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In reality, rich men never get good women. Amazing women always want men to spend TIME (not money) with them and grow with them, not to be incorporated into a schedule and wait for pocket money and gifts.
NEVER assume a woman is the source of your own happiness. After 31 years the woman I thought was my life partner has quit on me. I have been in love with my own creation of who I thought my wife was, not who she really is. Only you can make you happy.
"I have been in love with my own creation of who I thought my wife was, not who she really is"... This hit me like a freight train, exactly how I felt about my ex after I've had years to process the break up
I have been married for nearly 40 years and true love for me is self discipline caring and respectful behaviour towards each other especially when one of the partners is seriously sick. Thanks.
@baldeagle4710 being married is like taking an El train? 😢 mean an elevated train? A just plain L line? A Runaway Train like Soul Asylum from 1993?? What language are you even speaking there. I guess obviously whatever it is you were not totally screwed over as a 17 year old girl marrying a 24 year old Vietnam vet 1st Lt. having his leg about blown off over there while having a sweet office job at the R&R center there, safest place in Vietnam, simply due to sleeping with Vietnamese whores and subsequently just walking home when he wasn't even supposed to be on the street at all and then getting kidnapped by two super angry GIs armed with a .38 or was it a .45. My ex was already a known RAPIST, PEEPING TOM, stealing stuff from my own mother and Yada Yada. 11 years of hell that was till I finished college in 13 years due to repeated lengthy serious illnesses and able to support myself and adopted daughter on my own and then found the man of my dreams, the precise POLAR OPPOSITE OF THE FIRST ONE at work and we were married in the 80s and never thought of wavering from our commitment to one another for 32 years until he died of Alzheimer's. My real husband in fact TOOK CARE of the very people that my ex husband WAS - the MDSO's at a state hospital for the Criminally Insane. That stands fir mentally disordered sex offenders as if there were any other kind ... Please do let me know anyone what your rationale just might be for the existence of what me ex represents being anything other than that. I certainly wiuld appreciate hearing an opposing viewpoint just in the nature of fairness - in particular those backed up by scientific data. If you do not know what that is try some randomized, double-blinded placebo-controlled studies put out by PubMed and etc.
I was a playboy. Had 37 girlfriends before I met my soulmate. I've been married for 5 years and I feel fulfilled. I'm now more focused on how to make the best out of the time left in my life. Sex is overrated! There's more ways to find happiness...😊
Both should give their 100%, that statement is so true and should be the basis of a successful relationship. Keep in mind the man's 100% is different from the woman's 100%, each has specific roles to contribute with.
Hit the nail on the spot. This is exactly what’s happening to my relationship. I now understand it is the childhood trauma f’d it up. Walking away, it’s hard but I hope it’s for the best. I can’t tolerate it😊
*Women are often drawn to men who can lead in social situations, are emotionally stable, and who show genuine interest without being desperate. These traits create a natural magnetism that goes beyond the surface.*
I've never cheated. But all these videos basically say, if you're abandoned by your parents, you're screwed. If you had a bad childhood, no one should pick you. Doesn't matter I made good choices. Doesn't matter I did better than them in every possible way, work in a hospital and do charity so I can give back to the community, am gentle and caring and able to hold space for those going through insane things (ER Is a quick education, if my childhood wasn't), cook and clean and all that. Fuck I'm more loyal than most people I know. Nope, bad parents = unlovable. Smart men don't choose women from bad homes. I couldn't help who my parents were, and I'll be cleaning up their messes for the rest of my life.
@@duskydamsel672 try getting past a first date with someone from a good home, though. I can't come out and say "my father was a pedophile and everyone but my brother choose him." All I can say is "I don't speak with my parents because they aren't good people, but I'm very close with my brother and his wife." The only people who give me grace for that come from similar homes like mine, and not all of them have worked on themselves like I have. Do you see the problem now? In practice, the small talk part of getting to know people is SO HARD.
You were doing so well, speaking in a dignified manner, until you unnecessarily dropped the F bomb where it didn’t add to your point, in effect adding to Sadia’s point
@@kevinwasilewski598 actually, I have been trying to stop cussing. It goes in fits and starts. That's something I have been working on cleaning up out of my language, for a while now.
I definitely get where you're coming from, but I think that the videos have a point too. I think it all depends on three things - 1, that you're still not holding anger from your childhood; 2, that you're not repeating patterns that were shown to you during childhood; and 3, the qualities someone is looking for in a person, which most of the time are out of our control. 1 and 2 can be worked out in therapy. For example, I came from a somewhat broken home. I swore for years that I was fine, but constantly kept dating emotionally unavailable men and didn't know why. I've been in therapy for over 1 1/2 years, and that's when I found out that not only am I dating men that resembled my father, but I myself was repeating the behaviors that my parents were unintentionally. Number 3 like I said is out of our control. There are people who wants partners that have healthy relationships with their parents for various reasons.
Fun fact, I have dated "Successful" women and they are just as bad as the other ones. Just as entitled, just as demanding. However, they tend to have a massive chip on their shoulder that they have "earned" the right to be those things, while trying to compete with you, instead of seeing you as a partner. Or... OR, I can date a barista or waitress who may have the first set of qualities, but not the second.
I am successful, not masculine (just a few back to back promotions very quickly) and I don't feel it really changes much about what you want in a relationship. If anything it lifts the standards. I wanted a guy to earn a bit more than me, and I still do. So I'd say we're worse to be honest. But guys are the same. The more you value yourself the more you will want from a partner. This is human nature, not restricted to women. Think of it as if you're marketing something. You can sell your item for $1 or for $10. Firstly if you can sell at $10 why would you settle for $1? That's stupid. And secondly If you did price it at $1 the person who buys it is going to have far more competition to purchase it. Guys seem to struggle with this concept. Even if successsful women didn't want high value men, that doesn't mean they'd end up with the less desirable ones. It would become a lottery ticket.
@@MySimDied hypergamy is natural in women but as women earn more they fail to realize making over 100k a year less than 30 percent of the population makes that which does not taken into account women , gay men , men who prefer a bachelor life style which further lowers her dating prospect. Just as one can have standards so low you can have standards so high it becomes statically not in your favor you will find a person who will check certain boxes. Women say Men have low standards because they brought into the hype that because we are exactly the same and think alike that what I am attracted to in a man they must be looking for that as well. Imagine a man describing the traits he wants and he says he wants some one taller than me, some one who can protect , provide financial security and makes more money than him , is he describing traits a man is likely to have or a woman. Attraction is not asymmetrical and it does not mean men are insecure , It simply means men do not want to date men that are born in a woman's body.
