Paramore never misses. Hayley’s delivery of every single one of their songs is just… too good. Thank you for your vulnerability. It’s always rough when it’s fresh. Like you said, knowing things will get better doesn’t do anything to ease the mind in the moment. Feel those feelings, and eventually it won’t hurt anymore. You are cared about, and this is but a small detour in your journey of happiness.
It’s amazing how you can have a draw to a song and don’t know what, then it’s on repeat forever until something clicks, all the while it was guiding you through something. Appreciate you sharing
Paramore has always been a band that I loved growing up and Haley is such an amazing lyrists. They have the some of the best tempo going and chorus action. Always been a fan since early 2000's
We appreciate your very detailed analyzing details of lyrics for each song you react to and you’re such a great therapist we are here for you no matter what profession or career you live for you are still human ❤
Thank you for being vulnerable for those facing the same thing so many people deal with every minute of every day. I am dealing with heartbreak and grief of the loss of someone who helped pick me up off the floor in a bad time. I carry the heartbreak of her being gone and feeling like I wasn’t there enough for her when she needed it the most. But that’s my fear talking (NF Real Life).
THAT'S MY FEAR TALKING!! A mantra I've been repeating is a choose to see love instead of this. I choose to learn from the teacher of love instead of fear. It's been helping maybe it will help you too. Sending love - T
Music comes in when heartbreak occurs, for better or worse.. it can heal but also open wounds, I feel and understand your pain.... just remember you are not alone
I love how you actually listen to the music rather than pause every three seconds. you hear it all. then comment! thank you! you are amazing! i love your videos! keep it up!
Seeing them live was the most soul healing thing I’ve done being able to scream the songs that got me through some of the hardest times I really recommend
I still remember accidentally finding this song at the end of the DVD for the 1st Twilight movie. It still hits as hard now as it did back then. I hope things get better for you soon. You help a lot of people so I believe you deserve happiness too. Stay strong!💜
i really want to hug you so badly rn. ive been listening this song through the past two or three months. this time you'll cry and we will support you taylor..kisses.
A broken heart unfortunately happens to everyone. You are a very young woman and you will rebound. As the months/years go by, you will meet the right person. When you meet that person, you will know. Stay strong, move on, and don’t give up. it may seem like the end of the world because you are so young but take it from me, you will be absolutely fine. I have 56 years of experience and it definitely gets better.
"Physician, heal thyself." You have the ultimate means of helping you heal with music. Just as you have used it to help others, let it help you. #YouWillHealAndRockOn
My heart breaks for you. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us. These videos have been wonderful to watch. It's refreshing to witness a community of people who feel music deeply and resonate with it. I wish healing for you.
A few years ago I went through a break-up that wrecked me. I couldn't eat for 3-4 days, and even after that I had a very week stomach for weeks. I had nightly panic attacks and had to go on anxiety medication. Now here I am 3 years later. I've been able to get off my medication, I still have struggles with anxiety but I feel better equipped to handle them. I'm learning to take care of myself and focus on my own growth. I have a better job and have reached a level of financial stability I would have only dreamed of a few years ago. I've been writing a song that essentially says, "Thank you for breaking my heart, because I'm stronger now." I know for a fact that the experience has made me a better friend and son, and will one day make me a better husband and father. Much love to Taylor and the crew at HeartSupport.
A lot of people forget that ‘Paramore’ had two songs on the ‘Twilight’ soundtrack. ‘I Caught Myself’ is my favorite over ‘Decode’ which bums me out a little bit 😢
This made me cry too. I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through. As horrible and heartbreaking as it is, it's something we grow and learn from, as you mentioned and that's the beauty within the darkness of the situation. You've got this 🙌🏽 🩵
I just found your channel the other day and I've already watched so many of your videos. Huge fan. I've been threw a few heart breaks and I want to just give you a big hug 🥺❤
Yeah this one makes your hair stand on end… That’s Hayley Williams for you, the wailing in this song just catches ya right in the feels. ps Hope you feel better soon. Thanks for sharing with us.
I love Paramore soo much they are so close to my heart and every lyric Hayley writes is straight therapy for me. I just got my first tattoo and it is the paramore brand new eyes album cover and I find that album from start to finish where you find this song just beautiful and as you listen you learn that to get through the tough times you have to see life through brand new eyes to get where you deserve to be. Thank you for this reaction ❤
being as fan of a few complex song structure bands, Paramore is, hands down, the most underrated and under exposed bands that still make incredible music. as far as i know.
