i wanna thank Sarah for being comfortable and honest enough to share her traumatic family stories, it’s very relatable to me and makes me feel good to have a influencer share the same things, you can tell most people don’t know what to say back to the things Sarah shares or reply with “that’s awful” and i relate to that a lot
Yeah, I thankfully didn't have abusive parents but my first few relationships (especially the 1st one) were abusive and the way Sarah talks about their family feels like me trying to talk about my teenage years lol. Also just, the way her and Kendahl talk about things like neurodivergence and social anxiety is so relatable and helps me feel less alone 😭💕
Omg Sarah I screeched when I heard the "not poor but I was tricked into thinking I was poor" trauma. SAME!!! I'm 26 and just found out my dad made a tonnnn of money when I was a kid as I was being told I was single handedly making us go bankrupt when I would gag at the poorly made hamburger helper bc my autistic food problems couldn't handle wormy looking ground beef lmao. It's a very strange trauma. Bc like, I grew up poor, feeling food insecure but never hungry. I had a family Xbox but felt like asking for $10 for a field trip or a book was asking for a home loan from my dad.
Sarah, your childhood trauma is so intense that it almost seems like a bit 💀💀 appreciate your honesty because a lot of what you share is relateable to many 💕
never heard anyone else say they have the trauma of growing up poor without actually having been poor and how weird that is as an adult looking back on high five for childhood trauma sarah
In the lesbian/bi story, i feel like one of the main problems is that the parents didnt let the children have platonic relationships with other kids regardless of gender. I remember always being accused of dating my friends and not being allowed sleepovers by other parents and that the most annoying shit ever
Dude it never even occurred to me that my parents might be uncomfortable with my having male friends over. Maybe because I had mostly male friends as a little kid? And they kind of just let me do my own thing as a teenager, I stayed over at boys houses numerous times for house parties, never got prodded on it once. I wonder if it's to do with being raised in an atheist household.they just trusted me and there was no shaming about identity and sexuality etc. They weren't perfect, there were a ton of misunderstandings about my neurodivergences, but I can at least say that about that.
my parents did this too. My best friend below age 10 was a girl and my sisters best friend was her younger sister and my parents were really good friends with their parents so we did tons of stuff together as a group. Our parents always made it weird asking if we (I'm a cis guy) had a crush on each other and if we'd end up married one day. As we got older it made it weirder and weirder and so I gravitated more towards hanging out with guys. We moved across country when I was 10 and in our new state I only really had guy friends. I had trouble talking to girls and making female friends or dating after that. Its funny now as an adult I find it easier to make friends and talk to women than I do men. I'm not the most masculine guy, but my parents were so sexist and also made having a platonic female friend so weird that they ruined that for me for ages. It wasn't until I was out in the working world and forced to work with a bunch of women that I started making friends with them and found myself more comfortable and welcomed then around other men.
The first story he’s totally NTA. He communicated to the roommate after she had been there for two weeks and told the roommate “she can’t move in here” and that it’s against the lease and then after that conversation shes moving her suitcases in and then he threatened to report him. The roommate was warned and the guy took action after the roommate pretty much said FU I’m going to do what I want.
I can kinda relate to the growing up poor but not actually being poor. My mom had very little money, but every weekend my grandpa (her stepdad) would pick me up and take me out restaurants/shop for new clothes, but he would never help out my mom. So I’d come home for the school week and have nothing, then live it up on the weekends. It was a weird dynamic
Why was so much of what you said so relatable, Sarah?! 😳 My single mom was genuinely lower middle class, but now she claims she never rationed food when she absolutely did . . . Even when we had friends over, so I have witnesses. I have food scarcity trauma while I'm told by my mother that I never went hungry. 👀
I’m with everyone when they’re shocked to hear more of Sarah’s childhood. I thought mine was bad 😳. I also loved the role play at the end!!! So funny!!