@@youngatnaruto Back to my original point though, if my standards are too high they will have to fall. But it doesn't mean that they will hit the floor. If i can't find a guy earning 100k, I'm going to look at 90k, not a jobless guy living in his mothers basement. Believe it or not, there are men earning 30k that are happily married. There are also plenty of 5'6 guys that are happily married. I think you guys put way too much emphasis on what rich beautiful onlyfans and instagram girls say. Of course they're not going to be interested in some guy who watches anime and hasn't left home yet, of course. Those girls for the main can meet their expectations of a man. The rest of us have to settle slightly. But still, I have my own house, car, decent job and I'm reasonably attractive. What can ugly anime boy in his mom's basement possibly offer me?
I was with my late wife/partner for 31 years. She cooked and gave me s#x until the very end. She worked for the first 10 years at the beginning of our relationship until she got hurt. I was more than ok to help her out, pay bills that she couldn’t. I miss her so much. 😢
This woman is one of the most beautiful women i have seen in a long time ... She is much more than just a pretty face ...She has wisdom and appears to have a tender heart ... I have listened to many of her podcasts ...very insightful ... The person/ s who invested in her did a very good job...
What men give has to be reinvented. The he-man is changing, because she no longer needs protecting, and she no longer need just money. She is starting to need a man who can balance her emotional storms. So "that" man has to be in touch with the field of emotion, not only his own, yet hers enough to go into that rabbit hole, and dig her out. He has to grow these new muscles, by learning to act more from his heart. Which is going to be quite the stretch for most men.
spot on. You can never predict what is going on in the women's mind from the emotional level. That is why the saying says Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. And Men dont like Drama in their lives. Men like peace of mind.
Men and women are VERY opposite: Women are here to experience beauty, and express emotion. Men are here to experience accomplishments, and to express logic. All this is polar opposites of each other, yet to have balance in our lives we need each other. He needs her touch to remember to let go of his emotions, and she needs him to be patient while logically making her world work. And through love we have the ability to heal each other by doing or saying what needs to be heard, and NOT what wants to be said. Go in peace.@@WolfManThoughts
A relationship is about 2 people moving in the "Same Direction". When we start talking about who wants what, and who's getting it better, then it's about competition. At that point the line has been crossed: competition in a relationship IS divorce, remember that.@@Hunnidproof888
She’s correct about women who are financially stable and successful. We tend to get taken advantage of and we are not always comfortable asking for help. It’s a blessing but comes with its cons.
Get a mediocre looking girl who is willing to work and help you out through good or bad. Being single and alone sucks when you get old. I work around older people who have nobody to visit or care for them. A good amount of them never had kids. It's actually pretty sad. Women want someone who makes more than them. Find your equal
I can’t stand “the wall” narrative running rampant for unwed/childless women over 30. It’s apparently a crime in society to choose to grow and mature alone. I don’t want to be a baby mama or divorced single parent. I understand the biological age aspect of “the wall”. but as someone who was raised by a single parent, with a very involved grandfather, I would rather die childless than be a struggling single parent. I would never want my children to ever feel like a burden the same way I did. No disrespect to baby mamas or divorced people lol.
The wall is very real though. I, myself, as a man was looking to women my age or maybe 1-2 year older while I was in my 20s. But nearing my 30s, I began looking to younger women as I see clearly that most women my age do not age well (there are exceptions of course).
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him , I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated , I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
No matter how handsome, fit, and educated a man is, women will not be interested if he is broke and a soldier deployed. Then later, if that same guy is an affluent professional, women will be eager to date him.
Sadia, you are beautiful and smart and you are the only psychologist in the world with whom I agree more than 90% of times...incredible! Congrats, you are really good!
My wife is that lazy bum housewife. I’m not sure about the entitled part. But I get a great deal of satisfaction knowing I am making a difference to at least one person on this earth who I can honestly say I am good for. I am a good thing in her life and to me,that means everything. One person who can vouch for me at the pearly gates and say “yes, let him in”. And, if I could just show her how to keep her mouth shut, the same way Mom said about me, and not go around spilling the beans to potential con artists and fortune tellers, she would be perfect. Who wants a beautiful, rich woman with the wherewithal to destroy you if she so chooses? Not me, thank you.
@@iamkAIden yes, one sided definitely better than a beautiful and rich partner destroying you. Which, thankfully, has never happened. Do you have a successful marriage? You could call Jim Lucca if there's a doubt. He's the one who knows.
The question is what the woman will do then ? Will she contribute financially or do household chores ? If you are not holding her accountable, then you are a simp and she will eventually leave you..
The question is what the woman will do then ? Will she contribute financially or do household chores ? If you are not holding her accountable, then you are a s1mp and she will eventually leave you..
I'm so glad I never cared about finding a 'life partner', theres so many reasons to not do it, especially for a man. 'Modern women' & their mentality now makes it SOOO much easier to make that decision. I am very happy with my independence & following my mission, which also ironically makes me more attractive to women.
@@makhdoommohammad8923This of course is a generalization & my opinion, I also say this because of what I see going on with relationships in general. First, they’re masculine. I think I’d be more open to find a woman in a more rural area of another country….2nd, modern women obviously have been raised to see things from a materialistic & self-absorbed perspective which includes princess upbringing (I do get the evolutionary side but it’s been hijacked by institutions n corporations to make us better consumers too). It’s hard for me to treat a woman like a princess when she’s masculine and expects it. Again, it’s just not worth it to me when I am very happy alone & it’s women that ‘need’ relationships more than men, yet you must cater to their ‘vision’ of what they want, it’s a fantasy you have to uphold & then they may change their mind about everything & may choose to leave u anyway (women respect people that don’t cater to them so it’s like a SETUP here)…3rd, modern women are relatively very fickle/selfish (coupled with hypergamy & the emotional nature of women, makes them relatively undependable in this way). Another big one with modern women is the influence of 3rd wave feminism, which ironically has made men (that listen) more unattractive to these women & could be a big part of the other reasons I gave above. Excuse me if this was too long ha, but trying to explain it all.
@@hidetoedwarduno7681 Many Thanks for your reply. Modern women can be self absorbed and expected princess like treatment, they can be very masculine in nature (wanting to lead and expect you to follow them), they can also be a burden financially with their life style expectations....I am so content at 39 with single life and I don't think I can tolerate a women like you've described. Maybe a village women will have a different orientation, she is raised to serve her husband and take care of his home 🏡 And actually some one who's not a burden on paycheck. I want some one like. Otherwise I am happy with single life. God help us.