I just recently discovered this channel. And you’re such an authentic and amazing person. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤ I hope you feel better soon!
going through a heartbreak too and this song got me haha one of my favorite by them..its hard to let go of all the memories and the future you saw with them..even harder when they do things to you that you would never do to anyone! be strong xxx
Love the courage to show up, record, and post. Appreciate the analysis as always, as well as the authenticity. Hope your roads get easier to travel soon! I try to remember Rumi, think he said it best- “I said: what about my eyes? He said: Keep them on the road. I said: What about my passion? He said: Keep it burning. I said: What about my heart? He said: Tell me what you hold inside it? I said: Pain and sorrow. He said: Stay with it. The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”
With this song I feel two things - your analysis on the song but also in a deeper level of internal discussion between the person you used to know as yourself and the person you've become at the time of realization. I've gone through this feeling of "How did we get here" about myself a lot - it's powerful to really think about. The part of "I used to know you so well" is an acknowledgment of the fact that, really, you never really know yourself because there is so much going on day-to-day that you end up losing track of yourself and what's going on until you hit a breaking point of "wow that was 1-2 years ago" and that hits home. For better and for worse, I guess. beautiful song with so many takes that can be taken from it. Ultimately I feel that this song is a true example of what it means to be human - it's a lesson/feeling/process that is experienced on so many levels of your life. It's a great song either way but a LOT can be taken away from it, even if that wasn't the intention of the artist that made it (though Hayley Williams is a fantastic artist and I wouldn't put it past her or Paramore for having deeper meanings in this song).
Breakups suck, we've all been there we just have to pull ourselves up by our boot straps and move forward. I understand that you're hurting like hell right now but it will get better it'll just take a little time. We here at your community got your six and you got this shit, own it don't let it own you. Love, respect and understanding coming at you from Ohio.
I’ve been in your spot.. music and memories are strengths and weaknesses in the early days of reminiscing and calculating where things went wrong.. you’re a tough metal girl you’ve got this take yourself away from heartbreak by indulging in something good for your soul.. listen to some falling in reverse or similar bands and let that you can’t bring me down attitude take over when you’re swimming in memories.. until you’re ready to face the new world you’ve found yourself in.. then baby step your way back stronger and wiser to bring into whoever or whatever is next in your personal journey.. just don’t dwell it does no good for the moment.. I’m not saying bury it but push it to the back burner on a low setting until you find some strength in the front!
Hi. I'm new to your channel. Seeing your pain really hit me. As someone who has also worked to support others, it's so important to allow yourself to also be someone who needs support. I'm still learning how to do that for myself at 45. Sending out love and positivity to you. 💛
Reminds me a LOT of a 90s Anathema track. Cant think which one though. Just seen half way through. Sorry to see you're having a hard time. My old man once said two things about relationships. One was a jokey "love is a compromise, she gets what she needs and you compromise".. the first part - compromise is always true though. The second thing he always said was "all things are temporary" - that can be a positive in that the pain can be worked past... I suppose time heals, too. Best wishes from the UK!!
A lot of the songs that have lasted as my favorite are related to my breakup with the woman I thought would be my wife. The song Better Life by an indy band called Paper Route has always got me
You should react to the entire Paramore album, "After Laughter". The entire album deals with her struggles with mental health. It really helped me with some dark times.
Yeeees especially the song „26“! But also Last Hope by Paramore is such an emotional song with such beautiful lyrics. You guys should definitely react to it :)
I really love what you're doing with this channel! The coordination of music and its therapeutic value is a great thing to explore! (Hugs on your break up) ❤
Twilight came out as my own marriage was breaking apart so know the feels from Decode only too well, although mostly from the introspection point of view than anger/blame. In reality it took the best part of 10 years to learn to trust again and the days spent with my children kept me here during that time. Whilst neither side was blameless, I think "I Don't Feel it Anymore (Song of the Sparrow)" by William Fitzsimmons probably speaks to any lasting anger about the the time lost that could have been spent finding someone to spend my life with. "I want back the years you took when I was young".
If anyone is struggling or feeling hopeless... Progress or learn...I know it sounds simple, and it is. It's not always easy. Keep pushing forward. I know it feels like forever in this moment, although in my personal 15 years of proper therapy... I know it can get better! YOU do have a choice! ❤️
In the past 3 years, I've lost my youngest sister to cancer, discovered that I'm autistic, my wife spread lies and destroyed my reputation and community, then she divorced me, and I haven't seen my daughters in a year. Through therapy, prayer, and grace, I'm making my way through, though not on my own strength. In all this, I've learned that human emotion is complicated, and that it's ok to feel grief and joy at the same time, confidence and fear, peace and anxiety, anger and compassion. And it brings me comfort to know my God feels these right along with me without judgment. I pray that you will feel His comfort as well.
So sorry for your pain..ive had a couple women in my 58 years., Lie to try cause me pain, when I was young and before my wife. I understand how bad that is..Usually low class women that should never been with in first place..I bet is same for you..Your better off and now can get with a good woman, like I did...
