I'm glad you decided to tell your story. My mother died in 1995... And before she did... We had a conversation about my childhood abuse.. she changed personalities and screamed at me calling me a liar. (She was always very passive) this cut me to my core because she basically invalidated my words and experience to preserve her innocence in failing to protect me. She put me in clearly dangerous situations over and over so that she could benefit by "having a man" I was the only step child in a large family. What makes it worse.. is in my teen years, her younger brother was exposed for molesting a family member during early childhood (he was an adult)... And the family member also revealed that this brother of my mom molested me as an infant! My mom was so angry at this family member, she NEVER spoke to her again. Mom down played her brothers actions by telling me he only touched me slightly out of an innocent curiosity... Made it sound like an inspection 😐 Years later... When i was in my early 20's When this brother of my mom was seeking God and therapy.. he came to me and told me the entire story (which he admitted to my mom when it was originally exposed years before). The truth was nothing like what my mother said. What he did was so shocking to me... But somehow it didn't hurt my soul like my mom lying to me to protect him did. Mind you... When these two situations with my mom happened, she was dying. She went to her grave denying I was harmed in any way in my childhood. She went to her grave calling me a liar and protecting everyone who destroyed me mentally and physically. She is the only one I still struggle to forgive. Your story hit me REALLY DEEP... I know every ounce of your pain ... That is abuse too... And it's worse 😢 You should have been protected!
You should've been protected too Hun. Im so sorry this happened to you as well at the hands of a family member. My mother is a gaslighter and is very narcissistic as well. You didn't deserve what happened to you and none of it was your fault. Sending you Love and light ❤❤
@SunShine-The1 Wow, I'm so sorry this happened to you love!!! It definitely hit different when it's family. What happened to you doesn't define you and I'm glad you finally were able to speak out about it because that says that you have all power over the situation and not the other way around. Your voice will be heard whether that cousin likes it or not, your voice is powerful whether he like it or not. I'm definitely glad that my story helps you be bold enough to tell yours. Love and light sis ✨️ 💕 💛
Don't cry tell your story I don't care who is mad or offended that's wrong and no lil one or grown up is about to hide no dirty family secrets..girl do your thing speak up your beautiful
thanks so much for watching and thanks for the kind words ❤️❤️. this was definitely a hard video to get through. I will absolutely continue to share my story.
I'm not trying to build a case, take anyone to court. I prefer to move on. I just need to heal from this situation and my mother's reaction to me telling her this happened to me. Thanks so much for Watching!!
I'm glad you decided to tell your story. My mother died in 1995... And before she did... We had a conversation about my childhood abuse.. she changed personalities and screamed at me calling me a liar. (She was always very passive) this cut me to my core because she basically invalidated my words and experience to preserve her innocence in failing to protect me. She put me in clearly dangerous situations over and over so that she could benefit by "having a man"
I was the only step child in a large family.
What makes it worse.. is in my teen years, her younger brother was exposed for molesting a family member during early childhood (he was an adult)... And the family member also revealed that this brother of my mom molested me as an infant!
My mom was so angry at this family member, she NEVER spoke to her again. Mom down played her brothers actions by telling me he only touched me slightly out of an innocent curiosity... Made it sound like an inspection 😐
Years later... When i was in my early 20's When this brother of my mom was seeking God and therapy.. he came to me and told me the entire story (which he admitted to my mom when it was originally exposed years before).
The truth was nothing like what my mother said.
What he did was so shocking to me... But somehow it didn't hurt my soul like my mom lying to me to protect him did.
Mind you... When these two situations with my mom happened, she was dying.
She went to her grave denying I was harmed in any way in my childhood. She went to her grave calling me a liar and protecting everyone who destroyed me mentally and physically. She is the only one I still struggle to forgive.
Your story hit me REALLY DEEP... I know every ounce of your pain ... That is abuse too... And it's worse 😢
You should have been protected!
You should've been protected too Hun. Im so sorry this happened to you as well at the hands of a family member. My mother is a gaslighter and is very narcissistic as well. You didn't deserve what happened to you and none of it was your fault. Sending you Love and light ❤❤
Ur growth process is amazing and being confident enough to share with the world is empowering I love you
I love you more 😘
@SunShine-The1 Wow, I'm so sorry this happened to you love!!! It definitely hit different when it's family. What happened to you doesn't define you and I'm glad you finally were able to speak out about it because that says that you have all power over the situation and not the other way around. Your voice will be heard whether that cousin likes it or not, your voice is powerful whether he like it or not. I'm definitely glad that my story helps you be bold enough to tell yours. Love and light sis ✨️ 💕 💛
🥺 I don't understand it either girl. I'm so sorry this happened.
Yes I'm still struggling with this. I'm still working on not blaming myself for not speaking up. Thanks so much for watching and commenting.
Thank you for sharing your story! I’m so sorry and I’m waiting for part 2
Yesss...thanks for watching!! A part 2 is coming up and it has more to do with why I went no contact with my mom because of this...stay tuned!!
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Don't cry tell your story I don't care who is mad or offended that's wrong and no lil one or grown up is about to hide no dirty family secrets..girl do your thing speak up your beautiful
thanks so much for watching and thanks for the kind words ❤️❤️. this was definitely a hard video to get through. I will absolutely continue to share my story.
I know this is so hard but you need enough evidence to build the case against him right?
I'm not trying to build a case, take anyone to court. I prefer to move on. I just need to heal from this situation and my mother's reaction to me telling her this happened to me. Thanks so much for Watching!!
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Yeah I know right lol...thanks for watching!!!