Mahalia Buchanan : I chose to begin again

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  • Today, we are joined by Mahalia Buchanan. An award-winning singer, songwriter and producer. She openly shares her journey of starting over, self-acceptance and the process of grief, anger and losing her mother
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  • @buyisilemohale2881
    @buyisilemohale2881 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    "You can't be a superwoman..fixing everyone.." I felt that

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +243

    My mom has dementia. The world has turned dark. She was my best friend, but now it feels like I'm her mother. But God has become everything.

    • @sibongilemngomezulu3454
      @sibongilemngomezulu3454 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🫂 🙏🏼

    • @tamiej_sa
      @tamiej_sa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤

    • @PheladiNewman
      @PheladiNewman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      trust in Him♥

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I know how you feel siphokazi, the best thing to do is to find help and not do everything alone, emotionally it will finish you. When my Mom was diagnosed with it in 2019, I didn't understand how this superstrong woman I've known has become this way. Get a caretaker who understands how to support their "new" mind.

    • @dieketsengellenmpolokeng-m5103
      @dieketsengellenmpolokeng-m5103 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hang in there babes,, I took care of my grandmother with my mom, and my baby was 6 months , it was hard,,, but I'm glad I was there for her and I'm grateful I helped her and took care of her the way she did for me all my life... 😊.

  • @brendenpraise_
    @brendenpraise_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    What an incredible Conversation

    • @breakingbreadwithzizipho5
      @breakingbreadwithzizipho5 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      True!! Old friends catching up, sooooo beautiful 🔥

    • @akhanisopangisa3549
      @akhanisopangisa3549 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This was teewww good! I was smiling the whole time … this was amazing ! Go Mpoomy ❤️

  • @PraiseSpaceOfficial
    @PraiseSpaceOfficial 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Mahalia quote: “your perspective starts to become solid when you turn 30”. Very profound.

  • @Christlikeliving
    @Christlikeliving 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    When she spoke about letting things break. I felt that. I feel like the past 3 years I was breaking and now God has started a new thing inside of me. It’s so scary but I’ll let God lead.. Thank you ladies ❤

  • @zona_davani
    @zona_davani 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    This was just amazing. Feels like we grew up with Hali. I always get awed by her wisdom and humour when she speaks. Watching this I’m reminded of a time I was on a fast and fell so ill in the middle of it. Continued with the prayers but on the third day it got crippling worse. Words weren’t coming out of my mouth. I put on Heal Me Jesus by Mahalia and as the song playing I could feel the knots leave my body and I was completely healed. Still a big big song in my life. The Lord works through this lady immensely🤍

  • @minenhlenkosi5008
    @minenhlenkosi5008 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "life happens and it alters your confession!" - This is so true, I wanna cry

  • @phumuRamakuela
    @phumuRamakuela หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I started my channel 3 weeks ago. I am only at 60 subscribers . I was inspired by the current state of unemployment in my country South Africa. I received my degree in 2016 but have been unemployed since then. I am looking for alternative ways to create income. This video is an inspiration to push harder. We all have different reasons why we start our channels. Let's grow ❤❤❤❤

  • @tsepisomokone2396
    @tsepisomokone2396 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Mahalia, just reminded me that I am no longer in my 20s or early 30s. I am now 37yrs heading for 40yrs because of trauma and so much that happened. I emotionally got stuck at 16yrs old but physically I grew. Only now when I am dealing with it my age is catching up with body and man. I am not able to do what I used to anymore. Especially the moving of the whole house furniture when cleaning, while washing and cooking. Then going to clean the yard. Its getting harder. I now understand why a lot of people have helpers its not because they are lazy.

    • @kholisangety9050
      @kholisangety9050 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you ❤‍🩹

    • @nommynkonyane3404
      @nommynkonyane3404 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you me? I think it’s time I accepted help cause I’m tired 😢

    • @tsepisomokone2396
      @tsepisomokone2396 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nommynkonyane3404 Babes, I have made peace with the fact that I truly need help,there is no use to play tough. Pray about it though, our homes are sacred spaces so ask God to send you someone who will not destroy your home but be a good helper and sister in Christ.

  • @gobuwanglouw3282
    @gobuwanglouw3282 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "Knowing how to believe for others, just not for myself".

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I love her honest account about her relationship with God. We are often scared to admit we are upset with God.

    • @HisPrincess_
      @HisPrincess_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes and after watching this conversation I had a conversation w God and I really told him im feeling. I was open and vulnerable w him.

  • @katlegomonareng4317
    @katlegomonareng4317 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mahalia is gorgeous 😍😍 Good Lord, I love her ..♥️

  • @taythankane
    @taythankane 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    OMG Mahalia is speaking with so much wisdom, I can listen to her the whole day.

