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Charli XCX and brat summer
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Promiscuity hinders pair-bonding
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75% of Americans report exposure to trauma
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Infant mortality rates
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80% of women use anesthesia during childbirth
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48% of children died before the age of 15
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Damsel and Vixen shadow maiden archetypes
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Promiscuity, high number of sex partners linked to infidelity
_'Woman and children can afford to be careless, men can not'_ - Don Corleone
Men can waste 10 years, and still be ok... Women cannot. - Men
@@billykilgannon the likelyhood they will reproduce becomes less the more time they waste
@@billykilgannon Pu-lease there's always someone to bail women out and fix their binds
The idea that adversity is good for people needs to be qualified and carefully considered. The type of adversity spoken of in this video when experienced by someone who is emotionally stable and psychologically mature will produce resilience. However the type of Trauma that leads to psychological immaturity (arrested development) is relational and happens very early in life starting at infancy.
This type of trauma is persistent and pervasive. It continues into young adulthood until the individual can break free from their abusers. It is not a singular event but a chronic atmosphere of fear, rejection, humiliation, torture, physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, or objectification. It is the systemic destruction of a child’s sense of self, safety and reality. When children are abused, neglected or exploited by their parents it is a type of trauma that alters their developmental trajectory. Many people never recover and suffer with life long incurable psychological disorders such as NPD, BPD, HPD, and ASPD. Torturing children doesn’t make them stronger people it makes them crazy.
This is the danger of listening to people who are not psychiatrists or psychologists and do not have any education or formal training in developmental psychology and trauma. You get bad advice.
Resilience, empathy and emotional self-regulation are learned in early in life. These are traits which are modeled by good enough parents. Good enough parents don’t abuse or exploit their children and facilitate the emergence of the child’s developing self. They do not interfere consciously or unconsciously in the healthy progression of their child’s psychological development. This allows the child to learn from loss, difficulty, disappointment and frustration. They develop empathy and resilience.
If a child is traumatized and emotionally dysregulated it will interfere with their ability to learn from their mistakes and losses. If the adults around them do not model healthy behavior then they have no template or example to draw from.
I notice that as my workplace becomes more accommodating to women, it becomes more like a primary school.
LOL and then when it becomes majority non-white it will start to become like a cotton plantation
Historically women weren't this coddled and if you've talked to much older women they'd be disgusted by this too. The issue is that we've had women in arrested development defining what "being feminine" is for far too long, we're not allowed to teach daughters hardship. Just notice the discussions about female athletes being pushed since they were children while this is way more common with male athletes, nobody cares.
Correct. I am treated like a child in my workplace. Mandatory DEI workshops are insufferable.
The case of the failed women-only workplace experiment Erin described was particularly striking. The odd thing is that men-only workplaces, of which there have been thousands in the past, seem to have worked fine, as do many (not all) mixed workplaces like the one I work in.
Women now dominate public bureaucracies, and they have become more and more dominatrices. Corrupt with the lust for petty power.
They're spoiled
When you get what you want all the time, and are allowed to blame all your failures on someone else or society, there's no need to grow up. You can be a child forever
how you think they do better at school , a obviously non efficient system if you assume its about meritocracy
Puer Aeternus
Starts with the spoiling fathers...
but remember, your a child and immature but the moment something financially serious comes up or you're physically in danger, all of a sudden, a woman will need a man.
@@mixerD1-Or absent
Because they've been spoiled since birth. It's a problem of the current culture, because it's become so much worse in the last few decades.
Their dads spoil them. Men have helped create the very problem that they suffer from today.
Saying this for many years...it
starts with spoiling fathers,
and I sadly, in hindsight,
include myself in this.
@@mixerD1- Yeah. I chased women in my 20's. Looking back I prolly helped contribute to their narcissism. I wish someone had told me back them not to chase. I would ask for advice back then and people would tell me that I had to be "persistent". It was all just for women's benefit. I'm 46 now and still single.
Move to or visit a country that has feminine, traditional women; problem solved.
Not helped by radical feminism and a corrupt government that wanted to exploit women for their twisted agendas.
The title alone is fascinating considering vvomen love to parrot that "vvomen mature faster than men" never realizing that it's only physically, not mentally.
Depends. I think women mature faster during puberty and adolescence, yet some remain stuck in that state of mind as there is a large sub group that winds up somewhat pampered. For men early adulthood tends to be rough so they mature quickly due to life experience.
