I had that problem a lot when I was younger. As I grew older (and uglier I guess), I got less hate. People say women are jealous. But from my experience, men are much worse. Tiny little men with self esteem issues.
If youre antisocial and handsome is a big problem. Because not only will men hate you women will hate you too because they will assume youre not interested in them
@@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 Very true. When I was in the Army, I had many girls tell me I had a "God Complex" due to not talking to them. I even had a Chaplain's Assistant hate me because I refused to sleep with her.
@@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 But if you're too nice, their image of you being a "player" fades which makes them dislike you. I noticed how being quiet actually works pretty well in some situations.
This is facts. Was walking in the mall once and this guy’s girl was looking at me and he insulted me and tried to start a fight with me. Shits crazy lmao
Every time I go out, I feel I have to be ready for a fight. Everyone tries to get a reaction out of me. It gets exhausting. But it’s honestly better than being invisible
For so long, I thought it was me. On god, that shit is so tiring. Sometimes I don't even feel like going outside. I had people stare at me for minutes at a time when I was out in the park with my friends. Everyone was enjoying themselves except for me, because of all the people that kept staring at me. It's worse when you dress well and if you look rich.
@@accsmart8695 Definitely bro. I can’t stand it sometimes either. I especially hate when people try and “punk you out”. At this point I take that very seriously because all I seem to get are standoffish/jealous looks and ill intent my way
@@jerryg2757 I'm glad we aren't alone bro. For so long I thought I was paranoid or some stupid shit. Worse thing is that a lot of people tend to ignore you or dismiss that it's a real problem. I've noticed that pretty much all of those guys are weak tho. I'm staring em all down if I have to (like in places where I see the same ones frequently). At some point, you'll need to command respect from the men, and the only way to get it is to be a lil agressive and assertive. On the streets, however, just ignore the punks.
@@accsmart8695 definitely bro. Yeah that whole being dismissive of your experience as an attractive person is also super annoying. I find that this comes more from friends and family. Its almost like its their underhanded way of bringing you down since they cant blatantly be rude or intrusive like a stranger.
You hit the nail on its head with this video. What is the worst for me is my close circle of friends how they are constantly searching for weakness and give passive aggressiveness towards everything I say and do.
The reason why they hate on you and despise because you are healthy , educated , intelligent, smart, and successful these people are wicked, calous , dangerous and wicked ....
I have been complimented on my looks by women and men but have also struggled with body dysmorphia. At the same time, working with men has been especially toxic. The part about the toxic boss resonates strongly. I have very few male friends and the only ones I have are secure/good looking too.
Man I relate to these "are you a handsome man" videos so much from all different creators. Most of my friends have always been girls but in my head that made me feel more effeminate than attractive. But I just refuse to accept that I may be even slightly above average in the looks department. Must be some form of deep insecurity that I have.
@@Lionel212001 "Hard to internalize compliments" is definitely something I relate to heavily. I actually ended up overcompensating for my perceived "ugliness" and went super hard into trying to get good at picking up girls. The only way to really get good at it is to get rejected a bunch of times lmao
@@Xenomorphasized That's oddly relatable. I have body dysmorphia. Was a pick up artist and quite successful at that . But, I still dreaded photos. My psychologist made me put up a profile on a dating app. They were all selfies and terrible photos, but I still ended up getting 40 good matches in the first few days. And the women I'd meet would tell me that I am way better looking than my pictures. Would get booty calls from multiple women right off the bat. Presently, I am in a relationship, and I no longer frequent dating apps. I wish I could validate myself.
@@Lionel212001 Validating myself seems like one of the hardest things in life, at least for me. I also have a weird thing with hating my own pictures, even though girls seemed to like taking them with me, even when I was in my teens. Girls who I've literally spoken to for the first time but knew through other people. It also feels like no matter how many times I get laid or receive any kind of positive affirmations I'll still find excuses to tear myself down. I wonder if I also have some kind of body dysmorphia? I've seriously been considering talking to a therapist recently too.
Jealousy is the main reason. You gotta look better than the girl, show masculine beauty. Just do you and be the best version and best looking version of yourself. Be humble though.
I get those looks of pure hatred from other dudes every single day. I'm not very social, so women end up hating me too because they assume I'm "arrogant" or "conceited" if I don't immediately kiss their asses like every other simp does. Random dudes go out of their way to be passive-aggressive, and some try to get me to lose my temper or pick fights. I'm a pretty big guy and have trained in martial arts my whole life so I can handle myself. But there's days when I don't even want to go out in public because it gets ridiculous. I'm ALWAYS being stared at, and I hate being stared at. I used to think something was wrong or defective with me when I was younger. It was hard to keep friends, and other kids would try to pick on me or make jokes about me. I didn't understand until I realized it was envy all along. Videos like this are great because we're not alone in this.
I've been told I am handsome by many people, but I never believed them. More recently I have been able to see what they are talking about. I have strangers on the street try to start stuff with me. I'm also kinda big. Now it makes more sense. I didn't have many friends as a kid, was usually excluded from parties and such and was bullied a lot. I was excluded from work functions, never included in staff photos, rarely dated, got very little sex...some adults in my life, when I was a kid, said the other kids were jealous and I didn't believe them, instead thought I was defective. Thanks for this video!
Hello to all men here ❤ I modelled extensively and had a lot going for me, opportunities and character wise. As women, we know other women utterly hate us and men become insecure. A lot of guys are nothing special to look at, so if you are handsome - look after yourself and stay protected because ugly men are often so nasty when they see you are attractive! The looks war is real and all attractive people face it. You are not paranoid for thinking this.
@@AustinWayneOfficial thank you also for all your informative videos :) I used to wonder if this is just a problem with us - however, it seems even men have such an issue with it. I am enjoying your takes on things and helping me to see attractive mens perspective as well.
