what you hope will be
19 years old, I work 40 hours a week, I work in the medical field and I already invested over 2.5k within a year. I plan to do 5k the end of 2024. My mental and financial state is good. However I must start working out again.
same here but working in aerospace and having 5k+ in retirement. put like $200 in crypto, and am gonna try growing my stock portfolio. this isn't something i plan on doing my whole life, so i'm setting myself up to be able to stay stable in case this job capsizes.
If you plan on retiring you gotta start saving way more aggressively man. Look up an investment calculator if you want, someone in their 20s needs to invest $1000 a month minimum. Otherwise you’re falling behind.
Hi, I’m 21 and I’m going to start soon to work 9-5. Ma I ask you some tips on how do you balance 40hrs of work a week and social life/spare time in young age? Thank you
30 here. By now, most, but not all of my "friends" from high school have officially given up trying to better themselves. Its sad. I watch to remind myself there are people who are still trying to excel and be better, because these chaches from my hometown aren't it. Love ya Denmo, keep up the good word.
I’m 19 and I have completed this cycle already. Now i feel so much more fortunate and hopeful in my life because u realized so many more people had to work super hard to get there. Wish me luck guys.
20, and I’m currently in total shit guys, wasting my young years. I find absolutely no motivation in anything, it seems like everything is the same and nothing will change, I feel so small and impotent. But somehow hope is still exists in my head. And I’ll beat this cruel reality, we will bro, no matter what shit is up for us we’ll rip through it. Bright future is there for us!
Good age to be at. I'm 26 and looking back, I know what I'd have done differently. - Allocate 1-3 hours of video game time, no more, no less. Only 1 hour if 2-3 hours interferes with the rest of the schedule. - Wake up before 7 AM to exercise and eat healthy breakfast - Never go to bed past midnight - Read more books - Focus less on trying to do well in undergraduate classes, they're designed to be easy and make you forget the rest of your goals in your life (like the LSAT or similar tests). - Social media is only allowed for archiving your life and staying in contact with people, not for mind-numbing reel scrolling for hours.
I’m 22, still figuring out life like most of you out there. I’m just writing this for me as a remainder in 6 months to check the progress I’ve made so far, I’m tired of the mistakes I made in the last 4 years of my life. I recently decided to start college for a Computer Science program, started taking care more of my body, going to the gym here and there, I’ll test myself and see if I still keep these habits and improve 6 months from now, we got this! We’re all in here in our own journey💯
@@Denmosocialbig bro I am a student under the age of 23 I see my mate getting Gfs and I am kind of pressured to get one And deep down inside of me I know it is the wrong thing to do... I want to set my life straight and have a great future and I am trying to resist that urge of diving into relationships because I know it is disastrous for my age.... I don't know if I am doing the right thing... I need to know
I’m 30 now. Wasted most of my twenties. Only started to wake up when I was about 28 and made changes. Still not where I want to be but going in the right direction. Greetings from Ireland Denmo! 🇮🇪
36 and I'm starting to have a midlife crisis. Alone, both parents passed away so my safety net is essentially gone. I only just finally got a full-time job a few months ago. Never had a girlfriend, never bothered to try since they're all out of my league. All my friends moved out of state. I did finally get my driver's license a couple of years ago and have a car. I'm trying to get back into drawing again to get better at it to start making money off it.
I was 38 when I finally found love, I hadn't dated anyone before and I don't regret it at all, because you have to go into a relationship only when you know it really makes sense, until I was 35 I was in a terrible situation financially and threatened foreclosure, I didn't have anyone at the time, who could help me, because I moved to a foreign country and the relationships in my family were complicated, anyway, after I found a boyfriend completely by accident, I opened my eyes and started to prioritize myself and to stop being so strict with myself, my life has changed a lot and I believe you can do it too, everything is possible, don't give up! I believe in you, I really do
Sounds to me like you would benefit from a good dose of ambition. Wake every day with an aggressive goal, go out and push HARD to get it. Keep doing that, you'll raise your confidence, aura, and what you have to offer. Then, the girls will easily come to you. They are not out of your league either. Just looking pretty is not a talent, and it goes away eventually. Your ambition and what it gets for you will last. Get going!
I never really fell for the whole school, work, wife and kids ordeal. Sure I wanted and have those things now, but I wanted it to be in my terms. No surprises. The plan was to be developing business skills while working whatever job paid enough to support myself comfortably. My life looked as if I was a complete loser to my peers because I lived at home still at 30. Little did they know, I was building something. So I’m 35. I’ve moved out with my fiancé. At my day job I make 50k and the business makes a little over 60k (up from 30k last year and growing). In 5 years I’ll likely have everything I’ve ever wanted. It just goes to show you that there’s no real blueprint or set way of doing things in life. As long as you keep in mind what you want out of your life. You’ll be fine.
I am 30, burned out, highly gifted and probably ADHD and this video deeply touched me. I finished my Bachelor in Math with 20 and went on a working holiday in New Zealand after that. Then Master, then another trip. After that I took a 9-5 in automotive, which was decently paid, but it bored me and felt like a prison. Then I started my PhD in Math abroad and - burned out. I thought that it was my absolute passion but I think I only liked it, because I am really good at it and people gave me a lot of confirmation to it. Which I needed because of my lack of self confidence. But to succeed in a PhD you have to burn for your topic. I never had a real girlfriend, even though I am a really good Bachata dancer (and a couple other dances). I would love to have some intimacy, but I am also struggling to really let go with girls. And do the next step. I can feel that there is deep passion inside me. Especially when I am dancing Bachata or playing improv theatre. Or playing piano. I still don't see a market in any of these fields. Or that I am good enough to make money anywhere there. I would love to try different things out online ... just to become independent from the location and be more free. Maybe there is a passion somewhere there. I am financially stable but not rich. I could live a couple years without any income, but eventually my money will be gone. And that's not what I want, because it should be invested to gain more freedom in the future. I still haven't given up my PhD but I feel like a have no choice but breaking out. This is killing me :/ I just didn't have the balls for it yet 😅 Maybe your motivational speech could change a lot ... If I had an advice to any younger people, especially very intelligent ones: Learn to trust to your heart instead of only listening to your head.
Im 28 n still trying to make my dream work. Too many things hve happened for me to give up now. I realise the bad things that happen are mostly lessons from the universe for you to better yourself so that you could reach your goal without being a dick. The challenges are less hard when you put urself in the growth mindset and esp when you are doing smth u love……no matter what, you’ll always wanna make it fking work. So i hope all this effort will come into fruition one day. And videos like this only keeps us going by grabbing each day by the balls n owning it hard. Thanks bro, your effort will not be wasted, deep sincere appreciation brother 💪🏻🙇🏻♂️
Cannot express how much I appreciate long form whiteboard videos. 19 by the way, I’ll be 20 in about 7 months. It’s also worth noting I live with my brother on our own.
I'm glad I started a business at 19. Don't waste your time, do what makes you happy, do something that helps you provide for your future family, effortlessly. Most importantly, don't listen to your teachers, listen to the people who are where you want to be.
I was in a downward slope today and starting to slide further. With this video, you've completely stopped that momentum and I'm now back in the stratosphere where I belong. Thank you for your time and effort, Denmo, you're doing great work.