This song reminds me of the time after my engagement was ended. She was fooling around with a neighbor. Even though she came clean about, she wanted me to never say anything about it, and honestly, I tried. After only three days, it was eating me inside, making me feel crazy. The cocktail of feeling invalid, betrayed, and like I failed being both strong enough and good enough for her. The mental strain led me down an even worse path, but looking back on it, I'm happy to say I've gotten better. 2009-2011 was a rough time...
I appreciate your emotional transparency and I can relate. I want to share an artist that helped me through my last two break ups, Harry Manx. Big hug ❤
here we go! enjoy! he just wasn't right for you! look on the otherside! i understand looks are not everything but you will get the love you deserve! that's my prayer for you!
You should also listen to Ignorance and Brick By Boring Brick. Fantastic songs with a great meaning. Honestly their first three albums are so good they deserve a listen and definitely a video for the hits like the ones I mentioned. Other songs that deserve a reaction are When It Rains, All I Wanted, Emergency, Pressure, That's What You Get and of course Misery Business.
not a twilight fan but i LOVE Hayley Williams & Paramore!!! she hits some high octaves in this song! if you're gettin the feels from this song you should definitely listen to alot more Paramore❤ I think this song is actually about her relationship/past relationship with a current or old band member if i remember right. this came out years ago...
So sad to hear about your break up... But Hey, welcome to the Single and self loving community... I've been thru the same thing and I Learned to be on my own... not relying on someone by the emotional side is just peace on it's own, now I'm almost 6 years single (im at 27yo rn) so yeah, I do encourage anyone to start caring on themselves and not rely on someone else.
A really great song I've always related to that's helped me with my heart break and finding out about my wife's cheating and the end of our 10 years together is the song "you will see me" by scroobius pip
Sometimes music can heal, especially when you hear someone else talk about it. it lets you know that you're not alone.. please check out NF - "Mistake" and "Gone". "Running" is also a great one and can be interpreted multiple ways, the last 2 times i have seen him live, he mentions that running is his favorite song. I just wanna know is a fantastic one as well! Please go back down the NF rabbit hole!
I'm glad you let a tiny peice of yourself be true for a second when you referenced the twilight movie, how they get back together...I saw right through that ❤. Taylor...as a man who's going through the same thing..please, please don't settle. Focus on yourself, the right one will come along when the time is right❤️❤️, everything happens for a reason. It's up to us to learn what that reason is❤️😘. You are beautiful and worth more than gold, always remember. Never let the barst ards get you down❤
I'm sorry you are going through it right now, but you got this. You have a whole community behind you. Maybe do a couple of happy songs. I recommend Mr Blue Sky by ELO.
AWW, No! I'm sorry to hear a you going through the unfortunate break up. I've been there. I've been divorced for nearly 24 years this coming october. And yes, it sucks., but you will heal. And your heart will heal too.
May I suggest a few videos... "Layers of Time" by Lacuna Coil, "Awakening" by Release the Archers, "Someone's Daughter" by Jinjer, "Kai Tangata" by Alien Weaponry
Sometimes I wish I could allow myself to cry again, but 25 years of parental neglect and bullying has stunted my emotions pretty badly, but it's still nice to see people being sad and letting their emotions out, some day I will be able to do that too, someday. Until then, music, movies and videogames are my outlet. Thank you for your reaction and for opening up.
From KyleGouldOfficial: @Marti_Docus47 Hi Remember you're not alone and if you need someone to discuss more about this we are always on to help. I been bullied when i was younger and it definitely not something that should be push away but brought to the light. But what you said about having emotions are normal and sometimes there will be hard days but knowing that even others have the same thing happened to them brings some relief and someone that you can open up if needed is also. Glad you're able to find things to occupied your time our favorite things to do always make us better.
From gravitykills24: @Marti_Docus47 Thank you for reaching out to HeartSupport - I am glad you found the channel and watched the Paramore reaction video. I can relate to you in that I have had seasons of depression when I just feel numb to everything and have no desire to laugh, to cry, to feel anything - and even when something happens that I would normally cry over (putting our 16 year old cat down for instance) I am just indifferent and know I should be sad and cry but just don't feel it and sort of fake it because I know that is what is expected. I am glad you have an outlet in music, movies, and gaming - sometimes those can be just the thing you need to keep going, to feel something, or to just have some enjoyment in your day. I'm sorry to hear that you went through so many years of neglect and abuse. Hurt people hurt people and no parent should ever pass along that hurt to their children but some just aren't equipped enough to have the capacity to get help themselves to make the lives of the ones they are supposed to nurture and unconditionally love any better. Definitely not making excuses for your parents, what they did was awful - but I hope you can break that cycle and love yourself, love others, and I know someday you will laugh, cry, dance, and feel the full spectrum of human emotions. Not sure why this came to mind, but a movie that I recently just bawled over at the end was The Whale. Probably because I am the father of 2 daughters, and movies that have a strong father/daughter storyline that like one or Interstellar always get me pretty emotional at the end. Maybe give it a watch and see if you feel something at the end...
