I've recommended my sister in law to look within herself and find love (God), and stop focusing on dudes so much. It was not recieved well, I imagined it would go in one ear and out the other, but since I love her, I tried.
It really shouldn't have to be said. Women should not be the center of a Man's life nor should men be the center of a woman's life, not even your husband or wife. Your RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE can be, and your children & spirituality as well to a certain point. But YOU should be the center of your life in the humblest/most aware way possible. Everything in one's life begins and ends with that person. When we place other people/things in that spot, it causes unfulfillment over time. And when a person we've placed in that center spot violates our trust or becomes a disappointment to our expectations, then that's where/when the resentment starts.
Men say de-center woman, woman says de-center men. So most of the people are single rn because of their own ego? “I don’t need no woman” “I don’t need no man” like what are we doing here, wanting to stay single or tryna find partners cuz ts ridiculous
This is what men of value are trying to tell women. Stop pulling your panties down for low quality attractive men. Take your time and have a higher standard in the beginning. It will cause less pain in the long run.
@@MrJduke40 Tis’ is true ! When you understand God’s love and His ways, you’re able to have discernment with yourself and relationships in your life. It’s easier to see if they’re in His will or out.
Ladies, doesn’t it sound crazy to you… you need a man to be authentically yourself… so you put men at the center of your life, who you don’t even know and don’t know you, to monitor how you should move… that’s crazy to me…
@@EarthAngel888-v5s 💯💯!!! and I understand how the thought process is but we have to live for ourselves now, ain’t nobody got time to wait on a man to fulfill some void we have… you’ll never live!
We absolutely have to do the work and heal ourselves. Become the partner we seek. Only then will you be ready to be soft for the right man who knows how to lead.
It’s so very true. The relationship becomes easy when we are soft and flow with the water. The right man will bring this out of you. Mine did. However you gotta work on your inner healing first. Listen to hear, to learn, to be led. Otherwise you may be met with resistance and your union can become an uphill battle.😊
Tripp is a blessing to all of us men. They only will listen from a platform. Preach my brother. "PREACH" I hope they will receive this message 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
He’s a legend in the making. No man wants to deal with a headache, and I’ll go on a limb to say a woman doesn’t either.. that’s absolutely insane to consider anybody should need to accept anything like that- your partner should be your peace, happiness, and comfort.. not another struggle, or stress, to deal with. A man, or a woman, isn’t your personal psychiatrist/therapist.
Ppl misinterpreting what he said. De-center doesn’t mean never talk to us or eliminate us from your life it means remove us from that weird crux we’re out at where we’re responsible for all the good and bad in your life. Thinking we’re responsible for all the evil in your life is still centering men because nothing is your fault.
Correct. The woman who asserts, "I am what I am because of men, and I can't be anything else unless men make me something else" is still centering herself on men even as she complains about them.
That's what I think some missed and misunderstood the message being said.... but again, it is what some woman do in the mental gymnastics gane when it comes to taking accountability and responsibility away from women and giving it to men for "female protection"...
That's a very powerful word, Tripp. Especially the ending. This platform is full of golden nuggets. I hope the masses are getting the messages. Truth is certainly a hard pill to swallow; but, the rewards are bountiful.
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss . Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back .
When a woman starts off saying I’m aggressive and dominant just walk away cause being around her is going to be a headache and you will do nothing but stress being with her. She said it so confidently like it’s a flex. When did it become a flex to be obnoxious and hard to deal with
Heavenly Father hear my prayers. As a single mother things are overwhelming on me. I’m constantly struggling to support my children. The devil has sent people to attack me. I get harassed and called names for simply asking for prayers, but prayers are all I need. God gives me strength to keep going while I struggle to provide the daily necessities for my sons so I will keep faith thank you Jesus🙏🏾😭💕❤️
Stop asking people to pray for you. You can go to the Lord yourself. Take some time and focused on the basics. Look for outreach programs etc. Pray while you focus. Take the middle man out. They aren't closer to God. YOU are his child too!
@@artfuldodger4557we also do t know if he really did that or has a wife etc lol I don’t think he’s masculine or feminine but allegedly showing this to “his wife”
It's YOUR responsibility first to do the work! Stop looking to someone else to come alongside you when you have all of these issues that need to be addressed first!
I find this too often with females, they carry too much baggage to carry alone. Want a man to come along and help them carry it or carry most of their burden. It reminds me of a woman I dated a while back. She could not get out of the situation she was in. All she did was weigh what she could manipulate out of the relationship. No kind of effort to see what she could do. It was all about what her needs were. I was like. Look you got to go. Cause you need a father, not a man.
