Drew Barrymore Says Alcohol Held Her Prisoner

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    Drew Barrymore Says Alcohol Held Her Prisoner

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  • @Dan-ys8nk
    @Dan-ys8nk ปีที่แล้ว +1101

    Drew Barrymore summed up alcoholism perfectly. "I'll never be the cool girl at a party with a glass of wine. I'll want 3 bottles." The more people understand that alcoholism is a disease, the more people we can save. Kudos to Drew for staying healthy and sober. I'm sure it's not easy.

    • @dilciaenid57
      @dilciaenid57 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes!

    • @katdeluxy9608
      @katdeluxy9608 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I'm so conflicted with labeling my drinking habits because in the one hand I don't drink everyday but when I do I drink so excessively.

    • @lisafehlman221
      @lisafehlman221 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too

    • @Dan-ys8nk
      @Dan-ys8nk ปีที่แล้ว +26

      ​@@katdeluxy9608 IMO, if drinking is affecting your life, your relationships, your ability to work, and so on, then it's a problem. I am not you, but I would say that based on what you've shared, you are a self-aware person who understands boundaries. I would talk to a professional to get an expert opinion if you choose. Best wishes on your journey.

    • @canadasweetie
      @canadasweetie ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@katdeluxy9608 that might be called binge drinking?

  • @DelaniaAndTheDogs
    @DelaniaAndTheDogs ปีที่แล้ว +546

    Oh wow. This sounds like my alcohol-free journey. Never thought I’d live without that destructive behavior but I did stop. I’m at 16 months sober and going strong.

    • @JohnnyArtPavlou
      @JohnnyArtPavlou ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🌞🌞🌞

    • @TaharkahX
      @TaharkahX ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You go baby 🏆

    • @SammyCamilleKyle
      @SammyCamilleKyle ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations!! Keep going ❤

    • @Ah_Lee_Sun
      @Ah_Lee_Sun ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’ve just passed the 500 days mark (also 16 months), and I’m so glad to be sober now.

    • @JohnnyArtPavlou
      @JohnnyArtPavlou ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ah_Lee_Sun Congratulations! ⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @jmfs3497
    @jmfs3497 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    "Insecurity is loud. Confidence is quiet."

    • @bobby_digital9493
      @bobby_digital9493 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s true but sometimes quiet ones judge while loud ones are enjoying life unapologetically. Goes both ways, I’ve been either one and both have their cons.

    • @jmfs3497
      @jmfs3497 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bobby_digital9493 that is very true. I will say at least the quiet negative folks STAY QUIET, lol. There is nothing more stressful to me than a negative extrovert.

  • @survivor648
    @survivor648 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I was a alcoholic for 30+ years I was in AA for 25 years I started very young alcohol nearly killed me I started at 8 a.m. and drank all day while working from home I would wake up at midnight or so trembling and a rapid heart rate I had to drink mouthwash to even myself out. It took a stroke to sober me up God did for me what I couldn’t do for myself! 🙏🙏🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @jJust_NO_
      @jJust_NO_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this... i never understood the stories they said about quiting alcohol. l used to drink and been my source of happiness before but it just went way because my drinking buddies and i separated.
      so i was not really addicted. i drank outside and never alone so the addiction part was not experienced perse.
      but your story of trembling? hmmm.
      this is close to my heart because my father used to drink since early puberty up til now. he is 60.
      im worried for him. we kind of accepted it as the norm. we cant say anything or contradict him because he gets verbally aggressive

    • @birdies3273
      @birdies3273 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your story. I pray you are well now.

  • @susanfrary7424
    @susanfrary7424 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    I have been sober for 26 years. There are only two things I can't do: I can't drink alcohol and I can't lift really heavy objects. And I'm great with that. :)

    • @annrodriguez2891
      @annrodriguez2891 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations Susan!!!! Sobriety needs to be celebrated...it's hard work and it's worth it

    • @CatLover-g7j
      @CatLover-g7j ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why?

    • @mattparr3038
      @mattparr3038 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I like the way you worded that, tricks the mind into thinking its not so bad.

    • @strictlynorton
      @strictlynorton ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great to hear... similar length of clean and sober life. We got lucky, many don't make it through... but without knowing you personally I can confidently say that both of us put in the work! God bless you...

    • @insertmyidentityhere
      @insertmyidentityhere ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How clever 🙄

  • @BeeGirlz
    @BeeGirlz ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I hit my bottom with alcoholism in 1996. I was 23 years old. That summer I read Drew's book Little Girl Lost and it definitely played a key role in me seeking help and getting sober. I am forever grateful for Drew sharing her own personal experiences and struggles that I could relate to and gather strength and inspiration from. I have been sober ever since - 26 years. Drew continues to inspire me with her realness and her drive and her accomplishments.

