The woman should walk away. You can’t stay with a person who is not in the same page as you ,All in the name of marriage please,She is trying to build up and the husband keeps on sabotaging for what? walk away and never look back you deserve so much better only you know where your shoes hurts.
Recho aanze kujipenda na watoto wake na aombe amani ya moyo and the rest shall fall into order God is God he has been there since your marriage started and he is in it up today light is coming to your marriage in jesus name
Asanteni sana kwa ushauri wenu. Mwendele hivyo Mungu atawainua kwa kazi yenu nzuri nakuwabariki. Infact it's the best way for guidance and counciling. I'm happy about your advices to the broken hearts. "
Ati ashikilie ndoa yake, upuzi kabisa. Toka hapo haraka sana, mjinga alienda akaoa na akamaliza mali yote, sasa anataka kurudi. Anarudi kwa sababu pesa zimeisha sio kwa sababu ya mapenzi.
Mmi kwa mwanaume kama huyo siwezi kuondoka kitu naweza kufanya, ni yye awe mpangaji kwa maisha yngu tu, kama ningekua Recho ningefikiria kutafuta pesa nyingi kuliko kuondoka siku moja hiyo familia ya unafiki kiasi hicho wajute maana sio yy pekee anapitia hayo wanawake wengi wanapitia hali ngumu zaidi ya hiyo na bado tupo,unapoachana na mme uzeeni watoto ndio huabika sana.so fikiria sana.
See....thats y sai hakuna a woman that can feed u as a man then when u become stable unaleta upuzi kwa ndoa......my friend if u r broke go deal with your brokenness tutapatana huko mbele.......!!
A woman will always persevere everything she is going through, but once she has given up ataakiwa 90yrs, she will go and she will never look back, ukiona mwanamke amechoka juwa she has been going through a lot
I'm eternally grateful that i've got couples around me who have been married for various periods that show me what a healthy marriage looks like. Otherwise such stories would disullion me a lot. Dang.
Alex n jalango for real sioni aja ya uyo mama kukaa ama kurudia na uyu mwanaume bcz kama mwanaume anaweza kuuza nyumba next atafanya nini anaweza ata uza bibiyake.. Am Riziki n mm ni mdogo sana ila maneno ya uyo mama imenigusa sana..
Leave him wanaume. can't die coz ya mtu au watu sababu nliolewa, siezi penda watu hawanipendi nooooo.... kwani najipendekeza muache hata pengine yy no kikwazo maishani mwako!!!!
Don't work out of your marriage umepitia mengi sana Rachael everything will be ok very soon u have been in hell madam so very soon kila kitu kitakuwa sawa 22 years is not a joke keep on praying 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
Mwangi, young men in our time like you need the red pill. Also, attend men's conferences in your locality. You will be educated. More importantly, live with a woman and you will know how twisted her reasoning is. Still go ahead, lose your job, or in the unfortunate event of being incapacitated in some way; then you will know that the female hypergamy knows no morals.
let him go and let God be with yu men smtyms wanaxingua heli single life stress free .from top to bottom pole mama yu are so hard working God ill bless yu usijipe stress utapata depression.love is blind really wacha nilee watoto bila any man .akufkuzae hakwambii toka.
One can only take so much. Our culture is so insensitive to women. U hardly hear of men being advised like wise. Eti vumilia tu. Some endure at the cost of their lives. Yes God hates divorce. He didn't say it can't be done.
God has different answers in different way that was using your blessings and thats why the man has nothing now take care of your children and God will bless you
The part where Jalas say, she should leave everything that has connection with her husband, and start on her own, that part hit deep. He may have advised Rachael but I too needed that part more. Thx
Jalas is truthful. Huyu Jamaa ameletewa bibi mwingine na nyumba aliuza na mikopo kila mahali bibi afanye Nini na watoto wake? Hata school fees ni shida baba hana
It was called the prodigal son not the prodigal husband, utavumilia uletewe ugonjwa then you will cry to God. 22 years is a loooooooong time huyu ni mtoto amezaliwa na ako na ID damn it!!!