Some men act like they don't notice an attractive guy when they see one-I heard plenty of men say" Oh, I can't tell if a man is attractive or not." I don't care what you say, everybody notice when somebody is attractive or not---
Best said. Happens to me every Single Day of my life dawg🤦🏽♂️ specially at work. Guys will eat bullshit and lay on the couch all day but when they see a strong handsome guy that takes care of himself they feel threatened 💀
Totally true man, but in my experience it only comes from lesser men. Men with insecurities who want what you have, and have never put in the effort into anything in their life. Not once have I ever got anything but respect from people near and above where I'm at, because you can't make it without understanding the struggle for what it takes to get there. It's not very hard to make solid connections, even if you guys are directly competing so long as you have that mutual respect and you aren't trying to snake your way up. At a certain point you'll only be surrounded by people who genuinely want the best for you, and likewise. But this only comes if you put in the work and earn that respect. Think about it this way; imagine yourself where you want to be, and a bro comes asking for genuine help, are you gonna be the guy that slams the door in his face? Chances are no, cuz people with that mindset rarely make it. Yes you will get hate, but it will only come from the 99% of losers, that last 1% is where you will find your value 👑
this is my daily life , white nights , men protect their gf from my sight , rude ugly women , stupied boss , hate from friends . ... so i decide to press on thier wounds more by new achievement . .. some people just hate the reallity of progress ... fixed mindset ppl .
Worl sabotaged me tryi g to date a girl cuz Im ilder and THEY werent 'comfortable' with it Even said, maybe in a few years iyll be ok with us Oh Ok As long as every girl i want gets fucked by everyine firat, THEN IM 'ALLOWED'
Finally someone mentions this, I got the same face rating as you and now everything makes sense so many hateful people for know reason, almost fought multiple bosses and people try and lower you because they know you are better….
But what should we do ? How do you deal with this ? I’ve had girls tell me I can get any girl I want, but then that same girl gets insecure and it says I’m intimidating. It feels nice knowing I’m not the only one, if you have any advice please throw it my way man🤘🏻
I was plagued by this slur from a young age, I was straight, always have been, but even in the 70s as a teenager I got harassed by being called gay, or " You look like a girl" My answer was " Only gay men say that". Why dont dudes leave you alone, I wasnt bothering them.
but its not always true austin. Some normies will like to stay close to handsome guys and be friends with them because they know they are popular among the girls and maybe in this case girls will notice them aswell if they are close to him
I used to have a "friend" who was way shorter than me and has more fat percentage than me by a lot, needless to mention that he has receding hairline too, very curly and shitty hair and some few white hair here and there despite only being on his early 20's. women were staring always at me especially caucasian women meanwhile he was invicible to women. you could feel the silent but still disturbing hatred toward me. once he wanted to introduce me his girlfriend I refused but he insisted so I went and guess what the one who she ended yp talking the most with a almost undinying smile on her face was no other but me, she even dared offering the meal she was eating a meal which by the way was paid by this guy I'm telling you about. when she said goodby all she did was filling my left cheek with a lot of saliva... Few months passed by and in one of those days he "wanted" to introduce me a workmate of him. i told ok. then I asked him what happened to the girl who you wanted to introduce to me and he saiid" she asked me if you were good loking and I told her no that you're just plain normal" the guy used to insist I was a "normie" eventhough I was the one getting a better treatment and attention from women...apparently he wanted me away from his female friends..
The power really lies in keeping your cool and smiling in these situations. Your high vibration and magnetic glow is merely a reflection upon these people and their unresolved shadows. You shine a big golden light upon them. You’ve done all the work on yourself and they haven’t. The master key is to shine more light through your eyes in to their soul, call them ‘my brother’ or words to that affect, smile and say I understand you’re not having the best day but don’t talk to me like that again. I wish you all the love in the world’ and then go about your business. Accomplishment = total annihilation. You won’t have justified yourself to them and it fks them up in ways you can’t imagine and you haven’t lowered yourself one bit.
Idk if they have negative feeling but same people watch me at the gym every time. I felt good when people started to watch me but now it's kinda annoying and uncomfortable. It feels like I'm a mannequin.
It's very hard to be humble and have empathy for people when you deal with this jealousy almost everywhere you go. Even in CHURCH!! I have become bitter because people hold us good-looking to a hire standard and scrutinize everything we do, every move we make looking for any flaw to play through a loud speaker so to speak. Alot of good-looking men are lonely as hell. If your older like me 44, the jealousy is even worse if you're in shape at an older age. Work place plus handsome plus women co workers? Now your dealing with simps who think any normal interaction you have with a female Co worker is you charming her and flirting despite total pan face and monotone speech. Jealous people can be dangerous. Have you ever met a jealous person who treats the person there jealous of good? Never...... Screwjealous insecure petty people who stare, and stare, and stare ,and stare, at you.. when you get the hater eyes which looks like a stomach ache plus anger, just smile as big as you can and or laugh. Cause after all its there problem, not yours
Yeah this happened to me a loooot of times, like guys become so jealous, they want to intimidate you or fight you out of no where. I practiced martial arts but i dont like fighting, I prefer to dont get into altercations with this crazy people. Sadly sometimes you cant escape and you have to Stand up for yourself. This shit crazy bro
Hes telling the truth..I've been kicked out of store too because of envy...You can lose your job or not even get one in the first place because of envy..And you have to deal with violence..
4:31 thats an advantage of being a Handsome Dude You will Straight away notice the Future prosmiscois non feminine women while feminine women will love you more when you get more attention
I know those feels. Especially when you’re in front of someone that hasn’t taken care of themselves and have completely mailed it in. Their gf starts to question why they’re with that guy. I see it often.
This video is on point. Also, when rejecting a girl the backlash is much different and I think that's because the more attractive you are, the more they fantasize about you to the point it plays in their delusion where they think we are sure to accept their approaches. I've had experiences where this happened, said no and this girl proceeded to socially bash me and unapologetically tell lies about me to her female friends.