    • @htcheeto420
      @htcheeto420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @celestejacobs7386
      @celestejacobs7386 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You're lucky that you were able to quit so young. That's really amazing.

    • @BeeGirlz
      @BeeGirlz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@celestejacobs7386 Thank you! It wasn't easy, especially with all of my friends still drinking and wanting to party. But I am so grateful I gave myself the gift of sobriety which gave me a life worth living. 😊

  • @eircification
    @eircification ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Crazy I just hit 4 years sober, 20 year severe alcoholic. Hospitalized many times , arrested, awful mean person. Had seizers trying to stop. I had no hope. I did psychedelic therapy and Im the person I knew I could be. Healing, myself and the others around me. My life has done a 180. Anyone out there struggling, don't loose hope. I promise it can change no matter how bad it is.

    • @tomd6073
      @tomd6073 ปีที่แล้ว

      where did you go for psychedelic therapy ?

    • @Jane-vo8eg
      @Jane-vo8eg ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How?

  • @doublefeature
    @doublefeature ปีที่แล้ว +201

    i think it's so important to talk about the different ways people stay sober. not everyone works a program or can throw themselves into AA, it's so important to highlight that there is not just one singular way to get sober from your addiction. i was an opiate addict for 10 years, i tried full abstinence and working a program but i could never stay clean for more than 6 months. i didn't want to be on another drug but finally i gave in and tried maintenance. i am now over 6 years sober from my drug of choice. i still smoke weed to manage my anxiety and other physical health issues. this is what i've found works for ME. find what works for you!

    • @jamiezuzu7326
      @jamiezuzu7326 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I went on maintenance in 2011. Best decision I’ve ever made

    • @jillianpw9789
      @jillianpw9789 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jamiezuzu7326 what is maintenance?

    • @oztrace6016
      @oztrace6016 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      100% so true. I’ve tried giving up smoking, gambling and alcohol. All 3 went hand in hand to the point it was a major problem. I tried groups, meetings, therapy, books, everything. I decided I needed to be somewhere I couldn’t gamble for months to reset myself. Moved to Bali for 7 months. It worked, I’m now 2 months free of all and have finally lost the urge after 25 years. I’m a new person. But what worked for others didn’t work for me.

    • @doublefeature
      @doublefeature ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jillianpw9789 it's a general term for medical assisted treatment for drug addiction. it is usually in the form of suboxone or methadone for opiate addicts. it helps quell cravings and prevent the person from getting high on street opiates.

    • @doublefeature
      @doublefeature ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@oztrace6016 absolutely. changing people, places and things is a large component to beating any addiction. you can't necessarily run away from your problems (geographical change they call it,) but sometimes removing yourself from the surrounding you used in, can be extremely helpful on being able to focus on the underlying issues. don't let the demons fool you tho, and don't become complacent. as much as i don't agree w/ a lot of things AA based, they have some solid information. theres a great saying that goes 'every day you are sober, your addiction is outside doing push ups waiting for that moment of weakness.' of course you can't go thru life waiting for the other shoe to drop BUT you can be aware of certain behaviors that may lead you back to that place. congrats on you, and keep on keepin on.

  • @PaolaHuezo
    @PaolaHuezo ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Im starting my journey today, longest I ever quit was 3 months. I’ve had over 300 blackouts and very destructive behavior. I blacked out last Sunday and am in the urge of losing something for once in my life so beautiful, it really hit me in a way I never been hit before and for once, I’m afraid to lose it.. I will be almost a week sober and I am promising myself this time, I have to sober up or else god is going to be done giving me my last chance.. 🙏🏼

    • @sipzc-dj
      @sipzc-dj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I started 5 days ago ❤️‍🩹

    • @Sonofwill
      @Sonofwill 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hope you are doing well. And where ever your at, i truly wish you happiness, joy and peace, and there is lots of hope and excitement towards all the possibilities that lay ahead x

    • @Sonofwill
      @Sonofwill 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sipzc-djwishing you the the very best, to actually be free and not trapped and enslaved by a substance.
      Wish I had the courage, and belief that I can get off painkillers, but I don’t have hope at the moment. And believe my destiny and fate is set.
      Anyway best wishes and I’m hoping your getting better x

    • @ogbunnygirl
      @ogbunnygirl หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YOU CAN DO IT FRIEND!!!! love u

  • @redwoods7370
    @redwoods7370 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'll be three years sober in February. I relapsed over and over for 10 years. Don't give up. Keep quitting until you quit. Don't feel guilty for relapsing. Just keep quitting over and over. If I can do it, anyone on this planet can do it.

    • @Sdority905
      @Sdority905 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is amazing advice. "Keep quitting" is such a great way to put it.

