BO is right, i feel like he was trying to show off, hes not over the ex so hes bringing ellie and showing off. im glad hes no more, it was a good experience going out of her comfort zone but thank god. bullet dodged.
The only problem with that is that she wasn’t starting a rivalry with the ex or being so introverted she only talks to bug guy which would’ve made him more wanted by his ex. So I’m really on the fence if that was the case.
Biggest thing from my point of view is the fact that he had a date planned and then left to help his friend with work??? Nah, if you have something planned you reschedule one of the two, if the friend thing came up unexpectedly you tell them that you are already booked and have a date.
Agreed. That guy immediately leaving their planned date for some other activity that was also seemingly planned was incredibly inconsiderate and rude. I feel that would be an immediate dealbreaker for most people.
If someone invites you to a fancy alcohol event and you don’t drink alcohol, just say that you are happy to join but that you don’t drink alcohol. Any high class event will be able to accommodate non drinkers. Sorry to hear sbout her uncle. Edit: holy fuck that bug guy was A disaster. Bo’s right.
One of the signs I was falling for my previous gf was that I realized I thought _her sneezes_ were adorable. When Ellie "clicks" with someone, her dorkiness may not always be optimal, but the other person will still find it oddly endearing even when in awkward situations.
Good for you Ellie for stepping out of your comfort zone and going to the wine tasting. Experiencing advent like this will shape the person you will become and appreciate the next person you may go on a date with. (On a side note, I think the guy is kinda a jerk for speeding through the museum date with you to go help his buddy. And then the Ex? You dodged a bullet and wouldn't lose any sleep over it.)
Dorky guys love dorky girls. But dorky guys and dorky girls both tend to be homebodies that don't like to go out much, so the chances of running into each other are slim. And when it does happen, both tend to be shy and introverted as well, so the odds that either will approach the other are also slim. Put it together and you got a whole lot of virgins that would 100% be in happy relationships with just the right push in the right directions at the right times.
Yea that's true. Internet dating was supposed to solve this, but it turned into a crazy mess no sane person will bear it long enough to find a good match. And there's just not enough dorky nerdy girls. And I guess the majority of them are not really into dorky guys, unfortunately. So all of these combined make the result of loneliness epidemic
I'm still trying to figure out why he dumped her. Was it just because she didn't really fit with the place/his friends? Was the tag still being attached to the dress really the deal breaker to him? That sounds very stupid and superficial. She really dodged a bullet.
What on Earth, why would she not be like this all the time? Also, how on Earth is that a bad thing? Ellie being like Ellie all the time is a major plus.
Yeah, dodged a missile more than a bullet there. As a fellow male, this seems really weird. I would have given him the benefit of the doubt but he was the one to ""break up"" with her. Overal, really strange.
For all of those who are getting worried and want to give Ellie advice, remember that she is a smart, smart, fully grown gal who knows how to take care of herself.
We’ve averted an apocalypse? Should anything bad ever happen to Ellie, it would activate the swarm. Imagine some guy being run down by Neuro and Evil in robo dog bodies
Only 10-20 countries actually decent sized or big, close to 240 of them and where she at bigger than probably 100 of those places. Take the country as a whole and then ya up against giants like India or China being near 1.5 billion each. Most things seem small compared to them. US being only at mid 300 million.
Bringing up an ex in almost any context is a massive red flag. Also him making you meet her just to break up with you is gross. Hey but look on the bright side you dodged an Inter Continental Ballistic Missile.
This bug guy didn’t seem to have much in common with Ellie at all or at least didn’t bother to try. In my opinion if this guy was a musician or a technician an open mic or a low stress hangout just to see how she is with like minded people would’ve been a better tell for gauging a date’s compatibility with each other than bringing her out of her element. The guy also presented a big red flag when he shifted the date off course to do something else, he likely knew he was gonna go there to that bar before and put that above their museum date, but was so worried about how she would fit in with his friends that he brought her there not only when it opened, but to meet his friend the owner before meeting anyone else as well. Her playing hard to get earlier on a bit more would’ve likely either filtered this guy or refocused his priorities more towards understanding her better.
