I’m getting top surgery to finally feel comfortable in my body

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  • @pantspantsrevolution7
    @pantspantsrevolution7 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I am sobbing. Thank you so incredibly much for sharing. I didn't think anyone truly understood how I feel, and from the moment the video started I realized... you do (did). The anger, the distress, the clawing at yourself, I thought it was just me despite everything I have read about the nonbinary and trans community. Seeing it was so powerful. Thank you, thank you, thank you

    • @mitchellcrane9809
      @mitchellcrane9809 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      do not do this to yourself. It is a social contagion spread by social media. It is common for this to happen in the female population such as anorexia and bulimia did

    • @mitchellcrane9809
      @mitchellcrane9809 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gumoa2866 They are more then just a ton of fat. They serve a purpose. Body dysphoria is a mental condition. IT should not be solved with a scalpel. There are people out there who have body dysphoria that feel they should not have a limb or their eyes. Should we remove the body part off these people that bothers them or should we work to solve the problem with their mind.

  • @cyborgwizard8923
    @cyborgwizard8923 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    There are people in the comments complaining about how this is "butchering" or whatever. What I'm curious about is if a cis woman gets a breast reduction surgery it's more than ok, but someone like this person gets it and it's suddenly a medical atrocity? It's literally the same procedure done for the same reason, so that person can be more comfortable in their own body. If that genuinely bothers you, then I don't understand why you're watching this in the first place.

    • @Qwertygerty123
      @Qwertygerty123 ปีที่แล้ว

      To spread awareness that they will be known as the generation of mass sterilisation. Having a reduction is a good argument, but ultimately a biological woman reducing her breast size isn’t denying her biology.
      If this women decides she wants breasts again. She’s outta luck

    • @LS-fe4ob
      @LS-fe4ob ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Breast reduction is done for reasons like back and neck pain. And it’s a reduction not a removal

    • @GaTraCos
      @GaTraCos ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​@@Qwertygerty123Mastectomy =/= sterilisation. And earth's population is still rapidly rising, so even if it did somehow cause sterilisation, it would be moot.

    • @Qwertygerty123
      @Qwertygerty123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GaTraCos I’ve also considered that. So what you’re saying is sterilising some people is a good thing?

    • @GaTraCos
      @GaTraCos ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Qwertygerty123 Yeah. Those who don't want to have kids, for example.

  • @Kajra87
    @Kajra87 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had a similar surgery, a ‘cosmetic/elective mastectomy’ which is very similar to top surgery, and before my surgery I felt exactly the same towards my chest. Whenever I’d look down and see them I would think ‘this isn’t right, those things aren’t supposed to be there’. Just like the person in this video, I too would wear baggy clothes, jackets (even in the middle of summer), and I also had the habit of holding my shirt or jacket out from my chest in an attempt to hide it even more. There were even multiple times where I too would claw at them in a futile attempt to rip them off.
    The only difference between me and the person in the video is that I’m cis. I identify 100% as female, but I’ve simply never identified with having a female chest. Ever since they first started growing I had always had an ‘off’ feeling towards them. They felt like foreign growths that were invading my body. To make things even worse, they grew to a disproportionately large size (GG cup). I’m only 5’1 and have always had a very slim build, so a chest of that size was way too big and heavy for my tiny frame and as a result caused severe back, neck and shoulder pain. It also attracted the attention of creeps that would constantly harass me to the point where I resorted to wearing a chest binder whenever I went out just to feel safe. This *on top of* my dysphoria towards my chest made my life miserable.
    I was *so blessed* to find a charity hospital that put me in touch with a surgeon who was willing to give me a cosmetic/elective mastectomy pro bono (free of charge).
    I am now over 3 years post op and in those 3 years I have done so much more than I ever could’ve done before. No more crippling back pain, no more harassment and feeling unsafe out in public, and the best part - no more dysphoria. I finally feel at home in my body.

    • @swanhart8058
      @swanhart8058 หลายเดือนก่อน

      which hospital !?