You really should listen to mass of man unhappy , this is my first day listenening to you and already subscribed , you always get my tears out , i just listened all your reactions on NF and you got me in every single one of them , i just hope u see my comment and make that reaction to this song ❤️
This song definitely hit differently going through my separation and ultimately my divorce. Music can be cathartic but it can also be a spiral into a dark place
Thank you to the HeartSupport Team for having Taylor’s back through this rough time. Halfway through the song her face goes from feeling all the emotions, to visibly looking numb. I have lived in this numb-pain for my entire life, i don’t think I’ve ever seen the feeling represented better than the facial transition at 3:40. From that point onward in the song even her ‘enjoying’ the song and rocking out, is layered on top of the numbness and pain. When the song ends, her face is how i feel every day. Stay strong Taylor, you can have all the ‘coping mechanisms’ in the world, but you’re human, it will hurt, let it hurt, but continue the process of healing.
Man, I wish I had a place like this when I was going through a breakup at the end of 2020. Spent the better part of a year trying to pull myself out of it, feeling completely alone (amid the pandemic), and thinking it could never get better. The hardest part of it all was the fact that it was a long distance relationship and that my ex ended it via text without even the slightest warning that anything was amiss and refused to have a discussion about it, so I was left to agonize over what might have been the cause. It was infinitely harder than when my marriage of 12 years ended because my ex-wife cheated on me and said she didn't want to be married anymore, because at least there was a reason I could process. But, I got through, I met someone incredible who is a communicator, and I can now see how unhealthy the previous relationship really was. All this to say, no matter how bad it feels and how much you are sure it will never heal and find happiness again, it does get better with time. It's awful and it sucks, but it is not forever.
With this reaction and the huge amount of Linkin Park reactions, this has been a real morning for me... Sup from New Zealand 🇳🇿🥝🙃, hope everyone's having a great day 💛🌏💛
and the urges of finding what went wrong in the break up.. if it was you or the other person answers that wont be answered.. messages that wont be recipitated nor responded! in the end focusing on you, and setting goals, and just know that that the right one will come.. buy a dog or cat and than its unconditional. hope this helps anyway.. we learn adapt accept and grow
Paramore never misses. Hayley’s delivery of every single one of their songs is just… too good.
Thank you for your vulnerability. It’s always rough when it’s fresh. Like you said, knowing things will get better doesn’t do anything to ease the mind in the moment. Feel those feelings, and eventually it won’t hurt anymore. You are cared about, and this is but a small detour in your journey of happiness.
Listen to this song live, she absolutely nails every performance. It’ll blow you away how hard this goes live.
it has a sonic boom imbedded in many parts and i feel that comes from a heart beat
This band is sooo underrated !!!!
It’s amazing how you can have a draw to a song and don’t know what, then it’s on repeat forever until something clicks, all the while it was guiding you through something. Appreciate you sharing
Paramore has always been a band that I loved growing up and Haley is such an amazing lyrists. They have the some of the best tempo going and chorus action. Always been a fan since early 2000's
We appreciate your very detailed analyzing details of lyrics for each song you react to and you’re such a great therapist we are here for you no matter what profession or career you live for you are still human ❤
thank you love you
@@HeartSupport 🥺❤️
You should react to wish I could forget-slander featuring Oli sykes
Their song Last Hope is right up your alley as well. Plus it's just Beautiful.
We love you, Taylor! 🙌🏻
love you - T
Thank you for being vulnerable for those facing the same thing so many people deal with every minute of every day. I am dealing with heartbreak and grief of the loss of someone who helped pick me up off the floor in a bad time. I carry the heartbreak of her being gone and feeling like I wasn’t there enough for her when she needed it the most. But that’s my fear talking (NF Real Life).
THAT'S MY FEAR TALKING!! A mantra I've been repeating is a choose to see love instead of this. I choose to learn from the teacher of love instead of fear. It's been helping maybe it will help you too. Sending love - T
Music comes in when heartbreak occurs, for better or worse.. it can heal but also open wounds, I feel and understand your pain.... just remember you are not alone
100% this. Love that statement. Testament to being human
I love how you actually listen to the music rather than pause every three seconds. you hear it all. then comment! thank you! you are amazing! i love your videos! keep it up!
Paramore is FIRE!!!!! Do more.....please! Also, I am sorry for the heartbreak love.
