I did that for a month, it was my friend but I'm still scared she d come back, I'm scared as hell , I'm scared to go out I'm like what if I meet her !? What do you advice please?
Stay no contact if you had a glimpse of hell why go back I know we got addicted to the love bombing we were tricked we were sleeping with the enemy just keep your head up and keep praying
What if they restrict their number and call and leave a voicemail saying they want money u owe them and like demanding it back saying either his mom is gunna stop for it or he will? When he was discarding me he said he wasn't worried about the 40 he gave me for gas and to keep it and he didn't wanna see me.. some time after he told me I was so nasty and to go f this one or that one and I was like why are u being mean, I waited 4 days for a response back then said fk this and blocked him, it was 27 days of no contact before he started trying to call and leaving voicemails about this money.. do I owe him it? My car is the one that took us everywhere or went to see him since he didn't have one. We both have put gas in it before and bought food drinks and other items so I'm confused thinking technically I shouldn't owe him..? He also makes more than me way way more ,he also offered this 40 for gas and gave me it. I didn't ask for it. Years ago he never paid back 100 something that he borrowed and I never brought it up again or ever said he owed me.. help!!
I have learned from previous abuse that if a man speaks unkindly to me once, and especially if he devalued me in any way, to start emotionally packing my bags and detaching from him.
My narcissist said things to me that I never thought it would come out of his mouth but I have since moved on and life is happier. Stay strong and move on.
No Contact, and know they are dead men walking,. Who have no love, no peace, no rest = Delusional, they Torment their own self. Take non of it, for everything they judge you, they will be judge. And for their every lie. Their doomed. God said The Wrath is mine. Start the healing. You are beautiful. God Loves you ❣️
When I once confronted my narc ex friend about her behavior, she tried to shift the blame back to me, saying “sometimes when I’m pushed...” because of course nothing is ever her fault. Another typical narc response. No contact is the only way to go.
Blocked blocked blocked their whole existence and everything and everyone thats have to do with them. block the puppet master/fake wizard love that one. My greatest healing is letting go and stop beein angry for what the covert narc has done to me so i could be free
Glad I found this video! Thank you! 🙏🏻I've been no contact for 3 months after finally blocking her. I was having a weak day, thinking about her. But this has re-strengthened my resolve. 100% accurate!
When I went no contact with a narcissist my smartphone flooded with missed calls and messages and he was even trying to get a hold of me at work. I had to get security at work involved and get a restraining order against him. Within two months he finally stopped trying to contacting me and it was a huge weight off my shoulders. I didn't realize how burnt out I was when he was finally out of my life.
Know your love language, as if your love language and their way of intermittent remission style coincide, then you will be fooled by them! No matter how ruthless you seem, you need to protect yourself from them, emotionally and physically. It's like your love language becomes the hole of your boundaries! Thanks for sharing. ✴️💛 Edit: Now I understand why I had such high cortisol level! Staying no contact is the key to living psychologically stable life. Block them anyway. Exit the narcissist sphere of influence.
Also need to protect yourself spiritually, they're so toxic and dark you get dragged down into hell. The stress is unreal. Dump and go no contact saved my sanity. It's like having had a relationship with a parasite - super strong bug spray needed to eradicate it.
Trauma bonding is so difficult to break you have to fight with discipline and faith to over come this monster it will eventually go but it takes a lot of discipline and courage to heal it's like in a long illness and you have to be in and out of a hospital, thanks be to God, I tried hard with prayers, fasting, exercise, and work , it's like being hook on cocaine, wow..., Sorry for the new supply 😢.
Very helpful! I also liked the GPS analogy. A year later the trauma bond tempts me to reach out to the narcissist. I have to remember the bond isn't a part of me and it only exists because of the emotional manipulation
I am so fortunate to have escaped a 3yr tour with the "textbook" Narcissist, The Professor! I knew enough about the evil before engaging with this "monster" to put the pieces together and called her out early on, I became her Narcissist knowing I would be gone soon and now a month out and absolute zero contact I moved out on the day she was due home from visiting family in Phoenix Life is good
Sometimes I think I im over these things but then I listen to a video that taps in my past abusive story. The pain is fresh but not as it was in the past. I guess I should be thankful that I can revisit my old perspective with awareness and grace. In the past I couldn't do it (too painful). However,The awareness of the present me is difference from the past cuz there are things I would not allow today. So guys we must remember how our mind or old paradign has to be forgiven when wonder into the past stories. Triggers will come from nowhere and we should not stay stangnet in them too long. Think of a parent walkin behind a child. They don't want to hold their hand to encourage as positive independence in the child. The parent is aware they are not holding their child's hand but they are far enough so that if the child stumbles unknowingly into danger the parent can grab and protect them when needed. We must do and be that for ourselves now.... I feel so much better now. Lol.