Yeah it's true people make fun of my long hair and laugh at me they judge you for no reason I don't know why they act toxic hats off to you for putting spot light on this topic keep it up bro Jay shree Ram 🙏 May lord Ram bless you and give you strength and courage 💪🚩🙏🕉️
Brother, tell me about it! I've been pumping iron and bodybuilding since I was a teenager, and I'm almost 52 now, and still get the same s**t from men. So many men would hate me for no reason, and like you I have had problems while on the job. I came close at times to getting in fist fights while at work, but I restrained myself because I was afraid of permanently getting fired and also getting arrested. Even guys whom I thought were my good friends screwed me over on the job by badmouthing me to our superiors. And the funny thing is, I have had more problems with men who were also great looking themselves, not fat, ugly men. And I've even sensed hate from women as well! Esp after I took first place in a bodybuilding competition.
I deal with this at work. Ever since I lost 50lbs and got lean muscle now, skin care did the whole 180. Lot of coworkers switched on me lmao 😂. Fair trade, can’t be happy for my success only happy when I’m down bad
Smh, the gym thing, so damn relatable. I (kinda) got a similar story. I had a guy TURNED AWAY from me look around like 3-4 times, looking at me all weird. I kinda looked at him back like "yo wtf?". Then a massive guy saw that, and he looked me straight into my eyes for like 5 seconds, then turned away (I know that was stupid of me). He felt offended that I won the "stare battle", but in reality I was dumbfounded by him. Kid you not, guy kept trying to do it again and again across the gym like 5x. He didn't even look that bad, he was just bulky and I'm more of a lean type guy. I notice how people also get super weird when they notice that girls try to flirt with me or something. In reality, I also hate it when girls try to get my attention in the gym.
@@abel4776 I live in a pretty safe country but I get what you're saying. I'm definitely investing in self-defence training and some equipment if need be. I also go to the gym at like 3pm in a downtown area so I'm safe.
Definitely the worst thing on this list is how much women hate that you are better looking than them. As far as most women are concerned men basically not aesthetically appealing at all and their role in life is to be their medium-ugly simps who have to earn the right to interact with them. For most of them there is something satanic about a very good looking guy as you are outside of their gender-based expectations and a lot of them don't want to even interact with you as a result. It is very much a turn-off for a lot of them NOT to be the beautiful one in a relationship. It's very important to be aware of this. Keep in mind that this guy is a model who travels around the world meeting beautiful women but if you live a normal lifestyle most women will be insecure around you and distrust you. The positive side of this is that you can actually be friends with the most beautiful women and develop a better connection because out of all the men you understand what it is like to be them. Depending on where you live and your lifestyle though it is very rare to meet women like this though. You may only know one or two at a time (or probably 0!) and they will almost certainly be in a relationship when you first meet. :)
When I was a teenager, other guys would always talk trash and even hit me even in class. Now, in my late thirties, I've recently lost over 40 pounds, and other men are starting to talk shit to me again, same old garbage as when I was a teenager.
I'm a better than average looking guy for my age of 56, but I date girls in the early 20s. This causes men to stare at me with envy. Most mean no harm, but it is very noticable.
Im very short, maybe just slightly attractive face and body Still i experience this time to time especially when girls seems to be attracted to me But any signs of me beeing an attractive guy are not even near as often as the jealous-like behaviour from others
I started glowing up in my 30s, when I was younger I always nerdy and skinny and guys always treated me like a little brother. now that I started hitting the gym and dressing better Im getting all this hate from other men, even younger men. the thing you mention about guys doing these power moves on you to test you its absolutely true. Ive never had so many guys want to fight me before for absolutely no reason.
Why should i even care for them right, stoics or handsome stoics dont do this, as they only have control over themselves 🗿❤️. Always love ur content man!!! U r creating a difference in my life too, thanks alot ❤️
@AustinWayneOfficial brother, at the end of the day we are not here to Impress nobody but the most high demonic people will get jealous is all that they have it's more spiritual than just handsome looks bro we too anointed for them the reason why they look for a minute and walk away coz they can't stay in the presence of a great one
I always thought it was strange that since high school almost 40 years ago, I've had almost no close male friends. I can think of 4 guys, one who randomly accused me of going after his girlfriend, another who never wanted me to hang out with his friends in high school or college, and one just kind of disappeared. I have one left, and even he doesn't seem that interested in me anymore. I would always tell people, "For some reason, I have way more female friends than I have guy friends." It just occurred to me that they might have been jealous.
Especially when you interact with their gfs and she‘s better looking than him…. . Because she has options( and you maybe are one of them) but he doesn‘t.
@@AustinWayneOfficial Especially the masculine copers( zero female gaze) and slightly below average looking guys( cuck vibe). Tall and handsome guys are mostly chill.
@@selfish2.0 Just interactions. It’s a part of my daily job( I work as cashier). You don’t steal girls, these girls COME TO YOU. If you’re not Chad for your girl aka replaceable, this will be your fear for your whole life. If you don’t have options, it’s over. Think about it, you’re getting mogged by an average retail clerk. It’s over! Lmao!
A majority of them are competitive but aren't willing to put in the work to get to your level. You will have so many haters at work the shit is really annoying.
It is soo true , I am not a very handsome man though, I will say I am above average, but from what I can see, I feel like most handome men are the one's who are trying to convince themselves that they are hated ,
Same thing happening all the time my wrok place..on the street.. super market.. gymnasium.. library.. coffee shop.. restaurant mostly everywhere I m 100% agree with you
It's an Alpha Beta game mens always love to play, what do you expect from that. The men who have fought off the Alpha but don't want to be the next dominator like me will earn the hate for I broke their natural beloved game. How simple is it.
