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"I told my family before" I need this confidence in life💀
IKR
Where do people find these kind of families man
@@tannisthasandilya1702 literally was thinkin the same thing lmao
I wanted to know so badly how her family reacted! Or how supportive they were.
@@rollercoaster24 fr me too 😂
I love how they edited this to make it feel like one big massive chaotic story
Lol I feel like they always do that!!
Fr the ‘we were watching/chicken little/ in the basement on the couch’😭
"17 at a church camp" key word CHURCH 😭
😭😭😭
That is so sad
@@Crowned1000Why..?? Most kids/teens are literally FORCED against their will to go to church camp bc they get indoctrinated by their families religious beliefs from birth and don’t have a say in it - it’s the teens choice so it’s not sad cause never chose the religion in the 1st place .. the choice was made for them!👌
@@divine_simplicityIt is sad because some of the best times of my life have been at church camp surrounded by people that love God. It’s sad to see a great space to worship God is turned into a fornication event. It’s also sad to see them disregard the Lord’s word on sexuality and virginity.
I never liked the term “losing your virginity”. I love calling it your “sexual debut”, because what are you losing? It’s an experience!
❤️
I never lose. 🙂
That's quite right, I will start using that term now
I will now start using that term now
I loveeeee this comment!
I was 15, with an older woman. Looking back, I realized I was abused, but at the time I thought it was a “flex”. It’s not, and I’m ashamed of letting it happen. Take your time and find the right person, not just to check off a list and brag to friends. Trust me, you won’t feel any different when you lose your virginity.
Edit: She’s in jail now.
@@jamesbovington8218 I was taken advantage of by a 30+ year old woman. I was a minor. Yes I was forced in a way that she would initiate everything, I just went with the flow. What type of question is that? I wish I did stop it looking back, but at the time I thought it would be cool to brag to my friends about it, but no, it’s actually really disgusting just thinking about it. I don’t think adults taking advantage of minors should be “perfectly normal.” If the gender roles were swapped, you know it would be a different story. But because I’m a guy, I take full responsibility huh? Think about your comment for a second…
It’s really insensitive of you to make it seem like my fault after I just shared a personal story that is a bit sensitive to me. I was literally raped as a minor…
@@TofuBebe Well that makes the situation absolutely clear and you are quite right. Ok thanks no intention to be insensitive and of course you are right that people's reactions would have been quite different had the gender roles been reversed. Your story does show the importance of adults allowing children and young people to grow up in their own time and offers a timely lesson Thanks for sharing these thoughts. Best wishes.
@@jamesbovington8218 If I were you I would delete my previous comment.
@@randomstuffszz452 what did he comment?
@Abbi Rezac I totally forgot 💀😭. But I guess he took my word and deleted them 😃
If you’re a virgin, take your time. You don’t have to be like others. Don’t let anyone pressure you into doing what you don’t wanna do. You’re doing great!
Thank you so much, that’s rlly kind of you
Exactly we needed to hear this
31 and still hanging on. Definitely waiting for true love, my husband.
i wish i knew this at 14
that’s right!!
23. Still a virgin. Never had a relationship. Afraid I might die alone, lmao.
Im 19, can relate.
Hell yeah 22 and i m goona die virgin 😂
Everyfrigginone of us will die alone, even those dying right beneath/in the arms of their longterm partner. I hope You'll do something with the life You got, while the dying part should come to thought once it is about time!
28 virgin 😅😂😂
Just remember it's not a race your time will come don't worry.
"the guy is a porn star now" 😂😂 Jesus christ 💀 this dude never disappoints
Bro he just said that out of nowhere and I was like wait what?
I swear I know that guy from somewhere is he not like a youtuber or something he looked so familiar the first time I saw him on here
@@echouniverse I think he's a bartender
@@echouniverse he's in many CUT videos ^^
Which part?
1:04 “Sweet Home Alabama was playing“
Yo who did you lose it to 💀
14. Date rape. Only told my 3 best friends at the time. Black eye, fat lip, white as a ghost. My mom was oblivious to what happened, never said anything about the marks.
The guy died a few years later while drunk driving, drove his truck into a tree, no seat belt, died laying on the ground after going through the windshield. I felt just was finally done.
Whoa. I'm sorry.