21 and finally locking in with content creation and holistic health. Spent too many hours on overthinking and stupid ass dating apps 🗣️this vid is a sign. LETS LOCK IN BOYS💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Same here. This year I wanna make a big change, maybe make some money thru yt and give my parents the life they truly deserve. that's my main goal, making my parents happy
I like you man. Unlike other "youtubers" out there whom I find little phony and pretentious, I can sense your genuine, a man who really wants to give as much honest and genuine advice as possible, like a friend, a nice older brother
The one thing I would add is building a sturdy relationship with God. That’s where your confidence is derived from. That’s where you learn that having that one thing is more important than the rest. It allows you to take a risk on yourself and your dreams. My biggest regret was not realizing that soon enough or reading the Bible for myself before making prejudice judgments. It’s full of knowledge and advice that is imperishable.
As a former Christian, I agree that faith can be a large pool of strength for someone. Where I stepped out of believing is when I started seeing people around me becoming almost dependent on it. Over time I’ve learned that we are so much stronger than we think we are. And also I stopped being a Christian cause I didn’t agree with their views on a lot of things 😋
@@kostynhoffman1520Have you tried giving Islam a chance? I am a ex-Protestant and I converted to Islam few years ago it gives me the ultimate purpose and motivation
lets go brother you got this, treat your parents right, try your best in getting a job and start paying rent for them, after you've done that, look for your own place
I’m 22 and I legit followed a similar path during my 18-22. I got into a relationship in highschool and moved in with her after. Ended up dropping out of college and gained weight. After being cheated on for the 2nd time I snapped. Moved out and into a place with my brother. Life is stabilizing now, I’ve lost most of the weight I gained and I’m not afraid to be uncomfortable. Thank you Denmo, I thought for the longest time that I was alone in my struggle.
in my 30's and would likely be considered a "failure" by most twentysomethings chasing the hamster wheel, but I've never been happier or more fulfilled and comfortable with who I am in my life. once you realize that damn near everything is a well-crafted yet thinly-veiled distraction from what _really_ matters in life, the truth will set you free. it took me my entire 20's and some of my 30's to fully understand this, but I'm glad I did. "wasting" your 20's is a state of mind and perspective. shift it, and everything changes.
Heres a guy giving you the classic redpill jargon and is selling you a course and a dream while giving tinder shit for selling you a dream At least try and hide it better that you’re trying to exploit young people for money.
It’s never too late age is just a number just go at it!! Comparison is the thief of joy just keep f*cking going. I’m turning 25 in June and I just don’t give a f*ck what anyone thinks. My past made me who I am today no matter how bad it was…it’s better late than never.
It's never too late! Keep fighting and burn those calories. Get a journal, record your W's and L's, and whenever you get stuck or sad look back and see how far you have come.
Denmo, without your videos, I'd still be crying for my ex and live the rest of my life thinking I'd never find a girl who loved me like her. I'm freshly 21 and I'm trying to find purpose, your videos are an immense help to me
dont worry buddy i went through something similar at that age and i was really bummed out. you will bounce back and look back and be like "man i cant believe i was even upset by that" you got this G
Don't make the mistake that I did, and stay in a toxic relationship with a high-school crush for 12 years only to realize the best years of your 20s went down the drain with a partner who would ultimately destroy you on the way out. Maintain your boundaries and always know when enough is enough.
In the end, youll be only be guaranteed to be born and die with only you. Your opinion of yourself is what matters. Make sure you are someone you can be proud of and your egos gonna be less harsh on you down the line. Partners dont determine our value, they just say their opinion of it.
im 32 and ive been depressed and suicidal the past few months over getting out of a bad relationship and being harshly rejected by a girl at work, my life feels stagnant and feels like it's going no where but I've been slowly changing by just making small goals like clean my apartment and having a major goal in wanting to pursue a career i like doing in a couple of yrs. Your explanation of being pressured in having a gf and a house was spot on and I feel like everyone in my family doesn't understand what I am going through. Just wanna say thanks for making this video to help me realize I'm not hopeless and theres a future for me.
I'm about to turn 20 and I'm so glad I found this video on my feed, I am used to go over life without any goals but a huge opportunity appeared for me this year, so if things get right I will be able to change my whole life. And this is precisely the path I will follow. Saved the video and see you next time in the classroom
The microphone is fine. Whats wrong is your room has too much reverb or echo going on. You can add drapes, curtains, soft furniture to dampen the sound. Or even get acoustic panels on your walls if you want to spend some $$ Thanks
Great video. I've been through a lot, and even been attacked for living well, but this video is so insightful and shows how normal a lot of these stages of life are.
I am 18, But I was already a lot since the age 6!!! I was funny as hell but some trauma change my life but since the age 15 I came back!!! Denmo you are literally a Legend!!!
25 in 4 months. This scared the shit out of me. I started a PhD a while ago and am happy in that. I work out, i play music and usually have an “okay” classification of my free time. But i kinda want something serious at this stage. I want a serious girlfriend, not just the casual stuff i get. This motivated me to focus more on me and continuing to have casual stuff.
I'm 23, lived most if not all of my life with depression and I finally beat it about a month ago. So yeah I would have loved to know back then what i know now, life without depression rocks.
Honestly the best advice I got was from my English teacher he told me before i graduated that life will test u and destroy but don't give up just keep fighting no matter what
I’m 23 turning 24 soon. Working a corporate 9-5 job exhausted, living with my parents saving up though. Trying to work on side hustle to get into remote work so I don’t waste my life away commuting to and from an office.
@@Azooe appreciate you and yeah it’s not horrible but I do miss being able to have friends over or have a girl over. Lately I’ve been traveling a lot so I’m cutting that down for the next 6 months to focus on saving up. My target is 30k savings before dipping the job currently at 17k
I just turned 20. And rude awakening. I say be smart. Save every penny you can. And STACK UP. A lot of people don’t have that privilege. Take advantage
Do not be ashamed to live with your parents. Let me say that again: do not be ashamed of it. I'm 25, I have a corporate job, and live at home. My boomer parents try to shame me into moving out but all of my coworkers and friends think I'm doing the smart thing. Some people are too out of touch with the reality in 2024 to realize housing in unaffordable when you're young
I'm 19 yo, female. I'm not in college, i have no sense of direction on what i want to do. I barley managed to complete highschool and graduate. Now i'm just working a 9-5 trying to figure out what i want to do while i help pay bills.
im 24yrs old, the best thing ive learned in life is you get out exactly what you put into anything, your life is yours and it always will be, the way you spend your life is 100% up to you and no one elses. as long as you're making strides to be a better person than you were yesterday, you're doing just fine.
22, I like how straight to the point this advice is. I can tell you are speaking from experience. I'm entering a new part of my life (moving across the country to go do summer sales with my guys) and I couldn't be more excited to become independent and establish a brotherhood surrounded with like minded men working toward their goals.
I believe more than having someone suggest to you how to live, it's up to you to go out and have these experiences yourself. Learn the hard lessons through your own doing. Take these "life ruining mistakes" in stride, if/when you make them. And work to achieve that ideal lifestyle which works for you (it's different for everybody).