That man is stupid, his didn't not care about him when he was down and now because he's up on the courtesy of the wife they care. Some families members are evil.
Don’t even ask for any help from him or his family.. take care of your kids and yourself..kill them with kindness, deal with your business.. divorce him..
Eti ashikile ndoa yake. Akigonjeka mtamtafutia dawa?? Eti anangojea apewe divorce, really? Aseme tu anampenda huyu jamaa sana. Amsamehee at her own risk.
@@mystyjakanyango4079 Yep mr Mysty, women from those days of Adam, Moses, Samson, David, Samson, etcetra, etcetra have shortchanged man and I wouldn't side with these 'family experts'blindly. Hakuna mahali Jalas amesomea mambo ya family counselling, ama?
@@michaelimbiru6739 yeah man, absolutely! The guy was employed for being funny and able to pull a listening audience to the station...(pure business). How they become family advisors without much experience (as I can tell) makes me sympathize with those who seek advice from them. Assuming they knew what they were talking about, they for all intents and purposes threw out logic as men and adopted emotional reaction to suit the woman. That is indication of a SIMP---and SIMPING men normally collapse when they come to know and experience the true nature of a woman. Men go through tons of mischief and mistreatment by women; and as we nearly always see, the woman cries the victim, the man remains the aggressor. It is a tragedy of our time. Without experience with women when you are down, you might never know how ruthless and heartless most of the women are. Female hypergamy, feminism and greedy media have all ganged up against men of our time. My message to men, swallow the red pill, you will be safer!
@@mystyjakanyango4079 Absolutely bro and spot on indeed. 'Boy child' has nobody to cry to except to cry alone in acorner when things go south, you will be taunted by the whole world for attempting to look for assistance from an abusive woman(wife). Pple will turn tables on you for 'crying out aloud' kwa hivyo wacha huyu mwanamke mpumbavu apambäne na hali yake
@@salmasaid7058 how much do you know about the man and the complaining woman? Salma, are you not just emotionally preoccupied with believing what's thrown at you!?
This is what the woman should do. 1. She must not break that marriage. At least NOT from her side. For the sake of the children. 2. She must drop all their previous marriage attachments and start building herself independently. She has worked hard for the place she lives but it's time she must let it go. She will start from somewhere again and with her hardworking nature as she sounds, She will grow again. 3. She can't hang on to a marriage that will forever frustrate her with ulcers and stress. The moment the man will throw her out of the home farm, which you are sure as well he'll sell, it should come with divorce so that the man's family can't claim her future succeeds and so that the idiot can't come back to her life. #jalango is angered and right
walahi mtu akiwa broke anakuwa very humble wacha aanze kushikashika tupesa weeeee sijui kiburi inatokeanga wapi may thunder fire that man bure kabisa
Huyo mwanamke anapitia wakati mhumu sana.....yuafaa aende zake.....c watoto wamemaliza shule tayari
Not everyone suits marriage,its not an achivement
The woman should walk away. You can’t stay with a person who is not in the same page as you ,All in the name of marriage please,She is trying to build up and the husband keeps on sabotaging for what? walk away and never look back you deserve so much better only you know where your shoes hurts.
Idiot. Concluding by hearing one side. Idiot
A man who sells your matrimonial home should be left alone .I just said a prayer for that mama
Sad:
I have seen this happen first hand .
One moves from land owners to renters in the city suburbs.
Wanaume styke up 😏😏😏mwanamke mzuri hivi unampa dharau hivyo ?mungu anawaona na pia wazazi achaneni na ndoa za watoto wenu zisimame💔💔💔
Doreen Nasike ukuje Tanzania tusome katiba wewe na mimi
Two can't walk together unless they agree
Hivyo ndo mme wangu alinifanya lije yaku straggler mpaka kumununulia pikipiki, pole sana mama bt usimmuachie nafasi huyu mme Wacha nae
Moani fupi..kama wakubali mama awachane na mzee weka like tukisonga...