@@makhdoommohammad8923 well thanks for having a calm conversation with me (agree or not) n not trying to see where I am wrong lol, lot of that on the internet by guys that probably don’t get women haha. Yes, the funny thing is when u focus on u & ur life & being happy, women are more likely to be attracted & want to prove themselves to u, while trying to make them happy too much makes them unhappy & they leave u lol. Thanks for the blessing, we’re good, men r naturally independent & we r so much more attractive to women when we don’t want them lol, it’s a weird game but it’s not womens fault, it’s evolution. Blessings to u & ur family & May u find everything u want in life.
@@hidetoedwarduno7681 I wish you well and I completely agree with you. I hope and pray we don't become misogynist and end up finding good women for ourselves while maintaning economic and spiritual progress. 🙏
Relationships are unique, and people choose partners for different reasons. In the past, women often looked for financial stability in a partner because they didn’t have many opportunities to earn on their own. Today, many women can take care of themselves, so they focus more on emotional connections and shared values. Attraction is also complex-some people are drawn to creative or sensitive individuals, like poets or singers, because they seem more open and caring. Others might enjoy excitement and adventure, but over time, they may look for someone who offers emotional security and understanding. Ultimately, what matters most in any relationship-whether you’re rich or poor, creative or practical-is being kind, respectful, and able to support each other’s growth. Everyone is different, so there’s no single ‘right’ way to choose a partner!
@@missybelmont9830 ask other men 😂 I go by the saying “even women don’t know what they want.” I’ve met women who say they aren’t looking for relationships. Then in the same month they get in a relationship with someone other than you. I’m not into hookups to you and then they hook up with chad a few days later.
@@josegarza7719Women are emotional. They don't operate on logic or the meaning of words but how they feel in the moment. They operate on intuition and maternal instinct. When the right buttons click, they spring into action. Evolution made them for mating. That's all they are
You're a Sadia Khan if ur both pretty and rich.... I couldn't agree more! I've got such a massive crush on this woman as she is seemingly perfect in every way a LADY can be. And I'd be happy to give a laundry list of how and why Sadia is practically a perfect LADY.
@@biljanabojovic4485 Women are women's biggest enemy ! My sister is a housewife... One day she's upset because of her friends " This is slavery" remark 🤔 I was flabbergasted the way she explained me whole thing n how much it affects her mentally. Her husband is kind , loving hardworking well settled man. On the other hand her friends husband was lame guy who do the 50-50 bs. Smoking addict n coward af... I don't understand why women don't understand the real intention of this type of jealous, hurt themselves mentally by listening to lame shit... I literally explained the whole situation to my sister n thankfully she understood. Don't take relationship advice from single woman or women who are with toxic mfs. This type of women will project their own truama n biases 😑n can possibly ruin your good relationship with your husband or bf
hey listen to the full video. she didnt mean that all housewives are lazy, she meant specifically the lazy ones who don't care about their house/responsibilities .
For the long term I agree that being "looked after" or better put having stability is the most important. And most women lie when they say otherwise If I ask a guy what he does, and he's a manager it is definitely more attractive than if he's the assistant. Bu it's not all about money, it's kinda like the manager position is more powerful. It's just more impressive. And that's important too, finding a guy that you're proud of.
I just discovered this woman who speaks common sense. Thank you, Sadia Khan, for your truth. What pretty women with means have over those who don't is an easy out clause. But she is right. A man who knows you are wealthier than he is but who still "invests" in you is a keeper. I crave a collaborator in the form of a boyfriend. After forty years of searching, I still haven't found the right guy. Ugh.
Rich people hate, if strangers go in their home, to fix things or to help at household. It’s better if the husband or a family member does everything, instead of a stranger. Rich people also choose one person to do everything at home, instead of multiple workers. The reason is usually the stealing at wealthy houses, if an item disappears, rich people can easily find it out if one worker does everything. The love story part is very interesting, even a magician queen can fall in love with a person, and there is no explanation.
This woman does not represent womanhood. She's speaking for a dark sad confused corner of women. Not all of us want to enter into a transaction of looks in exchange for money. Some of us believe in integrity, and authentic connection.
@@Kyle-fp5lmSorry about the disturbed world you live in. I'm a Not for Profit Lawyer and a Dance instructor, loving my life having fun because I have everything I want and still saying it. Life is about emotional health. Not being wealthy and attractive. Watch the documentaries "I Am" and "Happy" for the data supporting that statement, if you need it. Or maybe listen to people with real psych experience - not this Woman.
Not trained to think women cheat. Yes this is facts. But more important is the father. Any father out there raising a son needs to teach their son this fact, it’s been around for centuries I bet. If she doesn’t have a good father/daughter relationship she’s likely to cheat much more than with a stable home
You tell me: I'm now 50yo, with a spare tire (or dad bod), not a care in the world, been single for 6 years now.. 2 weeks ago, me and my friend (girl) were at a pub chatting having fun.. then a girl came to the bar, sat next to me, and while my friend was away, started a convo.. the same night she asked me for my phone.. I wasn't interested (physically, she's flat, I tried hard since I went on a date with her the week after, still can't do it) but she went into a bipolar rage (remember, only 1 date) where when she knew I was with another woman (another good friend online, we never had sex and never will) she throw a fit at me, and the next morning, texting me a book about how sorry she was.. and wasn't ready.. That.. drains..
"Do you think she'd look at you if you were poor?" "Do you think I'd look at her if she were ugly? Fair's fair, exchange rates and so forth." -from 'Lady Windermere's Fan' by Oscar Wilde
If i invest in myself then i wouldn't have to invest in her because she will be there if you look up to your self. Thank you for the insight of how men should treat a woman.
If women are attracted to men that can take care of them, why is it that they always seek and go for the guy that don't want them and just use them....
It shouldn't be based on looks , but as a tall strong handsome man even when I had no money ) I always had plenty of female admirers .. I pity the guys holding on to a woman because they have money 💰 it's very sad.. i wouldn't give them time of day
Sadia Khan says she is the result of Beauty and Wealth 🤦♂️, i say prove it by taking off your pound of Makeup 💄 so we can see what your face really looks like 💁🏻♂️
One thing I stopped doing a long time ago was listening to a woman when she told me what a man is supposed to be for her. Amplified the quality of my life by an order of magnitude.
I personally have to disagree with its your upbringing thing. I and my siblings grew up in a dysfunctional home(dad bailed and phyco stepdad). None of us have did any of the things this woman has said. In fact both my parents came from “traditional family units” and that didn’t prevent anything so I disagree. Also, people with “daddy issues” are just likely to have the same relationship preferences as anyone else.
