Woman Romance Scammed for 4 years.
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A handsome white middle-aged man would never call anyone “queen.”
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@@BitchyQueen69 "Queen" is commonly used by Nigerian scammers, because it is an African terminology. Normal western men don't talk that way. "Baby", "sweetheart", "honey" are terms used in our societies. If something is out of place from what is the norm, that is a huge red flag that the man is from a different culture. We all have a gut instinct. Use it.
EXACTLY
“I would kill for this man.”
Damn, good thing he only wanted cash…
Yeah she seems like an aggressive angry person in general. What a scary team together!
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This is what happens when an elderly narcissist falls for a scam
She’s a sick woman.
She's neither of those things. She's simply a naive and foolish person who didn't listen to common sense.
Truth
Why do you think she's a narcissist?
I thought being a narcissistic person included NEVER being able to take accountability for their actions? She admitted she made mistakes. I haven't met one actual narcissistic person who could admit to any fault of their own.
"That man promised me what I always wanted!" *Of course* he did, you absolute smooth-brain. It's a scammer's job to get to know you and tell you exactly what you want to hear.
Smooth brain 😂
She lost me at "What I did for him I wouldn't even do for my own kids."
@@BitchyQueen69 .....not so fast there my pretty; she freakin saw his 140 million dollar bank account and went all in thinking about becoming his bride....don't think for a minute these 'poor' lonely women ain't in it for some riches, because you'd be wrong....i'm watching a friend going down the rabbit hole with this same shit currently and with multiple nigerians...my friend thinks they are all white boys with HUGE bank accounts, incredible jobs and young af...
@@dolocapo5430 Honey Jackson, or Honey Pleva (she changed screen name) is Anna, the woman in the video.
I just thought you’d like to know.
Lol.
@@JaimeMesChiens........... lmfao......good, i'm glad i made myself perfectly clear to miss Anna then.....thanks for the heads-up though....
I was 💀at that moment.
@@BitchyQueen69 You must be new here
Her- “You’re a liar. You’re a scammer. You aren’t who you say you are.”
Also her- “Ok, where do you want me to send the money?”
Cognitive dissonance is painful
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😂😂😂their ashole they think all ladies and seni are stupid specially now everyone knows already their strategy, you scammers go to work , …
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This shit reminds me of the idea of doublethink in 1984. In school it was assigned reading and I couldn’t believe that people could have two thoughts in opposition at the same time.
But I was 13.
This is what George Orwell was talking about.
"I'm not allowed to video call from the rig" .... and so it begins....
This woman seems angry at everyone but herself. I hope she gets some therapy.
She is a dummy.
she lost me when she said "he does, in some way, have feelings for me". It's not you, its your money lady.
100%
You would have to have been scammed to understand yes I believe they get well trained how to steal your heart and money. They romance you soo well you become blind. They are dangerous.
She puts up decades old pictures. She can’t accept the fact that she’s a woman in her 70s. How delusional do you have to be to think a 55 year old good looking man has interest in you?
She claims to accept that she won’t find a man but the reality is she won’t find a young man. She’s completely nuts and honestly the only reason she won’t get taken advantage of again is because she’s broke.
Yes. He keeps talking to her because he hopes/believes he can get more money from her. She needs to accept this and end this. He has zero feelings for her. She us not special to him. She is one of 40 or 50 different women he is texting at the same time, copying and pasting the same tried and true phrases, trying to get as much money as possible. He probably works in a room with 20 others doing the same thing. She needs to take back her power. The ONLY person who can give her closure is herself.
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"I would die for this man", seconds after announcing a friend committed suicide over a romance scam...
She’s nuts and doesn’t seem to comprehend what she’s saying
@@BitchyQueen69 yes, "she" is amazing, isn't she , Anna? Add arrogance to your list of narcissist traits.
She also said she'd kill. She should be committed.
These women are dilusional, why would she do that? She still believes he feels for her. She still sent him money after realising he's scammed her. She wants closure of what, he's a scammer he feels nothing for you lady, he just wants her money. She definitely needs counciling she just can't let go. Never ever send money to a stranger, why would a man who supposedly loves you keep asking for money and then gets angry when you question it?
@@nineteenfortyeight6762 Anna is doing a great job of making herself look almost as bad as the scammer. She's clearly a narcissist, and willing to say awful things about those making the most benign comments, saying they're horrible and wishing ill upon them just for speaking their opinion on the situation this video exposes. Good on you for calling her out
I know no one deserves to be scammed but listening to this woman talk was disgusting and rode my nerves. She knew very well what was going on and continued to allow it. She thinks too highly of herself and just can't accept the fact that she was outsmarted. She's a piece of work and needs to go see a therapist.
This woman is her own worst enemy. Bet she is still in contact with the scammer.
Crazy stuff !!
“The third time I sent a phone”
SERIOUSLY!!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
THIS!! I couldn't believe it!
I know, right???!
And one of the went to... NIGERIA. You know... the country nearly all of these scammers originate from. By that point, she was fully aware he was a Nigerian scammer, but couldn't quite quit the scam.
@@chad3232132😅!!! My country Nigeria is know for these activities! Unfortunately 😢
The fact that she didn’t learn the first time!
