The slippery Dating streets FT Lilian Afegbai

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  • On this episode Toke is joined by Lily Afe and they discuss how slippery the dating scene has become. This one is super funny. ENJOY!
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  • @Lilianafegbaitv
    @Lilianafegbaitv ปีที่แล้ว +444

    Omo this episode choke o 😅

    • @TheAdetutu
      @TheAdetutu ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Lilian, you caught me off guard. I love your skinfidence. Your black shines. You speak truth and you have elevated sooooo much. Keep it up o. Waoh. ❤

    • @qjservices7684
      @qjservices7684 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @CalBian
      @CalBian ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My humble plea Toke, can we get this twice a week please?

    • @ebereoyere6168
      @ebereoyere6168 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you 😂

    • @magretadaeze4946
      @magretadaeze4946 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @momentswithconfi
    @momentswithconfi ปีที่แล้ว +304

    Listening to Lilian speak for the first time, she's such a vibe. She just gained a new fan

    • @okorochukwunonso2563
      @okorochukwunonso2563 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here…My first time listening to her…Never knew she’s this fun 😂❤

    • @giftewomazinosjourneys
      @giftewomazinosjourneys ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes i love her vibe💜

    • @thesunnyshade1046
      @thesunnyshade1046 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She’s real

    • @lizzyslife5533
      @lizzyslife5533 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly I just went to follow her on Instagram now didn’t know she was this cool 😊

    • @Pebikokoh
      @Pebikokoh ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @Anu-dg4kl
    @Anu-dg4kl ปีที่แล้ว +92

    That moment when Lilian blamed Toke for the fake life pressure, take your crown sis!!! So hilarious😂 🤣

  • @elizabethaniah3382
    @elizabethaniah3382 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    This interview has convinced me that now in my early 20's I should not be in a hurry to make certain things happen. I am a corper, I write and market for people on digital platforms but I don't have a human hair, my hair stylist told me last week that I should get a hair that it would make people respect me, I laughed and told her that she doesn't know me that well and people still respect me with my braids. I'm not saying I don't want the hair but I wouldn't pressure myself to get it now but I'll have it when it's time.
    Thank you for this Toke and Lily!

    • @nakhicruise6951
      @nakhicruise6951 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me I be corper too, the hustle is real, infact today is my birthday and I braided my hair , not because my eye no shook but I can't afford it , I have been kind of sad , I told my friend that am not feeling this birthday ..u know dat feeling of not accomplishing anything? And tbh I have accomplished and i am where I am meant to be at 23 ..its alot ,let God help us ..social media is social media like Lillian says but I reminds me that I am not having fun in my youth , I am hustling hard rn

    • @HiQueen_mstb
      @HiQueen_mstb ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what’s up
      Tokstarr is always pondering on this from her vlog days ⚔️

    • @osasosasco2615
      @osasosasco2615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Face your buisiness dear...this niaja ladies are after luxury so them go dey collect D tire so stay clear and look for a working guy that you know his office or where he works

    • @oyinlicioustalks2777
      @oyinlicioustalks2777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you I actually want to focus on my career to most men out there aren’t nice. I believe we should just focus am in a rush to.

  • @wilson-omusodaniella4404
    @wilson-omusodaniella4404 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    For the first time Toke was speechless. Ahhhhh Lilian owned this episode!! I love her

  • @nazaezeobi1043
    @nazaezeobi1043 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Lilian just gained a fan❤️ she’s free spirited and her intelligence is second to none..in the midst of the jokes and banters she was true and dropped so many advice…

  • @Pagabio_Ide
    @Pagabio_Ide ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Never knew Lilian can be this fun to watch . I could see the truth in her words .

  • @moeshaj.6637
    @moeshaj.6637 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I agree with Lillian, comfortable & financially stable . Comfort is best.

  • @osewokoma6412
    @osewokoma6412 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Lilian is a breath of fresh air.The Akanchawa baddie series is so good and has made her so relatable. This episode has finished meeeeeeeeee😂😂😂😂😂

    • @vkvk1473
      @vkvk1473 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lillian oh my goooooodness. 😂😂😂😂😂😂.