Can someone please explain. In bother Video she said that you can’t buy attraction. But here she is saying how she is attracted to men who do things for women.
Sadia is an exceptionally intellient lady and a gifted analyst of relationships with deep insights. However, I would like to call out that her characterization of housewives being "entitled and lazy" was wrong and not up to her standards. I hope she sees and rectifies her stance on this.
I dont think men dont want successful woman.....but successful woman are more choosy (as they should be), so they are not attracted to most men they meet. It is not men are not attracted to successful women, but successful women are not attracted to average men.
LOL @ her saying, that women are attracted to men that are able to look after them. Obvioulsy, it helps and matters. But women aren't blind, and feel attracted to a man she finds attractive looking firstly. Hence women select for looks aspects they find attractive, like a man his height, face, body shape, etc... I rarely see good looking man being single, but I do see being single plenty men that are good providers that have average or below average looks.
Funny, years ago my girlfriend at the time invited me over for dinner….she made everything from scratch and told me to just sit down relax and enjoy a glass of wine. This was our third date…I immediately felt more emotional attachment to her than any other woman at the time. Well, we have been married 38 years, raised three great adults and still love each other. Women, men embrace the simple things from you….not money, not a cool car and not a high power job.
It’s easy to get any women when your confident and what she says about sex is wrong just be confident boys and don’t take disrespect easy as that let them walk they come back
It’s true women need more love I’m women I’m not need anything from my Partner I do everything for my se😢but only I need love from him I only wish he love me same
I couldn’t agree more, you both have to give 100% of finances, efforts, upholding the house etc. that’s how it works in my household. We are giving 100% and it works. It’s peaceful, we both know what are goals and purpose are, where we stand and it’s beautiful ❤❤❤
Sadia, I never saw any useless and entitled woman. Taking care of babies and cooking are important chores. I am impressed with your observations and intellect, though.
@@Chad_Max I can't understand how women brag about being strong and independent. Oh, you mean as an adult - you can afford to feed yourself - just like women have been doing for the last 100 years. My 86 year old mother thinks these women are weak. She tells me stories of what her and her friends did in their day. Before photocopiers were invented, companies had typing departments - rooms filled with women. They had their own apartment, car and paid for their own holidays. At some point they all chose to get married and start families. Independence was the default factory setting. Dependent and married was the goal. Today we brag about being independent...its like bragging that we are human. I don't get it.
Seems like if your saying beauty is a womens biggest asset and wealth is the mans biggest asset and when thete all in investing in each other that means the women doing everythng in bedroom and the mans paying for evrything and thats what each sex values individualy
men arent trained to look for red flag? As an anxious avoidant person, I am ALWAYS looking for redflags, hence why i'm still single. I push girls away because I pick on every little detail that i suspect could be signs she is cheating or will cheat, and the fear of that causes me to get angry and push her away
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All married couples end up having 3 some and do swinging too. Never ever get married. All end up divorcing.
In reality, rich men never get good women. Amazing women always want men to spend TIME (not money) with them and grow with them, not to be incorporated into a schedule and wait for pocket money and gifts.
NEVER assume a woman is the source of your own happiness.
After 31 years the woman I thought was my life partner has quit on me.
I have been in love with my own creation of who I thought my wife was, not who she really is.
Only you can make you happy.
"I have been in love with my own creation of who I thought my wife was, not who she really is"... This hit me like a freight train, exactly how I felt about my ex after I've had years to process the break up
Women is part of your happiness. Not your whole world.
Men don’t care what a woman has financially
The sad truth is thatcwe are born alone & we die alone..get used to it
sad but true
I have been married for nearly 40 years and true love for me is self discipline caring and respectful behaviour towards each other especially when one of the partners is seriously sick. Thanks.
Nice mindset...I wish you both a very happy married life ahead! That 'when the partner is really sick' really hit me...
Being married is taking an L
@baldeagle4710 being married is like taking an El train? 😢 mean an elevated train? A just plain L line? A Runaway Train like Soul Asylum from 1993?? What language are you even speaking there. I guess obviously whatever it is you were not totally screwed over as a 17 year old girl marrying a 24 year old Vietnam vet 1st Lt. having his leg about blown off over there while having a sweet office job at the R&R center there, safest place in Vietnam, simply due to sleeping with Vietnamese whores and subsequently just walking home when he wasn't even supposed to be on the street at all and then getting kidnapped by two super angry GIs armed with a .38 or was it a .45. My ex was already a known RAPIST, PEEPING TOM, stealing stuff from my own mother and Yada Yada. 11 years of hell that was till I finished college in 13 years due to repeated lengthy serious illnesses and able to support myself and adopted daughter on my own and then found the man of my dreams, the precise POLAR OPPOSITE OF THE FIRST ONE at work and we were married in the 80s and never thought of wavering from our commitment to one another for 32 years until he died of Alzheimer's. My real husband in fact TOOK CARE of the very people that my ex husband WAS - the MDSO's at a state hospital for the Criminally Insane.
That stands fir mentally disordered sex offenders as if there were any other kind ...
Please do let me know anyone what your rationale just might be for the existence of what me ex represents being anything other than that. I certainly wiuld appreciate hearing an opposing viewpoint just in the nature of fairness - in particular those backed up by scientific data.
If you do not know what that is try some randomized, double-blinded placebo-controlled studies put out by PubMed and etc.
I was a playboy. Had 37 girlfriends before I met my soulmate. I've been married for 5 years and I feel fulfilled. I'm now more focused on how to make the best out of the time left in my life. Sex is overrated! There's more ways to find happiness...😊
Never put the keys to your happiness in someone else's pocket. there are good women out there but they are few and far between but don't give up.
Both should give their 100%,
that statement is so true and should be the basis of a successful relationship.
Keep in mind the man's 100% is different from the woman's 100%, each has specific roles to contribute with.
Never heard that before...even from my own parents while growing up.
Hit the nail on the spot. This is exactly what’s happening to my relationship. I now understand it is the childhood trauma f’d it up. Walking away, it’s hard but I hope it’s for the best. I can’t tolerate it😊
*Women are often drawn to men who can lead in social situations, are emotionally stable, and who show genuine interest without being desperate. These traits create a natural magnetism that goes beyond the surface.*
I've never cheated. But all these videos basically say, if you're abandoned by your parents, you're screwed. If you had a bad childhood, no one should pick you. Doesn't matter I made good choices. Doesn't matter I did better than them in every possible way, work in a hospital and do charity so I can give back to the community, am gentle and caring and able to hold space for those going through insane things (ER Is a quick education, if my childhood wasn't), cook and clean and all that. Fuck I'm more loyal than most people I know.