  • @fgnyabeze
    @fgnyabeze 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Its easy to serve strangers than to serve family typical of us fervent christians. GOD HELP ME,help us to serve family the more

  • @dorahmohlago4638
    @dorahmohlago4638 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Time went so fast😢i enjoyed every moment,love is sacrifice 💞

  • @nonhlakaniphomwelase1207
    @nonhlakaniphomwelase1207 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love everything about Mahalia, May God bless her ❤️

  • @uthandokuhle
    @uthandokuhle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love Mahalia. So authentic and beautiful 🤍

  • @tebogolegodi1174
    @tebogolegodi1174 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    By the title alone, I know this will be speaking to my current life circumstance

  • @reitumetsetumza6072
    @reitumetsetumza6072 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Already listened on Spotify 😁 I'm here for the beautiful faces 😍

  • @misst1869
    @misst1869 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I came back to this interview specifically because I feel stuck in life / career so I decided to restart by upgrading my matric

  • @tueloxmokgothu122
    @tueloxmokgothu122 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Mahalia Buchanan I would always call her like that lol she is divinely gorgeous.😊😂❤ Thanks Mpoomy for this awesome and insightful conversation and the invite is not far fetched.

  • @nkhen_c357
    @nkhen_c357 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Had to relocate back home and resign as I couldnt continue to ignore my mum needec one of us full time besides aunty....jooooo not easy. You must become a parent and you have a parent you dont know anymore and she says anything.........but I wont change it for anything. I want my mum to have the best time of her life on her last days....I take her placez and do things to bring back that joy in her.

  • @shantellfredericks
    @shantellfredericks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Sister Betina 🔥 Thank you Mpoomy & Mahalia ✨Love from Namibia ❣️

  • @jeanettemodisana4485
    @jeanettemodisana4485 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    "Going for it, having the faith without the sight" so profound!✨️❤️

  • @lehlohonolokompe4506
    @lehlohonolokompe4506 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I loved the part about serving our families. My dad has been sick for the past months and I forgot to see him as human. I always expected him to be the strong one and 'hero' in my eyes.
    The pressure has also been hectic as the responsible one.
    Lovely Episode

  • @mnisi_sindile
    @mnisi_sindile 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Her song "You love me" always moves me to tears when I listen to it ❤

    • @lilyagyeman9793
      @lilyagyeman9793 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I burst into worship one morning n sang the life out of that song. God bless her

  • @kumbukanikaunda3545
    @kumbukanikaunda3545 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I wish this conversation was a bit longer,this was a beautiful conversation man❤❤😢

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Mahalia is beautiful 🥰🥰😍😍

  • @comfortp4741
    @comfortp4741 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This is so touching and transparent, yet so encouraging

  • @sindynchoe7719
    @sindynchoe7719 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was an incredible conversation… so many points I could relate too.

  • @TheIncubatorofPurpose
    @TheIncubatorofPurpose 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a beautiful and authentic conversation ladies. May your mom rest in peace. You definitely don’t look like what you have been through. God builds piece by piece. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kebaobabantle7828
    @kebaobabantle7828 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this was so wholesome. thank you. also causes me to look at my personal journey with greater appreciation.

  • @user-jc4en7zv8r
    @user-jc4en7zv8r 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love the openness between the ladies. This is phenomenal. Thank you for sharing about yourselves with us.

  • @MrsMasekoa
    @MrsMasekoa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely loved the conversation on the podcast🥰🥰 so pure

  • @phatsimomaele6969
    @phatsimomaele6969 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely loved this. Sometimes we need to allow ourselves to break

  • @phuleymaps1113
    @phuleymaps1113 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SUCH A BEAUTIFUL CONVERSATION, LOVE You Both❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Nokwazi.
    @Nokwazi. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a beautiful conversation.

  • @relebohileinnocentia
    @relebohileinnocentia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This conversation was everything!❤

  • @abigailcindysmouse6279
    @abigailcindysmouse6279 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful. Love this ❤

  • @christinegono9442
    @christinegono9442 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was beautifully put together❤❤ I felt every word!!

  • @oleratodiale9518
    @oleratodiale9518 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The way I can relate to allowing the breaking and lack of control to just take place and I wont lie it comes with such a huge amount of pain and guilt but the is absolutely nothing you can do but trust that God has your back.

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So so good❤ Loved the authenticity!

  • @user-fl3sv3yc7d
    @user-fl3sv3yc7d 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just saw this on TikTok, My favorite ladies 😍❣

  • @busisiwembangula9151
    @busisiwembangula9151 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful and insightful interview ladies, thank you. ❤️

  • @siphosethumotsa7586
    @siphosethumotsa7586 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Holding things together while you are breaking... Shuuu, and the honest conversations with our Heavenly Father are crucial...

