Exactly. And with more and more of them gaining weight and getting diabetes. They will need insulin, possibly taking it from someone who was born with the disability/ disease (i see it as both. My father had diabetes, he became blind lost feeling in his feet and finger tips and has open wounds all over his body. I was the one caring for him at a very young age)
There are already laws that require hallways and elevators to be large enough for wheelchairs. If your are larger than a wheelchair, that is not the hotel’s fault.
Right? And I have social anxiety and autism, I do not like being touched, let alone be8ng trapped with someone touching me for hours, i have literal medical issues that i cannot control. I cannot eat less or work out more to "lose" my socail anxiety or autism yet they don't care. How do they expect us "skinny people" to care about them when they are SO hostile to us?.. I remember being a teenager, going swimming with my older sister s d these 2 fat girls called us skinny sluts, we both had ED'S i had binging and purging and my sister had ana (I'm ace, and still a virgin to this day) We did nothing but walk by them
I saw a video on those types of caskets. Two people can go in them. I can't imagine the price! What about the size of the grave!? 🤔 Cremation might be easier. But how do they fit them in the crematory device....?
@@Omie4425 fat activism is the only form of activism that doesn't require activity. Just a tiktok account and a complaint list 🤣🤣 They're out here holding virtual marches 🤣🤣🤣
Being a petite woman myself I actually find it’s harder to find clothes that fit me because I’m so short and it seems that it’s becoming harder to find smaller clothes in my personal experience because “Thick” is in now.
The “thick” thing is the becoming mildly confusing to me, not because of it in and of itself, but because it seems that as time goes on, the direction seems to gradually be heading to proportionally “baboon” asses and/or morbidly obese people, as if the middle grounds just end up becoming irrelevant.
I kinda know the struggle. Although my struggle is a bit different. Me and my best friend struggle finding hats, for opposite reasons. I have a big head. She has a small head. She needs kid sized hats and I'm pretty much stuck with hats meant for men. Most women's hats stop at 22 1/4 inches/57 cm. I need at least 23 inches or 59cm. I have managed to go through an entire hat store on vacation and still leave empty handed. The poor store clerk was trying so hard to find one that fit but had to admit defeat.
This lol I lost a to. Of weight over the years and now especially bargain shopping or thrifting everything is larges and mediums. Smalls can be too big too.
The girl claiming to have healthy levels of cholesterol and blood pressure at 26 years old. 100% she won't be saying that at the ripe old age of 35 if she doesn't lose weight.
Most elevators in hotels are large enough to carry ten people, and have a weight limit of something like 1.8 tons. If you can't fit in a space that's big enough for ten average people, and has the lifting capacity to carry two fully grown Rhinos, then maybe you should consider using the stairs. Who knows, you might get a little healthier if you do.... 🍄
@@ejrillingI do a lot especially now. I weight right at like 293. I am also trying to lose weight I'm 5'9" and it does hurt my back really bad. Even though I'm still ok at walking long distance and my cardio is good the weight still takes its toll on me. I went through a deep depression for a long time and didn't care about myself but now I'm working on it and trying to get back to where I was. I've lost 22lbs so far my wife started last year around February and lost 130. She did have surgery but she lost 85 before hand in like 6 or 7 months which is incredible to me.
As far as airline fare it takes more fuel to move all that fat around at 37,000 feet. That’s why it’s a lot less money to mail a $10,000 ring than it is to mail a refrigerator.
I have had anemia for years and had to have a transfusion, the amount of varying symptoms you can get with it is crazy. It also affects my mental health too. People don’t realise how serious anemia can be, if it gets too low it can kill you.
Its so tiring that the fativists exist. 🤦♀️ They mirror the anorexic issues as an opposite. They just want to ignore that. What gets me the most is the activists crying and screaming for not having to pay for 2 plane seats, wider hallways, and whatever else I've missed this week. 😩
“How come no one ever complains about people who are too skinny!?” We do, all the time. It was literally always the response to the heroin chic models in the 90s. I keep having Eugenia Cooney pop up in my feed and I don’t want to see it, someone slowly turning off their own lights in either direction.
@@TheBaumcm keep telling yourselves that. The people of the world who do not consume the type of processed sugar laden foods that is consumed in America do not have obesity issues. Quite possibly, the creator in her magnificence didn't make the natural foods that she provides for us addictive so we can't stop eating. That's why she made sure there was a season for everything.
@@TheBaumcmthe government could put restrictions on food to make obesity at least a bit less prevalent, but if they were to they would lose that sweet sweet lobbying money from companies like pepsico who want to keep people addicted and lining their pockets
@@mexme-me-2are you really trying to say that no other country had obese people and that you can't get far from eating perfectly fine healthy food in huge quantities? Just look up the stats on obesity and overweightness in the rest of the world and you would be surprised. I don't understand how people actually believe what you do if you over indulge in healthy food and are still eating a shit ton of calories you will get fat. But what gets me even more is these ignorant people that say people have a thing called set weight. Where your body wants to be a certain weight and that it's genetics that make you fat. That you could workout everyday eat healthy not eat to many calories and all around have a good healthy lifestyle and you will still get to that "set point weight" even if it's 450lbs. They say it's a gene that we have from famine and out bodies store way more than it needs to, to not go into starvation mode. If that was true then why aren't there any obese people in 3rd world countries that don't have access to that amount of even healthy foods. Why aren't people born obese and never get rid of it no matter how they eat?
Your low iron story is so similar to mine and honestly I can't wait to leave Canada. I'm doing a PhD and my supervisor is based in Hamilton so here I am. When I tell you I was SHOCKED at the state of healthcare here. I had to BEG for a blood test for almost a year and then when I asked for a copy of the results they acted like I was asking for state secrets! They literally gaslight you unless/until you're on death's door. Never experienced anything like that and it makes me wonder about the care the majority of Canadians are getting.
I live in BC and absolutely every lab test I have ever had is available for me to review or download online. Also anytime I want to have something checked I just have to ask for it. On top of that, I have an autoimmune disease, so for the past 25 years, I have had a standing order with the labs to have blood tests every 4 months, so I just have to walk in and get it done (most of the time I forget, but that's another story.) I am aware though of the deplorable state of healthcare in Ontario. It's the worst in the country by far.
I live in los angeles, and honestly our country is not the best but if i ask for medical records/copies they’ll just print out for me on the spot lol no cost
@@renees1211whats wrong in Ontario? Isn't that a big city? Kinda makes sense the Healthcare would be kinda better where there aren't thousands even millions of people.
Too many in society have no shame. You can witness that every time you turn on the TV, look at the news or even look out of your window. Slobs and greed are glorified as does being crude.
I worked in a hotel in the UK as my first job. many of the tourists from the US were absolute units to put it lightly yet the chairs in our dinning room still held them and those guests never complained. Either Jaebae has sat on some dodgy chairs or she really is that entitled
I'm 58, post-menopausal, and on several meds that cause weight gain or slow metabolism. I have fibro/ME/CFS which causes debilitating pain if I overdo it even a little bit. I try to walk my dog as often as I can, take the bus and walk everywhere, and try to eat only fresh unprocessed foods. I'm 25 pounds overweight, and I'm not losing a milligram. I know exactly why I weigh as much as I do, and I don't blame anyone. Sometimes life is just like that. ETA: I forgot to mention that my country is at war - so yeah - stress.
Ignorance is TRULY bliss and I don't think the age of 50 is going to be in their future... the saying live and let die seems to fit nicely in this context.
I just hate stupid identity doesn't ever figure into my thoughts. I was raised in the 80s and 90s and taught not to care about identity and it's really frustrating that all of these people are obsessed with identity now. The people who taught me not to care are obsessed with it. The only time I care what you look like is when I'm single and it's Friday night. Then all that matters to me is attractive to me and interested in me. I'm not looking for anything but I wouldn't say no to you if you ask me out and we are definitely not the same type of people.
Not trying to be funny but that woman is putting way too much energy and attention into hotels accommodating plus size women and what not by getting higher capacity beds, chairs, etc. Instead of putting that energy and focus into things like that, she should divert that focus and energy towards living a healthier lifestyle (exercise and better diet) so things such as airline travel and hotel lodging would not be an issue....Smh...