Facts!! But the problem is, women don’t hear you when you speak truth bluntly like Kevin did… You have to speak to them more gently… Like when you verbally say that you have to treat women like children. That is a fact. But you can’t state it like that. Instead say, you gotta talk to them nice for them to hear you…. It’s the same thing, but a better approach..
@@owttlaw women are not all the same. it was a DIFFERENT approach. neither is better. There were plenty of women that changed their lives listening to KS. The ones that dont like the truth, they not gonna listen to Tripp either.
@@dredey1971 I understand that not all women are the same. However, there are more women like I described vs the women who are actually willing to change.. Same thing with men.. So when I speak, it in general. If I say McDonald’s ice cream machine never works. A McDonald’s rep can say “not all McDonald’s ice cream machines are broken”.. which very well may be true… But most of the world knows otherwise🤷🏾♂️
say no saying no to others is saying yes to you be true to yourself people will respect you for it use positive self talk remind yourself that you shouldn’t feel obligated to give away your time and energy on things that don’t bring you joy people pleasing can be a symptom of having poor boundaries so you need to strengthen your boundaries in a lot of cases people pleasing behavior is often motivated by insecurity and low self esteem caused by trauma bonds in childhood e anessa
Shit, I know I'm not. I'm not fighting with yo ass. I'm going home to my peace. They're lonely, I'm not. They need us to protect them. I don't need y'all to be at peace. When you've been alone by yourself long enough to look yourself in the mirror comfortably you realize you don't NEED anyone to make you happy. But if I WANT someone don't even think of making me compromise the peace I've gained on my own.
Decide what kind of man you will follow the leadership of. Then figure out what he wants in a woman. If you can be those things, move forward. If you cannot, adjust your journey accordingly.
Ladies: Don’t date unless you’ve turned that wall into a gate. And let’s stop choosing males that are not to par with us then get upset with them. It all falls on us.
Women have two choices, be a beneficial asset that doesn’t cause problems, contributes, and reciprocates or keep acting like a man has to do everything for you and then some just to get the bare minimum of a semi functional adult and remain single. If him being single and outsourcing his needs gives him more value than having her around then it’s her issue to fix not his. Only the assets in a man’s life and his biological kids get protection and earned their provisions through their contributions. Keep in mind the more he pays and does for you yet you refuse to reciprocate the more disposable/replaceable you prove yourself to be to him, and cooking, cleaning, and satisfying him only gives 1/1000 of what you want from him. The same things billions across this planet can do for him while you chase a small percentage of the population that can replace you.
Walls can be up without being aggressive. Sounds like she's obviously toxic or angry, prone to acting out and or being problematic. Nah sis...you can be no nonsense straight up from the hip without acting like an animal. You block all blessings acting out that way. Remember that you get walk through doors and be in wonderful spaces based on your vibe...you vibe can't be based on you you allowed yourself to act like an animal because unnamed men hurt you in the past. Sounds crazy when you read it out loud.
why do some married men inherently believe that it is married womens traditional responsibility to take care of the house work cook clean while at the same time claim that modern women should take on a work role as much as married men you forgot that some of them expect women to primarily raise the children and take them to school and pick them up I strongly believe a married woman should not have to got to work when she’s raising children it’s a man’s job to provide I believe women are carring a lot of weight in marriages and it’s not good to put all the weight on women some men are not working the women is doing everything while the husband lays around I think it’s unfair for some wives to struggle and do it all I believe there’s some unfairness going on in marriages e anessa
Men are not responsible for women who need therapy to heal themselves and happiness comes from the women who value themselves and not validation of men!
Man sometimes please your view is not for everyone. We know what the fuck it means. When will she be able to trust a man basically. And I would say never. Never fully trust anyone. But go into meeting good people. And be good yourself. Do t look for love!!just love good genuine people. It’s a balance. Do t be blind
How you gonna win if you ain't right within? - Lauryn Hill
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BARS!!!
The miseducation that this culture is breeding is lethal
I have 2 sweatshirts that reads this infamous lyric!😊👚🎶
Funny thing is so many women miss this lyric like a mf 😅
Beautiful said. I love the way he gives knowledge without the disrespect
He is amazing, is he single 😅
I've recommended my sister in law to look within herself and find love (God), and stop focusing on dudes so much. It was not recieved well, I imagined it would go in one ear and out the other, but since I love her, I tried.
I like this guy. His example was excellent.
I can't believe a Man said to Decenter Men. That's powerful.
