The more boring a man is, the better husband and father he will be. He'll be attentive to the kids, and they'll adore him. The family's pets will regard him as being their best friend, he's always playing with them and taking them for walks. He always comes directly home from work, never stops for "a cold one" at the neighborhood tavern, would never cheat, does 75% of the work around the house and yard, works hard, does good, and causes no problems at all. No wonder most women can't stand him and therefore dump him for a man who has none of these qualities.
@isaza5716 where did he say the guy he described has no interests? His interest is his family. That "boring" guy is responsible and dependable. Something everyone wants.
@@bobkonradi1027 This. When women select for “excitement” they are functionally selecting for men of poor character. People of sound character are consistent and honorable…which makes them “boring” to people who crave drama and chaos.
Boring for who? If a man has his own interests that other people do not like he is considered boring? He is not bored. If other people find him boring, that is their problem. Boring is a subjective term that really has no value unless you can quantify it properly. He may find other people boring because they are off at parties and always talking about politics and gossip.
Wonderful video My partnership of five years ended a month ago. When my true love decided to part ways with me, it truly is the only thing on my mind. I can't fathom my life with anyone else, and even though I've tried everything to get him back, it's all in vain. Despite my best efforts to put him out of my thoughts, I can't help but miss him and think about him all the time. I could not really tell you why I am saying this.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I grew up watching Matthew Hussey. I was 13 when I first watched him. Thing is when I was naive and inexperienced with men and dating, I could have easily believed Matthew but as I have progressed and dated so many men, I even tried using tactics to manipulate men into doing the things I like, I began to have the same perspective as Sadia.
He doesn’t want to be truthful in front of that woman. She ALWAYS blames the guy for being valueless and weak, instead of the woman being turned on by someone who could potentially throttle her to death….
I'm wondering if he had to pander to his mom's emotions when he was a child and this is just him trying to do the same thing in his subconscious. To me he seems more desperate for approval than the lady and less genuine.
Same Gives hustler vibes The look of distress on his face during this entire conversation is actually satisfying You weren't asked about why everyone pick bad partners, you were asked why women continue to pick bad partners. So scared to offend his audience (meal ticket)
In this episode (the full version ) I found Matthew Hussey very hostile towards Sadia amd he was trying to antagonize her every time he could get a chance. I feel that he came with a predetermined agenda thinking that it would be a space for him to attract more women towards his programs with a hidden agenda like "women are not the bad ones when things go south with a man... Men are also very tricky blabla" he lloked like someone who tries really hard to underline a kind of subtle victim mentality within his community ... Whereas Sadia was coming from a place of "whether you are a man or a woman you are responsible of your relationship 100% so if something doesn't go the way you want it ask yourself to what extent did you or are you still contributing to that ?". Sadia was waayyyy more diplomatic to Matthew and she was showing way more respect to him than he was showing to her. Even his body language was apwaking volumes about his feelings, attirude and behavior towards Sadia. So sadly for a man who works with women and pretends to defend them he couldn't even master the basis of his communication towards a woman. What I also found very hostile and not ok is : when Sadia mentioned that she comes from a muslim background he immediately jumped to get it away of the conversation as if she was invoking the devil and all the underworld 😂 Bro just chill... You can learn so much about dignity if you let her finish her sentence 😅 Anyway , I litterally lost a lot of interest for Matthew Hussey after this debate... Unfortunately he was jot going after the ideas but after a person just like he was trying to get the upper hand in the converaation... Too bad and too sad.
Take out the competition. He makes his living leaning into women’s romantic fantasies. She makes hers by holding up a mirror to how people really are: the good, the bad and the ugly.
