Hearing other true INFJs talk can be so comforting. I can't quite put my finger on exactly why that is. The only way I can summarise it is that it just feels right.
The way you both interact is so refreshing to hear! I also felt detached growing up (at school) and I was always the one observing and listening in, wanting to keep the peace. But at home I was more emotionally sensitive, I also was a weird child but I didnt like how I acted, it didnt feel like me 😅 Mature infjs are so comforting and serene to listen to. One day I hope to meet another infj, one which is self-aware and not afraid to make mistakes. idk what the likelihood of me finding another is in the wild, but as long as I remain true to who I am (as much as I can without putting on a facade to please others) maybe i'll attract one.
Even if you don't find another INFJ, I hope you find someone who will love you the way you deserve ... someone whom you can also love with your whole heart.
I am so lucky; I have about 3 in my life right now who are close friends and I know I have met countless others - I have become really good at spotting other INFJs. A lot of the ones I have met are in healthcare jobs, such as OTs, physios, and even consultant doctors. It is nice, but at the same time, it is nice to get to know other types - now I would like to meet other types, as I don’t think I’ve met many of the NT types yet! Either way, I hope you’re able to meet another INFJ one day - I’m sure you’ll come across one one day, wherever the universe leads you 😊
@@goteamslugs haha! I've actually considered this idea in the past. Thank you for reminding me ;) yeah.. and to people who dont know the meaning behind it, it'll just seem like a random abbreviation.
@@Mr_Heartful awesome. ill soon be studying in a STE(A)M field. I will meet like-minded peeps.. I hope. I'm way too familiar with S types atm. ( and apologies Ive only just saw your reply ^^)
21:56 I sus that I'm a possible INFJ female and i relate to both of you . I raised by my ENTJ father and taught to be assertive about what i think & want even tho this conflicted withy younger self this type of assertiveness, but i grew up not caring much about what people think of me ( to some extent) & felt accepted by my family and that's what important to me . I don't like sharing my thoughts with other i feel abit private over it & hate to deal with consequences of it .
I haven't been into Myers-Briggs for many months now but intuitively I thought about you and missed your perspective on things apart from Myers-Briggs. That's a compliment. 🍀
Another lovely video from you as always. 😌 I relate to your friend so much as a male INFJ. I used to be cold in my head when it comes to dealing with peoples feelings, but I have changed so much these past 3 years, and I’m a lot better with my feelings and have learnt to be more playful! 😈 I also agree that I can sometimes blurt out a harsh comment that can shock the people around me! 😆
@@goteamslugs Yes, like anything, it takes practice. If you want to generally be more confident and have elevated emotions, I would recommend doing meditations by Dr Joe Dispenza. His online course the Formula is a good place to start!
I also agree with the whole giving advice thing, that if you give suggestions or pinpoint too much, we don’t like it as we want to figure it out for ourselves. With this in mind, I have a few INFJ friends, and one of them though is not self aware and doesn’t have much self-esteem. I don’t know if she knows that she is an INFJ. I want to help her, but I know she probably won’t appreciate me giving suggestions or pinpointing too much, so I don’t know what to do?
If you already know she probably won't appreciate your suggestions, then I think you already have your answer, meaning you can't come on strong. You could possibly try introducing her to the type thing but I've found this could go two ways: leads to self-understanding or leads to special snowflakeism. Which way it goes depends on the mindset of the individual when they come across this information. However, even special snowflakeism can lead to self-understanding somewhere down the road. So proceed with care and most of all - do not expect much. If you do, it won't end well. As my loved one and I shared in this video, even between the two of us, we give "advice" freely from the heart with no expectations because we understand one another. We don't follow up or expect progress reports. We respect one another's process. So you should respect your friend's process as well, and offer information with no strings attached. My best to you.
@@YourNeverSleepingBeauty maybe I sensed that edgy astuteness in you that New Yorkers have ;). Compliment either way! Also I love your maturity - its inspiring to see as an INFJ myself. Your ability for healthy close relationships like in this video display that. Teach us your ways! Many of us just want to be left alone 😂 but you show that relationships can be beautiful if you approach them with positivity, curiosity and an open heart 💞🙌🏾
When you guys were talking about your favorite Ne type, it made me worried that I'll marry one and end up liking the other better. But then I think about how ENFJs are such gentlemen and charmers. 😩
I dk l always feel quite insecure when talking to another infj maybe male I always feel like am talking to much and l want him to talk but l also want to talk so ldk
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Hearing other true INFJs talk can be so comforting. I can't quite put my finger on exactly why that is.
The only way I can summarise it is that it just feels right.
It's like coming home.
@@YourNeverSleepingBeauty Yea, it's fine when INFJs say it ;)
@@roggies2008 An ENFJ said that too! She said it in a love letter! =D
You're videos always leave me feeling like I understand myself a little more. ♥
I am always happy to hear this.
Intuitive thinkers are my favorite as well. Which is why I adore INTJS, INTPS, and ENTPS!
I could listen to you all day
this sooo much food for thought and around 14:30 about being an adult as young and bein late yea its true
The way you both interact is so refreshing to hear! I also felt detached growing up (at school) and I was always the one observing and listening in, wanting to keep the peace. But at home I was more emotionally sensitive, I also was a weird child but I didnt like how I acted, it didnt feel like me 😅 Mature infjs are so comforting and serene to listen to. One day I hope to meet another infj, one which is self-aware and not afraid to make mistakes. idk what the likelihood of me finding another is in the wild, but as long as I remain true to who I am (as much as I can without putting on a facade to please others) maybe i'll attract one.