I’m a 54 year old woman who suffered a significant injury 3 years ago. It was an injury that-despite a good surgeon, a successful surgery and a successful regimen of PT-changed my day to day existence as I went from being an individual who was taking enough steps through the daily walking of my dog with friends and doing the basic chores needed (as determined by me, lol) to keep our home reasonably clean and functional to equal a total distance of 10+ miles per day…to becoming someone who struggles with any of that now. I still clock in enough steps to stay “fit” but each one gets harder to take as the day progresses. I’m not calling attention to how very much I’ve “suffered”and been a victim…I’m sharing something that happened to me that changed my life. With the reduction of mobility and activity I’ve also reduced my caloric intake. I don’t need to gain a bunch of “hard to lose” (can anyone say “menopause” 😂) weight on top of dealing with mobility issues and chronic pain. My organs certainly don’t need the added strain! I grew up with most of the women in my life being somewhat overweight to very much so. I loved these women and I still do. I think they’re beautiful. But the few who are with me still and haven’t lost that weight don’t feel very healthy. As the years pass the body slows. So a morbidly obese person of 25-26 years may still have a blood pressure reading within the “normal” range. Same with cholesterol and other heart related issues as well as type two diabetes. But time passes and these conditions will make themselves known. 😢 I thought the body positivity movement was intended to help folks who are addicted to food and have poor eating habits to realize that they’re worth the EFFORT it takes to become healthier in general and that NOT being morbidly obese was the single biggest thing to focus on that could almost guarantee better health. Not instantly. But within a six month timeframe? With consistency? That by just going on a daily brisk walk? The end results are astonishing!! I thought the “movement’s” mission was to help folks realize that they mattered, that they’re worth the time and the love it takes to give yourself such a gift. Guess I got it all wrong. I’m 5’5” and, at one point in my life I weighed 219 pounds. I wasn’t “super morbidly” obese but I didn’t feel good, I didn’t look good, I had little energy, I didn’t like myself…but I had two young daughters who looked to me. That did motivate me. So…we adopted a young dog from the Humane Society (another thing near and dear to my heart!!) and we took him on walks. A dogs weight is very much involved in their general health after all!! And it was fun. Work, yes. But it was fun work. The whole family benefited. Within six months I had dropped over 40 pounds. More importantly I felt good. And I continued to lose the weight. So I know how it feels. I know it’s not easy, but most things worth doing aren’t easy. I also know it can be done. Thanks for a great video. You look fabulous!! Hope you had loads of good times with your family!! Please take care and I look forward to the next one!🙏🏼🫶🏼🙂
I was completely immobile for nearly a year from a planned demolition on a deformity in both my legs. You don't fully appreciate your body and its mobility until its gone. I'm thankful every single day I can simply walk to the other side of the room. That's awesome that you found an enjoyable way to get exercise! For you and the dog 🐕
You hit on two very important points. Food can be an addiction, usually used to cope with emotions which then spirals out of control. Two, it takes effort to lose weight, at least more effort than you were putting in before, and if you don’t think you’re worth that effort, it won’t get done, much as my husband gets home tired as jokes that ai should work out for him. Body positivity was meant to be for people who had things they couldn’t change, scars, illness, height, anything that is a trait that you have no control over. It was never meant to be about weight in this sense, although I fully believe until you can learn to love and be kind to yourself, you’ll never get there.
When they were doing your bloodwork they may not have even been testing your iron. Typically the labs doctors order are CBC (complete blood count ) and BMP (basic metabolic panel). Those don’t include iron. Iron is a separate additional panel.
8:30 Slim pickings?! I lost 60lbs (10 more to go) and whenever I go out to look at clothing, the cutest things are in the overweight section. I kid you not. Maybe that lady needs to shop at other places. 😂
Same. Due to vanity sizing, I am now a size 2. I am about the same size, if not slightly larger as I was when I was an 8 in the 90s. I can never find anything. This is out of control.
My stepsister died before her 50th birthday of a massive heart attack. She swore she was healthy even though she was grossly overweight. Her younger sister found her, an experience she will never forget and a last memory of a loved one that will forever haunt her.
I work in a hospital and obesity is one of the very worst things you can ever do to yourself. The causes of obesity, bad diet and lack of exercise, account for about 85% of the reasons people are in the hospital. We are fighting a losing war. And hospital workers are actually leaving their careers due to the difficulties of dealing with morbidly obese patients.
When I got diagnosed with low iron anemia, it was the day after my PCP did a routine blood draw. My test results came back so low, that she was repeatedly calling me (I couldn't answer because I was at work), and then she was calling my emergency contacts (my parents). When I got the messages I called her back. She had left me her personal cell phone number with orders to call it. She told me my Iron was very low and that I needed to get to the hospital. I told her I would go after work. She was ADAMANT that I go NOW! When my fiancé (now husband) and I got to the hospital, the ER was waiting. They re-ran the blood tests and were surprised I was still conscious. I spent a week there getting transfusions.
You not being able to fit into the cute smaller outfits is a YOU problem. I do agree that it’s annoying when customers do that though, cause then the employees have to reorganize crap for no reason.
Yes, I am overweight. However, I am also working to lose that weight. Fifteen years ago after becoming disabled a questionable doctor prescribed a medication that caused me to not only gain nearly 80 pounds, but gave me congestive heart failure. Not all overweight people are overweight due to their own behaviour. Being not only overweight, but disabled and often unable to even get out of bed makes it difficult to lose weight. Notice, I said difficult, not impossible. I've lost about half of the weight I need to lose, I'll keep trying. In the meantime, don't judge anyone unless you've walked in their shoes, rode in their wheelchair, etc.
I don’t judge anyone who is overweight for being overweight. You never know where someone’s journey began. However, I am going to judge someone who is morbidly obese who is telling me that if I work out, for myself, to be healthier and mentally clearer, then I am fatphobic.
There is a difference between doing your best and still being overweight, and telling anyone that will listen that fat is beautiful and you don't need to change anything to be healthy.
I'm 58, post-menopausal, and on several meds that cause weight gain or slow metabolism. I have fibro/ME/CFS which causes debilitating pain if I overdo it even a little bit. I try to walk my dog as often as I can, take the bus and walk everywhere, and try to eat only fresh unprocessed foods. I'm 25 pounds overweight, and I'm not losing a milligram. I know exactly why I weigh as much as I do, and I don't blame anyone. Sometimes life is just like that.
I'm just not flying again. I can't think of anywhere I need to go bad enough to take a chance on a Karen making us deplane...or having no arm on the chair. Nope.
I went to my (old) doctor for severe 10/10 abdominal pain where I would be in the fetal position sweating, crying, and being sick from the pain. She said "sounds like heartburn". It was not. I no longer have a gallbladder.
I had that too although I’d say it started at a 2 for me (around a 5 for the average person) and would ramp up in waves. Not gallbladder but they said it was gastritis as nothing popped up on the ultrasound. I have it recur during stress or if I eat certain foods but never as bad as that. I would suggest next time going to your ER.
@@TheBaumcm have they checked your gallbladder for sure? I went to the ER later that day after I saw my doctor and they told me it was my crazy gallbladder. For me it would always wake me up in the middle of the night with slow radiating pain, and get to a 10/10. I've given birth. It was worse pain than that!
@@TheBaumcm The ER will tell you that you are fat, and send you home. It happened to my mom many times, and it turned out that she had a rare syndrome that they don't see very often. By the time she was diagnosed, she only had about a year to live.
They always miss the most important fact when it comes to comparing actual disabilities or "marginalization" to themselves. They're ailments are self-inflicted and changeable.
@@fibanocci314these people were coddled to much and told they were special flowers and that they were perfect the way they are and never let others tell them any different. Even if it's your family friends or Dr that are trying to help you.
You cannot be chunky and work out every day unless the work out is nothing and the diet doesn’t get changed. I have a friend who said he could lose weight just doing a few push-ups every day…. Very intelligent to get the records for yourself. Most doctors do seem to want to wait until we are really hurt. It’s so important to listen to your body and keep seeking help.