I'm still being pushed by social services to have a relationship with me ex narc otherwise "I'm being unfair and neglectful to my child because my child should see his parents communicating". It a disgrace. It really makes me so sad deep in my bones. I've had to fight for so long to not have to see him at contact hand over. Now I don't ( for the moment) but this is what social are saying now. I feel so sick from it. It makes me dout myself all the time.
Social services should understand how toxic that would be for kids! I'm so sorry. Your post was two months ago, has it gotten better? Do NOT doubt yourself, you're doing the right thing by shielding your kids.
Tell Social you'll be happy to do it...so long as THEY provide a supervisory 3rd party! Otherwise, tell Social to get well versed in Narcissism 101! Seriously, hope it worked out for you.
When you do have to contact him use gray Rock method, show NO EMOTION NOTHING, keep ANY conversation literally about your child and with as little words as possible, this works.
My ex just tried to hoover after over 6 years no contact! I had blocked all our mutual friends, but they used their current partner's profile. They "need my help" and it's "time sensitive"... but I noticed they didn't use any of the things that normally get us what we want - courtesy, manners, and a direct request. 🙄 Still the same old crap, 13 years post breakup. 😂😂😂
Its dreadful thing to experience because it aims to erase who you are as a person for the sole purpose of making you compliant to the abuser. Wishing you total healing, Jason x M
Your videos are amazing! Please more. I went to see a psychic and she brought up my ex narcissist. She said, " I see a man who will be back in your life in 2 months. He's going through something right now. Is he married? Because he has someone who has their claws in him but he doesn't want to be there. He's thinking about you and wants to make things right with you. You will marry this person in two years, he is the one. He struggles from past abuse, he's broken, but a good guy and he doesn't come from a good family." The prediction was scary. Ugh, this breaks my heart. I know he was severely abused and I feel horrible for him. I have a lot of empathy towards him and I need help letting go now. :(
@@Джабраилович Thank you. The only problem is that I don't know 100% that he is a narcissist. I know he displays a lot of the traits but what if he is just a broken soul and experienced severe trauma? The psychic told me he was working on himself. I made zero mention of my love life ..she just dove into it and she was accurate. She even said that it's been 8 months since we broke up...very true. I'm so torn
I'm so glad you the videos are helpful! Childhood abuse and personality disorders are no excuse for abusing people. It is wrong. When you're are dealing with some who is highly narcissistic, pity is misplaced. It's something a narcissist will weaponize and manipulate. The best response is to understand and accept the reality of what they are. If someone has abused you never, ever, ever go back x M
@@SusieN2011 What matters is whether or not you are experiencing abuse and if it is affecting your well being. I made a free relationship assessment tool for survivors called 'Are You In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship.' It can help you gain insight about the health of your relationship and self-reflect. You can download it for free here narcissisticabuserehab.wordpress.com/2019/10/04/free-e-book-are-you-in-an-abusive-relationship/
Absolutely loved this video! So it twice in a row! What absolutely knocked me in my head is how narcissistic abuse/abusors pull you back to trauma bonds. My husband used to tell me my hands are masterpieces, where my mom and other malignant narcissist told me my hands are too big... Whenever I get not so positive thoughts in this regard.... I know they are around... Bonding me in the trauma... These people are sick, so thanks for this video!
I went no contact for ten days. I was then contacted through email with a quote explanation. I fell for it and was a little afraid. Now I’m having self confidence issues and feel like I have been brainwashed. Yes it’s subtle like you loose yourself. I think I can just respond to with yes or no.
I have been no contact for a while and it has taken such a toll on my health that I may lose my job due to potential anurism that I feel coming in my head from the stress of no contact and possibly a mini stroke.. My blood pressure stays elevated because of this and I cant pass a physical with high blood pressure..and I dont do drugs.. No contact has destroyed the quality of my life big time! In my opinion of course
I was wondering if you could speak on how narcissistic men tend seek out other men with mental health issues. I have been on two relationships with men I suspect have some form of NPD and they both had issues with their actual fathers and family members, however sought men they formed a sort of brotherhood with and they seemed to feed off of and enhance each other’s mental health issues. In one of the relationships, the two men that formed a bond enforced each other’s very bad behavior and poor judgement which made me feel like I was truly losing my grasp on reality.