I think the reason they are considered to be more mature is that there's tons of older boys and young men paying them attention and they are elevated socially without having to do anything for it. Also woman are more agreeable, so seem to be fitting in better, whereas boys have a tendency to disagreeableness that female-dominated education doesn't know what to do with
I think woman do actually mature faster in the early stages of life up to 18 y.o, then man start to mature faster while most women get stuck on that phase for almost 10 years.
By the age of 25 man have suffered a lot more and realised that nobody will come to save you if you don't do it yourself while most women still think a prince charming will come and save them.
By the age of 30 the different in maturity of man vs women is at the highest point, at this stage if a woman has not achieved anything in life she will blame everybody else for her problems (man, the state, God, etc) and if she achieved some goals she will accept her reality and be happy with what life is.
Edit: This comment was made before watching the video.
@@CapibaraWinter i just replied to his comment and then i saw your comment, we basically think the same thing about maturity and i think its because its evident, what i wonder is why women still think they are more mature than man by the age of 30 when it's clearly not the case.
@@mesv3567 Because of a fixed mindset that was validated by male attention. The worst of male culture built the very thing that we destroy once women hit the wall... It's almost a set up that men with daughters always make a point of not letting happen to their children.
Great topic. Wounded women raise wounded children, Males particularly are vunerable with their extra aggressive characteristic. The "need to bond to survive" causes the infant to sculpt himself to what she has left available - often very little - with life long adverse personality effects. Every toxic male has one thing in common - a mother. Healthy mature mothers bring up healthy respectful males. If society wants fewer toxic males, healthy mothers play probably a big part.
This is so right. I don't know if you came across this by yourself or read it but it is a phenomenon I have seen manifest itself several times in the real world. I truly think males suffer the most from a single parent family scenario and this is backed up statistically.
Paternal authority raises children out of narcissistic infantility.
@@jrddoubleu514bingo. not “mature moms” paternal authority and responsibility
@@truthtelleranon Undermine/remove it, and narcissism is permitted to run rampant.
Not probably. 100%
Almost every violent criminal has one thing in common, a single mother home.
I think the prolonged adolescence thing is something both sexes can be readily susceptible to, the key difference though is that this behavior is ridiculed and criticized in men but excused and denied in women. The result is what we see on social media.
There's also the fact a good portion of the criticisms toward men is enforcement of the male gender role. We have a culture that fights hard against female gender roles, so women have the availability to not live as women once did. If men try the same, it's called immaturity. He's called a man-child
" *this behavior ... excused and denied in women.* "
Not just excused and denied, it is *praised and admired* . Women are routinely called "stunning and brave" for exhibiting cr@ppy behavior.
I don't agree with this. "Brat" is facilitated by The Pill, which has permanently arrested motherhood. There's no equivalent for men.
If men acted like most modern women there would be no society.
Exactly
The ancient Greeks knew this and articulated it clearly. Women were considered 'forever children ' and thus were not allowed to make major decisions for society. Sad but true.
Hence the reason Western societies now feel like they are being governed by very petulant six year old girls.
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Yes and now this forever children are ceos and presidents of nations, no wonder the world is going to shit
Majority of them don't live for virtue but for vice.
“The oath of a women is inscribed on water” -Sophocles (400 BC)
The culture that encourages it's women to be nurturing, is going to win.
or rather, nurturing women will foster the culture that will win
@@Guillhez
No...fathers excessively spoiling their daughters is exactly what
causes this immaturity.
Not technically. The culture that leads women to be mothers (by any means) will win. Right now that's... the Taliban.. with their 4.6+ birthrate.
False. Most of the immature women are from single mother households. Or homes where dad isn't mentally or emotionally present.@@mixerD1-
@@Guillhezthe current culture coddles women so much that they stayed infantile and are currently wrecking society here in the west. So you are 100% wrong
A lot of the immature traits Erin describes are related to neuroticism, and some, like manipulating others and the inability to take criticism, start to look like narcissism. However, recent changes in society, particularly the celebration of individuality above other qualities, and the rise of a popular psychology that medicalises everything, reinforce immature behaviours in our race to embrace diversity. Moreover, the rise of social media, with its relentless focus on appearances above thoughtfulness and other desirable traits, makes it attractive for some women to want to live in perpetual maidenhood - and of course for some men to want to live in perpetual boyhood, chasing the perpetual maidens.
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Sigmund Freud life’s work was about this stuff which is why feminists hated him.
Well-spoken and thoughtful comment.
@@Scotty_Bo0mNah, we hated him because he did cocaine and ruined a good Greek tragedy.
@@Scotty_Bo0m I find that Freud is incomplete without Jung to expand the work - Modern Man in Search of a Soul is what feminists should really hate, but they generally can't understand the implications of the book.