lmao, I was a leashed kid because I enjoyed hiding in the circular clothes racks to watch my mom freak out, so it was the child inflicting fear muahaha
I just went through a really bad end to one of my closest friendships, and hearing Morgan describe exactly how I feel towards her in my situation was so reassuring. I couldn’t have said it better myself❤️
THT FANN HERE , really enjoyed to hear morgan in another dynamic ! Thank you girls for having her P.S : i would have loved it if sarah read the a little bit slower i had a hard time following 😢
I used to play hide n seek with my parents in department stores but didn't tell anyone we were playing. So I'd just go hide in some clothes racks when they weren't paying attention. I was a little mischievous imp. My brother had to go and find me every time.
thats so wild to me...literally at the beginning of this episode i was thinking "if they just chit chatted like this for the whole time each podcast, i'd be happy" 😂
So where do I apply to be the intern that just feeds you dictionary definitions and helps with pronunciation? Because that would be my dream as an English major that has the free time 😊
1:09 my mum would give the threat of canceling Easter or Christmas when we were little and believed in Santa/Easter bunny. Since we’re home for the holiday period we make a huge mess of the house before the actual day of festivities. My mum put up a sign on the door for the Easter bunny telling him not to visit because we were naughty and hadn’t cleaned. She also would say she had Santa’s, the Easter bunny’s and the tooth fairies phone numbers to contact them. She would also sometimes say we might hurt Santa because he’ll trip over all the mess on the floor and break a leg. I remember telling her she was exaggerating and Santa would be fine and she’d keep the bit up. This was always done vaguely light heartedly but sternly and it only motivated us to clean up our messes. She never actually canceled Christmas or Easter. In fact she puts a lot of tender loving care and physical labour into keeping up the families holiday traditions. She would continue it well after we all stopped believing in mythical beings as a bit. I think there’s a way to do it correctly. My mum built lore around it and never intended on following through and always made it a kind of lighthearted thing but we still believed it when we were young.
I had to pause watching for a bit after Sarah's traumatic stories. Not that it's bad or anything, just opened up some memories. Man, I'm just happy Sarah got away from all that mess cos holy shit.
someone please upload that bit about having the financial trauma of a broke family while not even being broke. because same. all my childhood they acted like we had no money. it didn't click until I was older that we still went on holiday every year and they had good paying jobs. they just didn't wanna spend money on us and things that made us happy (no, a holiday that is exhausting and solely focused on the adults enjoyment with zero consideration what might be fun FOR A 6 YEAR OLD is not something that makes you happy as a kid)
Okay, I’ve never watched you ladies before, but I LOVE Sarah. I think we could swap some”funny” childhood stories that others just wouldn’t understand…..
Re the lesbian with the boyfriend, this actually happened to my sister! Well, a similar situation. My little sister is trans, and had dated a lesbian woman in college before she even realized she was a woman. The lesbian gf was weird for other reasons, but I guess she could sense it before my sister's egg cracked.
the way i audibly go “jesus christ” every time sarah talks about their childhood
Sarah horrifying everyone with her childhood stories is killing me😭😂
It gives Katya every time 😂😂
AWHHHH THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME!!! Now time to get you two on THT ;)
I AM IN LOVE WITH ALL OF YOU TYSM i Yelled when i saw you were the guest today!!! :))) so excited omg
Yes please!
I thought we were beyond the point of making fun of asian names but apparently not. 🤷🏻♂
@@kimcheezy3433 No no I love him! I was just sharing
Omg Morgan IT WAS SO COOL TO SEE YA ON HERE
i wanna thank Sarah for being comfortable and honest enough to share her traumatic family stories, it’s very relatable to me and makes me feel good to have a influencer share the same things, you can tell most people don’t know what to say back to the things Sarah shares or reply with “that’s awful” and i relate to that a lot
Same here I'm no contact and have been in therapy over 6 months. Im a mom now and life can get so much better
Yeah, I thankfully didn't have abusive parents but my first few relationships (especially the 1st one) were abusive and the way Sarah talks about their family feels like me trying to talk about my teenage years lol. Also just, the way her and Kendahl talk about things like neurodivergence and social anxiety is so relatable and helps me feel less alone 😭💕
Kendahl’s “Good god Sarah” is me every time Sarah recounts any story about their parents 🥲
Omg Sarah I screeched when I heard the "not poor but I was tricked into thinking I was poor" trauma. SAME!!! I'm 26 and just found out my dad made a tonnnn of money when I was a kid as I was being told I was single handedly making us go bankrupt when I would gag at the poorly made hamburger helper bc my autistic food problems couldn't handle wormy looking ground beef lmao.