You can if you are still eating more than what the workout burns. Many people are not comfortable pushing themselves, myself included, so their workout might not be what they need. It is only in the last year and a half of hitting the gym that I have learned how to gauge where my limits really are and when I need to throw in the towel. Also, your body can cardio adapt, so if you are doing the same thing every day, your body will cut off other behaviors, like fidgeting, and because you are more oxygen efficient, your body burns fewer calories than before for the same thing.
your friend losing weight from just doing a few push ups a day is almost certainly lying, a push up burns like 1 calorie. he absolutely had to change his diet as well
Intentionally making people feel like shit for an unfortunate circumstance is just tasteless and counterproductive. That doesn’t mean we have to act like being absurdly overweight is a good thing Like what is nuance to people nowadays
The problem is that half the weight problems are gluttony. The other half are undiagnosed food allergies. That happened to me. My weight went up and down 30lbs for years. It only stopped when I was finally given the truth about being allergic to milk. I eat twice as much now as I ever did as a fat person. So, abusing people will backfire. The gluttons will just get more isolated and defensive. But, the unfortunate bastards with the allergies will end up with eating disorders, PTSD, and no weight loss. They will continue to wreck their health trying to conform, under the pressure of the shame, without being told about their allergy. The Elites know this as they poisen our food, and weaponize blame agaisnt us. Think about it.
That attitude where the bf is concerned about her health reminds me of how my ex-gf would act if I mentioned concerns about her ongoing Adderall abuse. These people are just looking for any excuse to not change.
I'm 51 and my cholesterol was borderline high and I was recommended to shed some weight. I shed the weight and my cholesterol level was back to normal. Oh, and now I feel so much better. It's not that difficult to understand. It's easier to overindulge. That's why they push fat acceptance.
My half sister is morbidly obese (about 5'2" over 400lbs. Probably closer to 500 now. I haven't seen her in ten years) and about ten years ago, she was starting to lose weight and had lost like fifty pounds. Somewhere along the way, she just stopped and I don't know why. I do know the FAs started getting into her head, even back then. She was fine the way she was. It was society's problem. She also had the audacity to compare our disabilities. I have a very jacked up spine and can barely walk due to a congenital spinal defect (I'm 40. The problems really kicked in at age 38). She has bad knees and COPD and is on oxygen nearly all day, and can "barely walk." She got pissed at me when I said her disability can be made a lot better with weight loss. I don't know what to do. I'm pretty sure one day her 22 year old son is going to go by for a visit and find her gone. We aren't spring chickens anymore. She will hang up on me if I bring it up and I live across the country so it's not like I can just stop by and force a talk about it. I'm at a loss. THANKS FAT ACTIVISTS. I could have had a sister as thin as me by this point, but y'all had to open your mouths and be a victim. I even considered paying for a cameo from Dr. Now, but I think it's a lost cause at this point. I'm not healthy because I smoke and drink too much caffeine and sugar. I also don't eat that healthy because I'm trying to gain weight and get jacked and can't eat a lot.
I feel sad for these people. I used to tell myself the same lies. That there was nothing wrong with being fat. I was lucky to wake up in time and that the most I dealt with was fatigue, high blood pressure, and heavy periods.
I went to my son's destination wedding several years ago. My weight then was 125lbs. As a fibromyalgia sufferer i was intensely uncomfortable in a very narrow seat wedged between 2 other people. It had nothing to do with my weight. This Karen -- you had it right-- is another pathetic example of self centered people who want the world to dance around them and cater to their insanity and dysfunction
Idk what's going on today but I'm seeing so many videos highlighting people who live in victim mode.... As if those women are the only people that experience stress making ends meet, racism and difficulties in life... Pleeeease....
Literally, stress eating is a bad habit but also still a choice being made. Just because they are unconscious or choosing to ignore that doesn't make it any less of a choice.
@mexme-me-2: She stated that diets that work for white women don't work as well for black women. The conclusion, that the reason for that is racism had been made by her, or so it seemed. Moreover, I'd love to see the study she based her argument on.
@@zoep.2891 and that is a fact. Diets that work for white women do not work for black women in the same context because the sociopolitical atmosphere that the black women exist in that also impact their health and weight, do not impact white women. How is that hard to understand? Again I must repeat, she was speaking in relation to an actual study, not her own opinion.
12:32 I’ve never thought about any of those plus size amenities she named. I’m not skinny … but I guess I’m also not big enough to experience these issues 🤔🙄
I'm 36, always had such heavy periods that I needed 4 blood transfusions. I found out this year that because my periods were always so heavy, I started menopause at 34 and I am now post-menopause at 36. Iron is so important my friend.
The big girl always sounds like she's reading off a lunatic script. I hate the mobility loss i have right now but can't fathom how she can deal with hers.
I had the exact same thing happened to me... Always freezing, exhausted 24/7, physicals showed nothing wrong except boarder line high blood pressure, ate Ice like it was candy... heavy cycles...This went on for 5 years. Finally, last year I was tested for low iron.. Same dangerously low counts on all the labs tested... I went through 4 months of Iron infusions... Last one was in January.. I've not felt this good in years... Except, now I'm enjoying the meno years.... ugh... But, having energy is wonderful... Just found your channel today.. Im binge listening at work... You're Awesome.. Thank you for sharing common sense thoughts on today's societal ridiculous 'norms'...
“Slim pickings” for plus sized people and normal sized people hide our sizes in the plus sized clothes? I thought the reason I can only find XXL was because of fat acceptance becoming normal. Thanks for the tip. Now I know I should actually be looking in XXL Sizes to find size 4! I’ll use that strategy next time I’m thinking, “where do normal sized people get clothes from anymore?” I say “normal” because I don’t see how you get obese WITHOUT putting extra effort into eating junk and not exercising. It’s the same thing with extreme body builders. Their muscle mass isn’t the norm. They go to extremes with exercise and a special diet to reach that goal. You’ve really got to WORK to get there, just like obesity. 🤷🏻♀️
Look, I get it in this image conscious world as an older gay man, where I would never dream of fat-shaming anyone, but this has gone way too far - we see young teenage gay men with eating disorders and now they are being told to go in the opposite direction (to become fat) in order to be accepted - this has to stop
We really need to start difrwntiating between fat and obese. Most people would call me fat, but I am obese. I'm 5'10" 240lbs. 300 pounds is morbidly obese. Not fat.
@fordshojoe8080 even at 6ft 8in, being 300lbs would be obese. Maybe, if it was muscle, you could argue that it can be a healthy range, but even having too much muscle mass can cause serious issues
Omg!! These people have no respect for themselves. 😒🙄🤦♀️. We have shared Healthcare burden, so yes you do owe us your health. Because of fat people costs are skyrocketing more than ever. I wonder if Jae Bae plans on funding the construction of new hallways and all the new adjustments that she requires!! 😂 God forbid she does any "work" on herself. So idiotic.
I'm Swedish but I live in Japan and for the most part, doctors here don't really tell you anything. I'm currently pregnant with my first child and was given a form to fill out (one of many) where they asked me if I wanted to be informed if there were any problems (healthwise) with me and/or the baby or if I'd prefer to have them keep me in the dark. The same form stated that even if I wanted the information, there is a possibility that I might not get it and that it's at the sole discretion of my treating physician. In other words; me or my baby could be dying and my doctor could choose to not tell me anything at all about it if he determines that that is the best action. My midwife was amazed at how well-read I am about both my pregnancy and pregnancies in general, as well as childbirth (especially for a first-time mother) and this is the exact reason why (well, the main reason anyway). I know that Japan might be a bit on the extreme side in this regard (I don't think this would fly in my own country), but I don't for a second doubt that even Western doctors leave a lot of information out (especially these days when everything is -ist or -phobic). It's on you to take your own health into your own hands and stop outsourcing it to someone who probably doesn't care either way. If you're morbidly obese and your doctor tells you that you're healthy and fit as a fiddle, that should be a major red flag. In regard to travel-Karen; I'm not plus size but I have to agree with her that airplane-seats need to be bigger. Anyone above the size of a toddler could probably agree with that. Everything else though is a her-problem, not an all-of-us-problem.
I’d have had no issue on my last flight, and no not toddler sized, if my neighbor wasn’t supersized and encroaching on my seat. I kept getting my arm whacked by the cart because I had to lean out. They should be required to purchase two seats.