If you've ever worked with them.. you know that they really don't grow up. Sadly, companies are hell bent on getting them into management!
If males are so grown and deserve positions of leadership, why is the world in shambles?
It won't be surprising if companies lose money, credibility, and their businesses due to hiring radical activists.
Especially if their 'connections' decide to abandon them out if convenience.
Because women are compliant and lack critical thinking. They carry out their orders without question.
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Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.
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Woman mature faster in their teens but end up stuck mentally in their teens making them immature for years until man lose interest and now they have to face reality. Unless she keeps being attractive and ends up being a 30+ old lady that acts like a literal brat and no man wants to marry a brat.
@@Poncholives Thats true
Maturity requires personal accountability, struggle, and humility. In a gynocentroc environment when chivalric practices shield women from risk, consequences, and reality, you'll find an over-representation of toxic personality traits the further you travel down the "victim" latter: entitlement, scapegoating, deception, etc.
I recommend Karen Straughan's TH-cam videos on neotony and hypoagency.
Phrases like "boys will be boys" exist implying that males won't be held accountable for anything well because, boys will never stop being boys🤪 but yea totally let's blame women
Plus the more current KS of Happy Wife School
Karen Straughan.. oh great another old woman telling young women what to do.💀
@@Iquey She doesn't tell anyone to do anything. She gives extremely sober takes on our culture collapsing under the weight of its gynocentrism. What young women do is on them, but we won't be lied to or scapegoated.
@@Iquey she's right
More so than any
you blindly follow
... Are you age-shaming
a woman?
Wake up babe, new Erin Byrd video just dropped
#goals
A women told me that a woman is by default at war with herself. A man cannot fix that. It is best to just leave women totally alone. Women used to teach their daughters how to love their husbands. The love I am talking about is a VERB. A man loves as a noun and a verb by creation. A woman cannot love at all as a noun. A woman lives honestly like a ten year old no matter what age she becomes. She lives by this: "A woman has the RIGHT to change her mind, about anything, at any time, for any reason, as many times as she wants to."
The best way to keep a prisoner from escaping is to make sure he never knows he's in prison.
Who is lying to this kid? 😂 Are you ok? This comment let's me know you've never interacted with women before 😂
@@checkmattee222 So you are a woman.
@@checkmattee222 Women are lying and teaching this kid.
If you are someone who doesn't change your mind about anything, THAT makes you a mental ten year old. This is why I don't come to this part of TH-cam.. because you guys are full of absolutist takes that don't make logical sense in the outside world.
@@Iquey You don't even know what part of youtube your reading a book from? That is female for sure.
Women should not (generally) be leaders. However, women are often an endless and invaluable source of wisdom.
Also, the infantilism of modern society applies to both sexes. Those who wish to rule us - Big Government and Big Business - encourage this.
LOL. Women are an endless source of wisdom? I've never gained wisdom from a woman
LOL WHAT. thank you for showing us men must take back their power from woman
Disagree. Women only give advice that can, in turn, benefit themselves or women as a group. The sisterhood of solipsism is genetic and strong.
@@Savage_Thinker It's not about "taking back power". It's about asserting leadership. There's a (vast) difference. The word of God says it best. Too many sects abuse women because "the woman shall obey her husband". Then they stop reading. They choose to forget "husbands, love your wives as Christ loves the church". "The church means all Christians. How much did he love us? He got nailed to wood and died painfully. 🤷
at this moment in time these words are pure comedy. The level of denial is really something and speaks to the reasons why woman have destroyed our way of life in the west. Woman have taken complete advantage.
You did not describe a single thing that did not apply to my mother.
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Same...
My friend's mother
Brother i know exactly how you feel
No comment , my mum is still alive 😮😊
There's more one can say about this topic. These days, most women are rigid, cold, critical and dismissive, and confuse these qualities with being mature. There are many ways women avoid accountability and intimacy; immaturity and being an ice queen are two of them. There are many, many more.
Geez you described my mother & the mother of my child...
The Goat is back 🙌
this immaturity is why women cannot and should not control or manage the affairs of a community. They can be absolute fantastic assistants but having responsibilities on their shoulders is a huge mistake. Ive realised even my mother has these immature, bad decisions, not accountable etc. Raised me with as much extra effort as a gust of wind pushing a leaf.
But males are better at leading huh? And why is the world in literal shambles if males are so good at managing "the affairs of a community"?🤔
“A man’s purpose in life is to die with honor. A woman’s purpose in life is to stay alive.”
Romantic nonsense.