"he must have feelings for me because he talks to me" jeez, someone get her a therapist ASAP
Someone should get her a court-appointed guardian.
@@JaimeMesChiens Yes let another person control her life, finances, etc
Just to clarify, that was sarcasm.
The scammers are psychopaths. They fake emotions. They're able to fake cry. He has no feelings for Anna. It's false hope that he has feelings for her. He's just using her. I hope Anna reads these comments and reaches out to a therapist to help her break her addiction to him.
She’s lost. She needs help.
"I would kill for this man" .... this woman needs sectioning , not only for her own safety but for everyone around her.
Sectioning? I don’t think that is a thing!
@@midgarden it is very much a thing
I see on google it might mean the waiting time in the middle of a very large bowel movement. Is that what you mean?
@midgarden no , what country do you live in?
US. You? Maybe it is UK or Aussi slang? Sorry to waste time, just never heard the word used that way before!
Why do these victims always say they are intelligent?
“My queen!“ Every scammer uses that. Scammer or not, that phrase makes me shudder. Such a turnoff.
I have a lot of Nigerian friends and that is part of their wording that they use they don’t have to be a scammer to use that. But I understand your feeling because that word has been affiliated with scammers
Or, in the case of men it’s “My King.” Cringe worthy.
That is their normal language that they use they are not the same culture as all the rest of other countries everybody’s different my Nigerian friend Calls his girlfriend his queen the one he plans on marrying and having his babies. That is their culture and that’s just the way they talk. You need to get to know a culture before you start criticizing the way they use their language and their wording. I live in the United States white American. But I have about 15 Nigerian friends even the women use honey and dear when they’re talking to other women. So it does good to learn about a persons culture and their ways before criticizing it
Agree! It makes me cringe as well. I don't know who started that, but it just sounds stupid!
@@BitchyQueen69
Also something I didn’t mention is all these countries and their states have individual kings that people don’t realize because they know nothing about these countries. Living in the United States we have scammers here too. They may not all be romance scammers but they hit you in bigger ways
it stops being a "scam" and becomes a full blown "fee-based service" when you *_know the terms of the deal_*
Best comment.
Even earlier on she knew it was a scam but she decided to continue because of the younger good looking guy ( with stolen pics/ using another man’s photos ) and 140 million in the bank? 🤨
AGREED!
😮NAILED IT!
Yes, exactly this
I always thought that guys who think that strippers like them had problems, then I started watching this channel and I realize that gullibility is a bottomless pit.
“I am in debt for the rest of my life.” Yeah well, you admit you saw red flags. At that moment you should have blocked and moved on. Hard for me to have empathy for this woman.
She had way more than just a whole bunch of red flags. She HAD the proof he was a scammer!🤣
She lost me when he told her he had 140 million dollars in a Scottish bank and she said, “ok, I can believe that.” 😑
so please someone tell me why on earth would he need money from her then ?
And he ask money for food!
if you were crass enough to ask your best friend how much they had in the bank what is the likelihood they would tell you? These guys that are leading conversations with how much money they have are lying, or scamming 100%, I would stake my life on that.
I'm sorry, did you say dollars? I thought you meant South Korean won.
well there are lots of ppl with that amount but they def wouldn't be hitting up random old chicks on facebook
This lady is a masochist. She's wasting everyone's time. Lost case
I have to block him, and realize I won't get the closure I want. Oh, wait, you want me to block him TODAY? Wow, lady, just wow.
I felt bad until she said she wouldn’t do this for her kids GIRL BYEEEE
I don't feel bad for these women anymore. For F's sake. It's the same story everytime! Oil rigs. Passports. Military. Widowed. Every time. She reversed imaged and STILL sent money. Stupidity at it's finest 🙄
@@minoozolala What it all has to do with sociopathy and trauma bonding, I wonder?
@@BitchyQueen69 🤣🤣 no thanks, we have self-respect and common sense
@@nineteenfortyeight6762 is Queen Nefertiti her newest name?
So, so doesn’t realise that when you change the name on your account, the new name shows up on all the comments you’ve heretofore made.
This poor woman needs some help.
By ‘some’ I mean tons.
Yes, almost all victims have the same story. Oil rigs, passports, driving license, military...
Doesn’t everybody who reads this notice that whenever she sees a red flag what does she do? Does she do anything to check out her suspicions? Even if she does she goes right back to her scammer, asks him what is going on and he comes up with the explanations that she knows are not to be believed but she persuades herself he is real? “He is my drug,” How embarrassing!
She completely lost me when she said she searched his images, realized something wasn’t right, and STILL sent him money after that. At that point she’s a willing participant. When you’re young, people teach you not to talk to strangers for a reason. Idk why these people are so comfortable sending their hard-earned money to people they’ve never met. Especially when they already have suspicions they may be fake. 🙄
I’m happy she took responsibility for her part in ignoring the signs.
You took the words right out of my mouth.
@@da__lang Out of mine too!
AMEN AMEN AMEN, SHE IS VERY SICK!!!
Sent him a phone 3 times knowing it wasn't even going to him!