It really shouldn't have to be said. Women should not be the center of a Man's life nor should men be the center of a woman's life, not even your husband or wife. Your RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE can be, and your children & spirituality as well to a certain point. But YOU should be the center of your life in the humblest/most aware way possible. Everything in one's life begins and ends with that person. When we place other people/things in that spot, it causes unfulfillment over time.
And when a person we've placed in that center spot violates our trust or becomes a disappointment to our expectations, then that's where/when the resentment starts.
God comes first everything else will fall into place.
@@MrJduke40 Seek ye FIRST the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. Matt 6:33.
If you really answer to a God you believe in as a person we wouldn't do a lot of things...which would generally improve our lives in several ways
Men say de-center woman, woman says de-center men. So most of the people are single rn because of their own ego? “I don’t need no woman” “I don’t need no man” like what are we doing here, wanting to stay single or tryna find partners cuz ts ridiculous
He had me when he said : decenter men … because babyyyyy the clarity you get when you do ‼️
God should be the center.
This is what men of value are trying to tell women. Stop pulling your panties down for low quality attractive men. Take your time and have a higher standard in the beginning. It will cause less pain in the long run.
Mommas, aunties etc been telling us that. Hopefully more of us listen when the info comes from the " I side"
@@MrJduke40 Tis’ is true ! When you understand God’s love and His ways, you’re able to have discernment with yourself and relationships in your life. It’s easier to see if they’re in His will or out.
Blah blah blah. Just be yourself. No one asks women to center men
Ladies, doesn’t it sound crazy to you… you need a man to be authentically yourself… so you put men at the center of your life, who you don’t even know and don’t know you, to monitor how you should move… that’s crazy to me…
Exactly. It's called unhealed trauma and lack of self love.
@@EarthAngel888-v5s 💯💯!!! and I understand how the thought process is but we have to live for ourselves now, ain’t nobody got time to wait on a man to fulfill some void we have… you’ll never live!
We absolutely have to do the work and heal ourselves. Become the partner we seek. Only then will you be ready to be soft for the right man who knows how to lead.
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Yes but that still leads to hoping there is one you will meet
@@user-mr3ww5gy4j absolutely… that’s the goal
It’s so very true. The relationship becomes easy when we are soft and flow with the water. The right man will bring this out of you. Mine did. However you gotta work on your inner healing first. Listen to hear, to learn, to be led. Otherwise you may be met with resistance and your union can become an uphill battle.😊
@@jocelynford4209 love that! Thank you.
Tripp is a blessing to all of us men. They only will listen from a platform. Preach my brother. "PREACH" I hope they will receive this message 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
To us women too/as well❤
He’s a legend in the making.
No man wants to deal with a headache, and I’ll go on a limb to say a woman doesn’t either.. that’s absolutely insane to consider anybody should need to accept anything like that- your partner should be your peace, happiness, and comfort.. not another struggle, or stress, to deal with. A man, or a woman, isn’t your personal psychiatrist/therapist.
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Yes indeed. My man always reiterates this point of view. It’s so true for both parties involved in a relationship.
Bullseye 🎯
Yessir 💯
@1:26 That audience was filled with Middle Linebackers, Safeties and Defensive linemen’s
Damn....
Yup
Bruh😂😂😂😂 I feel so bad for having that thought, and you actually making the comment got me dead af
FSU needs every last one of them in that clip.
@@MuckCityProductions - lol @Undisputed
When Tripp talk i listen. Period. 💯❤️❤️❤️❤❤❤
Ppl misinterpreting what he said. De-center doesn’t mean never talk to us or eliminate us from your life it means remove us from that weird crux we’re out at where we’re responsible for all the good and bad in your life. Thinking we’re responsible for all the evil in your life is still centering men because nothing is your fault.
Correct. The woman who asserts, "I am what I am because of men, and I can't be anything else unless men make me something else" is still centering herself on men even as she complains about them.
That's what I think some missed and misunderstood the message being said.... but again, it is what some woman do in the mental gymnastics gane when it comes to taking accountability and responsibility away from women and giving it to men for "female protection"...
That's a very powerful word, Tripp. Especially the ending. This platform is full of golden nuggets. I hope the masses are getting the messages. Truth is certainly a hard pill to swallow; but, the rewards are bountiful.
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss . Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back .
Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor.
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.
I saw this same exact comment, word for word, in another thread with Ms. Kitty. 🤔 😅
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Tripp Tripp Tripp 💯💯
100! However, the women who think that way do not want to hear that logic!
Tripp always in tune with great responses & insight❤
My guy Trip never misses ❤
Other people are not responsible for your emotions and vice versa.