You are a very brave soul. I hope your life now is treating you better. ❤️
I'm so sorry for you. I hope you are working on releasing your trauma and things get better in your life!
@@Мелисса-ы7п I’m now in my 50’s and my life is great. I dealt with the trauma and everything surrounding it before I hit my 20’s. I got help, had a great support group in my friends and knew I wasn’t a victim it a survivor. Thank you.
Im sorry that happened to you. just wanna reassure you that you're still a virgin! hope that guy rots in hell.
"It was on Halloween, we were watching umm chicken little in the basement on a couch" who tf is this editor😂
Lmao 😂😭
Hes trying to tell his own story in a subtle way
The editor is either getting paid too much or not enough
@@blazenglory7493 so true lmaooo
@@gnoll1812 that would be incredible if it were true lol
Still "carrying" The V-card at the age of 24. Tbh, doesn't bother me anymore, still happy in life
Facts.it happens when it happens.
Got a year ahead of you haha
29 and I will be 30 this summer. I'm still virgin
@@Back2basics88 At this point I just want to do it for the sake of it lol, Im 22
It really sucks that you were made to feel bothered by it. I'm glad it doesn't anymore.
I lost mine at 12, he was 28. It wasn't consensual at all. He's now in prison. And I am now waiting till marriage✌
If its not consensual, then it wont count if you dont want it to. You are genuinely loved, have a great day :)
I hope you're okay now,that's teribble
i’m very sorry, but mostly disgusted by that man, you didn’t deserve that
That shitty man! Anyways I hope you're okay now
Goddamn...
0:20 EXCUSE ME
FINALLY SOMEONE NOTICED 😭😭😭
I know right? wtf.
29. It was on a beach late night. I really enjoyed it. It was a great night. Will never forget that.
virginity is such an interesting concept both socially and religiously. i would just hope we continue to broaden the conversation about consent, our bodies, and when we’re ready rather than feeling pressured.
Yeesss this!! Beautifully worded
I agree 100%
Agreed. I'm saving it till marriage
I just find it interesting how here in the USA the main religion is Christianity, which beats us over the head with how premarital sex is wrong and that we need to save virginity for marriage. And yet our society is obsessed with premarital sex and shames people for not doing it, or setting these ideas that you're still a virgin until you've "gone to 4th base" and that "3rd base doesn't count" or stuff like that
@@tvbnine793 I agree 100 percent what you just said
When someone pressures you into sex that is always a red flag 🚩. At that point just run away, i had 2 of my friends get literally abused into having sex. I hope it never happens to anyone else 🙏
I wish it hadn't happened that way for me, but it did. Pressured by the guy and my girl mates. It was horrendous. And I still haven't been able to enjoy intimate sex to this day (12 years later). I don't know if I'll ever be able to relax
@@roberta_ it's perfectly fine if you never do. Just take everything at your own pace, set your boundaries, and you'll be fine
Same! I was pressured into saying yes then I wanted to back out but was made to feel like a horrible person if I went back on my word. To anyone reading this, you never owe anyone your body. No matter what you said, how they feel or even how you feel. Feelings and sex do not have to coincide. Your body is yours alone and no one should dictate how or when you should choose to take that step.
It’s so sick that this is so common. As a dude, if I ever feel like I’m pressuring the girl I immediately feel like a creep and back off 😬
I'm glad I was able to get out of having sex with a guy that tried to pressure me. It was such an uncomfortable experience, especially since I was so young.
If it wasn’t consensual then it doesn’t count my loves! You lose it when you truly feel like you did :))
💕💕
This needs more likes it’s powerful
@@susej234 ..... but it ain't the real true reality, sadly.
I strongly recommend to stick to reality and truth, for running away into fantasia land brings so much extreme trouble for everybody involved ....
@@manfredschmalbach9023 wtf are you saying
@@Luke-yd7wk What I am dafuq saying is: escapism and denial are, in the trouble they cause for everybody involved, as toxic as nonconsensual encounters are.
12 is way too young. thats scary to think
IM SORRY BUT 12???????????
My friend lost at 8 💀
@@FeInLowKey 🧢
That's depressing.