Seeing them live was the most soul healing thing I’ve done being able to scream the songs that got me through some of the hardest times I really recommend
I still remember accidentally finding this song at the end of the DVD for the 1st Twilight movie. It still hits as hard now as it did back then. I hope things get better for you soon. You help a lot of people so I believe you deserve happiness too. Stay strong!💜
i really want to hug you so badly rn. ive been listening this song through the past two or three months. this time you'll cry and we will support you taylor..kisses.
A broken heart unfortunately happens to everyone. You are a very young woman and you will rebound. As the months/years go by, you will meet the right person. When you meet that person, you will know. Stay strong, move on, and don’t give up. it may seem like the end of the world because you are so young but take it from me, you will be absolutely fine. I have 56 years of experience and it definitely gets better.
"Physician, heal thyself."
You have the ultimate means of helping you heal with music. Just as you have used it to help others, let it help you. #YouWillHealAndRockOn
❤ you’re such a great person! Love seeing your reactions! Wish you the best 🥹
My heart breaks for you. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us. These videos have been wonderful to watch. It's refreshing to witness a community of people who feel music deeply and resonate with it. I wish healing for you.
Taylor we got your back and are loved by all of us ❤
A few years ago I went through a break-up that wrecked me. I couldn't eat for 3-4 days, and even after that I had a very week stomach for weeks. I had nightly panic attacks and had to go on anxiety medication.
Now here I am 3 years later. I've been able to get off my medication, I still have struggles with anxiety but I feel better equipped to handle them. I'm learning to take care of myself and focus on my own growth. I have a better job and have reached a level of financial stability I would have only dreamed of a few years ago.
I've been writing a song that essentially says, "Thank you for breaking my heart, because I'm stronger now."
I know for a fact that the experience has made me a better friend and son, and will one day make me a better husband and father.
Much love to Taylor and the crew at HeartSupport.
Such a beautiful way to reflect through creation. I'm so glad you're in a better place now!! Sending love - T
Amazing song with such power and meaning, Thankyou for letting us see your vulnerability, your amazing and you got this!! 👌🏼🫶🏻
decode is one of those songs i relate to a place in my life when i was with an abusive guy and we were both in a cult
in my case this video, this song, remember me my entire childhood a 12 years ago , and i still feels goosebumps when i see or hear this song
Haley has such a great voice!
As for your relationship, time is the ultimate healer, you will bounce back better than before!
A lot of people forget that ‘Paramore’ had two songs on the ‘Twilight’ soundtrack. ‘I Caught Myself’ is my favorite over ‘Decode’ which bums me out a little bit 😢
Appreciate your sharing your experiences and heart..
This made me cry too. I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through. As horrible and heartbreaking as it is, it's something we grow and learn from, as you mentioned and that's the beauty within the darkness of the situation. You've got this 🙌🏽 🩵
I just found your channel the other day and I've already watched so many of your videos. Huge fan. I've been threw a few heart breaks and I want to just give you a big hug 🥺❤
Yeah this one makes your hair stand on end… That’s Hayley Williams for you, the wailing in this song just catches ya right in the feels. ps Hope you feel better soon. Thanks for sharing with us.
I love Paramore soo much they are so close to my heart and every lyric Hayley writes is straight therapy for me. I just got my first tattoo and it is the paramore brand new eyes album cover and I find that album from start to finish where you find this song just beautiful and as you listen you learn that to get through the tough times you have to see life through brand new eyes to get where you deserve to be.
Thank you for this reaction ❤
she has a great voice
I appreciate you sharing where you are at RN. Bless you, Dear. You are great.
Your interpretations and analysis of lyrics in every video i have watched hit so much harder now. This channel is a Godsend.
misery business, that's what you get, crushcrushcrush, the only exception
I am sorry about what you are going through! There is healing in Music! God bless
being as fan of a few complex song structure bands, Paramore is, hands down, the most underrated and under exposed bands that still make incredible music. as far as i know.
Your vulnerability is humbling. Therapists are human too. Prayers your way my dear, and big hugs x!
I just recently discovered this channel. And you’re such an authentic and amazing person. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤ I hope you feel better soon!
going through a heartbreak too and this song got me haha one of my favorite by them..its hard to let go of all the memories and the future you saw with them..even harder when they do things to you that you would never do to anyone! be strong xxx
Love the courage to show up, record, and post. Appreciate the analysis as always, as well as the authenticity. Hope your roads get easier to travel soon! I try to remember Rumi, think he said it best-
“I said: what about my eyes?
He said: Keep them on the road.
I said: What about my passion?
He said: Keep it burning.
I said: What about my heart?
He said: Tell me what you hold inside it?
I said: Pain and sorrow.
