Hello and Happy birthday ( with delay....) for your wife Antia! We celebrated last sunday, in the orthodox church, St. Great Martir Antia, the mother of St. Eleftherios. Best regards from Romania!🙏🌹
This is very well articulated, thank you so much! Previously when I was listening to this type of advice - I did understand everything yet could not implement. Something was preventing me implementing these. I guess the problem was in “doing, or implementing” because learning this advice is good, but when we want to implement - it can put us in a masculine energy as correctly indicated in this video. We can say a feminine phrase but with masculine energy. Men could feel that something was off. I felt sth was off… … until I met a man who could awaken the woman in me and it all makes sense and feels so natural… How many years I lived in this limited, dark place of scarcity, fear, even hidden hatred to men!! I am grateful for meeting this man in my life and also greatly appreciate the author of the content for his valuable advice and videos 🌹
Mindset Shifts to Attract Masculine Energy: 6) Shift from being assertive to being permissive 5) Shift from being entitled to being receptive and grateful 4) Shift from being attached to being detached 3) Shift from giving to receiving 2) Shift from adoring him to respecting him 1) Shift from sharing solutions to sharing problems
Thanks for this video. Regarding point #6, shifting from being assertive to being permissive : what would you recommend to a female business owner to attract a masculine partner ? *I am* in my masculine energy in my job because I'm litteraly paid for this (elaborating strategies + making them happen) -- however I've noticed that this drives men away, even in the talking stage. I'm not shoving my job/money/lifestyle in their face, I don't talk about it unless they ask, however I can see how insecure they feel towards it. However, this is my future we're talking about, I can't "tone it down" or make "less money" to make someone else more secure around me. 👉 What piece of advice would you give to women in my situation ? Would love to hear your point of view !! 👏
The biggest thing is to start using Magnetic Feminine Polarity & Magnetic Feminine Communication like you're learning here and we teach in our coaching memberships. The key is you don't have to make less money or even change how you are in business, however being able to shift into your feminine instincts when you're with a man you like will make all of the difference.
I have never communicated like that with a man I guess that why I’ve been single for a long time I’m going to have to practice these ways of communication with men in general to see how this all works thank you so much
This is such an incredibly hard concept for me to understand and it always feels unnatural & virtually impossible to navigate especially in real time situations. I have to know I deserve it, but not feel entitled. Im supposed to be an equal, but I have to ask him permission. I have to have standards & boundaries, but I have to trust him and let go of control. I have to receive, but not take anything. I have to be independent, but ask him for help & advice. I want to give, but that’s mothering him. I have to tell him I want to dance, but let him lead. I have to be detached, but show gratitude.
It would be fun and informative if you did some role playing with yourself and wife to display some of the scenarios you commonly mention (correct response vs the wrong response). It would actually show the correct and wrong body language, expression. Almost like a "do this, not that" kind of thing. Sometimes seeing things visually make things a little more impactful. Just an idea. Great job as you offer a perspective that I've never heard before. I've learned a few things being a woman that didn't grow up with a heavy male influence, so I never really learned the do's and don'ts of female and male interaction/communication.
Number 3 about gift was helpful for me, I think it's very true :) I met a man and I had many ideas for thing I could give him for Christmas, but I do feel that your advice is very acurate - so I decided to paint him a beautiful painting. I really think it's a great idea, as i am an artist. Thank you very much, Good advice! :)
Permissiveness doesn’t mean patriarchy. Let him lead, so be feminine and dainty and maybe say “do you think it’s ok to….” “If you have time this weekend do you think you could..” He wants to protect you, he wants to lift cars for you…because he loves you. It’s not always what you say it’s how you say it. Ordering a man around isn’t going to work and he will begin to think of you as a nag. Treat him like a king and you will be his queen. #scorpiogirl #scorpiogirl
I also believe we cannot make any random man fall in love with us by just doing feminine things and not doing masculine things. The advice is about shifting our energy - this is a state of being (rather than action). Once you are in feminine energy you can even do masculine things with femininity and that would look attractive. There are no rigid rules as long as you are in your feminine energy. The rest with be aligned naturally. You will say the right words, you will do right things, effortlessly, naturally. If only we allowed each man to be as he is, treat them with respect and see what happens. “How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?” 1 Corinthians 7:16
I can't think of any man I know let alone been in a relationship with that has been able to do the things suggested they'll do here if you're in your feminine energy. Ive always had to step up myself to handle the masculine responsibilities by default because if I didn't everything fell apart, or I get taken advantage of and used, or I'd have to ask over and over again and either get to the point I'm resentful and nagging or just do it myself. By then I'm in my masculine energy and they wonder why I'm not motivated to give myself sexually, only to end up disappointed there too feeling like I'm with a child not a man.
