It’s so refreshing to here this message. Your absolutely correct . I’ve personally fallen into the never ending cycle of introspection. Now I try to just go with the flow and surrender to god-it's much easier that way
This was bang on. Mission First. No bullshit. Finally coming out of years of spiritual bypassing and meditation thinking that I didn't need to engage with the world and life and could just escape to nondual presence or equanimity. I don't want to be a monk or spiritual person anymore I just want to be an authentic man on my purpose.....which funnily enough is about the most spiritual thing anyone could do
This was me. Went from feeling no emotions to all emotions on an extreme level. This occurred after having flashbacks to the day I was born back in 2016. Was in the spiritual community when this happened. I have always been sensitive which i desire to retain. No longer desire to cry everyday. Feel quite messed up. Came across your channel today.
@@Was_los_Brudagod doesn’t need your praise, live as Jesus did was the point, not worship, except in the form of unconditional love flowing from you to gods creation including yourself
@@Was_los_Bruda lol everything is part of everything, the point is praise shouldn’t be the focus. My love for god spills out of every breath I take and my every thought, word, and deed. If you love god then look at this earth and every being here and start loving
@@robertbozic4692 Yeah man. It's funny when the spirituallists reject sport and competition. Then when their instincts get back online they jump into it again.
Solid message that had me reflect on particular moments in my life and how I feel it may have had me avoid taking risks a little earlier on in my early 20's in pursuit of "healing". With somewhat being in and amongst the new age spiritual communities, I quickly grew a disdain towards majority of the guys that occupied that space, there was just something that didn't sit with me properly. It was years later that I was able to recognise the weakness, desperation and often narcissism masquerading as spirituality. It's action that ultimately liberates us as men. The hormonal and chemical response we get from taking action and achieving new things is insurmountable.Wanna heal and get healthy? Take action.
I love this. You're absolutely right. I was actually one of the weak men in the spirituality scene for a couple years. It was when I saw that my life wasn't actually getting any better that I knew something had to change. That's when I started taking action. With my relationship, with my business, and with the Men's group I co-founded. I continue to see how more action is required of me. Strong men are what's needed in the world today. Strong not just physically or mentally, but also spiritually.
“The mission is healing” you put into words what I felt intuitively when bad things happen and friends ask me how or why I work so hard after a negative event. I gain more from work in terms of directing good and bad feelings to something present that’s meant to impact the future.
Brilliant and rare insight mate! Really helpful. Self-work as you say is a bottomless pit; if a man (even with authentic intention) is perfectionist in the healing of his spirit, he'll die before having started what really matters which is his mission. Keep sharing great teachings!
We go through different stages of life. I’ve been through the more feminine side of life and now I’m in the more masculine side. It’s about facing what it is and accepting it without judgment. Finding that duality and realising everything is neutral. I think the more disciplined you get with exercise etc and taking more responsibility the more you become a man. I find now through tough days, I always go back to my exercises/routines and face the challenges one on one and it makes me tap into that masculine energy.
It’s a lesson one must learn for themselves and one very much ego driven. Another problem with spirituality and self awareness is doing a chapter of work and putting yourself in a safe bubble, getting too comfortable there and going into a state of limbo. It’s that statement “you need to love yourself first”… some people focus too much on that and forget the richness and beauty of all the people and community around them.
Yeah absolutely. Those 'safe bubble' periods turn into stagnation and idle time is the devils playground. Also we need to be able to find our centre whilst in action. Not requiring months of incactivity. 👊
These days I came across the idea of stop being in this endless loop of self-development, trauma healing, therapy... I had it take up my whole energy and I felt weaker every day. Im ready now to face Life as it is. For the moment it feels super overwhelming tbh. 🤮 But I will go through this phase, that I know for sure. Thanks for talking to us from your core ❤
Indeed, a man can never bypass the 'action' part, even if you're working with triggers to do trauma release/shadow work, you have to put yourself out there to get 'triggered' in the first place.
Exactly this, you hit the nail right on the head brother , I see it this way - that masculinity is the callous that protects the soft skin of femininity, not exclusively in a gender specific way, but in an energetic fashion as well. a callous can only be built through friction & abrasion, though with men - this abrasion/friction mostly needs to be emotional in order to cultivate itself properly - I think that contemporary spirituality, although it does have it's place in genuine attempts for seeking guidance, removes this callous & leaves/offers nothing in it's place except the exposed underskin of the feminine man *which in & of itself also has positive traits, but needs the full polarity for proper integration* - good stuff man, enjoying the channel so far
Thanks Justin! Really needed this one. Seeing how I need to get back on my mission. Caught up now with your last few videos. Just excellent, deep insights,man! Thank you 🙏. Happy New Year! 2025 is gonna be cool! ✌️
I get ya, Im an irish man living in india went fully into the path so to speak..lost my masculinity only getting it back now this year, 5 years being vulnerable in a good way but still a little weak
Damn bro, this is EXACTLY what is happening all around me! I live down south of Tulum and there is huge population of the woowoo/ heartspace/ shaman types. Its ALL focused on the divine feminine and trauma work down here. And I do engage with temezcal and cacoa and sound healing stuff, but there's nothing more being offered down here. Despite 3 years of looking around to find ANYONE who will even consider speaking about masculine stuff, I've yet to find even one actual 'man'. I know it's possible to connect with people online, but I'm so much better with being able to focus and engage in person. Hopefully I'll come across some actual local 'strong men' one of these days🤞
Yeah man. This is super common in the spiritual hubs. I'm in Ubud for a month or two which is also one of those places. In just a few days I've already met two solid men which was a pleasent surprise.