    • @celestejacobs7386
      @celestejacobs7386 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is awesome ❤️❤️❤️.

    • @Azi-v4c
      @Azi-v4c 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for your message. This is a hope message for me. Love from France 🥰

  • @endor8witch
    @endor8witch ปีที่แล้ว +147

    i'm loving drew's second life as a media personality instead of just a movie actress. she should've done this sooner with her talk show and just sharing life experiences

    • @Westcoastrocksduh
      @Westcoastrocksduh ปีที่แล้ว

      Meh, she has terrible takes

    • @ph-vf5hx
      @ph-vf5hx ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Drock yet shes provoked you. People normally ignore terrible things. You seem at least a bit flustered. Or is it vitally important that everyone knows you disagree with her 'takes'?lol

    • @Westcoastrocksduh
      @Westcoastrocksduh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ph-vf5hx how do you know she provoked me?
      I could be righteously pissed off or have completely forgotten about this comment thread. Either way you don’t know so why are you acting like you do cheese tits?

    • @endor8witch
      @endor8witch ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Westcoastrocksduh such as?

    • @stevest-laurent
      @stevest-laurent ปีที่แล้ว

      Her show does suck

  • @Brittney1986
    @Brittney1986 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I LOVE her honesty and openness. I just recently kicked the habit, and it’s changed my whole life. I don’t feel like a slave anymore. It took 5 years, but I did it finally. My confidence is WAY higher now and I can even control my diet a lot better too because I know I’ve worked that muscle that says enough is enough.

  • @jakemcnally4868
    @jakemcnally4868 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Can relate. Happy for Drew. I love seeing people who rise from the ashes. Drew looks great! I am currently on the same path. 5 months sober. 30 years of mildly abusing alcohol with only risk and diminishing returns to offer. Time for a change at 50 years old. A sober life is a better life for those that are ready.

  • @gengland8601
    @gengland8601 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Drew rocks She’s so honest and true to her heart she’s a sweetheart

  • @biggothepiggo
    @biggothepiggo ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Drew's so lovely both on the inside and outside. And she doesn't get enough credit for how smart she it.

    • @ryanjohnson4249
      @ryanjohnson4249 ปีที่แล้ว

      Johnny Carson and Meghan Trainor gave her credit for that, so I guess that makes two.

  • @collidingforces9589
    @collidingforces9589 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    "Insecurity is loud, confidence is quiet." Awesome quote! I will certainly use that in conversations.

    • @brianwalsh1401
      @brianwalsh1401 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Insecurity can also be quiet insecure wallflowers who never speak up and want to blend into the back round and are people pleasers.

    • @tinkerbell8285
      @tinkerbell8285 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks

    • @nicholea
      @nicholea ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@brianwalsh1401 sounds like me 🤷‍♀️

    • @brianwalsh1401
      @brianwalsh1401 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nicholea Me too. I think a lot of people are like this.

    • @nicholea
      @nicholea ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brianwalsh1401 glad I'm not alone 😉

  • @ramjet5192
    @ramjet5192 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I like Drew's approach, her own way.
    I too had alcohol issues that began to interfere with parts of my life I needed to handle and parts that brought me joy. I postponed the need-to-dos. I politely declined invitations to the other, because I preferred to stay home and drink. Because I drank at home, I became more alone. But I didn't care. I felt great.
    Then, I started having health issues and realized how isolated I'd become. I talked to a few friends who had experienced the same. One turned into a different person and almost yelled, "So what are you going to do?" Another said I needed to go to AA meetings EVERY DAY, like him.
    The first friend apparently got well in a tough love way. The other felt at home at his early morning meetings. EVERYBODY recommended AA, whether they knew anything about it or not. I tried a few meetings. Desperate, unsmiling people hanging on the best they could at AA meetings was depressing and not for me.
    When I told people AA was not for me, that it was depressing and felt like a religion, I got eye rolls and heads shaking, as if that was the only "cure."
    Well, like Drew, I found my own way, and I'm living a fairly normal life without alcohol.
    AA isn't the only way. There are other ways for other people. Good luck.

    • @BigBadJerryRogers
      @BigBadJerryRogers ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Addictive personalities replace one addiction for another. So alcohol gets replaced by AA, that's why some are so militant about it. Makes sense.

    • @Disneyfamiglia
      @Disneyfamiglia ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you do?

  • @bitume
    @bitume ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was one of her best interviews imo. Such a good mom energy

  • @Guikrazy
    @Guikrazy ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Drew is a prime example that Cute stays cute while aging. Love her energy.

    • @m.k.6633
      @m.k.6633 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She has aged so well beautiful

    • @Deelitee
      @Deelitee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love that❤

    • @paris3220
      @paris3220 ปีที่แล้ว

      NOT

    • @AR-td7cn
      @AR-td7cn ปีที่แล้ว

      Plastic surgery much?