Me at 6
Yeah, me at 2
“I don’t even know if he stuck it in the right hole” 😭😭😂
Same 😂😂
Trust me there's gotta be a difference
She knew
she 100% knew you literally cannot not know 😭😭
@@katielowery1925 right?! 😂
@@thrattjaouhard3372 😂😂
I lost mine at 26 to my long-term partner and it was completely spontaneous but afterwards I felt like all the trauma that I carried on my back for 20 years had just vanished in that night. It was an incredibly liberating experience and I count myself incredibly lucky ❤️
I want to be like yours. Not some rando. Wish me luck. ✌️
Awh that’s beautiful
I'm so glad for you!! I'm 20 and this makes me have hope that my trauma may not last forever
Are you still together?
@@tronalddump2444 Yeah! We’re still together! We’ll have our 6 year anniversary in August!
I was 20. No shame here losing it a bit later. Not sure why so many people are in such a rush to lose it as young as they can.
EDIT: I've been seeing a lot of replies saying that "20 is young." I agree. It is young. I'm referring simply to nowadays. Society pressures us into doing it young because for whatever odd reason being a virgin is frowned upon.
I think it's a much bigger deal for guys because of how often its thought of and talked about and how the word virgin is used as an insult in some contexts. The fact that shows, movies and porn over dramatize it and make it seem like such a big deal doesnt help either. It really isnt a big deal. It doesnt make you any cooler or more of a man.
I was 20 also!
@@draedon_ In comparison to others nowadays, yes.
It’s still young, but not in comparison to what happens with the masses. Plus it's not like things immediately changed at the flip of a switch afterwards. I have social anxiety so I struggle on that front.
i was 20 also.
I was 20 too, no regrets i had a good time probably better than if i did it younger
It was at 20. I was comfortable, I finally found a guy I could trust, it didn't hurt at all. The important thing - I had already been at his house overnight before, and he didn't pressured me into doing anything I wasn't ok with. That made me feel safe and take the initiative 😊 And I happily told my mom the day after haha
Just wanna say that these comments are awesome, they really reassured me that nothing is wrong with me still being a virgin at 19, so thanks to everyone who shared their experiences
I'm a girl and I lost it at 19 and honestly I'm completely fine with it, I had other sexual experiences with a girl earlier that didn't really start in a consensual way, I was 13. I swear, it's much better to do it when you're ready and when the other person treats you well. I lost it (i did penetration) for the first time with my actual boyfriend, I was between 19 and 20 and now I'm 21 and we're still happy and together :) please, do it when you're comfortable
same here kinda just wanna wait a while lol
@@angrydurian814✝️✝️✝️
I'm 27 and still a virgin. No pressure! I will do it with a good person and not because I have to
I love these kinds of videos because they show how different people are in every way and it's really a wonderful thing. It's sad that we often lose sight of that these days.
I agree
We don't actually.
Race is real
Both of us were 15 and did it in the family bathroom at the mall lol, worst experience ever when the janitor came in and started mopping while we were in a breast feeding room behind a curtain
Wtf
Legend
Queen😍
Reading this gave me anxiety
Yo this story has me dying omfg😭😭
"Sweet home Alabama was playing"
Girl... Hold on a sec, don't make people assume weird stuff.
This was the comment I was looking for 🤣🤣🤣
Was Waiting for this comment😂
I just love that I lost my virginity to my husband, before we were married, and he lost my virginity to me, so it was nice. I was 18 and he was 21, and I was happy that I waited. Partners before my husband tried to force me and tried to put me in situations for things to happen when I didn't want them to and for my husband to be completely different was awesome. I recommend that if you're still a virgin, don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to!
0:15 “I’m not answering this…!”
Girl you never answer anything! 😂
I was 19, i was so awkward and embaressed that i cried 🤣 still with him now almost 9 years later
now that's a keeper
@@rosegold5562 definately 😍 he immediately calmed me down and told me i didnt have to do anything i didnt want to and we could stop if i wanted i didnt want to i was just shy 🤣
@@xtoxickissesx2138 aww what a guy, im manifesting someone like that into my life lol
@@xtoxickissesx2138 Aww that's so fricking sweet! This is exactly how you should do it. He's definitely a keeper
Awhhh 🥺
why is no one talking about that one person using scented lotion as lube💀💀
lotion, not perfume
@@reesienoe ohhh okay okay ty. still bad😂
FR
It happened when I was 19 on a first date, super drunk and without consent. Ironically I was diagnosed with panic disorder a year later 🤔 still wonder if that’s when things went downhill
That's terrible, I'm really sorry you had to go through that
Abril Selene Mancedo thank you, I try to block the memory out. It’s a secret I’ve only told one person but I quickly learned not to talk about it after I was blamed for it and accusing me of saying that because I “just didn’t like it”
That’s horrible! Hope you are feeling well!