Yoooooo I was going crazy hearing that damn line about “travellers of all sizes and abilities” 🙄🙄🙄 and that Toy Story edit was needed 😂😂😂 but damn really untitled, no business is going to do all of that for you Jae go eat a damn salad and work out and navigate the world better then being sooo fucking untitled 🙄🙄🙄
I think a lot of people just don’t understand nutrition. People are overweight and under nourished because they have never learnt that sugar ( refined carbs) and fat, and too much salt make you fat. Real food doesn’t. Sodas, like Coca Cola, Fanta etc, are full of high fructose corn syrup … very refined carbs which turn to fat if you don’t use the calories. It’s a shame. But thanks! I think I know what my new job will be! A nutrionist$
Neither sugar, fat or salt make you fat alone. Salt is required for a proper balance as is potassium to help run the sodium potassium pump in the cells (why salt makes you retain water not fat). Your brain runs on the simplest sugar there is, glucose, as do all of your muscles, including heart, ones responsible for peristalsis in the digestive system, and eyes. Fat is essential for absorption, storage and use of certain fat soluble vitamins, like D and A for calcium deposit in bones. You can have as much refined sugar as you like, provided your body tolerates it. The problem is that it comes with no added nutrient value so if someone were to only consume sugar, they would become vitamin deficient pretty quickly. That is why a diversified menu is ideal. I have eaten dessert every day for the last two years, sometimes twice. I also work out and select it in relation to my macronutrient distribution to ensure I also get enough protein. I lost 45 pounds eating dessert and pizza but not the cardboard versions, just smaller portions or better proportions of macros.
When people blame their issues on others or things that have nothing to do with the issue nothing is going to change. You have given away all your power and control . That’s weird and really stupid. If you’re going to do that just live with it and shut up.
So many people think the fish filet combo is a healthy choice because it's fish. But actually you're just eating high calorie trash that doesn't even taste good. Like girl, just do yourself a favor and buy some fish filets from kroger or whatever, google a recipe and cook it at home. It will taste *way* better and actually be good for you. Look at those calorie counts. Fish filet has hella calories in it, I'm not kidding. Also most people have good blood panels in their 20s, you're not special just because you're 26, fat, and have normal bloodwork. Bloodwork is reflective of years old data, which means it's not your health NOW, it's your health the year prior minimum.
It was not until I was 40 that my blood pressure started to shift and I was only about 50 pounds over. It was the throwing my back out when shifting in my seat that did it for me though😂. That and knee pain from previous surgeries. I just don’t like that they are telling me that I am fatphobic because I want to have a better quality of life. It’s physics, not fatphobia.
Also, food honesty is essential. It is wild, once you start looking at your calories for the day like a budget, how something with a really high value but lower nutrition becomes really unappealing because it isn’t as satisfying as the cost. Like, yeah that fish tastes good but I’m gonna feel terrible later because of all the fat and there is nowhere enough protein.
@@TheBaumcm Agreed. I can't imagine how much pain they're actually in and they're attributing it to "preexisting conditions". I was miserable at 200lb, I can honestly not imagine how much that intensifies at a 100 pounds more. Down 60 pounds give or take now and I have some decent muscle on me. It's like the pain just magically disappeared most days. Unlike some people I actually do have preexisting conditions, but I honestly do think the extra weight doesn't help anyone. I was dislocating my knees, my hips. My leg bones were especially popping out of place. Subluxed my arm and elbow, and those actually still don't feel the same (have numb patches in them). Being out of shape and overweight is a living nightmare. If I'm fatphobic for not being about that life? Fine I'm fatphobic. I'm afraid of being useless to help myself.
Why would you be surprise, heavy people don't have shame? To allow yourself to harm your body and health this way, can only happen if you lack self respect! Darling, I'm surprised people would even being interested, in listening to these folks to begin with! 🤦
So, if there’s such a thing as fatphobic, then I’m going to go ahead and accuse them of being skinny phobic. I personally dont appreciate them criticizing my body and calling me names. Inclusivity should include XXS and XS but I can rarely find it, if ever. Stop your complaining and get some medical help.
I have size 11/12 feet. I can't always find cute shoes in my size, and even if I do, they're not cute in a size 11. And I can't change that with diet and exercise. Everyone else shouldn't be allowed to wear cute shoes if I can't. I am so fed up with this footphobia.
Diabetes doesn’t care about your feelings.
😂😂😂😂
Exactly. And with more and more of them gaining weight and getting diabetes. They will need insulin, possibly taking it from someone who was born with the disability/ disease (i see it as both. My father had diabetes, he became blind lost feeling in his feet and finger tips and has open wounds all over his body. I was the one caring for him at a very young age)
It also doesn’t care about your size nor age. My 9 year old at the time got type 1 diabetes
Frfr 😂😂😂
I was way overweight when I was diagnosed.
There are already laws that require hallways and elevators to be large enough for wheelchairs. If your are larger than a wheelchair, that is not the hotel’s fault.
fact
I'm sorry but as an introvert, no arm seats is a nightmare. I don't want my arms to be touching a stranger 🙃
Right?
And I have social anxiety and autism, I do not like being touched, let alone be8ng trapped with someone touching me for hours, i have literal medical issues that i cannot control. I cannot eat less or work out more to "lose" my socail anxiety or autism yet they don't care. How do they expect us "skinny people" to care about them when they are SO hostile to us?..
I remember being a teenager, going swimming with my older sister s d these 2 fat girls called us skinny sluts, we both had ED'S i had binging and purging and my sister had ana (I'm ace, and still a virgin to this day)
We did nothing but walk by them
i know!!!
Good for you! I agree! If I am such a gluttonous pig? I should be put down.
Jepp me too
Same.
The plus size casket business is going to be booming
That's an interesting thought. I wonder if you have to be cremated or buy a special plot at certain weights? Cemetary burial plots are only so big....
XD, but true !!!
This made me picture the pallbearers and mannn that would be messed up. Get those men a cart with wheels.
I saw a video on those types of caskets. Two people can go in them. I can't imagine the price! What about the size of the grave!? 🤔
Cremation might be easier. But how do they fit them in the crematory device....?
SKIP FAT ACTIVISTS.
“To infinity and beyond” is an extra funny clip when you realize that “infini-fat” is an actual term in the fat activism community.
BE HEALTHY SERIOUSLY, 😉😉😉😇😊😇😇
Amazing 😂😂😂
Funny how some people are so arrogant to think that the world should change and revolve around them rather than them adapting to the world. 🤦🏽♂️
Tbf they are creating a gravitational orbit around themselves
If fat activists were actively being activists there would be a huge decline in the need for fat activists . I mean the root word is ACTIVE
Nail it 😂😂
@@Omie4425 fat activism is the only form of activism that doesn't require activity. Just a tiktok account and a complaint list 🤣🤣 They're out here holding virtual marches 🤣🤣🤣
Clever 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏽
ditto fat movement
@@boosqueezy2418 The only movement that sits still most of the time 🤣🤣
Being a petite woman myself I actually find it’s harder to find clothes that fit me because I’m so short and it seems that it’s becoming harder to find smaller clothes in my personal experience because “Thick” is in now.
The “thick” thing is the becoming mildly confusing to me, not because of it in and of itself, but because it seems that as time goes on, the direction seems to gradually be heading to proportionally “baboon” asses and/or morbidly obese people, as if the middle grounds just end up becoming irrelevant.
I kinda know the struggle. Although my struggle is a bit different.
Me and my best friend struggle finding hats, for opposite reasons. I have a big head. She has a small head. She needs kid sized hats and I'm pretty much stuck with hats meant for men. Most women's hats stop at 22 1/4 inches/57 cm. I need at least 23 inches or 59cm. I have managed to go through an entire hat store on vacation and still leave empty handed. The poor store clerk was trying so hard to find one that fit but had to admit defeat.
This lol I lost a to. Of weight over the years and now especially bargain shopping or thrifting everything is larges and mediums. Smalls can be too big too.
Yes!!!! And it's like all sizes are vanity sizes now, there's no way a size 6 was this big when I was in highschool.
Do you have to shop in the kids section
The girl claiming to have healthy levels of cholesterol and blood pressure at 26 years old. 100% she won't be saying that at the ripe old age of 35 if she doesn't lose weight.