He said: Stay with it. The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”
With this song I feel two things - your analysis on the song but also in a deeper level of internal discussion between the person you used to know as yourself and the person you've become at the time of realization. I've gone through this feeling of "How did we get here" about myself a lot - it's powerful to really think about. The part of "I used to know you so well" is an acknowledgment of the fact that, really, you never really know yourself because there is so much going on day-to-day that you end up losing track of yourself and what's going on until you hit a breaking point of "wow that was 1-2 years ago" and that hits home. For better and for worse, I guess. beautiful song with so many takes that can be taken from it.
Ultimately I feel that this song is a true example of what it means to be human - it's a lesson/feeling/process that is experienced on so many levels of your life. It's a great song either way but a LOT can be taken away from it, even if that wasn't the intention of the artist that made it (though Hayley Williams is a fantastic artist and I wouldn't put it past her or Paramore for having deeper meanings in this song).
I love this song so much.
Breakups suck, we've all been there we just have to pull ourselves up by our boot straps and move forward. I understand that you're hurting like hell right now but it will get better it'll just take a little time. We here at your community got your six and you got this shit, own it don't let it own you.
Love, respect and understanding coming at you from Ohio.
Great song, I’ll dance with you anytime to this song. And yes heartbreak hurts so much. Been through it, been 3 years for me now.
I’ve been in your spot.. music and memories are strengths and weaknesses in the early days of reminiscing and calculating where things went wrong.. you’re a tough metal girl you’ve got this take yourself away from heartbreak by indulging in something good for your soul.. listen to some falling in reverse or similar bands and let that you can’t bring me down attitude take over when you’re swimming in memories.. until you’re ready to face the new world you’ve found yourself in.. then baby step your way back stronger and wiser to bring into whoever or whatever is next in your personal journey.. just don’t dwell it does no good for the moment.. I’m not saying bury it but push it to the back burner on a low setting until you find some strength in the front!
Me after my last break up. Amazing what music does to us. You got this! One day at a time
Hi. I'm new to your channel. Seeing your pain really hit me. As someone who has also worked to support others, it's so important to allow yourself to also be someone who needs support. I'm still learning how to do that for myself at 45. Sending out love and positivity to you. 💛
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Same on the breakup. Ling term relationship thought would never end. Its struggle but we will make it through!
I love heart support she nails it every time ❤ya so cute ⌚ her rock out and narrow it down
There’s a video performance of this at a radio station. It is one of the most impressive live vocals I’ve heard. She 💛. Best to you turning that page.
Reminds me a LOT of a 90s Anathema track. Cant think which one though. Just seen half way through. Sorry to see you're having a hard time. My old man once said two things about relationships. One was a jokey "love is a compromise, she gets what she needs and you compromise".. the first part - compromise is always true though. The second thing he always said was "all things are temporary" - that can be a positive in that the pain can be worked past... I suppose time heals, too. Best wishes from the UK!!
A lot of the songs that have lasted as my favorite are related to my breakup with the woman I thought would be my wife. The song Better Life by an indy band called Paper Route has always got me
Now's the perfect time to watch the movie The Fountain if you've never seen it. It helped me grieve and find acceptance after my worst break-up.
You should react to the entire Paramore album, "After Laughter". The entire album deals with her struggles with mental health. It really helped me with some dark times.
Yeeees especially the song „26“! But also Last Hope by Paramore is such an emotional song with such beautiful lyrics. You guys should definitely react to it :)
Yes! I totally agree! Also, "Fake Happy" really hits me hard!! @@mayarobbins9161
story of the year praying for rain should be on the list. it's not their most popular song but it's definitely one of their best
Really glad I clicked on this video, you've given me a new appreciation for the meaning of this song!
Hi! I always see your reactions! It makes me sad to see You like this! Please be strong and get well! Thanks for sharing !
I really love what you're doing with this channel! The coordination of music and its therapeutic value is a great thing to explore! (Hugs on your break up) ❤
Nooo, this song deserves a live reaction... great performances out there.
Girl i feel and see your heartbreak. Time heals. Wish you the best. we love you through it.
thank you. means so much to me. appreciate you.- T
Twilight came out as my own marriage was breaking apart so know the feels from Decode only too well, although mostly from the introspection point of view than anger/blame.
In reality it took the best part of 10 years to learn to trust again and the days spent with my children kept me here during that time.
Whilst neither side was blameless, I think "I Don't Feel it Anymore (Song of the Sparrow)" by William Fitzsimmons probably speaks to any lasting anger about the the time lost that could have been spent finding someone to spend my life with. "I want back the years you took when I was young".
Please please do "passive" by a perfect circle or "Judith" by a perfect circle.