that was so out of line for the person to say! I do believe you and am really really sorry you had to experience that
That's messed up...I'm sorry.
the guy who lost it at 12 is a victim
What about the woman who said age 7 😭
@@angelicmcleod5099wait i missed that💀💀
@@angelicmcleod5099 rip to them both
I lost mine at 19 on a first date from a guy on Bumble 💀I was just so curious cause I literally never done anything like that, I was a big nerd in school and never dated anyone so I just wanted to lose it. But I don’t really regret it, but I do wished maybe I lost it with someone I built a relationship with :/
Same I barely knew the guy, but you know if you were going to lose it with your high school sweetheart or whatever, eventually you were gonna break up anyways so the experience was going to be pretty much the same lol
We need more of the story at 2:27 cus that’s wild.
omg yes pls
The way he laughs seeeeeennntt me 😭
frl cause at 14 in the WOODS 😭
my story is just like his 😂
@@angelmarieproductions1347 no wayy can u say what happened 😂
I was 25. I didn't want to wait but no one wanted me or found me attractive until I met someone online at 25. Honestly, I feel ashamed that my life took it that way, but the person I lost it with was very experienced, it was good!
You shouldn't be ashamed of nothing, peer pressure is toxic, we are all different and all have different paces.
Yeah, there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of there. I was 22 and generally the girls I liked weren't interested, any that did like me I didn't want to do that. It's crazy that there's any kind of pressure at all to have sex. I'm really happy for you that your first time was a good experience, worth waiting for! Another thing I'd add, is that I didn't know what love really was until I met my (now) wife. Although I benefitted from previous experience and was a better lover when we met, I do kind of wish that she'd been my only partner, that I'd saved myself for her. But if I had, I wouldn't have had a clue what I was doing, so.....!
Our story is kinda similar.
"We had a threesome in the woods behind our school." Lmaooo damn! Y'all are adventurous to the max! 🤣
Kinda hoping for everyone to collectively start calling it having your sex debut or something instead of "losing your virginity" bc how do you "lose" something consensually especially when that something isn't even real. Love how we're all becoming more comfortable talking about sex tho and normalizing talking about it!
Underrated comment
Yes, in the past people used to be all secretive about it and now everybody’s talking about it kids adults teens lol
3:20 her hair is so pretty 😍
3:48 ah yes my people
i lost my virginity to rape a year ago. i now have a boyfriend who loves me, and i am continuing to save myself until marriage ☺️
So sorry you experienced that 😢
@@Kassnessa4life go on strong girl ♡
You didn’t loose anything. Virginity is yours until you have consensual sex.
I would say you haven't lost your virginity! Virginity is something you make of yourself and the consent you give the other person. As you didn't give consent, you haven't lost your virginity. Btw sending so much hugs and strength to you!❤❤❤❤ Your experience isn't anything anyone would want to experience!!!
Really sorry...
My first time I kept thinking “this was better when I was doing it alone” and the feeling was definitely mutual. 😂😂
ikr😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😭😭😭
Yeah 😁
real
Seeing people who haven't lost their virginity yet is refreshing to me, i was starting to feel bad about myself at 22 but thank you for showing me im not alone in this. People have shamed me for it, it's not that i'm A-Sexual but moreso that im not actively looking to have sex or for a relationship and im inside most of the time working on my personal projects and ive had to put a lot of effort in 'repairing' myself from some trust issues and trauma. I personally don't care when it happens, but i am a little scared if i'll find anyone at all if i tell them i am a virgin in the future. I'm not ugly and i'm not awkward or anti-social, i'm very confident in my ability to talk, hang out and be fun so i feel like i could get something if i tried but its just really not a priority for me, if it happens it happens and if it doesn't, it doesn't.
