I disagree that no woman cant handle it. Just depends on their flaws mixed with what they want and their values. And if they were inclined to entertain the possibility of one and talk about it, the terms of that relationship/s would also play a factor.
Rich man sport yeah for them, some regular people can handle open relationship to long as you ain't got the female on pedal stool and your not scared to lose her
To be in an open relationship requires extreme emotional discipline whereby you do not get jealous, you do not get attached which is near enough impossible its human nature to get attached to people, its human nature to be jealous.
Wow this was definitely an eye opener. I loved all the perspectives. I’m monogamy all the way. When I’m with someone I don’t even want nobody else. And that will be reciprocated or they can get to stepppin
I agree it’s always easier said than done . If you’re a woman and you REALLY love your dude you’re gonna be broke to find out you’re sharing him and same for guys in the same instance . Just stay single and keep fucking around if that’s what you desire. It’s too much uneecessary time involved trynna do that
It’s about honesty you can’t be conducting yourself like you’re in a open relationship while expecting ya partner to act as if they’re in a traditional one 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I feel like open relationships are possible..but too many stars will have to align for it to realistically work over the long haul. There are too many different factors that go into making a closed relationship last in of itself. The more people you add to the equation the less likely the percentage is that the relationship will work out the way you intended it to. Just sex alone can ruin it if any side of the party gets insecure or wants something different. Just imagine adding finances, families, friends, and just life in general to the equation. That’s like hitting the lottery on Friday the 13th on a full moon 😂😂😂
U dont have to be in an open relationship to be non-monogamous. There’s cheating as well. Cheating is different than an open relationship. You could just talk to and have sex with a bunch of women without a relationship as well
@@tatianadaniel3569 I dont even remember what point I was trying to make but it wasn’t that cheating is ok. If I remember I was just explaining what I thought their explanation meant.
@@fooni7400 I think you or youtube just deleted the comment. But you said that a "nonmonogamous relationship doesn't have to be open. There's cheating. A man can just be talking to or having sex with a woman". But now that you have clarified that you do not condone cheating regarding men or women, now I see what you meant.
Nahhhhh myesha I agree w you ... you did that Open relationships Only works for people that’s open for it; but like a point was made its 50/50 anyone’s open relationships someone else is going to feel something is lack and it become 25% for you and the other person, it doesn’t work for me nor have I entertained it and yeah I DONT LIKE TO SHARE IF I SHARE NIGGA I DONT CARE
I feel some type of way because I agree with all the men and the one young lady sitting with Dre. The young lady sitting with Kenny I understand her point but I don’t believe open relationships for some of the reasons Kenny mentioned. I was asked about a open relationship and stated I was not willing to do that.
@@silverioford5667 if people really cared about STD's they would test every sexual partner they have, u may do that, but most people don't, so that's just used to cover up insecurities and egos, and selfishness, IMO
This needs a revisit. These people have grown and evolved, and who's views have changed. Sum of them have done sum more in-depth studies have more experiences. I'd like to see that.
I dont think if you are in love with someone you will be comfortable with them having romantic physical and emotional relationships, I would say just let me ho in peace instead of being in an open relationship
The two at the end..both full of it & feeling each other out. But she finally called him out haha ”You just wanna get on camera and say that you got good d”
damn these women have given up on men that they just accept that their man will cheat and will still stick around. It's a state of emergency up in here. You ladies need an intervention.
Its not just women. A lot of women and men are fucked up. Plus letting love rule, not valuing respect and other things. But thats a sympton of our culture as a whole.
Bro ain’t nobody wants to be with the same person for 20 plus years especially if your attractive and have resources. There’s a reason women chase athletes
Most men admit that they SHOULD get to cheat especially if they have money. Are you saying most or even half of the available, decent looking, sexually satisfying men with stable incomes won't cheat when in a relationship?
For most women as long as that women isn’t “embarrassed” it’s most likely would be cool, because if your aware then the relationship not monogamous 💁🏽♀️
I actually agree more with the women in this video, in the age of social media, instant validation and the availability of "options". 85% of relationships are open. Nobody owns anyone, ppl are going to do whatever the hell they want to and unless you on some insecure/ stalker type shit....you'll never really know.
Jeremie Kisina suspecting and knowing is two different things and if you’re researching to find out, it’s already too late. Charge em to the game and keep it pushing pimp.