Even if you don't find another INFJ, I hope you find someone who will love you the way you deserve ... someone whom you can also love with your whole heart.
I am so lucky; I have about 3 in my life right now who are close friends and I know I have met countless others - I have become really good at spotting other INFJs. A lot of the ones I have met are in healthcare jobs, such as OTs, physios, and even consultant doctors. It is nice, but at the same time, it is nice to get to know other types - now I would like to meet other types, as I don’t think I’ve met many of the NT types yet! Either way, I hope you’re able to meet another INFJ one day - I’m sure you’ll come across one one day, wherever the universe leads you 😊
I've got an idea buddy! Wear a shirt that has INFJ on it! =)
@@goteamslugs haha! I've actually considered this idea in the past. Thank you for reminding me ;) yeah.. and to people who dont know the meaning behind it, it'll just seem like a random abbreviation.
@@Mr_Heartful awesome. ill soon be studying in a STE(A)M field. I will meet like-minded peeps.. I hope. I'm way too familiar with S types atm. ( and apologies Ive only just saw your reply ^^)
21:56 I sus that I'm a possible INFJ female and i relate to both of you . I raised by my ENTJ father and taught to be assertive about what i think & want even tho this conflicted withy younger self this type of assertiveness, but i grew up not caring much about what people think of me ( to some extent) & felt accepted by my family and that's what important to me .
I don't like sharing my thoughts with other i feel abit private over it & hate to deal with consequences of it .
I haven't been into Myers-Briggs for many months now but intuitively I thought about you and missed your perspective on things apart from Myers-Briggs.
That's a compliment. 🍀
I appreciate the compliment ... thank you.
Another lovely video from you as always. 😌 I relate to your friend so much as a male INFJ. I used to be cold in my head when it comes to dealing with peoples feelings, but I have changed so much these past 3 years, and I’m a lot better with my feelings and have learnt to be more playful! 😈 I also agree that I can sometimes blurt out a harsh comment that can shock the people around me! 😆
Thank you very much.
Not sure if I'd ever be brave enough to say something harsh; but if I did I'd know I'd immediately feel bad afterwards.
@@goteamslugs I can sometimes be like that. But over time, you learn to be confident and stick by what you say without feeling guilty about it
@@Mr_Heartful I see. Yes; while trying to correct them kindly but firmly. Not exactly the easiest thing to do . .
@@goteamslugs Yes, like anything, it takes practice. If you want to generally be more confident and have elevated emotions, I would recommend doing meditations by Dr Joe Dispenza. His online course the Formula is a good place to start!
You truly are more aware and developed than I am, way better. I must reach where u are now. In your growth as a person.
I'm probably way older, too 😝 You're on your way. As I always say, for us, once we've opened the door, there's no turning back.
@@YourNeverSleepingBeauty 😊😄😄😄😊😊😊 I hope so. Anyway, keep up the good work.
A day in your life video would be great! I would love to get to know you more 🌚
I also agree with the whole giving advice thing, that if you give suggestions or pinpoint too much, we don’t like it as we want to figure it out for ourselves. With this in mind, I have a few INFJ friends, and one of them though is not self aware and doesn’t have much self-esteem. I don’t know if she knows that she is an INFJ. I want to help her, but I know she probably won’t appreciate me giving suggestions or pinpointing too much, so I don’t know what to do?
If you already know she probably won't appreciate your suggestions, then I think you already have your answer, meaning you can't come on strong. You could possibly try introducing her to the type thing but I've found this could go two ways: leads to self-understanding or leads to special snowflakeism. Which way it goes depends on the mindset of the individual when they come across this information. However, even special snowflakeism can lead to self-understanding somewhere down the road. So proceed with care and most of all - do not expect much. If you do, it won't end well. As my loved one and I shared in this video, even between the two of us, we give "advice" freely from the heart with no expectations because we understand one another. We don't follow up or expect progress reports. We respect one another's process. So you should respect your friend's process as well, and offer information with no strings attached. My best to you.
@@YourNeverSleepingBeauty That’s great advice, thank you 😊
Your voice makes me feel like you’re an east coaster.. New Yorker to be exact 🌹❤️
A New Yorker? This made me smile. No New Yorker in this girl.
@@YourNeverSleepingBeauty maybe I sensed that edgy astuteness in you that New Yorkers have ;). Compliment either way! Also I love your maturity - its inspiring to see as an INFJ myself. Your ability for healthy close relationships like in this video display that. Teach us your ways! Many of us just want to be left alone 😂 but you show that relationships can be beautiful if you approach them with positivity, curiosity and an open heart 💞🙌🏾
Thank you very much for this 🧡
When you guys were talking about your favorite Ne type, it made me worried that I'll marry one and end up liking the other better. But then I think about how ENFJs are such gentlemen and charmers. 😩
What? ENFJ?! Those charlatans?!? 😆
@@YourNeverSleepingBeauty same lol😏
@@yucheung5853 😉
Fellow Trinidadian here 😮
If you offered unofficial counseling... I would be your first client just saying! :)
Very sweet of you to say ... thank you.
I dk l always feel quite insecure when talking to another infj maybe male
I always feel like am talking to much and l want him to talk but l also want to talk so ldk
Trini?
😉
@@YourNeverSleepingBeauty Me too. You can't miss the accent. 🙂
It's a small world!