It's a very strange trauma. Bc like, I grew up poor, feeling food insecure but never hungry. I had a family Xbox but felt like asking for $10 for a field trip or a book was asking for a home loan from my dad.
Sarah, your childhood trauma is so intense that it almost seems like a bit 💀💀 appreciate your honesty because a lot of what you share is relateable to many 💕
never heard anyone else say they have the trauma of growing up poor without actually having been poor and how weird that is as an adult looking back on high five for childhood trauma sarah
I relate to that
PLEASE MAKE THIS A SERIES TOGETHER OMFG. the dynamic the three of you have is incredible. i laughed so hard. PLEASE!!!!! i would tune in every week!
Omg yessss. I found THT because I watched Sarah’s episode and have been hooked ever since. Super excited for this episode!
me too!! this was amazing!!
In the lesbian/bi story, i feel like one of the main problems is that the parents didnt let the children have platonic relationships with other kids regardless of gender. I remember always being accused of dating my friends and not being allowed sleepovers by other parents and that the most annoying shit ever
Dude it never even occurred to me that my parents might be uncomfortable with my having male friends over. Maybe because I had mostly male friends as a little kid? And they kind of just let me do my own thing as a teenager, I stayed over at boys houses numerous times for house parties, never got prodded on it once. I wonder if it's to do with being raised in an atheist household.they just trusted me and there was no shaming about identity and sexuality etc. They weren't perfect, there were a ton of misunderstandings about my neurodivergences, but I can at least say that about that.
@@LemonSte LOVE UR PFP
Yeah that’s so wild to me, I don’t even think that’s a thing in my country. I’m bi so by that logic I couldn’t have had any friends :’)
my parents did this too. My best friend below age 10 was a girl and my sisters best friend was her younger sister and my parents were really good friends with their parents so we did tons of stuff together as a group. Our parents always made it weird asking if we (I'm a cis guy) had a crush on each other and if we'd end up married one day. As we got older it made it weirder and weirder and so I gravitated more towards hanging out with guys. We moved across country when I was 10 and in our new state I only really had guy friends. I had trouble talking to girls and making female friends or dating after that. Its funny now as an adult I find it easier to make friends and talk to women than I do men. I'm not the most masculine guy, but my parents were so sexist and also made having a platonic female friend so weird that they ruined that for me for ages. It wasn't until I was out in the working world and forced to work with a bunch of women that I started making friends with them and found myself more comfortable and welcomed then around other men.
Ok this is dark but if Sarah is ever up for it I'd love to hear them traumadump because oh my GOD.
When I heard Morgan’s voice I actually squealed I was not ready 😅
“Sick Grandma” “Why are you using quotes?!”
And the prescription hat?
idk how I missed this episode, but these were the best guests👏🏼
Lmao I’d love to have a trauma dump sesh with Sarah. I elicit the same “oh my god” response when talking about parents 😂
AITA starts at 30:17
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Youre missing some great stuff though lmao
The quotation marks around “sick grandma” sent me 😅
Dying at the way Sarah reads the stories 😂
It is cracking me up
The first story he’s totally NTA. He communicated to the roommate after she had been there for two weeks and told the roommate “she can’t move in here” and that it’s against the lease and then after that conversation shes moving her suitcases in and then he threatened to report him. The roommate was warned and the guy took action after the roommate pretty much said FU I’m going to do what I want.
The bits at the end always has me dying laughing.