I went into an emotional tailspin and tried to deliberately hit a cow on a rural road at 100 mph. Caused over $2k in damages to my car. Huge wake up call. My narc didn't blink an eye and didn't want to help me while my car was out of commission. 🖕I wished him all the best he deserves and moved on!
Well in my case i had to eliminate all contact from my immediate family. This included my father, mother, both of my sister's and her two children. My young nephew is still inocent ( I will try connect with him) They are all blocked by phone , email facebook. They were also asked on several occasions to never contact my daughter or I will involve the authorities. My father has tried other apps to connect me. They have also tried to contact my daughter. What i do is that I unblock them.... send another text abt warning them then block them back again! I did the same with ending my narc relatiinship ( my last line of email was don't bother to respond ... You will be blocked after sending this message) Reasoning with my entire family or ex narc has never worked.So I give them no room to manipulate any form of toxicity. They are designed for Confusion. Remember if you give them a half an inch they will find a way to multiply that to infinity. I have learned this in the worst way but now I'm starting to enjoy my peace. You can do it ! Now you have to create you own happiness! You got it !
@@kcla3131 Beautifully said, You are me right now family an all.. I beg to differ, narcs DO get hurt when you discard first Especially! When they dont see it coming. I refuse ti give them ANY credict they dont deserve. Im they're worst night mare.I dont play with them sick, bastards i let them have it! ✊' 💃'.
Hey M! Did you take down your video on Duchess Megan? She is bored with her “royal” responsibilities. She is so jealous that she will never be the queen. She can’t stand it. It blows my mind that survivors of Narc abuse can’t spot her for who she is. Thanks for your great videos!
Hey Kevin! It's still up th-cam.com/video/xhMSZVaR_9U/w-d-xo.html A lot of reports are saying this grand finale has been in the works for a while. I think those who haven't drank the Kool Aid saw this one coming from a mile away x M.
No contact is blocking them on almost everything. Leave one way for them to still be able to message you. While you ignore them you should try to be a better you and distract yourself from that person. When that person does message you back be careful. Because that person could pretend to be nice, you start to get happy, and then the narcissist goes back to their regular routine.
it will never be 100% due to children (wife is covert), but 2 of adult children either moved or no contact; tries to hoover them back, and keep hooks in me. Graduations, new grandchild, marriages (where she was not invited), etc. Please discard me 100%. Please! (but she doesn't work, I'm just a paycheck, and a life-altering injury to me, "ruined HER life." smh
I will admit that i am guilty of sending out negative toxic energy the reason why this person that used to be my friend blocked me on instagram on may 11th 2019 last year because i said that i'm disappointed that she did not like my rose drawing art work i was depressed after she blocked me i try to comment on her youtube channel video letting her know that i apologize for my behavior after that happen she end up deleting my comment she does not accept my apologize if i did not pressure forcing her making a big deal taking it personal that she did not like my art work none of this wouldn't nothing happen we still would of been friends i really blew it i ruined our friendship with my ego it's all my fault just like they said if we don't got nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all that's why she block me to teach me a lesson i'm afraid that she will keep my blocked forever i really miss us being friends i wish she will unblock me soon so we can be friends again i know that nobody is perfect we all make mistakes
Feeding the trauma bond is what happened when my narc family reached out. My husband said I relapsed. Relapsed on trauma😮 I fed the trauma bond. It literally made me paranoid and scared for my life. I'm not kidding when I say the ringleader, Sharon wants to kill me. She bought a gun just for it. It's pink🩷 Posting this as evidence that it was premeditated😂 not jk
Things can seem dire after betrayal by a loved one. Among other things, recovery requires willingness, discipline, and consistency - all of which can be challenging. In the final analysis, as long as there is life, there is hope.
I think this is the most difficult problem that one faces especially if the other don't try to listen. If everything bad turn out to be you and only you the reason then it looks like there's nothing more to talk or discuss about. Sometimes feels like having a rope hung on your neck.. Just one more step to history. 🙏🕊️👍. Yes , try it you may succeed . why not. Remember God helps those who helps themselves but if you try and the other don't then it's pointless.