Nope, bad parents = unlovable. Smart men don't choose women from bad homes. I couldn't help who my parents were, and I'll be cleaning up their messes for the rest of my life.
Darling it's bcos u be decided to work ontouraelf and I guess you are very smart
@@duskydamsel672 try getting past a first date with someone from a good home, though. I can't come out and say "my father was a pedophile and everyone but my brother choose him." All I can say is "I don't speak with my parents because they aren't good people, but I'm very close with my brother and his wife." The only people who give me grace for that come from similar homes like mine, and not all of them have worked on themselves like I have. Do you see the problem now? In practice, the small talk part of getting to know people is SO HARD.
You were doing so well, speaking in a dignified manner, until you unnecessarily dropped the F bomb where it didn’t add to your point, in effect adding to Sadia’s point
@@kevinwasilewski598 actually, I have been trying to stop cussing. It goes in fits and starts. That's something I have been working on cleaning up out of my language, for a while now.
I definitely get where you're coming from, but I think that the videos have a point too. I think it all depends on three things - 1, that you're still not holding anger from your childhood; 2, that you're not repeating patterns that were shown to you during childhood; and 3, the qualities someone is looking for in a person, which most of the time are out of our control.
1 and 2 can be worked out in therapy. For example, I came from a somewhat broken home. I swore for years that I was fine, but constantly kept dating emotionally unavailable men and didn't know why. I've been in therapy for over 1 1/2 years, and that's when I found out that not only am I dating men that resembled my father, but I myself was repeating the behaviors that my parents were unintentionally.
Number 3 like I said is out of our control. There are people who wants partners that have healthy relationships with their parents for various reasons.
Fun fact, I have dated "Successful" women and they are just as bad as the other ones. Just as entitled, just as demanding. However, they tend to have a massive chip on their shoulder that they have "earned" the right to be those things, while trying to compete with you, instead of seeing you as a partner. Or... OR, I can date a barista or waitress who may have the first set of qualities, but not the second.
Those women are in there masculine frame
Exactly
I am successful, not masculine (just a few back to back promotions very quickly) and I don't feel it really changes much about what you want in a relationship. If anything it lifts the standards. I wanted a guy to earn a bit more than me, and I still do. So I'd say we're worse to be honest. But guys are the same. The more you value yourself the more you will want from a partner. This is human nature, not restricted to women. Think of it as if you're marketing something. You can sell your item for $1 or for $10. Firstly if you can sell at $10 why would you settle for $1? That's stupid. And secondly If you did price it at $1 the person who buys it is going to have far more competition to purchase it. Guys seem to struggle with this concept. Even if successsful women didn't want high value men, that doesn't mean they'd end up with the less desirable ones. It would become a lottery ticket.
@@MySimDied hypergamy is natural in women but as women earn more they fail to realize making over 100k a year less than 30 percent of the population makes that which does not taken into account women , gay men , men who prefer a bachelor life style which further lowers her dating prospect. Just as one can have standards so low you can have standards so high it becomes statically not in your favor you will find a person who will check certain boxes. Women say Men have low standards because they brought into the hype that because we are exactly the same and think alike that what I am attracted to in a man they must be looking for that as well. Imagine a man describing the traits he wants and he says he wants some one taller than me, some one who can protect , provide financial security and makes more money than him , is he describing traits a man is likely to have or a woman. Attraction is not asymmetrical and it does not mean men are insecure , It simply means men do not want to date men that are born in a woman's body.
@@youngatnaruto Back to my original point though, if my standards are too high they will have to fall. But it doesn't mean that they will hit the floor. If i can't find a guy earning 100k, I'm going to look at 90k, not a jobless guy living in his mothers basement. Believe it or not, there are men earning 30k that are happily married. There are also plenty of 5'6 guys that are happily married.
I think you guys put way too much emphasis on what rich beautiful onlyfans and instagram girls say. Of course they're not going to be interested in some guy who watches anime and hasn't left home yet, of course. Those girls for the main can meet their expectations of a man. The rest of us have to settle slightly. But still, I have my own house, car, decent job and I'm reasonably attractive. What can ugly anime boy in his mom's basement possibly offer me?
I was with my late wife/partner for 31 years. She cooked and gave me s#x until the very end. She worked for the first 10 years at the beginning of our relationship until she got hurt. I was more than ok to help her out, pay bills that she couldn’t. I miss her so much. 😢
Sorry
You must thank her for being blessed with a wonderful women for 31 years. May God give you more😊
She was very lucky to have you. 🙏
This woman is one of the most beautiful women i have seen in a long time ...
She is much more than just a pretty face ...She has wisdom and appears to have a tender heart ...
I have listened to many of her podcasts ...very insightful ...
The person/ s who invested in her did a very good job...
If she wasnt pretty... she would not be as successful
calm down bro she is wearing makeup. She kicks OK game but its borrowed. Check out corey wayne for the SOURCE of what she is saying
Don't simp!
Simps make her rich
What men give has to be reinvented. The he-man is changing, because she no longer needs protecting, and she no longer need just money. She is starting to need a man who can balance her emotional storms. So "that" man has to be in touch with the field of emotion, not only his own, yet hers enough to go into that rabbit hole, and dig her out. He has to grow these new muscles, by learning to act more from his heart. Which is going to be quite the stretch for most men.
spot on. You can never predict what is going on in the women's mind from the emotional level. That is why the saying says Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. And Men dont like Drama in their lives. Men like peace of mind.
Men and women are VERY opposite: Women are here to experience beauty, and express emotion.
Men are here to experience accomplishments, and to express logic.
All this is polar opposites of each other, yet to have balance in our lives we need each other. He needs her touch to remember to let go of his emotions, and she needs him to be patient while logically making her world work. And through love we have the ability to heal each other by doing or saying what needs to be heard, and NOT what wants to be said. Go in peace.@@WolfManThoughts
Yeah dawg…that sounds like a problem women should resolve themselves lmao
It’s no longer about what women want, it’s about what we as men want too.
A relationship is about 2 people moving in the "Same Direction". When we start talking about who wants what, and who's getting it better, then it's about competition. At that point the line has been crossed: competition in a relationship IS divorce, remember that.@@Hunnidproof888
@@WolfManThoughts healthy minded women want peace of mind too..
Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy.
What about sex?
@@mikeprice8307 Sex is a very small part of a relationship.
@@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls what do you do for it being single?