Guess now I know why some people talk shit about me or try to get me mad I literally barely talk in class and this kid starts talking about me I am like wtf did I do to you
That thing you said about men looking at you more than girls is true asf and i thought at first that my walk is the problem because i was struggling with my confidence in the past but the truth is like you said they hate someone more attractive than them .
how are you handling the hate man? I think some time during the last weeks I broke the treshold and now I feel like a celebrity, but not in a good way! Yesterday one fat arab guy almost hit me with his car when I crossed a GREEN light and stopped 1m in front and horned. I just looked at him and he gave me a dead stare. I mean, I'm a bit afraid someone really tries to physically harm me, which evolutionary speaking should be the case...
@AustinWayneOfficial Think I will engange a bodyguard if it continues like this, gets every day worse I do my protocols. For now, I equipped pepper spray. Maybe in Germany it's even worse cause we have like zero good looking men it's crazy, so nearly everyone gets jealous.
The trick is to make yourself less handsome. I grew out an ugly goatee. I wear regular fit jeans and plain tshirts. It's when you peacock around that you are asking for hate. Handsome men need to downplay their looks.
Guy at the gym keeps staring at me doing handstands. And every time I'm talking to a girl, he comes over to dap me up, then introduces himself to the girl I'm talking to. His energy is one of jealousy. The next time he comes to dap me up, I'm gonna say, nah bro, you good, and keep walking. Dam hater.
Yeah man i experience that 99% of men envious on me coz i have attractive face and aesthetic body men and women both are get jealous if you are attractive thanks mom
This female almost got me into problems since her husband wants the beat the shit of me. So i blocked her on facebook. My so called friend of 10 years is this insecure dude telling me to shave off my beard because i look more thuggish, when really this man can't even grow one, aside from that is very insecure of his height. I could feel it from a mile away. I wasn't always attractive when i was younger but over time i aged like wine, noticed that i got soo much attention from both sides of the coin that honestly its not worth the toss. Guys, and attractive females, work on your selves, no matter the cost, because people are naturally hardwire to envy the few, since despite having mental health issues, we are actually secretly proud. Boxing and calisthenics really improved my out look in life, making me look like Bruce lee, with my own unique face of course.
If you’re on this video that means you’re very handsome.
Thanks mom
Thx grandma. You look handsome too
Thanks mummy
im not yet :|||||
i smell BS.
I had that problem a lot when I was younger. As I grew older (and uglier I guess), I got less hate. People say women are jealous. But from my experience, men are much worse. Tiny little men with self esteem issues.
Definitely brother well 80% of dudes don’t get an ounce of female attention so if they see you getting attention they hate you automatically
For me its exactly the same. Guys hate you, women love you.
Why do you think tiny men have those issues cause women don’t like them for something they can control and men pick on them for it
Your just proving the blackpill
THIS ^
If youre antisocial and handsome is a big problem. Because not only will men hate you women will hate you too because they will assume youre not interested in them
Fr
Because they will think you’re arrogant or that you think you’re better than them if you are not social with them
@@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 Very true. When I was in the Army, I had many girls tell me I had a "God Complex" due to not talking to them. I even had a Chaplain's Assistant hate me because I refused to sleep with her.
Stop describing my life in detail
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@@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 But if you're too nice, their image of you being a "player" fades which makes them dislike you. I noticed how being quiet actually works pretty well in some situations.
This is facts. Was walking in the mall once and this guy’s girl was looking at me and he insulted me and tried to start a fight with me. Shits crazy lmao
Yeah that’s always the craziest man
He should let her go cus shes clearly a 304
@@selfish2.0 so women must let men who look at other women go to?
No only you 304 @@selfish2.0
@@abel4776 incel
Every time I go out, I feel I have to be ready for a fight. Everyone tries to get a reaction out of me. It gets exhausting. But it’s honestly better than being invisible
I will take good looks all day everyday
For so long, I thought it was me. On god, that shit is so tiring. Sometimes I don't even feel like going outside. I had people stare at me for minutes at a time when I was out in the park with my friends. Everyone was enjoying themselves except for me, because of all the people that kept staring at me. It's worse when you dress well and if you look rich.
@@accsmart8695 Definitely bro. I can’t stand it sometimes either. I especially hate when people try and “punk you out”. At this point I take that very seriously because all I seem to get are standoffish/jealous looks and ill intent my way
@@jerryg2757 I'm glad we aren't alone bro. For so long I thought I was paranoid or some stupid shit. Worse thing is that a lot of people tend to ignore you or dismiss that it's a real problem.
I've noticed that pretty much all of those guys are weak tho. I'm staring em all down if I have to (like in places where I see the same ones frequently). At some point, you'll need to command respect from the men, and the only way to get it is to be a lil agressive and assertive. On the streets, however, just ignore the punks.
@@accsmart8695 definitely bro. Yeah that whole being dismissive of your experience as an attractive person is also super annoying. I find that this comes more from friends and family. Its almost like its their underhanded way of bringing you down since they cant blatantly be rude or intrusive like a stranger.
But a handsome never gets jealous of another handsome men
Spot on brother. Men feel threatened by us, and women feel insecure bcz of us. Lots of jealousy and hidden motives
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This video is so true I expierence love from girl and hate from men this is so true
Why do women feel insecure?
LOTS of manipulation and mind games to. Love yourself is all you need to do
@@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 they got rejected by good looking guys they want
Losers hate winners, you see it everywhere
Always
That’s where the saying comes from “eat the rich”. Poor mentality.
I dont blame them since they hate me aswell bcs I get priviliges for just existing like them haha
They will always be envious of us
EVERYTIME 🤘
Put your profile pic on if you are that handsome haha
You hit the nail on its head with this video. What is the worst for me is my close circle of friends how they are constantly searching for weakness and give passive aggressiveness towards everything I say and do.
This one! 💯I finally found my people 😭🙌🏿
At work, all of my customer complaints are from straight men . 😂
Lol fr
The reason why they hate on you and despise because you are healthy , educated , intelligent, smart, and successful these people are wicked, calous , dangerous and wicked ....