If anyone is struggling or feeling hopeless... Progress or learn...I know it sounds simple, and it is. It's not always easy. Keep pushing forward. I know it feels like forever in this moment, although in my personal 15 years of proper therapy... I know it can get better! YOU do have a choice! ❤️
In the past 3 years, I've lost my youngest sister to cancer, discovered that I'm autistic, my wife spread lies and destroyed my reputation and community, then she divorced me, and I haven't seen my daughters in a year. Through therapy, prayer, and grace, I'm making my way through, though not on my own strength. In all this, I've learned that human emotion is complicated, and that it's ok to feel grief and joy at the same time, confidence and fear, peace and anxiety, anger and compassion. And it brings me comfort to know my God feels these right along with me without judgment. I pray that you will feel His comfort as well.
Reasons to be happy if your single 😅
So sorry for your pain..ive had a couple women in my 58 years., Lie to try cause me pain, when I was young and before my wife. I understand how bad that is..Usually low class women that should never been with in first place..I bet is same for you..Your better off and now can get with a good woman, like I did...
I’ll pray for you as well brother
Just cause you have tool and tactics to hand this doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. Best of luck to you.
This song reminds me of the time after my engagement was ended. She was fooling around with a neighbor. Even though she came clean about, she wanted me to never say anything about it, and honestly, I tried. After only three days, it was eating me inside, making me feel crazy. The cocktail of feeling invalid, betrayed, and like I failed being both strong enough and good enough for her. The mental strain led me down an even worse path, but looking back on it, I'm happy to say I've gotten better.
2009-2011 was a rough time...
I appreciate your emotional transparency and I can relate.
I want to share an artist that helped me through my last two break ups, Harry Manx.
Big hug ❤
Should listen to Halestorm - I Miss the Misery and In This Moment - Blood , both are amazing songs and great for heart breaks.
here we go! enjoy! he just wasn't right for you! look on the otherside! i understand looks are not everything but you will get the love you deserve! that's my prayer for you!
You should also listen to Ignorance and Brick By Boring Brick. Fantastic songs with a great meaning. Honestly their first three albums are so good they deserve a listen and definitely a video for the hits like the ones I mentioned. Other songs that deserve a reaction are When It Rains, All I Wanted, Emergency, Pressure, That's What You Get and of course Misery Business.
Ahw, i feel for you heartache sucks! Hug! You'll get through this, you got us ❤
You seem to be such a sincere person.. You earned a new fan today.. And breaking your heart should be a crime btw
not a twilight fan but i LOVE Hayley Williams & Paramore!!! she hits some high octaves in this song! if you're gettin the feels from this song you should definitely listen to alot more Paramore❤ I think this song is actually about her relationship/past relationship with a current or old band member if i remember right. this came out years ago...
So sad to hear about your break up... But Hey, welcome to the Single and self loving community... I've been thru the same thing and I Learned to be on my own... not relying on someone by the emotional side is just peace on it's own, now I'm almost 6 years single (im at 27yo rn) so yeah, I do encourage anyone to start caring on themselves and not rely on someone else.
A really great song I've always related to that's helped me with my heart break and finding out about my wife's cheating and the end of our 10 years together is the song "you will see me" by scroobius pip
Sometimes music can heal, especially when you hear someone else talk about it. it lets you know that you're not alone..
please check out NF - "Mistake" and "Gone". "Running" is also a great one and can be interpreted multiple ways, the last 2 times i have seen him live, he mentions that running is his favorite song.
I just wanna know is a fantastic one as well! Please go back down the NF rabbit hole!
Maybe next:
Bloody Angel by Avatar
BTW, i used to hear paramore few years later, some powerful lyrics, Decode is always in my playlist
I'm glad you let a tiny peice of yourself be true for a second when you referenced the twilight movie, how they get back together...I saw right through that ❤.
Taylor...as a man who's going through the same thing..please, please don't settle. Focus on yourself, the right one will come along when the time is right❤️❤️, everything happens for a reason. It's up to us to learn what that reason is❤️😘. You are beautiful and worth more than gold, always remember. Never let the barst ards get you down❤
Btw love the reaction hahaha
ESTA CHICA TIENE UNA CARA HERMOSA. AMO TUS OJOS!
You should check out their song Fake Happy.
Also, Blessed Be by Spiritbox
My breakup song is Blurry by Puddle of Mud. I sob! 😭
So sorry you’re in this pain. It gets better… that damn time dying!
I'm sorry you are going through it right now, but you got this. You have a whole community behind you.
Maybe do a couple of happy songs. I recommend Mr Blue Sky by ELO.
AWW, No! I'm sorry to hear a you going through the unfortunate break up. I've been there. I've been divorced for nearly 24 years this coming october. And yes, it sucks., but you will heal. And your heart will heal too.