    • @Kajra87
      @Kajra87 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aotearoa Charity Hospital in New Zealand :)

  • @Ash-up9gl
    @Ash-up9gl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Thank you so much for helping so many of us to know that we're not alone

  • @Aster_NB
    @Aster_NB 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This gives me so much hope

  • @meYogii_
    @meYogii_ ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Omg, what an exciting moment that was for u. This is me also. I'm not that close to get my top surgery. BUT I have an appointment with a doctor in the beginning of August. Hopefully it's not a very long time until I'll have my surgery. In november I've been waiting for almost 3 years...
    Hope ur satisfied with the upper body, now it's 6 months ago.
    Thanks for sharing your struggle and happiness.

    • @KimRayGina
      @KimRayGina 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope everything went Not too problematical, did you get an appointment? (If you didn’t I’m sorry to remind you of that post and I want to tell you that every day Troy get a little step closer to top surgery, it’s gonna be great, you will feel great.)

  • @AleinWonderland
    @AleinWonderland 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Why do people care so much about what other people do to make themselves fulfilled and happy? Whoever sees this comment I guarantee you you do something that is detrimental in the eyes of others. It doesn’t mean it’s not what you need.

  • @Benjamin-om3ih
    @Benjamin-om3ih 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I appreciate the fact they are doing this video. Helps me to understand something I have little comprehension about

  • @olivialipscombe3407
    @olivialipscombe3407 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i have trans friends but seeing people get the surgery i want in nz, just makes me so happy to know people are getting it

  • @_JamesEinstein
    @_JamesEinstein ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I feel the same way. I hope to get too surgery too soon. I hope it goes well for you!!

  • @itshollyw959
    @itshollyw959 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for this. I'm so incredibly happy for you :') Congratulations! Seeing your joy at the end is so wonderful!

  • @MissterClown
    @MissterClown 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So happy to see other people happy

  • @divrodricks2525
    @divrodricks2525 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    wow this made me cry

  • @natedawg-s3y
    @natedawg-s3y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    So happy for them!

    • @thenman23
      @thenman23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      her

    • @ZombieR4T
      @ZombieR4T ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thenman23 Have you even watched the video??🙄

    • @vidamariaixchel4962
      @vidamariaixchel4962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For them? There’s just one girl here: one who hates her breasts.

    • @sicksickBacon
      @sicksickBacon ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ZombieR4Tthey think they're funny.

    • @sicksickBacon
      @sicksickBacon ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theharshtruthoutthere bullshit

  • @davefisher1840
    @davefisher1840 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are such an attractive person and it makes me happy to see you so happy! 🫶🏾

  • @ZombieR4T
    @ZombieR4T ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Ayeee I’m non-binary too!! I can relate so much and it’s so cool to see someone like me transition :))

    • @okeydokey4523
      @okeydokey4523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m a frog. Thank you so much. I’m getting my voice deepened, mouth widened soon. I’m on my way to finally be accepted as a frog. I use the pronoun rebit.

  • @violetviperbat6594
    @violetviperbat6594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wish they have talked about the budget this surgery needs as some have to travel to Thailand to get it done instead

  • @yudollia
    @yudollia ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I want to do this so bad

    • @DBoy176
      @DBoy176 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I really hope you change your mind

    • @thelifesampler
      @thelifesampler ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you dont ruin your life. Dont buy progressisvism dumpster

    • @Pamela_Lopezs
      @Pamela_Lopezs ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. I just need the money. Donation link in my bio.

  • @pomaranccia
    @pomaranccia ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i was crying trough the hole video. i have no hope but i really happy that non-binary people starting to get more representation, and i feel so happy but so broken right now.

  • @jesslester6970
    @jesslester6970 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m so glad that people can get lifesaving surgeries like this. I wish them luck with everything ❤

  • @preet_tom
    @preet_tom ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I also want to do this...
    But i am scared of even injection, don't know how to face this

    • @mirandastephens4586
      @mirandastephens4586 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't do it.