    • @vivianonwudinjo3689
      @vivianonwudinjo3689 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please where does the Akanchawa baddie show, i will like to watch

    • @Korlu
      @Korlu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vivianonwudinjo3689 co asking

    • @balqisjumai9400
      @balqisjumai9400 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vivianonwudinjo3689 she posts this on her instagram

    • @ebereezekekwu9572
      @ebereezekekwu9572 ปีที่แล้ว

      The akanchawa baddie series,how can I join?

  • @asmaoudiallo
    @asmaoudiallo ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Lilian is really refreshing. Dropping real gems not all this fake WOKE statements. Loved this episode!

  • @Officialbisolababalola
    @Officialbisolababalola ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My respect for this lady (Lilian) just moved from 20 to 60. Nigerians need to learn basic things like real estate, mortgage, investment, loan etc 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @oriade1889
    @oriade1889 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Never judge a book by its cover…Lilian is such a sweetheart ❤

  • @giftelem3150
    @giftelem3150 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    This surely felt like a gist between two ladies while me listening is the cleaner hearing madam gist with her friends😂😂❤

  • @julesmj2243
    @julesmj2243 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I didn’t want this video to end. Lilian is so real.

  • @Oziomaamos
    @Oziomaamos ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Chai… nobody could have known Lily could be this authentic and sweet. Never Judge a book by its cover ❤

  • @chideraihekire4664
    @chideraihekire4664 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Thank God Lillian decided to show the Akanchawa baddie side of her to the world😂. This is easily one of the best podcast episodes I’ve watched. She’s so relatable and funny😂😂.

  • @busolajuliet9095
    @busolajuliet9095 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Baddie! I love this episode. I like how realistic lily is with her life and the part where she said “Toke, we are God’s children, I have left the husband part for God to fix, he will bring the right man who will align with my vision when the time comes “ - that’s a Christian’s language, I love it. Love and light to you both ❤

  • @chinesevodka.9510
    @chinesevodka.9510 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    After listening to this ep, I know that I’m on the right pact. And being true to my self is the only way.

  • @olaidebalogun9256
    @olaidebalogun9256 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I've liked Lilian from her BBA days. I She's a vibe. We need a longer version of this episode. Toke please bring Lily back.

  • @allshadesfemale9819
    @allshadesfemale9819 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Pls bring Lilian again… I schooled in benin so this bubbly personality is so familiar…. They can be fine and gist… super relatable

  • @chioma.o.greatjoy
    @chioma.o.greatjoy ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I like how relaxed and vulnerable she was while narrating her story.

  • @SylviaJoe
    @SylviaJoe ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I love how real Lilian is, it is refreshing

    • @thehunted316
      @thehunted316 ปีที่แล้ว

      real? olosho don influence you.

  • @chideradilibe
    @chideradilibe ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I loved this episode. It’s a life lesson for me. Don’t let social media or the life your peers or people are living pressure you. Success can make you forget your humble beginnings and distract you from seeing people who genuinely love and care for you.

  • @hannahkalu5072
    @hannahkalu5072 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    😂😂😂 Lillian is so funny. She cracked me up when she said she was fair before. Weldone Tokes

  • @fehinbebelao7951
    @fehinbebelao7951 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow Lilian is such a breath of fresh air. There's so much to her, wow I'm blown away. This was the episode everrr

  • @CodeArcadeTutorials
    @CodeArcadeTutorials ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Lilian is such a vibe. I was never a fan of celebrity fandom and the likes but seeing her on this show just brought her into my good light... Weldone Ms Toke!

  • @Kemi_Okopide
    @Kemi_Okopide ปีที่แล้ว +8

    One Episode, I cried, empathized, laughed and thought deeply.... Lilian Abeg collect your Flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺... Your type no plenty again... Lesson learnt: ALWAYS TELL YOURSELF THE TRUTH, NO ALLOW ANYBODY PRESSURE YOU.... Thank you Toke for the gifting us this beautiful episode....