@@BitchyQueen69 lolllll you really should have tried to protect your friend more instead of taking a loan out for her. Are you the roommate Honey?
This can never happen to someone who has any real sense of self. The craving for outward validation is the root of this.
She’s going to be a burden on her grown children even after she knew he was lying to her.
Anna is giving me whiplash. She seems to hop back and forth between pragmatism and delusion. At this stage, I’m not even sure a full confession from the scammer/s would stop her sending money, she seems hooked on the situation in general. Ultimately, I think her objective is for the scammer to say ‘Yes I’m a scammer but you are special and I’m wildly in love with you’. Honey, it ain’t gonna happen.
@@BitchyQueen69 ..i'm not going back--i heard & saw her & know what she's saying--seeing it again is too painful !!
o and about "miscreants" & "ur demented mind" - perhaps this might be U,honey!
@@skibeesmith5952 Honeyanna seems to have some short-term memory problems, which is typical in beginning age-related dementias.
She did say that she gave him money for Valentine’s Day.
I’ve blocked her, so I cannot see her unfortunate, rather-pathetic comments.
Is she still replying to me?
My, my, my! Poor, poor lonely-old lady.
We all should keep her in our prayers.
Blondesense. Excellent comment. Totally spot on. Whiplash is a perfect word to describe Anna.
you summed it up perfectly
"You're not getting nothing from me, it's over!... but I did send one last thing"
I'm sorry, but I LOL'd.
Yeah. I caught that lol
Lol 😂😂😂
Wow, kudos to that/those scammer(s) for obtaining COMPLETE psychological, emotional, financial and physical control over her, with only a series of text messages and a few phone calls. That is serious dedication to one's profession.
The psychological aspect of this is truly fascinating. The stories of the scammers are so insanely absurd, their lies and excuses are so blatantly unbelievable yet they keep being successful at keeping their victims hooked. This woman said what she did for this stranger in a chat box she wouldn't do for her own children, how twisted is that. Even when she knew it was a scam she still sent him more money. I tell you this is phenomenon should be on some medical journal because... how the hell..
the more outrageous the lies and fake scenario, the more successful the scam
Even worse, she had a friend to commit suicide over a similar situation and she still walked blindly into it.
@@MajorMovieStar Wow, I tell you, so freaking twisted. It's like a high for the victims, and just like any addict, they can't stop.
There are reasons they target older people…..brains age like every other organ. If we live to our 80s, about half of us will get dementia to some degree, and in the decade before the dementia is obvious, our judgement fails, especially in becoming too trusting, and not spotting clear frauds.
For some of these victims, they would have laughed at these scams in their prime. But they aren’t in their prime, and it will happen to some reading this as well…given another 30-50 years.
Low intelligence.
This is not Love, this is an ADDICTION! The way she described him in the first 3 minutes is absolutely an addiction and obsession.
Why do so many people think these feelings are somehow positive?
You nailed it, it sure is an ADDICTION!!! Ugghhh🙄
"Why do so many people think these feelings are somehow positive" - It is as you said: It's an addiction. If you are addicted to something you tell yourself that these feelings are good and positive until you believe the lie
True, this is a case of a very destructive obsession,
Absolutely! I’ve been addicted to a person before and had to seek treatment
You nailed it.
Honestly, I used to feel bad for these people getting scammed but after watching these videos I really just can't anymore...
I feel sorry for the ones that have cognitive delays and really don't understand what's going on. But these old farts who are so desperate for attention they overlook all the red flags... smdh.
Se merecen ser estafadas, y el dinero no va y viene, cuesta ganarse cada centavo, ella perdió hasta la dignidad y los estafadores viven de su dinero
Same here. I've started to realise the ego doesn't allow them to accept that a younger good looking person actually isn't interested in them other than their money.
I didn't know these scams existed until I met mine. Let me tell you, they are good. I fell in love, when asked for money, no. He went 7 months and hurt my heart
Then I wasted his time, made him fight with himself. Since it was texting, he couldn't see me laughing. I had my fun but he really hurt me.
You can’t feel sorry for these silly people - I just cannot understand them in the least
How do you fall in love with someone without meeting them? It's like falling in love with an image in a magazine.
Thats exactly what it is. The image triggers something in your mind and you develop a satisfying fantasy around it. It happened to me when I was in high school. Fortunately I was shocked out of it in a short time, but I learned about myself and how it happens. I think people with over-active imaginations, and that don't live rich, authentic lives, are prone to fall into that pattern.
It's like the men who called those 900 number phone sex in the 80s and 90s and fell in love with the voice.
These "victims" are addicted to the drama and the attention. They're "in love" with their own fantasies
She saw his [fake] bank account balance.
You create the fantasy and fall in love with that.
I don't understand why people don't get skeptical when they are asked for money. Do honest people ever ask someone they just met online for cash?
I have a condition that flares up when I hear the words "works on oil rig" my eyes automatically roll and the words "here we go again" fall out my mouth when I hear these stories. And for the many that think over a certain age women become vulnerable to this.... I will confirm that I have been having a long term relationship with the BLOCK button and I've even been seeing the REPORT button on the side too and I'm of mystical age. So not EVERY person over an age falls for this crap. Cannot understand why on earth after she queried the photos still sent money?
