I been single for 4 years after being in a toxic relationship and it’s the best thing I ever experienced. I loved myself all over again, been on my fitness journey for 3 years, can do what makes me happy without guilt, no arguments, saved a lot more money and it gives me a chance to know what I want in a relationship. People act like being single is the worst thing in the world but it’s really not, being in a relationship with the wrong person is the worst thing in the world
Being in a love relationship is too much stress and keeps you limited in how you can live. Single life can seem selfish to someone who’s involved but single and free is the only way to be truly happy.
@@timothyswauger3984 how can they better you when all they do is take? Tell me one thing they give you and don't name sex because that is something that they also enjoy but it becomes less and less frequent the longer you are together
Being single is awesome. I'm 47 and I've been either married or in a long-term relationship all of my life. Not now and it feels great to have to NOT consider anyone else, allowing me to do what I want to do whenever I want to do it. I've recently rented my house out, got rid of most of my 'stuff' and am flying to Bali soon for 5 weeks. And planning more trips that follows that. There's a 'season' for everything and being 'solo' or single is great. Of course one day it'll be great to be in a happy, healthy relationship again - But not yet. I have my hopes and dreams and I'm going to embrace them with open arms.
I have enjoyed the peace, freedom and quiet times in my twenty years of singleness. I was divorced prior to that and I am stil learning one lesson brothers: guard your money, guard your emotions, guard your attention and guard your time..
Its not the end of the world,we are not missing out on anything.We just dont like drama,thats it.Its easy to tie the knot,but not so easy when it comes to maintaining long-term commitment.
How come I didn't see your video? Love your content!🥰 I've been single since 2017 and still counting🤭😄 plus am currently in college so no time for that. Not really a priority.
Yeah an ex told me something similar - I wasn't desirous of relationship. I've found that many ppl see singleness as some kind of disease to be avoided. One friend called me unstable bcuz I told her that I like having freedom to do/go whatever/wherever I want to.
Unstable? If anything you are much more stable because you are secure within yourself and you do what makes you happy and are being there for yourself. People are weird nowadays for thinking like that like that is crazy. Keep doing you man. I been single for 4 years and I haven’t been bothered about it and by it at all
I agree with you being single is the most beautiful thing yeoh ! I disagree about the kissing thing though - kissing up on just anyone is truly gross - I am single because I choose to be but I ain’t just gonna go lock lips with all and sundry yuk no ! I agree with the rest of what you say mind - but be careful about the kissing anything - kissing isn’t as innocent as ppl make out as you can get some really horrible parasites cold sores and other nasties just from kissing up on strangers - definitely not something I regularly do… Cheers bro ! Ttfn;)
Agree, not everyone worth to be kissed. But you need to kiss many female frogs, before... - just brush your teeth on regular basis and use mouthwashes - kiss responsible 😂 Daily Kissing extends you life!
@@kamilhoffmann2410 hahahaha see it’s that kind of attitude to kissing that has led to a high rise of certain parasites conquering humans as their hosts ! For me personally prevention is better than the cure… I will not be kissing up on just anyone I meet in this life… I’m a proper germaphobe and I have to know a person for at least 6 months before they get a kiss on the cheek let alone any thing French related (that takes on average 1 year) mouthwash and teeth brushing will not prevent someone catching these nasties and make no mistake there are a lot of ppl carrying and harbouring parasites within themselves and they don’t even know it - that’s an absolutely fact is that ! Thanks for your comment kamilhoffmann2410 & apologies for my late reply ! Hope you have a fantastic Tuesday Ciao for now;)
$250 marriage and a $306 divorce and I got custody of the baby. 42 years of peace and quiet to pursue my dreams. Nobody to blame for my own mistakes and fix them as needed. Things I'm thankful for. I'm not a ATM. I'm not a whipping boy for her pleasure. She tried I fought. In my favor she had no money skills. Carrying the F&^%$#t pulpit made trying to be boss a chick difficult for her at 18 years old. Always had to plan to go somewhere when I was off work. She wanted my undivided attention. Separated me from my friends. Asked silly questions? Always probing for the right answer, she thought I should have. If your free of the chains. Stay there you be will better off. Having a game run on you because she sees a sucker is a big red flag. I call her M's Clingy, and it get annoying. Then M's Doting shows up to feed you and hover. Meanwhile M's know it all, lectures on how I should feel about certain topics. All this was 30 years before social media. If I was in my 20's with the way it is now with social media there wouldn't be any question about marriage. A big NO!!!
I been single for 4 years after being in a toxic relationship and it’s the best thing I ever experienced. I loved myself all over again, been on my fitness journey for 3 years, can do what makes me happy without guilt, no arguments, saved a lot more money and it gives me a chance to know what I want in a relationship. People act like being single is the worst thing in the world but it’s really not, being in a relationship with the wrong person is the worst thing in the world
Being in a love relationship is too much stress and keeps you limited in how you can live. Single life can seem selfish to someone who’s involved but single and free is the only way to be truly happy.
This is true, unless we find our partner that makes us better and we can align and build with.