Yup, had a sort of “re-awakening” out of this type of spirituality back in 2020 when I realised that what I was engaged in was a kind of spiritualised narcissism. I was stuck in a hamster weel of grasping at feelings and infinitely healing new layers of trauma. When I realised this, at first I tried to fill the gap with Christianity, which helped me get grounded again and function normally in the adult world. Then I realised that what I was looking for was simply a kind of spirituality of that would help me embody more of that warrior spirit. A warrior can’t be sitting around licking his wounds all the time and not doing any fighting!
For me I made the journey from new age spirituality to Christianity. As a young man, the mission that resonated with me was the sacrifice that Jesus Christ made for all of us. He has inspired me to pick up my cross and follow him. I am done with false idols and unearned wisdom. True growth is through sacrifice and listening to God.
And how do you know Christianity is not just a false religion? Do you really think the Jesus Christ story happened exactly as written? You're just rejecting one belief system for older mythology. What do you mean it "resonated" with you. If you have no facts or evidence to back anything up then everything you just said is false and therefore unwise
@@radscorpion8 honestly man. I really don’t know. Can we know anything for sure? But I know I tried to dabble into so many things that I end up being so empty that I had to asked for help and prayed to God.
The real God is within you and not what the church teaches. You all confuse the actual spirituality with some spiritual community. There is no such thing as modern or new age spirituality and being spiritual does not mean you have to let go of the world .
Mate seems like you are about to punch someone😂. Chill out 😅 I understand you are on spiritual mission - but you choose it yourself. It's a game! The sanity of the world doesn't depend on you. You play your game like everyone else, and it doesn't need to be so serious! You achieved everything already - you are perfect. As everyone else you are speaking to. Make room for some humor and humility, the ride is gonna be way more pleasurable ❤ And the people will take example and will chill out as well. Is not the words you give to people, but your own vibration is what you are sharing.❤ Love ya
11:35 😂 this was a solid ending, though 👏 I don’t think he needs to chill out, I think his assertiveness is part of his point about SPEAKING LIKE A MAN. I say everything hinges on nuance, and I think he has enough in his overall point to keep the intention balanced - 👉 spiritual work can involve becoming in touch with some feminine qualities and wisdom, but maintaining the understanding of the difference between the polarities of men and women is important 😂 i do feel like that is his point
You are 100% and I can agree and relate. You are speaking fine and it's good you said everything you said. If people are uncomfortable,oh well. You're right. Lived it and seen it .@@justinkshears
@justinkshears So how you can have an impact, if there is no one ounce of anger in what you sharing? Anger is motivating and inspiring emotion. It makes us make changes. When it's healed, understood and embraced. But for it to be balanced, it needs a comfy coat of feminine energy. Then it works like a dream. Otherwise, when it's suppressed, rejected... we end up fighting with the world. We look for DANGERS and a need to PROTECT ourself. And that's not balanced approach. Healed masculine energy is not about fighting and fearing - it about embracing, appreciating, supporting, and giving space to feminine energy. It's like making a room, so then we can invite there the feminine energy so it can flourish. Unfortunately many wounded man are making a room, and kicking everything out of it ;) I understand. But at the end everything needs to come into a balance. The true power is surrender. Surrender the control, the judgement. No one is here to judge you. In fact only one judging is always you. There is no need to fight and protect. There is nothing wrong in giving space to all the emotions and embracing them fully in all their potential. Especially the ones we want to avoid. You can speak with anger and be light and cheerful doing that. Anger is life changing vibration if you know how to use it. But to know, you have to face the wounds. And to do that, you have to surrender. To embrace the feminine. And that's true masculinity. And as soon as you will understand - then you will meet the woman of your life, I promise you that 😁 And by creating family with her, you will see what the REAL masculinity means ❤️ You will enjoy it like never before
The spirituality scene always gave me a cringe feeling. It feels like its rare to meet a brother who is on his spiritual big dog grind. I believe this taking action is the key out especially as a dude. I truly feel like no one is coming to save me and I cant go to any spiritual communities because it feels like a circle jerk. In fact this has been one of the few random authentic vibes I have come across going over this topic. It feels quite confusing and lonely most of the time trying to make sense of what's going. Oh well, one day at a time. I stick to my meditation, training, and just getting up in general. Over riding those emotions can be a bitch tho.