Scammers work on commission, which requires many, many clients.
According to FBI stats, 2020, the average scammer send out average 2500 intro messages per day.
About 5% will reply to the first message, something like thus:
“I saw your picture and had to write. You have such a beautiful smile and I’d like to get to know you.”
Of that 5%, approx 95% of those initial respondents will then have no further communication.
TH-cam doesn’t allow posting links, but you can look these things up.
It is estimated that approx 1: 2500 have any continued communication and 1:12,000 are send any money.
So, chances are that all of us here have received messages, often many, of introduction from a scammer. Of course, far higher if one is on any dating site.
Getting a random message from a scammer if quite common; actually sending money is exceedingly against the odds.
They use written scripts. They use the same-few stories, and may vary them related to the photos they’re using.
Oil rig, independent contractor, military officer, special forces, MD on “peacekeeping mission,” and the infamous “Am surgeon doctor.”
Often a child is involved. The spouse either died of (unspecified) cancer, was in an auto accident, or was caught in bed with the scammer’s best friend. Occasionally dead spouse was a drug addict.
Child is with nanny, grandparents, or at “boarding school,” which is another phrase a US American would not say. You’d say the name of the kid’s school, or that child lives at school.
Boarding school is an antiquated term that US American or English wouldn’t ordinarily use.
There often is an accident involved and photos sent from a hospital bed.
We all know the variations on all the themes.
The point is these scammers are NOT smart, sophisticated, or have any identifiable talent in this. They’re reading a script.
It’s easy to Google a name.
Military pays for all food, shelter, transportation, medical care, security for all troops and their families.
There are also scripts for when scammer gets caught and the client threatens to cut off contact.
One such script is to admit to being a scammer, then claim to have developed “emotional feelings” towards the client. Again, this is a script.
Very, very few, statistically, fall for this, but it obviously does happen.
Once money from the client has been successfully extricated, the client becomes part of a “preferred list,” aka low-hanging fruit.
Future communications from other, or the same using a different name, will be targeted, not random.
At this point, the scammer has documented info about the client, thus enabling a faster, seemingly-closer relationship to flourish.
They tend to claim they’ve fallen in love with the client within a few days.
@@JaimeMesChiens And the jobs that they generally pick are always the same...engineer, surgeon, working on an oil rig or being in the military. A huge flag is none of these positions would require money to get out or leave wherever they are at. Someone in the military wouldn't need money to come home, for food or to pay for a new weapon because they lost theirs (I've heard that ridiculous story before on other accounts of being scammed). These employers wouldn't leave anyone behind, all travel and accommodation is paid for, especially on oil rigs and any U.S. military, they don't have to pay for anything. I really wish these older women and men stop doing this, its amazing to me that they are still being scammed like they are considering all of the awareness on the internet warning them about it.
@@JaimeMesChiens 'Anna' can check all the boxes. As tho it's in the DSM-5. She loves the messages and even thinks the Scammer still loves her, to this day : Q Too bad they didn't expose the 'Copy and Paste' he used.
@@AcousticGString Funny, years ago, I got a 'Friends Request' on FB from an Orthopedic Surgeon in Syria. Being an Orthopedic nurse, I just thought he was looking for a 'Green Card' to get the heck out. I deleted it for that as a Scam. Little did I know, it was much more sinister : (
@@PragmaticP they claim tot be ortho surgeons, or the infamous “Am surgeon doctor,” but know nothing about medicine, lol.
You’d have outed him in ten minutes.
I’m a neuro APRN, LNP and I’ve received plenty from these idiots.
“My Queen “ this is definitely Nigerian talk 😩
I’ve seen that also, My Queen on SO many of these!
They have no mercy or scruples. $$$$$ is programmed in there brain. Talk Love but means profit for SELF-EMPLOYED. You mean Nothing to them other than $$$. My Queen, My Love, My Angle is a crock of lies feeding you. Be Strong. ❣️❣️❣️
I know Nigerians. The name of queen is used constantly in that country.
@@emilythompson3605 that is interesting to know.
Totally! And the “iTunes” cards?? Totally Nigerian. They always deal w those iTunes cards. Dead giveaway.
I mean…everything was a dead giveaway
Dying her hair black aged her another ten years. And I think she holds on to a desperate sliver of hope that she can end up with that man. So sad.
It's a wig.
But she was a singer 94 years ago in her prime. She's got to hang on to her glory days like a sad old person, because she didn't spend her life cultivating meaningful relationships, and giving a shit about her children.
She is delusional. Sad. 😂
She still believes that he is who he says he is, even after she finds out that he's not even the man that she thought he was.
Absolutely astonishing!
Born to be scammed.
How many times did she say, "This is the last time" but it never was.
She's absolutely right, she's addicted.🤔😱
She needs he help Addicts usually do
Well said
This woman really is a piece of work. Seems like the scammer might have actually earned the money he took from her, just having to deal with her every day.
U know she is going to unblock him as soon as the video is over.