Thank you Brody as always for the wonderful reminders of stepping. Aside from the situation and listening and bringing our requests. And our feelings to the love of our life. I do notice a difference when I put appreciation into this. Little things even though we're long distance. I can tell it's making a difference. Thank you
Is it masculine energy if the female in the relationship handles most of the finances? Not that she makes all the money but just handles aspects of the finances like investments, household finances etc. Thank you
Yes handling the finances would be a masculine activity, doesn't mean you can't do it if he really wants you to and lead you too but long term it would be best for polarity to share your feelings around it using Magnetic Feminine Communication and for him to start learning to handle them.
Asking for permission to address your partner, seems silly. There’s a difference between common courtesy and mutual respect, without asking permission to speak.
Yeah this is the most misogynistic channel out there. They want you to treat men like Gods and sacrifice your self worth in the process
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Alison Armstrong also suggests this. She’s is considered an expert on men’s behavior and how women can relate to men for better relationships. She’s been studying men for 33 years. Men are singularly focused so if you approach them without them being ready for the convo then what you have to say won’t necessarily land with him. If that’s something men need then that’s what they need. Just like women, we have our own sets of needs. Doesn’t make it silly if it doesn’t resonate with you.
what to do if the man is embodying every single one of the feminine traits you describe (but expects respect) and you as a woman are forced to take the masculine role - for e.g. he always shares problems (he also never finds solutions when i share feelings or problems - instead he will say i also feel bored etc)
I'm a widow of two years and I'm very interested in a widower who also lives in my town. He has been a widower for approx. 2.5 years. As a matter of fact I knew his wife and he knew my husband. Our girls were best friends in grade school. Would it be wrong for me to contact him??
You can contact him but it's best to use Magnetic Feminine Communication when you do so you stay in your feminine only when you do. Also it's best to talk on the phone or meet in person rather than texting or messaging.
True, that's why we recommend using our 90-Day Challenge to give the relationship a chance to shift but you always need to be willing to walk away if consistently after using what we teach you he doesn't change.
I believe my man is just broken 😂 I think i have done all this things and he still isnt in his masculine energy. He doesn’t allow me to go out with friends but yet he doesn’t want to pay bills 😏
I usually agree with everything u say but not being able to receive is indicative of an unhealed inner child issue that needs to be addressed w/ shadow work. I can’t get on board w/ that b/c I feel like you may be projecting your own issues into what you’re saying. Think about that 4 a minute. The DF giving her DM a gift at Christmas is basically her pretty much saying “I love you & bought this especially for you.” If I didn’t get my DM a gift 4 Christmas I believe he would be very butt hurt b/c it would look like I didn’t care.
I thought I had let go and let my ex-husband just be himself, but what wound up happening is that he kind of lived his life, and I lived my life and the more he was on his own the less I respected him because he would just default to sitting in front of the TV every day If I told him how to be or what I would appreciate a respect, he was resentful What was I missing?
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Hello and Happy birthday ( with delay....) for your wife Antia! We celebrated last sunday, in the orthodox church, St. Great Martir Antia, the mother of St. Eleftherios. Best regards from Romania!🙏🌹
This is very well articulated, thank you so much! Previously when I was listening to this type of advice - I did understand everything yet could not implement. Something was preventing me implementing these. I guess the problem was in “doing, or implementing” because learning this advice is good, but when we want to implement - it can put us in a masculine energy as correctly indicated in this video. We can say a feminine phrase but with masculine energy. Men could feel that something was off. I felt sth was off…
… until I met a man who could awaken the woman in me and it all makes sense and feels so natural… How many years I lived in this limited, dark place of scarcity, fear, even hidden hatred to men!!