Who the hell brings a date to meet an ex? WTF? It's only a 2nd date, she's not even committed to him. That would have been a big red flag right off the bat.
Yeah, couldn’t agree with Bo more. None of this sounds like an Ellie issue. I can’t claim to have perfect dating knowledge, but from the sound of it Ellie did everything right, but the guy just wasn’t a good guy.
Bo is very based, dude is a red flag, he could have made the date be another day and stuff, he literally highjacked the date to help the friend, like dude, there are more then 300 days in a year
BO is right, i feel like he was trying to show off, hes not over the ex so hes bringing ellie and showing off. im glad hes no more, it was a good experience going out of her comfort zone but thank god. bullet dodged.
The only problem with that is that she wasn’t starting a rivalry with the ex or being so introverted she only talks to bug guy which would’ve made him more wanted by his ex. So I’m really on the fence if that was the case.
Textbook case of flaunting
if DUDES are sayin bro is a red flag, then its def true
Biggest thing from my point of view is the fact that he had a date planned and then left to help his friend with work??? Nah, if you have something planned you reschedule one of the two, if the friend thing came up unexpectedly you tell them that you are already booked and have a date.
That guy was more interested on meeting his ex than with the date. Ellie should just back home after he said he would left to help this friend.
Agreed. That guy immediately leaving their planned date for some other activity that was also seemingly planned was incredibly inconsiderate and rude. I feel that would be an immediate dealbreaker for most people.
Bo is actually goated holy heck
I'm glad she has a firend like Bo. She really needs people to build up her confidence I feel like lol
sucks that ellies first time jumping into dating was like this, but she has certainly gained knowledge for the future
Welcome to dating. It is a complete 💩show. Always has been even more so now. 😂
Odds are in no ones favor during dating. Best you can hope for your first time is that you get ghosted quickly.
Its preparation for the Vedal ship.
A ship that'll go down in history like the Titanic.
Perfectly immaculate and wholeSomebodyOnceToldME
He is not just a walking red flag. Bro is the definition of *Red* itself
"Dude was giving so many red flags i thought i was isekai'd into 1962 eastern Europe"
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Red dead redemption but there is no redemption
Bro is a kid. Showing girl to your ex is a typical freshman high school behavior.
If someone invites you to a fancy alcohol event and you don’t drink alcohol, just say that you are happy to join but that you don’t drink alcohol. Any high class event will be able to accommodate non drinkers.
Sorry to hear sbout her uncle.
Edit: holy fuck that bug guy was A disaster. Bo’s right.
One of the signs I was falling for my previous gf was that I realized I thought _her sneezes_ were adorable. When Ellie "clicks" with someone, her dorkiness may not always be optimal, but the other person will still find it oddly endearing even when in awkward situations.
Good for you Ellie for stepping out of your comfort zone and going to the wine tasting. Experiencing advent like this will shape the person you will become and appreciate the next person you may go on a date with. (On a side note, I think the guy is kinda a jerk for speeding through the museum date with you to go help his buddy. And then the Ex? You dodged a bullet and wouldn't lose any sleep over it.)
Dorky guys love dorky girls.
But dorky guys and dorky girls both tend to be homebodies that don't like to go out much, so the chances of running into each other are slim. And when it does happen, both tend to be shy and introverted as well, so the odds that either will approach the other are also slim.
Put it together and you got a whole lot of virgins that would 100% be in happy relationships with just the right push in the right directions at the right times.
Yea that's true. Internet dating was supposed to solve this, but it turned into a crazy mess no sane person will bear it long enough to find a good match.
And there's just not enough dorky nerdy girls. And I guess the majority of them are not really into dorky guys, unfortunately.
So all of these combined make the result of loneliness epidemic
I'm still trying to figure out why he dumped her.
Was it just because she didn't really fit with the place/his friends? Was the tag still being attached to the dress really the deal breaker to him?
That sounds very stupid and superficial. She really dodged a bullet.
Multiple issues with this dude, all on his end. I wouldn't put anything on her in this situation.