Anna really is on my last nerve, she sits there acting as if she’s this strong tough woman, she’s always the one in charge. she’s always the one that’s like the man in the relationship and yet when it comes down to it, knowing that this guy isn’t the man she’s talking to, she still is willing to give him a chance. There is nothing strong about her. She is naive and weak and in love with a figment of her imagination, she has spent an absorbent amount of money that she won’t even tell her kids about and they would probably flip out, her handing money to a stranger, her money, and their inheritance. She wouldn’t even give her own kids that money, but she’s willing to give it to a stranger, you might as well drive down the road and throw out thousands of dollars out your window because that’s basically what she is doing! Seriously, what’s her end game?!?! Allowing this guy to still take advantage of her and is acting like she’s doing all this for herself not for him, he is not the man you thought he was and you’re still sending him money, you know it’s someone from Nigeria, whether he’s 15 or 50, he’s not the guy in the picture. I mean how desperate do you have to be? Find somebody in your area stop looking on the Internet why do these women constantly fall for the same thing over and over again? Brienne is telling her this relationship is based on her giving him money it’s all for his financial gain, and Anna says “of course“, and yet she’ll still engage him. There are just some people you can’t reconcile with.
😅❤😊
*exorbitant
Agreed
You’re weak, You’re out of control, and you’ve become an embarrassment to yourself and to everybody else.
💯 I just don't get it. The fact that she had a friend who TOOK HER OWN LIFE over a scammer should have been the biggest, glowing and lit up red flag humanity has ever seen.
Not a victim. Anna is a volunteer who fully accepted the terms and conditions of this non-relationship
I sent this video to my 73 yrs old mother who is being scammed. She is so in love with the person without ever seeing him but she is willfully ignoring all the red flags…. I hope this video will wake my mother up… all of her family, grand kids, friends have warned her many times that it’s a scam but she ignores us all for someone who doesn’t exist. ….
I just watched this video. I am new to this channel. I sincerely hope this video helped your mom. Have a great day. 🙂
I doubt it will “wake” her up. She might be delusional. Someone needs to help her to find a real person who would give her similar emotions. That scammer is satisfying one of her psychological needs.
Well, in that case imagine your mother is helping another human being with her money. Lots of money.
Get her number changed. Don't tell her. Only way she will stop being scammed.
99% she will gonna say that her boyfriend is different!
Can we agree that there are willing participants in these scams? It’s their drug of choice and just like drugs it will end badly.
Agreed
Absolutely.
If this woman is a victim, she is a victim only if her own delusion.
Agree
No
Yes. Sooner or later they have to be hold accountable for their own actions.
“ he knows how to cut me off and come back in - cut me off and come back in…” THIS statement explains A LOT! We can infer that she has a FEAR of losing connection with him, and she is describing that he was skilled at *exploiting* that fear to keep her “on the hook”. Just like IRL ABUSERS, romance scammers SEEK out those who demonstrate they will prioritize sustaining their “connection” to the abuser even if it’s at the expense of aspects of their own well being. It’s the playbook they both use to get their victims to accept more and more outlandish things in order to “keep him” in her life.
This women needs a therapist. Some people are so lonely that they will allow people to use them … very sad 😢
She wasn't exactly honest with her profile picture, was she? Ok, it was her... 20 years ago.
Lol
“I think, in some way, that he has feelings for me…”
She’s lost her mind. He keeps coming back because she’s the gravy train
What mind? 😅
The amount of excuses these women let these men get away with is astounding.
The new young man working with Brianne is so mature & emotionally helpful! Great hire, Social Catfish!👏🏼
He’s not a new hire. This is an old video. It’s Drew now.
It’s Jordan!
My hatred for pet names may be my saving grace from scammers (that and my common sense).
🤣
They are so fake and manipulative
You mean babe, baby, princess and Queen make you want to throw up too? lol These seem like fake and demeaning names to me.
@@chnalvralso "hunny", "beautiful" and "my love" 😝
Right? I would gag at any of those.
Looking at the photo she posted online on the site and the reality of how she looks now the con is a two way thing. These people need to get real.
Most of them do this 💯
@@tonyscott1066 - Men do it too. When I did the online thing 20 yrs ago, I posted all current pics of myself. When I met a lot of them in person, they said they were surprise that I actually looked like my pictures. But yeah, many of the guys I met had older pictures up, and when I asked them why they said they hadn't changed. I was nice about disagreeing with them after meeting them in person and offered to take pictures of them for their profiles. They actually took me up on the offer and posted the new pics.
Shit I didn't notice it til you mentioned it
Nigerians own the phrase "My Queen"
They have trademarked it!
We pray these people find more self-respect. When you catch someone in a lie, let them go. No one deserves to be lied to.
She squandered her kids inheritance in the face of mega red flags.
Her grandkids will be fine because her children are working. She can sell her house move in with kids or rent a small cheap place. She can go back to work part time to pay back the debt or file bankruptcy. As she said she'll be fine.
And apparently she's planning to surprise them with the debt on her deathbed.
No. She squandered her own money.
@@dahliacheung6020 Children are not legally responsible for their parents’ debts.
Thats not her kids money thats her own. No one is owed any money from their parents.