I give her to 30 because chances are she didn’t do the things in her teens that most people do which increases the time before failure.
i was gonna write that same thing
@@renees1211 100%! The warranty on your body expires at 30 😂 after that, everything catches up to you
Most elevators in hotels are large enough to carry ten people, and have a weight limit of something like 1.8 tons.
If you can't fit in a space that's big enough for ten average people, and has the lifting capacity to carry two fully grown Rhinos, then maybe you should consider using the stairs.
Who knows, you might get a little healthier if you do....
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It a fat person can't fit in the elevator, I doubt the stairs would be wide enough, just saying.
I doubt they can do it. Try carrying 200 or 300 pounds up the stairs.
@@dawnelder9046
200lbs is easy but 300lbs when you should be below 200lbs . . . ya I’ve yet to see a 300 pounder taking the stairs.
@@ejrillingI do a lot especially now. I weight right at like 293. I am also trying to lose weight I'm 5'9" and it does hurt my back really bad. Even though I'm still ok at walking long distance and my cardio is good the weight still takes its toll on me.
I went through a deep depression for a long time and didn't care about myself but now I'm working on it and trying to get back to where I was. I've lost 22lbs so far my wife started last year around February and lost 130. She did have surgery but she lost 85 before hand in like 6 or 7 months which is incredible to me.
They wouldn't make it up one flight.😅
As far as airline fare it takes more fuel to move all that fat around at 37,000 feet. That’s why it’s a lot less money to mail a $10,000 ring than it is to mail a refrigerator.
The last one making all the demands is how the future in Wall-E first came about.
I have had anemia for years and had to have a transfusion, the amount of varying symptoms you can get with it is crazy. It also affects my mental health too. People don’t realise how serious anemia can be, if it gets too low it can kill you.
Its so tiring that the fativists exist. 🤦♀️
They mirror the anorexic issues as an opposite. They just want to ignore that.
What gets me the most is the activists crying and screaming for not having to pay for 2 plane seats, wider hallways, and whatever else I've missed this week. 😩
“How come no one ever complains about people who are too skinny!?” We do, all the time. It was literally always the response to the heroin chic models in the 90s. I keep having Eugenia Cooney pop up in my feed and I don’t want to see it, someone slowly turning off their own lights in either direction.
@TheBaumcm I am so tired of the Eugenia pop ups in my feeds. I can't even search niche hobbies in peace with out that girl popping up!!
As someone who works at a hotel, NO
What on earth😂😂😂 it’s the entitlement and audacity for me.
Exactly, they want everyone to enable them!
The people in countries that are supposedly "dying from hunger" have no use for the unnatural foods of the west.
Not even the West has use for shitty food.
You can eat perfectly normal food and still be fat. Too many calories is too many calories.
@@TheBaumcm keep telling yourselves that. The people of the world who do not consume the type of processed sugar laden foods that is consumed in America do not have obesity issues. Quite possibly, the creator in her magnificence didn't make the natural foods that she provides for us addictive so we can't stop eating. That's why she made sure there was a season for everything.
@@TheBaumcmthe government could put restrictions on food to make obesity at least a bit less prevalent, but if they were to they would lose that sweet sweet lobbying money from companies like pepsico who want to keep people addicted and lining their pockets
@@mexme-me-2are you really trying to say that no other country had obese people and that you can't get far from eating perfectly fine healthy food in huge quantities?
Just look up the stats on obesity and overweightness in the rest of the world and you would be surprised.
I don't understand how people actually believe what you do if you over indulge in healthy food and are still eating a shit ton of calories you will get fat.
But what gets me even more is these ignorant people that say people have a thing called set weight. Where your body wants to be a certain weight and that it's genetics that make you fat. That you could workout everyday eat healthy not eat to many calories and all around have a good healthy lifestyle and you will still get to that "set point weight" even if it's 450lbs.
They say it's a gene that we have from famine and out bodies store way more than it needs to, to not go into starvation mode.
If that was true then why aren't there any obese people in 3rd world countries that don't have access to that amount of even healthy foods. Why aren't people born obese and never get rid of it no matter how they eat?
Your low iron story is so similar to mine and honestly I can't wait to leave Canada. I'm doing a PhD and my supervisor is based in Hamilton so here I am. When I tell you I was SHOCKED at the state of healthcare here. I had to BEG for a blood test for almost a year and then when I asked for a copy of the results they acted like I was asking for state secrets! They literally gaslight you unless/until you're on death's door. Never experienced anything like that and it makes me wonder about the care the majority of Canadians are getting.
I live in BC and absolutely every lab test I have ever had is available for me to review or download online. Also anytime I want to have something checked I just have to ask for it. On top of that, I have an autoimmune disease, so for the past 25 years, I have had a standing order with the labs to have blood tests every 4 months, so I just have to walk in and get it done (most of the time I forget, but that's another story.)
I am aware though of the deplorable state of healthcare in Ontario. It's the worst in the country by far.
@@renees1211This is great and honestly I'm relieved to hear that it's a better situation in other provinces.
Healthcare in Canada is abhorrent. I finally found a doctor that took my health concerns seriously . . . . After 20 years!
I live in los angeles, and honestly our country is not the best but if i ask for medical records/copies they’ll just print out for me on the spot lol no cost
@@renees1211whats wrong in Ontario? Isn't that a big city? Kinda makes sense the Healthcare would be kinda better where there aren't thousands even millions of people.
Too many in society have no shame. You can witness that every time you turn on the TV, look at the news or even look out of your window. Slobs and greed are glorified as does being crude.
I worked in a hotel in the UK as my first job. many of the tourists from the US were absolute units to put it lightly yet the chairs in our dinning room still held them and those guests never complained. Either Jaebae has sat on some dodgy chairs or she really is that entitled
Who knew that eating endless quantities of junk food could give one such a sense of entitlement.
I'm 58, post-menopausal, and on several meds that cause weight gain or slow metabolism. I have fibro/ME/CFS which causes debilitating pain if I overdo it even a little bit. I try to walk my dog as often as I can, take the bus and walk everywhere, and try to eat only fresh unprocessed foods. I'm 25 pounds overweight, and I'm not losing a milligram. I know exactly why I weigh as much as I do, and I don't blame anyone. Sometimes life is just like that. ETA: I forgot to mention that my country is at war - so yeah - stress.
Ignorance is TRULY bliss and I don't think the age of 50 is going to be in their future... the saying live and let die seems to fit nicely in this context.
I just hate stupid identity doesn't ever figure into my thoughts. I was raised in the 80s and 90s and taught not to care about identity and it's really frustrating that all of these people are obsessed with identity now. The people who taught me not to care are obsessed with it. The only time I care what you look like is when I'm single and it's Friday night. Then all that matters to me is attractive to me and interested in me. I'm not looking for anything but I wouldn't say no to you if you ask me out and we are definitely not the same type of people.
Not trying to be funny but that woman is putting way too much energy and attention into hotels accommodating plus size women and what not by getting higher capacity beds, chairs, etc. Instead of putting that energy and focus into things like that, she should divert that focus and energy towards living a healthier lifestyle (exercise and better diet) so things such as airline travel and hotel lodging would not be an issue....Smh...
She could also just ask for more disability accessible hotel rooms as they have them available and have MANY of the amenities that she is asking for
Zany glasses. Septum piercing. Blue hair. It's a uniform of the woke.
Yes... yes.... I wonder why.... It's some kind of. "uniform".
Or any unnatural hair, not just blue
yep! and automatically invalidates their opinions
I’m a 54 year old woman who suffered a significant injury 3 years ago. It was an injury that-despite a good surgeon, a successful surgery and a successful regimen of
PT-changed my day to day existence as I went from being an individual who was taking enough steps through the daily walking of my dog with friends and doing the basic chores needed (as determined by me, lol) to keep our home reasonably clean and functional to equal a total distance of
10+ miles per day…to becoming someone who struggles with any of that now. I still clock in enough steps to stay “fit” but each one gets harder to take as the day progresses. I’m not calling attention to how very much I’ve “suffered”and been a victim…I’m sharing something that happened to me that changed my life. With the reduction of mobility and activity I’ve also reduced my caloric intake. I don’t need to gain a bunch of “hard to lose” (can anyone say “menopause” 😂) weight on top of dealing with mobility issues and chronic pain. My organs certainly don’t need the added strain!