@@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls in your life maybe yes
@@mikeprice8307 don’t take advice from TH-cam comments about sex, there’s an idea
She’s correct about women who are financially stable and successful. We tend to get taken advantage of and we are not always comfortable asking for help. It’s a blessing but comes with its cons.
Happy life with no wife and no kids ❤️❤️❤️
Exactly 💯 freedom
Sad reality is you use porn instead.
You must be young. Good, be young and free. It isn't sustainable forever though.❤
Get a mediocre looking girl who is willing to work and help you out through good or bad. Being single and alone sucks when you get old. I work around older people who have nobody to visit or care for them. A good amount of them never had kids. It's actually pretty sad. Women want someone who makes more than them. Find your equal
The truth is you don't have what it takes to attract women. Deep down you know it but pretending as if you don't want them in the first place.
“Look after” means give them everything they want without working for it.
No it really doesn't. This is likely why you're single. It means being taken care of and feeling stable.
@@MySimDiedbro learned is from his ex like I did
I can’t stand “the wall” narrative running rampant for unwed/childless women over 30. It’s apparently a crime in society to choose to grow and mature alone. I don’t want to be a baby mama or divorced single parent. I understand the biological age aspect of “the wall”. but as someone who was raised by a single parent, with a very involved grandfather, I would rather die childless than be a struggling single parent. I would never want my children to ever feel like a burden the same way I did. No disrespect to baby mamas or divorced people lol.
The wall is very real though. I, myself, as a man was looking to women my age or maybe 1-2 year older while I was in my 20s. But nearing my 30s, I began looking to younger women as I see clearly that most women my age do not age well (there are exceptions of course).
It is such a pity a beautiful woman did not have a husband. But she has several lovers ! 🥰
The problem is there are good & right people for us out there but we will never meet them. Many people will end up with wrong people.
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A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him , I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated , I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
Interesting , how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how can i get in touch with her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Sometimes the wrong men think you're attracted to them it's a harsh reality for them when you reject them in person have a sweet day.
Men whom are not 8/10 and above in attractiveness you mean. Even when you are a 5.
Rejection is a harsh reality within itself period 😅
No matter how handsome, fit, and educated a man is, women will not be interested if he is broke and a soldier deployed. Then later, if that same guy is an affluent professional, women will be eager to date him.
Sadia, you are beautiful and smart and you are the only psychologist in the world with whom I agree more than 90% of times...incredible! Congrats, you are really good!
My wife is that lazy bum housewife. I’m not sure about the entitled part. But I get a great deal of satisfaction knowing I am making a difference to at least one person on this earth who I can honestly say I am good for. I am a good thing in her life and to me,that means everything. One person who can vouch for me at the pearly gates and say “yes, let him in”. And, if I could just show her how to keep her mouth shut, the same way Mom said about me, and not go around spilling the beans to potential con artists and fortune tellers, she would be perfect. Who wants a beautiful, rich woman with the wherewithal to destroy you if she so chooses? Not me, thank you.
Sounds like a one sided relationship but if you are happy 🤷♂️
@@iamkAIden yes, one sided definitely better than a beautiful and rich partner destroying you. Which, thankfully, has never happened. Do you have a successful marriage? You could call Jim Lucca if there's a doubt. He's the one who knows.
@@thetruther954You're so miserable it can be seen from space.
I'm willing to be by a woman side and support her, protect and provide even if she's financially independent.
Simp..
Nice.Thank you .May you find a beautiful person by your side .
The question is what the woman will do then ? Will she contribute financially or do household chores ? If you are not holding her accountable, then you are a simp and she will eventually leave you..
The question is what the woman will do then ? Will she contribute financially or do household chores ? If you are not holding her accountable, then you are a s1mp and she will eventually leave you..
I'm so glad I never cared about finding a 'life partner', theres so many reasons to not do it, especially for a man. 'Modern women' & their mentality now makes it SOOO much easier to make that decision. I am very happy with my independence & following my mission, which also ironically makes me more attractive to women.
What is a about modern women that does not attract you?
@@makhdoommohammad8923This of course is a generalization & my opinion, I also say this because of what I see going on with relationships in general. First, they’re masculine. I think I’d be more open to find a woman in a more rural area of another country….2nd, modern women obviously have been raised to see things from a materialistic & self-absorbed perspective which includes princess upbringing (I do get the evolutionary side but it’s been hijacked by institutions n corporations to make us better consumers too). It’s hard for me to treat a woman like a princess when she’s masculine and expects it. Again, it’s just not worth it to me when I am very happy alone & it’s women that ‘need’ relationships more than men, yet you must cater to their ‘vision’ of what they want, it’s a fantasy you have to uphold & then they may change their mind about everything & may choose to leave u anyway (women respect people that don’t cater to them so it’s like a SETUP here)…3rd, modern women are relatively very fickle/selfish (coupled with hypergamy & the emotional nature of women, makes them relatively undependable in this way). Another big one with modern women is the influence of 3rd wave feminism, which ironically has made men (that listen) more unattractive to these women & could be a big part of the other reasons I gave above. Excuse me if this was too long ha, but trying to explain it all.
@@hidetoedwarduno7681 Many Thanks for your reply. Modern women can be self absorbed and expected princess like treatment, they can be very masculine in nature (wanting to lead and expect you to follow them), they can also be a burden financially with their life style expectations....I am so content at 39 with single life and I don't think I can tolerate a women like you've described. Maybe a village women will have a different orientation, she is raised to serve her husband and take care of his home 🏡
And actually some one who's not a burden on paycheck. I want some one like. Otherwise I am happy with single life. God help us.
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well thanks for having a calm conversation with me (agree or not) n not trying to see where I am wrong lol, lot of that on the internet by guys that probably don’t get women haha. Yes, the funny thing is when u focus on u & ur life & being happy, women are more likely to be attracted & want to prove themselves to u, while trying to make them happy too much makes them unhappy & they leave u lol. Thanks for the blessing, we’re good, men r naturally independent & we r so much more attractive to women when we don’t want them lol, it’s a weird game but it’s not womens fault, it’s evolution. Blessings to u & ur family & May u find everything u want in life.
@@hidetoedwarduno7681 I wish you well and I completely agree with you. I hope and pray we don't become misogynist and end up finding good women for ourselves while maintaning economic and spiritual progress. 🙏
How about a woman who said she would pay me back when I paid 100 percent on 3 projects for her house (50 percent due ) ???
Relationships are unique, and people choose partners for different reasons. In the past, women often looked for financial stability in a partner because they didn’t have many opportunities to earn on their own. Today, many women can take care of themselves, so they focus more on emotional connections and shared values.