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Exactly… I haven’t finished listening but from my own experiences we find enlightenment through love and hard work but people get caught up in being “something” in spiritual life which is an oxymoron because everything is spiritual
Thats cause they get stuck in their head. Real inner work, real spiritual work, shadow work, really works. If they are not ready to get the most from it it, thats on them, not on the movement. If people are just trying to do it superficially, then they get out what they put in. Surrendering to the higher, the higher self, rather than being in ego, thats important. Men or women will step into their dharma when they really do the inner work, but it requires a genuine intention. I agree with you as a whole, but don't assume that men should not step into their divine feminine, and in fact some men are naturally, authentically more divine feminine, while doing the real inner work.
@@FromIdeologytoUnity As I said there are some great things within it and real ones scattered through. The feminine aspect needs to be activated but my message is towards men who have already done that and are ready for the next phase.
It's all about what you believe that propels you in action based on who you say you are as a man I can still have a chance of emotions and still be manly but I got the caregiver aspects developed well too. It's a balance between the masculine and feminine within you all you got to do is help them balanced the pendulum swing
@@BrisonPrice-sg1tf Yep. I can feel when I get too imbalanced into push mode. The feminine aspect for me is mostly just slowing down enough to be back in a more centred clear place.
Yea I would agree with a lot of the criticisms of that stereotype of the new age man. It is a balance as with all things, including not being attached the outcome of “the mission”. Sometimes introspection is good, sometimes action, probably both. Self awareness without neuroticism. Play is the natural expression of the self, which shows up as my mission, everything I do is an expression of the path, but I’m no longer obsessed with escaping to enlightenment or needing the world to wake up.
Very rare are those channels that dare to say most energy out there is feminine. On youtube though I feel it is about 50-50. Outside the internet, yes female energy dominates like 90%.
Have you got any advice for being deep into this journey at 20 years old. Im yet to meet someone my age who is even aware of spirituality in general or practices I structure my whole existence around. I struggle to connect on their level which I've always found hard as ive always been deep, but after delving into spirituality I feel much more free and comfortable, yet isolated in a weird way.
Just stay true to yourself man. When going into the spiritual stuff always have your discernment and trust your judgement. Their can be lonely stages on the path before your new crop of friends arrive. Old friends can still provide nourishment even if the big woo woo conversations aren't possible.
All those issues about inner consciousness etc just weakness the self, in my it resonate so, I totally agree. What have maded strong the man in the past was the dream to literally fighting for great values, today all that is lost, they just say, you're no dual there's no separation in your consciousness etc etc all is love etc But life is quite the opposite today, people's doesn't care of no one and all walks in stranger ways.
@@IvanSpaziano-ko5cv Very true. I think both of these men exist. The non dual and the truth and value fighters. Very difficult to find in today's world.
When did you get to experience, awakening, rebirth or enlightenment? How long was the process and which was the biggest hurdle you had to overcome on the path? How did it feel to be fearless? How did it feel to sleep like a baby? How did it feel to find yourself in an adult kindergarten? How did it feel to walk outside in the rain? I don't expect you to answer all of my questions, but i'm interested in how you experienced things... thanks anyhow ;-)
Dang, thanks for giving it straight. It's hard to be a man today because there isn't much guidance or men to emulate. The Tate brothers are super masculine, but they idolize materialism and dominate women. Married men are dominated by women because they have the leverage of divorce, options etc. Maybe our rulers want to incentivize weak men and single people because they are easier to control. I'm trying to figure out if being masculine involves knowing the full range of the feminine and masculine energy spectrum to find your unique balance point. A pack of wolves only produces a few alpha offspring but the beta are not weak they just know their role is to think and guide the alpha for it protects the pack. Nature is always acting authentically and in balance with each other. Also maybe a man can only be balanced by female partnership. Equal and opposite energies come together and create a powerful force in which both can thrive 🤔
Great words. The Union is where it all unlocks. Further than we can go by ourselves. But both genders need to have sorted out enough of their shit prior to be able to get there.
great take, theres a reason why men have both testosterone and estrogen and need both, and women have both, but one is more in play than the other and this reflects masculine and feminine energy in the higher essence...too much testosterone and not enough estrogen in a man and they have issues, too much estrogen and not enough testosterone and they have issues...same for women with these hormones, which only reflect the masc/fem energy...i dont like the word balance, instead i say modulation is what i strive for
I think is just like ying and yang you have balance them! Some guys is so masculine that think that are the mob italian or a Greek god of 21th Century and sometimes is pretty insecure about yourself and the same go to the spiritual man I mean western world is about business and hard work. After this is feminine or weak mindset for most people and I mean is okay people is far away to conquer your demons and most problems sometimes is blocked chakras and traumas in families around the world. But the thing is, just balance your feminine and masculine have some hobby to embrace your creative, the right brain and have the same with the left brain and be cool on it! Ancient civilizations knew pretty much about this and shaolins make a intense training too. The secret of balancing the Body, Mind and Soul/Spirit is the key!