I have been complimented on my looks by women and men but have also struggled with body dysmorphia. At the same time, working with men has been especially toxic. The part about the toxic boss resonates strongly. I have very few male friends and the only ones I have are secure/good looking too.
Man I relate to these "are you a handsome man" videos so much from all different creators. Most of my friends have always been girls but in my head that made me feel more effeminate than attractive. But I just refuse to accept that I may be even slightly above average in the looks department. Must be some form of deep insecurity that I have.
@@Xenomorphasized It's been hard to internalize any compliments. Similar experiences but no one showed up drunk to my house yet.
@@Lionel212001 "Hard to internalize compliments" is definitely something I relate to heavily. I actually ended up overcompensating for my perceived "ugliness" and went super hard into trying to get good at picking up girls. The only way to really get good at it is to get rejected a bunch of times lmao
@@Xenomorphasized That's oddly relatable. I have body dysmorphia. Was a pick up artist and quite successful at that .
But, I still dreaded photos. My psychologist made me put up a profile on a dating app. They were all selfies and terrible photos, but I still ended up getting 40 good matches in the first few days.
And the women I'd meet would tell me that I am way better looking than my pictures. Would get booty calls from multiple women right off the bat. Presently, I am in a relationship, and I no longer frequent dating apps. I wish I could validate myself.
@@Lionel212001 Validating myself seems like one of the hardest things in life, at least for me. I also have a weird thing with hating my own pictures, even though girls seemed to like taking them with me, even when I was in my teens. Girls who I've literally spoken to for the first time but knew through other people. It also feels like no matter how many times I get laid or receive any kind of positive affirmations I'll still find excuses to tear myself down. I wonder if I also have some kind of body dysmorphia? I've seriously been considering talking to a therapist recently too.
Jealousy is the main reason. You gotta look better than the girl, show masculine beauty. Just do you and be the best version and best looking version of yourself. Be humble though.
Always bro
I get those looks of pure hatred from other dudes every single day. I'm not very social, so women end up hating me too because they assume I'm "arrogant" or "conceited" if I don't immediately kiss their asses like every other simp does. Random dudes go out of their way to be passive-aggressive, and some try to get me to lose my temper or pick fights. I'm a pretty big guy and have trained in martial arts my whole life so I can handle myself. But there's days when I don't even want to go out in public because it gets ridiculous. I'm ALWAYS being stared at, and I hate being stared at. I used to think something was wrong or defective with me when I was younger. It was hard to keep friends, and other kids would try to pick on me or make jokes about me. I didn't understand until I realized it was envy all along. Videos like this are great because we're not alone in this.
Uhh so feel this stay up champ 🏆 💪 we got this
I've been told I am handsome by many people, but I never believed them. More recently I have been able to see what they are talking about. I have strangers on the street try to start stuff with me. I'm also kinda big. Now it makes more sense. I didn't have many friends as a kid, was usually excluded from parties and such and was bullied a lot. I was excluded from work functions, never included in staff photos, rarely dated, got very little sex...some adults in my life, when I was a kid, said the other kids were jealous and I didn't believe them, instead thought I was defective. Thanks for this video!
Hello to all men here ❤ I modelled extensively and had a lot going for me, opportunities and character wise. As women, we know other women utterly hate us and men become insecure. A lot of guys are nothing special to look at, so if you are handsome - look after yourself and stay protected because ugly men are often so nasty when they see you are attractive! The looks war is real and all attractive people face it. You are not paranoid for thinking this.
Thank you I really appreciate your perspective!!
@@AustinWayneOfficial thank you also for all your informative videos :) I used to wonder if this is just a problem with us - however, it seems even men have such an issue with it. I am enjoying your takes on things and helping me to see attractive mens perspective as well.
Some men act like they don't notice an attractive guy when they see one-I heard plenty of men say" Oh, I can't tell if a man is attractive or not." I don't care what you say, everybody notice when somebody is attractive or not---
I dont notice em cus im not into men
You don't have to be into something to tell if something is good or bad to look at-
I am extremely good looking and I cant even see it in myself, all I see is just men out there.
looks are subjective not everyone is going to notice
Best said. Happens to me every Single Day of my life dawg🤦🏽♂️ specially at work. Guys will eat bullshit and lay on the couch all day but when they see a strong handsome guy that takes care of himself they feel threatened 💀
So sad man, but always a good sign for us 🤘
Yeah thanks for the vid honestly never thought about it until way to late
Yea blame all other guys like yu even kno em
Totally true man, but in my experience it only comes from lesser men. Men with insecurities who want what you have, and have never put in the effort into anything in their life.
Not once have I ever got anything but respect from people near and above where I'm at, because you can't make it without understanding the struggle for what it takes to get there.
It's not very hard to make solid connections, even if you guys are directly competing so long as you have that mutual respect and you aren't trying to snake your way up.
At a certain point you'll only be surrounded by people who genuinely want the best for you, and likewise. But this only comes if you put in the work and earn that respect.
Think about it this way; imagine yourself where you want to be, and a bro comes asking for genuine help, are you gonna be the guy that slams the door in his face? Chances are no, cuz people with that mindset rarely make it.
Yes you will get hate, but it will only come from the 99% of losers, that last 1% is where you will find your value 👑
Valid point of view...
May I ask where you are from and field of work.
Definitely brother. Respectable men always respect us. It’s the cockroach type men who want to act disrespectful
@@GoldenThreads1 canada, engineer
this is my daily life , white nights , men protect their gf from my sight , rude ugly women , stupied boss , hate from friends .
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so i decide to press on thier wounds more by new achievement .
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some people just hate the reallity of progress ... fixed mindset ppl .
