I'm Done With This Woman | Financial Audit
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Last episode of the year 😊 thank you all so much for an amazing 2023, it’s been an absolute dream. You’re all truly the best and I wish I could give you all a big hug ❤
Thank you for the great year, going to miss the uploads over the winter break.
thank u finance daddy for all that you do 🫰
Thank you for all your hard work this year!❤
Love you Caleb! Making me turn my finances around.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Caleb! You've had an amazing year! Have a good holiday and give yourself a break from the chaos! See you next year!
This woman has mastered the art of saying nothing in as many words as possible.
if you visit LA this is how most of the population talks. super fake and dances around topics for days. i loathe the west coast.
Yes! Im thinking she came on to showcase her work instead of actually looking to take action in her life. This was suppose to be about her finances but it was mostly her healing journey.
probably listens to deepak chopra
She said a lot but you didn't listen. Basically her problems stems from trauma of being sexually abused. Had you actually had listened her you would've picked that up. Her delusions and "inner child" were coping mechanism to deal with the trauma.
Nailed it
the amount of hypocrisy is insane
> I hate capitalism
< buys expensive shit
> i blame the system
< literally on food stamps
> i take responsibility
< avoids all responsibility
holy hell she is exhausting and god help everyone she is close to.
I lost her when she said 'I don't know what comes in and don't look at my bank accounts' like what haha....
I mean I hate capitalism as much as the next guy, but I still recognize that I have to operate within that sytem, as Caleb was saying. She uses all these "spiritual" and "holistic" buzzwords to justify her irresponsibility. It's very frustrating to watch.
As a very liberal person, I got so pissed when I heard she was on food stamps after talking about all the designer cloths she buys.
@06silverfire I wouldn’t be bragging about being a liberal…
Neither liberalism nor conservatism are positions to boast, lets be real. @@riverrat3269
What this woman loves most is the sound of her own voice.
That and the feel of her own hair
@@susanlee8023seems like it’s either a stress response or she wants to look good for the cameras.
I kid you not I am only 1:30 in and YES
@@susanlee8023and the sound of her own laughter
@@steven469you sure it wasn’t because she had a few of those “plant medicines” before she came on the show? She looks/sounds spaced out and delusional
I roll my eyes every time someone mentions "manifesting" their circumstances.
It's like a child making a birthday wish; same thing. 😅
I find it extremely cringe that she keeps referring to her inner child/teenager and referring to herself as “them” “us” and “ours”
She is dangerous. Im tired of people using spirituality to hide their narcissism and overall terrible behavior.
Very well put.
This! This! This!
But she's like manifesting her destiny (sarcasm)
@@MatthewBaran lol she's about to manifest a more severe state of poverty for herself.
Yes! I couldn't find a way to put it into words. This is it.
“My inner children/teenagers have felt safest when others are supporting us, rather than when we are supporting ourselves.”
Caleb: 👁️👄👁️
This episode stressed me out so bad😂😂
Aka I’m scared of adult independence
Straight up multiple personality
My first thought, HX of CSA and adult SA and her behaviours ? Daddy issues? Possibly DID, not easy and needs real help.
That comment she made… about the inner children etc etc made me itch
27, lives with Dad, lives off men, no income, no prospects but talks incessantly about herself and business even though she has no self awareness or business acumen.
Doesn't know what magnetism is too, like... Like bruh you had a couple bad things happen to you, so had LITERALLY everyone else, that has nothing to do with electrons within metals spinning in the same direction😭
But she even said she's SOOO self aware!! 😂🙄
@@preciousdishwasherYeeaaaahh Morons like her that like to talk about metaphysics, spirituality, quantum physics and buzzwords and they want to sound like they are vats of wisdom and even if there were any truth to their spiritual principles, the bullshyt soup they want people to buy with their saccharine demeanors is insufferable and not believable. We've all been through traumatic events, some more than others and we all have to learn how to heal and cope and the "energy" self appointed gurus "put out there" like her is just not believable. Somebody with some PTSD that pops off every now and then who's brutally honest and can't stand much company, probably has more life wisdom and their advice is probably more trustworthy than these gurus.
@@annalisacandaso-robertson9179 self absorbed is more like it.
“Will you hold my hand for a second? I need connection”. Goodness, how irritating.
This lady gives the vibes of complaining about materialistic lifestyle while enjoying a materialistic lifestyle
Down with capitalism! I type on my iPhone while mooching off people and getting free rent wearing expensive clothes running my own side businesses
cant buy the freezing response thing. it's voluntary and a choice. She didnt come to talk about changing, just wanted to do some feminism, crying, spirituality and male violence claiming.