I grew up with most of the women in my life being somewhat overweight to very much so. I loved these women and I still do. I think they’re beautiful. But the few who are with me still and haven’t lost that weight don’t feel very healthy. As the years pass the body slows. So a morbidly obese person of 25-26 years may still have a blood pressure reading within the “normal” range. Same with cholesterol and other heart related issues as well as type two diabetes. But time passes and these conditions will make themselves known. 😢
I thought the body positivity movement was intended to help folks who are addicted to food and have poor eating habits to realize that they’re worth the EFFORT it takes to become healthier in general and that NOT being morbidly obese was the single biggest thing to focus on that could almost guarantee better health. Not instantly. But within a six month timeframe? With consistency? That by just going on a daily brisk walk? The end results are astonishing!! I thought the “movement’s” mission was to help folks realize that they mattered, that they’re worth the time and the love it takes to give yourself such a gift. Guess I got it all wrong. I’m 5’5” and, at one point in my life I weighed 219 pounds. I wasn’t “super morbidly” obese but I didn’t feel good, I didn’t look good, I had little energy, I didn’t like myself…but I had two young daughters who looked to me. That did motivate me. So…we adopted a young dog from the Humane Society (another thing near and dear to my heart!!) and we took him on walks. A dogs weight is very much involved in their general health after all!! And it was fun. Work, yes. But it was fun work. The whole family benefited.
Within six months I had dropped over 40 pounds. More importantly I felt good. And I continued to lose the weight. So I know how it feels. I know it’s not easy, but most things worth doing aren’t easy. I also know it can be done.
Thanks for a great video. You look fabulous!! Hope you had loads of good times with your family!! Please take care and I look forward to the next one!🙏🏼🫶🏼🙂
I was completely immobile for nearly a year from a planned demolition on a deformity in both my legs. You don't fully appreciate your body and its mobility until its gone. I'm thankful every single day I can simply walk to the other side of the room.
That's awesome that you found an enjoyable way to get exercise! For you and the dog 🐕
You hit on two very important points. Food can be an addiction, usually used to cope with emotions which then spirals out of control. Two, it takes effort to lose weight, at least more effort than you were putting in before, and if you don’t think you’re worth that effort, it won’t get done, much as my husband gets home tired as jokes that ai should work out for him. Body positivity was meant to be for people who had things they couldn’t change, scars, illness, height, anything that is a trait that you have no control over. It was never meant to be about weight in this sense, although I fully believe until you can learn to love and be kind to yourself, you’ll never get there.
I'm sorry you're going through that and glad you have the strength to keep pushing on! I wish the body positivity was what you thought it was.
When they were doing your bloodwork they may not have even been testing your iron. Typically the labs doctors order are CBC (complete blood count ) and BMP (basic metabolic panel). Those don’t include iron. Iron is a separate additional panel.
I didn’t know this! Thank you for this information!!!
"Life's tough get a helmet" EXCUSE ME those are the words of Will Friedle, aka Eric from Boy Meets World!
8:30 Slim pickings?! I lost 60lbs (10 more to go) and whenever I go out to look at clothing, the cutest things are in the overweight section. I kid you not. Maybe that lady needs to shop at other places. 😂
Same. Due to vanity sizing, I am now a size 2. I am about the same size, if not slightly larger as I was when I was an 8 in the 90s. I can never find anything. This is out of control.
Not her complaining about slim picking yet whenever I go to the store all that is left is plus size and xs 😂
To be fair - look at her face piercings and hair coloring…not sure I like her taste anyways lol
That second tik tok is so depressing oh my goodness no.
My stepsister died before her 50th birthday of a massive heart attack. She swore she was healthy even though she was grossly overweight.
Her younger sister found her, an experience she will never forget and a last memory of a loved one that will forever haunt her.
Jae Bae isn’t honest about her need for oxygen. Jae don’t go to Japan. The hallways and spaces are just smaller.
I just said the same thing. Can you imagine her whining about no accommodations at a capsule hotel? 🤣
Your face at 3:00 has me dead. Lol i couldn't believe it either lol. Once i saw the blue hair, i knew some stupidness was coming😂
This video is so funny !!!! The infinity and beyond Toy Story scene was my favourite 😂😂😂
I work in a hospital and obesity is one of the very worst things you can ever do to yourself. The causes of obesity, bad diet and lack of exercise, account for about 85% of the reasons people are in the hospital. We are fighting a losing war. And hospital workers are actually leaving their careers due to the difficulties of dealing with morbidly obese patients.
When I got diagnosed with low iron anemia, it was the day after my PCP did a routine blood draw. My test results came back so low, that she was repeatedly calling me (I couldn't answer because I was at work), and then she was calling my emergency contacts (my parents). When I got the messages I called her back. She had left me her personal cell phone number with orders to call it. She told me my Iron was very low and that I needed to get to the hospital. I told her I would go after work. She was ADAMANT that I go NOW! When my fiancé (now husband) and I got to the hospital, the ER was waiting. They re-ran the blood tests and were surprised I was still conscious. I spent a week there getting transfusions.
You not being able to fit into the cute smaller outfits is a YOU problem. I do agree that it’s annoying when customers do that though, cause then the employees have to reorganize crap for no reason.
Love your videos and your sense of humor!
Yes, I am overweight. However, I am also working to lose that weight. Fifteen years ago after becoming disabled a questionable doctor prescribed a medication that caused me to not only gain nearly 80 pounds, but gave me congestive heart failure. Not all overweight people are overweight due to their own behaviour. Being not only overweight, but disabled and often unable to even get out of bed makes it difficult to lose weight. Notice, I said difficult, not impossible. I've lost about half of the weight I need to lose, I'll keep trying. In the meantime, don't judge anyone unless you've walked in their shoes, rode in their wheelchair, etc.
I don’t judge anyone who is overweight for being overweight. You never know where someone’s journey began. However, I am going to judge someone who is morbidly obese who is telling me that if I work out, for myself, to be healthier and mentally clearer, then I am fatphobic.
@@TheBaumcm I totally agree.
There is a difference between doing your best and still being overweight, and telling anyone that will listen that fat is beautiful and you don't need to change anything to be healthy.
I'm 58, post-menopausal, and on several meds that cause weight gain or slow metabolism. I have fibro/ME/CFS which causes debilitating pain if I overdo it even a little bit. I try to walk my dog as often as I can, take the bus and walk everywhere, and try to eat only fresh unprocessed foods. I'm 25 pounds overweight, and I'm not losing a milligram. I know exactly why I weigh as much as I do, and I don't blame anyone. Sometimes life is just like that.
Beautifully said. Keep fighting the good fight my sister in arms. You're still out there, making doing your best, that's all that matters. 💜💜
I'm just not flying again. I can't think of anywhere I need to go bad enough to take a chance on a Karen making us deplane...or having no arm on the chair. Nope.
6X and beyond......what, she wants them to provide circus-sized tent robes!?!?
I went to my (old) doctor for severe 10/10 abdominal pain where I would be in the fetal position sweating, crying, and being sick from the pain. She said "sounds like heartburn". It was not. I no longer have a gallbladder.
I had that too although I’d say it started at a 2 for me (around a 5 for the average person) and would ramp up in waves. Not gallbladder but they said it was gastritis as nothing popped up on the ultrasound. I have it recur during stress or if I eat certain foods but never as bad as that. I would suggest next time going to your ER.
@@TheBaumcm have they checked your gallbladder for sure?
I went to the ER later that day after I saw my doctor and they told me it was my crazy gallbladder. For me it would always wake me up in the middle of the night with slow radiating pain, and get to a 10/10. I've given birth. It was worse pain than that!
@@TheBaumcm The ER will tell you that you are fat, and send you home. It happened to my mom many times, and it turned out that she had a rare syndrome that they don't see very often. By the time she was diagnosed, she only had about a year to live.
They always miss the most important fact when it comes to comparing actual disabilities or "marginalization" to themselves. They're ailments are self-inflicted and changeable.
So if they care about your health, they don't care about you........??