Sometimes best to roll solo. Once you’re at a certain level their low vibrational nature is just a road block
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Worl sabotaged me tryi g to date a girl cuz Im ilder and THEY werent 'comfortable' with it
Even said, maybe in a few years iyll be ok with us
Oh
Ok
As long as every girl i want gets fucked by everyine firat, THEN IM 'ALLOWED'
exactly
Finally someone mentions this, I got the same face rating as you and now everything makes sense so many hateful people for know reason, almost fought multiple bosses and people try and lower you because they know you are better….
But what should we do ? How do you deal with this ? I’ve had girls tell me I can get any girl I want, but then that same girl gets insecure and it says I’m intimidating. It feels nice knowing I’m not the only one, if you have any advice please throw it my way man🤘🏻
SO TRUE. Was called "Ghey" in college even though I am not by other boys who were just jealous.
Always like that g
Ironically those guys wouldn’t have called you gay unless they thought you were handsome. So who’s really the gay one?
@lionmachinev2 I kno i aint handsome nor am i ugly but why would i wanna be called gay
@@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 Not how it works lil bro
I was plagued by this slur from a young age, I was straight, always have been, but even in the 70s as a teenager I got harassed by being called gay, or " You look like a girl" My answer was " Only gay men say that". Why dont dudes leave you alone, I wasnt bothering them.
lit yesterday i was wondering why i dont fit with people, mainly with MEN. Austin you have changed my mind, love u!!
Love ya too bro 🤘
but its not always true austin. Some normies will like to stay close to handsome guys and be friends with them because they know they are popular among the girls and maybe in this case girls will notice them aswell if they are close to him
True as well, love ‘em still
Haters gonna hate me but I will keep shining that's what my life purpose ✨️ ❤
All we can do ❤️
The first grocery store story is too relatable. Happens all the time, especially since I’m in America rn
Americans are the worst about it
America fucking sucks
@@AustinWayneOfficial As an american, im not other americans dawgg
I used to have a "friend" who was way shorter than me and has more fat percentage than me by a lot, needless to mention that he has receding hairline too, very curly and shitty hair and some few white hair here and there despite only being on his early 20's. women were staring always at me especially caucasian women meanwhile he was invicible to women. you could feel the silent but still disturbing hatred toward me. once he wanted to introduce me his girlfriend I refused but he insisted so I went and guess what the one who she ended yp talking the most with a almost undinying smile on her face was no other but me, she even dared offering the meal she was eating a meal which by the way was paid by this guy I'm telling you about. when she said goodby all she did was filling my left cheek with a lot of saliva...
Few months passed by and in one of those days he "wanted" to introduce me a workmate of him. i told ok. then I asked him what happened to the girl who you wanted to introduce to me and he saiid" she asked me if you were good loking and I told her no that you're just plain normal" the guy used to insist I was a "normie" eventhough I was the one getting a better treatment and attention from women...apparently he wanted me away from his female friends..
Envy is the worst man. Sometimes having normal friends can be chill, just rare w out the envy aspect
Spelling correction, it should be " invisible"
The power really lies in keeping your cool and smiling in these situations. Your high vibration and magnetic glow is merely a reflection upon these people and their unresolved shadows. You shine a big golden light upon them. You’ve done all the work on yourself and they haven’t.
The master key is to shine more light through your eyes in to their soul, call them ‘my brother’ or words to that affect, smile and say I understand you’re not having the best day but don’t talk to me like that again. I wish you all the love in the world’ and then go about your business.
Accomplishment = total annihilation. You won’t have justified yourself to them and it fks them up in ways you can’t imagine and you haven’t lowered yourself one bit.
True brother ❤️
Thanks Bro
Idk if they have negative feeling but same people watch me at the gym every time. I felt good when people started to watch me but now it's kinda annoying and uncomfortable.
It feels like I'm a mannequin.
Same feeling but at the gym sometimes they’re just admiring especially if you’re more aesthetic and lifting more weight than everyone
@@AustinWayneOfficial Good to know even you feel the same. Thank you👍
It's very hard to be humble and have empathy for people when you deal with this jealousy almost everywhere you go. Even in CHURCH!! I have become bitter because people hold us good-looking to a hire standard and scrutinize everything we do, every move we make looking for any flaw to play through a loud speaker so to speak. Alot of good-looking men are lonely as hell. If your older like me 44, the jealousy is even worse if you're in shape at an older age. Work place plus handsome plus women co workers? Now your dealing with simps who think any normal interaction you have with a female Co worker is you charming her and flirting despite total pan face and monotone speech. Jealous people can be dangerous. Have you ever met a jealous person who treats the person there jealous of good? Never...... Screwjealous insecure petty people who stare, and stare, and stare ,and stare, at you.. when you get the hater eyes which looks like a stomach ache plus anger, just smile as big as you can and or laugh. Cause after all its there problem, not yours
Yeah this happened to me a loooot of times, like guys become so jealous, they want to intimidate you or fight you out of no where. I practiced martial arts but i dont like fighting, I prefer to dont get into altercations with this crazy people. Sadly sometimes you cant escape and you have to Stand up for yourself. This shit crazy bro
I used to practice naked mud wrestling let me know if you ever fancy a few lessons.
@@BobTheBuilder-l9d Sign me in!!!!
@@user-cg3xl2ym3g 😁😁😁
I grew up in a small town, guys my age would hate me without even knowing me. Once I moved to a bigger city I realised why.
Hes telling the truth..I've been kicked out of store too because of envy...You can lose your job or not even get one in the first place because of envy..And you have to deal with violence..
I come back to this video every time I experience this phenomenon of being hated just because..
4:31 thats an advantage of being a Handsome Dude
You will Straight away notice the Future prosmiscois non feminine women while feminine women will love you more when you get more attention
The real handsome is in the heart
I know those feels. Especially when you’re in front of someone that hasn’t taken care of themselves and have completely mailed it in. Their gf starts to question why they’re with that guy. I see it often.