Materials being from sugar daddies and lonely men willing to fund her lifestyle.
@@Jojo.255The freeze response is an actual thing (speaking from experience) and comes from an overload of anxiety. What’s wild to me though is that she has a therapist and has been actively avoiding talking about the anxiety and dissociation issues.
Your typical 20 year old genz girl lol
This woman doesnt fear success, she fears accountability.
Perfectly said!
I think she fears feeling meaningless.. and if you succeed and still feel meaningless, thats a scary place to be.. meaning is only found in knowing Jesus Christ
@@Chessdude4g i’m pretty sure you can find meaning anywhere, stop pushing your religion
@@Chessdude4 was all with you right up until you started bible bashing in the yt comment section
She fears adulthood.
I worked in a state psychiatric hospital directly with patients, and this scares me more than anything I’ve seen there.
I highly doubt that
I’ve also worked in state hospitals and loved the people there but I can’t stand hearing this woman
Her fakeness is so freaking aggravating
Agree 1000%
Her: I want to change the country from the inside out
Also Her: sells scams
Makes sense tbh😂
lmao
😂
Future California senator.
Sells scams and says voting doesn't make a difference. If voting didn't make a difference then why did women fight so hard for her to have the right to do so. She's disrespectful, honestly.
The fact that this lady may be “coaching” someone is going to keep me awake at night.
Nah, I just checked her "show", it's just random ramblings on Tik Tok.
😂😂😂
lol@@julius43461
no worries, she got 170 followers on her "show" on tiktok.
Her only hope is Caleb picking her up as a sugar baby.
She 100% came on the show wanting to get more listeners for her podcasts. She was treating this like a pop-psychology podcast just saying a bunch of buzz words. This one was actually quite annoying
Agreed! I had to skip sections when she just. wouldn't. stop. TALKING and it was almost always completely unrelated to spending and income. I cannot take her seriously. God help anyone who tries to listen to her podcasts.
Exactly. The worst person he's had on the show. I already commented that it's irritating he's being nicer to her than he usually is w his guests. He needed to give her a rubberband for her annoying hair and he needed to tell her to STFU with that nonsense. Nobody else is fooled by her bs.
As someone who's been assaulted, grew up with an absent father/ abusive mother, food stamps, no AC, moving every year, I've been an escort, cam girl, had sugar daddies and was a stripper.... she infuriates me
I hope you're doing well now! 🙏
In a much better place now ❤😊 ! @@wess51873
I hope you're doing well, but I don't think how she deals with money has anything to do with that
She’s mastered the L.A. brunch, psycho babble, word salad, nothing conversation.
Literally 15 seconds in and I already know I’m not going to make it through this episode in one shot.
So much this. Sorry Caleb, skipping this one. She sounds too much like a professional TH-camr 😞.
I'm not even to the 1 minute mark and I have nervous peeing chihuahua energy, I need to take a freaking ativan already
You made it that far? I couldn't get past "HELLO!"
This chick is a complete turn off, bye, sorry Caleb.
This is the typical person who just ignores their problems and hopes they go away. She refuses to grow up. She’s the typical girl who every guy has lied to when they heard her say some dumb shit. She’s not used to being called out. She meets a guy and says the dumbest shit and the guy just smiles and says in his head “this girl is dumb as a bag of bricks….but I’m trying to hit so let me just agree with her absolute garbage reasoning.”
I kid you not, I am 22 seconds into this episode and the “inner child comment” has already told me she’s incredibly annoying
"We (Mac the dog and I) have a psychic connection and our nervous systems are co-regulated."
I'm out.
But was she joking?
It was a joke, right?😮
Her manipulation tactics are absolutely ridiculous. Im so glad caleb is able to keep up healthy boundaries and stay on topic in the midst of the storm she brings in the room.
She’ll have an excuse for everything
😅😅😅
In her defense, it probably works on 90% of the male population
This should be on gta 6 lol
Her dissociation from her problems seems like its inevitably going to burden others, She needs to get a “normal” job atleast for the time being and stop thinking her life experiences and stories alone is going to help others and herself. She talks about capitalism but clearly has no class consciousness which is apart of why she is so delusional
So my taxes go to give her free food while she wears expensive clothes and makeup. Meanwhile I havent had a haircut in two years to save money.
democrats America, its bs
You can thank America's leaders for that.
just remember there's plenty of ppl that need the services she's abusing I know many ppl that work hard and still need these programs
any program is liable to being abused but this is the minority not the majority
Fear of success is such a nonsense thing to say. She’s afraid of responsibility.
As a college student who works at mcdonalds as an overnighter, seeing these people refuse to work a minimum wage job is hilarious.