Hakuna kuvumilia hapo aende kortini apewe divorce na aangalie watoto wake
@@sylfiailavonga9867 💯
Recho aanze kujipenda na watoto wake na aombe amani ya moyo and the rest shall fall into order God is God he has been there since your marriage started and he is in it up today light is coming to your marriage in jesus name
Asanteni sana kwa ushauri wenu. Mwendele hivyo Mungu atawainua kwa kazi yenu nzuri nakuwabariki. Infact it's the best way for guidance and counciling. I'm happy about your advices to the broken hearts. "
Ati ashikilie ndoa yake, upuzi kabisa. Toka hapo haraka sana, mjinga alienda akaoa na akamaliza mali yote, sasa anataka kurudi. Anarudi kwa sababu pesa zimeisha sio kwa sababu ya mapenzi.
I hate in-laws when will African men learn to be independent minded.???
Mmi kwa mwanaume kama huyo siwezi kuondoka kitu naweza kufanya, ni yye awe mpangaji kwa maisha yngu tu, kama ningekua Recho ningefikiria kutafuta pesa nyingi kuliko kuondoka siku moja hiyo familia ya unafiki kiasi hicho wajute maana sio yy pekee anapitia hayo wanawake wengi wanapitia hali ngumu zaidi ya hiyo na bado tupo,unapoachana na mme uzeeni watoto ndio huabika sana.so fikiria sana.
In laws wengine ni wabaya but ishi Peke yako na watoto na MUNGU atakusaidia. Forget about him and pray.
Pole sana Rachael umepitia mengi mungu akuonekanie...
See....thats y sai hakuna a woman that can feed u as a man then when u become stable unaleta upuzi kwa ndoa......my friend if u r broke go deal with your brokenness tutapatana huko mbele.......!!
Facts
Who was feeding who?
A woman will always persevere everything she is going through, but once she has given up ataakiwa 90yrs, she will go and she will never look back, ukiona mwanamke amechoka juwa she has been going through a lot
Very true
I'm eternally grateful that i've got couples around me who have been married for various periods that show me what a healthy marriage looks like. Otherwise such stories would disullion me a lot. Dang.
Q
Mami,run
Alex n jalango for real sioni aja ya uyo mama kukaa ama kurudia na uyu mwanaume bcz kama mwanaume anaweza kuuza nyumba next atafanya nini anaweza ata uza bibiyake.. Am Riziki n mm ni mdogo sana ila maneno ya uyo mama imenigusa sana..
Mum am praying for you
It shall be well in Jesus name
Amen
Leave him wanaume. can't die coz ya mtu au watu sababu nliolewa, siezi penda watu hawanipendi nooooo.... kwani najipendekeza muache hata pengine yy no kikwazo maishani mwako!!!!
Heshima kwa huyu mama 🙏🙏🙏
She needs expert professional advice not from some show hosts...this has solved nothing really
Si lazima wagawane shamba koz akona na watoto..
Don't work out of your marriage umepitia mengi sana Rachael everything will be ok very soon u have been in hell madam so very soon kila kitu kitakuwa sawa 22 years is not a joke keep on praying 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
Mwangi, young men in our time like you need the red pill. Also, attend men's conferences in your locality. You will be educated. More importantly, live with a woman and you will know how twisted her reasoning is. Still go ahead, lose your job, or in the unfortunate event of being incapacitated in some way; then you will know that the female hypergamy knows no morals.
@Ava Avaria hahahaha, that's life. Small world.