I am grateful for meeting this man in my life and also greatly appreciate the author of the content for his valuable advice and videos 🌹
Mindset Shifts to Attract Masculine Energy:
6) Shift from being assertive to being permissive
5) Shift from being entitled to being receptive and grateful
4) Shift from being attached to being detached
3) Shift from giving to receiving
2) Shift from adoring him to respecting him
1) Shift from sharing solutions to sharing problems
Thanks for this video. Regarding point #6, shifting from being assertive to being permissive : what would you recommend to a female business owner to attract a masculine partner ? *I am* in my masculine energy in my job because I'm litteraly paid for this (elaborating strategies + making them happen) -- however I've noticed that this drives men away, even in the talking stage. I'm not shoving my job/money/lifestyle in their face, I don't talk about it unless they ask, however I can see how insecure they feel towards it.
However, this is my future we're talking about, I can't "tone it down" or make "less money" to make someone else more secure around me.
👉 What piece of advice would you give to women in my situation ?
Would love to hear your point of view !! 👏
The biggest thing is to start using Magnetic Feminine Polarity & Magnetic Feminine Communication like you're learning here and we teach in our coaching memberships. The key is you don't have to make less money or even change how you are in business, however being able to shift into your feminine instincts when you're with a man you like will make all of the difference.
I have never communicated like that with a man I guess that why I’ve been single for a long time I’m going to have to practice these ways of communication with men in general to see how this all works thank you so much
This is such an incredibly hard concept for me to understand and it always feels unnatural & virtually impossible to navigate especially in real time situations.
I have to know I deserve it, but not feel entitled. Im supposed to be an equal, but I have to ask him permission. I have to have standards & boundaries, but I have to trust him and let go of control. I have to receive, but not take anything. I have to be independent, but ask him for help & advice. I want to give, but that’s mothering him. I have to tell him I want to dance, but let him lead. I have to be detached, but show gratitude.
It would be fun and informative if you did some role playing with yourself and wife to display some of the scenarios you commonly mention (correct response vs the wrong response). It would actually show the correct and wrong body language, expression. Almost like a "do this, not that" kind of thing. Sometimes seeing things visually make things a little more impactful. Just an idea. Great job as you offer a perspective that I've never heard before. I've learned a few things being a woman that didn't grow up with a heavy male influence, so I never really learned the do's and don'ts of female and male interaction/communication.
Great idea!
Such an amazing passionate video! Thank you, I really appreciate your help in understanding men and navigating relationships ❤
Number 3 about gift was helpful for me, I think it's very true :) I met a man and I had many ideas for thing I could give him for Christmas, but I do feel that your advice is very acurate - so I decided to paint him a beautiful painting. I really think it's a great idea, as i am an artist. Thank you very much, Good advice! :)
Permissiveness doesn’t mean patriarchy. Let him lead, so be feminine and dainty and maybe say “do you think it’s ok to….” “If you have time this weekend do you think you could..” He wants to protect you, he wants to lift cars for you…because he loves you. It’s not always what you say it’s how you say it. Ordering a man around isn’t going to work and he will begin to think of you as a nag. Treat him like a king and you will be his queen.
#scorpiogirl
#scorpiogirl
I also believe we cannot make any random man fall in love with us by just doing feminine things and not doing masculine things. The advice is about shifting our energy - this is a state of being (rather than action). Once you are in feminine energy you can even do masculine things with femininity and that would look attractive. There are no rigid rules as long as you are in your feminine energy. The rest with be aligned naturally. You will say the right words, you will do right things, effortlessly, naturally.
If only we allowed each man to be as he is, treat them with respect and see what happens.
“How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?”
1 Corinthians 7:16
Love that shirt 🎉 great info as usual.. always good to hear examples to make sure we have heard/ understood correctly 😊
I can't think of any man I know let alone been in a relationship with that has been able to do the things suggested they'll do here if you're in your feminine energy.
Ive always had to step up myself to handle the masculine responsibilities by default because if I didn't everything fell apart, or I get taken advantage of and used, or I'd have to ask over and over again and either get to the point I'm resentful and nagging or just do it myself. By then I'm in my masculine energy and they wonder why I'm not motivated to give myself sexually, only to end up disappointed there too feeling like I'm with a child not a man.
Never nag. Gets you no where.
Thank you Brody as always for the wonderful reminders of stepping. Aside from the situation and listening and bringing our requests. And our feelings to the love of our life. I do notice a difference when I put appreciation into this. Little things even though we're long distance. I can tell it's making a difference. Thank you
Absolutely!