You can be the warrior and be the master of your mind. Be the master of the two worlds, embrace the pain but learn to love or be more in control about yourself and the others. (Remeber, left hand you use the sword and the right the shield 🔥)
Been in the path for 5 years did all the spiritual stuff ayahausca etc but ive done my share of healing and totally agree with what you said. On the other side of the coin I wont date a overly spritual woman im tired of meeting them most are full of shit your whole life cant revolve around it.
@@daryl9799 With women I just need to see if they love the truth more than the fantasies they are running. If they do have an ear for it then I enjoy a woo woo woman.
There is only one real spiritual path, the rest are dead ends. Enlightenment is a dead end because it preys upon the human need for novelty by giving a task that is unobtainable with an indescribable reward. Because the reward cannot be described, there is no way to measure its acquisition. The only spiritual path is to look for yourself in everything around you; to inquire 'how is that like or unlike me' and to use this inquiry to refine yourself like how flax is combed into linen, leaving the chaff behind.
Seems like they just share memes make dumb declarations in groups fake love and light crap, laugh at semen retention, very little practice, feigning knowledge and adopting more and more beliefs than ever before. It’s actually pathetic.
You all confuse the actual spirituality with some spiritual community. There is no such thing as modern or new age spirituality and being spiritual does not mean you have to let go of the world . The real God is within you and not what the church teaches.
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It’s so refreshing to here this message. Your absolutely correct . I’ve personally fallen into the never ending cycle of introspection.
Now I try to just go with the flow and surrender to god-it's much easier that way
*hear
@@aribena11 same here. Found it became an addiction
@@aribena11 Yep and maybe it was an essential stage for us all. Good to be on the other side 🙏
This was bang on. Mission First. No bullshit. Finally coming out of years of spiritual bypassing and meditation thinking that I didn't need to engage with the world and life and could just escape to nondual presence or equanimity. I don't want to be a monk or spiritual person anymore I just want to be an authentic man on my purpose.....which funnily enough is about the most spiritual thing anyone could do
@@jackmacmusic exactly man. Exactly 🙏👊
hey, could you share what you mean by "on my purpose"? After wanting to be a monk what purpose did you find?
Really interested in your answer,
Thank
This was me. Went from feeling no emotions to all emotions on an extreme level. This occurred after having flashbacks to the day I was born back in 2016. Was in the spiritual community when this happened. I have always been sensitive which i desire to retain. No longer desire to cry everyday. Feel quite messed up. Came across your channel today.
Sounds like perfect timing brother
Jesus Christ is the Truth the Way and The Life and my eternal motivation to praise God with every breath I take.
@@Was_los_Brudagod doesn’t need your praise, live as Jesus did was the point, not worship, except in the form of unconditional love flowing from you to gods creation including yourself
@@truthislove2012 isn’t praise part of loving the Lord :)?
@@Was_los_Bruda lol everything is part of everything, the point is praise shouldn’t be the focus. My love for god spills out of every breath I take and my every thought, word, and deed. If you love god then look at this earth and every being here and start loving
Bro this is me. Thank you so much man!
No worries man 🙏
Even going to the pub with your mates or footy etc… can help just to get back to something in a masculine energy. Good video!
@@robertbozic4692 Yeah man. It's funny when the spirituallists reject sport and competition. Then when their instincts get back online they jump into it again.
Solid message that had me reflect on particular moments in my life and how I feel it may have had me avoid taking risks a little earlier on in my early 20's in pursuit of "healing". With somewhat being in and amongst the new age spiritual communities, I quickly grew a disdain towards majority of the guys that occupied that space, there was just something that didn't sit with me properly. It was years later that I was able to recognise the weakness, desperation and often narcissism masquerading as spirituality. It's action that ultimately liberates us as men. The hormonal and chemical response we get from taking action and achieving new things is insurmountable.Wanna heal and get healthy? Take action.
Well said! And well done navigating that 👊
I love this. You're absolutely right. I was actually one of the weak men in the spirituality scene for a couple years. It was when I saw that my life wasn't actually getting any better that I knew something had to change. That's when I started taking action. With my relationship, with my business, and with the Men's group I co-founded. I continue to see how more action is required of me. Strong men are what's needed in the world today. Strong not just physically or mentally, but also spiritually.
@@dannywinebrenner4493 Action is required. Well done on graduating 👊
Yes your right true independence is what we as men need to accomplish to be guiding lights for others 100% man great content
@@Nasbomb_ttv Thanks man. Appreciate it 🙏
“The mission is healing” you put into words what I felt intuitively when bad things happen and friends ask me how or why I work so hard after a negative event. I gain more from work in terms of directing good and bad feelings to something present that’s meant to impact the future.
@@Thoughtsofmarquis Well said. An alchemist
Brilliant and rare insight mate! Really helpful. Self-work as you say is a bottomless pit; if a man (even with authentic intention) is perfectionist in the healing of his spirit, he'll die before having started what really matters which is his mission. Keep sharing great teachings!
@@ADanceTale That was a great paragraph to read. Thank you 🙏
Thanks man.