@@nothingtothegrave I believe finding that partner who betters us in next to impossible. It’s like finding a needle in a haystack.
depends of your partner really
@@timothyswauger3984 how can they better you when all they do is take? Tell me one thing they give you and don't name sex because that is something that they also enjoy but it becomes less and less frequent the longer you are together
Being single is awesome. I'm 47 and I've been either married or in a long-term relationship all of my life. Not now and it feels great to have to NOT consider anyone else, allowing me to do what I want to do whenever I want to do it. I've recently rented my house out, got rid of most of my 'stuff' and am flying to Bali soon for 5 weeks. And planning more trips that follows that. There's a 'season' for everything and being 'solo' or single is great. Of course one day it'll be great to be in a happy, healthy relationship again - But not yet. I have my hopes and dreams and I'm going to embrace them with open arms.
I have enjoyed the peace, freedom and quiet times in my twenty years of singleness. I was divorced prior to that and I am stil learning one lesson brothers: guard your money, guard your emotions, guard your attention and guard your time..
Perfectly said.
Protect your m.e.a.t.
Most importantly guard your heart that way it’ll never be broken
thank you for making this video, i just got my heartbroken not to long ago and im trying to re build who i am and my heart
Great video. Everything he mentions are definitely benefits I have enjoyed since being single.
All so true, drama free!
Nothing to feel ashamed about being single,it’s one’s personal choice and i feel society has no right nosing in our affairs.
Agreed, we shall continue on doing what serves us best!
Its not the end of the world,we are not missing out on anything.We just dont like drama,thats it.Its easy to tie the knot,but not so easy when it comes to maintaining long-term commitment.
I treasure the fact that I don't have to COMPROMISE. I haven't had to watch The Voice, The Bachelor, or The Notebook in 20 years.
Single life is a happy life dont waste money
How come I didn't see your video? Love your content!🥰 I've been single since 2017 and still counting🤭😄 plus am currently in college so no time for that. Not really a priority.
The sign of a great soul is someone who is comfortable with themselves. Go you!
Yeah an ex told me something similar - I wasn't desirous of relationship. I've found that many ppl see singleness as some kind of disease to be avoided. One friend called me unstable bcuz I told her that I like having freedom to do/go whatever/wherever I want to.
And that's why a lot of relationships are rotten prisons, keep being you
@@nothingtothegrave Exactly!
Unstable? If anything you are much more stable because you are secure within yourself and you do what makes you happy and are being there for yourself. People are weird nowadays for thinking like that like that is crazy. Keep doing you man. I been single for 4 years and I haven’t been bothered about it and by it at all
I agree with you being single is the most beautiful thing yeoh ! I disagree about the kissing thing though - kissing up on just anyone is truly gross - I am single because I choose to be but I ain’t just gonna go lock lips with all and sundry yuk no ! I agree with the rest of what you say mind - but be careful about the kissing anything - kissing isn’t as innocent as ppl make out as you can get some really horrible parasites cold sores and other nasties just from kissing up on strangers - definitely not something I regularly do…
Cheers bro !
Ttfn;)
Agree, not everyone worth to be kissed. But you need to kiss many female frogs, before... - just brush your teeth on regular basis and use mouthwashes - kiss responsible 😂
Daily Kissing extends you life!
@@kamilhoffmann2410 hahahaha see it’s that kind of attitude to kissing that has led to a high rise of certain parasites conquering humans as their hosts !
For me personally prevention is better than the cure… I will not be kissing up on just anyone I meet in this life… I’m a proper germaphobe and I have to know a person for at least 6 months before they get a kiss on the cheek let alone any thing French related (that takes on average 1 year) mouthwash and teeth brushing will not prevent someone catching these nasties and make no mistake there are a lot of ppl carrying and harbouring parasites within themselves and they don’t even know it - that’s an absolutely fact is that !
Thanks for your comment kamilhoffmann2410 & apologies for my late reply !
Hope you have a fantastic Tuesday
Ciao for now;)
well said.
$250 marriage and a $306 divorce and I got custody of the baby. 42 years of peace and quiet to pursue my dreams. Nobody to blame for my own mistakes and fix them as needed. Things I'm thankful for. I'm not a ATM. I'm not a whipping boy for her pleasure. She tried I fought. In my favor she had no money skills. Carrying the F&^%$#t pulpit made trying to be boss a chick difficult for her at 18 years old. Always had to plan to go somewhere when I was off work. She wanted my undivided attention. Separated me from my friends. Asked silly questions? Always probing for the right answer, she thought I should have. If your free of the chains. Stay there you be will better off. Having a game run on you because she sees a sucker is a big red flag. I call her M's Clingy, and it get annoying. Then M's Doting shows up to feed you and hover. Meanwhile M's know it all, lectures on how I should feel about certain topics. All this was 30 years before social media. If I was in my 20's with the way it is now with social media there wouldn't be any question about marriage. A big NO!!!
Another great video, keep it up ❤
Thank you for watching and thanks for the feedback 🙏❤️
Wonder what will happen if people stopped being obsessed over marriage. Started enjoying life what ever happens happens.
what if your friends are already married?
They become part time friends with that time diminishing year after year. That is a fact.