    • @kirbypopstarian1198
      @kirbypopstarian1198 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Talking to other folks who've undergone top surgery can help. I recently talked irl to someone whos had top surgery and it was nice to hear about the process!
      Also making plans out of it (like a mini holiday) can help de-stress too. Personally I'm thinking about doing an airbnb and going to some art galleries with mine :)
      Lastly, i hear some folks write themselves letters to open before/after surgery saying all the reasons why they got it and generally really nice things. Best of Luck!

  • @brahms3390
    @brahms3390 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i know they feel better, literally weight off their chest

  • @preet_tom
    @preet_tom ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could anyone tell me who is non-binary means🤔

    • @GaTraCos
      @GaTraCos ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'll use shapes to see if it helps. A man is a square and a woman ìs a circle. Nonbinary is an ever changing shape. Non(t of the man-woman exclusive) binary

    • @shamusteakiawa
      @shamusteakiawa ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's nothing. It's just made up by people looking for attention.

    • @GaTraCos
      @GaTraCos ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shamusteakiawa *eyeroll* tell that to the thousands of varied genders throughout history

    • @larissalaureneovaghatomo9238
      @larissalaureneovaghatomo9238 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it means if am a woman and i dont identify as such and if am a man i don't identify as such iam just floating between the two

    • @eneedham789
      @eneedham789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It means you’re brainwashed

  • @fancyfeast4610
    @fancyfeast4610 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Reminds me of a documentary I watched about people with body integrity identity disorder (BIID)

  • @mainardlarkin8377
    @mainardlarkin8377 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    amazing ^^!!

  • @annspirit24
    @annspirit24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God love all of us we are all beautiful souls❤🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈in heaven is no judgment. It's our home

  • @timothylaws4549
    @timothylaws4549 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome ❤️

  • @shawn_papi
    @shawn_papi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've never related so bad to something lol

  • @emeranthe
    @emeranthe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    you don’t need to remove part of yourself to be comfortable, instead address the psychological issues & body/gender dysphoria rather than putting more money in the pockets of these corrupt surgeons.

    • @MotherAotearoa
      @MotherAotearoa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      His body, his choice; I bet you don't want to be told what to do with your body.....

  • @moongoddess1978
    @moongoddess1978 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yesterday, TH-cam showed me a video talking about The Black Alien project. Wow, he was handsome before. But his body, his choice.
    Angelina Jolie had her breasts removed because she has the breast cancer gene. It’s a bit extreme but one less thing for her to worry about. And she could afford it out of pocket. Good for her.
    Stevie was beautiful before. This is a minority of people sensationalized by the media where they want to change their body. Let them, I say. So long as they are consenting adults. Whatever makes them happy.
    Whether this actually makes them trans, well that’s debated even within the LGBT+ community!

  • @hotfuzz4416
    @hotfuzz4416 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you want to do this and youre adult, fine. But Places like california need to leave kids alone.

  • @thetruepatriot7733
    @thetruepatriot7733 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Someday we look back at sex reassignment surgery the same way we look at lobotomy... this is another evil perpetrated by the medical industry. They need therapy not surgery.

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's clearly got sensory issues.

    • @reiga9589
      @reiga9589 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The only evil here is people who think lile you do

    • @Gadsdenflag
      @Gadsdenflag ปีที่แล้ว

      The amount of trans people who have taken their own lives has increased dramatically after they get surgery. They are killing themselves by the thousands because they regret their choice to mutilate their own bodys and they realize that it was a huge mistake and that it’s permanent.

    • @L-tb9kk
      @L-tb9kk ปีที่แล้ว +4

      too bad there is nothing you can do about it 💋

    • @yourpalfred
      @yourpalfred 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You think this person hasn't had any therapy??? Please

  • @cherie3000
    @cherie3000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i am all for this surgury for adults who have an education and a career and udnerstand the truth about who they were when they were born and young. my issue is the kids who do permanent irriversable changes before their brain even developes and then now there are thousands of detransitioners.