    • @thomasbusy3632
      @thomasbusy3632 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fix those bottom teeth and shes a 10!

  • @gloriouslyimperfect
    @gloriouslyimperfect ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’ve never heard a journey like mine so eloquently spoken. I haven’t had a drink in 15 years, don’t work a program and my thoughts on it are so similar to Drew. Thanks for sharing this!

    • @casper1240
      @casper1240 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Rehab industry tell us scare stories about it being dangerous to quit alcohol well quel surprise its actually quite easy you dont need Rehab lies and AA i just quit alcohol when i saw what it actually is It's Pure ETHANOL witha bit of sugar added to it and it does nothing for anyone at all

  • @NaturesOpus1212
    @NaturesOpus1212 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Drew, you are just THE BEST WOMAN EVER!!!! I love you!!

  • @RubyWilliamsCoaching
    @RubyWilliamsCoaching ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pleople are capable of change. Yes Drew! I'm 3 1/2 years alcohol free and it's the best thing I ever did. It changed my life so much that I became an alcohol freedom coach to help others. Thanks for being you Drew and sharing your truth!!

  • @dylancook8863
    @dylancook8863 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One of the most incredible persons alive .. I love Drew .. been a fan since ET and I'm so glad to know that she's in a good healthy sober positive place .. she deserves the stars and the moon !

  • @lillierose5304
    @lillierose5304 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I self medicated with alcohol for a while but I knew it was going to have to stop at some point. It's obviously not healthy. I stopped a few months ago. It has been a daily decision since then. Every day I feel like a drink. But I choose not to do it. It's hard. Somehow the process of driving to the shop to get a non-alcoholic beverage helps. It's like it tricks my brain into thinking I'm going the shop to buy alcohol, and the drive to the shop and back home gives me a distraction as well as time to think about it. Everyone finds their own unique way of quitting. Exercise is becoming my new outlet.

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hard during the holidays

    • @starbright1256
      @starbright1256 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just think my better self, my feel better in the morning not wasted time. Not embarrassed. It's worth the fight cause tge winnings are that much more in many many ways. Get drunk wasn't fun anymore for me.

    • @Melissa-fw7ur
      @Melissa-fw7ur ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!

  • @tickedoffnow
    @tickedoffnow ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm so proud of her, she's done a lot of growing up 💕💕

  • @gooberhoobin4658
    @gooberhoobin4658 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I watched the first 30 seconds of her speaking on her personal experience and all I can say is this is exactly how I feel. Alcohol for me was a test of my own will to behave under the influence and I continue to fail the test. I always fuck something up; whether it’s harming myself, hurting others or just destroying something in the mists of my current glimmer. My mindset towards it was I can control my behavior, “I can just have 1” but ends up consuming 4 bottles of wine (it’s now just wine and two shots of fire ball. Before it was a whole bottle of bird dog [whisky chocolate] and a jug of carlo rossi) and it was an out of my hands type of thing. I know deep down that it is a toxic thing that I will never control yet I find myself refusing to yield to the idea that, “life is boring if not under the influence. I can’t understand people, feel sympathy or even empathy if not under the influence. I can casually walk up to a person willingly and chat if not under the influence. And that’s my prison. And I’ve been held prisoner to my depression for literally Years. I’m 28, and I used alcohol as a form to release my aggression, show my emotions willingly, understand some situations. But as an adult, I’m learning it’s something that I became reliable on. And I’m not in the wrong to be stuck to the hip by something that is slowly destroying me & my relationships. It’s not an answer that I need to look towards. But I just enjoy having my bottles of wine after a week of work. I can thankfully say I don’t drink every single day (I HAVE DURING QUARANTINE. WASNT A DAY I WASNT DRUNK AS HELL) but now, I just drink after work since I have weekends off. It’s a mess and I’m just a mess. I wouldn’t say I’m an alcoholic nor am I looking to be “sober” for I’m not at that severe point, however, I do wish that I can find a way or a method that’ll allow me to not want to constantly have alcohol to make life look a little brighter or better. More tolerable and more fun. That’s my toxic prison I’m in. Hope someone read this and can relate. Sorry if it’s too long ♥︎

    • @T_WC123
      @T_WC123 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It definitely sounds like alcoholism from your description. Your body isn’t designed to handle that much alcohol chronically and there will be health effects, even irreversible damage to your body, so I hope you can stop drinking.

    • @jillianpw9789
      @jillianpw9789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@T_WC123 💯

    • @SaxonBloom
      @SaxonBloom ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You hit it on the head for me. Thank you for sharing!