I did this too, studying engineering. Feel for you!
@@mmp495nah, she’s a woman, as a last resort she can always latch onto a man and live off of him until his last breath. Unfortunately she’s actually fine as hell, so she’ll probably be able to lock down a man with a nice career and income … as men we don’t have this luxury Or possibility. This woman won’t ever see a day/night of homelessness.
I think She just wants a sugar daddy that won’t abuse her. Good luck
Bro i feel you i started in autozone went to UPS as a base engineer and now graduated without debt in a good engineering job. Keep the hustle you will make it. Its worth it
I worked at Walmart 13 years throughout high school and two college degrees.
She doesn’t want help, she wants attention.
Bingo
Not true. These type of people DO want help. They are traumatized for one reason or another and are seeking identity, meaning, and answers. Just often they're looking in the wrong places. I sympathize.
@@josee1984 dude. It’s a girl in 2023, almost 2024. Attention to women is like porn to men. Can’t get enough of it.
@@josee1984 I meant financial help. I honestly had to stop watching after just a few minutes. Shes exhausting! She’s trying to use all the trendy buzz words and is way to LA for my liking.
On the contrary, the attention is a symptom of needing help but not having guidance. We need to be more helpful to each other and not judgmental.
As a man this infuriated me. We need to stop this "Sugar daddy" culture and be better men and fathers so our daughters don't have these issues that lead to this sort of mentality. I feel so sorry for them that they didn't have that in their life!
I don't know if she's unwell or a terrible person. She just irritated me.
Both
This woman is the embodiment of what people hate about Los Angeles
Amen, brother!
These people are not just in LA, there is just millions of people in LA so the probability these people will be there are higher
This is most of Sydney, Australia, too, men and women. All clinically insane and at the same time all the mental institutions closed at, funnily enough, the exact same time it happened world wide.
I'm actually building the second floor on my mountain cabin in the next week...because the guy I hired to do it just left the job half way, got paid and ran. I hate useless modern people.
@@samanthabaker3652that fact that the film industry is predominantly in LA doesn’t help either
Anything for a little bit of clout, its sad honestly
@@samanthabaker3652 It's not just the population size, it's the culture, political leaning, and the fact that it's the main hub for mainstream media and porn production.
She’s not afraid of success. She’s afraid of trying, because if she fails at being successful then that will confirm her biggest fear: that she’s actually just an average person and there’s nothing inherently special about her.
I'm honestly convinced she wouldn't even know what to go for. She seems to snob regular jobs and clearly nobody is paying her to coach them as she sounds like a maniac
damn that even hit me 😅
Yeah, claiming that she's not successful because she's afraid of changing the world is wild. She is right in the thick of realizing she is not special.
This!!!!🔥
Damn!!! 🔥🔥🔥
I can't eye roll harder than I am now.
Man this episode feels like 3 hours and im half way through
Haha I feel the same! But I watch it cuz I love to see how Caleb manages to interact with someone beyond irritating 🙄
She’s exhausting
This is a person who is used to emotionally manipulating people to avoid all responsibility, Caleb is the most patient person in the world
She is carefully pronouncing/emphasising her feelings so you fell responsible. And immediately changes her whole tone/demeanour in like half a second. I can't take her serious. Also very dangerous even more if she does all that consciously. Because she said she is really aware of herself.
Agree! If she continues to avoid responsibility she will (sadly) amount to nothing, sorry had to say it 😢
She has Gotta be strong- and stop using excuses to Not pay anyone -Will get her know where. Or excuses why she’s afraid to be successful.
100% alot of females use that to get by in life
Caleb needs to be careful because this crazy lady was coming on to him. She uses her "looks" to manipulate men. You can tell she wants Caleb as a sugar daddy. "Can you hold my hand? You're so funny! Can I have your shirt?"
@@connorw2706 Damn that shit was so subtle and smooth I didn't even realize it
"Working at McDonalds is not for me". Caleb: "But surviving is for everyone though".
I love how he's dodging all of the bs
Yeah he did a great job not letting up.
he always does forreal 😂
There is enough high end retail in LA for her to find a job somewhere.
@@andrewmueller23 Might be right up her alley. That high end stuff tends to draw people with this level of awareness/reality, so she could probably interact. Birds of a feather tend to shop together.
Objectively.. she’s lucky she’s hot 😂😂😂
Im at 43 minutes and you guys talked about her finances for less than 5 😭😭
“I hate capitalism”
“I buy the most expensive clothes the most expensive dog foods I live off advertising”
She makes the stripper look like Einstein 😅
Classic. She actually loves capitalism, she hates being poor. That's typical of the types who shudder when someone says the word "society"
The stripper is relatable and likable. This chick is scary.