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This is very quickly becoming one of my favorite channels on this platform. Thank you for your thought- provoking insights, thoughts and perspectives. Definitely one of those videos that is worth rewatching and making notes on.
Good take on how humans evolved to deal with severe trauma that was all too common throughout the history of our species.
Also nice to hear the reference to Mouse Utopia. I hope Rudyard Lynch follows your channel. His Whatifalthist videos are very insightful.
I appreciate your willingness to challenge contentious subjects. I fear the reactions from the vast majority who clearly don't approach these things at an intellectual level.
A woman taking accountability...? Am I dreaming...
The extending of the maiden phase has a counterpart in men- it's called,"Peter pan syndrome."
Young men are riciculed and condemned for trying to extend adolescence because society depends on men.making the sacrifices of going to work and setting out on one's own. The economic engines of society won't work if young men won't work.
Women are often not expected to sacrifice their own hedonism and pleasure seeking,but are quick to blame young men for sitting around playing video games and not engaging society.
Society needs to incentivise maturity
Nope you are wrong. That’s projection & gaslighting.
Generally women call attractive men who won’t commit to them that name! See the trick?
There is no such thing as a Peter Pan men. Women on the other hand it’s the majority.
All I see when reading your comment, "Waah! me, me, me! Poor old me! Why am I the victim all the time!" 😭 🍼
@@checkmattee222 shows how deep of an intellectual you are.
I literally pointed out a systemic imbalance. This systemic problem will continue to exist,whether you mock it or not,and will continue to effect women who chase men based on percieved status,while giving excessive selection to a small number of "eligible" men,who get to continue to play Peter pan........
Your real name isn't Wendy, is it????
Society needs to incentivize maturity IN WOMEN, but good luck in this gynocentric western society. This is the main thing. We, men, mature faster than women due to what you said before.
So you are too blind and stupid to understand what the person above typed out. You seem the type, based on your comment, to say it's not that deep.@@checkmattee222
I remember when I was really young, like 6 or 7, whatever, my mom would take me over to all her friends houses, this was early 90s. Something I noticed that always struck me was grown adult women, sometimes in their 50s, whose homes are completely filled with dolls, toys, stuffed animals, um cute miniatures, frogs, ballerinas, ponies, dogs, beanie babies, it was always something "cute". I always wondered about this and the driving force behind it, is it like a genetic thing with women? Something to do with children? Who knows.
Grown males have toy cars, toy robots, superhero toys, gamer toys, legos they keep in their houses too
@@checkmattee222 In both cases I'd say it's a possible indicator of someone not wanting to grow up.
Actually a good sign that you’re insecure/immature is caring about whether or not other people approve of your hobbies! Jesus people want to act like all they need to know is 1 thing about someone or their interests and from there you can just extrapolate everything about them. Not every single thing is some big significant indicator of somebodies deep psyche it’s just an easy way to view the world that appeals to people lazy brains. If I chop wood I’m a man and therefore mature! If somebody likes Star Wars they are a child! I get that you said “possible” indicator but it’s literally the same logic people use to go “oh he looked suspicious/like a criminal!”. 90% of assumptions made like this are going to be wrong.
This is just my experience as a woman who does this, but it’s because it connects me with the child part of me that was loved by my parents. They loved and cherished me for just being who I was, never expecting anything from me in return. As an adult, everything always works as an exchange. The little cute things are a reminder that I was and still am worthy of love and it gives me strength to be loving even when I receive nothing in return.
@@checkmattee222 more 'ironically' though
The wounded maiden archetype perfectly describes not onpy my own ex, but many of my friends ex's as well. This video also explains why when I analysis my last relationship, recurring thoughts that I've had are that she needed to "grow up" or "act like an adult."
Why do you have so many exes?
@@checkmattee222how many of his friends do you think he is?
Admitting to yourself that you were wrong at some point, or even that you were "stupid", is a good sign of personal maturity and growth. I don't hear that very often from people. But it's tough to admit to ourselves that we've been that way at times.
@@jimmyboy131 I think it's a process. In the beginning, we don't like to admit that we're stupid, but getting over that hurdle helps you psychologically and emotionally. IMO
@@erinbyrd5377 Yep true. And I think what we're talking about, how it's better after you've cleared that hurdle, is that it builds confidence that, yeah I'm an idiot sometimes, but
1) I'm not an idiot all the time, sometimes I do things right, and
2) Even if I screw up, I'll get through this. It's not the end of the world. I can do this.
Which itself, that confidence, makes all the difference going forward.