@@AdrianMark 🙏
Needed this video. Thank you brother
@@camakaze1330 🙏👊
Powerful. You’re speaking my exact intentions that came through for 2025.
Thanks for showing up brother.
@@DeepwithDaniel7 thanks man 👊
We go through different stages of life. I’ve been through the more feminine side of life and now I’m in the more masculine side. It’s about facing what it is and accepting it without judgment. Finding that duality and realising everything is neutral. I think the more disciplined you get with exercise etc and taking more responsibility the more you become a man. I find now through tough days, I always go back to my exercises/routines and face the challenges one on one and it makes me tap into that masculine energy.
Well said 👍🏼
@@ThetaState05 that's it man 🙏
It’s a lesson one must learn for themselves and one very much ego driven. Another problem with spirituality and self awareness is doing a chapter of work and putting yourself in a safe bubble, getting too comfortable there and going into a state of limbo. It’s that statement “you need to love yourself first”… some people focus too much on that and forget the richness and beauty of all the people and community around them.
Yeah absolutely. Those 'safe bubble' periods turn into stagnation and idle time is the devils playground. Also we need to be able to find our centre whilst in action. Not requiring months of incactivity. 👊
Love the vids man! Its giving me great insights and clearity. Stay strong!
@@armien6277 💪🙏
These days I came across the idea of stop being in this endless loop of self-development, trauma healing, therapy...
I had it take up my whole energy and I felt weaker every day.
Im ready now to face Life as it is. For the moment it feels super overwhelming tbh. 🤮
But I will go through this phase, that I know for sure.
Thanks for talking to us from your core ❤
Thanks for your share. And with that decisiveness and clarity I have no doubt you will be on the other side of it down the line 👊
Indeed, a man can never bypass the 'action' part, even if you're working with triggers to do trauma release/shadow work, you have to put yourself out there to get 'triggered' in the first place.
Exactly this, you hit the nail right on the head brother , I see it this way - that masculinity is the callous that protects the soft skin of femininity, not exclusively in a gender specific way, but in an energetic fashion as well. a callous can only be built through friction & abrasion, though with men - this abrasion/friction mostly needs to be emotional in order to cultivate itself properly - I think that contemporary spirituality, although it does have it's place in genuine attempts for seeking guidance, removes this callous & leaves/offers nothing in it's place except the exposed underskin of the feminine man *which in & of itself also has positive traits, but needs the full polarity for proper integration* - good stuff man, enjoying the channel so far
@@CamusAndCarrotJuice Strong words. And a good analogy. Thanks man 👊
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Yo you spitting man I was through this cycle but now ever since I started doing TH-cam again and working on music it has really shifted me man 🫡
@@jasahnbell8816 Awesome bro. Keep it rolling 👊
Thanks Justin! Really needed this one. Seeing how I need to get back on my mission. Caught up now with your last few videos. Just excellent, deep insights,man! Thank you 🙏. Happy New Year! 2025 is gonna be cool! ✌️
Happy New Year man 👊
I get ya, Im an irish man living in india went fully into the path so to speak..lost my masculinity only getting it back now this year, 5 years being vulnerable in a good way but still a little weak
@@wellofinfinity well done on navigating that. Slowly the energy rises back.
Damn bro, this is EXACTLY what is happening all around me! I live down south of Tulum and there is huge population of the woowoo/ heartspace/ shaman types. Its ALL focused on the divine feminine and trauma work down here. And I do engage with temezcal and cacoa and sound healing stuff, but there's nothing more being offered down here. Despite 3 years of looking around to find ANYONE who will even consider speaking about masculine stuff, I've yet to find even one actual 'man'.
I know it's possible to connect with people online, but I'm so much better with being able to focus and engage in person. Hopefully I'll come across some actual local 'strong men' one of these days🤞
Yeah man. This is super common in the spiritual hubs. I'm in Ubud for a month or two which is also one of those places. In just a few days I've already met two solid men which was a pleasent surprise.
Stop looking in the spiritual communities for masculinity.
Go find it somewhere it already exists
@celticdeamon567 He makes a valid point.
Agree.
Recommend ppl to listen Manly P Hall
@@Ubagz Yep same. If you look at my bio all it says is 'Those who live the life shall know the doctirine' Manly P Hall.
Spot on mate, subscribed.
@@1amjapan 🤘
Yup, had a sort of “re-awakening” out of this type of spirituality back in 2020 when I realised that what I was engaged in was a kind of spiritualised narcissism. I was stuck in a hamster weel of grasping at feelings and infinitely healing new layers of trauma.
When I realised this, at first I tried to fill the gap with Christianity, which helped me get grounded again and function normally in the adult world. Then I realised that what I was looking for was simply a kind of spirituality of that would help me embody more of that warrior spirit. A warrior can’t be sitting around licking his wounds all the time and not doing any fighting!
Yeah boss! Well done on not jumping into the next spiritual thing as well. Many people just pendulum swinging from one thing to the next. 🥷
Great message man
Thanks man 🙏
Talk that good stuff brother man 🤙🕉️
Thank brother 👊
Great Video, really touched me on a deep level.