Most of Gen Z is mentally ill. Pandemic and tik tok messed most of them up.
😅
@suteandrew8168 sure
She's treating this more like a podcast than a show about finances
Her appearance is to "boost" her vainglorious portfolio of delusional "accomplishments."
She admitted she’s delulu
She came for the exposure to advertise her own channel
She's probably high cause if she's not then she needs to go to a psychiatrist
Promotional tour for NPD. How is this broke, contradictory, full of shit person, jetting across the states. DC Denver LA SF (bank statement)
Caleb is the friend we all needed at 18 ( or maybe had and ignored) and the guest are all of our actual friends making us not panic about our shitty decision making and situation.
Wisdom is chasing her, but she is faster… 🤦🏼♀️
Her ability to "word salad" but not actually say anything is impressive ill give her that
Actually, she's very effective at communicating her blindness to her situation.
She's also communicating very clearly her attachment to pseudoscience, altmed and other woo.
She is a "healer" and some kind of "life coach". Obviously, someone is paying for her ability.
I think she’d make a perfect politician. She seriously gives me AOC vibes, all looks and no brains at all.
@@korsakoff76are you insane? She’s clinically filled with lunacy.
It’s possible she might have a successful future in politics. Could be VP someday.
She justed Wanted Publicity and tought she would win the entire world with her bubbly personality. She looked legit INSANE.
Did you ever think she just has mental health issues?
This
Doesn't matter, she's a dime.
No shortage of simps venmoing her right now.
I mean, she apparently posted that this went live on her socials. So, she must have thought... I came out looking good here. So, she thought she looked good. She thought she'd get some publicity out of this. And yet, her "hyper aware" "hyper self critical" "non delulu" self can't see that she comes off as completely deranged in this.
It's sad.
I can't believe Caleb got through this shit.
Damn, I really fell for it tbh, I didn’t really pick up on that stuff until I read the comments…
I'm actually shocked at how easy he went on her
Pretty privilege...he was honestly much nicer to her than to anyone else on his videos.
He was WAAAY too nice to her imo, but I guess that's her whole thing. It's why she behaves this way, because people get compassionate and feel like "poor you".
This is the first episode I genuinely cannot tolerate.
I'm halfway through this episode and this lady really did not come on this show to get financial help. She came on this show to establish herself as an internet personality for her own little show.
She's just going to get haters though
Well that part is fair, it's a trade-off. That's how the industry works
Haters are still viewers...
Her show which 6 months later has 272 subscribers lol
@@No_True_Scotsmanwhat's her show?
Instantly - I read her as super deceptive and untrustworthy. Her erratic emotions and dropping buzzwords every 5 seconds compound that. I'm also incredibly skeptical of people who present themselves as "guides" and "consultants" when their own lives are a complete mess.
Exactly!
Yeea
Exactly! I'm not diagnosing her with a cluster b personality disorder... However, she came across as incredibly insincere and ideologically-possessed while also well-articulated.
She knows how to manipulate and only rock bottom will teach her.
I think you'll find she is 'realigning her inner reality'.
She definitely exhibits a lot of narcissistic characteristics
I was not able to see this episode in it entirety. The fact that trauma is her source of irresponsibility is so triggering because as her I’ve had SA, physical and emotional abuse up until 25 and im debt free with 1 credit card which is made in full every month. People who don’t take accountability for their own bad choices will simply not go far in life.
-Re-aligning my life
-Manifesting
-not for me
-gaining sovereignty
-doing the work
-constantly playing with hair
-knee jerk anti-Trump
-capitalism blah blah blah
Things to avoid
Unfortunately I think the problem here is mental illness not financial.
She is incredibly unstable. Crying at the smallest things and flipping back a minute later. Her brain chemistry is WHACK.
She sounds mentally unstable for sure.
her instagram is even crazier. I am baffled who would want to be coached by her after seeing this video. She needs help herself.
yes, some mental illness, however, I used to hang out with the "spiritual" crowd and there's a big segment of them who enable this sort of behavior. They talk all about the "de lulu" BS but none to very little about taking responsibility for your own decisions
True narcissism and no doubt borderline personality disorder.
Amber: "I'm a spiritual healer, and holistic health coach."
Caleb: *PTSD Intensifies*
The first spiritual healer was significantly more likable.
@@sarahg4327 and also a prostitute.
@@sarahg4327mmmm....
I laughed out loud when she said she is a life coach 😂😂😂😂
Maybe i should be in business as a spiritual violator....