HAHAHAHAH I RELATED SO MUCH about the "im minding my business and these str8 guys cant look away"
When I got lean and grew my hair
Dudes started calling me Korean (gay), and stuff LOL
Insecure dudes
BETTER TO BE SLANDERED AND ATTACKED THAN TO BE IGNORED...
Fr
This video is on point. Also, when rejecting a girl the backlash is much different and I think that's because the more attractive you are, the more they fantasize about you to the point it plays in their delusion where they think we are sure to accept their approaches. I've had experiences where this happened, said no and this girl proceeded to socially bash me and unapologetically tell lies about me to her female friends.
Yeah it's true people make fun of my long hair and laugh at me they judge you for no reason I don't know why they act toxic hats off to you for putting spot light on this topic keep it up bro Jay shree Ram 🙏 May lord Ram bless you and give you strength and courage 💪🚩🙏🕉️
I also got picked on a lot from bosses, probably the reason it was hard for me to keep a job probably my whole life.
I hate it I be like wtf you looking at
Brother, tell me about it! I've been pumping iron and bodybuilding since I was a teenager, and I'm almost 52 now, and still get the same s**t from men. So many men would hate me for no reason, and like you I have had problems while on the job. I came close at times to getting in fist fights while at work, but I restrained myself because I was afraid of permanently getting fired and also getting arrested. Even guys whom I thought were my good friends screwed me over on the job by badmouthing me to our superiors. And the funny thing is, I have had more problems with men who were also great looking themselves, not fat, ugly men. And I've even sensed hate from women as well! Esp after I took first place in a bodybuilding competition.
Im 50 and these clowns stll doing the hate stare on me. 😂
It’s crazy man
I deal with this at work. Ever since I lost 50lbs and got lean muscle now, skin care did the whole 180. Lot of coworkers switched on me lmao 😂. Fair trade, can’t be happy for my success only happy when I’m down bad
and the wierd thing that some ppl hate and love u in the same time .
Envy/jealousy. People like that always want to get close thinking it’ll rub off on them. Then when it doesn’t try and destroy you.
Smh, the gym thing, so damn relatable. I (kinda) got a similar story. I had a guy TURNED AWAY from me look around like 3-4 times, looking at me all weird. I kinda looked at him back like "yo wtf?". Then a massive guy saw that, and he looked me straight into my eyes for like 5 seconds, then turned away (I know that was stupid of me). He felt offended that I won the "stare battle", but in reality I was dumbfounded by him. Kid you not, guy kept trying to do it again and again across the gym like 5x. He didn't even look that bad, he was just bulky and I'm more of a lean type guy. I notice how people also get super weird when they notice that girls try to flirt with me or something. In reality, I also hate it when girls try to get my attention in the gym.
@@abel4776 I live in a pretty safe country but I get what you're saying. I'm definitely investing in self-defence training and some equipment if need be. I also go to the gym at like 3pm in a downtown area so I'm safe.
@@abel4776 Or jus workout at home
Definitely the worst thing on this list is how much women hate that you are better looking than them. As far as most women are concerned men basically not aesthetically appealing at all and their role in life is to be their medium-ugly simps who have to earn the right to interact with them. For most of them there is something satanic about a very good looking guy as you are outside of their gender-based expectations and a lot of them don't want to even interact with you as a result. It is very much a turn-off for a lot of them NOT to be the beautiful one in a relationship. It's very important to be aware of this. Keep in mind that this guy is a model who travels around the world meeting beautiful women but if you live a normal lifestyle most women will be insecure around you and distrust you.
The positive side of this is that you can actually be friends with the most beautiful women and develop a better connection because out of all the men you understand what it is like to be them. Depending on where you live and your lifestyle though it is very rare to meet women like this though. You may only know one or two at a time (or probably 0!) and they will almost certainly be in a relationship when you first meet. :)
This is very very true
This video is actually explaining so weird ass $#!T I've experienced thoughout my life
It’s trash bro
When I was a teenager, other guys would always talk trash and even hit me even in class. Now, in my late thirties, I've recently lost over 40 pounds, and other men are starting to talk shit to me again, same old garbage as when I was a teenager.
Always bro
I'm a better than average looking guy for my age of 56, but I date girls in the early 20s. This causes men to stare at me with envy. Most mean no harm, but it is very noticable.
Damn I actually thought something was wrong with me
Dude workplace is the worst, glad you were able to get out
I’m 39 and I only just started to discover this
Handsome men are the best ❤
I’m glad you covered this topic
Im very short, maybe just slightly attractive face and body
Still i experience this time to time especially when girls seems to be attracted to me
But any signs of me beeing an attractive guy are not even near as often as the jealous-like behaviour from others
I started glowing up in my 30s, when I was younger I always nerdy and skinny and guys always treated me like a little brother. now that I started hitting the gym and dressing better Im getting all this hate from other men, even younger men. the thing you mention about guys doing these power moves on you to test you its absolutely true. Ive never had so many guys want to fight me before for absolutely no reason.
It’s crazy brother. :( stay strong
Why should i even care for them right, stoics or handsome stoics dont do this, as they only have control over themselves 🗿❤️. Always love ur content man!!! U r creating a difference in my life too, thanks alot ❤️
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Everything you've said in this vid I've experienced. You spitting facts bro
This makes so much sense, always wondered why i got this specific type of hate, nice to have it explained
Bro I hear you am handsome myself and most bradas n sistas be hating of no reason
Always brother
@AustinWayneOfficial brother, at the end of the day we are not here to Impress nobody but the most high demonic people will get jealous is all that they have it's more spiritual than just handsome looks bro we too anointed for them the reason why they look for a minute and walk away coz they can't stay in the presence of a great one
I always thought it was strange that since high school almost 40 years ago, I've had almost no close male friends. I can think of 4 guys, one who randomly accused me of going after his girlfriend, another who never wanted me to hang out with his friends in high school or college, and one just kind of disappeared. I have one left, and even he doesn't seem that interested in me anymore. I would always tell people, "For some reason, I have way more female friends than I have guy friends." It just occurred to me that they might have been jealous.
