😲Shocking eBay Buyer Nightmare! How I Handled This Difficult Customer -Full Time Reseller- What Sold

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  • @desertsellers
    @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

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  • @GodsOath_com
    @GodsOath_com 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Oh he got those shoes, he just didn't want to pay.

  • @satilrak
    @satilrak 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    When an eBay buyer reaches out and behaves rudely, they are only going be worse! B
    y threatening in a super passive aggressive manner, pinning you against their credit card or the post office. Don't engage with them just block them. Who needs extra stress?

  • @Chical209
    @Chical209 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I was hoping you cancelled and blocked the buyer after your last video. I don't think its a matter of being right, it sounds like your husband is speaking from experience, and more often than not difficult people can make things even more difficult. I would rather not make a sale than try to please someone that rubs me the wrong way. We all learn from mistakes and scams, its part of the seller business.

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I should have listened to him 🥺 Experience is right! He remembers more of the bad buyers than I do ;)

  • @cruzin4treasure
    @cruzin4treasure 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Its funny how we can always feel that spidey sense that something's off with a buyer. I had a hideous buyer this week on Poshmark who also purchased something from me on eBay. Both items are being returned... I knew he would be an issue from the start. Ugh!!

    • @Aaramlias
      @Aaramlias 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My only problem with buyers lately myself has been with people buying stuff then not paying and not even responding to my emails to find out if they bought it by accident or didn't realize that they didn't pay for the items. I had 5 of those in the past 2 weeks.

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Annoying for sure 🤦

  • @papierdolls
    @papierdolls 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks for sharing the situation (and ID) of that difficult Buyer. Another one added to my Blocked Buyer List! I was looking at the feedback they have left for other Sellers, some N/N and picky feedback. Red flags. Those are the Buyers no Seller wants to encounter.

  • @littleluluscraps
    @littleluluscraps 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I always tell the customer that I'm going to call their postmaster and have the carrier gps'd, then call the customer's post master and find out who the carrier was, and tell them what's going on. 9.9 times out of 10, they got their item and they will tell me after the fact some story of where it was!!! If you drop the postmaster's name when you tell them you spoke to someone and they are asking the carrier and gpsing!!

    • @elifern2642
      @elifern2642 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's too much. As long as the tracking shows the item delivered, I simply tell the buyer the item shows as being delivered and that there isn't anything I can do now. End of discussion. Nothing they do will harm your transaction and ebay will side with you bcz of the tracking.

  • @bobbiellison4315
    @bobbiellison4315 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're doing great. Very natural at speaking to a camera and fun and informative to watch. Subscribed, hope you hit your 10,000 milestone really soon 😊

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you 🥰🥰

  • @merridybenton7028
    @merridybenton7028 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I would have cancelled the order and report them to ebay for extortion for telling you that you had to give him extra discount.

    • @Aaramlias
      @Aaramlias 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ebay does allow you to do that too.

  • @gracesunshine6716
    @gracesunshine6716 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    kind lady, thank you for this video, the worst part of selling on Bay

  • @debrahansley
    @debrahansley 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey Jennifer! Great sales! So much to say. First, had the same thing happen with a pair of shoes. Lots of questions. Exact measurements etc. My hubby said just stop and let it go. Strong independent here should have listened also!😂 Blocked that buyer of yours. Side note, dont like "old lady" perfumes either😂 have a great week!!

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So many questions is the key! My independence gets me in trouble sometimes 😜

  • @jb47201
    @jb47201 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If someone ships anything back any different than the way I shipped it to them . I'm not refunding them.

    • @mattthacker4163
      @mattthacker4163 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ebay will ding u and force u tooo its your word agaisnt theirs

    • @bobbiellison4315
      @bobbiellison4315 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well since the label is securely affixed to the box I think it's easy to prove they didn't ship it correctly. However, I don't know if they are required to??