I'm a therapist, but honestly a lot of what she is talking about isn't even a matter of therapy, it's a matter of needing to pull your fucking head out of your ass. She said the therapist she is working with is an EMDR therapist, that's GREAT for trauma, but it's not gonna do shit for taking responsibility for the hole you've dug yourself!
I work in the NHS, and in a lot of ways I am jealous of the US's approach to everyone getting therapy (not least of which for the fact that therapists earn a BAG in that system...), but it does set up this culture of every little problem is some childhood issue that needs unwrapping, when in reality you just need to SORT YOUR DAY TO DAY SHIT OUT. Take NOTHING away from the people who struggle with that BECAUSE of things that genuinely need professional help to get through, but honestly that really is a minority of people...
😂😂😂😂😂😂 who told you everyone in the US gets therapy? 😅
This person should never be a healer, coach. The epitome of delusion and lack of accountability
Using food stamps while wearing expensive clothes & refusing to work is so foul bro…
Seriously. Her reaction when he mentioned working fast food “not for me.”
You’re on food stamps, honey…
This is why I hate welfare. A lot of people are like this, the system encourages it. And most places keep handing out benefits forever. I agree that there needs to be some kind of safety net for people, but it needs to have a cut off point. Somewhere in the realm of six months, a year TOPS.
And complaining about capitalism when your capitalist government is giving money you absolutely do not deserve.
She reminds me of someone who ends up being a single mom at the food stamp office with the latest iPhone 🙃
She probably drives a Hellcat
This lady was throwing every oppression/manipulation tactic at Caleb to get him to feel bad for her and I’m glad he wasn’t going for it
@@daveSoupy very true I just discovered him a couple days ago lol
Facts!
Fr, she tries to act cutesy, dim-witted and laughing at every small thing as a learned coping mechanism for guys to feel bad for her.
“It’s all a joke to me” Caleb saying out loud what we’re all thinking
But manifestation!! Lol 😂
Today at work when they tell me to do something that i don't like i'm just gonna say "My inner child doesn't appreciate this so i rather not"
It’s wild how there’s a particular breed of smoking hot, beautiful woman who is just completely out of their mind in exactly the same way.
This woman should not be coaching anyone in anything. The fact that anyone would use her as a point of authority for anything in life is terrifying.
It always shocks me how much of a market there is for self help/feels with women. It’s more about how you carry yourself vs reality.
@@IL_Bgentyl true, but it's also not isolated to women either. The number of men's gurus have just the same pull and are just as a significant sinkhole of time and resources. I think some people just gravitate to something they just to push accountability off to and find safety under authority. 'I can do this because someone I look up told me I can'. Sometimes it's good advice and guidance, and sometimes its someone who knows they can fleece people who don't know any better.
@@bunburyist_online 100% but men and women gurus sell completely different products. The one she is expanding on 100% targets mainly females.
@@bunburyist_onlinelet’s not pretend there are even a fraction of men’s coaches talking about worshipping crystals, manifesting, and astrology. Viral men’s coaches tell them to get in the gym, get their money up, and quit being a pu$$y. Women’s coaches are like kindergarten teachers. Telling young women what they want to hear, because the modern woman largely has the same mindset of a child
So I had been learning about how to make actually useful digital products to help people and sell online. I teach music (private piano lessons) and have a fairly unique style of teaching so I make a bunch of worksheets/info sheets that imo look really nice (I'm getting to the point, I promise). I took this course about how to market myself and do research to find an audience who will pay me, etc etc. I was flabbergasted by the fact that it would be basically impossible to make a living selling music pages or similar materials without a ton of work, but any stuff about this spiritualistic "manifestation" and stuff sells like hotcakes. People seem to eat it up, even in the mainstream markets. I cannot make/sell stuff like that though because I absolutely do not buy into it. It's frustrating how much bullshit pop-psych people will buy into but they don't seem to be interested in actual useful info.
So yea, many people are fooled by this type of weirdo feel-good idealogy.
Caleb: *calmly points out that maybe if you’re financially immature you shouldn’t be a “life coach”*
All life coaches: Hmmm…hmm.
That one chick said "mmmm" the whole episode
I will transcend the completion of capitalism...I will not be a cog!
Also look at my rabbit fur vest I got on credit.
@@sandiego3704 yes! They must all get the same training or something 🤣
The way she bragged about spending money for a reiki class or whatever hosted by the great gonzo or whatever... screamed cult
Do as I say, not as I do.
This was the first episode I watched gng. This made me realize how sane I actually am. Thank you
Wow, I must admire Caleb’s composure. I would have started laughing.