I couldn’t agree more. This obsession with proxies for value are more important than the actual value shows we have a lot of ill people in society. Look at the rate of breakups and divorces to see where society is pretending value is. It’s like we’re living in a mass delusion and punishing ourselves to ensure no one is happy
My ex once knows I’m fully committed and we planned for marriage, (she’s the one who brought it up), she suddenly “fell out of romantic love” for me and even though she says she still loves me and I have been a great boyfriend. She’s just not interested anymore 🥴
It is easy to criticize anyone. I like Mathew because he does a pretty good job of explaining a single bit of information in a way that it can be understood by the people "who most need to hear what he has to say." (i.e., people who chase their feelings rather than a good/strong relationship.) Not every message is meant for every person on the internet. lol
Don’t believe the advertising if there is nothing behind the curtain. If the answer is “in what way will you be responsible?” “I am not responsible at all. The only person I control is me”. Well, the advertising was window dressing and you can go on home.
Pre-selection is a myth, because if so, men would never have been empathic towards the feminism movement and gave space to listen to woman/incorporate into society in a manner that makes woman felt heard. If you believe pre-selection, men would have never chose to allow that to happen since it would been engrained permanently in men. Just like how pre-selection doesn't make sense to woman, since now they are filling the voids that they once chose to call out on men. Sometimes societal norms through group think can make people act stupid instead of a pre-determined set of behaviors. Because if you look at scales long term enough, societal innovations have helped people realize that it was always a choice, but your surroundings can implement beliefs on you due to the group think mentality. You get ostracized for being on the outside of this group mentality and therefore you feel obligated to ground your beliefs in whatever the group thinks.
It's not about communication, it's just an example he's giving... It's about people not having capacity to choose partners well.. It affexlcts all of us somehow! Maybe yours is not communication but in something else.....
You're gonna say ciao to many, if you stay like that. Eventially you realize, that mutual compromise, comprehension and waiting for the other fosters trust. And mutual trust opens the door to depth. But until then, you remain just superficial.
I'm 40 years old and I haven't been in a relationship since I was 33 because number one the way people act especially women these days with their entitled attitudes is distasteful and as much as I could always get back into the dating circle I don't want to because I'm tired of being told no But women in my experience have chosen the wrong man to be with about 70% of the time because they believe that they're always going to have that fairy tale happily ever after ending and then the moment they get out of a bad relationship they blame all men instead of blaming themselves. No I am not looking for the Virgin Mary because that's damn near impossible but I am not looking for someone who is going to be mean to me and disrespect me every time I come home you all wanted the bad boy you wanted the guy who makes six figures well now all of your choices have come back to bite you and the descent men are no longer interested
Women who choose the wrong men she deffenately Not a love adventure tho... Everyone can sugarcoat everything before relationship n theres might be other obstacle which ruin n change their boundaries n obligation that they cant handle wisely. Who would know anyway ?!?
Matt Hussey is the king of simps. His advice is generally terrible, and designed to get people to buy into his course and books. It ends up with a bunch of women repeating the same terrible mistakes that have already made them undateable and emotionally disgusting to most men.
The more boring a man is, the better husband and father he will be. He'll be attentive to the kids, and they'll adore him. The family's pets will regard him as being their best friend, he's always playing with them and taking them for walks. He always comes directly home from work, never stops for "a cold one" at the neighborhood tavern, would never cheat, does 75% of the work around the house and yard, works hard, does good, and causes no problems at all. No wonder most women can't stand him and therefore dump him for a man who has none of these qualities.
Women want a man. Not a dishwasher.
My husband is boring and has no interesst... and now hes depressed, because hes bored and I am his ego fodder... no thanks!!
@isaza5716 where did he say the guy he described has no interests? His interest is his family. That "boring" guy is responsible and dependable. Something everyone wants.
@@bobkonradi1027 This. When women select for “excitement” they are functionally selecting for men of poor character.
People of sound character are consistent and honorable…which makes them “boring” to people who crave drama and chaos.
Boring for who? If a man has his own interests that other people do not like he is considered boring? He is not bored. If other people find him boring, that is their problem. Boring is a subjective term that really has no value unless you can quantify it properly. He may find other people boring because they are off at parties and always talking about politics and gossip.