"My uncle's dead". Said like such a loving niece...
What on Earth, why would she not be like this all the time? Also, how on Earth is that a bad thing? Ellie being like Ellie all the time is a major plus.
Yeah, dodged a missile more than a bullet there. As a fellow male, this seems really weird. I would have given him the benefit of the doubt but he was the one to ""break up"" with her. Overal, really strange.
Her chat seems pretty healthy that's a ➕️ atleast.
For all of those who are getting worried and want to give Ellie advice, remember that she is a smart, smart, fully grown gal who knows how to take care of herself.
I wish i had a friend like Bo
Not spending enough time in museum is not a red flag its a whole red banner
Time to revive the imaginary Boyfriend,
We’ve averted an apocalypse?
Should anything bad ever happen to Ellie, it would activate the swarm.
Imagine some guy being run down by Neuro and Evil in robo dog bodies
...Is this what being parasocial means? If so...Guess she got me.
Don't do it girl...
He ain't the one.
Yeah
Imagining downer Ellie in a train with a fancy dress in something out of a sad episode in a sitcom.
“Anyway, here’s rainbow connection.”
3:13 well, most are just islands and city states, but I do see something like Estonia and Slovenia. So not wrong.
Only 10-20 countries actually decent sized or big, close to 240 of them and where she at bigger than probably 100 of those places.
Take the country as a whole and then ya up against giants like India or China being near 1.5 billion each.
Most things seem small compared to them. US being only at mid 300 million.
Bringing up an ex in almost any context is a massive red flag. Also him making you meet her just to break up with you is gross. Hey but look on the bright side you dodged an Inter Continental Ballistic Missile.
I don’t know, I’m pretty sure a banjo would fit right in at a hipster wine bar in Brooklyn
on that "idk why i thought the first one would work out thing": it might honestly just be an autism thing tbh
I'm sorry to have laugh out loud at Ellie announcing the death of her uncle... but come on!
Since the ex girlfriend was mentioned that should be self explanatory
I mean an ex isn't bad by itself. They might have broken off in good terms. The odd part was he said she was an ex and not a friend.
I don't think many guys are into nerdy girls if they're not nerdy themselves.
This bug guy didn’t seem to have much in common with Ellie at all or at least didn’t bother to try. In my opinion if this guy was a musician or a technician an open mic or a low stress hangout just to see how she is with like minded people would’ve been a better tell for gauging a date’s compatibility with each other than bringing her out of her element. The guy also presented a big red flag when he shifted the date off course to do something else, he likely knew he was gonna go there to that bar before and put that above their museum date, but was so worried about how she would fit in with his friends that he brought her there not only when it opened, but to meet his friend the owner before meeting anyone else as well. Her playing hard to get earlier on a bit more would’ve likely either filtered this guy or refocused his priorities more towards understanding her better.
Bo is a bro. Deserves a bro fist.
Our little robot did nothing wrong, but accept bug guy's date. Bug guy sounds like a man child.
Imagine if she ends up being friends with the ex or starts dating her 😂
Who the hell brings a date to meet an ex? WTF? It's only a 2nd date, she's not even committed to him. That would have been a big red flag right off the bat.
Yeah, couldn’t agree with Bo more. None of this sounds like an Ellie issue. I can’t claim to have perfect dating knowledge, but from the sound of it Ellie did everything right, but the guy just wasn’t a good guy.
Bo is very based, dude is a red flag, he could have made the date be another day and stuff, he literally highjacked the date to help the friend, like dude, there are more then 300 days in a year
At this point, why doesn't Bo become her boyfriend? Is he stupid?
I know she's a vtuber, but taking dating advise from internet is so bad, especially considering that she seems to have such a low self-esteem
look...it's the tism.
Does she even have anyone else to take advice from?
And many vtubers fans are giga parasocial and don't want their oshi to date anyone.
Don't worry, she has Bo for that x,D
@@popeyethe29th I mean so far her community is pretty chill, probably because it a just bunch of well adjusted adult nerd, that root for her.
F bug guy