You can not save somone from themselves.
Exactly
When a woman starts off saying I’m aggressive and dominant just walk away cause being around her is going to be a headache and you will do nothing but stress being with her. She said it so confidently like it’s a flex. When did it become a flex to be obnoxious and hard to deal with
Heavenly Father hear my prayers. As a single mother things are overwhelming on me. I’m constantly struggling to support my children. The devil has sent people to attack me. I get harassed and called names for simply asking for prayers, but prayers are all I need. God gives me strength to keep going while I struggle to provide the daily necessities for my sons so I will keep faith thank you Jesus🙏🏾😭💕❤️
Jesus first we have to continue to stay in Jesus face constantly with prayer and supplication…
Stop asking people to pray for you. You can go to the Lord yourself. Take some time and focused on the basics. Look for outreach programs etc. Pray while you focus. Take the middle man out. They aren't closer to God. YOU are his child too!
I love this man!!!!!!
My GOODNESS this BROTHER is full of HONESTY 🙏
That room was so quiet you could hear someone piss.
I played this in front of my wife, and she slammed the door and went to fix her another drink.😂
Oh wow 😮
You think putting this out into the world for her to come across was the correct, masculine thing to do? 🤔🤦🏿♂️
@@artfuldodger4557we also do t know if he really did that or has a wife etc lol I don’t think he’s masculine or feminine but allegedly showing this to “his wife”
Well played
#TRIP SCHOOL HER WITH THE BEAUTIFUL KNOWLEDGE 🎯💯🔥🖤
Tripppppp ❤ so flad he telling truths... helps us all
What a simple yet genius reply 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It's YOUR responsibility first to do the work! Stop looking to someone else to come alongside you when you have all of these issues that need to be addressed first!
It's not his responsibility to break down your walls. You have take them down yourself
Tripp…I thank you for your wisdom!
Getting mighty close to some hard truths there…
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Nothing any man says will matter because 90% of women are 100% absolutely positive they know better what men want in a woman then men themselves do.
Go heal, and the walls will come down
Tripp dropping knowledge as always
Where is the offering plate?? 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Man, I love yall clips.
POWERFUL
Damn, okaaaaaaaay! 👏🏼
Great example he said
Tripp never misses.
POWERFUL!!!
If that ain't the truth
.... nothing else is....👏👏👏👏
Spot on.
bingo. that's the key right there.
Very powerful example.
THIS guy! 💯 👀
Woooo! 🙌🏾
Why does a man has to break anything?! That sounds like a shit-test to me…
It's amazing how this message is delivered so perfectly, yet in the comments ... I'm seeing a lack of accountability or the blame game😂
See what THAT!, DO 4U😮
I find this too often with females, they carry too much baggage to carry alone. Want a man to come along and help them carry it or carry most of their burden. It reminds me of a woman I dated a while back. She could not get out of the situation she was in. All she did was weigh what she could manipulate out of the relationship. No kind of effort to see what she could do. It was all about what her needs were. I was like. Look you got to go. Cause you need a father, not a man.
Talk yo shi trip
Kevin Samuels said the same shit, YEARS ago 😂😂😂😂
Facts!! But the problem is, women don’t hear you when you speak truth bluntly like Kevin did… You have to speak to them more gently… Like when you verbally say that you have to treat women like children. That is a fact. But you can’t state it like that. Instead say, you gotta talk to them nice for them to hear you….
It’s the same thing, but a better approach..
You can be right for the wrong reasons.
@@owttlaw women are not all the same. it was a DIFFERENT approach. neither is better. There were plenty of women that changed their lives listening to KS. The ones that dont like the truth, they not gonna listen to Tripp either.
@@whizkidd2227 like when someone say i saw your S/O with someone else. You may be right, but for the wrong reason.
@@dredey1971 I understand that not all women are the same. However, there are more women like I described vs the women who are actually willing to change.. Same thing with men.. So when I speak, it in general.
If I say McDonald’s ice cream machine never works.
A McDonald’s rep can say “not all McDonald’s ice cream machines are broken”.. which very well may be true… But most of the world knows otherwise🤷🏾♂️
Speak Tripp
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We’ve been saying this forever. This conditional femininity is the worst.
Being aggressive is not healthy nor a flex.
Right ✅️
Only reminds me that women will never take accountability for their life. Fellas please get your passports
Amen.
Damn 😅
She started so wrong with her question.