Pole sana mom so painful. But wewe mchukulie hatua za kisheria. Achana na yeye kabisaaa. Asikufuate wala wala ndugu zake wasikufuate
Mum pole for all what happened to you,,,,, God will Fight for you mum
my thoughts sell the land buy somewhere else far from them ....walk out if you can ..they will still do the same
Makubwa kweli.mitihani pole sana racheal kweli tunapitia mengi wanawake.
May God bless this lady.
Mungu wa Isaack, Jacob na Abraham,njoo na usitumane jemeni uokoe huyu mama...😭😭
Thats abusive relationship....i can't...ata yye amekazana sana..
let him go and let God be with yu men smtyms wanaxingua heli single life stress free .from top to bottom pole mama yu are so hard working God ill bless yu usijipe stress utapata depression.love is blind really wacha nilee watoto bila any man .akufkuzae hakwambii toka.
Waaah this is too much for real. How can you stay in an abusive relationship for that long for real.
Thnx @Alex "KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS" 💯
One can only take so much.
Our culture is so insensitive to women. U hardly hear of men being advised like wise.
Eti vumilia tu. Some endure at the cost of their lives.
Yes God hates divorce. He didn't say it can't be done.
NYC TOPIC
Kweli watu waliubiwa moyo wa uvumilivu...haki mimi siwezi fumilia hayo yote
Good advice from jalas
totally primitive advice. how can you stay in an abusive relationship?
Idiot. You know little, dude.
listen again its not abusive
Abusive,-No... Dysfunctional- Yes. Very dysfunctional
Aiii hii duniya aki. Kuna watu wanyama mbaya sana.
Hapo mi sioni cha kuvumilia juu akipata pesa atamtesa Tu....
Kubuka aliuza plot ya Kwanza so akitoka may b itauzwa
Aaaaah jamani wanaume wengine bure kabisaaaa
Ktka hali ilivyo nimeipenda sana hii,, mbarkiwe milele Fm kwa ushauri
Wanaume wengine Jameni....Mungu atusaisie kuvumilia
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Daktari Jalas tiba yako ni pain killer tu... haitibu. 😅😅😅
Kweli 😂😂😂
God has different answers in different way that was using your blessings and thats why the man has nothing now take care of your children and God will bless you
Pole Sana my dear
The part where Jalas say, she should leave everything that has connection with her husband, and start on her own, that part hit deep. He may have advised Rachael but I too needed that part more. Thx
Jalas is truthful. Huyu Jamaa ameletewa bibi mwingine na nyumba aliuza na mikopo kila mahali bibi afanye Nini na watoto wake? Hata school fees ni shida baba hana
A woman with brain can turn a broke man in to a millionaire but beauty with no brain can turn a millionaire into a broke man.mummy u hav a gud hrt
Say it louder dear😍💚
@@saidahj2543 it's true
Ondoka arakutoa kichwa wanaume fyuuuuu
It was called the prodigal son not the prodigal husband, utavumilia uletewe ugonjwa then you will cry to God. 22 years is a loooooooong time huyu ni mtoto amezaliwa na ako na ID damn it!!!
I went through the same with sister inlows men listerning to their mother's l tell you but all God stand with as
I salute you mama
More than just a woman to be with
Wow i love mwakideu's advice "kill them love"But she should pray without ceasing she will know when to back off.
Fq
Aky MUNGU akusaudie na akupigania endelea kuomba na utashida ni kwa mda tu !
That man is stupid, his didn't not care about him when he was down and now because he's up on the courtesy of the wife they care. Some families members are evil.
Very painful aki
One side of the story.
Kweli sisi wanaume ni mafala...mtu anatupa aje familia yani
Life n hard , bt God ako
Is it normal?He sells their property/House,and she is asking for advice?isn't it OBVIOUS??
Don’t even ask for any help from him or his family.. take care of your kids and yourself..kill them with kindness, deal with your business.. divorce him..
You are a complete idiot.
wanaume wengine ni ghasia.
Eti ashikile ndoa yake. Akigonjeka mtamtafutia dawa??