When I got out of the navy in 1981 teaching jobs were scarce so I foolishly accepted a post at a parochial school run by a bunch of dingbat nuns. I lasted nearly two years but finally quit without giving notice when the principal burst into my room one day and started shrieking at me in front of my entire class, and a poorly behaved class full of spoiled brats at that.
This is spot on, Erin. The ideology of feminism has created generations of immature women who are not progressing through the proper stages of life. They devalue motherhood. We have perpetual maidens and no wise women. Motherhood is absolutely critical to the development of women and maintaining a free society. Mothers keep our homes and traditions in tact. We also need our masculine warriors and fathers to innovate and keep society strong.
nothing to do with all the not whites druging, grooming and raping white kids
Melvin Udall played by Jack Nicholson in AS GOOD AS IT GETS
“Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.”
Funily i have observed that becoming a mother doesnt really make women grow up from maiden mentality
Yeah. My ex girlfriend had two kids and she still acted like a 12 year old especially when she hung out with other girls.
@@roderickcortez138 it is more like their morality makes them do this.
As a man I’m just gonna go my own way 😂😂😂😂😂
Culture is a key player. In Australia we take in a high degree of well educated Indian immigrants. Most of my colleagues are Indian women, married with children, and are much more tolerable than white uni students and the tiktok archetypes.
that’s because indian men and women reinforce gender roles. women are pressured insanely hard to be a wife and mother. they are coerced and controlled in that culture. that’s the only way fee males thrive
I am a migrant to Australia from Malaysia. In skilled migration, only qualified candidates make it through. This means immature people with little accomplishment can't pass the migration gauntlet. This automatically gives skilled migrants an advantage. This is the key reason some cultures make it easier to migrate. Indians and Chinese education pushes students to mature themselves or they lose in education.
Too many Women giving sex away for nothing, and denying it to the men who actually do love them.
@@melkerner they're holding out on knowing most guys hoping for Chad
Yet another insightful, well-articulated commentary. Thank you!
Hey! She's back! (with a vengeance!)
I would LOVE to site and listen to a 40 min video on why women are immature, unfortunately life showed me the hard way!
Its simply better to pay and be done with it!!!
Once again, Thank you for a great presentation, Erin! This was very well thought-out and researched. It is very painful to hear for many, I'm sure, but spot-on-target. I found I breathed a sigh of relief at the end of the video, grateful that this comes from a mature woman who knows human nature. it's great to see you on here again. Keep up the fantastic work!
We feel blessed that our 21 year-son just got married to a 20 year-old woman. We will miss him, but know that this is what is meant to be and it is good.
Good for him ,i wish you guys the best!
Absolutely beautiful video. I love this so much. As someone who can not and will never have my own children, physically aging has always felt pointless. Why do I deserve to age when I can't be a mother? But even if I can't be a mother, mentally maturing is crucial for the health of not only myself, but the people in my life, and society. Thank you.
Women vote for liberal Democrats because their decisions are based on feelings. Men vote for conservative Republicans because their decisions are based on logic.
and there is always something kind of disgusting and repellent about 'Democrat guys'. . .
Hi Erin good essay! The answer to your query is simple,“feminism” has declared that any attempt to hold women to any standards is misogyny, when we used to hold women to a reasonable standard they behaved quite admirably and were considered the better sex but, when you declare any correction to be “hatred of Women”, you get the phenomena you so eloquently described. Thanks
Define feminism
@@checkmattee222a strategy of destroying a people.
@@checkmattee222 Feminism, at its worst, is the claim, in the name of equality, that men and women are the same (other than reproductive abilities) and that, therefore, both genders should have identical roles in society, and if they don’t , it’s proof we live in an oppressive patriarchy. That is a clear denial of gender reality. Men are generally bigger, stronger, designed for heavy labor, while women are smaller, weaker, and more delicate for nurturing, so it’s nature that created the division of labor.
At this point, feminism is going to treated as sexism due to women treating men like trash nonstop.
More intense emotions. Lack of pre-frontal cortex and rationality. Larger emotional sectors of the brain. Start at the biology before talking about culture. Biology creates human culture.
Couldn't agree more. I'm so sick of hearing about society creating this and that. I think vast majority of it is biology.
exactly. and you know how this is irrefutable? just like at how young boys and girls behave before they are “socialized” to behave a specific way. it’s *pure biology*
@@truthtelleranon My brother never pushed his kids to play with gender specific toys. And guess what? At just two years old his son naturally gravitated toward toy trucks and play tools while is daughter who was three years old gravitated towards stuffed animals and things with glitter. It's all biology.