At 0:07 into the video I’m crying laughing!!!! “Uaghhhauhahhh” 😂😂😂😂😂
I was 21, and some advice to all the younger people, don't stress about it. If it happens it happens but there's no pressure . It's not a big deal whatsoever, just make sure you're ready and actually wanting it.
and also be ready for outcomes, might be negative or positive
It’s actually such a big deal, you’re literally giving your body to someone who, unless you’re married, doesn’t deserve it and has not earned that privilege
I was 19, with my current boyfriend of a 1yr and a half. It was in his room in a very comfortable situation. Don’t feel obligated to lose it. Also, learning about foreplay is useful and allows you to get intimate with people without the heaviness of “loosing it”. Being a virgin isn’t a huge deal, you aren’t being held back because of it.
Same here!
imagine losing ur virginity to a THREESOME in the WOODSSSSS behind A SCHOOL????? WHAT. 😭😭
3:56 LMAO SAMEEEEEEEEEEE
15, he was 14, it was the first time for both of us, 6 years later and we’re still together, I’m very much in love with him. Leading to it we talked about it a lot, a lot about details and stuff what we wanted to do. So basically we’ve planned this for weeks, and then the day I was so nervous at first but then it just felt right. Very beautiful. Would want to relive it again.
Aw this was sweet to see someone who had a similar experience as I had :)
It feels so wholesome to see someone who actually enjoyed it! All of the other stories are making me want to stay a virgin forever
I've always been curious where ppl do it, like did ur parents let him in ur house?
@@mohammedabouraia1197 yea this age seems really young I’m shocked
Hey same here! :)
“you told you’re family” “yes” 😳😳
Mixing your and you're makes it sound so much worse
@@YopparaiNyanko broooooo
@@YopparaiNyanko it’s okay they probably live in alabama
I'm 30, still virgin. Never even been on a date or kissed a guy. It really affects my self-confidence and self-esteem 😔💔
Hey there, keep your head up. That doesn't define you or your worth!! You are enough! There are a bunch of people out there that are going through the same
You'll find the right one
U must be a black girl
I feel your pain I am on the same boot.
You shouldn't feel bad about this because you're not the only one. I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin
I’m 20 and I want to remain a virgin forever. I just don’t want that kind of intimacy with anyone. I had my first kiss at 13, but that boy was the only person I ever kissed, and we never made out or anything like that. Unfortunately, I’ve been accused of being an incel even though my celibacy is voluntary. People _have_ been sexually attracted to me and one even went as far as to _tell_ me she wanted to lose her virginity to me when we were 17, but I just don’t _want_ to have sex. The mere idea of it both scares and repulses me.
have you looked into asexuality? it might explain what you feel like
@@thesmiths_enthusiast Yes, and I do believe I’m ace-spec. I’m not 100% asexual, as I’ve experienced sexual attraction for two fictional characters, but I’ve never been sexually attracted to a real person, or even a human for that matter. (Both fictional characters were non-human.) Something about humans in particular makes me uncomfortable.
1:40 this mans drip is godly
4:48 "self discovery and lot of confusion"
I LIKE it
I like HIM
21 , to a nice guy who cared and it was a good time in my life.
I am sorry for those who have expressed experiencing trauma after their first encounters, hope you find the strength to get past it.
You’re rlly kind and I’m happy for you that you had a good first experience
16, also to a sweetheart who made it fun and I was also really sad to see how many traumatic experiences there were...:(
If you really didn't like it, or if it wasn't consensual then you don't ever have to believe that it happened and don't force yourself to think that it changes who you are!!
I’m twenty seven and have done nothing, not even a hand hold. When my special person comes along it’s going to be wild and passionate. I want them to guide me though everything. I deserve a slow love and will not settle for anything less. Energy transfer is a thing, a lot of people forget or don’t care, and then wonder why things get messy. Love yourself
✌️
👍
❤️
You will 🌻
Am 25 🥰🤸
I lost mine at 24 when I felt ready with the guy I had been dating for two months and who would become my boyfriend back then. Even if the relationship didn't work out I don't regret having my first time with him.
I'm glad I didn't let other guys pressure me into having sex with them before I was ready to do so. I've had a boyfriend at age 15 who was trying to pressure me into having sex with him but at that time I was just a kid. A few other guys and make up sessions followed and I'm lucky there's never been a guy who would go too far without my consent.