Attraction is also complex-some people are drawn to creative or sensitive individuals, like poets or singers, because they seem more open and caring. Others might enjoy excitement and adventure, but over time, they may look for someone who offers emotional security and understanding.
Ultimately, what matters most in any relationship-whether you’re rich or poor, creative or practical-is being kind, respectful, and able to support each other’s growth. Everyone is different, so there’s no single ‘right’ way to choose a partner!
The end of this was powerful! People should really listen up.
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Men, NEVER TAKE DATING ADVICE FROM A WOMAN. They’ll never understand what it’s like from our POV and vice versa.
Never take dating women advice from a woman* 😮
How else are you gonna know what women want!?
@@missybelmont9830 ask other men 😂 I go by the saying “even women don’t know what they want.”
I’ve met women who say they aren’t looking for relationships. Then in the same month they get in a relationship with someone other than you.
I’m not into hookups to you and then they hook up with chad a few days later.
they want MONEY !! @@missybelmont9830
@@josegarza7719Women are emotional. They don't operate on logic or the meaning of words but how they feel in the moment. They operate on intuition and maternal instinct. When the right buttons click, they spring into action. Evolution made them for mating. That's all they are
You're a Sadia Khan if ur both pretty and rich.... I couldn't agree more! I've got such a massive crush on this woman as she is seemingly perfect in every way a LADY can be. And I'd be happy to give a laundry list of how and why Sadia is practically a perfect LADY.
You don't know that yet
Agreed. She is drop dead gorgeous.
What is more romantic then calling a relationship investment? 😬🤮 everything wrong with this narcissistic generation. I'm out.
Isn’t it though?
Oh , " independent woman are awesome and housewives are lazy " no wonder why she isn't married
Yes, I didn't like that.
@@biljanabojovic4485 Women are women's biggest enemy ! My sister is a housewife... One day she's upset because of her friends " This is slavery" remark 🤔 I was flabbergasted the way she explained me whole thing n how much it affects her mentally. Her husband is kind , loving hardworking well settled man. On the other hand her friends husband was lame guy who do the 50-50 bs. Smoking addict n coward af... I don't understand why women don't understand the real intention of this type of jealous, hurt themselves mentally by listening to lame shit... I literally explained the whole situation to my sister n thankfully she understood.
Don't take relationship advice from single woman or women who are with toxic mfs. This type of women will project their own truama n biases 😑n can possibly ruin your good relationship with your husband or bf
That was really bad.
@@riyajacob2909 ??
hey listen to the full video. she didnt mean that all housewives are lazy, she meant specifically the lazy ones who don't care about their house/responsibilities .
She has such a cute giggly goofy personality such amazing traits traits
For the long term I agree that being "looked after" or better put having stability is the most important. And most women lie when they say otherwise If I ask a guy what he does, and he's a manager it is definitely more attractive than if he's the assistant. Bu it's not all about money, it's kinda like the manager position is more powerful. It's just more impressive. And that's important too, finding a guy that you're proud of.
_"a beautiful, wholesome, successful woman"_ Oh, is that all I need to find! Let me just pop around the store to pick one up!
I just discovered this woman who speaks common sense. Thank you, Sadia Khan, for your truth. What pretty women with means have over those who don't is an easy out clause. But she is right. A man who knows you are wealthier than he is but who still "invests" in you is a keeper. I crave a collaborator in the form of a boyfriend. After forty years of searching, I still haven't found the right guy. Ugh.
Rich people hate, if strangers go in their home, to fix things or to help at household. It’s better if the husband or a family member does everything, instead of a stranger. Rich people also choose one person to do everything at home, instead of multiple workers. The reason is usually the stealing at wealthy houses, if an item disappears, rich people can easily find it out if one worker does everything. The love story part is very interesting, even a magician queen can fall in love with a person, and there is no explanation.
If the logical progression is Lust, Like, Love, then initial attraction is about the sex. Like and Love come later.
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This woman does not represent womanhood. She's speaking for a dark sad confused corner of women.
Not all of us want to enter into a transaction of looks in exchange for money.
Some of us believe in integrity, and authentic connection.
Really now? Is that before or after women had their fun? Because nowadays they seem to say that only after they have nothing left.
@@Kyle-fp5lmSorry about the disturbed world you live in.
I'm a Not for Profit Lawyer and a Dance instructor, loving my life having fun because I have everything I want and still saying it.
Life is about emotional health.
Not being wealthy and attractive.
Watch the documentaries "I Am" and "Happy" for the data supporting that statement, if you need it. Or maybe listen to people with real psych experience - not this Woman.
@@Solistastyle could you recommend some of these channels?
She's so funny, great sense of humour hahaha 😂😂
It's funny how my mom never dreamed of saying or acting like my dad was not enough.
The best way is to keep for yourself, troubling times ahead.
Love her confidence❤❤❤
What a challenge to have this pretty woman as a partner. I think she will know every step or every word that come out from ur mouth.
Yes she has said it in an interview before
This is a good video. She provides a different perspective.
Not trained to think women cheat. Yes this is facts. But more important is the father. Any father out there raising a son needs to teach their son this fact, it’s been around for centuries I bet. If she doesn’t have a good father/daughter relationship she’s likely to cheat much more than with a stable home
Save your money kings, real queens dont need your money just your support
Women whants to smile!! When a man is sad, women dont like that type of guy! Make she smile, and she will be yours for your life!!
You tell me: I'm now 50yo, with a spare tire (or dad bod), not a care in the world, been single for 6 years now.. 2 weeks ago, me and my friend (girl) were at a pub chatting having fun.. then a girl came to the bar, sat next to me, and while my friend was away, started a convo.. the same night she asked me for my phone.. I wasn't interested (physically, she's flat, I tried hard since I went on a date with her the week after, still can't do it) but she went into a bipolar rage (remember, only 1 date) where when she knew I was with another woman (another good friend online, we never had sex and never will) she throw a fit at me, and the next morning, texting me a book about how sorry she was.. and wasn't ready..
That.. drains..
Just do things for each other it should be natural and effortless in the sense that you both want to help each other
That's love. If you just want to be happy and not to make your partner happy it's not love.
"Do you think she'd look at you if you were poor?"
"Do you think I'd look at her if she were ugly? Fair's fair, exchange rates and so forth."
-from 'Lady Windermere's Fan' by Oscar Wilde
Oscar Wilde was...
...Was WHAT, @@biljanabojovic4485 ?
...Was WHAT, @@biljanabojovic4485?
Without a shadow of a doubt … so true ! 😮
This is precisely why I'm unattractive to women---I'm not interested in looking after them.