I can't with some women using who say things like that.
say no saying no to others is saying yes to you be true to yourself
people will respect you for it use positive self talk
remind yourself that you shouldn’t feel obligated to give away your time and energy on things that don’t bring you joy
people pleasing can be a symptom of having poor boundaries so you need to strengthen your boundaries in a lot of cases people pleasing behavior is often motivated by insecurity and low self esteem caused by trauma bonds in childhood e anessa
Shit, I know I'm not. I'm not fighting with yo ass. I'm going home to my peace. They're lonely, I'm not.
They need us to protect them.
I don't need y'all to be at peace.
When you've been alone by yourself long enough to look yourself in the mirror comfortably you realize you don't NEED anyone to make you happy.
But if I WANT someone don't even think of making me compromise the peace I've gained on my own.
Hurt feelings are a big tell...you mad? Good change 👌
I'm sitting here taking notes.. I get taken the wrong way so much. I'm a leader 💪🏽😎. Would love for a man to take charge.
Decide what kind of man you will follow the leadership of. Then figure out what he wants in a woman. If you can be those things, move forward. If you cannot, adjust your journey accordingly.
Where the full episode
Any woman saying she’s dominate & masculine stay away from them.Women are kind,nice & feminine
Oh HECK!!!!! Men are not a necessity ... But a luxurious luxury♡ I may NOT NEED one... But I may WANT ONE❤ (Love you Tripp😊)
? Men are a luxury ?
T.F. it is just that simple.
Scar Lip need to go back to the drawing board
Fix yourself before getting ready to settle down.
Excellent tactic because imagine men saying that the right woman will bring out the masculinity in me.😅
Ladies: Don’t date unless you’ve turned that wall into a gate.
And let’s stop choosing males that are not to par with us then get upset with them. It all falls on us.
Also at the same time wanna say they don’t need men
Women have two choices, be a beneficial asset that doesn’t cause problems, contributes, and reciprocates or keep acting like a man has to do everything for you and then some just to get the bare minimum of a semi functional adult and remain single. If him being single and outsourcing his needs gives him more value than having her around then it’s her issue to fix not his. Only the assets in a man’s life and his biological kids get protection and earned their provisions through their contributions. Keep in mind the more he pays and does for you yet you refuse to reciprocate the more disposable/replaceable you prove yourself to be to him, and cooking, cleaning, and satisfying him only gives 1/1000 of what you want from him. The same things billions across this planet can do for him while you chase a small percentage of the population that can replace you.
That’s not a man’s job.
Walls can be up without being aggressive. Sounds like she's obviously toxic or angry, prone to acting out and or being problematic. Nah sis...you can be no nonsense straight up from the hip without acting like an animal. You block all blessings acting out that way. Remember that you get walk through doors and be in wonderful spaces based on your vibe...you vibe can't be based on you you allowed yourself to act like an animal because unnamed men hurt you in the past.
Sounds crazy when you read it out loud.
why do some married men inherently believe that it is married womens
traditional responsibility to take care of the house work cook clean while at the same time claim that modern women should take on a work role as much as married men
you forgot that some of them expect women to primarily raise the children and take them to school and pick them up
I strongly believe a married woman should not have to got to work when she’s raising children it’s a man’s job to provide
I believe women are carring a lot of weight in marriages and it’s not good to put all the weight on women some men are not working the women is doing everything while the husband lays around
I think it’s unfair for some wives to struggle and do it all I believe there’s some unfairness going on in marriages e anessa
Men are not responsible for women who need therapy to heal themselves and happiness comes from the women who value themselves and not validation of men!
Facts! I co-sign ✍🏾 this message 110%
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Where are these ladies father’s at? This should been taught. What is going on in this world?
Y'all lost in space. Avoid court cases and criminal records and own your OWN toilets instead of worrying about dating and character flaws. Then focus on literacy and scriptural competence. You will not be in the "market of the living" very long before check out. Og°
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Some of our black women say the dumbest ish 😂😂😂
...... drizzle drizzle 😊
Man sometimes please your view is not for everyone. We know what the fuck it means. When will she be able to trust a man basically. And I would say never. Never fully trust anyone. But go into meeting good people. And be good yourself. Do t look for love!!just love good genuine people. It’s a balance. Do t be blind
It takes a strong man to tame me,
I dont need know weak man.
Just wtf does that mean?
Why must he be able to “handle you”..
She her daddies daughters
So what's going on with the zippers on his jacket. Am I the only one who noticed?
That last part...🔥🔥🔥
Real Talk Plain Simple Facts 💯 Respect The Code:Stop it don't be realistic women want fantasy 🥷💯% 🚨😱🫨😲🤔🫡😍💯🥷