Related to everything you said bro, appreciate the video!
Facts man
It creates jealousy
Fr it’s crazy
That explains what I was in a lot of fight at school sience I was kid good thing I was good at fighting I guess I was to handsome
Especially when you interact with their gfs and she‘s better looking than him…. . Because she has options( and you maybe are one of them) but he doesn‘t.
Forgot to mention that part. They get hella overprotective/aggressive for no reason 😂
@@AustinWayneOfficial Especially the masculine copers( zero female gaze) and slightly below average looking guys( cuck vibe). Tall and handsome guys are mostly chill.
@@AustinWayneOfficial They get like that cus yu talkin to they girl when there's other ones who arent taken
@@maskpandachief Thats how it goes when yu wanna try n take other guys girl. Even the tall guys get like that too
@@selfish2.0 Just interactions. It’s a part of my daily job( I work as cashier). You don’t steal girls, these girls COME TO YOU. If you’re not Chad for your girl aka replaceable, this will be your fear for your whole life. If you don’t have options, it’s over.
Think about it, you’re getting mogged by an average retail clerk. It’s over! Lmao!
This channel is so good
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Broo got bullied at young because i was the pretty boy i wanted to overlook it... But the racial stuff/appearance is strong there...
A majority of them are competitive but aren't willing to put in the work to get to your level. You will have so many haters at work the shit is really annoying.
It is soo true , I am not a very handsome man though, I will say I am above average, but from what I can see, I feel like most handome men are the one's who are trying to convince themselves that they are hated ,
Same thing happening all the time my wrok place..on the street.. super market.. gymnasium.. library.. coffee shop.. restaurant mostly everywhere
I m 100% agree with you
Austin bro always make good videos that help us in life 🙏
Love u bro, sick pfp btw
@@AustinWayneOfficial it's anime pfp 😅
hey austin you gotta remember the ogs when you blow up one day bro💪💪
It's an Alpha Beta game mens always love to play, what do you expect from that. The men who have fought off the Alpha but don't want to be the next dominator like me will earn the hate for I broke their natural beloved game. How simple is it.
Guess now I know why some people talk shit about me or try to get me mad I literally barely talk in class and this kid starts talking about me I am like wtf did I do to you
Ugly guys get more hate then handsome guys.
They get more hate then average guys even tho average guys struggle too
Bro bro 😮, this is what happens to me everyday and i was thinking about it recently damn bro thanks for this video ❤👑
That thing you said about men looking at you more than girls is true asf and i thought at first that my walk is the problem because i was struggling with my confidence in the past but the truth is like you said they hate someone more attractive than them .
Ofc brother ❤️
Y’all be safe carry bc if it doesn’t make sense why bother and overall pray to our lord Jesus Christ
how are you handling the hate man? I think some time during the last weeks I broke the treshold and now I feel like a celebrity, but not in a good way! Yesterday one fat arab guy almost hit me with his car when I crossed a GREEN light and stopped 1m in front and horned. I just looked at him and he gave me a dead stare. I mean, I'm a bit afraid someone really tries to physically harm me, which evolutionary speaking should be the case...
I’m usually just always on guard man. When I’m feeling anti social can boost anxiety in public for sure though
@AustinWayneOfficial Think I will engange a bodyguard if it continues like this, gets every day worse I do my protocols. For now, I equipped pepper spray. Maybe in Germany it's even worse cause we have like zero good looking men it's crazy, so nearly everyone gets jealous.
Everyone in the comments coping abt being hot bro wtf 😭 wish I had this problem
Facts dawgg
Even my own brother and mother hated my good looks, they bullied me.
@@johnsmith-ht3sy cap
Happened to me so many times even some fat dude called me pretty boy and that he can take me with one hand
Grrrr you like like the kind of man i'd like to take in one hand
u got me bro im watching ur channel
Yes I get this all the time it’s pathetic if only they focused on their own self improvement they might get a third of the girls I get 😂
The trick is to make yourself less handsome.
I grew out an ugly goatee.
I wear regular fit jeans and plain tshirts.
It's when you peacock around that you are asking for hate.
Handsome men need to downplay their looks.
Nah bro own it
Guy at the gym keeps staring at me doing handstands. And every time I'm talking to a girl, he comes over to dap me up, then introduces himself to the girl I'm talking to. His energy is one of jealousy. The next time he comes to dap me up, I'm gonna say, nah bro, you good, and keep walking. Dam hater.
Hate ppl like that bro
Ryan Gosling is an average looking dude
The first guy was looking at you because you were staring at him and that is rude!!!
0:08 😂😅 triggered moment I’ve been waiting for!
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Yeah man i experience that 99% of men envious on me coz i have attractive face and aesthetic body men and women both are get jealous if you are attractive thanks mom
This female almost got me into problems since her husband wants the beat the shit of me. So i blocked her on facebook. My so called friend of 10 years is this insecure dude telling me to shave off my beard because i look more thuggish, when really this man can't even grow one, aside from that is very insecure of his height. I could feel it from a mile away. I wasn't always attractive when i was younger but over time i aged like wine, noticed that i got soo much attention from both sides of the coin that honestly its not worth the toss. Guys, and attractive females, work on your selves, no matter the cost, because people are naturally hardwire to envy the few, since despite having mental health issues, we are actually secretly proud. Boxing and calisthenics really improved my out look in life, making me look like Bruce lee, with my own unique face of course.
I have this problem on festivals. Put your shirt on...
Honestly, I stopped being humble and handsome back in '95. I'm a handsome devil in their world though in mine, their all weak clowns.
Good video
And this hair style us cool
so real bro.
Ur amazing bro
Where might I find that shirt bro? It's nice