I can kinda relate to the growing up poor but not actually being poor. My mom had very little money, but every weekend my grandpa (her stepdad) would pick me up and take me out restaurants/shop for new clothes, but he would never help out my mom. So I’d come home for the school week and have nothing, then live it up on the weekends. It was a weird dynamic
"i am a chef by proxy" i cannot fkn breathe 😂
The bit at the end made me laugh so hard I shat the tub
This was such an amazing episode!! Morgan is a gem
Omfg! 1:19:11... you guys doing improv as the couple from an AITA...I died!!!😂😅😂
My two fav podcasts... into one great delivery!
i’m actually crying at the end bit LMAO
Why was so much of what you said so relatable, Sarah?! 😳 My single mom was genuinely lower middle class, but now she claims she never rationed food when she absolutely did . . . Even when we had friends over, so I have witnesses. I have food scarcity trauma while I'm told by my mother that I never went hungry. 👀
Same here with my parents 🥹😳 they be trying to put a false memory in my head that I never went hungry.
Ugh I'm sorry your can relate and that so many of us share this sh!++y experience! 🤦🏻♀️😭
I lost it when she said I’d be traumatized seeing your sick grandma when my grandparents are perfectly healthy
Yea that’s was selfish
Omg my favorite podcasts doing a crossover! Absolutely love all of your content and this sick combo!
I needed help spelling my rabbit's name in Sindarin. I went to an elvish subreddit and got a lot of help! It was great.
The podcast gets me through the day honestly, cannot wait for this🧡✨
I’m with everyone when they’re shocked to hear more of Sarah’s childhood. I thought mine was bad 😳. I also loved the role play at the end!!! So funny!!
omg the roleplaying at the end LMAO! also love how sarah reads the AITA stories 😂 they're hilarious
Yaass best collab ever ! I never saw this one coming
“Doing girl talk” lmao
lmao, I was a leashed kid because I enjoyed hiding in the circular clothes racks to watch my mom freak out, so it was the child inflicting fear muahaha
My favorite podcast hosts on ONE PODCAST!
FRRR
best collab ever 🫶
the bit at the end was so good, when sarah said: babe, you are being crazy right now
I fucking lost it
wait was it a bit??? I was so confused
Very interesting to see how the 8 passengers played out since this episode
I just went through a really bad end to one of my closest friendships, and hearing Morgan describe exactly how I feel towards her in my situation was so reassuring. I couldn’t have said it better myself❤️
Dude omg!! My dad (navy) also took a 9 month deployment to get a break from his young kids 💕
Morgan!! Omg please come to Alberta again if THT ever does an international tour 🥺
OH MY GOSH MORGAAAANNN YES THIS IS AN ICONIC COLLAB I LOVE YOU ALL
To be honest I actually prefer the intro. I go to podcasts to just hear people shoot the shit lol
i feel like you would like h3
@@Heh3lenaI used to watch but they would pause the videos and stuff every three seconds to interject
@@Graymage69420 loll sounds about right. they started doing most shows live so you might like the tempo better now
I feel like Sarah's childhood reminds me of my childhood. She needs to write a book.
THT FANN HERE , really enjoyed to hear morgan in another dynamic ! Thank you girls for having her
P.S : i would have loved it if sarah read the a little bit slower i had a hard time following 😢
I used to play hide n seek with my parents in department stores but didn't tell anyone we were playing. So I'd just go hide in some clothes racks when they weren't paying attention. I was a little mischievous imp. My brother had to go and find me every time.
this was such a good episode
Is it wrong that during the little bit/ faux therapy session inwas on “asshole rich person’s” side? 🙃😂
She cracked me the hell up 😂😂
CROSSOVER EPISODEEEEEE 🥳
this was the best one yet lmao
omg my two favorite podcasts coming together
thats so wild to me...literally at the beginning of this episode i was thinking "if they just chit chatted like this for the whole time each podcast, i'd be happy" 😂
Two of my fav podcasts!