Female 27 yo. I was super exited watching your video, and finally found some advice not from a "positive psychology" bs way (u know, acceptance and unconditional self-love crap). It's like, "ok life sucks, let's do something about it", and that's what most girls needs too. Just saying my thanks here.
I’m 26, and a financial analyst. Very accurate man amazing job. Some of the other things I’ve worked out but am guilty of wasting time to bs consumption including the dating apps. You’ve inspired me to once again get back on the free time productivity train, thanks!
I like that you have a free community. Thank you. I'm a guitarist and music is my life. I recognise that my life is not perfect though. I want to be a guitar teacher and travel the world because that would mean I'm doing what I love and I get to see the world! You present things in a way that is encouraging and instead of scaring the crap out of me and tricking me into feeling like a failure. ( There are plenty of videos out there using negativity to control people ) .. you are actually inspiring me and others!
I’m 24 as of this writing; you’re a luxury Mr.Denmo, whenever you drop a video I just can’t wait to check it out. Best professor out there!; I do have some trials that I’m going through, but I know I can change and want to change, thanks Mr.Denmo!
I know it probably doesn't seem like it, but you have so much time bro, 16 is literally nothing (I mean that with the utmost respect btw). You can take Ls for the next 5 years and still be early in the game. I would advise that you learn from your failures instead of dwelling on them.
I'm currently 22 (soon to be 23) and really started to work on myself since I'm 18, some things started even earlier when I was 15 or so. When covid happened, I started to learn how I could make money online and acted on it as much as I could. I'm not at the endgoal yet, but still grinding and starting to see results! It really pays off working your ass off in something no one wants to commit to!
A lot of dudes go on google, self diagnose themselves, and go to the doctor (!!!) get some pills. DON'T go to the doctor, go and pay TH-camR instead of real doctor or a therapist!!!! Fucking legend, i have no words.
Started working again at 24 (last year) after years of multiple chronic illnesses that started a year after I graduated. So many things to work on. But you know, you reminding us we spent 20 years of our life in school helps lighten the load off my chest. Meaning I have only spent 5 years, I should take it easy (different with being complacent). 3 to illness which affected my career and finances a lot and 2 to working (finding out my career path).
I'm 26 and I'm becoming 27 and have never been in a relationship or had a close female friend yet!! Even though I'm reading books I'm doing a mechanical engineering degree I'm a former powerlifter and I got back to the gym again I'm 6ft tall have a good look and have a big clothing and shoe collection.
basically you won't fall for at least 3/4 of these pitfalls if you stop trying to meet real girls and just simp for Hentai instead, it's quicker and gives you room to spend your time wisely on like a complex hobby or even studying whatever you like to study
Yo, I'm 23 right now(I'm turning 24 in August) and this might just be the best advice video I've seen. I constantly have that thought of"if only I knew what I know now back in secondary school or even in primary school"(for context, I live in the UK) and I honestly thought it was just a "me" problem, but knowing that it's actually a "men" problem gives me a sense of comfort because now I feel like I'm not alone and it actually gets me even more motivated to improve my life and find true happiness than I was before I hit play on this video. I'm super thankful I didn't decide to skip it or add it to my "watch later" playlist and then forget about it like I've done with the 20+ other videos I have yet to check out 😅. And I think it's worth mentioning that I haven't gone through the exact same experience as what you've described but I get the vibe that you're not saying that every man will go through this exact experience. That's not the point. My story so far might not be exactly the same but I have the same feeling of hopelessness regardless and this video captured those feelings regardless of the specifics. Thank you Denmo! As a 23 year old man, I've become even more motivated to improve my life🥰.
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none. being alone is a blessing in disguise, although is hard
Zero
I don't even have distant friends 🤯
0 tbh
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I really like the fact you don't demonize 9-5 jobs like those fucking motivational gurus
thats cause I worked 9-5s for years man I cant stand trust fund kids who hate on them cause clearly they do not get it
@@Denmosocialthank god you’re not an idiot
wHeRE's yOuR BUgaTti???
Yeah, instead he demonizes anyone who he personally thinks hasn't worked in "the real world" 😂
Exactly, you need to start somewhere.
I’m 30 and I refuse to let other guys waste their 20s.
do you help those around you when you can? i.e. help dudes in 20s at gym or whatever
@@Denmosocialyes especially in your Socializer community. I try to spend at least an hour just commenting on others guys posts who are asking for advice.
Turning 30 in Oct and can safely say I wasted my twenties
@@iw_legendary_sayain2215 you a real one bro
@@Denmosocial you actually featured me on one of your ‘Socializer of the week’ posts bro. We’ve talked on there as well my name is Aldair! I’m pretty sure you’ve seen me and my activities!
what a beautiful marketing strategy. Person doesn't know about an existing problem, marketers make them aware of the problem, and then they sell the solution.
Are you talking about Denmo?
Yeah thats why he makes that videos
@@sebstinsyeah this entire video is selling you dreams while telling you in your face that you’re a dumbass for listening lmfao. he uses his channel to sell his course.
How else are you supposed to sell a solution, if you don't have a problem. If you have a solution to sell, you better start making those problems. And this goes for everything in life. Politics especially.
@@Nightman-eb8mj Yeah its normal economy
Something you left out that's worth mentioning is that people just don't seem to have stimulating hobbies anymore. Going to the gym, scrolling through social media, gaming, and going out on Friday nights are about the extent of people's free time today and there's nothing very mentally stimulating about this. Yes, working out for an hour every day or so clears your mind, but once you get into it, its just another routine like having a shave in the morning.
I learnt to play the piano in my early teens and learning a new piece of music gives me endless mental stimulation. I also do woodworking making all kinds of things and incorporate tasks like chopping wood into my exercise so that I actually get stuff done whilst keeping reasonably fit.
I am also a member of a boating club and an astronomy club which allows me to meet new and likeminded people, which I really enjoy but there is virtually nobody my age (early/mid 20's). The vast majority are over 40, and you'd be hard pressed to find a club in a different scenario.
For God's sake, do something interesting with your spare time and actually do things.
Pursue creative hobbies that let you create something totally unique and brand new in the world. Everyone should have a creative outlet, no matter how good they are at it.
I don't think anything has changed, I just think it takes a particular kind of person to want to do those things. Personally, my life is my hobbies, making things and engaging with my interests. I don't really understand what it would be like not to have obsessive interests like I do but I don't think it's like humanity has degraded. People have always been like this. I approve of your profile picture by the way. One of my hobbies is WW2 aircraft restoration at a local museum.
You are lying
Called affordability. We work 40 hours a week and only have enough money to go to the gym. I don’t have $500 to drop on a piano or other instrument, I don’t have money for really any hobby. Ya know if we could all just get paid better we would all be happier. The single largest difference between our generation and the previous is quality of life and debt to income ratio. A single person could provide for an entire family, now two people working full time barely affords your basic needs.