    • @gooberhoobin4658
      @gooberhoobin4658 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@T_WC123 I would totally agree with you if I wasn’t stubborn and don’t wanna label myself as an alcoholic. Guess that’s the train ride to understanding that it could be just that. Tough to admit

    • @gooberhoobin4658
      @gooberhoobin4658 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SaxonBloom of course. If I can speak the words for another person rather than speak of themselves and they relate, I love nothing more

  • @daynasafranek7807
    @daynasafranek7807 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love and appreciate Drew’s spirit and character. I don’t drink anymore because it goes horribly; always. I had more than one trip to rehab and I am not completely sober nor do I work a program. I get what she is saying and she is near in my age and I can relate to her a lot.

  • @callaflower221
    @callaflower221 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so grateful for all the comments from people who have stopped drinking but don’t view themselves as alcoholics and don’t work a program. I feel kind of alone sometimes. If I’m not drinking because of problematic behaviors then shouldn’t I be in a program or shouldn’t I consider myself an alcoholic. No. I don’t have to if it’s working for me. 14 months sober as of yesterday. 💙💙💙

  • @kaymauck7748
    @kaymauck7748 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I appreciate her openness with talking about alcohol, I’m 17 not even out of high school and deal with alcoholism. It’s nice to know others understand

    • @nicholea
      @nicholea ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Quit while you can. I have seen so many young people in AA that stopped young and are still sober in their 20's happy, healthy and leading wonderful lives. I'm 37 and have 9 days alcohol free again! My final time. As I wish I would have seen my problem at 17. Best of luck to you! Have a bright future ahead ☺️

    • @Dbb27
      @Dbb27 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 68. Finally at the point where I figured it out. Kudos to you for your self insight. Knowing you have a problem is half the battle, figuring out why is the other half.

    • @louwinters508
      @louwinters508 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think Drew was only 13 when she forced into rehab. She was drinking since the age of 7. Thanks to her mother allowing her to attend adult parties.

  • @essenceredefined
    @essenceredefined ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very well said Drew, probably one of the most authentic and real interviews I’ve seen of a celebrity.. ever. I also felt truth in a very wholesome way. So glad you overcame this and now can lead others to their freedom too. I would apply this to myself and food addiction.

  • @lynnej.9357
    @lynnej.9357 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm not much in to celebrities at all, but I have always liked Drew Barrymore. I'm so glad to hear that she is healthy and things are going well for her.

  • @kellygarland63
    @kellygarland63 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Having come from generations of alcoholism, I’m so happy I didn’t develop a problem.

  • @cynthiatreynor1973
    @cynthiatreynor1973 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I quit 2 years ago for the same reasons.
    I've never once regretted that choice.
    Coming from a long family history of alcohol addiction, I decided to care more about myself and break the cycle once and for all.

  • @jeffpagan7735
    @jeffpagan7735 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The neglect this girl suffered early on was criminal. This was the crux of her issues. I love her, you could tell she's smart and kind. Her mother just didn't keep an eye on her.

  • @lrrich8023
    @lrrich8023 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Alcohol can be like bull riding and getting thrown off of it. Your ego comes into play like "oh I got it this time". Wash, rinse, repeat. Some people are no match but ego makes them take another ride. Admitting that bull is gonna run you over like Johnny Knoxville is not easy.

  • @heathermetz3974
    @heathermetz3974 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    3:44 “Insecurity is loud, Confidence is quiet.”

  • @MamaRahRah
    @MamaRahRah ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes!!!!!!!!! Me too! 4 years for me on March 10 2023. Wow, we quit at the same time. One thing that I noticed was my eyes changed without alcohol, the lids of my eyes changed from a darker color to a better blood flow look, it’s a silvery look in my skin color, but for anyone, I think there is a health that comes back in someone’s eyes when they let go of alcohol.

  • @LWDavis58
    @LWDavis58 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Drew is looking so much better. She has matured well. Live long and prosper.

  • @JLBREMER
    @JLBREMER ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The conversation that I needed to hear on many levels.

  • @jonvia
    @jonvia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Just one drink" is the most ironic statement

  • @paulkline3011
    @paulkline3011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got an OWI 3 years ago. It was the worst experience in my life but at the same time I'm so glad it happened. It saved my life. I had been drinking to black out almost every single day for 25 years. I've been sober for almost 3 years now and I'm so thankful to not feel like I have to drink to live anymore. It took a good year and a half to get to that point but I'm to the point now that I never want to go back.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have followed Drew since ET. Read and loved her autobiography, as well. I attempted to be a guest on her show. Went thru the protocol..but no response. I'm an award winning, acclaimed author. I'd love to be on her show. We love you, Drew!

