Realizing that a woman being absistent / controlling her sexuality is not fundamentally rooted in shame, but in power and self-preservation changed me so much. Sex is not something to be taken lightly, not because it's reserved for your husband or whatever religious BS men made up, but because the biochemistry of it can cloud your vision of a man to your own detriment!
I think that when women give their body up so freely, it gives the men the effrontery to come at girls who don’t want to with the same energy. It gingers them to have the same nonsense expectations with other women.
Yep because there's only a certain amount of unstable people with this mindset that's why, it's why the red pill idiots only have a few people that can resonate with, because the mentally unstable are a minority compared to everyday people that realise half of this is complete bullshit to divide us all. You indulge yourself in radicalised content, there's nothing positive about that other than continuing the gender divide
@@zarinaxhazeddno one with a sane mind will understand ya point, no one wants to give time of day to discuss a radicalised point of view. I ain't gonna understand a point that some red pill knobhead has so why would I try understand yours?
I love this! 😂💖 I, too have a financial fetish 🙈 A man can’t do anything for me right now but give me some money, we can figure the rest out later! I’m definitely subscribing 🙂↔️
This came RIGHT ON TIME SIS! I’ll speak for myself but I have also seen as a collective, the divine feminine have been going through it in regards to sex in the air 😭
I grew up Christian and then at 18 left the church. I got into this mentality in my 20s that I was free to do what I want as long as I was safe sexually. But now, I'm like intention and abstinence or even having a sugar daddy is my thing. 😂
We are a much alike sis & I really wish we were friends in real life cause I promise we would have a TIME! I’m a Virgo sun, Gemini moon & Libra Rising as well & I had to come to this level of standards & self love alone. It took me awhile but once it hit, it hit & you help me to keep this standard with your podcasts. You’re overly appreciated!
Realizing that a woman being absistent / controlling her sexuality is not fundamentally rooted in shame, but in power and self-preservation changed me so much. Sex is not something to be taken lightly, not because it's reserved for your husband or whatever religious BS men made up, but because the biochemistry of it can cloud your vision of a man to your own detriment!
💯 💯 💯!!!!!
well said‼️❤
yessssssssssssssss
I think that when women give their body up so freely, it gives the men the effrontery to come at girls who don’t want to with the same energy. It gingers them to have the same nonsense expectations with other women.
if a man loves you he’s going to make you have a easier life he found you in !!! I felt that 😎
That is true. A "good man" will want the best in life for a "good woman"
Haha it has! For 3 days then I regained my mind 😂 Sis you are the only person on the internet that I resonate with ❤
Yep because there's only a certain amount of unstable people with this mindset that's why, it's why the red pill idiots only have a few people that can resonate with, because the mentally unstable are a minority compared to everyday people that realise half of this is complete bullshit to divide us all. You indulge yourself in radicalised content, there's nothing positive about that other than continuing the gender divide
this gave me the clarity i needed and i needed this perspective because men are actually really selfish
And the ones who aren't selfish got left in the friend zone so suck it up
@@justiceforthe3972i don’t think you understand my point but okay
@@zarinaxhazeddno one with a sane mind will understand ya point, no one wants to give time of day to discuss a radicalised point of view. I ain't gonna understand a point that some red pill knobhead has so why would I try understand yours?
@@justiceforthe3972 being the guy in the friend zone doesn't mean he's selfless/a good romantic partner either.
@@ChiddyAnn i don’t think you understand my point but okay
Girl, first off you’re hilarious 😂 & the way you collected me in this episode 😅 thank you I needed it
The way you're rolling your eyes is killing me 😂😂
Every week Chiddy reads me to filth & I love it 😂
The robot acting bit is cracking me up 😂😂
Thank you! You lit my queen!!
The facial expressions get me every time 😅
I love this! 😂💖 I, too have a financial fetish 🙈 A man can’t do anything for me right now but give me some money, we can figure the rest out later! I’m definitely subscribing 🙂↔️
Brokie
@ yup
By the hour or negotiable?
Me listening to Chidera for the past 2 years:💃🏼💃🏼👹👹🤭🤭
Me listening to Chidera now I’m about to be 25: 😳😟🤨🙃💀🫣
I'll be turning 26 in 5 months and I wish I found chidera even earlier in my life🤭.. I wish there were women like this to listen to when I was 11/12.
@@catchabbie soo true but you know what we can be those women for our baby sisters 🫶
This came RIGHT ON TIME SIS! I’ll speak for myself but I have also seen as a collective, the divine feminine have been going through it in regards to sex in the air 😭
20:29 I want my bank account to 💦
Be real it aint gonna happen for u
So does everyone but what you get isn’t always what you want.
@ball-rf6zf speak for yourself
Your cheeky little laugh has me giggling back
I grew up Christian and then at 18 left the church. I got into this mentality in my 20s that I was free to do what I want as long as I was safe sexually. But now, I'm like intention and abstinence or even having a sugar daddy is my thing. 😂
So you've gone from religious to sinning to now being radicalised, well done, I'm not even religious but you need to repent as soon as possible 😂
A lot of what you're saying isn't just opinion but backed by neuroscience. Check out scientist and biology professor Dawn Maslar's book about this.
definitely enjoyed ❤
3:57 😂
Who remembers “Total Recall?”
29:15 same with some men attracted to black women and feeling shame
You are so right...😢
THE DAMAGED GOODS PODCAST😜
We are a much alike sis & I really wish we were friends in real life cause I promise we would have a TIME! I’m a Virgo sun, Gemini moon & Libra Rising as well & I had to come to this level of standards & self love alone. It took me awhile but once it hit, it hit & you help me to keep this standard with your podcasts. You’re overly appreciated!
Here for my weekly dose of cringe
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This is the result of getting dumped and not being quite over it 🇹🇹😢💧😭
Somebody is triggered as fxxx😂😅😂
@@natashawilliams7928 you sure are😆 now get back to the kitchen😂
Trini to de bone 🦴
ANDREW TATE IS BANG ON
Do you always talk in ALL CAPS?! 🥸
Scripted bs
Then why are you here?
Trickster
Ginal