Pace yourself young lady you'll bounce back into love
We love you ❤.
I'm sorry you're going through a hard time
Would love to see you react to 26 by Paramore
May I suggest a few videos... "Layers of Time" by Lacuna Coil, "Awakening" by Release the Archers, "Someone's Daughter" by Jinjer, "Kai Tangata" by Alien Weaponry
Sometimes I wish I could allow myself to cry again, but 25 years of parental neglect and bullying has stunted my emotions pretty badly, but it's still nice to see people being sad and letting their emotions out, some day I will be able to do that too, someday. Until then, music, movies and videogames are my outlet. Thank you for your reaction and for opening up.
From KyleGouldOfficial: @Marti_Docus47 Hi
Remember you're not alone and if you need someone to discuss more about this we are always on to help. I been bullied when i was younger and it definitely not something that should be push away but brought to the light.
But what you said about having emotions are normal and sometimes there will be hard days but knowing that even others have the same thing happened to them brings some relief and someone that you can open up if needed is also. Glad you're able to find things to occupied your time our favorite things to do always make us better.
From gravitykills24: @Marti_Docus47 Thank you for reaching out to HeartSupport - I am glad you found the channel and watched the Paramore reaction video. I can relate to you in that I have had seasons of depression when I just feel numb to everything and have no desire to laugh, to cry, to feel anything - and even when something happens that I would normally cry over (putting our 16 year old cat down for instance) I am just indifferent and know I should be sad and cry but just don't feel it and sort of fake it because I know that is what is expected. I am glad you have an outlet in music, movies, and gaming - sometimes those can be just the thing you need to keep going, to feel something, or to just have some enjoyment in your day. I'm sorry to hear that you went through so many years of neglect and abuse. Hurt people hurt people and no parent should ever pass along that hurt to their children but some just aren't equipped enough to have the capacity to get help themselves to make the lives of the ones they are supposed to nurture and unconditionally love any better. Definitely not making excuses for your parents, what they did was awful - but I hope you can break that cycle and love yourself, love others, and I know someday you will laugh, cry, dance, and feel the full spectrum of human emotions. Not sure why this came to mind, but a movie that I recently just bawled over at the end was The Whale. Probably because I am the father of 2 daughters, and movies that have a strong father/daughter storyline that like one or Interstellar always get me pretty emotional at the end. Maybe give it a watch and see if you feel something at the end...
You really should listen to mass of man unhappy , this is my first day listenening to you and already subscribed , you always get my tears out , i just listened all your reactions on NF and you got me in every single one of them , i just hope u see my comment and make that reaction to this song ❤️
I love this song deeply! Twilight all the way and Paramore!
Im sorry your feeling bad. it sucks to feel that way. hard days lead to good
This song definitely hit differently going through my separation and ultimately my divorce. Music can be cathartic but it can also be a spiral into a dark place
Thank you to the HeartSupport Team for having Taylor’s back through this rough time. Halfway through the song her face goes from feeling all the emotions, to visibly looking numb. I have lived in this numb-pain for my entire life, i don’t think I’ve ever seen the feeling represented better than the facial transition at 3:40. From that point onward in the song even her ‘enjoying’ the song and rocking out, is layered on top of the numbness and pain. When the song ends, her face is how i feel every day. Stay strong Taylor, you can have all the ‘coping mechanisms’ in the world, but you’re human, it will hurt, let it hurt, but continue the process of healing.
Man, I wish I had a place like this when I was going through a breakup at the end of 2020. Spent the better part of a year trying to pull myself out of it, feeling completely alone (amid the pandemic), and thinking it could never get better. The hardest part of it all was the fact that it was a long distance relationship and that my ex ended it via text without even the slightest warning that anything was amiss and refused to have a discussion about it, so I was left to agonize over what might have been the cause. It was infinitely harder than when my marriage of 12 years ended because my ex-wife cheated on me and said she didn't want to be married anymore, because at least there was a reason I could process. But, I got through, I met someone incredible who is a communicator, and I can now see how unhealthy the previous relationship really was. All this to say, no matter how bad it feels and how much you are sure it will never heal and find happiness again, it does get better with time. It's awful and it sucks, but it is not forever.
With this reaction and the huge amount of Linkin Park reactions, this has been a real morning for me...
Sup from New Zealand 🇳🇿🥝🙃, hope everyone's having a great day
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You should listen to all I wanted by paramore
and the urges of finding what went wrong in the break up.. if it was you or the other person answers that wont be answered.. messages that wont be recipitated nor responded! in the end focusing on you, and setting goals, and just know that that the right one will come.. buy a dog or cat and than its unconditional. hope this helps anyway.. we learn adapt accept and grow
You got this shit lady!