This is a strange episode, she is more focused on explaining the metaphysical side of her financial situation than figuring out what she’s spending her money on, crazy…
I mean debt is real 😂. Being broke af is real too. She needs to get off the drugs
she's there to self promote, not get actual help...
Its just an excuse like any other
Its cope. Watching people rationalising fucking up is fascinating isn’t it… it’s why I love this channel.
She talks WAAAAAY too much for someone who is looking for “help”.
She's gotten by on her looks her whole life and she's never had to be responsible or accountable.
She's almost hit the wall, she is in for a rude awakening.
@@sirgreedy88she'll get bailed out even over 30yrs, but she'll have to settle.
Oh that poor man...
The wall will continue to be undefeated with this one. And even with an army of simps, her mind is so warped of being run through by chad and Brad, that she won’t settle for Bryce. This right here will be supported by big daddy government and make TikTok’s crying asking where all the good men are and why she can’t manifest one.
She’s not even attractive though!! Am I going crazy or something?! She’s like a 4. Why are all the comments saying she’s attractive lol
This is the first episode I ever watched you do more talking about any and every other thing then her financial problem
This is EXHAUSTING to watch!!!!
This girl is everything that’s wrong with victim mindset. Hard watch. Caleb you’re a hero.
She doesn't need caleb she needs a pyschward
Imagine if they were married... Both her and her "therapists" would classify this same conversation as "emotional abuse". She could then solve all those financial issues by divorcing Caleb.
@@Flex4LXyou speaking womanese brutha
This woman is insufferable I cannot take a thing she says seriously.
@@Flex4LX an actual good therapist would call her on all of her BS.
Anyone who marries her deserves whatever they get. I wouldn’t even be acquaintances with this chick.
whoever is editing these videos needs more credit bc the face zooms and the side eyes are cracking me up fr 😭😭
😂😂😂
The "Random Woman," job card killed me 😂
"Your funny." Flirting will not get you out of your hole of debt.
I've been going through all of the old audits for entertainment, and it's finally happened. I have finally found one episode I cannot sit through. Thanks for that, weird lady.
I’m out.
Her bubbly personality and not taking life seriously along with all her weird behaviors is a coping mechanism to distract so she doesnt have to deal with her issues.
I noticed that! Everytime Caleb asked hard questions her answers were always worded like a children’s fairy tale.
@@reerolle4776 well even the start of the episode
"I am 27... (((oh god i'm almost 30))) AND a HaLf~ hehe sorry that is my inner child showing!"
@@barbietarbox she was sexually abused. It's normal for them to end up like that or even worse in some cases. I wouldn't make fun out of it.
@@Tespri Does everything about her personality have to go back to that?
@@leehalloway8787 yes? Read about psychology.
This woman is my worst nightmare, completely insufferable. Totally out of touch and wound up in herself. Good job Caleb. Also you saying "No, I make money" was fucking awesome.
Yes
The moment she botched her introduction and burst out laughing at herself for being "silly"... I cannot stand this type of personality. Seriously cannot stand it. I was sat next to a woman like this at work for 8 years. I think I have PTSD.
too much into emotions and whatever spiritual stuff, every question mr hammer asked was always followed into that direction
Wearing trauma like an accessory
"trauma" @@chrismail
The way she tries to flirt with him and he actively ignores her is absolutely the best thing ever.
"give me your hand, I need to feel connection"
@@alexPeralta09 Caleb: ".___. no."
*I POO'ED MYSELF WATCHING HER, SHE IS 1000% DELUSIONAL DELULU POO POO CRAZY, :( I FEAR FOR PEOPLES SAFETY AROUND HER*
You can tell she used her pretty to try to get ahead.
Love his energy I feel like me and him have the same personality does not tolerate bs.
She tries to be cool by saying she was getting money from a "sugar daddy" but then used her past SA history to make excuses for not getting a job. SA isnt cool in any degree, but i kibda felt like that was a bit hypocritical. This seemed more like an auditon for her acting career more than anything.
Living in LA for many, many years now - this is ahsolutely how some people are here. Their horrible judgement sleeping with someone and then regretting is their idea of a "victim" and relishes with that label. Also, the "spiritual" stuff she mentions every other sentence... I cant 🤦🤦
Yea I haven't watched yet but I'm assuming her "traumatic" experiences in LA probably revolve around some guy and drugs xD
Independently licensed therapist here. Just want to say, this "health coach" bullshit is making a mockery of mental health professions in general, especially therapists, and she is a gleaming example of the end product. Props to you Caleb for the amount of patience you have shown through the "delulu."
Large portion of mental health proffessionals are fucking delusional and dont know what they are doing, have you met a psych major recently? lmao
I know so many “life coaches” that are in terrible life situations. Like how tf can you give advice when your own life is in shambles! Makes no sense.