@@kaydnburns5935 Can complain all you like but it doesn't cost me to do the majority of the things I do. Can get a good pencil and a sketchbook for a lot less than a gym membership and drawing people is probably the most soothing thing I do when I'm stressed out with work. If you have a computer to send this comment, you can download free software. You could design a liquid rocket engine on Onshape with a bit of OpenRocket if you felt like it. All the theory can be learned on MIT OpenCourseWave. I get these are just two pretty random examples but I don't buy your point that life is boring because you don't have money to spend on it. You seem to be inhibiting yourself from doing these things when you could just give it a go. I completely agree with you on the cost of living comments but regardless of unfixable things like that, we still need to enjoy our lives because they will end. Suddenly.
I was able to stay disciplined and by the time I was 30 I had a STEM degree, great career in IT/ACCOUNTING, and $30K in savings. Then the GREAT RECESSION hit, and I lost my career, savings, and great credit rating in my early 30s!!! The SAD REALITY is that you can do EVERYTHING right and one thing out of your control happens to you and it RUINS you!!!
Did you bounce back or sit in your sorrows?
Tried to bounce back but FAILED!!!@@donshadowman4747
@@donshadowman4747I’m wondering this as well
survivor's bias is a bitch for these conversations.
Did you bounce back or still crying?
Gotta buy the course. Won't be happy unless you buy the course. It's so simple! All I need to do is give this guy my money and I'll be happy!
Lmao I sense some sarcasm 😂😂😂
"Bro" is out here selling snake oil "Bro," just wants to help the homies out "Bro" Buy my course "Bro." I Genuinely feel bad for the people looking up to you. Teaching people to never hold yourself personally accountable, basically saying "If your life sucks, it's not your fault! Everyone is out to get you! Everyone else made your life suck!" One of your greatest powers as a human being is the free will you have to take control of your life and your own actions. No one needs to spend $130 a month for a course from a 20 something year old who, just like the teachers he claims have no life experience, HAS NO LIFE EXPERIENCE. You have the power to choose the decisions you make in every moment, be responsible for your life and your own actions and become a well rounded person.
Shit, this is the best advice. Started watching this video, this is the shit he should be saying if he ain't already. Gonna do something else now, thanks
Best advice than the whole video. People like this will always share their 'wisdom' and point of view by comforting the viewer or making them worse to give a 'solution'(their course). I get the idea of not always will be your fault, but is your responsability at the end of the day.
Beautifully said.
The guy scrubbed toilets and worked construction, but worked his way towards financial freedom through online content that resonates with people online (sub count evidence of that). Crazy how you define that as no life experience. Entrepreneurship is the hardest thing in the world.
Of course everyone has the autonomy to forge their life path, but understanding a common life path and the implications of factors like the school system and corporate environment, and putting it on the context of one's own life can be helpful on its own. This can one start making moves towards a better direction, and avoid common pitfalls.
35 minutes of free, helpful content by the way, in addition to other free resources. Probably hours of setting up equipment, recording, editing, branding, etc. And he's putting his name on the line, taking accountability many aren't brave enough to do.
MrFrigid247, the man behind an anonymous account only offering critical comments without well thought out arguments on specific topic points.
Sounds like my friend that loves to moan about how much life sucks and then also moans at how terrible working hard is. So he just exists in a state of constant misery and can't even talk to me about how I live my life because it's a direct contradiction to his misery, and it stresses him out to know that being pitiful as he is, is not the best he could be doing. He would rather live in a state of denial and misery than put in the work.
21 years old. gotta say im proud that my life is on track
Yesirrr I’m 18 trynna make sure I don’t waste it💯
my man
@@THAYOUNGDONfr
your 21, of course your life is on track, it hasn't even started yet. good luck falling into drop shipping traps and wasting money on get rich quick courses and waste of time books
@@sammyeow im sorry who are you to dictate my destiny in life?
im 27 , listen to Denmo
this guy gets it, username hilarious tho
@@Denmosocial lmao 😂 Its my username for when I was going to start a TH-cam channel reposting TikTok’s and compilations 😆😆🫣 great name right ? Even made a fire Favicon / logo
Get the channel going bro!
27 here too! 😂
I’m even older than that, listen to Denmo
in short: be an influencer and sell courses and other bs online jobs
"how i make 50k a minute talking about my interests"
Thanks. You saved me 10 minutes of my life!
30*
30+*
U missed the whole point looser
My girlfriend and I broke up for 2 years to get my shit together when I was 20. Thought we were going to split for good. Both of us became better people. We both developed ourselves. She got a tech job. I started learning skills, got great grades in community college and transferred into a decent major at a good university. I almost failed high school and made it here.
What he says is true. Don't fall into these traps. My girl got back together when we were at a good place. Her and I are now working hard and keep each other progressing forward. Sometimes you are truly not ready for a relationship if you haven't found your drive.
Good advice man, I am really thankful for seeing this. So thank you.
It gives me an idea of what to do right now, since I’m at the beginning of this same situation right now.
So hopefully things turn out okay hahaha.
Dude its certainly unbelievable when cases as yours find out light. Great to hear both from you relation experience but mostly from the drive foundamental
Lol, just find a new girlfriend.
@@irvingceron1016stupid comment, they just needed to work on themselves. Looks like you like the easy way
I just broke up after 2 years, thank you for your advise
17, and my main problem is that I’ve been homeschooled since I was 9, and I feel like it messed me up for life. But I want to improve
Def not bro if you wanna improve jus dont be stagnant. Go out and get into some shit and you'll be above most of you peers already
Man its crazy to hear from others as my age. Personally I haven't experienced homeschool but I heard from close friends.Honestly I think its the right time and right place for you to turn everything upside down
Research. Google can be your best friend if you know "KEY WORDING".
Say i wanna learn zoology? Well i reacher terms of zoology, like taxonomy. Taxonomy futhered my zoology knowledge. KNOW KEY WORDS TO USE.
Nomenclature is also A KEEYY WOORDD in zoology!!
Man, do not give up, the life is ahead. Do your best and all we guarantee you'll succeed. We believe in you and we pray for you.
you got so much time bro dont worry
18 years old, incredibly grateful to have learned about self-improvement over the last year. The future is very bright.
& in your hands 🫵🏾
Was your age when I became aware of self help and started my journey, I’m only 20 now but in just 2 years i went from being a weed smoking bum to making my first 6 figure income this year, I own a house now, 2 nice cars and finally bagged a baddie, you can do it bro stay focused and go hard, I hope my perspective is able to shed a little positivity on the grind, it does pay off bro believe in yourself!
Same!!!
Like your positivity.
@@FinesseHamilton what career/ job was able to take you this far and successful at such a young age? (i’m 18)
I still can't understand why our parents and the school system don't prepare us for life.
they dont want us to realize whats going on lol
watch the video then comment
I feel like a big problem with public education is how government driven it is. The schools have 0 incentive to prepare you to be an adult, just to cram you with as much information as they can to make the government pay them.
Realistically your knowledge base after 6th or seventh grade is all you need from general education, and then we should really be developing actual skills. It should not be possible to graduate high school without knowing how to drive a car, apply for a job or start a business, and file taxes.
Lifes always changing and a lot of people cant keep up.
Because parents don't know, and schools are restricted by the curriculum
I’m 42 and telling you that you can still change things even if you screwed some shit up before. It’s all about just starting to take the right steps and becoming the person you want to be.