This woman is still involved with this scammer because she wants validation from him that his feelings for her have always been real. She needs to believe that everything she gave him was because the relationship was real. If she accepts the TRUTH she will be devastated. This is absolutely sad.
I do not consider her a victim; she is an active participant.
If she is a victim of anything, it is of her own delusion and greed.
@@JaimeMesChiens This woman is a classic example of "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me."
this
She knows the truth. She’s not stupid, she’s lonely 😞 she likes the attention and is willing to pay for it. And apparently he’s an expert at his hustle.
You hit the nail on the head. Her only other option is to believe that the last four years were all a lie and she has wasted emotions on an illusion.
HIM: OIL RIG
ME: Ok, BYE 🏃🏼♀️
It's a DEAD GIVEAWAY when the scammers refer to a victim as MY QUEEN!!! It has Lagos Nigeria written ALL OVER IT! I feel so bad for these people who are being scammed, but smarten up please. I guess loneliness gets them. I feel so blessed to have my husband of 30 years! I love your show! I've been binge watching. Thank you for all that you do guys!
That and "gift cards."
This doesn’t even make sense..this woman knew he was a fraud yet she continued to send a stranger she had never even met money?
Why cant they meet a REAL man in person cause he might be average short balding overweight but no they want movie star glamour how Shallow
@@isay207 Narcissists always attract other narcissists. They feed off of each other.
Me too. I don't understand why she sent money to a stranger she never met before and knows that he is a fraud.
@@isay207 That's the thing...they always want men who are much younger and better looking than her while the Danny Devitos that would treat her good are forced to be alone.
@@isay207 for real
She has serious problems. She continued sending money when she knew it was a scam and had a friend who committed suicide over a scam. She was giving him one last chance as if it was all going to suddenly turn out to be real. I just cannot fathom her behaviour.
I worked for a lady whose mom killed herself over a romance scam
Honestly, it sounds like someone who has a gambling addiction.
If that friend she mentioned is real then its almost like depression of losing that person drove her to nearly do the same thing to herself
Big question where does she get the money....
@@ellaella5537 Knows the game is rigged but keeps playing.
Wow. Just wow. She’s the true definition of needy.
And dumbness...😅
I’m sorry this happened to her, but she really did it to herself. She knew the day she did a reverse image search that he was fake, yet she continued to send him money and phones!!! These people that are romance scammed constantly have red flags, but they use their heart to make decisions and not their brain!!!
I can't believe people are still falling for Nigerian scammers... "MY QUEEN"... Please!!!
It’s fascinating to me. Unreal
I'm pretty sure there is nothing sadder than an old, thirsty broad. She said she'd die or kill for a man she's never met???!! Wow....
I'm old school. If the other person won't do a video call I'm calling it quits. It's that simple. And I'm not buying a generic fake cam call as some people are dumb enough to fall for that. I need an actual video call and an actual conversation.
"bUt loNeLiNeSs"
I'm lonely too but I'm not suspending logic because of that.
I still can't wrap my head around this behavior. So much information and videos highlighting all these scammers. All these woman still falling for "I work on a rig....my baby....my queen....I need help....I need food please send money etc etc etc". Most of them are engineers too....seriously?! They keep saying they are ntelligent women too. Even when they are told they are being scammed they dont want to believe it some times WTF?!?! Face palm.....
I get eyes rolling sick when I hear oil rig, broken machine, frozen bank account and this new one, guy fell off the rig with all of my papers. Lmfao
Her kids need to go to a judge and get power of attorney over her and her finances since she is not of sound mind.
^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^
u don't have a judge- u go to a lawyer
This is very, very, very hard to do.
@@Nocturnalux no, it's really not. Not after what she spent and the reason why.
@@jessicamerriman2336 You’d be surprised.
The kids need to prove that she is mentally unfit and legally this is a very steep hill to climb.
There is a reason why you don’t see children resorting to that on these videos, it does not work.
So she made a reverse image and found the real identity of the pictures .. and kept talking to him and sending him money 😮
"I'm not that kind of person." No, you're exactly that type of person.
someone who chooses and still to this day chooses a ‘connection’ with a fake profile on the internet over their own children is not someone i feel sorry for.
Closure would be blocking him, lady, and picking up the phone and making an appointment with a therapist.
As a middle aged white woman I’m extremely embarrassed at how often this is happening. When I was single I was approached on Facebook and dating sites both by scammers and it was very obvious to me in the first attempt at conversation or even before that. If anyone had ever asked me for money I would have been furious and offended and told them to get lost. I reported one profile as fraudulent to the site I was on and they wouldn’t take it down.
I’ve been doing some scam baiting and helping victims, and I still just can’t understand how they fall for this. The chats are illiterate, and the voice is clearly a teenager in Nigeria. It is mind bending to me that women fall for this. I feel deeply for the victims but I am still shocked that this scam works so well.
You just know she is expecting the real person in the photo to fall for her 🤣 INSANITY
The fact that she wouldn’t have done all that for her kids is so telling. Not just of her but of all the women who get scammed this way.
It’s sad I know her situation badly --
No everyone who gets scammed is a nice person.
Being needy, angry, mean offer no immunity.