Most therapists misdiagnose their patients because they don’t actually look at the brain they’re treating. Its no difference
What do you think about this sudden rise in "manifesting"? I've always found it odd how people just suddenly believe in, essentially, telekinesis.
@@andytom91they’re the same crunchy mom types and often literally the same ones that get into pyramid schemes then they transition to the “life coach” scam.
Caleb is NOT a therapist. People that come on here need to stop using their mental health as an excuse for their poor financial choices.
That’s gonna cut down the pool……
Their years of therapy aint working.
Her mental health is most likely the cause of her financial problems, so she definitely needs to sort out her mental health before her financial health imo.
@@palaven4048 She said it perfectly herself at 5:45, "I wear my expensive clothes and I buy my dog the expensive food, and I do all (these things) that will make me feel better, when gaining some sovereignty and some independence will make me feel better in the heart"
This person is the reason society is broken. No accountability, no real skills, just being a social vampire and social media “influencer” while getting government aid. Imagine a country filled of people like this, and that’s where we are headed.
This one was hard to get through. My little ones were pulling their hair!!!!
29:55 “I feel oppressed as shit” is she serious?!?! She’s a gorgeous woman who admits she’s surrounded by people who are helping her for free. Her response to why she feels oppressed is because she got played by a sugar daddy. This is WILD.
my jaw DROPPED when i heard her say that, i literally had to pause the video and take a walk i was so pissed
typical modern woman
It seems like Caleb Hammer is going to be the new clout chasing platform for generic 20-something hot girls in Southern California over the Whatever podcast. They just look way too stupid on the latter and will probably end up on some viral clip of them being stupid and getting ruthlessly torn apart by some middle aged dude
Just like all feminists
@@domiialexissThis is the result of 3rd wave feminism.
This is genuinely one of the most insane episodes I’ve ever seen. The nonspeak is through the roof with her, and I’m genuinely concerned for her mental health because this is not what a healthy person sounds like
She's completely ill. Profound mental illness.
When she started excusing her irresponsibility with "my child selves are taking over and I'm just giving them what they want, teehee" it was wild...
The amount of buzzwords she spewed is actually insane
Pretty girls never have to develop their personality to become better since they get attention no matter what. So, they usually have horriblel personalities and are selfish. They learn a hard lesson once their appearance begins to deteriorate around age 30.
Thats what happens when they spend too much time in therapy. They become too sensitive and constantly need assurance. She needed to hold hands with Caleb for assurance lol. Pathetic!
I honestly think you showed more restraint than most would during this conversation and definitely more than she deserved.
"Capitalism decided what was attractive and what wasn't so they could sell us stuff" - IT'S HER - she's literally selling the "stuff".
She hit on every single modern day key term. Watching this opened my eyes, honestly. It is as though she is speaking in hashtag & trends. Wild.
This is the problem with Los Angeles. I’m not talking about the Angelenos, the natives. A lot of people feel like they have to play a certain role to be accepted and noticed. It’s very toxic.
She’s definitely on social media way too much because the buzzwords were insane in the episode.
When I saw she was from Cali, all my stereotypes regarding a Californian instantly came to life.
Opened your eyes to what?
I THOUGHT THE SAME THING
There are some SERIOUS psychological issues at work with her. Im not sure a financial audit is anywhere on the list of things she actually needs right now.
I think she needs medication or something, I'm sorry about the abuse she's endured, but she needs to work through what's going on in her brain.
Nah thats just most modern women
She don’t face consequences, she just gets ran through by the local rapper and she gets her bills paid for the month . She literally said guys give her shit for free. She gets taken out to get her guts rearranged and she gets spoiled .life of a pretty woman in America privileged lifestyle
Commies aren't mentally well, particularly the young women.
I think this is just an act. She's not crazy, she's just using her "quirky" attitude to deflect and try to charm. This is her advertising herself.
Those are demons not “inner children”
“My inner child is speaking”
she doesn’t have to convince me
I’m 6 minutes in and she is delusional. She does not live in the same reality that we do. Get a job, work hard, pay your bills, then put all your spare time towards your side business to grow that until it can supplement your income.
Gotta love it when Caleb has had to bring up reality within the first three minutes or so
Oh I just got to expensive things making her feel good, I cannot with this b
You mean De Lu Lu
She doesn't have to. Femme fatal, sugar baby energy
Yeah it was the 10 minute mark for me.😂 She'd be lucky to "manifest" a job at mcdonalds at this point. 😂
Beat me to it 😂@@josephdasilva1297
I started this year with roughly $10,000 in debt. This show helped motivate me to finally get out of it. I’m ending the year with $0 in debt and I’ve managed to save $9,000. Praise God.