Do these people listen to themselves at all lmao
Yeah that doesn't have any sense for me.
Ah, the old "if you were really my friend/if you really loved me you wouldn't criticize me" chestnut.
@@fibanocci314these people were coddled to much and told they were special flowers and that they were perfect the way they are and never let others tell them any different. Even if it's your family friends or Dr that are trying to help you.
“I have radical opinions outfit”😂😂😂😂
Hey! Candace Owens stole that quote from boy meets world. That was my yearbook quote 😂😂😂😂😂
It’s the slim shady instrumental for me 😂
You cannot be chunky and work out every day unless the work out is nothing and the diet doesn’t get changed. I have a friend who said he could lose weight just doing a few push-ups every day…. Very intelligent to get the records for yourself. Most doctors do seem to want to wait until we are really hurt. It’s so important to listen to your body and keep seeking help.
You can if you are still eating more than what the workout burns. Many people are not comfortable pushing themselves, myself included, so their workout might not be what they need. It is only in the last year and a half of hitting the gym that I have learned how to gauge where my limits really are and when I need to throw in the towel. Also, your body can cardio adapt, so if you are doing the same thing every day, your body will cut off other behaviors, like fidgeting, and because you are more oxygen efficient, your body burns fewer calories than before for the same thing.
your friend losing weight from just doing a few push ups a day is almost certainly lying, a push up burns like 1 calorie. he absolutely had to change his diet as well
Laws Jesus, I'm influenced to never eat again after seeing this video. 🤦♂😱😱😂😂
We need fat shaming back. It's not even about body images anymore. This is ridiculous
Just shame in general. All kinds.
I’m here for it. I do not abide this.
Intentionally making people feel like shit for an unfortunate circumstance is just tasteless and counterproductive. That doesn’t mean we have to act like being absurdly overweight is a good thing
Like what is nuance to people nowadays
The problem is that half the weight problems are gluttony. The other half are undiagnosed food allergies.
That happened to me. My weight went up and down 30lbs for years. It only stopped when I was finally given the truth about being allergic to milk. I eat twice as much now as I ever did as a fat person.
So, abusing people will backfire. The gluttons will just get more isolated and defensive.
But, the unfortunate bastards with the allergies will end up with eating disorders, PTSD, and no weight loss. They will continue to wreck their health trying to conform, under the pressure of the shame, without being told about their allergy.
The Elites know this as they poisen our food, and weaponize blame agaisnt us. Think about it.
Fat shaming doesn't work. They'll just get depressed and eat more.
That attitude where the bf is concerned about her health reminds me of how my ex-gf would act if I mentioned concerns about her ongoing Adderall abuse. These people are just looking for any excuse to not change.
I'm 51 and my cholesterol was borderline high and I was recommended to shed some weight. I shed the weight and my cholesterol level was back to normal. Oh, and now I feel so much better. It's not that difficult to understand. It's easier to overindulge. That's why they push fat acceptance.
Some people look at “working out” as the end all be all…even more important is the food you eat…you can’t out exercise a bad diet.
My half sister is morbidly obese (about 5'2" over 400lbs. Probably closer to 500 now. I haven't seen her in ten years) and about ten years ago, she was starting to lose weight and had lost like fifty pounds. Somewhere along the way, she just stopped and I don't know why. I do know the FAs started getting into her head, even back then. She was fine the way she was. It was society's problem.
She also had the audacity to compare our disabilities. I have a very jacked up spine and can barely walk due to a congenital spinal defect (I'm 40. The problems really kicked in at age 38). She has bad knees and COPD and is on oxygen nearly all day, and can "barely walk."
She got pissed at me when I said her disability can be made a lot better with weight loss.
I don't know what to do. I'm pretty sure one day her 22 year old son is going to go by for a visit and find her gone. We aren't spring chickens anymore.
She will hang up on me if I bring it up and I live across the country so it's not like I can just stop by and force a talk about it.
I'm at a loss. THANKS FAT ACTIVISTS. I could have had a sister as thin as me by this point, but y'all had to open your mouths and be a victim.
I even considered paying for a cameo from Dr. Now, but I think it's a lost cause at this point.
I'm not healthy because I smoke and drink too much caffeine and sugar. I also don't eat that healthy because I'm trying to gain weight and get jacked and can't eat a lot.
I hate the phobic label . We not scared of gay or fat ppl . Sometimes when they’re obnoxious they make
Me uncomfortable like anyone else
I SERIOUSLY wish you all would stop saying that. That's not what it means andnyiu know it 🤦🏽♂️
I feel sad for these people. I used to tell myself the same lies. That there was nothing wrong with being fat. I was lucky to wake up in time and that the most I dealt with was fatigue, high blood pressure, and heavy periods.
I went to my son's destination wedding several years ago. My weight then was 125lbs. As a fibromyalgia sufferer i was intensely uncomfortable in a very narrow seat wedged between 2 other people. It had nothing to do with my weight.
This Karen -- you had it right-- is another pathetic example of self centered people who want the world to dance around them and cater to their insanity and dysfunction
So glad you found out about your health issue and have become an advocate for your health. Good job 😊
Idk what's going on today but I'm seeing so many videos highlighting people who live in victim mode.... As if those women are the only people that experience stress making ends meet, racism and difficulties in life... Pleeeease....
Literally, stress eating is a bad habit but also still a choice being made. Just because they are unconscious or choosing to ignore that doesn't make it any less of a choice.
So the person who spoke in relation to a scientific study is the one you have a problem with.
@mexme-me-2:
She stated that diets that work for white women don't work as well for black women. The conclusion, that the reason for that is racism had been made by her, or so it seemed.
Moreover, I'd love to see the study she based her argument on.
@@zoep.2891 that's not what she said. Also the study is legitimate so if you really want to find it, it's just a Google search away.
@@zoep.2891 and that is a fact. Diets that work for white women do not work for black women in the same context because the sociopolitical atmosphere that the black women exist in that also impact their health and weight, do not impact white women. How is that hard to understand? Again I must repeat, she was speaking in relation to an actual study, not her own opinion.
12:32 I’ve never thought about any of those plus size amenities she named. I’m not skinny … but I guess I’m also not big enough to experience these issues 🤔🙄
I'm 36, always had such heavy periods that I needed 4 blood transfusions. I found out this year that because my periods were always so heavy, I started menopause at 34 and I am now post-menopause at 36. Iron is so important my friend.
PCOS?
The big girl always sounds like she's reading off a lunatic script. I hate the mobility loss i have right now but can't fathom how she can deal with hers.
I had the exact same thing happened to me... Always freezing, exhausted 24/7, physicals showed nothing wrong except boarder line high blood pressure, ate Ice like it was candy... heavy cycles...This went on for 5 years. Finally, last year I was tested for low iron.. Same dangerously low counts on all the labs tested... I went through 4 months of Iron infusions... Last one was in January.. I've not felt this good in years... Except, now I'm enjoying the meno years.... ugh... But, having energy is wonderful...
Just found your channel today.. Im binge listening at work... You're Awesome.. Thank you for sharing common sense thoughts on today's societal ridiculous 'norms'...
I work for a shopping centre. I am going to inflate our hallways and burrow a larger hole for lifts right now.
I work at a hotel in Canada. We would laugh at anyone of any size demanding this absurd shit
TikTok makes me laugh. Imagine walking past someone's window and they're having these invisible discussions with themselves. lmao
that jaebae girl was clearly never bullied enough in school
“Slim pickings” for plus sized people and normal sized people hide our sizes in the plus sized clothes? I thought the reason I can only find XXL was because of fat acceptance becoming normal. Thanks for the tip. Now I know I should actually be looking in XXL Sizes to find size 4! I’ll use that strategy next time I’m thinking, “where do normal sized people get clothes from anymore?” I say “normal” because I don’t see how you get obese WITHOUT putting extra effort into eating junk and not exercising. It’s the same thing with extreme body builders. Their muscle mass isn’t the norm. They go to extremes with exercise and a special diet to reach that goal. You’ve really got to WORK to get there, just like obesity. 🤷🏻♀️
Look, I get it in this image conscious world as an older gay man, where I would never dream of fat-shaming anyone, but this has gone way too far - we see young teenage gay men with eating disorders and now they are being told to go in the opposite direction (to become fat) in order to be accepted - this has to stop
The only ones fooled are themselves. They are the ones whose lives are in danger.