  • @davidmayowa4014
    @davidmayowa4014 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Nahhh. Loved this episode. Lily is such a vibe. An honest, down to earth and open vibe. And TM with the classy big sis vibe always. Well done for always emphasising going through the process TM 🎉. Now how can we make this podcast deliver daily, I’m always refreshing my feed 😭. We want more

  • @dorcasolajide8452
    @dorcasolajide8452 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    After watching the short clip on Instagram,I had to come here to watch...vibes is on point, the facts you guys dropped is facting...I love everything about this episode...Mama please take your crown o😂😂

  • @imeblessing3197
    @imeblessing3197 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Everyone needs a friends like Lilian 😂

  • @TiffanyEweka
    @TiffanyEweka ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Toke needs to stop interrupting her guests when they are speaking 😩😩😩. Nevertheless i loved this episode ❤

  • @Valerie_Onoja
    @Valerie_Onoja ปีที่แล้ว +37

    30 minutes of undiluted fun.Thank you toke

  • @uchennaokoye3140
    @uchennaokoye3140 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bring Lilian back please🤣🤣🤣🤣. She's a whole Vibe

  • @geraldinedoris9119
    @geraldinedoris9119 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I didn’t knw Lilian has such a vibe , she gained a fan . It’s her vibe for me 1000 yards

  • @Princess__komeh
    @Princess__komeh ปีที่แล้ว +30

    “I can’t use my money, I don’t have. It’s fake like I’m living” 😂😂😂 Loved this watch 🙌🏽

  • @jeniferjohnson3448
    @jeniferjohnson3448 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lilian is a breath of fresh air, I love her realness, I hardly comment on this show but damnnnn she just gained a fan 😍

  • @symplybeth
    @symplybeth ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Again, your guests are everything. And Lilian is so real, going to follow her 💟

    • @IamJayneAdams
      @IamJayneAdams ปีที่แล้ว

      Me toooooo, shes so interesting.

  • @mezenwizu2624
    @mezenwizu2624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of my best Toke moments show.. 😀😀. Please invite Lilian Afei again Abeg

  • @Iphie2019
    @Iphie2019 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I enjoyed this episode!!!! 3 Birkins in 1 week ain’t possible!!! Toke check the quality of those bags abeg..

  • @yvonnenambangi9759
    @yvonnenambangi9759 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am glad I stumble on your channel.nice podcast .Toke you just gain a subscriber

  • @ronaldthe7th
    @ronaldthe7th ปีที่แล้ว +9

    LISTEN, I LOVE LILLIAN!!! what?? I’m so happy i got to see this version of her, So BARE!!! Love it

  • @joyabara9326
    @joyabara9326 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Lilian is such a vibe. I was laughing all through 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love her.

  • @abiodunsasore
    @abiodunsasore ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That her bleaching analysis crack me up so much.

  • @cynthiabenson964
    @cynthiabenson964 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lily such a vibe.... Sist dey talk am as e be

  • @enisankenny6683
    @enisankenny6683 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lily is so funny 😂… please bring her back again

  • @Mimi_U_A
    @Mimi_U_A ปีที่แล้ว +24

    OMG! This is my fav episode ever!! Lily is so funny 🤣

  • @adesusuu
    @adesusuu ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Omg Lilian is so smart and educative.
    God bless her for this ❤

  • @ronaldthe7th
    @ronaldthe7th ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Naaah!!!! FAV EPISODE!!!!! Lilian abeg take crown. You kept me glued!!!

  • @olubukolaofoegbu6970
    @olubukolaofoegbu6970 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Few things make me laugh out loud but Lilian did! The girl is hilarious!! and intelligent at the same time.

  • @nchareidriss7498
    @nchareidriss7498 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lilian is a vibe …I just love her❤️❤️❤️❤️
    She showed a different personality from what I saw on Instagram

  • @cangitob1392
    @cangitob1392 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love Lilian… I never thought she was this fun and relatable

  • @idiaketessyonosereba9563
    @idiaketessyonosereba9563 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wow,I really enjoyed this episode...I love you tokestar

  • @rachealmaduagwu7398
    @rachealmaduagwu7398 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lily I agree with you! “Single cuz people think am not single” my current situation rn…

  • @CalmWabiSabi
    @CalmWabiSabi ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg Lily 🤣🤣🤣 I love your vibes!!! Toke please bring her back na