@@timonamission good to hear 🙏
For me I made the journey from new age spirituality to Christianity. As a young man, the mission that resonated with me was the sacrifice that Jesus Christ made for all of us. He has inspired me to pick up my cross and follow him. I am done with false idols and unearned wisdom. True growth is through sacrifice and listening to God.
I share a similar story . Thank you for sharing 👍🏻
And how do you know Christianity is not just a false religion? Do you really think the Jesus Christ story happened exactly as written? You're just rejecting one belief system for older mythology. What do you mean it "resonated" with you. If you have no facts or evidence to back anything up then everything you just said is false and therefore unwise
@@radscorpion8 honestly man. I really don’t know. Can we know anything for sure? But I know I tried to dabble into so many things that I end up being so empty that I had to asked for help and prayed to God.
New Cage is a scam and vanilla Christianity is definitely better. The step above that is realizing Jesus's true message though.
The real God is within you and not what the church teaches. You all confuse the actual spirituality with some spiritual community. There is no such thing as modern or new age spirituality and being spiritual does not mean you have to let go of the world .
wow. very powerful message.
@@keithdmedia9215 thanks man
Mate seems like you are about to punch someone😂. Chill out 😅 I understand you are on spiritual mission - but you choose it yourself. It's a game! The sanity of the world doesn't depend on you. You play your game like everyone else, and it doesn't need to be so serious! You achieved everything already - you are perfect. As everyone else you are speaking to. Make room for some humor and humility, the ride is gonna be way more pleasurable ❤ And the people will take example and will chill out as well. Is not the words you give to people, but your own vibration is what you are sharing.❤ Love ya
11:35 😂 this was a solid ending, though 👏
I don’t think he needs to chill out, I think his assertiveness is part of his point about SPEAKING LIKE A MAN.
I say everything hinges on nuance, and I think he has enough in his overall point to keep the intention balanced -
👉 spiritual work can involve becoming in touch with some feminine qualities and wisdom, but maintaining the understanding of the difference between the polarities of men and women is important 😂 i do feel like that is his point
@@Voyock don't confuse speaking with conviction as anger. Not one ounce of anger in anything I said.
You are 100% and I can agree and relate. You are speaking fine and it's good you said everything you said. If people are uncomfortable,oh well. You're right. Lived it and seen it .@@justinkshears
@justinkshears So how you can have an impact, if there is no one ounce of anger in what you sharing?
Anger is motivating and inspiring emotion. It makes us make changes. When it's healed, understood and embraced. But for it to be balanced, it needs a comfy coat of feminine energy. Then it works like a dream.
Otherwise, when it's suppressed, rejected... we end up fighting with the world. We look for DANGERS and a need to PROTECT ourself.
And that's not balanced approach. Healed masculine energy is not about fighting and fearing - it about embracing, appreciating, supporting, and giving space to feminine energy. It's like making a room, so then we can invite there the feminine energy so it can flourish.
Unfortunately many wounded man are making a room, and kicking everything out of it ;)
I understand.
But at the end everything needs to come into a balance.
The true power is surrender. Surrender the control, the judgement. No one is here to judge you. In fact only one judging is always you.
There is no need to fight and protect.
There is nothing wrong in giving space to all the emotions and embracing them fully in all their potential. Especially the ones we want to avoid. You can speak with anger and be light and cheerful doing that. Anger is life changing vibration if you know how to use it. But to know, you have to face the wounds. And to do that, you have to surrender. To embrace the feminine.
And that's true masculinity.
And as soon as you will understand - then you will meet the woman of your life, I promise you that 😁 And by creating family with her, you will see what the REAL masculinity means ❤️ You will enjoy it like never before
@Voyock Anger turned to passion long ago, as I said not an ounce of it in my message. Good luck on your journey.
Love the ending. Amazing energy Justin!
@@soulslayermma Thanks man 🙏
The spirituality scene always gave me a cringe feeling. It feels like its rare to meet a brother who is on his spiritual big dog grind. I believe this taking action is the key out especially as a dude. I truly feel like no one is coming to save me and I cant go to any spiritual communities because it feels like a circle jerk. In fact this has been one of the few random authentic vibes I have come across going over this topic.
It feels quite confusing and lonely most of the time trying to make sense of what's going. Oh well, one day at a time. I stick to my meditation, training, and just getting up in general. Over riding those emotions can be a bitch tho.
@@ElRaythespacecowboy thank you for sharing. Resonate.
@@ElRaythespacecowboy Yep. The more you continue stepping into your authenticity and your path the more the real ones appear. You got this 👊
LOVE What you're saying here!!! BRAVO! Oh Ya, Emotions ARE A B Itch! Be Sure NOT TO SLACK & Not do your Emotional Responsibility by DEALING with YOUR EMOTIONS & Emotional Baggage, Because That Emotional Sensitive Woman of yours Picks Up on it, and if you're a Slacker, Being Super Independent, Lost in Action Avoiding YOUR Emotions, SHE'LL ACT Them ( the Emotional Energy) OUT! Then, Most Look at Her as a CRAZY B. & BLAME HER for being Overly Emotional! Please, Use Your Strength & Take Action DEALING with Your 🫵 Emotional 💩 And DON'T Set by watching your woman FLIP OUT or WALK OUT!