So I don't know if I'm too late to comment this, nor I'm not sure if I belong here but here we are:
I am just about to be turning 26 (as of making this comment) and I am happy to say that I am in a good headspace with my life! Mostly thanks to not having a huge ego, thinking more critically and keeping a balance with everything that I do. I'm also happy with how my TH-cam channel is going, and I've got a great girlfriend who may be on the chubby side, but that okay! I still love her and we always got each others backs. Sure do I wish some things were better in my 20s? Absolutely, it's human to think that way. But no matter what, I'm doing far better than where I was when I left school. But there's always room for a little bit of improvement. Even if it's just 1%.
But hey, everyone is different. Everyone goes through life differently and at different paces. Some advice sticks around that works and some doesn't that don't. It all comes down to how one individual choose to live and take action in their lives.
Preying on insecurities? Check. Demonizing women? Check. Selling courses? Check.
The best thing about being out of my 20's is being comfortable with who I am. And i can smell this toxic bullshit from a mile away.
Great business strategy, bro.
Real tawlk
That’s so obvious though, generic advice for desperate people. It’s all business
They're all falling for it too. The new generation of males are screwed
Idk, women on dating apps in 2024 overestimate their values and get ego boosts thanks to countless thirsty simps DMing them. These thirsty men forget that half the population is female and yet they act like they’re a rare resource thanks to being unable to control their hormones. This builds up pressure in all men when even low value women think they deserve to be treated like goddesses.
Idk, women on dating apps in 2024 overestimate their values and get ego boosts thanks to countless thirsty simps DMing them. These thirsty men forget that half the population is female and yet they act like they’re a rare resource thanks to being unable to control their hormones. This builds up pressure in all men when even low value women think they deserve to be treated like goddesses.
20. In a financial mess. Pray for me 🙏
i pray for you brother
Lack of money this generation biggest problem. Today's system takes everything from you if you are in lack of money
I been in your situation, feel that bro
Real same here
I’m 33 and when I was 20 I was in a mess too. Keep going-it gets so much better.
24 years old, started university a bit late but on track to graduate business in 2 years, have been working 40 hours a week since 19, no savings but a car and stable apartment life, this video really helped me man, keep going bros.
Hey bro I am in the same situation, I also started uni late but I only have a year left
@user-kn1zm9vh2y Way to go congrats bro
Just turned 26 man.. Life's rough but I appreciate advice like this. Much love
keep going bro
You will never make it old head😅😂
I'm 23 years old, born with high functioning ASD, living with my parents, having no close friends, still working on my mental/physical health, and still don't fully know what I want to do with my life.
And still a virgin.
It sounds a little childish, and I sometimes feel ashamed of where I'm at right now, but it's alright. I still have time to figure things out before I turn 25. I'm still going strong.
Thank you so much for the video. Keep up the good work!
Bro same, I’m also 23 with autism and relate to a lot.
@jamieholt2547 Hey! How are you doing?😀
Same except I have 2 close friends and I’m not a virgin
@@diegobrando6115 Good for you.
@@jacobb8832I have trouble talking to people coming up with topics to talk about
2:19 School Brainwash
4:04 Bad Advice
7:42 First Career Opportunity, Stuck in your job
9:40 Moving out Living off independent, Isolation
14:02 Looking for help
15:03 Dating in 2024
20:02 You finally get a bf/gf
22:48 Midlife crisis
Thanks
Thxs bro
TYSM I needed this
I’m a 24 yo woman and I realized I’ve had my mid life crisis at 21. The transition from girl to woman is beautiful
glad it helped ya, cheers
24 and god same.. 21 was the worst year of my life.
@@1075MarijaveraI’m 20 about to turn 21, not looking forward to it anymore 😂😂😂
Same I'm 24 and I finally got serious about improving myself and I've started to really think deeply about what path I want to take in my life, I was incredibly lost at 21
I’m 20 about to turn 21 this month & im not looking forward to it judging by the comment section 😭✋💀
Oh so all I gotta do is fix my social skills and go to gym. I'm gonna be the happiest man alive
19 years old, working 30 hours a week, 2nd year in college 3.4 GPA on pace to graduate in 2026 as a finance student. In the gym every other day
You’re doing good bro. Keep that shit up🙌🏾
Where are you from bro? USA?
you are a role model
finance to finance person, get that gpa above a 3.5, many finance places won’t even look at you if it’s below that.
Keep going my man !!
Im 23 and its crazy how much your early years can impact everything you laid out here. What got me through was the unbending will to game the system wherever possible. I refused to make my life anything less than what I wanted.
Now im a dad, married to my highschool crush, have a masters degree, make six figures, got my own place, and have over 100k in retirement.
Everyone here can do the same thing if you put yourself in the right positions by planning ahead, creating layers of backup plans, and eliminate the option of failure.
What do you work as ?
@fn1709 I work in cybersecurity
I need friends like you man, I’m 20, can’t say I’m as accomplished as you but I’m the only one in my old friend group who made 6 figures last year, got my first house, and meanwhile my friends just play video games smoke weed and scroll social media all day 🥲
@@Jerrydiehard hey man, i want to break into cyber sec and consider it my path in iT. I hear you cant just jump in it and need either side of IT/software skills to jump into that type of role. any advice or tips would help as im really considering college for the first time after 3 years of graduating hs and working in trades
@FinesseHamilton You're doing great man! Keep killing it
I’m 23 and lost most of my youth due to severe depression. I’m currently in the path of recovery and can finally think of a future I’d like to live in. Thank you so much for this video :)
just don't be surprised when you realize that the future you want well might never come along. stay afloat for what is, and not for what you hope will be
i loathe my algorithm for recommending this to me
19 years old, I work 40 hours a week, I work in the medical field and I already invested over 2.5k within a year. I plan to do 5k the end of 2024. My mental and financial state is good. However I must start working out again.
same here but working in aerospace and having 5k+ in retirement. put like $200 in crypto, and am gonna try growing my stock portfolio. this isn't something i plan on doing my whole life, so i'm setting myself up to be able to stay stable in case this job capsizes.
If you plan on retiring you gotta start saving way more aggressively man. Look up an investment calculator if you want, someone in their 20s needs to invest $1000 a month minimum. Otherwise you’re falling behind.
@@HelloThereWhy no your right. I need to be more aggressive on my investments
Hi, I’m 21 and I’m going to start soon to work 9-5. Ma I ask you some tips on how do you balance 40hrs of work a week and social life/spare time in young age? Thank you
@@Jojez02i’ve been on an 8-8 for the last 1.5 year(s), keep in touch & maintain friends, pick and choose which hobbies you like and use pto 💀
30 here. By now, most, but not all of my "friends" from high school have officially given up trying to better themselves. Its sad. I watch to remind myself there are people who are still trying to excel and be better, because these chaches from my hometown aren't it. Love ya Denmo, keep up the good word.
YESSIR love to hear this shit! you said it the best!
A sure fire way to ruin your life at any age is taking advice from bros on TH-cam. 🙄
I’m 19 and I have completed this cycle already. Now i feel so much more fortunate and hopeful in my life because u realized so many more people had to work super hard to get there. Wish me luck guys.
I'm 22 and this is exactly what I needed bro, im so grateful
gotchu bro
Just turned 32. Still listen to Denmo because he drops gems.
my man
I’m 15
Also 32, same.