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Random flex in YT comments section

    • @interdimensionalsteve8172
      @interdimensionalsteve8172 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm an award winning award winner, so there. Neener neener neener.

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter ปีที่แล้ว

      @B Ulrich I looked her up - it's basically just self-pub Amazon self-help, so really it's not difficult to aim higher at all lol

  • @charlenewilley6481
    @charlenewilley6481 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly where I am right now and I gave up for 5 months and was hard changing my habits and friends not wanting to meet up because I wasn't drinking. Then I started up slowly but like Drew I'm not a one, Two or Three drinks I just want more and more. So I got to give it up or my forties will just a waste. Drew is such a lovely down to earth and natural woman

  • @Miles-ud6rh
    @Miles-ud6rh ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was a phenomenal listen!

  • @malcolmbeckwithayres
    @malcolmbeckwithayres ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love her and her reinvention and how that brings her voice to us! Thank you, Drew!

  • @swai98
    @swai98 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    People can definitely change because the brain is neuroplastic. But they have to want to change and do the work

  • @purplepaws9273
    @purplepaws9273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i had n alcohol blackout , couldn't remember anything when i woke up, lost my cell phone,, was really embarrased as my neighbors were laughing when they saw me the next day, i never drank after that, been 16 years sober.

  • @timothyslaughter476
    @timothyslaughter476 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was holed up in a cheap motel in Baltimore Maryland, drunk, done, people rummaging through the room taking what little I had left.....empty liquor bottles dozens of them everywhere. Ash trays overflowing. Rotten food lying in the bed with me. And I was looking at the news hearing about this pandemic that was sweeping the world and on its way to America in a day or two. Something clicked when I watched that broadcast and of the impending doom headed our way. It just clicked that it would be the perfect opportunity to get sober. And that's exactly what I did. No easy task but worth every effort to get clean and sober. So in reality covid saved my life. Absolutely did.

  • @crptnite
    @crptnite ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Drew!!! Kicking the bottle is half the battle...

  • @audreyryan9716
    @audreyryan9716 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm an alcoholic and this is exactly how I feel. We are powerless over addiction. I just had my "ahh ha" moment and I know I need sober living. "Do it and shut up about it". True true. Thank you, Drew.

  • @natalieohlsson7777
    @natalieohlsson7777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ooookay, human trafficking is real and not something to turn a blind eye to!!! What if it was happening to YOU??? Or your daughter??? SMH

  • @kristeandreatujague7016
    @kristeandreatujague7016 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Drew makes complete sense here and what she says is accurate. I am so glad I listened to this podcast. 💙

  • @nancyrupp5893
    @nancyrupp5893 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for your honesty about this situation and the cheating comment, as well. I have been looking for an answer to both and you summed it up beautifully!!! I have struggled to let my wine habit go (or ok let's just call it what it is, an addiction) for years. Things get tough in life and it has been my escape. I need to make myself a priority going forward and stop trying to drown how other people make me feel in endless bottles of wine. A hamster wheel for sure! Thank you Drew:)

  • @Stasi09
    @Stasi09 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Drew so much 🥹 she is just a beautiful person inside and out.

  • @wplants9793
    @wplants9793 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I need a 2022 Drew Barrymore hair tutorial 😫 how can she flip it to both sides without having a part come in?

  • @tomatoseed1443
    @tomatoseed1443 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was unable to stop drinking on my own. AA worked for me. Attended meetings for 10 yrs. Sober since 1994.

  • @pinkyalmeroth3702
    @pinkyalmeroth3702 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The confident decision part is key...she got to a point where she knew she had to give it up. Then she went from there. Confidently decide enough is enough

  • @shonaboufford7342
    @shonaboufford7342 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that shes so open about addiction and not drinking shes a guiding light for others. Addiction is a disease like any other and needs to be talked about in the open.

  • @alchapopapo
    @alchapopapo ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I also don't drink alcohol... but am not sober. (That needs to be more accepted, alcohol is just another drug)
    Alcohol was not good for me and I'm glad I realised it. It's easy for me not to drink now because it made me feel awful. It's a hard no and it's 3 years now and no going back.
    I have ways of getting bent that I control and enjoy and it's suuuch a good life ◇♡
    Power to ya Drew

  • @lonreed9743
    @lonreed9743 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve had a crush on Drew since childhood and everytime I see her I relapse back into love with her again!

  • @melindabartolazo116
    @melindabartolazo116 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Drew! She is one hell of an amazing woman!! ❤️❤️

  • @RandomnessTube.
    @RandomnessTube. 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    40 and I gave up alcohol 3 years ago you will lose friends but you will feel much calmer and healthier you don't need to be the cool person at the party when the party has already finished.