  • @cosmic-creepers9207
    @cosmic-creepers9207 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She needed therapy not butchering

    • @OlliMonke
      @OlliMonke ปีที่แล้ว +1

      go screw urself homophobe.

    • @Delousedinthecomatorium
      @Delousedinthecomatorium ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OlliMonke lol

    • @jacobharding5843
      @jacobharding5843 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lmao u sound like my dad. the fact that u said something so awful as that, shows me that *you’re* the one who needs therapy :) and their pronouns are they/them, it’s like u don’t know how to listen or something lol 😂😂

    • @eneedham789
      @eneedham789 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. There are so many brainwashed and deluded people in this comments section who are somehow happy that she removed perfectly healthy breasts because of her mental health issues. She needed help, not to be mutilated.

  • @DBoy176
    @DBoy176 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    its sad. this women needs help, not removing parts of herself. she will never be comfortable in her body no matter what surgery she does

    • @blackshards3415
      @blackshards3415 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You need help from a mental health care specialist. They are not a woman. Just get in your head that there is more than two sex and more than two gender identities.

    • @Maya-OxO
      @Maya-OxO ปีที่แล้ว +11

      No one cares though

    • @shayyahalomi9719
      @shayyahalomi9719 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      U mad lol

    • @DBoy176
      @DBoy176 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Maya-OxO you don’t care about her well being ?

    • @Maya-OxO
      @Maya-OxO ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@DBoy176 I do care, actually. Very much so. Which is why I'm letting them choose what they want to do. If it makes them happy so be it. It's not others concern at all, even if its for the "best"

  • @weird-experience-123
    @weird-experience-123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Can you employ a modicum of common sense? It is NOT okay to normalize a young person hating their body *especially* a part of the body that is sexualized since childhood. It takes TIME for individuals to come into themselves. This is a non-medically necessary surgery that carries huge risks, not just physically but emotional. More than that, it is so weird how this is turned into a spectacle and a weird pity party celebration.

    • @mirandastephens4586
      @mirandastephens4586 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The medical industrial complex is making a lot of money

    • @MotherAotearoa
      @MotherAotearoa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His body, his choice; I bet you don't want to be told what to do with your body.....

  • @atheistbewildered2987
    @atheistbewildered2987 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    body dysmorphic disorder

  • @Michael-uu9nv
    @Michael-uu9nv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Later on is coming don't regret this.

  • @bonkers9357
    @bonkers9357 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why aint this age restricted tho

  • @christineborowy9374
    @christineborowy9374 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looks like she recovers from cancer. What a nonsense.

  • @rebekahwestwood
    @rebekahwestwood ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this napier nz??.😮

  • @UpsideDownWorld
    @UpsideDownWorld ปีที่แล้ว +18

    How do these doctors sleep at night & how are they able to keep their medical degree? Unreal. 😡

    • @thetruepatriot7733
      @thetruepatriot7733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is another evil perpetrated by the medical community...someday we will look back at these procedures the same way we look at lobotomy. This doctors need to be jailed...the fact that they do these procedures on 13-15 year old girls is disturbing...

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "First do no harm." Removing breasts is definitely a harm.

    • @sleepysnowpoff
      @sleepysnowpoff ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Please listen, this isn't harm. This was medically necessary for them. Their chest was causing a lot of mental pain and this was the most effective way to treat it. It is like knee surgery. Most trans and nonbinary people (including me) have to go to therapists and get letters that aprove us for this kind of surgery. I ve already spent 200 dollars for one letter and I'm going to spend another 200 for a second letter. You don't need that for knee surgery, this should be recognized as any other physical problem. The doctor really did help them and improved their mental health greatly, how is that a bad thing. All we want is to be happy in our bodies

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @childishpixels7750 By what measure is their health improved other than their say so? Should we start removing other limbs that cause people mental distress? What if someone feels they should be in a wheelchair or they should be a quadriplegic?