So just take your time, don't pressure yourself. You will know when the time is right! Also, you won't feel different afterwards. It's not a life changing experience. For me it was just nice to stop wondering how sex would be like and if it was going to hurt (it did for me and there was blood, but that doesn't mean it will be the same for you).
5:09 sounds exactly like zendayas voice no one can convince me other wise
It doesn’t but 👌
I'm 20 and still have no experience at all in relationship and not lose my virginty because I never had any opportunity like no one ever asked me out or at least someone I was interested in. It's reassuring to see your comments when all of my friends kind of categorize me for that
I am conventionally pretty/average so never had an issue with people wanting to have sex with me but the more people asked the more scared I felt! I lost my virginity at 25 with my current boyfriend and he was very experienced so I felt safe, loved and happy. I think those things are all you can ever ask for.
Wholesome as hell! Happy for you :)
That’s beautiful, I’m happy for you!!
Those are the best kind of sex experiences. It's really scary when there's pressure to please someone or when it feels like they are forcing you to have sex. I'm just glad I was able to get out of an uncomfortable situation unharmed.
I feel this. I used to feel so anxious and scared as well when guys kept offering to take it.
that sounds perfect!
YIKES. I was 14 he was 15 it was both our first times. Super painful for me, and it lasted the entire length of the Hawthorne Heights ALBUM "If only you were lonely". Errors were made, and his whole family knew afterwards because it looked like a small animal had been murdered on the couch. 😬 I broke up with him 2 weeks later, and he decided to be manipulative by attempting to off his self. I give him a 3/10 do not recommend.
@@aIysssa the animal part 😭😭
3??? How?? That's a -1000 right there
What a pity - the slaughterhouse-experience ain't all that seldom though.
lmfaoo
Was there blood? There doesn't need to be blood. I've heard many people believe there's always blood the first time.
04:03 I was so happy when he came on he's def my fav
5:16 I feel so bad for them :(
we have tha same name
I'm 26, and I still have yet to lose my virginity. We will see how long I remain a virgin. I personally just don't feel ready for sex. I want my first time to be with someone who I have a good connection with. I am also not at a stage of life where I am prepared to handle the potential consequences of sex such as pregnancy, so I think that's another reason to stay a virgin.
I thought I was alone. I'm not financially or emotionally ready for a kid and the thought of losing it always get trumped by me accidentally getting pregnant and I resort back to staying inside and being a hermit
I lost mine at 25 & I knew it was the right time. I was pressured since 14 to do it but waited until I was 100% ready. Keep doing you, you sound very responsible.
25 here and still a virgin. I don't like socialising or going out, I love to stay at home, not to mention I have trust issues, so that's why I haven't done it despite having opportunities before. Still, I do wonder when I'll lose it or whether I'll meet someone I trust enough.
@@metatrontf off topic but you’re really pretty ☺️
same
I was 25, i lost it to my girlfriend, we still are together. I was the last one out of my closest guy friends when lost it. And yes as a male, there is MUCH MORE pressure and intimacy, only if you personally know me, you would know i'm a virgin, because how i carried myself and was able to handle those awkward situations very well, i was confident before and after, i didn't change a bit. People exaggerate things, it's not that serious!
I will never have sex because 40 year old virgins become wizards with magical powers
@@thomasshelbyasmrconnoiseur7046 godspeed
@@thomasshelbyasmrconnoiseur7046 slay also same
0:25 I didnt know debate teams got wild like that.
I’m more surprised about how energetic and passionate about it the man is
I was 18 almost 19 when I lost mine to a long term partner who im not with anymore. I felt a little pressured but the more we talked about it the more comfortable I felt with the idea, we took it slow and did baby steps to get to that point, but im not a fan of him saying he was frustrated and wasnt sure how much longer he could wait and maybe was going to lose interest in sex completely. He was my first and he did end up apologizing about what he said, but it goes to show that sometimes it was like he put his feelings above mine or my comfort.
I experienced something very similar. My boyfriend was very sweet, but still I felt pressured to have sex with him. He even once said he didn't know how much longer he was willing to wait (even though we were 17 and only together for a few weeks/months). And so I had sex with him..... This resulted in painful sex for years and me struggling to trust him/men in general.