@@roderickcortez138 100% man. We have to stop being in denial about this
Interesting exploration, Erin.
Thank you for sharing this with us. ❤
Thank you erin! You just answered so many questions i had.your content is so appreciated
Boy... the tittle of the video. Right to the jugular.
Women of most ages and backgrounds these days are extremely immature. I remember back in the late 2000s to early 2010s one of the phrases you would always hear in real life and in media were "you can't hit a girl!" Or "She can't do anything wrong because she's a girl" along with Women displaying violence towards Men in media where it would be portrayed as a form of comedy. The lack of accountability in this sense is what has partially lead to what we are seeing today. Overly masculine and competitive modern Women that again refuse to take accountability because most grew up in a society that was fueled by encouragement from media to "let her get away with it because she's a Woman" and cheer on when a Woman does something violent that threatens the safety of a Man and/or another Woman. In conclusion, media is one of the things responsible for modern day influences, societal psychological damage, and stereotypes that have created division and recklessness. Don't even get me started with the reduction of food quality, which I believe has an impact on hormones and one's mental state.
Dude, it's simpler than this. They are Adult Children.
@@EriPages I agree
@@erinbyrd5377 Interesting. Do you also support rescinding The Vote from women? Maybe don't answer this question at this time, as it can be used against you.
I believe The Vote should be restricted to 25+ Year Old citizens who PROVE they've been Net-Tax Payers in the preceding FIVE YEARS leading to the year that they elect to Vote in.
This would eliminate the misogyny angle, and it would eliminate nearly ALL the irresponsible people of the society from Voting nation-wide.
@@EriPages how about age 40 or never. if women not content at 40 or any age will be for destruction.
@@MARK-cb9iq Read the fullness of my above comment
I cover both genders so that it can be legally passed by the people
@@EriPages
Voting doesn't benefit men anymore
than it benefits women.
It's just there to give both
the impression
they're involved in
national economic policy.
She mentioned this in a
previous video a few months
ago.
"after 14yrs old, women become the most responsible child and stay there till they die."
I stumbled upon this video and absolutely LOVED it. You are very good with words. As a woman who got married “early” (at 22) and had a child “early” (at 24), I always struggled with the image of 20-year-olds (females AND males) being fun, outgoing, youthful, and… promiscuous. I felt so inadequate to find love and build a family so “early.” Again, I take this word in quotation marks because this would not be considered early in the generation of my grandmother (who was also highly educated, worked as a doctor, yet created a family with a child by 25). Most of my female friends were going from dates to dates, while I was breastfeeding my first child… it felt so lonely. As if I was somehow a divination.
You were mogging the hell out of them!
Been binging alot of your videos these past days and they are amazing. Alot of intellectuall and thought provoking topics that are not talked about to this detail. Do your thang girl, keep em coming 👏
Because guys make things to easy for them, its OUR fault
Erin, thank you for the truth! The world must know. Many men on YT are talking about those issues, but women often won't listen to men.
Also let me say that you're beautiful and gorgeous, but also very smart and humble. I would immediately propose to woman with those traits if she is not married nor in relationships.
God said it best
to Adam and Eve
as they began life
booted out of Eden
... "I will greatly multiply
thy sorrow and thy
conception. Thy desire
shall be to thy husband
and he shall rule
over thee"
Understanding this
is key to female
maturity and family
success/wisdom
Say it with me, "responsibility is women's-..."
Ironic seeing as kryptonite is a comic book reverse macguffin. It’s not a sign of immaturity but a sign of changing culture and its knowledge.
Kryptonite
Phrases like "boys will be boys" exist implying that males won't be held accountable for anything because, he's just a boy being a boy doing boy things 🤪.. but no let's totally blame the women
I worked for a college briefly and was surprised by the amount of infantilizing purported by the staff.
I was at a party recently and we played a game with question cards, the question, when is the best age to get married came up. To my surprise the women agreed that 30 was a good age to get married. None of which were married or had kids. They were all around 30 of age and it I found it very odd that the optimal age to get married according to them just so happened to the age bracket they were in.. Almost af if they lied to themselves to avoid feeling behind the curve in life.
It's crazy to see this standard applied to men without relent is now starting to finally, FINALLY, be applied to women.
Good luck. Accountability is their Achilles heel
Fantastic summarization of current events with so many (not all, but most) women in leadership roles.
Predictably contentious and/or disastrous results. Yet, most often, inconsequential accountability comes back to that women’s career moving forward.
Absolute insanity 🤡
Because no matter whether they’re right or wrong they always think their the victim. Look at the Tennessee cop who got hit by a train from the police force
Thank you, yet another wonderful and well made video. Bless you!