Wow! I needed this info! Thank you
Hard lessons for a woman who likes to give to a man!
Is it masculine energy if the female in the relationship handles most of the finances? Not that she makes all the money but just handles aspects of the finances like investments, household finances etc. Thank you
Yes handling the finances would be a masculine activity, doesn't mean you can't do it if he really wants you to and lead you too but long term it would be best for polarity to share your feelings around it using Magnetic Feminine Communication and for him to start learning to handle them.
This is so good!
You can adore and respect your husband or wife at the same time. One is not exclusive of the other.
Yes they are both nice but men tend to value one much more than the other (same with women)
CAN you really adore someone and not respect them???
@@staceywilliams1624 Yes, it would be like asking: "Is it really possible to adore a kitten but not respect the kitten?"
@@MagnetizeYourMan But we're talking kittens here, are we?
@@TahoeSnowbird Yes just using that as an example to stress the point that it definitely possible to adore someone without respecting them.
Asking for permission to address your partner, seems silly. There’s a difference between common courtesy and mutual respect, without asking permission to speak.
the guys like when i ask them for permission. it makes me feel more feminine when i ask a guy if i can tell him something, and thats what draws him in
Yeah this is the most misogynistic channel out there. They want you to treat men like Gods and sacrifice your self worth in the process
Alison Armstrong also suggests this. She’s is considered an expert on men’s behavior and how women can relate to men for better relationships. She’s been studying men for 33 years. Men are singularly focused so if you approach them without them being ready for the convo then what you have to say won’t necessarily land with him. If that’s something men need then that’s what they need. Just like women, we have our own sets of needs. Doesn’t make it silly if it doesn’t resonate with you.
I want to understand something
If I ask for a hug or something, will I be of low value?
Thank you for everything you provide
No that is actually high value to ask for what you want and be vulnerable in a respectful way
what to do if the man is embodying every single one of the feminine traits you describe (but expects respect) and you as a woman are forced to take the masculine role - for e.g. he always shares problems (he also never finds solutions when i share feelings or problems - instead he will say i also feel bored etc)
I'm a widow of two years and I'm very interested in a widower who also lives in my town. He has been a widower for approx. 2.5 years. As a matter of fact I knew his wife and he knew my husband. Our girls were best friends in grade school. Would it be wrong for me to contact him??
Find some reason to ask his help with something even asking for advice or a small task.
@@vikki4now I hope it wouldn't be going too far into my "masculine" to do it but I think I'll give it a try.,
Thanks!!
So are we not supposed to give him a Holiday gift at Christmas.
A great gift would be a love letter of appreciation or physical touch is great too
So then, what do you do when a guy tells you to contact him more often but you're not supposed to contact him so how are you supposed to talk to him?
You can contact him but it's best to use Magnetic Feminine Communication when you do so you stay in your feminine only when you do. Also it's best to talk on the phone or meet in person rather than texting or messaging.
I feel you, glad you asked this. My rather insecure partner seems to pull me into my masculine by needing me to chase him. It’s very odd.
@ have you done a video on long distance relationships?
Unfortunately these thing do not work with people who have ill intentions...you can not change another person.
True, that's why we recommend using our 90-Day Challenge to give the relationship a chance to shift but you always need to be willing to walk away if consistently after using what we teach you he doesn't change.
I believe my man is just broken 😂 I think i have done all this things and he still isnt in his masculine energy. He doesn’t allow me to go out with friends but yet he doesn’t want to pay bills 😏
I usually agree with everything u say but not being able to receive is indicative of an unhealed inner child issue that needs to be addressed w/ shadow work. I can’t get on board w/ that b/c I feel like you may be projecting your own issues into what you’re saying. Think about that 4 a minute. The DF giving her DM a gift at Christmas is basically her pretty much saying “I love you & bought this especially for you.” If I didn’t get my DM a gift 4 Christmas I believe he would be very butt hurt b/c it would look like I didn’t care.
I thought I had let go and let my ex-husband just be himself, but what wound up happening is that he kind of lived his life, and I lived my life and the more he was on his own the less I respected him because he would just default to sitting in front of the TV every day
If I told him how to be or what I would appreciate a respect, he was resentful
What was I missing?
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How about magnetize ur boss?
Unless they are a narcissist. Then he will use your effort to get only what he wants in life and never reciprocate your efforts.