So where do I apply to be the intern that just feeds you dictionary definitions and helps with pronunciation? Because that would be my dream as an English major that has the free time 😊
Bitch let’s fucking go!!!!! Both my comfort podcasts together 🥹❤️❤️
1:09 my mum would give the threat of canceling Easter or Christmas when we were little and believed in Santa/Easter bunny. Since we’re home for the holiday period we make a huge mess of the house before the actual day of festivities. My mum put up a sign on the door for the Easter bunny telling him not to visit because we were naughty and hadn’t cleaned. She also would say she had Santa’s, the Easter bunny’s and the tooth fairies phone numbers to contact them. She would also sometimes say we might hurt Santa because he’ll trip over all the mess on the floor and break a leg. I remember telling her she was exaggerating and Santa would be fine and she’d keep the bit up. This was always done vaguely light heartedly but sternly and it only motivated us to clean up our messes. She never actually canceled Christmas or Easter. In fact she puts a lot of tender loving care and physical labour into keeping up the families holiday traditions. She would continue it well after we all stopped believing in mythical beings as a bit. I think there’s a way to do it correctly. My mum built lore around it and never intended on following through and always made it a kind of lighthearted thing but we still believed it when we were young.
MORGAAAAAN!!!! Bring Father knows something next 🫡🤍
not the rock revival and miss me jeans 💀💀 i GET IT
I had to pause watching for a bit after Sarah's traumatic stories. Not that it's bad or anything, just opened up some memories.
Man, I'm just happy Sarah got away from all that mess cos holy shit.
my top fav podcasts colliding im very excited
“He’s a physical therapist who lives in an RV”…. Me, a yoga teacher who lives in an RV 👁️👄👁️
Woooo now it’s a great Wednesday 🎉
I've always thought that Sarah and Morgan could be sisters! So so pretty.
Morgan: I started listening to you because of Reddit stories, I stayed because of you 💕
Ending was sooo funny
the ending im crying
OMG I LOVE THT AND YOU SM
My dad told us my mom was on the show Survivor while she was deployed lmao
am i unhealthy for loving the trauma dump and wanting a trauma dumping episode? probably
Lol I don't know why I find Sarah's stories so hilarious. . . As a moment I know it's horrifying but good lord!
After the initial stories - girrll. . . Are you in therapy 👀👀
someone please upload that bit about having the financial trauma of a broke family while not even being broke. because same. all my childhood they acted like we had no money. it didn't click until I was older that we still went on holiday every year and they had good paying jobs. they just didn't wanna spend money on us and things that made us happy (no, a holiday that is exhausting and solely focused on the adults enjoyment with zero consideration what might be fun FOR A 6 YEAR OLD is not something that makes you happy as a kid)
Okay, I’ve never watched you ladies before, but I LOVE Sarah. I think we could swap some”funny” childhood stories that others just wouldn’t understand…..
Omg I knew a guy that pinned his clothes to his wall too!!
this is my favorite podcast of all thyme
Where are the chapters sarah??! Lol
My heartbreaking every time Sarah started talking about her childhood. Holy shit girl! That was some emotional terrorism
How are Sarah's parents not in prison?
I always feel like giving sarah a weighted blanket at the end of these
Sarah's so funny in the last part!
EW MORGAN WHY I coulda gone my whole life without hearing ‘bin mucked’
I like to hear about dying dads and rashy knees, keep the intros
YAAAAAAAAS I LIVE FOR THIS CROSSOVER!!!!!
Re the lesbian with the boyfriend, this actually happened to my sister! Well, a similar situation. My little sister is trans, and had dated a lesbian woman in college before she even realized she was a woman. The lesbian gf was weird for other reasons, but I guess she could sense it before my sister's egg cracked.
Love this love this video
Morgan’s voice is so angelic ❤
I think Morgan sounds a lot like Dove Cameron
1:19:47 prescription hat. Hah[:
MORGAAANNN YAAASS!!!
YES!!!!! HI MORG!!!!! HI ALLY!!!!!!
AHHH YES MY FAVES TOGETHERRR
I suggested this last week ! . Feel seen. 😌
44:34 fave part
Epic crossover
Love to hear from my fellow neurodivergent queens ❤
you guys saying $600 a month for rent is a lot ☹️ that's one weeks rent in a lot of places in New Zealand 😭
THE HAT IS PRESCRIPTION
I was locked in a closet too 😭 twinnemmm