  • @iescapedtheasylum2015
    @iescapedtheasylum2015 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What an incredible woman 🎉

  • @mylovelylife9090
    @mylovelylife9090 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Drew I love you

  • @pagalmasala
    @pagalmasala ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this gal. I would love to give her a hug. I have relatives who have struggled with the problem for years….❤

  • @daleandrews3552
    @daleandrews3552 ปีที่แล้ว

    As I was going to say, at 70, all I remember of her is role as Gurtie in "E.T.". She did a great jog. I'm proud of her recognizing she had a problem and correcting it before it ruined her looks, then later her LIFE.

  • @mikevargas809
    @mikevargas809 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, that was one of the more impactful things I've seen. Thanks Drew!

  • @laurasoffroadadventures
    @laurasoffroadadventures ปีที่แล้ว

    You listened to your body. Good for you!! It takes strength.

  • @dinajoliemarie
    @dinajoliemarie ปีที่แล้ว

    "Insecurity is loud. Confidence is quiet." - Excellent point!

  • @yvonneolitasol6239
    @yvonneolitasol6239 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Drew for being real! Thank you for being an inspiration and role model! ❤⚘

  • @kinnyclaire7332
    @kinnyclaire7332 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm the opposite. I am emotionally addicted to marijuana, but I rarely drink. Wanna get sober but scared

    • @deecee7042
      @deecee7042 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did it. No regrets whatsoever. Life is so much better. I had to abstain 100% and now I can do it in moderation (3x a month I take a tiny dosage)

    • @smokey5883
      @smokey5883 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You aren’t alone. After a week you will feel so much better. Give it 1 week you can do it! I’m with ya n taking a long break from it. It just rules my life n I’m sick of it. We got this!

    • @kinnyclaire7332
      @kinnyclaire7332 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@smokey5883

    • @kevinwalsh4652
      @kevinwalsh4652 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Here's my two cents: started smoking pot in 1972, 14 years old, a nickel bag for me about 30 joints for $5...soon, I was smoking everyday, at 17 I joined the air force and was stationed at Dover AFB in Delaware where at the time all the weed, hash, and thai stick was being flown in from the Philippines. Now, I'm smoking 5-20 joints per day, stayed like that until November 25, 1985 in Hollywood, CA...smoked a joint, had this weird creepy hyper fear-based paranoia come over me, it scared me, I was so frightened...that was my last joint. Now here's what might have happened: God knows I couldn't quit, tried unsuccessfully many times, life, the universe, God, whatever, take your pick...did for me what I couldn't possibly do for myself, my point: there's a huge difference between "quitting" and being divinely delivered. I do however believe the pot made me suffer psychotic episodes, eventually, it fractures a psychosis in the brain....the shit is highly dangerous, I'd add physically addicting, and mentally addicting too. But if you would have told me back on Nov.25, 1985 that'd I'd be 64 and never touched another joint, how could I possibly believe that?

    • @Chipandsausage
      @Chipandsausage ปีที่แล้ว

      Kinny..i smoked weed for 30 years..i gave it up a year ago..and its the best thing i ever done....i wish i done it years ago..i never thought i would have the strength to do it..but i did.and im proud of myself..i have so much more energy..and im enjoying life so much more..you can do it .have faith in yourself..good luck ..✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼

  • @markmacfarlane3169
    @markmacfarlane3169 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg she's so amazing! If she's ever in the UK I'd love to ask her out for a drink to chat.

  • @treehousewood85
    @treehousewood85 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been sober now for 7 years and AA and other programs were just not for me. They try to make you feel like you can’t make it without going to meetings and working a program, but that’s just not the case for everyone. As an atheist, i couldn’t stand the religious doctrine baked into all of it. Despite how much they pretend like it’s not there, IT’S THERE! But again, if that works for you, then stick with it. Finding something that keeps you sober is hard to do and some people never do, so do what works for you and what keeps you clean and sober.

    • @tomatoseed1443
      @tomatoseed1443 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree. AA did work for me, tho'.

  • @erinpufunt
    @erinpufunt ปีที่แล้ว

    “Just do it and shut up about it”- perfection!✌🏻

  • @dz94040
    @dz94040 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this women. Been a fan since I was a kid watching ET. Beautiful inside and out. Love her honesty.

  • @kevinholston8135
    @kevinholston8135 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Drew Barrymore Thank You I fully understand it's been 90 days now here you today drew it makes me keeping on keeping on GOD thank you for Drew Barrymore so much more I want to say it's all good !!!

  • @helpfulcommenter
    @helpfulcommenter ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That’s weird I thought she always was sober. She famously wrote a book about having to get cleaned up as a kid from drugs and alcohol. I never realIzed she went back to drinking and drank her whole life.