Hopefully next year I can reach my next goal! You’re helping tons of people, Caleb!
Congratulations! Nice work!
Good work
Way to go!
good job keep it up man
I am sorry, but are we calling Caleb god now?
We're fucked. Can't believe how many people are like this now...
As a woman from la who grew up in the Midwest, all these comments are valid.
Also I cannot w her snaps
I’ll admit she’s a good actress. The skill to turn the tears on and off at will is quite impressive.
Is it normal to cry and smile/laugh? If I’m genuinely sad and crying, I have a frown face:(
@@Msmiyagiisometimes I smile or laugh when I’m crying, sad, or talking about something difficult because it helps ease the pain and tension for me
@@Msmiyagiithat’s not what was happening here she was trying to garner sympathy so she could be coddled. A financial audit isn’t the time nor place to trauma dump these personal issues.
@@cc-terfayIs that when you are alone? How old are You?
OMG. Please give them the whole EGOT. We've been through the whole emotional rollercoaster with this woman. Meryl Streep could nevah...
She doesn’t have a “fear of success” she has a fear of “hard work”… she seems super lazy and entitled and is trying to justify this on being harassed
Thissss one. Fear of success sounds so much better than what it actually is, which is a fear of any amount of discomfort. She’s disassociating her way through life, and the spirituality is just a distraction from the reality she’s avoiding
@cassiea13245678 well said! She needs some real psychological therapy.
you could learn a little bit from Caleb and employ some empathy in your comments instead of pure judgment
@@Caleb-il7omwhat for?
I consider myself a spiritual person. I live part time at a Buddhist monestary. I work full time and take care of myself. Part of spirituality is self responsibility and self care. I think she is using spirituality as an escape from reality.
I usually watch these episodes to the end but I’m 25 minutes in and I can’t take it anymore this woman is appalling. Very little financials discussed and a whole lot of excuses and complaining why she is the way she is. Feel like I’m getting a mental health condition just listening to her talk 🤣😭
“I think I’m getting a mental health condition” 😂
I dated girl that dealt in the spiritual space and she was nuts
Me too , do not recommend
they validate bad decisions with spirtuality and if you go against a decision you're the bad guy
I just started talking to and was going to go on a date with a guy and he started going off on spiritual shit(within a week of talking) and I was immediately turned off from him. I don't need to find some spiritual hippie dippie meaning to life, I'm just trying to survive it. Seemed like a sweet guy but also a little crazy, and felt like he was pushing for a relationship super quickly talking like we were already in a long term thing.
Same, I had an ex like that too
you must have a low credit score its probably a good thing she left you for a real man that is in the "spiritual space".He probably makes 7 figures to.
This was horrendous. This woman exists in a completely different realm from the rest of us.
Yea it's called California 😅
@@xgenisejigglygirlx Los Angeles, specifically.
She literally admitted to it.
DUH!! the spirit realm 🧘♀😂
@@xgenisejigglygirlxI lived in cali this is not most people. This is entitled lady of the night mentality
Caleb hammer is the financial therapist. He breaks through their BS they create in their head and brings them back to reality. I'm hooked
One of the most valuable lessons I've learned from watching this show is to NEVER trust life coaches, spiritual healers, et cetera. 9 times out of 10, you're doing exponentially better than them!!
She wants to change the entire economic system in the USA but thinks voting is a waste of time.
which is funny because that mentality is what makes voting useless. specifically the way people vote for president like its the end all be all but dont even know who their local reps or congress perople are
She votes Democrat because they keep dangling that carrot. We will cancel student debt. Knowing full week that will never happen.
I'm glad she feels like that though if i'm being honest.
@beverlyhayshouston2770 They should cancell it just allot allow people to file bankruptcy on it
@@sadface7457 Why? You benefit from the student loans. You should have to pay it back. They could cancel interest payments perhaps.
WOW she is a prime example of the damage a "life coach" or "spiritual healer" can do to someone. She needs to see a licensed therapist ASAP. I respect her going through trauma and seeking to heal and figure herself out, but she went to the wrong sources and they seriously left her messed up mentally.
psychiatrist*
She strikes me as the type of person to lie about stuff like the sexual assault etc as well, so who knows if that even happened, she's just immature. Hopefully she reads all these comments LOL
Pretty sure this just a result of getting everything handed to her all her life.
@@ufvj217 You strike me as the type of person that the world would be better without.
@@ufvj217 LOL
Those looks are going to fade so fast. Financial stress ain't no joke...