  • @nicfaiyyc7396
    @nicfaiyyc7396 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video is seriously good TV, I want my popcorn 😅

  • @ChowiYulieth
    @ChowiYulieth 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    kislux versace bag is so cute

  • @Aaramlias
    @Aaramlias 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When it comes to difficult customers, I try to help them out .. but if they keep causing issues like you had I would do the same thing .. block them and move on. My last difficult customer that I really remember from a few years ago knick-picked the item he got even though it had all the details in the description. He asked for a partial refund of 50% .... U agreed to a certain amount. He didn't even get back to me and I just just let it slide without the refund. Some people are just really cheap but want money back but just give up if they the person says less then what they want back.
    When it comes to shipping items out. I never ship them out in their original boxes because they may want it as a collectable and don't want the box damaged .. or they may be buying it as a store to resell it. If it gets damaged you might have got a return request because then the buyer can say not as noted om description. One thing you could ahve done if you have access to really big bubble mailers is use one of those on the outside of the box or wrap it in Kraft paper (if you don't call it that it's basically like brown wrapping paper used for shipping. I also put cds and cassettes in plastic bags too (I sometimes use comic bags for it that I cut up).
    I sell a lot of collectibles including media ones and attract customers that a pay a bit more for stuff because i'm all about condition with my items and people can see that in my feedbacks.

  • @OryanStargazer
    @OryanStargazer 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yea I need to be doing the same and block problem customers as well. Had a guy going ape shit over how I would package candy, and then when he demanded 1 day shipping I told him he would need to cover the additional cost he then wanted to buy 2 orders and so I refunded him so he could and then he started bitching about not being able to buy it demanded I send him an offer and at that point i had enough and blocked him.
    The guy before that was spamming one line texts about how this Vintage 60's Electronic Can Opener blade wasnt sharp and demanded a $10 reimbursement on a $25 item. Promptly blocked as well.

    • @johnathin0061892
      @johnathin0061892 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Block anyone demanding one day shipping (especially for lower value/common items). Almost certainly a scammer who wants it as soon as possible before the fraud is detected.

  • @cruzinandcashin
    @cruzinandcashin 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I am sick and tired of Ebay not ending their actt. when they go through the cc. Thats not bays processs.

  • @jenniferjuneau7329
    @jenniferjuneau7329 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you! Sunshinejack is blocked. Who needs to deal with this kind of buyer! Glad it all turned out ok for you.

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Block him for sure 🙅‍♀️ (make sure you spell sunshine without the i. )

  • @susankellygordon3110
    @susankellygordon3110 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A great day for hubby compliments!

  • @MLACREATIONS30
    @MLACREATIONS30 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love your videos. They are educational and entertaining.

  • @darlynmcintosh5417
    @darlynmcintosh5417 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There are some people you just don’t want to work for!!!!

  • @desi_vintage
    @desi_vintage 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great sales! You're always so informative, thanks! 🤗 Yay, you're so close to 10k...I think when I subbed you had about 1k. How exciting! 👏🏻👏🏻

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Aww yay!! Thanks for sticking with me!! Appriciate the support so much 🥰

    • @desi_vintage
      @desi_vintage 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@desertsellers I remember how surprised I was that you didn't have WAY more subs because your channel is great! Congrats on all of your successes! 💕

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @desi_vintage aww you are too kind 💓 growing slowly but it's been so much fun!

  • @deborahveryking6441
    @deborahveryking6441 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, Jennifer!

  • @desertfairychickres4021
    @desertfairychickres4021 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Jennifer,
    Mike over at the Golden State Picker channel sells a ton of golf clubs and has been listing them recently as ground advantage saying that they ship pretty inexpensively. I was surprised, but he was very happy with the discovery.
    Hope this helps.
    This crazy heat needs to let up. Every year August seems to drag on FOREVER here on the surface of the sun. 🥵🥵🥵☀️🌵
    P.S. Where do you get your golf club boxes?

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for the info! I personally use the USPS priority tubes (just can't ship advantage or any service other than priority at USPS with them! You CAN however ship them UPS or FedEx with them) when I don't have another box in my pile. My extended family gets a lot of photography equipment and they come in great long boxes that I reuse. I know you can also find them on ULine and Amazon/eBay in a pinch.
      Agree about this heat! I am OVER it 🥵

  • @Theemptycart
    @Theemptycart 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He called you an idiot???? 😡😡wow what a goof, my ex boss called me an idiot and he was short staffed a week later.