I'm so glad I subscribed to this channel!
DAMN! SHE COOKIN! LET'S THIS LADY COOK!
PUT SOME SEASONIN' ON IT!
Both genders can be immature.
Yes, but men are urged to man-up while women are mostly treated like princesses, which doesn’t help
@@ulrichleukam1068 so you're je alous of women getting princess treatment cause it should've been you? 😂
@@checkmattee222this was a typical immature female comment.
women are biologically, hormonally, physiologically built to be bratty and child like.
I work at a local mickeyd’s as a 2nd “fun-time” income job(pays for the fun things) I’m a service worker and the vibe aggressiveness between the women is off-putting. I’ll be bagging up an order and observe their faces and they have the MEANNNESST faces and are cackling about each other when another messes up. Not that I think it’s sad but tragic!
This video has made so much sense in regards to describing my family dynamics. Thank you!
Hormonal changes from birthing, and birth control drugs, pollutants, may have major roles here. Both individually and on society.
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@@sasuke36571 Sasuke, how's your brother?
I would like to hear your thoughts about a certain sort of interpretation of "Sleeping Beauty" that harmonises with what you have discussed here.
The princess's life can, much like an insect's be divided into three stages: larva (childhood, from the baptism to the spinning wheel incident), pupa (maidenhood, spinning wheel incident to meeting the prince), imago/adult, mother archetype, starting from her awakening)
Her parents arrange a baptism celebration and invite the things they desire for their daughter. All nice things, wealth, prosperity, health, happiness; but the party has an uninvited guest, repressenting strife. The evil fairy does not really curse the child, she actually warns the king and queen: "you did not invite strife into your child's life, and that is understandable, but here I am regardless, you cannot keep her safe from strife, eventually it will show up no matter what you do. If you shelter your daughter too much she will end up so mentally weak that a insignificant event, the sort of injury that women sustain on a daily basis without complaint (getting her finger pricked on the needle of a spinning wheel, a device used by women of all walks of life) will completely wipe her out.
The king and queen should have laughed it off: the princess will skin her knees when she trips while running around the palace courtyard at age 5, she will go playing in the woods and break her arm falling from a tree by age 10, no little pinprick will phase her by age 16.
But they don't.
The larval childhood stage for the princess is characterised by being helicopter parented.
Of course strife eventually finds her... we can mention that getting "pricked" by a "needle" may well be a sort of sexual euphemism... either way, something that happens to all maidens comes as such a shock to her that her transition into the pupal maiden life stage is completely traumatic.
She becomes a recluse, hiding away in her room, for all intents and purposes socially dead. She isolates herself behind a thorny briar and hides away from the world/reality, let us assume that she is dreaming of her lost childhood, she wishes to revert to being a larva as she is changing into an adult, something she is seemingly blind to
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The fairy, the sort of wild threat that is in truth a trickster, a inconvenience, the sort of thing a well behaved christian peasant can deal with turns into a dragon (Disney version), the sort of monster only divinely ordained royalty can subjugate, a dragon sized problem has been made of a fairy sized one.
Of course a patient man comes along, he does not give up on her and works his way through the briar and works hard to subjugate the dragon, and steadilly draws her out of her isolation, out of her psychic death. She emerges into a matured state that can proceed into the adult/motherhood stage of life (imago/adult in our insect metamorphosis analogy).
Now perhaps there are other paths whereby the princess can grow up than the intervention of a man, but that's not what we find in the story (unless the prince repressents some masculine aspect within the princess' own psyche, rather than someone outside of the princess).
Another matter:
It seems to me that the wounded maiden types often engage in make believe play of advancing to motherhood... they become dog-moms and cat-moms.
Good Video, I have 2 Adult Daughters 24 & 25. I've had a Hell of a Run trying to get them to understand that it's time for them to be more responsible for themselves.
At least there seems to me to be more information about this, now. Thank you
"Why are women so immature?" Follow the money... if it pays to be immature then people will stay as immature as possible.
Nah, it's the fact that women are born with value and once they hit the peak of attention between 15 and 25 year old they don't have to work on themselves, they made it.
@@ndhtyu using the word "value" to describe a human life isn't right. Humans are not pieces of flesh being sold at a market so there's no "value" here. A word like that is used only when selling or buying merchandise from a market. It is degrading to use that word to describe a fellow human being with a mind and soul just like yours.
I'm glad that someone is willing to show me what's going on over the other side of the gender aisle.