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No contact for over a year! Absolute peace and happiness finally after 10 years !!
I did that for a month, it was my friend but I'm still scared she d come back, I'm scared as hell , I'm scared to go out I'm like what if I meet her !? What do you advice please?
@@sofiabamhamed8507 just be yourself,,,focus on you and try not to let it bother you,,,you deserve better
No contact for me over a year as well. I should have left years ago i was in a 14-year relationship. Best choice ever.
@@christinecronk9234same
Stay no contact if you had a glimpse of hell why go back I know we got addicted to the love bombing we were tricked we were sleeping with the enemy just keep your head up and keep praying
Ms Sagittarius well said 🎯
Narcissistic Abuse Rehab ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you.
🤗 THANK YOU 🤗
yes im five weeks nc, he was evil
FREE AT LAST
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THANK GOD ALMIGHTY I'M
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Amen 🙏🏽 I've been saying singing these words 🔥
No contact FOREVER with a narc ex is the only way to go.
What if they restrict their number and call and leave a voicemail saying they want money u owe them and like demanding it back saying either his mom is gunna stop for it or he will? When he was discarding me he said he wasn't worried about the 40 he gave me for gas and to keep it and he didn't wanna see me.. some time after he told me I was so nasty and to go f this one or that one and I was like why are u being mean, I waited 4 days for a response back then said fk this and blocked him, it was 27 days of no contact before he started trying to call and leaving voicemails about this money.. do I owe him it? My car is the one that took us everywhere or went to see him since he didn't have one. We both have put gas in it before and bought food drinks and other items so I'm confused thinking technically I shouldn't owe him..? He also makes more than me way way more ,he also offered this 40 for gas and gave me it. I didn't ask for it. Years ago he never paid back 100 something that he borrowed and I never brought it up again or ever said he owed me.. help!!
🎯🎯🎯
Yes . I did pull it out. No more Facebook , Instagram. Changed my number. Burned bridges to his friends and family.
Bravo! May the bridges you burned light the way to your freedom x M
SAME. Once I knew what it was I was gone!!!!!
I have learned from previous abuse that if a man speaks unkindly to me once, and especially if he devalued me in any way, to start emotionally packing my bags and detaching from him.
Good for you 👊 Stay boundaried 🧱
My narcissist said things to me that I never thought it would come out of his mouth but I have since moved on and life is happier. Stay strong and move on.
6 months free !!! Can’t wait till
It’s eternity.
Yass! Congratulations 👏💐
Absolutely
No Contact, and know they are dead men walking,. Who have no love, no peace, no rest = Delusional, they Torment their own self. Take non of it, for everything they judge you, they will be judge. And for their every lie. Their doomed. God said The Wrath is mine. Start the healing. You are beautiful. God Loves you ❣️
Yes!!!!
2:30 this used to drive me CRAZY! It took a toll on me.
When I once confronted my narc ex friend about her behavior, she tried to shift the blame back to me, saying “sometimes when I’m pushed...” because of course nothing is ever her fault. Another typical narc response. No contact is the only way to go.
Blocked blocked blocked their whole existence and everything and everyone thats have to do with them. block the puppet master/fake wizard love that one.
My greatest healing is letting go and stop beein angry for what the covert narc has done to me so i could be free
Intermittent reinforcement .. thank you for that information .. it is helping me understand the abuse I endured
Glad I found this video! Thank you! 🙏🏻I've been no contact for 3 months after finally blocking her. I was having a weak day, thinking about her. But this has re-strengthened my resolve. 100% accurate!
Stay strong ☀️
Heck, he discarded me. Of course I'm doing no contact!!
He didn't discard you!
He set you "FREE!" Think of it that way!!
When I went no contact with a narcissist my smartphone flooded with missed calls and messages and he was even trying to get a hold of me at work. I had to get security at work involved and get a restraining order against him. Within two months he finally stopped trying to contacting me and it was a huge weight off my shoulders. I didn't realize how burnt out I was when he was finally out of my life.
Know your love language, as if your love language and their way of intermittent remission style coincide, then you will be fooled by them!
No matter how ruthless you seem, you need to protect yourself from them, emotionally and physically.
It's like your love language becomes the hole of your boundaries!
Thanks for sharing. ✴️💛
Edit: Now I understand why I had such high cortisol level! Staying no contact is the key to living psychologically stable life.
Block them anyway. Exit the narcissist sphere of influence.