I'm so sorry to everyone this has happened to
Y'all sleeping on "Sweet Home Alabama was playing" 💀
14. Not entirely consensual. Went until I was 19 to have sex again. It's amazing how good it can feel when you are able to say you're consenting.
I'm sorry that happened to you
A good one would be whether you've gotten an STD, and which one it was, how you got it, and how it made you feel.
It might lower the stigma of getting one.
'Sweet Home Alabama' was smth I deff didn't expect to hear in this vid
I lost my virginity at seventeen. With this guy I had just met at a house party. I still love him to this day. I have no idea where is he or how he's doing. But he was very punk rock and handsome. He was everything I wanted him to be. My taste has changed now that I'm older and wiser. Just this and that changed but I still adore our meeting. We were young and getting our way with eachother. St the time house parties were the best thing happening. We were drunk. I stopped drinking last year. It's just something you do when you're young and dumb. But then you grow up. He was my playmate for the night! No regrets!
Almost lost it at 14 and then again when I was 16. Never progressed past foreplay because I realized that I really didn't want to have sex, it also wasn't consensual but that's another story. I'm 19 now and a virgin by choice
Had just turned 19. Second date. We married and have been together for over a decade. Now 29. 2 beautiful children and pregnant with baby #3. :)
Wait what? You married at age 10?
Married at most 10? Wtf
@@harellzi Reading comprehension issues. We met at 19. I am now 29. It has been over ten years. Not that difficult to comprehend. Jesus. 🙄
@@laurelmoonwalk3043 We met at 19 over ten years ago and slept together on the second date. I am now 29, now married to that same person, 2 beautiful kids with one on the way.
@@chocoboqueen5498 You just turned 29 right? But your comment says you just turned 19. Change it please or others shall think you married at 10 like I did
Damn, I'm 28 and a virgin. Oh well, off to become a wizard
Sam fam lyfe
@@robynbrowne1277
We will become the greatest wizards in the kingdom, God speed bro
Still young sweety
@@scarlettkhan9667
Thanks for the encouragement, Scarlett. I wish I could find a nerd or geek like me or someone who has less sexual experience. But there are too many geeky women I talked to who mocked me or said I'm a sexist or incel just because I had taken my parent's traditions to heart. And society at large in the west and Japan sees me as a loser or a miserable person.
@@AdamUnfriended noo
I was 18 and regret it! I’m 23 now. I Would tell my younger self not to care what guys think so much or seek validation from them. I was naive and didn’t know any better. I thought sleeping with guys would make them “love me” 😂 I wish I just focused on myself and practiced self love. 🥰 I do that now! I don’t beat myself up about it now, what’s done is done. It’s in the past and doesn’t define who I am today.
I wish self love and men being respectful of women was taught in school. What a better world we would live in.
Omgosh i was the same! I regretted it completely and only went through with it and future times because I wanted validation and to feel loved. I'm 38 now, with my partner of 8 years and they never pressure me. Happiest I've ever been.
I lost mine 1 week (+1 day) ago. I felt ready, and was really comfortable with him. Enough to say what I needed or wanted. It DID hurt a little a the beginning, but the sensation was indescribable. Since it hurts a little I asked him to stop, which he did directly, without asking "you sure u want to stop?" or those type of things who would have make me feel bad and angry afterwards (since I had some traumas concerning consentment before). He asked me about my feelings and was really sweet when it ended.
I'm not proud to say I did my first time without protection ! But we did buy protections the day after.
weren’t you anxious because you could get pregnant?
for anyone who needs to hear it: it doesn't count if it's not consensual. you deserve to be loved properly
omg the girl at 5:27 is Nina from the "7 high schoolers choose who wins $1000 dollars" video i think!
can i quiz you on ocean facts??
27! I'm feeling WAAAAYY better that I'm turning 20 and still a virgin
People feel bad about being a virgin at 20?...
@@leszz yes. yes we do.
I'm 20, happy and proud to be a virgin
I'm 25 and still have my v card
I’m 19 and still a virgin im saving it for the special one
12. Under a bridge. It didn't feel good at all.
I know. Super romantic. Please don't rush it guys. It's really not that serious trust and believe.