  • @oluwaseyinicholas919
    @oluwaseyinicholas919 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is my first time finishing a TK Moments video. Lilian was such a delight to watch. Thank you for bringing her, Toke. 🎉

  • @AbisoyeSoretire
    @AbisoyeSoretire ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to watch this again and 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 mouth suppose dey pain Toke & Lilly for wherever dem dey now cause I don too rewind dieeeeeeee. video of 31 minutes turn 3 hours for my hand 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 e choketh 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Toke please take ya crown true true 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @Yummymummyspace
    @Yummymummyspace ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Lilian killed this podcast I am still rolling on the floor love you both

  • @chinenyechika-nwobi8044
    @chinenyechika-nwobi8044 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have always loved Lily, laughed from start to finish... awesome👍

  • @Zeiny905
    @Zeiny905 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sis Toke, you're really doing well with this back to back videos. We love it. Thanks ❤

  • @AriyikeWeekly
    @AriyikeWeekly ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Toke, take your crown. 😅😅😅 You two Ladies are hilarious. Can we have a Part 2 please? 😅😅😅

  • @Monicao.01
    @Monicao.01 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    nah I rate Lillian big time ! my kinda girl ! love these podcasts , so excited each time❤

  • @odette_frederika5603
    @odette_frederika5603 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That’s why Lilly is friends with Temisan 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 they definitely talk about this reality . Love you Lilly ❤️❤️❤️❤️😂

    • @psiyke
      @psiyke 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im tellinng youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu...... The Aproko go sweet dieee😂😂😂

  • @Jesuisbe
    @Jesuisbe ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Toke, I really enjoyed this interview. It was real, entertaining and educational as well. Please bring in more guests like Lily. People willing to share their real journeys without pretense. Just hitting the nail on the head 😊

  • @kewedeni6328
    @kewedeni6328 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the talk ladies! Some people will say they are picky nah it’s about what they want! Cause when you have worked hard to get to a certain point in life, you just can’t settle

  • @Rayos_corner
    @Rayos_corner ปีที่แล้ว +14

    😂😂😂😂😂I can’t believe Lilian is this funny… lemme go and watch this Akanchawa baddie everyone is talking about 🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @princessifunanya557
    @princessifunanya557 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Lilian is sooo real....I can relate to her .

  • @isiomaononye
    @isiomaononye ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I laughed so much in this video! Lilian’s personality is so authentic.
    This was such a fun conversation.
    I loved Lilian’s points on her knowing the type of person that she wants that would align with her and not compromising on her passion for her acting field.
    Also, truly admire Toke’s style of interviewing and making it more conversational 👏🏽💃

  • @hellenadenike2340
    @hellenadenike2340 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly You people are motivating me. I'm watching this the 4th time today. Wetin I wan do now now I never know

  • @anitabarbie3462
    @anitabarbie3462 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lillian is a vibe, she's so real and funny 🤣😍 to be honest I enjoyed this episode.

  • @stephaniefatiede1515
    @stephaniefatiede1515 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! I don't know Lily Afe. Just pictures on IG and all. But meehhhnnnn!!!!! I just fell in love with her on here. She's so real. Relatable too. 😌😌

  • @teenah2494
    @teenah2494 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would love a Lillian in my friendship circle, she's so real🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love her character. Most of us I'm sure didn't know this interesting side of her.

  • @ibrahimalabi5381
    @ibrahimalabi5381 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Akanchawa baddie you are just a very beautiful soul and a vibe. Toke you be my personal person I swear. Now I see the reason why Taymesan body no dae stay one place. See una wae dae make am misbehave

  • @daisye2678
    @daisye2678 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Toke I love the fact that you guys are exposing these street guys although i can't relate but i have learnt how the dating scene is in Lagos.

  • @stellaubongabasi1268
    @stellaubongabasi1268 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omo...Lilly I love youuuuuu...and I can remember seeing you in a movie from 2015...you looked fair as the word🤣🤣🤣

  • @dailywordprayers
    @dailywordprayers ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I never knew that Lilian was such a vibe. So real.

  • @CHEFOLLIES2018
    @CHEFOLLIES2018 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you toke for sharing you ❤❤❤❤

  • @CommonSenseSisters
    @CommonSenseSisters ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lilian too funny mehnnnnn🤣🤣🤣🤣. authentic Edo babe. We loved watching this episode.