16
20, and I’m currently in total shit guys, wasting my young years. I find absolutely no motivation in anything, it seems like everything is the same and nothing will change, I feel so small and impotent. But somehow hope is still exists in my head. And I’ll beat this cruel reality, we will bro, no matter what shit is up for us we’ll rip through it. Bright future is there for us!
Gl bro
Bro read the myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camus
Workout
Get into philosophy and know yourself at every age
It ain’t over till it’s over
Good age to be at. I'm 26 and looking back, I know what I'd have done differently.
- Allocate 1-3 hours of video game time, no more, no less. Only 1 hour if 2-3 hours interferes with the rest of the schedule.
- Wake up before 7 AM to exercise and eat healthy breakfast
- Never go to bed past midnight
- Read more books
- Focus less on trying to do well in undergraduate classes, they're designed to be easy and make you forget the rest of your goals in your life (like the LSAT or similar tests).
- Social media is only allowed for archiving your life and staying in contact with people, not for mind-numbing reel scrolling for hours.
@TheRealMrBillyBob how did you get into the routine
@@falcongamer5867 practice, practice practice practice try everyday
I’m 22, still figuring out life like most of you out there. I’m just writing this for me as a remainder in 6 months to check the progress I’ve made so far, I’m tired of the mistakes I made in the last 4 years of my life. I recently decided to start college for a Computer Science program, started taking care more of my body, going to the gym here and there, I’ll test myself and see if I still keep these habits and improve 6 months from now, we got this! We’re all in here in our own journey💯
27, and it is a lonely grind
keep going bro
@@Denmosocialbig bro
I am a student under the age of 23 I see my mate getting Gfs and I am kind of pressured to get one
And deep down inside of me I know it is the wrong thing to do... I want to set my life straight and have a great future and I am trying to resist that urge of diving into relationships because I know it is disastrous for my age.... I don't know if I am doing the right thing... I need to know
You're not doing anything right calling an internet stranger your big brother. I pray you figure your life out
You're not doing anything right calling an internet stranger your big brother. I pray you figure your life out
@@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070Self reflect on what you did here, it's unnecessary
I’m 30 now. Wasted most of my twenties. Only started to wake up when I was about 28 and made changes. Still not where I want to be but going in the right direction. Greetings from Ireland Denmo! 🇮🇪
What is this guy yapping about?? That he just discovered critical thinking??
BRO ONTO NOTHING 🔥 🔥 🔥 🗣️ 🗣️
DONT LET HIM COOK 🔥 💯 💯
37yrs old and where was this video 15yrs ago?? Damn my life is kinda over but there is still small hope.
Your life is not over don't stop it ain't over until it's over
never over
all good bro keep going
„Life really begins at forty. Up until then, you are just doing research.” Carl Jung. Find the purpose and move on :D
Bruh 37?? I’m what way is it over
36 and I'm starting to have a midlife crisis. Alone, both parents passed away so my safety net is essentially gone. I only just finally got a full-time job a few months ago. Never had a girlfriend, never bothered to try since they're all out of my league. All my friends moved out of state. I did finally get my driver's license a couple of years ago and have a car. I'm trying to get back into drawing again to get better at it to start making money off it.
I was 38 when I finally found love, I hadn't dated anyone before and I don't regret it at all, because you have to go into a relationship only when you know it really makes sense, until I was 35 I was in a terrible situation financially and threatened foreclosure, I didn't have anyone at the time, who could help me, because I moved to a foreign country and the relationships in my family were complicated, anyway, after I found a boyfriend completely by accident, I opened my eyes and started to prioritize myself and to stop being so strict with myself, my life has changed a lot and I believe you can do it too, everything is possible, don't give up! I believe in you, I really do
Hope you'll doing great and achive your goals!
Sounds to me like you would benefit from a good dose of ambition. Wake every day with an aggressive goal, go out and push HARD to get it. Keep doing that, you'll raise your confidence, aura, and what you have to offer. Then, the girls will easily come to you. They are not out of your league either. Just looking pretty is not a talent, and it goes away eventually. Your ambition and what it gets for you will last. Get going!
He would benefit from a lot more than that big dawg.
@@The_QuestionautCome to the gym fella 🤝
I never really fell for the whole school, work, wife and kids ordeal. Sure I wanted and have those things now, but I wanted it to be in my terms. No surprises.
The plan was to be developing business skills while working whatever job paid enough to support myself comfortably. My life looked as if I was a complete loser to my peers because I lived at home still at 30.
Little did they know, I was building something. So I’m 35. I’ve moved out with my fiancé. At my day job I make 50k and the business makes a little over 60k (up from 30k last year and growing). In 5 years I’ll likely have everything I’ve ever wanted.
It just goes to show you that there’s no real blueprint or set way of doing things in life. As long as you keep in mind what you want out of your life. You’ll be fine.
Stuff like this motivates me to push more at 26. Things are rough now but it takes time yall--
I am 30, burned out, highly gifted and probably ADHD and this video deeply touched me.
I finished my Bachelor in Math with 20 and went on a working holiday in New Zealand after that. Then Master, then another trip. After that I took a 9-5 in automotive, which was decently paid, but it bored me and felt like a prison.
Then I started my PhD in Math abroad and - burned out.
I thought that it was my absolute passion but I think I only liked it, because I am really good at it and people gave me a lot of confirmation to it. Which I needed because of my lack of self confidence. But to succeed in a PhD you have to burn for your topic.
I never had a real girlfriend, even though I am a really good Bachata dancer (and a couple other dances). I would love to have some intimacy, but I am also struggling to really let go with girls. And do the next step.
I can feel that there is deep passion inside me. Especially when I am dancing Bachata or playing improv theatre. Or playing piano. I still don't see a market in any of these fields. Or that I am good enough to make money anywhere there.
I would love to try different things out online ... just to become independent from the location and be more free. Maybe there is a passion somewhere there.
I am financially stable but not rich. I could live a couple years without any income, but eventually my money will be gone. And that's not what I want, because it should be invested to gain more freedom in the future.
I still haven't given up my PhD but I feel like a have no choice but breaking out. This is killing me :/ I just didn't have the balls for it yet 😅
Maybe your motivational speech could change a lot ...
If I had an advice to any younger people, especially very intelligent ones: Learn to trust to your heart instead of only listening to your head.
Im 28 n still trying to make my dream work. Too many things hve happened for me to give up now. I realise the bad things that happen are mostly lessons from the universe for you to better yourself so that you could reach your goal without being a dick. The challenges are less hard when you put urself in the growth mindset and esp when you are doing smth u love……no matter what, you’ll always wanna make it fking work. So i hope all this effort will come into fruition one day. And videos like this only keeps us going by grabbing each day by the balls n owning it hard. Thanks bro, your effort will not be wasted, deep sincere appreciation brother 💪🏻🙇🏻♂️
Too late old head😂😂😂😂
Cannot express how much I appreciate long form whiteboard videos. 19 by the way, I’ll be 20 in about 7 months. It’s also worth noting I live with my brother on our own.
Yo. The same.