Exactly… I haven’t finished listening but from my own experiences we find enlightenment through love and hard work but people get caught up in being “something” in spiritual life which is an oxymoron because everything is spiritual
@@kellaslowery8426 that's the funny thing isn't it. Everything is or everything isn't.
Spot on brother light the beacons 🔥 🧬⛩️🌿
@@SpartansTribe 🔥🔥🔥
Thats cause they get stuck in their head. Real inner work, real spiritual work, shadow work, really works. If they are not ready to get the most from it it, thats on them, not on the movement. If people are just trying to do it superficially, then they get out what they put in. Surrendering to the higher, the higher self, rather than being in ego, thats important. Men or women will step into their dharma when they really do the inner work, but it requires a genuine intention. I agree with you as a whole, but don't assume that men should not step into their divine feminine, and in fact some men are naturally, authentically more divine feminine, while doing the real inner work.
@@FromIdeologytoUnity As I said there are some great things within it and real ones scattered through. The feminine aspect needs to be activated but my message is towards men who have already done that and are ready for the next phase.
Well said brother
@@ToddPritch thanks man
To true man. The women are often leg by Guru's at the top who are men!
Definitely bro
@@ryanmckennamusic88 🙏👊
It's all about what you believe that propels you in action based on who you say you are as a man I can still have a chance of emotions and still be manly but I got the caregiver aspects developed well too. It's a balance between the masculine and feminine within you all you got to do is help them balanced the pendulum swing
@@BrisonPrice-sg1tf Yep. I can feel when I get too imbalanced into push mode. The feminine aspect for me is mostly just slowing down enough to be back in a more centred clear place.
Authenticity and balance is the Master key 🌞🔥💪
@@SpartansTribe That's it 👊
Yea I would agree with a lot of the criticisms of that stereotype of the new age man. It is a balance as with all things, including not being attached the outcome of “the mission”. Sometimes introspection is good, sometimes action, probably both. Self awareness without neuroticism. Play is the natural expression of the self, which shows up as my mission, everything I do is an expression of the path, but I’m no longer obsessed with escaping to enlightenment or needing the world to wake up.
@@truthislove2012 Spot on bro. Really well said 👊
Thanks bro 🙏
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Very rare are those channels that dare to say most energy out there is feminine. On youtube though I feel it is about 50-50. Outside the internet, yes female energy dominates like 90%.
Have you got any advice for being deep into this journey at 20 years old. Im yet to meet someone my age who is even aware of spirituality in general or practices I structure my whole existence around. I struggle to connect on their level which I've always found hard as ive always been deep, but after delving into spirituality I feel much more free and comfortable, yet isolated in a weird way.
Just stay true to yourself man. When going into the spiritual stuff always have your discernment and trust your judgement. Their can be lonely stages on the path before your new crop of friends arrive. Old friends can still provide nourishment even if the big woo woo conversations aren't possible.
Great video. Thank you very much
@@oisin07 and thank you 🙏
Great insight brother
@@AlejandroLopez-ff7sl Thanks man 🙏
TRUEEE: EVOLUTION OF CONCIOUSNESS!!!
Real talk. I enjoy this channel.
@@vikramchatterjee4495 Thanks man 👊
Ive found the less you care, the happier you will be. Humans are great at complicating things. Women should be the very last thing on a mans mind
@@JeremyPezzeca Yeah man. Life can be simple, not easy, but simple.
People rarely talk about this and its an issue as a whole. Everything is all "inner feminine" and doesnt really hit with men.
All those issues about inner consciousness etc just weakness the self, in my it resonate so, I totally agree. What have maded strong the man in the past was the dream to literally fighting for great values, today all that is lost, they just say, you're no dual there's no separation in your consciousness etc etc all is love etc But life is quite the opposite today, people's doesn't care of no one and all walks in stranger ways.
@@IvanSpaziano-ko5cv Very true. I think both of these men exist. The non dual and the truth and value fighters. Very difficult to find in today's world.
When did you get to experience, awakening, rebirth or enlightenment? How long was the process and which was the biggest hurdle you had to overcome on the path? How did it feel to be fearless? How did it feel to sleep like a baby? How did it feel to find yourself in an adult kindergarten? How did it feel to walk outside in the rain? I don't expect you to answer all of my questions, but i'm interested in how you experienced things... thanks anyhow ;-)
Haha nice questions. I'll say that looking after my Dad at 31 was the catalyst for all of the experiences that I had had prior to become real.
Common banger video
We all need a mission. Is that mission a destiny we are given, self made, or co-created?
@@powderedtoastman6265 it's a great question
modern spirituality is not even spirituality, it's just bunch of BS.