Overall, thanks for helping reinforce the belief that I should ensure that I should be as pure as my future wife.
no one can grow up in a world where no one can afford to start a family.
ur so real for this
So many good points. I agree with "adults who act like children are easy to control".
No wonder why companies today focus on 'youthfulness' 'and everyone is young at heart and mind" and spread this message to all age groups so as to make money.
Great points and very useful! Thanks @Erin! Your content is great.
You know,sometimes I wonder if these anti-feminist women actually practice what they preach or they have found their niche to make money from.
This is a great topic and an answer to societys issues on dating, selfishness, accountability, divorce, parenthood, beauty standards, usefulness, and so much more. If you f---ed up as a parent with your daughter or son, the LEAST you can do is show em this video. It gives so much insight into one half of society.
Thank you for your videos! ❤ I've been learning about the concept of four phases of the woman's hero's journey... aligning with the four seasons and four phases of our menstrual cycle.
1. Maiden (Spring)
2. Mother (Summer)
3. Matriarch (Fall) - She's raised her family and starts to put her focus more on her community, putting into practice her advanced experience and knowledge
4. Crone or Wise Woman (Winter) - the elder who offers wisdom to her family and community. She takes less of a leadership role than you might see in the Matriarch
and this is what has ruined the education system, and hence the past 2 generations
Women these days be like: Oh you have an Android?! You are not my type.
If you actually left the basement and interacted with actual human women outside you would realize none of that online bs is true
@@checkmattee222 wow I love Reddit too!
Grow up everyone, stop spoiling your adult offspring. 😊
Was just listening to Carl Jung talk about the puer aeternus and puella aeterna. Vid came just in time for me to consolidate these ideas!
I do feel a lot of this can be said of men as well. I always say: "The Masculinity and Femininity are not opposites, they are compliments to each other, thus they share an opposite and that's Immaturity."
That was beautiful, thank you very much!
Very thoughtful presentation. Really good work.
"We're not immature!!!"
"You are!!!"
(Sticks fingers in ears)
"NaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNa"
Thank you very much for your videos. I appreciate your views on these topics.
Maturity comes from responsibility and responsibility grants control and since many women don't want to take on responsibility and are overwhelmed by control they justify delegating that responsibility to others, primarily men. After a while they grow bitter and resentful towards those who dare and gain prestige and gravitas through risk and toil. Women don't do risk so they don't gain and acquire like men causing women to stay more mentally infantile and envious due to their own choices and in the long run it makes them more bitter and childish causing them to be constantly demanding and complaining like children as they later deem everything to be unfair. And when children whine later on they are often undeservingly so given what they want by the capable in order to make them stop signaling distress and give men peace of mind.
Only one doing all that you just describe here is you buddy
I agree that promiscuity and excessive sexual behavior with multiple partners has a harming effect. To have a one-night stand is not a badge of honor, rather a stain on your moral conscience. It is a denial of the sacred while imbibing carelessly in the profane.
Overall I found this video fascinating. I was reminded of Robert A. Johnson books I read in my twenties, discussing the wounded feminine and masculine.
Glad, that channel was recommended. Good job algorithm. Interessting topic. Happy for another video, good luck, greetings from vienna
when you were talking about the damaged maiden, it sounded like you were psycho-analysing my sister LMAO
also the same for my mother when you were talking about the crone
It is always a pleasure to listen to you speak and read. Thank you and keep up the great work. Looking forward to the next time.
“How do you write women so well” Nicholson responds, “I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability”.
This was really healing to listen to, Erin. Thank you.
I keep saying that there's a little girl inside of every woman. The little girl becomes a woman, but she's still there.
My mother was in her 70's and said she still felt like a little girl inside. A mother is nurturing and protecting. She loves and disciplines a child. She might be talking to you, scream at one of her children, then go back to talking to you as though nothing happened.
This is why i'm only attracted to mature older women, despite what the manosphere says, I think maturity is the greatest gift a woman can give a man after her purity. Being in a relationship with a mature older woman is one of the single most fulfilling things i have experienced. It feels so right in every way, it's like what a relationship or marriage ought to be like.
Erin…your content is extremely good. Please keep working on your channel. It’s gonna grow
The absolute shade of "it should be noted that this woman is 32 yrs old"
Thank you for presenting this perspective. In case you are interested, the Buddha also had a perspective on the kind of behaviour you refer to as immature, whether pursued by women or men. In his early teachings on the Middle Way, he described it as a path that inevitably leads to suffering, even though it appears to be pleasure-seeking. I suspect that young hedonists are more likely to listen to your way of putting it though...! Good luck with your work.