Wonderful video My partnership of five years ended a month ago. When my true love decided to part ways with me, it truly is the only thing on my mind. I can't fathom my life with anyone else, and even though I've tried everything to get him back, it's all in vain. Despite my best efforts to put him out of my thoughts, I can't help but miss him and think about him all the time. I could not really tell you why I am saying this.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I grew up watching Matthew Hussey. I was 13 when I first watched him. Thing is when I was naive and inexperienced with men and dating, I could have easily believed Matthew but as I have progressed and dated so many men, I even tried using tactics to manipulate men into doing the things I like, I began to have the same perspective as Sadia.
When your audience is geared towards women. You get Matthew Hussey. An idealist. That's as nice as I can be to describe Matthew Hussey.
He doesn’t want to be truthful in front of that woman. She ALWAYS blames the guy for being valueless and weak, instead of the woman being turned on by someone who could potentially throttle her to death….
he is pretty
@@jackdeniston6150 pretty dumb
I'm wondering if he had to pander to his mom's emotions when he was a child and this is just him trying to do the same thing in his subconscious. To me he seems more desperate for approval than the lady and less genuine.
Same
Gives hustler vibes
The look of distress on his face during this entire conversation is actually satisfying
You weren't asked about why everyone pick bad partners, you were asked why women continue to pick bad partners.
So scared to offend his audience (meal ticket)
In this episode (the full version ) I found Matthew Hussey very hostile towards Sadia amd he was trying to antagonize her every time he could get a chance.
I feel that he came with a predetermined agenda thinking that it would be a space for him to attract more women towards his programs with a hidden agenda like "women are not the bad ones when things go south with a man... Men are also very tricky blabla" he lloked like someone who tries really hard to underline a kind of subtle victim mentality within his community ... Whereas Sadia was coming from a place of "whether you are a man or a woman you are responsible of your relationship 100% so if something doesn't go the way you want it ask yourself to what extent did you or are you still contributing to that ?".
Sadia was waayyyy more diplomatic to Matthew and she was showing way more respect to him than he was showing to her.
Even his body language was apwaking volumes about his feelings, attirude and behavior towards Sadia.
So sadly for a man who works with women and pretends to defend them he couldn't even master the basis of his communication towards a woman.
What I also found very hostile and not ok is : when Sadia mentioned that she comes from a muslim background he immediately jumped to get it away of the conversation as if she was invoking the devil and all the underworld 😂 Bro just chill... You can learn so much about dignity if you let her finish her sentence 😅
Anyway , I litterally lost a lot of interest for Matthew Hussey after this debate...
Unfortunately he was jot going after the ideas but after a person just like he was trying to get the upper hand in the converaation... Too bad and too sad.
You can it on his mirco-expressions, when he looks at her.
He knows where his bread is buttered. He's basically a glorified panderer.
Take out the competition. He makes his living leaning into women’s romantic fantasies. She makes hers by holding up a mirror to how people really are: the good, the bad and the ugly.
How do you really feel? 😆
Your are right.
Because women aren't looking for a husband, they are looking for an entertainment director.
I couldn’t agree more. This obsession with proxies for value are more important than the actual value shows we have a lot of ill people in society. Look at the rate of breakups and divorces to see where society is pretending value is. It’s like we’re living in a mass delusion and punishing ourselves to ensure no one is happy
My ex once knows I’m fully committed and we planned for marriage, (she’s the one who brought it up), she suddenly “fell out of romantic love” for me and even though she says she still loves me and I have been a great boyfriend. She’s just not interested anymore 🥴
Kaeruka-genshō. Avoidant Attachment.
It is easy to criticize anyone. I like Mathew because he does a pretty good job of explaining a single bit of information in a way that it can be understood by the people "who most need to hear what he has to say." (i.e., people who chase their feelings rather than a good/strong relationship.) Not every message is meant for every person on the internet. lol
I love Matthew's analogy here - is it about the ideology or about the person - especially his term "opportunity hostage".
Never heard anyone describing this problem so perfectly
Don’t believe the advertising if there is nothing behind the curtain. If the answer is “in what way will you be responsible?” “I am not responsible at all. The only person I control is me”. Well, the advertising was window dressing and you can go on home.