If i invest in myself then i wouldn't have to invest in her because she will be there if you look up to your self. Thank you for the insight of how men should treat a woman.
You can't do ANYTHING for a Woman! She'll wake up one morning and forget every damn thing you ever did!
If women are attracted to men that can take care of them, why is it that they always seek and go for the guy that don't want them and just use them....
thanks for your perspectives - they ring true
Relationships and having a family nowadays is almost impossible for both men & woman
It shouldn't be based on looks , but as a tall strong handsome man even when I had no money ) I always had plenty of female admirers .. I pity the guys holding on to a woman because they have money 💰 it's very sad.. i wouldn't give them time of day
Sadia Khan says she is the result of Beauty and Wealth 🤦♂️, i say prove it by taking off your pound of Makeup 💄 so we can see what your face really looks like 💁🏻♂️
She would still be pretty. If you aren’t no amount of make up changes that
@rosyapplekitchen635 When we see her without all that Clown 🤡 paint on then we can judge accordingly 💁🏻♂️
This is the most beautiful woman on the planet, hands down.
This is facts and you spoke the truth.💯
I'm home alone for 2 weeks now .. its so beautiful to be living by myself .. soon mom and kids are returning from travel and then my free time is over
One thing I stopped doing a long time ago was listening to a woman when she told me what a man is supposed to be for her.
Amplified the quality of my life by an order of magnitude.
At this point in life I genuinely don't care about women & who they are attracted to. I love my nice little cosy life a bit too much to adjust
I think you do which is why you came here to listen to Sadia
@@makhdoommohammad8923 nope it's just the TH-cam algorithm
@@NietzscheDevot I actually agree with you. Modern women are problematic. I think women in our older generations were much better
Don’t generalise, it only takes one woman to change your mind.
Hey man fresh mindness and real love is forever love.🎉
Mmmh 👏🏾💪🏾 wakhuluma Nkosazana ngiyakuzwa mina 🫡
I personally have to disagree with its your upbringing thing. I and my siblings grew up in a dysfunctional home(dad bailed and phyco stepdad). None of us have did any of the things this woman has said. In fact both my parents came from “traditional family units” and that didn’t prevent anything so I disagree. Also, people with “daddy issues” are just likely to have the same relationship preferences as anyone else.
Its a fallback for people who can't accept they did any wrong. Always have to blame someone else.
"Give free money to me, and not to entitled women."
I ain’t got no money, I ain’t got no woman
Can someone please explain. In bother Video she said that you can’t buy attraction. But here she is saying how she is attracted to men who do things for women.
Sadia is an exceptionally intellient lady and a gifted analyst of relationships with deep insights. However, I would like to call out that her characterization of housewives being "entitled and lazy" was wrong and not up to her standards. I hope she sees and rectifies her stance on this.
I dont think men dont want successful woman.....but successful woman are more choosy (as they should be), so they are not attracted to most men they meet.
It is not men are not attracted to successful women, but successful women are not attracted to average men.
Sadia is like a teacher in school
Sadia and Kevin Samuels would have been a dope conversation
Women suffer from group think and fomo,
9/10 look at the mother or the friends and you’ll see the truth.
LOL @ her saying, that women are attracted to men that are able to look after them. Obvioulsy, it helps and matters.
But women aren't blind, and feel attracted to a man she finds attractive looking firstly. Hence women select for looks aspects they find attractive, like a man his height, face, body shape, etc...
I rarely see good looking man being single, but I do see being single plenty men that are good providers that have average or below average looks.
Funny, years ago my girlfriend at the time invited me over for dinner….she made everything from scratch and told me to just sit down relax and enjoy a glass of wine. This was our third date…I immediately felt more emotional attachment to her than any other woman at the time. Well, we have been married 38 years, raised three great adults and still love each other. Women, men embrace the simple things from you….not money, not a cool car and not a high power job.
great interview
Excellent video!❤
I love her sense of humor though! So lovely😅😅❤❤
It’s easy to get any women when your confident and what she says about sex is wrong just be confident boys and don’t take disrespect easy as that let them walk they come back
Sadia as a women has not dated women as a man. She knows little of the real man’s struggle.
Sadia does know her stuff though yeah she could never truly understand the man’s struggles which are so misunderstood by the women
she uses her beauty as a weapon and tool. So dating for her is basically like pointing at a line up for the next pecker she fancies
Is she gay?
The perfect guide for MGTOW.
It’s true women need more love I’m women I’m not need anything from my Partner I do everything for my se😢but only I need love from him I only wish he love me same
Very interesting and very informative 👍 👌 👏
I couldn’t agree more, you both have to give 100% of finances, efforts, upholding the house etc. that’s how it works in my household. We are giving 100% and it works. It’s peaceful, we both know what are goals and purpose are, where we stand and it’s beautiful ❤❤❤
She is right. The fear of abandonment.
I want kids, but don’t want a woman.
Smart
Another example of never ask a woman about what women want. Listen to Stoic and get manly.
Sadia, I never saw any useless and entitled woman. Taking care of babies and cooking are important chores. I am impressed with your observations and intellect, though.
She looks attractive
Not all housewives are lazy bums...
Yeah, it was disgraceful. A good housewife is much better than a career woman like Sadia.
@@Chad_Max I can't understand how women brag about being strong and independent. Oh, you mean as an adult - you can afford to feed yourself - just like women have been doing for the last 100 years. My 86 year old mother thinks these women are weak. She tells me stories of what her and her friends did in their day. Before photocopiers were invented, companies had typing departments - rooms filled with women. They had their own apartment, car and paid for their own holidays. At some point they all chose to get married and start families. Independence was the default factory setting. Dependent and married was the goal. Today we brag about being independent...its like bragging that we are human. I don't get it.
Thank you sincerely that really help
A man is not born rich. His appearance also elevates him!
It's energy. How he carries himself
Wowww... Speechless.
This guy is bringing this convo down. He's lost. Listen bruh while she speaks....
You forgot one thing:
Women like men who don't fully like them back
Seems like if your saying beauty is a womens biggest asset and wealth is the mans biggest asset and when thete all in investing in each other that means the women doing everythng in bedroom and the mans paying for evrything and thats what each sex values individualy
I just abandoned my wife and kid due to her disrespectful behaviour for 5 years
Good 4u mate, stay strong
men arent trained to look for red flag? As an anxious avoidant person, I am ALWAYS looking for redflags, hence why i'm still single. I push girls away because I pick on every little detail that i suspect could be signs she is cheating or will cheat, and the fear of that causes me to get angry and push her away
Love you coach ❤ Thank again