Open relationships are for people that never wanted to get involved in the first place but for some reason did. They are almost always a complete disaster. Had an old friend and his wife decide to try this out. Within a week, she had been fucked by 4 different dudes and the guy was regretting everything that had happened. He hooked up with an ex of his once during that first week but felt guilty and realized how fucking dumb he was for doing this. They haven't gotten along since. Just seems like a bad move.
This isn't true, IMO, on the flip side, boundaries have to be set, Ik of a married couple, been married for almost 20 yrs, been open for most of it, and they still going strong, as long as both parties Respect and set boundaries it can work, along with other factors as well
Open relationships arent for everyone and thats perfectly fine and should be understandable. I feel like their are points that were missed. For one, our culture as far as dating goes is so fucked up that wevas humans can barely handle having one healthy relationship involving one other person. They touched on communication and insecurities which was good. It comes down to really knowing yourself and what you want or can handle.
You might as well just stay single because with open relationships there are just all these rules and stipulations that most people just don't want to be bothered with.
Men be the more narcissistic individuals like a lot of stuff can be dished out and can’t take it, I honestly don’t think monogamy is realistic for men 😅
There isn't complete loyalty in an open relationships. At some point jealousy will be on either end. Too much floating around that you can't spell or pronounce, diseases are real out here!!!! You're not faithful to one person in an open relationship.
Feel like Kelsey was the only person who understood what an open relationship actually was. It's not about being possessive with your partner it's about appreciating them and letting them do them.. and vice versa. With that said, shit isn't for everyone
@@popularloner5282 true, and a majority of women think that way. At the end of the day her preference in men and what an open relationship is go hand in hand. She had no problem mentioning she'd side chick herself in another video so as far as having multiple sexual partners she doesn't have any issue with it. Don't want to say there's no cheating in an open relationship, there are standards and rules that should be followed, but I don't see a partner emotionally investing themselves in another person. That's the only way to cheat in that type of relationship
Ralf With an F Yea seen that vid she sound kinda crazy but if u want a easy rotation she would be the way to go it wouldn’t be no complaining I feel hella females think like this just not to the extent of accepting an open relationship if they been cheated on
Mesha spoke that real! It’s a Rich mans sport. If you regular it ain’t for you! No woman can handle an open relationship
I disagree that no woman cant handle it. Just depends on their flaws mixed with what they want and their values.
And if they were inclined to entertain the possibility of one and talk about it, the terms of that relationship/s would also play a factor.
There are polyamorous people in the world and a lot are women.
Rich man sport yeah for them, some regular people can handle open relationship to long as you ain't got the female on pedal stool and your not scared to lose her
She not yours it's just your turn
Faithful men get a shoutou.. i appreciate it
lol. there's SO much wrong in this conversation I don't even know where to start.
Same..
Same
To be in an open relationship requires extreme emotional discipline whereby you do not get jealous, you do not get attached which is near enough impossible its human nature to get attached to people, its human nature to be jealous.
Wow this was definitely an eye opener. I loved all the perspectives. I’m monogamy all the way. When I’m with someone I don’t even want nobody else. And that will be reciprocated or they can get to stepppin
I agree it’s always easier said than done . If you’re a woman and you REALLY love your dude you’re gonna be broke to find out you’re sharing him and same for guys in the same instance . Just stay single and keep fucking around if that’s what you desire. It’s too much uneecessary time involved trynna do that
Broken*
It’s about honesty you can’t be conducting yourself like you’re in a open relationship while expecting ya partner to act as if they’re in a traditional one 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Honesty, comfortability, flaws, values and other factors.
I feel like open relationships are possible..but too many stars will have to align for it to realistically work over the long haul.
There are too many different factors that go into making a closed relationship last in of itself. The more people you add to the equation the less likely the percentage is that the relationship will work out the way you intended it to.
Just sex alone can ruin it if any side of the party gets insecure or wants something different. Just imagine adding finances, families, friends, and just life in general to the equation. That’s like hitting the lottery on Friday the 13th on a full moon 😂😂😂
It’ll be a hell of a dream tho 😂😂
Facts
Yeah, i was hoping they would get more into nuances and more outside how they feel about it.
Love I love them all, especially Kenny. STD😂😂
These are the same people who say monogamy is unrealistic but also open relationship don’t work human being are a walking contradiction
Catrina Andrade you ain’t told a lie. Also in the long run it never works out like they think it will.