    • @jeeess9979
      @jeeess9979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its bc american society teaches us you can be sober from "drugs" and still be a full blown drunk or a functional alcoholic. It wears on you quite a bit though in case you've not noticed.

    • @m.k.6633
      @m.k.6633 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I quit drugs and drank 26 yrs heavily I never thought it was a big deal bc i wasn’t doing hard shit alcoholic mind

    • @kirsten1007
      @kirsten1007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alot of people do that and deny their alcoholism. I did the same

    • @Grk149
      @Grk149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s also this tendency in America to be sober from drugs and maybe alcohol, but remain heavily medicated for anxiety or other issues. Trading one vice for another.

  • @soulconnect101
    @soulconnect101 ปีที่แล้ว

    what an amazing inspirational story. Thanks Drew for sharing this the world

  • @FucU4ever
    @FucU4ever ปีที่แล้ว +1

    as horrible as dogs in shelters are or human trafficking is, BEING AWARE instead of scrolling by, or advocating and using your platform to save a life is more important than ignoring or turning a blind eye, out of sight out of mind makes the world blind to one the atrocities and lives lost daily while people who can make active change do NOTHING and scroll on by...

  • @Frauenhaus
    @Frauenhaus ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As long as alcohol is available, we have a huge problem on this planet. It is a catastrophe.

    • @finn218
      @finn218 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Addiction is within us, you can't change the world to fit that fact. I'm sorry you have been negativly affected by alcohol

  • @brianwise4571
    @brianwise4571 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Drew Barrymore’s take on this subject has meant more to me than anything else I’ve read etccc. I want her to stop by for coffee one day. I think we’d have a good chat. Dr. B K Wise.

  • @joelarama
    @joelarama 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some THE BEST humans are in recovery….Drew is one of them.

  • @musicandpoetry_8
    @musicandpoetry_8 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is a genuine and honest person and all my respect ❤

  • @desertca
    @desertca ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 52. I stopped drinking for 2 years after 20 years daily . I have been drinking on weekends for last 3 years. I feel good and don't want to ever be there again.

  • @Frauenhaus
    @Frauenhaus ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why does she still keep alcohol in her house, why not keep teabags?

  • @gwadamier
    @gwadamier ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Drew!!! You guys need to work on interrupting people while they’re talking. A couple times Drew was trying to elaborate on her point and you cut her off with insignificant comments.

  • @ZUMBACOSTABLANCA
    @ZUMBACOSTABLANCA ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! The day in the life question.... nice! Thought provoking.

  • @MS-fi7vw
    @MS-fi7vw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Just do it and shutup about it"

  • @vmc7773
    @vmc7773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u so much for ur honesty your friend is talking the truth! Gawd drew thank u. 😍 ♥ 🏬 .luv vmcx

  • @MartinAlexanderVideos
    @MartinAlexanderVideos ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have always been aware that Drew Barrymore is an amazing woman but I really have come to realize just now that I actually cherish this person. She’s so talented (obviously) but down to earth, so much grace and radiates such positivity.

  • @damianlopez7630
    @damianlopez7630 ปีที่แล้ว

    Misses Drew Barrymore Looks Beautiful.

  • @jessilee138
    @jessilee138 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate that she says that she doesn’t drink/stopped drinking but isn’t sober. Often people who smoke say they are sober because they don’t drink and that isn’t sober. It’s all a relationship like anything else and you have to check in with yourself.

  • @broccolihighkicks3857
    @broccolihighkicks3857 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m doing 365 days off alcohol, for exact same reason as her. I dont drink often but when i do, i need 3 bottles and end up being destructive.

    • @MsSheilaC
      @MsSheilaC ปีที่แล้ว

      How is it going?

  • @ashchaya7676
    @ashchaya7676 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this one really resonates with me. I too hit that point where it was just a realisation that "this doesn't work for me". I just COULD NOT get alcohol to work for me the same way it worked for others. I have a massive tolerance for starters. And yeah, I have alcohol in my house too - some rather fancy spirits that I have just as a nice collection.
    There are all kinds of alcoholics out there but it's so rare that I hear about the type of alcoholic that I was.

  • @SaintEM821
    @SaintEM821 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh…my god. I LOVED every minute of this interview. And I LOVE DREW!

  • @pbandwhey
    @pbandwhey ปีที่แล้ว

    "A confident decision"... perfect way to describe choosing no alcohol

  • @virginiahilman7786
    @virginiahilman7786 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey. Dry. you described me perfectly. i hadn’t had a drink in three years.

  • @mandatereporter7928
    @mandatereporter7928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is my favorite actress by far next Julia Roberts

  • @dianecluck3803
    @dianecluck3803 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her beautiful eyes... clarity.

  • @orlyno364
    @orlyno364 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Drew probably smokes and eats edibles everyday