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤣🤣🤣 yup!! Goof is a bit too nice 😜

    • @Theemptycart
      @Theemptycart 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@desertsellers oh I had other choice words believe me !

  • @FunFindsOutpost
    @FunFindsOutpost 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I too would look out for top designer brands in anything, but I would fear it would be a knock off.

  • @JewelsNcrime
    @JewelsNcrime 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I also had that happen my package arrived but the tracking kept saying it was still in transit, so I reached out and said I did receive it and left a review. But I also could have said I hadn't received it yet. It made me wonder when there's a system issue like that what happens when buyer is dishonest. How do you prove they got it if there's no update or scan showing delivered.

  • @johnathin0061892
    @johnathin0061892 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When a buyer claims they didn't receive an item, just say, "I'm sorry you didn't receive your item, please open an item not received case with eBay". Refuse any communication after that. If they really didn't get their item, they will get a refund (eBay funded if tracking shows delivered, or seller funded otherwise). No point in further communication, especially a psycho buyer.

  • @DRventura333
    @DRventura333 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thought cannot sell used perfume / cologne on Ebay? Nice find for that Bose. I would keep it one piece and super super pack it well.

    • @shannonsullivan8911
      @shannonsullivan8911 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I thought so too, I paused the video and she listed as new without box and then I guess said its used in the description. hmmm

  • @angelbabe1977
    @angelbabe1977 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If that went through paypal for his purchase, they too, will throw that claim out had almost similar issue few weeks ago.

  • @susankellygordon3110
    @susankellygordon3110 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very cute coach

  • @carreyn9808
    @carreyn9808 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just found your video. I am new to selling on Ebay, how do you block someone, I want to block this person so I do not get this person

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am never able to find it inside the app. But if you go on Google and search "block list eBay" it'll send you where you need to go. That's what I always have to do lol.

  • @steph6197
    @steph6197 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great $ales! You've lost weight 🎉

  • @Opochtli
    @Opochtli 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Subscribed

  • @DRventura333
    @DRventura333 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The lies some Buyers are making up these days is just shameless. To also use threatening language is egregious and disrespectful. Karma will get them. Thank you for the name have blocked them.

  • @Psalm-119
    @Psalm-119 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Jennifer. Out of curiosity, what platform was the Gucci perfume sold on? I have many used fragrances that I'm trying to figure out what platform to sell them on without restriction. Thanks in advance.

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This was eBay 🤷‍♀️

  • @pennymiller6813
    @pennymiller6813 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Personal question. You have lost baton of weight. Look fabulous! How? Please tell.

  • @rustyrose1960
    @rustyrose1960 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You should just block that buyer.

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I did now 🫣 but too little too late. I blocked them once they started sending the harassing messages.

  • @michellehughes4318
    @michellehughes4318 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why do people argue with the seller about if a package was delivered? Have they never heard of “porch pirates”? I’ve had three buyers do the same thing and eBay sided with me. It shows delivered…..what do you want me to do?

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly 😂

    • @johnathin0061892
      @johnathin0061892 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      eBay will fund INR cases when the tracking shows delivered (at least according to their current policies, as with all eBay seller policies YMMV.) Either way, arguing with them is pointless, just tell them to open an INR case.

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He didn't even get the chance. He ran as fast as he could to the bank to dispute directly 🤦

  • @sunshinedream7772
    @sunshinedream7772 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That username is pulling up somebody in the UK 🤔

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No I in sunshine. "Sunshnejack" Hope that helps.

    • @sunshinedream7772
      @sunshinedream7772 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@desertsellers thanks that worked. It’s always interesting when I find that users have about the same amount of time on eBay as me, or in this case him with you ☹️. Btw I’m in Tucson also 🌵

  • @ExGuess-w1i
    @ExGuess-w1i 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @ScrappleBerry
    @ScrappleBerry 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Jennifer
    Just searched for sunshinejack and only one I could find was in the UK. Would you mind posting his user id here. Any caps or spaces in the user name that I might be missing.
    I sell shoes too
    Thanks!

    • @desertsellers
      @desertsellers  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      sunshnejack is the username. No i. Definitely block!

    • @kayligo
      @kayligo 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes I’d like to know too please

  • @user-uw9cv6xe7t
    @user-uw9cv6xe7t 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

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