I’ll be 20 in 7 months too‼️💪 we got this my man
I'm glad I started a business at 19. Don't waste your time, do what makes you happy, do something that helps you provide for your future family, effortlessly. Most importantly, don't listen to your teachers, listen to the people who are where you want to be.
What kind of business are u doing broski?
I was in a downward slope today and starting to slide further. With this video, you've completely stopped that momentum and I'm now back in the stratosphere where I belong. Thank you for your time and effort, Denmo, you're doing great work.
I'm 23 and I feel like I'm wasting my life slowly... I'm trying to do the right thing... Thanks for making the video ❤
21 and finally locking in with content creation and holistic health. Spent too many hours on overthinking and stupid ass dating apps 🗣️this vid is a sign. LETS LOCK IN BOYS💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Same here. This year I wanna make a big change, maybe make some money thru yt and give my parents the life they truly deserve. that's my main goal, making my parents happy
Overthinking did me in
17 and in road of building an empire
my man
Yes sir come on
Yessir good shit
Absolutely fucking yes siiiiirrrrrr
16 year old here, teens represent
Too all the young bucks out there, listen up. DON’T GIVE UP!!
I like you man. Unlike other "youtubers" out there whom I find little phony and pretentious, I can sense your genuine, a man who really wants to give as much honest and genuine advice as possible, like a friend, a nice older brother
The one thing I would add is building a sturdy relationship with God. That’s where your confidence is derived from. That’s where you learn that having that one thing is more important than the rest. It allows you to take a risk on yourself and your dreams. My biggest regret was not realizing that soon enough or reading the Bible for myself before making prejudice judgments. It’s full of knowledge and advice that is imperishable.
As a former Christian, I agree that faith can be a large pool of strength for someone. Where I stepped out of believing is when I started seeing people around me becoming almost dependent on it. Over time I’ve learned that we are so much stronger than we think we are. And also I stopped being a Christian cause I didn’t agree with their views on a lot of things 😋
@@kostynhoffman1520Have you tried giving Islam a chance? I am a ex-Protestant and I converted to Islam few years ago it gives me the ultimate purpose and motivation
@@alfredill88 no thank you 😁🤝
There's no God
@@wizboi2480 that’s what I think too but I was trying to be less blunt about it
As a 23 year old who became a sixth form teacher straight after graduating summer last year, I feel attacked. XD
I’m 26 and still living at my parents house. Work on my resolution to get a job that pays rent this year. I won’t let myself be held back any longer
lets go brother you got this, treat your parents right, try your best in getting a job and start paying rent for them, after you've done that, look for your own place
im 17... turned 1 day ago actually...... alr guys time to grind.. all of us need to stick together and have each others back. keep up the good work
I'm 20, your videos are gold for me. Grettings from Peru!
I’m 22 and I legit followed a similar path during my 18-22. I got into a relationship in highschool and moved in with her after. Ended up dropping out of college and gained weight. After being cheated on for the 2nd time I snapped. Moved out and into a place with my brother. Life is stabilizing now, I’ve lost most of the weight I gained and I’m not afraid to be uncomfortable. Thank you Denmo, I thought for the longest time that I was alone in my struggle.
in my 30's and would likely be considered a "failure" by most twentysomethings chasing the hamster wheel, but I've never been happier or more fulfilled and comfortable with who I am in my life. once you realize that damn near everything is a well-crafted yet thinly-veiled distraction from what _really_ matters in life, the truth will set you free. it took me my entire 20's and some of my 30's to fully understand this, but I'm glad I did.
"wasting" your 20's is a state of mind and perspective. shift it, and everything changes.
Heres a guy giving you the classic redpill jargon and is selling you a course and a dream while giving tinder shit for selling you a dream
At least try and hide it better that you’re trying to exploit young people for money.
I’m 24, 1 year left to “it’s too late”
It'd never be too late, bro.
Nah bro you’d be surprised how many finally getting their life together in 30s 40s+
It’s never too late age is just a number just go at it!! Comparison is the thief of joy just keep f*cking going. I’m turning 25 in June and I just don’t give a f*ck what anyone thinks. My past made me who I am today no matter how bad it was…it’s better late than never.
It's never too late!
Keep fighting and burn those calories. Get a journal, record your W's and L's, and whenever you get stuck or sad look back and see how far you have come.
27 its not to late... i just started
Denmo, without your videos, I'd still be crying for my ex and live the rest of my life thinking I'd never find a girl who loved me like her. I'm freshly 21 and I'm trying to find purpose, your videos are an immense help to me
dont worry buddy i went through something similar at that age and i was really bummed out. you will bounce back and look back and be like "man i cant believe i was even upset by that" you got this G
Don't make the mistake that I did, and stay in a toxic relationship with a high-school crush for 12 years only to realize the best years of your 20s went down the drain with a partner who would ultimately destroy you on the way out. Maintain your boundaries and always know when enough is enough.
In the end, youll be only be guaranteed to be born and die with only you. Your opinion of yourself is what matters. Make sure you are someone you can be proud of and your egos gonna be less harsh on you down the line. Partners dont determine our value, they just say their opinion of it.
im 32 and ive been depressed and suicidal the past few months over getting out of a bad relationship and being harshly rejected by a girl at work, my life feels stagnant and feels like it's going no where but I've been slowly changing by just making small goals like clean my apartment and having a major goal in wanting to pursue a career i like doing in a couple of yrs. Your explanation of being pressured in having a gf and a house was spot on and I feel like everyone in my family doesn't understand what I am going through. Just wanna say thanks for making this video to help me realize I'm not hopeless and theres a future for me.
I'm about to turn 20 and I'm so glad I found this video on my feed, I am used to go over life without any goals but a huge opportunity appeared for me this year, so if things get right I will be able to change my whole life. And this is precisely the path I will follow. Saved the video and see you next time in the classroom
The microphone is fine.
Whats wrong is your room has too much reverb or echo going on.
You can add drapes, curtains, soft furniture to dampen the sound.
Or even get acoustic panels on your walls if you want to spend some $$
Thanks
29 and willing to make the rest of the year a blast. Greetings from Medellín, Colombia jack. A big hug and so much love for you my man.
respect buddy stay safe out there
im a 17 year old girl watching this. i thought this was gonna be a silly video at first, but damn hes lowkey spittin facts...
Same lmao😂😂
Sameee 🤭😭
Same here
Same 😭
Great video. I've been through a lot, and even been attacked for living well, but this video is so insightful and shows how normal a lot of these stages of life are.
I am 18, But I was already a lot since the age 6!!! I was funny as hell but some trauma change my life but since the age 15 I came back!!! Denmo you are literally a Legend!!!
25 in 4 months. This scared the shit out of me. I started a PhD a while ago and am happy in that. I work out, i play music and usually have an “okay” classification of my free time. But i kinda want something serious at this stage. I want a serious girlfriend, not just the casual stuff i get. This motivated me to focus more on me and continuing to have casual stuff.
glad it motivated you homie. stay strong
I'm from Brazil, i have 25 years, trying learning english and listing to advice.
I'm 23, lived most if not all of my life with depression and I finally beat it about a month ago. So yeah I would have loved to know back then what i know now, life without depression rocks.
How did you beat it?