Also need to protect yourself spiritually, they're so toxic and dark you get dragged down into hell. The stress is unreal. Dump and go no contact saved my sanity. It's like having had a relationship with a parasite - super strong bug spray needed to eradicate it.
@@dumblizzie You are so on point.
Forgive them, bless them and release them and move on.
Have an amazing day.🌄💟
@@daughteroflight8624 Yes I've done that and let it go, replaced fear with love.
Trauma bonding is so difficult to break you have to fight with discipline and faith to over come this monster it will eventually go but it takes a lot of discipline and courage to heal it's like in a long illness and you have to be in and out of a hospital, thanks be to God, I tried hard with prayers, fasting, exercise, and work , it's like being hook on cocaine, wow..., Sorry for the new supply 😢.
It’s not easy but it can be done 💪
Very helpful! I also liked the GPS analogy. A year later the trauma bond tempts me to reach out to the narcissist. I have to remember the bond isn't a part of me and it only exists because of the emotional manipulation
Work on yourself. Love yourself. You deserve so much better. Say affirmation such as these family to yourself and you’ll never feel like going back
Intermittent reinforcement.. I fall for his BS every time, even when logical brain Says” don’t listen”
That's the power of the conditioning. It's so strong it can make you act against your own self interest.
😭 I'm really new to this but clarity is bringing shame and these were difficult to hear somewhat but this was all very helpful
No contact AND DONT GET INTO ANOTHER ONE
Well said.
I am so fortunate to have escaped a 3yr tour with the "textbook" Narcissist, The Professor!
I knew enough about the evil before engaging with this "monster" to put the pieces together and called her out early on, I became her Narcissist knowing I would be gone soon and now a month out and absolute zero contact I moved out on the day she was due home from visiting family in Phoenix
Life is good
You will get a 'blast back' of epic proportions if you try to explain anything to them before you leave.
Yep!
Absolutely 💯
Sometimes I think I im over these things but then I listen to a video that taps in my past abusive story. The pain is fresh but not as it was in the past. I guess I should be thankful that I can revisit my old perspective with awareness and grace. In the past I couldn't do it (too painful). However,The awareness of the present me is difference from the past cuz there are things I would not allow today.
So guys we must remember how our mind or old paradign has to be forgiven when wonder into the past stories. Triggers will come from nowhere and we should not stay stangnet in them too long. Think of a parent walkin behind a child. They don't want to hold their hand to encourage as positive independence in the child. The parent is aware they are not holding their child's hand but they are far enough so that if the child stumbles unknowingly into danger the parent can grab and protect them when needed. We must do and be that for ourselves now.... I feel so much better now. Lol.
I'm still being pushed by social services to have a relationship with me ex narc otherwise "I'm being unfair and neglectful to my child because my child should see his parents communicating". It a disgrace. It really makes me so sad deep in my bones. I've had to fight for so long to not have to see him at contact hand over. Now I don't ( for the moment) but this is what social are saying now. I feel so sick from it. It makes me dout myself all the time.
Social services should understand how toxic that would be for kids! I'm so sorry. Your post was two months ago, has it gotten better? Do NOT doubt yourself, you're doing the right thing by shielding your kids.
Tell Social you'll be happy to do it...so long as THEY provide a supervisory 3rd party! Otherwise, tell Social to get well versed in Narcissism 101! Seriously, hope it worked out for you.
When you do have to contact him use gray Rock method, show NO EMOTION NOTHING, keep ANY conversation literally about your child and with as little words as possible, this works.
The heck with what other people say. It's your life. Not theirs.
Spot on video thank you!! I need this reinforcement to stay no contact and understand what happened to me. ❤🙏🏻
🙌
My ex just tried to hoover after over 6 years no contact! I had blocked all our mutual friends, but they used their current partner's profile. They "need my help" and it's "time sensitive"... but I noticed they didn't use any of the things that normally get us what we want - courtesy, manners, and a direct request. 🙄 Still the same old crap, 13 years post breakup. 😂😂😂
Intermittent reinforcement that’s what happened to me, another term for my narcissist dictionary
Its dreadful thing to experience because it aims to erase who you are as a person for the sole purpose of making you compliant to the abuser. Wishing you total healing, Jason x M
Your videos are amazing! Please more. I went to see a psychic and she brought up my ex narcissist. She said, " I see a man who will be back in your life in 2 months. He's going through something right now. Is he married? Because he has someone who has their claws in him but he doesn't want to be there. He's thinking about you and wants to make things right with you. You will marry this person in two years, he is the one. He struggles from past abuse, he's broken, but a good guy and he doesn't come from a good family." The prediction was scary.