Selfish narcissistic egotistical its all about them
A lot of women care more about handsome strangers than their own children. It's sad.
And what about all the men who get scammed?
So after knowing he lied about everything, and knew the woman was a mule, she sent him ANOTHER phone... and then more money?? How can you still buy into something you know is a complete fabrication? Crazy.
I just want to say that being a volunteer cat rescue person in a big city shows what a lovely and giving person that lady is. It's a thankless volunteer position.
Anyone that contacts you out the blue and says they work on an oil rig should be the first red flag - it’s a favourite scenario of scammers. This front allows them to have lots of excuses why they can’t FaceTime or need money transfers as they’re isolated.
Its a wonder any oil gets produced all the workers are chasing grannies
Then they fall off the Rig and need money for hospital bills or the Rig breaks down and they need your money to get it fixed.
@@isay207 I'm dead.
@@w8ing2exhale you are right. I have seen a few victims with the same reasons.
The funny thing is, oil rig workers are very well paid and don’t they get long vacation times to make up for being 24/7 on the job?
She became addicted to his "love bombing". The over-the-top romance dialog causes a chemical reaction in the brain that leaves you wanting more and more, and you will do almost anything to get and keep that fix. This happened to me, only I was scammed by someone I knew in person. They pulled this on me and had me hooked for years. It's very real and hard to fight when you're caught up in it. 100% similar to a drug addiction.
Wow. I didn’t really believe that until I heard Anna’s story. I mean, it seems that no matter what proof she has that she is being scammed she’s not ready or willing to stop communicating with him. It’s sad. I hope you’re doing ok now.
Yeah, it is one thing to be love bombed and be addicted to a REAL PERSON that you are seeing in PERSON and IN THE FLESH. These ladies apparently just fell for photographs and some over the top honeyed words that are even too cringey for Hallmark cards.
@@PungiFungi Agreed. There is a big difference.
For me personally, the over the top romantic dialogues make me want to puke.
That’s a really interesting thought that it’s like an addiction. I believe you but I’ve had like opposite reaction-Recently a man I went on one date with started love bombing me every morning I would wake up to texts telling me how amazing I was but I hated it.
Calling me 'My Queen or Babe' is theeeee biggest turnoff!!!
I am FLOORED by how many women STILL get SCAMMED in 2023. I literally screamed in my car seeing ANOTHER episode.
So sad she says she thinks he has some feelings for her. So sad.
She’s chock-full of inner demons.
If she has family friends volunteer WHY IS SHE DOING THIS?
@@isay207 Because she wants the fairy tale & social status of being special to a good looking strong man.
I've met so many older women who say they're lonely, but they keep themselves that way by wishing a man would like them, instead of enjoying activities with female friends.
9:26 "I'm a smart woman..." Hmm. God help anyone less smart.
Right? Lol
Lol yes
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. SHE is DEFINITELY NOT SMART 👍
If shes smart I'd hate to see foolish
😅
I realized a long time ago that whoever cares the least in a relationship has all the power. Not just most of the power -- all of it. I can tell this woman is a tough cookie. But unfortunately for her, she is emotionally hooked on him. The scammer only acts like he loves her. In reality, he doesn't care about her because he's not emotionally invested at all. He only wants her money so he has all the power. As long as she continues to communicate with him, she will be in danger. Her only defense against him is to block him forever.
Not even two minutes in and my heart sank when I recognised the script. I don't believe this lady will give her scammer up, she is talking non stop, but not listening.
So people still fall for this "my camera doesn't work" bs? This is 2022 people come on smmfh
Anna wasn't hooked on the man. She was hooked on the drama, the pathos, the roller coaster and on being the star of her own soap opera. A thoroughly decent, kind and moral man wouldn't interest her at all, in fact he would bore her to tears.
That’s most of the people that move and live in floriduh
Interesting theory… I am strongly inclined to agree.
Somebody sounds like an incel who is mad he can't get the attention of beautiful women, so goes online crying about how women don't want "good men." I guarantee an average looking, flat chested, nice woman with morals wouldn't be on your radar either dude. Hypocrite much???
You hit the nail on the head! Bingo! She needs help, serious help. And I'm not saying that jokingly, there is something inside of her that she's gotta get to the bottom of, because I see some serious mental issues with her that she's gotta get help for.
@@Childfree334 Wrong on all counts. I'm a straight woman in my sixties and have had men who were rotters and men who were wonderful and kind. Wonderful and kind is better. Try to at least get your genders right.
Anyone else get confused when she dropped in 'I have my partner'. Woman, block him, he doesn't care about or even like you. You are money.
Why do they always ALWAYS say they're smart? No. No, you're not.
Even after she discovered his photo was phoney, she still sent him money. Even after she found out he was using mules, she still sent him money. No excuses for this level of stupidity. It's either that or greed. She saw $140Million and lost all common sense.
I completely agree with you. How will convince me that she's intelligent despite her neglecting all the red flags. She's not SMART at all.
So true I agree
Lol, no one has $140 million in one account.
No financial institution “freezes funds” of good customers who have over $500K assets.
This bird knew she was dealing with a scammer and still sent him money.
$140 million and he needs ITunes cards, lol.