  • @ALPHAGLAM
    @ALPHAGLAM ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything is a process👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kemi430
    @kemi430 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lilian has to come back ooo😂😂😂
    Never knew she’s funny and relatable

  • @harriethenrietta2942
    @harriethenrietta2942 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me go and follow this Lilian lady Omoo pure cruise 😂😂😂😂 vibes on vibes 🥰❤️😍😍

  • @lovetharinze9710
    @lovetharinze9710 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m in love with Lilian now!! The honesty! The peace that comes with staying true to yourself. I love it

  • @oborooizamsi2563
    @oborooizamsi2563 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This twoo... i loovvveeee
    I love the emphasis on their christianity path. I definitely leant alot..

    • @TokeMakinwa
      @TokeMakinwa  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you did

  • @oluwabankeo3035
    @oluwabankeo3035 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    didn't want this episode to end. Laughed all through

  • @chiomaazuka6733
    @chiomaazuka6733 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I laughed all through 😂. Lilian is such a vibe, i'm following her right away. Toke flows with all her guests like they're all best friends, I don't know how she does it.

  • @brendaobiechie2233
    @brendaobiechie2233 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I literally fell in love with Lilian ❤Girl you’re real😮😅Aunty Toke 🥰🥰🥰

  • @dewunmikeny5038
    @dewunmikeny5038 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lily is so real and honest, girlllll keep it up. Your type is rare.

  • @ngbedeagbenu
    @ngbedeagbenu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love ❤this episode. I wish it could be longer than 30 mins.
    Never knew Lilian was this fun.

  • @roladun
    @roladun ปีที่แล้ว

    Toke, se you dey here! You better calm down like your friend ooo.....

  • @sophyikape5914
    @sophyikape5914 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We need another episode with her 😂😂😂😂 she’s so real ❤

  • @okeibomo6028
    @okeibomo6028 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Chai, this Lilian girl is funny.. Toke we need more real people like this abeg.

  • @preciousonyinyechi4744
    @preciousonyinyechi4744 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of my favourite episodes so far!!!!! Lilian is so relatable!!

  • @balogunblessing2186
    @balogunblessing2186 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of my favorite episodes!!!!!!!👏👏👏👏👏

  • @allthingsnaija7108
    @allthingsnaija7108 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How did I do 31mins without moving an inch? It feels like 5mins Damn!...
    I enjoyed every bit of it... I love you both

  • @yeyedumusa9021
    @yeyedumusa9021 ปีที่แล้ว

    Think this is my best episode.... I love this girl

  • @jerrygodleads9772
    @jerrygodleads9772 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I truly understand what Lily said she being single because everyone thinks she is not single. Story of my life. They’ll say how Can a fine girl like you be single? 😅 The pressure thing to get validated is totally understandable. I don’t get pressured myself sha . I get things because I really think I need them especially to look more beautiful except it’s impulse buying (beautiful fabrics are my triggers). Lily saying she bleached and doesn’t look the same cracked me up😂. Truth is dating now is crazy. Unbothered is the best approach to dating now. Like lily said, we are Christians and when God says it’s time, it will be time indeed! I am at a point where I tell God if you don’t tell me beyond reasonable doubt to go into relationship, I won’t. I’m never going to second guess it. All my dreams, visions, must be a proof that you want me to go into the relationship. Coz baby girl is tired of wasting her time. Too much talk but that’s just to say I love this episode as always.

  • @bibitayogeorge6937
    @bibitayogeorge6937 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was funny.. I love her free spirit

  • @yhungprosperTV
    @yhungprosperTV ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lilian is effortlessly funny😂😂😂 I love love her

  • @sharonmullally4380
    @sharonmullally4380 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this lily she dey craze 🤣❤️

  • @benyinogar
    @benyinogar ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely LOVED this episode. Lily is so lovely, and real. Toke, kudos to you mami.

  • @ogonnaokechukwu1761
    @ogonnaokechukwu1761 ปีที่แล้ว

    I laughed all tro. It is good to make light of your issues so that it doesn't get to u