Eti anangojea apewe divorce, really? Aseme tu anampenda huyu jamaa sana. Amsamehee at her own risk.
Same case with mine😢
Mama shikilia ndoa yako huyu baba atakuja kukuomba msamaha
Aende kwa mwanasheria mtetezi wa haki za wanawake atafute haki yake.
So sad😔
Nkkkktttttt !!!! ashikilie nini... Apana the woman should leave the marriage.. It is very wrong... Let us not bring God into this... LEAVE LEAVE
Yap
Ashikilie nini????
Mbona huyu mwanamke pia hakutafuta kazi?
Atoke mbio
Run run run....why stay in Abusive relationship in the name of shikilia bullshit.......
A coin has 2 sides, tungeskiza pia bwanako ndio tungepata picha halisi
@@mystyjakanyango4079 Yep mr Mysty, women from those days of Adam, Moses, Samson, David, Samson, etcetra, etcetra have shortchanged man and I wouldn't side with these 'family experts'blindly. Hakuna mahali Jalas amesomea mambo ya family counselling, ama?
@@michaelimbiru6739 yeah man, absolutely! The guy was employed for being funny and able to pull a listening audience to the station...(pure business). How they become family advisors without much experience (as I can tell) makes me sympathize with those who seek advice from them. Assuming they knew what they were talking about, they for all intents and purposes threw out logic as men and adopted emotional reaction to suit the woman. That is indication of a SIMP---and SIMPING men normally collapse when they come to know and experience the true nature of a woman. Men go through tons of mischief and mistreatment by women; and as we nearly always see, the woman cries the victim, the man remains the aggressor. It is a tragedy of our time. Without experience with women when you are down, you might never know how ruthless and heartless most of the women are. Female hypergamy, feminism and greedy media have all ganged up against men of our time. My message to men, swallow the red pill, you will be safer!
@@mystyjakanyango4079 Absolutely bro and spot on indeed. 'Boy child' has nobody to cry to except to cry alone in acorner when things go south, you will be taunted by the whole world for attempting to look for assistance from an abusive woman(wife). Pple will turn tables on you for 'crying out aloud' kwa hivyo wacha huyu mwanamke mpumbavu apambäne na hali yake
I agree with you
@@johnmwangi2435 Welcome bro
Majameni na huyu mume akileta ugonjwa..... that doa ilishavunjika kitambo. Yeye ndiye anayeishikilia... mume arudi kwani hana mapeni.
Why can't we hear from both sides. Mwanaume pia ana story yake
get the f out!!!!.....no, she does not love him,,,,she's scared!!!!
This is a one sided story, seems the problem ni huyu mum, hataki kabisa familia ya kina mume, labda hawako well off,
Uongo wa wamama.
Mysty Jakanyango ushindwe uongo gani
@@salmasaid7058 how much do you know about the man and the complaining woman? Salma, are you not just emotionally preoccupied with believing what's thrown at you!?
Wanaume wengine ni wanyama. Wamama tunapenda mabwana zetu sana but wanaleta sheitani
If all you said on air is true, don,t wait for another day. Chomoka mbio utakufa maskini kwa ugonjwa wa depression.
Lol. Ati vumilia. 😂😂😂😂😂. Mwanaume bure, useless, roho maskini. Lol.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is what the woman should do.
1. She must not break that marriage. At least NOT from her side. For the sake of the children.
2. She must drop all their previous marriage attachments and start building herself independently.
She has worked hard for the place she lives but it's time she must let it go. She will start from somewhere again and with her hardworking nature as she sounds, She will grow again.
3. She can't hang on to a marriage that will forever frustrate her with ulcers and stress. The moment the man will throw her out of the home farm, which you are sure as well he'll sell, it should come with divorce so that the man's family can't claim her future succeeds and so that the idiot can't come back to her life.
#jalango is angered and right
The husband sold the property so where will the woman and children stay?
Fools
Such useless advice