@@tripx6912 I recommend you seek professional help if you are having suicidal thoughts. I hope it gets better for you!❤️
Under a fucking bridge? Hahahaha
y’all some trolls or sum
@@Dayo030 yup. Teenagers can be extra 🤷🏾♀️
@@moneymakinmitch8130 I mean I guess. Or were just sharing our experiences. It's really not that deep fam. Relax.
do people in america really look like the fortnite lobby or is this intended for the video ?
worse
still here trying to figure out if the woman at 3:42 really just made an young royals reference hahahha
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I was 22, I feel like I'm on the much older end of the spectrum now for sure.
even being 15, most of my friends have already lost their virginities. i mean i have a girlfriend too but i just dont feel ready...its crazy lol
I was 22 as well! For my own self I’m glad it happened a little later than most (no shame to those that choose to do it earlier though)
Lol, I'm 25 and I still don't feel ready. I feel like my expectations are wayy too high. I think I'd only do it with someone who I really care about and who I know cares about me.
I lost it at 21 and I wasn't even ready then!
@@DARKENINGTIMES sex isn’t even a big deal tbh.
1:05 Yeah, about that...
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Ikr
Church camp is apparently where everything happens💀😭🤣
I was one of the last in my school class, I just never felt interested in it or saw people that way. But then I fell in love with my girl best friend. We started dating with 18 and on my 19th birthday we went camping and it happened. It was only like a minute and I had no clue what I was doing, but it felt really romantic and good. We got much, much better at it over the past 13 years, but it's still a memory I deeply cherish.
that one girl always says she not answering any of the questions, but i respect her standing up for her own :)
It’s relieving to see there’s other women in their 20’s who are inexperienced like myself, even tho nobody believes it can be possible because of age being over 21
There are comments written by men and women even at the age of 30, many people don't believe that it's impossible because there's no right age
it's so cool to see people from their other videos appear in the "keep it 100" series.
IKR
Just to console those worried about being a virgin at 20 or late 20s or even 30s.... it is only in western countries (eruope, americas, etc.) that I think I've seen this culture... much of the people in Asia, particularly india (according to how I've observed) don't lose virginity before their 20s( and much of them only do so when they are married). Obviously it depends, but being a virgin in asian countries is sort of respected. But yet again it comes with the associated taboos about sex, so I guess none of us can actually be comfortable with this topic completely anywhere. Just go with your flow and don't get societal pressure get to you :)
Only in western countries.
Russia: am I a joke to you??
Yeah people usually do sex after marriage in india...
@@osiris7402 Sorry bro but I did say etc. I know Rusisa is also part of europe 😅
@ttt I would have to disagree with you. Though many parts of Russia are pretty orthodox, this entire culture is prevalent nonetheless. But yet again, I am not a national so you would know better
@ttt well, whatever I am, it is pretty evident no one is submitting to you.... aka NO BITCHES LMAO
He was 14, I was 15, I was staying with him after school at the chiropractors office his mom worked at. I've stayed there many times after school, we're always in the back room together, and that's when we did it the first time. Didn't get caught or anything
I did it the first time when I was 19 a few months before turning 20. All I can say is sex is wonderful when it's with someone that you trust and cares about you.
Idk why people worry so much or are in a hurry just go with the flow people.
cuz being a virgin at some point is usually associated with being undesirable. same reason ppl get upset they never had any dating experience. ppl feel undesirable
@@MsDudette21 coz of a stupid phenomenon called "peer pressure" or depiction in Hollywood, as to how casual you should be, idk.
You gotta feel the flow to go with it - sooo many do not even remotely _know_ about the flow these days - and do what ads or family or (worst of all) "friends" tell 'em to do instead.
Haha. Love how they laugh when they talk about it :D
26 havent "lost it" yet, no particular reason, nothing religious, Im not in a rush really, I want to be with someone I feel is worthy of that vulnerability, and not rushing to have it with just anyone and have a meh expereince when I know IM able to do JUST fine SOLO.
12? I was still watching Pokémon, pretending I was Spiderman and running into wall trying to see if i can walk through them. As long as you are ready I guess 😅
What? I stopped doing that at 9 yrs old
@@poopdidiskoopokay? 12 is still a kid
Thankfully I saw this now, algorithm really knows what’s up. I needed a reminder that it’s okay to be a virgin and to do it at your own pace
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2:10 💀💀PLS