@@rext4607 trusting in Jesus
Honestly the best advice I got was from my English teacher he told me before i graduated that life will test u and destroy but don't give up just keep fighting no matter what
I’m 23 turning 24 soon. Working a corporate 9-5 job exhausted, living with my parents saving up though.
Trying to work on side hustle to get into remote work so I don’t waste my life away commuting to and from an office.
hoping you make it 🙏 don't be ashamed with living with your parents free rent is free rent 🤷😂
@@Azooe appreciate you and yeah it’s not horrible but I do miss being able to have friends over or have a girl over. Lately I’ve been traveling a lot so I’m cutting that down for the next 6 months to focus on saving up. My target is 30k savings before dipping the job currently at 17k
I just turned 20. And rude awakening. I say be smart. Save every penny you can. And STACK UP. A lot of people don’t have that privilege. Take advantage
Do not be ashamed to live with your parents. Let me say that again: do not be ashamed of it.
I'm 25, I have a corporate job, and live at home. My boomer parents try to shame me into moving out but all of my coworkers and friends think I'm doing the smart thing. Some people are too out of touch with the reality in 2024 to realize housing in unaffordable when you're young
@@mattr2626 I’m not ashamed, it’s nice having the saving and flexibility
Just not as much privacy and freedom so it’s a trade off
I'm 19 yo, female. I'm not in college, i have no sense of direction on what i want to do. I barley managed to complete highschool and graduate. Now i'm just working a 9-5 trying to figure out what i want to do while i help pay bills.
im 24yrs old, the best thing ive learned in life is you get out exactly what you put into anything, your life is yours and it always will be, the way you spend your life is 100% up to you and no one elses. as long as you're making strides to be a better person than you were yesterday, you're doing just fine.
22, I like how straight to the point this advice is. I can tell you are speaking from experience. I'm entering a new part of my life (moving across the country to go do summer sales with my guys) and I couldn't be more excited to become independent and establish a brotherhood surrounded with like minded men working toward their goals.
He’s selling his course
I’m 22 and I thank god that I have already been through rage and no social life. Because now I am enlightened about women and have great social skills
I believe more than having someone suggest to you how to live, it's up to you to go out and have these experiences yourself. Learn the hard lessons through your own doing. Take these "life ruining mistakes" in stride, if/when you make them. And work to achieve that ideal lifestyle which works for you (it's different for everybody).
Female 27 yo.
I was super exited watching your video, and finally found some advice not from a "positive psychology" bs way (u know, acceptance and unconditional self-love crap). It's like, "ok life sucks, let's do something about it", and that's what most girls needs too. Just saying my thanks here.
21 about to turn 22
happy early birthday bro
happy early bday bro
Same man
same. we’re young bro🤝🏻
Same
I’m 26, and a financial analyst. Very accurate man amazing job. Some of the other things I’ve worked out but am guilty of wasting time to bs consumption including the dating apps. You’ve inspired me to once again get back on the free time productivity train, thanks!
I like that you have a free community. Thank you. I'm a guitarist and music is my life. I recognise that my life is not perfect though. I want to be a guitar teacher and travel the world because that would mean I'm doing what I love and I get to see the world!
You present things in a way that is encouraging and instead of scaring the crap out of me and tricking me into feeling like a failure. ( There are plenty of videos out there using negativity to control people ) .. you are actually inspiring me and others!
So my life is already ruined basically. I've never even completed or encountered any of the points in this video
I’m 24 as of this writing; you’re a luxury Mr.Denmo, whenever you drop a video I just can’t wait to check it out. Best professor out there!; I do have some trials that I’m going through, but I know I can change and want to change, thanks Mr.Denmo!
I’m 25 I look forward to life, because there’s so much to learn in life ! Listening to this with intent and passion.
15 year old female watching this!!! Trying to set my life up with good intentions and values. Thank you for the advice!
This is the realest thing I’ve seen in a while. I think you’re super genuine and no bs. Subscribed watch more of your awesome videos. Take care bro
16 years old. Lost and broken. Took a lot of Ls in 2023. Not sure what I wanna do in the future.
Same here
bro you’re 16
@@therapidliquid.9470exactly, he ain’t got much time. I feel the similarity as him and just turned 17.
Dude ur gonna be ok, highschool universally sucks and its not your fault. You just have to live and learn rn and be kind to yourself
I know it probably doesn't seem like it, but you have so much time bro, 16 is literally nothing (I mean that with the utmost respect btw). You can take Ls for the next 5 years and still be early in the game. I would advise that you learn from your failures instead of dwelling on them.
I'm currently 22 (soon to be 23) and really started to work on myself since I'm 18, some things started even earlier when I was 15 or so. When covid happened, I started to learn how I could make money online and acted on it as much as I could. I'm not at the endgoal yet, but still grinding and starting to see results! It really pays off working your ass off in something no one wants to commit to!
A lot of dudes go on google, self diagnose themselves, and go to the doctor (!!!) get some pills. DON'T go to the doctor, go and pay TH-camR instead of real doctor or a therapist!!!!
Fucking legend, i have no words.
Respect the hustle
Started working again at 24 (last year) after years of multiple chronic illnesses that started a year after I graduated.
So many things to work on.
But you know, you reminding us we spent 20 years of our life in school helps lighten the load off my chest. Meaning I have only spent 5 years, I should take it easy (different with being complacent).
3 to illness which affected my career and finances a lot and 2 to working (finding out my career path).
I’m 50 and this is relevant. Period.
damn respect to the older guys watching
bro it's wraps for you, give it up💀
@@ilytaygoLMAO BRUH
It doesn't matter your age, it's never too late to change your life, just don't give up :).
@@natsu22050 yup
I'm 26 and I'm becoming 27 and have never been in a relationship or had a close female friend yet!!
Even though I'm reading books I'm doing a mechanical engineering degree I'm a former powerlifter and I got back to the gym again I'm 6ft tall have a good look and have a big clothing and shoe collection.
basically you won't fall for at least 3/4 of these pitfalls if you stop trying to meet real girls and just simp for Hentai instead, it's quicker and gives you room to spend your time wisely on like a complex hobby or even studying whatever you like to study
My dude made a 40 minute ad
The value in this video is absolutely incredible 💯
send it to your friends
Yo, I'm 23 right now(I'm turning 24 in August) and this might just be the best advice video I've seen. I constantly have that thought of"if only I knew what I know now back in secondary school or even in primary school"(for context, I live in the UK) and I honestly thought it was just a "me" problem, but knowing that it's actually a "men" problem gives me a sense of comfort because now I feel like I'm not alone and it actually gets me even more motivated to improve my life and find true happiness than I was before I hit play on this video. I'm super thankful I didn't decide to skip it or add it to my "watch later" playlist and then forget about it like I've done with the 20+ other videos I have yet to check out 😅. And I think it's worth mentioning that I haven't gone through the exact same experience as what you've described but I get the vibe that you're not saying that every man will go through this exact experience. That's not the point. My story so far might not be exactly the same but I have the same feeling of hopelessness regardless and this video captured those feelings regardless of the specifics. Thank you Denmo! As a 23 year old man, I've become even more motivated to improve my life🥰.
Bro, I am turning 21.
You don't know how impactful and entertaining your video is!
Subscribed, liked and shared!