U dont have to be in an open relationship to be non-monogamous. There’s cheating as well. Cheating is different than an open relationship. You could just talk to and have sex with a bunch of women without a relationship as well
@@fooni7400If the woman you "love" isn't on board with you talking to and having sex with another woman or multiple women, you shouldn't do it.
@@tatianadaniel3569 I dont even remember what point I was trying to make but it wasn’t that cheating is ok. If I remember I was just explaining what I thought their explanation meant.
@@fooni7400 I think you or youtube just deleted the comment.
But you said that a "nonmonogamous relationship doesn't have to be open. There's cheating. A man can just be talking to or having sex with a woman".
But now that you have clarified that you do not condone cheating regarding men or women, now I see what you meant.
Move who you want as much as you want if that’s what you comfortable with. To each is own, then you win
The next 6 are collateral damage hahahaha!
Mesha’s a real one💯💯
Nahhhhh myesha I agree w you ... you did that
Open relationships Only works for people that’s open for it; but like a point was made its 50/50 anyone’s open relationships someone else is going to feel something is lack and it become 25% for you and the other person, it doesn’t work for me nor have I entertained it and yeah I DONT LIKE TO SHARE IF I SHARE NIGGA I DONT CARE
I'm not married but damn I hope I will never be weak enough to want that. like why get married at all if the love is not really pure and truthful.
Meshea speaks Facts..
Why did woman in the button up start off with the king and mistress talk? Not everyone was kings and queens
I’m just gonna stick to 1 relationship. Smh 🤦🏾♂️
I feel some type of way because I agree with all the men and the one young lady sitting with Dre. The young lady sitting with Kenny I understand her point but I don’t believe open relationships for some of the reasons Kenny mentioned. I was asked about a open relationship and stated I was not willing to do that.
Open relationship is a NO GO!, be single and just DO YOU! simple.....
Your opinion
@@amarelogan7081 you are damn right, to each their own, you all can keep the HIV Herpes Gonorrhea Aids to you'all self.
@@silverioford5667 if people really cared about STD's they would test every sexual partner they have, u may do that, but most people don't, so that's just used to cover up insecurities and egos, and selfishness, IMO
Yo can sumbody get they mans Smuv and Trill AC - I can’t with them . 😂😂
This needs a revisit. These people have grown and evolved, and who's views have changed. Sum of them have done sum more in-depth studies have more experiences. I'd like to see that.
I dont think if you are in love with someone you will be comfortable with them having romantic physical and emotional relationships, I would say just let me ho in peace instead of being in an open relationship
Yea this is true because all humans are selfish, and have egos
I think Kelsey is still young. I think once she gets older her views will change.
And I got a bridge in Brooklyn that I can sell you
The two at the end..both full of it & feeling each other out. But she finally called him out haha ”You just wanna get on camera and say that you got good d”
Matthew Anthony we think a like. Kenney to much STDs out here
damn these women have given up on men that they just accept that their man will cheat and will still stick around. It's a state of emergency up in here. You ladies need an intervention.
Its not just women. A lot of women and men are fucked up.
Plus letting love rule, not valuing respect and other things. But thats a sympton of our culture as a whole.
True true
Facts
Bro ain’t nobody wants to be with the same person for 20 plus years especially if your attractive and have resources.
There’s a reason women chase athletes
Most men admit that they SHOULD get to cheat especially if they have money. Are you saying most or even half of the available, decent looking, sexually satisfying men with stable incomes won't cheat when in a relationship?
I don’t know her name at 15min but she was spitting facts the whole video omm
For most women as long as that women isn’t “embarrassed” it’s most likely would be cool, because if your aware then the relationship not monogamous 💁🏽♀️
I actually agree more with the women in this video, in the age of social media, instant validation and the availability of "options". 85% of relationships are open. Nobody owns anyone, ppl are going to do whatever the hell they want to and unless you on some insecure/ stalker type shit....you'll never really know.
does that make you jealous of us 15%ers?
It not insecure/stalker shit if you suspect your spouse is do things behind your back
The Uber Successful nah I belong to the skreets kinfolk
Jeremie Kisina suspecting and knowing is two different things and if you’re researching to find out, it’s already too late. Charge em to the game and keep it pushing pimp.
So our expectations are just super low?
I like mesha she sound like wifey quality an she got standers. The other women corrupt asf
Open relationships are for people that never wanted to get involved in the first place but for some reason did. They are almost always a complete disaster. Had an old friend and his wife decide to try this out. Within a week, she had been fucked by 4 different dudes and the guy was regretting everything that had happened. He hooked up with an ex of his once during that first week but felt guilty and realized how fucking dumb he was for doing this. They haven't gotten along since.