We really need to start difrwntiating between fat and obese. Most people would call me fat, but I am obese. I'm 5'10" 240lbs.
300 pounds is morbidly obese. Not fat.
Depends on what it is and how tall you are. If it's muscle then technically they could fall under morbidly obese but we all know they arent.
@fordshojoe8080 even at 6ft 8in, being 300lbs would be obese. Maybe, if it was muscle, you could argue that it can be a healthy range, but even having too much muscle mass can cause serious issues
Omg!! These people have no respect for themselves. 😒🙄🤦♀️. We have shared Healthcare burden, so yes you do owe us your health. Because of fat people costs are skyrocketing more than ever. I wonder if Jae Bae plans on funding the construction of new hallways and all the new adjustments that she requires!! 😂 God forbid she does any "work" on herself. So idiotic.
I'm Swedish but I live in Japan and for the most part, doctors here don't really tell you anything. I'm currently pregnant with my first child and was given a form to fill out (one of many) where they asked me if I wanted to be informed if there were any problems (healthwise) with me and/or the baby or if I'd prefer to have them keep me in the dark. The same form stated that even if I wanted the information, there is a possibility that I might not get it and that it's at the sole discretion of my treating physician.
In other words; me or my baby could be dying and my doctor could choose to not tell me anything at all about it if he determines that that is the best action. My midwife was amazed at how well-read I am about both my pregnancy and pregnancies in general, as well as childbirth (especially for a first-time mother) and this is the exact reason why (well, the main reason anyway).
I know that Japan might be a bit on the extreme side in this regard (I don't think this would fly in my own country), but I don't for a second doubt that even Western doctors leave a lot of information out (especially these days when everything is -ist or -phobic). It's on you to take your own health into your own hands and stop outsourcing it to someone who probably doesn't care either way. If you're morbidly obese and your doctor tells you that you're healthy and fit as a fiddle, that should be a major red flag.
In regard to travel-Karen; I'm not plus size but I have to agree with her that airplane-seats need to be bigger. Anyone above the size of a toddler could probably agree with that. Everything else though is a her-problem, not an all-of-us-problem.
I’d have had no issue on my last flight, and no not toddler sized, if my neighbor wasn’t supersized and encroaching on my seat. I kept getting my arm whacked by the cart because I had to lean out. They should be required to purchase two seats.
If you want the hosts to offer so many extra things for you, you also must be willing to pay extra. Fair is fair.
Yoooooo I was going crazy hearing that damn line about “travellers of all sizes and abilities” 🙄🙄🙄 and that Toy Story edit was needed 😂😂😂 but damn really untitled, no business is going to do all of that for you Jae go eat a damn salad and work out and navigate the world better then being sooo fucking untitled 🙄🙄🙄
Found your channel because of Alan Roberts' review of this video. I'm definitely going to be checking out more of your videos.
I think a lot of people just don’t understand nutrition.
People are overweight and under nourished because they have never learnt that sugar ( refined carbs) and fat, and too much salt make you fat. Real food doesn’t.
Sodas, like Coca Cola, Fanta etc, are full of high fructose corn syrup … very refined carbs which turn to fat if you don’t use the calories.
It’s a shame.
But thanks!
I think I know what my new job will be! A nutrionist$
Neither sugar, fat or salt make you fat alone. Salt is required for a proper balance as is potassium to help run the sodium potassium pump in the cells (why salt makes you retain water not fat). Your brain runs on the simplest sugar there is, glucose, as do all of your muscles, including heart, ones responsible for peristalsis in the digestive system, and eyes. Fat is essential for absorption, storage and use of certain fat soluble vitamins, like D and A for calcium deposit in bones. You can have as much refined sugar as you like, provided your body tolerates it. The problem is that it comes with no added nutrient value so if someone were to only consume sugar, they would become vitamin deficient pretty quickly. That is why a diversified menu is ideal. I have eaten dessert every day for the last two years, sometimes twice. I also work out and select it in relation to my macronutrient distribution to ensure I also get enough protein. I lost 45 pounds eating dessert and pizza but not the cardboard versions, just smaller portions or better proportions of macros.
Just found your channel! I love it! So funny! Subscribed!
Yeah I've had a heart murmur for years. I thought it went away until I read my after visit summary recently.
Always just ask for a full blood and hormone panel and then go home and research
If you get the palpitations also get your thyroid checked with the full blood test not just tsh level.
Does jaybae realise that if airplane companies complies do her demands the price of the tickets will skyrocket
If you run the risk of breaking beds due to your weight, that should be a wakeup call.
During the time it takes these people to give excuses, they could use 20 pounds easily.
Diet is 80%, and working out is 20%.
When people blame their issues on others or things that have nothing to do with the issue nothing is going to change. You have given away all your power and control . That’s weird and really stupid. If you’re going to do that just live with it and shut up.
I think more expensive hotels give bigger/ thicker towels. Not every hotel like that, most is going to have standard towels. She’s so entitled.
So many people think the fish filet combo is a healthy choice because it's fish. But actually you're just eating high calorie trash that doesn't even taste good. Like girl, just do yourself a favor and buy some fish filets from kroger or whatever, google a recipe and cook it at home. It will taste *way* better and actually be good for you. Look at those calorie counts. Fish filet has hella calories in it, I'm not kidding. Also most people have good blood panels in their 20s, you're not special just because you're 26, fat, and have normal bloodwork. Bloodwork is reflective of years old data, which means it's not your health NOW, it's your health the year prior minimum.
It was not until I was 40 that my blood pressure started to shift and I was only about 50 pounds over. It was the throwing my back out when shifting in my seat that did it for me though😂. That and knee pain from previous surgeries. I just don’t like that they are telling me that I am fatphobic because I want to have a better quality of life. It’s physics, not fatphobia.
Also, food honesty is essential. It is wild, once you start looking at your calories for the day like a budget, how something with a really high value but lower nutrition becomes really unappealing because it isn’t as satisfying as the cost. Like, yeah that fish tastes good but I’m gonna feel terrible later because of all the fat and there is nowhere enough protein.
@@TheBaumcm Agreed. I can't imagine how much pain they're actually in and they're attributing it to "preexisting conditions". I was miserable at 200lb, I can honestly not imagine how much that intensifies at a 100 pounds more. Down 60 pounds give or take now and I have some decent muscle on me. It's like the pain just magically disappeared most days. Unlike some people I actually do have preexisting conditions, but I honestly do think the extra weight doesn't help anyone.
I was dislocating my knees, my hips. My leg bones were especially popping out of place. Subluxed my arm and elbow, and those actually still don't feel the same (have numb patches in them). Being out of shape and overweight is a living nightmare. If I'm fatphobic for not being about that life? Fine I'm fatphobic. I'm afraid of being useless to help myself.
Saying that wanting to lose weight is "fatphobic" is like saying that wabting to quit smoking is "tobaccophobic".
I'm speechless 😶🤯...🤣this was sooo funny 😂
Love the Candace Owens reference. Keep up the great work!!
Why would you be surprise, heavy people don't have shame? To allow yourself to harm your body and health this way, can only happen if you lack self respect! Darling, I'm surprised people would even being interested, in listening to these folks to begin with! 🤦
So, if there’s such a thing as fatphobic, then I’m going to go ahead and accuse them of being skinny phobic. I personally dont appreciate them criticizing my body and calling me names. Inclusivity should include XXS and XS but I can rarely find it, if ever. Stop your complaining and get some medical help.
Bad eating habits.
I have size 11/12 feet. I can't always find cute shoes in my size, and even if I do, they're not cute in a size 11. And I can't change that with diet and exercise. Everyone else shouldn't be allowed to wear cute shoes if I can't. I am so fed up with this footphobia.
The bigger the glasses and the shorter the bangs, the crazier you are. You see those glasses and bangs, you run men.
I love how its still fat *active* ism but thats the one thing they arent unless it comes to exercising their face muscles by talking so much gack
Why am i only discovering you now !! Ur hilarious and gorgeous !
9:04 my little sister once told me, some non-fat women love to wear men/fat women’s clothing for “fashion reasons”.