  • @nokwandawanda1641
    @nokwandawanda1641 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Enjoyed each and every moment, Mahalia you are so amazing and beautiful ❤

  • @HisPrincess_
    @HisPrincess_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I went and listened to the whole podcast and wow, the intimacy in this conversation IS EVERYTHING and MORE ! 🥺 Can not wait for the new album shuu 💕

  • @Lebogang_ct
    @Lebogang_ct 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a beautiful conversation and lesson to pick. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

  • @tafadzwachiteme7319
    @tafadzwachiteme7319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What a conversation !! What a confession! What a power-packed session!!!

  • @snethembamshengu3919
    @snethembamshengu3919 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so touching, loving and encouraging conversation ❤️🥰

  • @lesegomajola1323
    @lesegomajola1323 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A beautiful experience is listening to the podcast first then watching the episode after on TH-cam. It’s like watching the conversation come alive. ❤

  • @tshegofatsodolly6168
    @tshegofatsodolly6168 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So relatable bcz God desires our honesty in all aspects ❤

  • @mablekhupari815
    @mablekhupari815 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I LOVE Mahalia, this was great

  • @lebogjkhutsafalo12-11
    @lebogjkhutsafalo12-11 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you once more,Mpoomy.
    I enjoyed this insert❤

  • @ntomboxolonguqu263
    @ntomboxolonguqu263 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm super excited for this conversation ❤

  • @nonstindisomfuduka8548
    @nonstindisomfuduka8548 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved this conversation, I was waiting the whole day for this episode. 😍😍And Mrs. mom your face beat 💥💥

  • @taythankane
    @taythankane 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a wholesome conversation, thank you Mpoomy 🥰🤗

  • @zinhlemlangeni01
    @zinhlemlangeni01 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love so much Mpoomy. Thank you for coming back ❤

  • @n.dlamini4199
    @n.dlamini4199 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Firstly you guys are so beautiful ❤️Also you too remind me of Hello Gorgeous! 🥺💛It's beautiful to watch you guys grow and continue to inspire me! My two favorite people, I love you guys so much and thank you so much for such an amazing conversation ❤️❤️

  • @misst998
    @misst998 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much, I really needed this, I was just telling God about the things that pains me, and I was like God this enough,,, indeed sometimes God needs us to be that vulnerable to him, and I loved it where you talk about the breaking season, I felt that

  • @halle3573
    @halle3573 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow👏 What a transformational conversation.

  • @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008
    @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh my gosh! Two of my favorite women in one room i'm so happy and enjoying the conversation as well..... Can't wait for the music, her voice heals me❤❤❤

  • @veronicamahlaba6543
    @veronicamahlaba6543 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yoh I connected with this conversation. I'm in my 30s and so much was mentioned which I am going through. It confirmed that I am doing just fine.

  • @LearnwithNoks
    @LearnwithNoks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a 30 year old,now a mom to both my parents,it’s haaard but God has been God..I keep coming back to this episode,loooved it💯

  • @KarabotheMillenial
    @KarabotheMillenial 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When one of your favourite interviewers interviews one of your favourite celebrities. Mahalia is so adorable🥰🥰🩷
    Just what I needed for the end year fatigue
    Beautiful interview 👌 👏 🙌

  • @evebodirwa
    @evebodirwa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode was so refreshing. ❤

  • @nkululekonkuly1709
    @nkululekonkuly1709 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was such a beautiful deep session.... as always❤❤❤❤. Thank you for the WISDOM ladies and progress to WELLNESS 💐🌺🌷

  • @bothomakuku1803
    @bothomakuku1803 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Loved her vulnerability so much!❤
    Please invite sis Ncebakazi Msomi, kindly consider please 🙏🏾

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon6354 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow soo much wisdom from Mahalia, you cnt be always a superwoman allow things to break & build up again 👌👌👌the fact that she was honest that shes angry at God and we must have real relationship with him tell him how we feel i felt that

  • @ashleymaribe228
    @ashleymaribe228 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful conversation i can relate so much..😔. Having to move back home to take care of my mother. After deaths in the family. I feel like my life is on hold at times. That angry feeling shows up a lot.

  • @khanyisagura4377
    @khanyisagura4377 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Two very beautiful women sharing wisdom ❤

  • @IamthatP
    @IamthatP 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Love when she speaks on her relationship with God. I have recently learned that to pray alone and spend time in his presence, make time everyday , prioritise God and putting him first is essential in our lives because we get to know Him, what his will for us is and it is easy to be guided in everything we do. My pastor said that you get to know someone when you spend time with them and the same applies to God. Be blessed. ❤

  • @sulekamnqinana2325
    @sulekamnqinana2325 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow the wisdom of Mahalia, love you Sis .