It's pre-selection, gentlemen, pre-selection.
Pre-selection is a myth, because if so, men would never have been empathic towards the feminism movement and gave space to listen to woman/incorporate into society in a manner that makes woman felt heard. If you believe pre-selection, men would have never chose to allow that to happen since it would been engrained permanently in men. Just like how pre-selection doesn't make sense to woman, since now they are filling the voids that they once chose to call out on men.
Sometimes societal norms through group think can make people act stupid instead of a pre-determined set of behaviors. Because if you look at scales long term enough, societal innovations have helped people realize that it was always a choice, but your surroundings can implement beliefs on you due to the group think mentality. You get ostracized for being on the outside of this group mentality and therefore you feel obligated to ground your beliefs in whatever the group thinks.
@@Vishfeast Wrong. Pre selection is part of evolutionary theory. Take your time to read it
@@ferreirasilas i bet u didnt read it. just watched yt vids huh
@@stendaalcartography3436 And so did you huh
@@ferreirasilas No, i didnt even watch the video for it. Also I wasn't preaching wat I wasn't practicing. Big difference.
It dosent happen for me. If there is no investment in communication. Then I say ciao.
It's not about communication, it's just an example he's giving... It's about people not having capacity to choose partners well.. It affexlcts all of us somehow! Maybe yours is not communication but in something else.....
You're gonna say ciao to many, if you stay like that. Eventially you realize, that mutual compromise, comprehension and waiting for the other fosters trust. And mutual trust opens the door to depth. But until then, you remain just superficial.
@@gorligorlitzki5360 What is your compromise, when he doesnt want to communicate....?
Matt is a panderer. He knows if he tells women the truth, his $$$ will evaporate, thats why his advise is always weak BS
What he is saying is most people are idiots and he is correct
Wow! Well said Matthew.
I'm 40 years old and I haven't been in a relationship since I was 33 because number one the way people act especially women these days with their entitled attitudes is distasteful and as much as I could always get back into the dating circle I don't want to because I'm tired of being told no
But women in my experience have chosen the wrong man to be with about 70% of the time because they believe that they're always going to have that fairy tale happily ever after ending and then the moment they get out of a bad relationship they blame all men instead of blaming themselves.
No I am not looking for the Virgin Mary because that's damn near impossible but I am not looking for someone who is going to be mean to me and disrespect me every time I come home you all wanted the bad boy you wanted the guy who makes six figures well now all of your choices have come back to bite you and the descent men are no longer interested
Wanna know the real truth? Women love to be lied to.
Don't believe me? "Wow it's your birthday? Did you just turn 27?"
....exactly
Excellent example 🤘🏽👏👏👏👌
😂 I said fuck that and bought a new wrx. It's funny how women value status. Now I attract the one's I'm interested in, but I'm not interested lol
This is all well and nice, but nothing you say logically is going to make women NOT GO for the 10% guys.
7 minutes for a 10 second answer over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over…
because their body reacts to the wrong men and they completely ignore their logical brain
it's caused by multitudes of aspects.
not just one
boring but stable vs fun but crazy
Boring is in YOU
Always the choice
Women who choose the wrong men she deffenately Not a love adventure tho... Everyone can sugarcoat everything before relationship n theres might be other obstacle which ruin n change their boundaries n obligation that they cant handle wisely. Who would know anyway ?!?
3 hour wait time, rather get food from a food truck than waste 3 hours for food.
Matt Hussey is the king of simps. His advice is generally terrible, and designed to get people to buy into his course and books. It ends up with a bunch of women repeating the same terrible mistakes that have already made them undateable and emotionally disgusting to most men.
That description of the guy at the start bored me to death, a week before texting back i would text back f_ck off
My ideal mam
i think i can answer that question; may be that kind of women has lost trust in men; especially for romantic relationships.
Nome of them has a clue what they're talking about.
Men and women aren’t supposed to be together. That’s why relationships are so difficult.
Only after marriage man and woman are supposed to be engaged together.