    • @thetruepatriot7733
      @thetruepatriot7733 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MustyUnderboob that's actually a real issue... their are people with a disorder that makes them want to be disabled. For example, their was a man with two working legs who "felt like an amputee". He lived his life in a wheelchair although he could walk. He went to a doctor and begged to have his legs amputated and they refused because it was unethical. Their was a woman who desperately wanted to be blind, she lived her life using a blinfold. the doctors refused to remove her eyes so she dumped bleach into her eyes and blinded herself... trans surgery is no different! It's unethical and doctors should be held accountable. We don't operate on people who don't have the mental capabilities to consent.

  • @mitchellcrane9809
    @mitchellcrane9809 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    heal the mind, stop butchering bodies

    • @kiwi-toaster4332
      @kiwi-toaster4332 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Conversion therapy doesn't work. Gender affirming care does. So shut up

    • @merec3627
      @merec3627 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kiwi-toaster4332 Therapy is not conversion therapy. This canned response of yours is as made up as the term "gender affirming care". Therapy helps people heal and overcome trauma. Conversion therapy is not an official therapy, it doesn't exist.

  • @TatianaAntonuk
    @TatianaAntonuk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Poor brainwashed lady😢

  • @febrisalfie1649
    @febrisalfie1649 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gymnomastia

  • @h6hfelie
    @h6hfelie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If these people stopped being self obsessed they'd stop obsessing over themselves.
    Self hatred is a sign of being self-absorbed.

    • @minjaeelio
      @minjaeelio 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Preoccupation with what other people do with their bodies is a sign of being an asshole :)

  • @artsy0930
    @artsy0930 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Loving yourself is accepting the reality of who you are. Those who cannot accept themselves are more likely to engage in self destructive behaviour. Drugs, alcohol, and self mutilation are common modes of self destruction. I was an alcoholic for a number of years and damaged my body to make my mind feel more at ease. We all make mistakes in life and I hope you can find peace and happiness.

    • @reiga9589
      @reiga9589 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What a nasty comment

    • @shayyahalomi9719
      @shayyahalomi9719 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They do this surgery so they will never have to harm themselves again

    • @thelifesampler
      @thelifesampler ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@reiga9589ok anime boyo. You all need kids have to face reality gender dysphoria is real.

    • @Qwertygerty123
      @Qwertygerty123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shayyahalomi9719yet the self hate and suicide rate doesn’t go down. This isn’t the key to accepting yourself.

    • @L-tb9kk
      @L-tb9kk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      such a privledged person to say this

  • @byefelicia7358
    @byefelicia7358 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where’s the follow up? Have you experienced long term pain like others have? Do you have to massage your scars everyday? If you ever decide to have children will you regret not being able to provide the most superior and spiritual nourishment for your child?

    • @MV-nx5xo
      @MV-nx5xo หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The rate of regret for this surgery is even lower than the regret rate of having children :)) Would you use this condescending line of questioning for other medical procedures or does this one stick out as special to you?

    • @byefelicia7358
      @byefelicia7358 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ I wasn’t being condescending. I’m sincerely looking for answers. I simply don’t trust that statistic. Sounds completely made up. But I don’t have time to delve into it right now. I mourn for those women who will never know the profound sense of well-being that comes from breastfeeding a child. When I was younger, I would have said I didn’t want children. I might have easily dismissed not being able to breastfeed as no big deal. After all, I was raised on formula. But nothing can imitate mother’s milk, uniquely created for her baby. And the initial colostrum is so vital for good immunity. People change so much. You will not have the same views at 25 that you had at 21 or 18 or 16, etc. Consider THAT before doing something that can’t be undone. Best wishes.

    • @MV-nx5xo
      @MV-nx5xo หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@byefelicia7358 Ok. Not everyone wants what you want though lol

  • @mitchellcrane9809
    @mitchellcrane9809 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She is not nonbinary ( a made up nonsense term). The fact that she does not feel “safe” tells the issue. Something has happened to her or she has seen something that has traumatized her. Having breast should not influence your feeling of safety as it is a natural state of they body. Rather then mutilating the body she needs proper therapy to get her past/desensitized to the source of fear she has.