I’m sorry, but this woman is a total moron.
@@BitchyQueen69 We have been warned for over 20 years about online scammers. Unless you are suffering from dementia or Alzheimers or are mentally disabled, there is no excuse for being taken in by a scammer. None. If you have money to throw away like that to a complete stranger, who you knew was lying to you, then he needs the money more than you do. And after 4 years of work, he deserves every penny he got.
@@africa_everyday love is never smart, we do crazy things for it....
She may of seen those $$ signs but I'm more inclined to feel that the rejection for her is too big... every time she tries again, maybe she's hoping "this will be the one time, it is real!!
The guy has over 140 million dollars and he could not withdraw.
People listen up.
When you have this much money from a bank, your account gets handled privately by the bank.
Meaning anytime you need money you will be able to withdraw, any high profile accounts are taken care of differently than a regular account.
Because any bank that cannot help you when you are a high value client risk on losing your business by not getting help when you need it.
It is also imperative to realize a millionaire will not work on a rig, he will own it. Or a partner sitting in an office with stack of money for emergency.
And no one with any wealth would dream of keeping it all in one account.
Please.
I have less-than 140 million. Far less.
Yet, it’s diversified and the bank who handles my bigger accounts would kiss my arse on Main Street.
They don’t want to ever do anything to alienate even one dollar if a wealthy customer’s money.
Yeah, I know someone with a business that took off and all of a sudden their bank start treating them very differently 😂😂😂
The more I watch these, the more I’m glad my mom refuses to learn how to use a computer or the internet.
She said she is smart. That is the joke of the day. A smart person would never get involved in such an ugly mess and allow herself to be sooo used and ripped off. Sadly she is sooo desperate for affection and attention she is willing to blindly buy into a pipe dream. 😢
And it’s not two months or a couple of months. It’s a couple of years. If not a single alarm bell goes off you have to be extremely gullible and naive
I’m from Nigeria 🇳🇬 and I feel so so sorry for her. This scammer in Nigeria are really giving some of us a very bad name
Yes I agree.
We know there are scammers of all origins
How common scamming is in Nigeria in the population ?
Best wishes
@@VetmedUK very common!!
@@VetmedUK there was a video where they interviewed a Nigerian scammer and he said that among young people, around 70% of them have either tried scamming or are scamming.
The more of these I see, the more I think these people (mostly older women) become addicted to the attention, the excitement, the drama, etc.
"I'm a smart woman; smart in business". Totally agree. Sent THREE smart phones. Got that? SMART phones; that's why she is smart. Sent iTunes gift cards. Smart. Sent cash advances. Smart. Took out loans. Smart. In debt for the rest of her life. Smart. Refusing to block the scammer after it is confirmed that he is a scammer. Smart. What more evidence do you need that this woman is a certified genius?!?
I was getting all these good looking foreign men sending me Facebook friend requests. I knew nothing about romance scans then, but my first instinct was this was some kind of scam. I guess I’m a realist, and not living in a fantasy world.
The fact that she had a friend who took their life because of a scammer .. which clearly means that she knew about romance scammers and should have been more cautious than many other victims who may have not heard/knew of these type of scams. Even if she didn't know of them, however, its common sense that if ur talking to someone for YEARS and never met them or even video chatted w them, there's a reason for it. Im sorry to say, but I don't think she wanted to know the "truth". Like she said, everything revolved around him and she basically became addicted like someone who gets addicted to dr*gs. She fell in love to the idea of him/who he was. She even found his picture when she did a reverse image search and found the "real" identity of the person who the scammer was claiming to be and she STILL continued to have a "relationship" with him AND sending him money.
Its really sick and there are so many of these gullible women out there.
@@deeandrews7051 that is scary. It is via watching these videos I became aware of the many similar tactics these scammers use and know to look out for them, and also anticipating how these scammers will change their strategy once everybody is on to their oil rig and military stories. THIS woman had first hand experience via a friend and SHE STILL FELL HARD for it. I am beginning to think some people just have a certain personality type that make them especially susceptible to it.
@@PungiFungi Explains the shrinking 'Middle Class'.
She would be a dream spouse for a decent man. This is heartbreaking. I wish I was there to help her.
yup, I agree with your statement. It's a major big-time red flag.
Seriously, she'd kill for him? Glad she finally found out that he was a fraud, a young Nigerian I bet.
Yes. That bit was worrisome
People from other countries are into fraud too but why does all fingers points to nigerians?
@@bestowtekemeka5126 Because usually that's where the scammers are living... in Logos Nigeria.
@@SkyePhoenix India has more scammers than nigeria
She's a real piece of work. "I'd kill him right now if he was in front of me" points to her needing psychological help and mental health counseling to first grasp what happened, and then deeply analyze why she was so desperate and willing to give her entire life savings to a non-existent man who she had never met face to face. And she said at the end that she was "happy with her partner, so she'll be OK no matter what. Did I miss something? She has a partner that she actually knows and sees?
I think she was just referring to the father of her children, her prior partner. Maybe they’re still in contact, who knows?
Every time one of these idiots say they're a "pretty smart person" I chuckle. More than a little bit.