GOOD ONE👌
@@Hardyboi-h8x 🙏
Hey Justin what do you mean about a man's core? What is that really? Could you expand on that? Maybe in another video
Like values and morals according in relation to universal truth!
bill burr said therapy is bs because you actually have to be out there doing shit instead of being in your feelings
Thank you
@@JonathanPlasse 🙏
Right on. Good explanation.
Thanks man 👊
Dang, thanks for giving it straight. It's hard to be a man today because there isn't much guidance or men to emulate. The Tate brothers are super masculine, but they idolize materialism and dominate women. Married men are dominated by women because they have the leverage of divorce, options etc. Maybe our rulers want to incentivize weak men and single people because they are easier to control.
I'm trying to figure out if being masculine involves knowing the full range of the feminine and masculine energy spectrum to find your unique balance point. A pack of wolves only produces a few alpha offspring but the beta are not weak they just know their role is to think and guide the alpha for it protects the pack. Nature is always acting authentically and in balance with each other. Also maybe a man can only be balanced by female partnership. Equal and opposite energies come together and create a powerful force in which both can thrive 🤔
Great words. The Union is where it all unlocks. Further than we can go by ourselves. But both genders need to have sorted out enough of their shit prior to be able to get there.
@@justinkshears Makes sense. Many levels and levels within levels to master thyself lol
great take, theres a reason why men have both testosterone and estrogen and need both, and women have both, but one is more in play than the other and this reflects masculine and feminine energy in the higher essence...too much testosterone and not enough estrogen in a man and they have issues, too much estrogen and not enough testosterone and they have issues...same for women with these hormones, which only reflect the masc/fem energy...i dont like the word balance, instead i say modulation is what i strive for
Yep, modulation possibly works better
I think is just like ying and yang you have balance them! Some guys is so masculine that think that are the mob italian or a Greek god of 21th Century and sometimes is pretty insecure about yourself and the same go to the spiritual man I mean western world is about business and hard work. After this is feminine or weak mindset for most people and I mean is okay people is far away to conquer your demons and most problems sometimes is blocked chakras and traumas in families around the world.
But the thing is, just balance your feminine and masculine have some hobby to embrace your creative, the right brain and have the same with the left brain and be cool on it! Ancient civilizations knew pretty much about this and shaolins make a intense training too. The secret of balancing the Body, Mind and Soul/Spirit is the key!
You can be the warrior and be the master of your mind. Be the master of the two worlds, embrace the pain but learn to love or be more in control about yourself and the others. (Remeber, left hand you use the sword and the right the shield 🔥)
Amen Amen 🙏
Been in the path for 5 years did all the spiritual stuff ayahausca etc but ive done my share of healing and totally agree with what you said. On the other side of the coin I wont date a overly spritual woman im tired of meeting them most are full of shit your whole life cant revolve around it.
@@daryl9799 With women I just need to see if they love the truth more than the fantasies they are running. If they do have an ear for it then I enjoy a woo woo woman.
There is only one real spiritual path, the rest are dead ends. Enlightenment is a dead end because it preys upon the human need for novelty by giving a task that is unobtainable with an indescribable reward. Because the reward cannot be described, there is no way to measure its acquisition. The only spiritual path is to look for yourself in everything around you; to inquire 'how is that like or unlike me' and to use this inquiry to refine yourself like how flax is combed into linen, leaving the chaff behind.
I think there are many paths. But I love what you have said 👊
Ancient spirituality strengthens a man. For what could be more ancient than spirit?
@@willarmendariz7663 Yep. The connection to spirit in what ever form is the real strength.
@justinkshears I bow to him who knows spirit.
@willarmendariz7663 🙏👊
Christ is the only life, there is no spirituality without the holy spirit. we are dead in our sin, thankfully Christ redeemed us with his blood
Just let go the doing men
Boom.
@@roadopener shakalaka
BASED MJOLNIR
@@heliand_22 It's powerful I tell you
Seems like they just share memes make dumb declarations in groups fake love and light crap, laugh at semen retention, very little practice, feigning knowledge and adopting more and more beliefs than ever before. It’s actually pathetic.
Haha funny take. Truth in it
You all confuse the actual spirituality with some spiritual community. There is no such thing as modern or new age spirituality and being spiritual does not mean you have to let go of the world . The real God is within you and not what the church teaches.
I have heard some real bs from these women leading spiritual groups and such.
Oh yeah bro. Many delusions in the field.
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@@vwellness88 🥷🙏
guru stags?
@@krishnow947 what's that mean?
NOT JUST MEN!!! It's 🎢🛝🎠🎡🎡🎡 🕳 🫨🎢🛝🎠🎠😵💫🎠🎡🎡🎡🥴🎢🎢🎢🤯🛝🎠🎠 🕳 🕳🕳🤪🥴🫨😵💫🥺😨😰😖 Many of us Women too. Let's just say, that of Allll the work we've done, our Life's Results are NOTHING Near what we planned for, Not The Healing, Peace, Stability... NOT The WHOLISTIC Lives we'd work for... = MAJOR PSYOP!!!