  • @Qwertygerty123
    @Qwertygerty123 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m so sorry you did this to your beautiful body. I hope your life is good, and you don’t struggle too much. Adults shouldn’t be allowed this.

    • @taylorsanders8742
      @taylorsanders8742 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if only you were trans for a day you'd know

    • @quekbridget5988
      @quekbridget5988 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some people breasts are too big for their body they remove it

    • @oliver4146
      @oliver4146 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      adults shouldn’t have bodily autonomy? knee surgery patients have a higher regret rate than top surgery patients, should people stop getting knee surgery?

    • @Qwertygerty123
      @Qwertygerty123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@oliver4146 I have a lot to say about medical practice and the way we are told it’s the best thing. I believe each person should do their own research into surgery. What we are talking about here isn’t just a person having a surgery. We are talking about people who have mental health issues that aren’t being addressed. Instead they are being affirmed. It’s impossible to be the opposite sex that you were born as. After all the hormones and surgery they are not even 1% closer to being the opposite sex. They are just changing their appearance. I also have a problem with how this effects Women. The reason for separate spaces is because women ARE more vulnerable.

    • @Qwertygerty123
      @Qwertygerty123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alvinjunior5426 It’s not. But I’m free to comment my opinion 😊

  • @jack_3.5mm
    @jack_3.5mm ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I bet we'll see her again in few years time saying she regrets it, watch

    • @fluffgirl9812
      @fluffgirl9812 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Most likely not because not everyone regrets it

  • @heatherwalsh9761
    @heatherwalsh9761 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Since when did body modifications replace professional psycho therapy as a treatment for body dysmorphia? There is more going on here than just body dysmorphia that has potentially been ignored by a range of medical professionals who wil have contributed to her care plan. She will recover from this and be delighted to exercise her own autonomy but will her psychiatric co-morbidities continue to haunt her once the dust settles and she progresses through life's stages. I feel concerned this girl is very young to have removed so many choices in her life just because her breasts cause mental distress which indicates more complex mental health problems which are not addressed or may even be exaccerbated in the long term by a bilateral mastectomy.

  • @merec3627
    @merec3627 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is autism and a trauma responce. She needed therapy. I can almost certainly say that now that her preoccupation with her chest is gone, that same issue that needed therapy is going to hyperfixate on her hips, or her voice, whatever the next dominant feminine trait she possesses is. Humans have been around for 300,000 years. This "phenomenon" has been around for the last minute and it's not-surprisingly concentrated among people with trauma, too much time online, and autism.

  • @LS-fe4ob
    @LS-fe4ob ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Very sad. No doubt this woman has experienced sexual assault in her past.

    • @GaTraCos
      @GaTraCos ปีที่แล้ว +13

      As an AFAB person who wants top surgery... no. SA isn't the reason for it. Dysphoria is.

    • @Horseshoecrab_lover
      @Horseshoecrab_lover ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You don’t understand anything fr

  • @johngirdler7505
    @johngirdler7505 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm watching this video and my heart breaks for you as a father. You're a beautiful young woman and unfortunately, what's going on in your mind is causing you to do these horrible things to your body. I hope you get the help you need. God bless you.

    • @MotherAotearoa
      @MotherAotearoa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      His body, his choice; I bet you don't want to be told what to do with your body.....

  • @ToanLe-vv4mw
    @ToanLe-vv4mw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sad, looks like she regrets it.

  • @miinovio
    @miinovio ปีที่แล้ว +5

    girl what?
    you feel right but you won't in the judgement day :)

    • @Maya-OxO
      @Maya-OxO ปีที่แล้ว +3

      who

    • @Maya-OxO
      @Maya-OxO ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@miinovio asked

    • @miinovio
      @miinovio ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Maya-OxO you did :D

    • @Maya-OxO
      @Maya-OxO ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@miinovio I didn't ☺️

    • @miinovio
      @miinovio ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Maya-OxO no one cares.