  • @reabetsoelehumo7721
    @reabetsoelehumo7721 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Laughing and enjoying this 🥰

  • @ntlametlwanamokgohloa384
    @ntlametlwanamokgohloa384 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved everything about this conversion 'Our walls break so he can come built and rebuilt us again i am reminded of Jer 31: 4 and situations weigh us down so he can come in lift us up .Real relationships requires real communication .Thank you

  • @carolnkumane5763
    @carolnkumane5763 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been waiting like forever ❤❤❤

  • @Nokukhanya.Khumalo
    @Nokukhanya.Khumalo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Shuu this conversation for me was quick hectic (funny and scary at the same time) especially when it comes to aging.
    I'm turning 19 next month, and there's certain things I wish I could do with my body, like playing sport and just enjoying my body. I just feel so uncomfortable with myself. I look in the mirror and I just see a oversized chubby girl and it's just challenging for me to feel excited about dreaming big about the life I would want to live before I get to the ages of 30. Where I can proudly say that Oh yes! I really enjoyed my teenage years and early adulting years.
    Thank you so much sis Mpoomy for this conversation it really was a moment of self introspection and I am just so emotional typing this message.

    • @DineoKgang
      @DineoKgang 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Proud of you girrrrl!🥺

    • @IamTheOne247
      @IamTheOne247 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I was a chubby teenager, infact I was never thin my entire childhood, never participated in sport etc but at 37yrs I had a six pack! It doesn't matter your age, it's your will that pushes you. So fret not, when you're ready to face yourself and make the necessary changes with commitment you'll achieve your body goals and run a marathon even, if that's what you want!😉🏃⛹️

    • @DineoKgang
      @DineoKgang 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@IamTheOne247 so inspiring. I love this 😍

    • @Nokukhanya.Khumalo
      @Nokukhanya.Khumalo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DineoKgang ♥️♥️♥️Thank you sis

    • @Nokukhanya.Khumalo
      @Nokukhanya.Khumalo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@IamTheOne247 Wow thank you so Makhumalo Mzilikazi Ka Mashobane, what a beautiful and encouraging message. This is such a push for me it's never too late to change♥️♥️

  • @wendyjali1170
    @wendyjali1170 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So powerful....vulnerability. God isn't surprised by our questions ...mannn He knows our thoughts before they're formed. Psalms 139...He knows. 💝

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mahalia is so real, omg 🥺🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.

  • @tawandatitonyamuzihwa
    @tawandatitonyamuzihwa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved it when she said LOVE IS SACRIFICE ❤

  • @lihlesokhele4305
    @lihlesokhele4305 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great guest and episode

  • @selinammatsheko797
    @selinammatsheko797 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So relatable hle, it is like she's telling my story.

  • @noluthandomadela
    @noluthandomadela 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was beautiful

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I actually relate to some parts of Mahalia’s journey with her mom’s loss.

  • @nisodidiza5341
    @nisodidiza5341 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You look amazing Mahalia, you are incredibly beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @sthembilethanjekwayo_za
    @sthembilethanjekwayo_za 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Not Sista Bettina 😂😅 oh Mahalia, I never espetted it. 😂 Also this big hug is just for you. 🤗 So sorry about your loss.

  • @friedanambahu9287
    @friedanambahu9287 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, I can relate to her story.

  • @walkwithorr
    @walkwithorr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I quickly clicked bcos Mahalia=laughter.

  • @Tshegofatsomac
    @Tshegofatsomac 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Two Gorgeous Faves😍

  • @deborahmonesa5079
    @deborahmonesa5079 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢yoh this is a profound conversation❤

  • @gcobisasagini380
    @gcobisasagini380 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This conversation 🔥🔥❤️❤️👌👌🙏🙏🙏

  • @bonganidladla_42
    @bonganidladla_42 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This conversation 👌 ❤

  • @lolomphahlela3925
    @lolomphahlela3925 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Powerful conversation #hides I was hoping she is going to sing 😊

  • @121asterix
    @121asterix 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is probably the best wisdom wellness session to date. Inspirational and motivational

  • @mmakgotso_tines
    @mmakgotso_tines 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You ladies look so gorgeous 😍😍😍

  • @mirandajustine9422
    @mirandajustine9422 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh this was so inspiring ❤. We want HLE sis mpoomy

  • @golesegomotswagole108
    @golesegomotswagole108 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love Hally so much ❤❤❤

  • @nokuhlemhaule5340
    @nokuhlemhaule5340 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done ❤❤

  • @nerinemartin5901
    @nerinemartin5901 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love is sacrifice....❤🎉❤😊indeed...yoh Mahalia is wise ...❤❤thnx fo making me think about tht statement again ...n making me feel tht i was n am still on the right track... love n light on ur journey thru life❤❤❤

  • @tivamilemasilela3963
    @tivamilemasilela3963 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰.Couldn’t wait!! Thank you Mrs Moms🌚.Argh Mpoomy is ❤❤❤