How to Be a Good Muslim Mom - 3 Top Tips
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
- What makes a good Muslim mom? Let's look at the 3 main core competencies each Muslim mom should focus on so she can become the best mom she can be insha'Allah.
Core Competencies (your unique strengths and qualities that cannot be outsources and things none does better than you)
1. Self Care
*Spiritual (prayer, du'as, dhikr, fasting, reading Qur'aan etc)
*Physical (sleep, hydration, nutrition, movement, exercise, etc)
*Mental (mood, focus, intellectual stimulation, etc)
2. Marriage
*Healthy Communication and Emotional Intelligence
*Intimacy
*Boundaries and Triggers
3. Mothering
*Looking at the child in front of you and meeting their particular needs
*Figuring out their and your love languages and communicating in those
*Figuring out your own triggers and re-mothering yourself if need be
**Focusing on building a relationship with them and a healthy attachment
There are more core competencies in a life of a Muslim mom such as home management and/or making a difference in the ummah (sadaqah jaariyah) etc. but these top 3 mentioned above are the key to figuring out how to be the best mom you can be insha'Allah according to your own unique circumstances.
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Asalamaleykum wa rahmetullahi sister I’m a single mother with a newborn watching your video JazaakAllah
Wa iyyaki! May Allah make your path easy and grant you strength and sabr. ❤️
Wa Alaykum Salam wa rahmatullah
May Allah ease your affairs
Sending you lots of love
May Allah bless your new bundle of joy
Stay grateful! ❤
May Allah grant you strength and bits of relaxation in this motherhood journey. May Allah grant you success in this life and the next.
May Allah make your journey be an easy one! May he bless you for being such a strong women, Ameen ☺️
Asalamuwalaykum warahmatAllahi wabarakatuw JazakAllah Khair! Would love to see more on background organisation, motivation and consistency tips so that parenting, marriage, hifth and homeschooling are smoother x
Asalaamu alaykum can you please make a video addressing first time mothers how to go about dealing with teenage daughters and what are some of the things as a mother that we should do for our daughter as they are beginning this new chapter of their lives. Thank you
Parenting teens has not been any different than parenting toddlers in our experience. They both require us to look at them with patience and love and care and to help them figure out their new found growth while making good choices. I'll address our philosophy on parenting teens in a new video insha'Allah.
Waalaikummusalam
Am a 25 years old single mom of an 8 years old son and I wanna be the best mom for him so I go about searching such posts to get more knowledge. Thanks for this and I wish everyone parent the best kids ❤❤
Salam Alaikum khalto❤ thank you for your videos and sharing your experiences
I just came across your channel as a 19 year old single girl and to me its very important to be educated on thesr topics
Hope that you can make a video for advices for young unmarried women
I am glad you found it beneficial! Let me know what kind of topics you would like me to discuss. It's been a while since I was a 19 year old girl ❤️
Check out my other video on how to be intentional about your future family and your vision and if you're interested, you can see some of the conversations I've done with my older kids.
May Allah bless you sister for your work
Jazakillahu kayran sister...may Allah increase you in kayr
Excellent Video maa sha Allaah Honorable Sister
Assalamu Alaikum sister..JazakAllah Khair for your beautiful content.
Question: I’m a 32 year old mother to my 2 year old first born. In the past 2 years I’ve learnt that my own childhood was not the best. I was emotionally neglected and although I don’t have any negative feelings or grudges etc Alhamdulillah…how do I heal from this? I’m struggling with health issues because I just can’t focus on physically looking after myself…can’t sleep, don’t drink enough water etc..and looking back these were the things I was yelled at for or made fun of…please guide me so I can teach my daughter how to look after herself better inshaAllah. JazakAllah Khair ❤️
TH-cam is not really the medium for giving out personal advice, however I can suggest starting small and being practical. Filling up a water bottle and keeping it nearby so you can hydrate yourself. Figuring out a bedtime routine that doesn't involve screens and is more conducive to sleep. If you can't sleep, maybe journalling so you can figure out what's on your mind. Baby steps. Your daughter already has a great mom who's concerned on how to help her and that's huge! Check out some of the self help books I recommended in another video:
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Your message resonates with me sister. Extremely hard to heal from childhood wounds and take care for ourselves. So draining and the feeling of brokenness. How are you feeling now?
May Allah grant you strength and shifa, grant success in this life and the next.
Asalamualaykum sister. I love your videos it literally hits the nail. And subhanallah I didn’t know you were a midwife I’m currently in training ☺️in shaa Allah can’t wait to apply you tips when the time comes jzk also how do you manage working as a midwife with being a present mom.❤💙
Wa alaikumu salaam - I am currently not working as a midwife but staying home in order to homeschool the kids. Hoping to get back to midwifery one day insha'Allah when the time is right 😁
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Masha’Allah. Good advice. I agree with what you said about the slipper, sometimes we Muslim moms are too quick to reprimand when our kids when they miss salah, whine about madrassa, etc. Prophet Muhammad PBUH teaches us that gentleness is the best approach and shariah-compliant punishment is a last resort.
Mashallah sister
Assalamo Aleykum Sister Salma. First time here👋🏼. Jazak’Allah Khair for this beautiful video. It helped me find some answers. Can you do a video on working mums? At times, I go through this feeling of guilt and being an incompetent mum.
may Allah make it easy for you and your family to find a balance ❤️
Walikum Salam sister
what about praying 5 times daily, can we maintain them as mothers of younger kids....
Check out the Q and A video - I addressed this question there.
Are you from Bosnia
Yes, I was born in Bosnia but left as a child and have lived in many other places since alhamdulillah.
Essellamu Alejkum Are you speak Bosnia
Essellamu alejkum sestro da te Allah nagradi na vako poucnim predavanjima MasaAllah .I ja sam iz Bosne zivim u seattle vec 16 god vamo slabo ima sestra ima da su Bosanke .Volila bi upoznat neku sestr koja je ucena .Zivis li ti u seattle ili okolini seattla .
Zivjela sam dugo godina u Kanadi, u Windsoru blizu Detroita ali sada zivim u Emiratima. Znam da ima nasih sestara u Chicagu i St Lousiu ali ne znam za Seattle. Nadam se da mozes naci srodnih dusa i u drugim dzematima ako Bog da. Ja nikada nisam imala veliki dzemat nasih zena oko mene nego sam se uklapala sa drugim dzematlijkama a nadoknadim druzenje sa nasima kada sam ljeti u Sarajevu ❤️ da ti Allah olaksa 💐
Kesi hain aap Sister