Just seems like a bad move.
This isn't true, IMO, on the flip side, boundaries have to be set, Ik of a married couple, been married for almost 20 yrs, been open for most of it, and they still going strong, as long as both parties Respect and set boundaries it can work, along with other factors as well
Ayye light skin hitting on all facts realistically speaking
Mesha said devalue 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she real on that note 🤣🤣 proper yella got a hell of a opinion smh wow she need to move to cali
I will finish watching this video later
Mesha is the TRUTH 🔥🔥
The light skin woman is speaking all facts.
She's funny and cute too! 👌
Right. Most of the dudes on the video don't understand your woman ain't forever she's yours but they scared to lose they woman Monogamy is boring
The Gas Giants then yu might as well stay single an mess around if a girl having sex with other men that’s not my woman
She definitely makes very valid points, I respect it
Are you all from Canada? Only ask, because of the logo...
From Montreal, so no hate.
ayeee MTLL
Open relationships arent for everyone and thats perfectly fine and should be understandable.
I feel like their are points that were missed.
For one, our culture as far as dating goes is so fucked up that wevas humans can barely handle having one healthy relationship involving one other person.
They touched on communication and insecurities which was good. It comes down to really knowing yourself and what you want or can handle.
🤷🏾♂️ Why even be in a committed or open relationship ?? Just build yourself a roster and move around. 🤷🏾♂️
You might as well just stay single because with open relationships there are just all these rules and stipulations that most people just don't want to be bothered with.
I can allow it, Only if my girl deal with other girls...NO Men!...Oh & I gotta be in the room too...Yes!... I gots to watch that shit go down.
If you want an open relationship we're fuck buddies. Simple as that.
open relationship = single plain & simple there no thing as a comitted open relationship
I disagree
There is something so beautiful about love, monogamy and what that grows to be. Nothing against polygamy but it’s not for me
Women's logic: "You can be in love with someone and sleep with someone else."⚖️
*Absolutely pitiful.*
That's human logic, and it's real
Is that not what men have been saying for centuries?
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yea ol girl in the button up like she wanna get cheated on
yall are missing out!
I’m surprised by most of the women’s response.
7:20
Hmmm I am actually surprised about these opinions...
Collateral damage 😏
The fat guy is funny
Men be the more narcissistic individuals like a lot of stuff can be dished out and can’t take it, I honestly don’t think monogamy is realistic for men 😅
Monogamy isn't natural for no human
Understand: A key that can open many locks is a master key
A lock that can be opened by many keys is USELESS!
😤😤👍🏿
Most locks has been opened by many keys though before you get to it. Speaking specifically of america.
College, young twenties, etc.
There isn't complete loyalty in an open relationships. At some point jealousy will be on either end. Too much floating around that you can't spell or pronounce, diseases are real out here!!!! You're not faithful to one person in an open relationship.
She look like superHead
Feel like Kelsey was the only person who understood what an open relationship actually was. It's not about being possessive with your partner it's about appreciating them and letting them do them.. and vice versa. With that said, shit isn't for everyone
Ralf With an F yea until she said she wanna get cheated on because if u can’t get no one else it’s wack I fell like she into polygamous alpha male
@@popularloner5282 true, and a majority of women think that way. At the end of the day her preference in men and what an open relationship is go hand in hand. She had no problem mentioning she'd side chick herself in another video so as far as having multiple sexual partners she doesn't have any issue with it. Don't want to say there's no cheating in an open relationship, there are standards and rules that should be followed, but I don't see a partner emotionally investing themselves in another person. That's the only way to cheat in that type of relationship
Ralf With an F Yea seen that vid she sound kinda crazy but if u want a easy rotation she would be the way to go it wouldn’t be no complaining I feel hella females think like this just not to the extent of accepting an open relationship if they been cheated on
It’s NOT the truth though!... So black women need to STOP saying that-And STOP Thinking it!😳😳😳
What?
sigh ....the travails of a monogamous society...official polygamy solves this--even if you do have to be married to both or more women.
man this is not the channel for me. who are the people...no obe seems like they like the opposite sex at all.
Y’all have the most misogynistic opinions of lifeee omgggg it’s soooo cringey 😬
I wish y’all would stop picking such “pick me“ women to be in the videos 😬😬