Ugh, this breaks my heart. I know he was severely abused and I feel horrible for him. I have a lot of empathy towards him and I need help letting go now. :(
@@Джабраилович Thank you. The only problem is that I don't know 100% that he is a narcissist. I know he displays a lot of the traits but what if he is just a broken soul and experienced severe trauma? The psychic told me he was working on himself. I made zero mention of my love life ..she just dove into it and she was accurate. She even said that it's been 8 months since we broke up...very true. I'm so torn
I'm so glad you the videos are helpful!
Childhood abuse and personality disorders are no excuse for abusing people. It is wrong.
When you're are dealing with some who is highly narcissistic, pity is misplaced. It's something a narcissist will weaponize and manipulate.
The best response is to understand and accept the reality of what they are.
If someone has abused you never, ever, ever go back x M
@@SusieN2011 What matters is whether or not you are experiencing abuse and if it is affecting your well being.
I made a free relationship assessment tool for survivors called 'Are You In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship.' It can help you gain insight about the health of your relationship and self-reflect.
You can download it for free here narcissisticabuserehab.wordpress.com/2019/10/04/free-e-book-are-you-in-an-abusive-relationship/
Spot on !
Totally agree
Absolutely loved this video! So it twice in a row!
What absolutely knocked me in my head is how narcissistic abuse/abusors pull you back to trauma bonds. My husband used to tell me my hands are masterpieces, where my mom and other malignant narcissist told me my hands are too big... Whenever I get not so positive thoughts in this regard.... I know they are around... Bonding me in the trauma... These people are sick, so thanks for this video!
I went no contact for ten days. I was then contacted through email with a quote explanation. I fell for it and was a little afraid. Now I’m having self confidence issues and feel like I have been brainwashed. Yes it’s subtle like you loose yourself. I think I can just respond to with yes or no.
I went through all this with the sickest narcissist on the east coast. I went no contact so fast
I very sorry to hear you went through such a painful experience. I hope you're healing now. - M☀
I walked away from him is the best thing i did forcmyself, while the ex narc bring his cheated online dating into light right away !!!!
No contact for six years and I still get hoovered, it's dweled a little, I've never answered her.
Roller coaster ride is right .Ride of your life !
4 reasons ?
I can give you 1000.00 reasons,.!
True!
Still struggling with trauma bond. 3months now
I have been no contact for a while and it has taken such a toll on my health that I may lose my job due to potential anurism that I feel coming in my head from the stress of no contact and possibly a mini stroke.. My blood pressure stays elevated because of this and I cant pass a physical with high blood pressure..and I dont do drugs.. No contact has destroyed the quality of my life big time! In my opinion of course
Why? Because you're scared of what they'll do to you? No contact should normally reduce your stress
I did that too my father!
You must have suffered terribly in order to make that difficult, painful decision. I hope you are recovering and getting stronger every day x M
I was wondering if you could speak on how narcissistic men tend seek out other men with mental health issues. I have been on two relationships with men I suspect have some form of NPD and they both had issues with their actual fathers and family members, however sought men they formed a sort of brotherhood with and they seemed to feed off of and enhance each other’s mental health issues. In one of the relationships, the two men that formed a bond enforced each other’s very bad behavior and poor judgement which made me feel like I was truly losing my grasp on reality.
Pretty hard to do when it's your parent near the end of their life.
Thank you M..much love..💖
You're welcome, Angel! Stay blessed 💖
I went into an emotional tailspin and tried to deliberately hit a cow on a rural road at 100 mph. Caused over $2k in damages to my car. Huge wake up call. My narc didn't blink an eye and didn't want to help me while my car was out of commission. 🖕I wished him all the best he deserves and moved on!
What’s your best tip for staying No Contact? 🚷
@Cate-Nadine Great insight! Healthy boundaries and warrior tools at work x M
Well in my case i had to eliminate all contact from my immediate family. This included my father, mother, both of my sister's and her two children. My young nephew is still inocent ( I will try connect with him) They are all blocked by phone , email facebook. They were also asked on several occasions to never contact my daughter or I will involve the authorities. My father has tried other apps to connect me. They have also tried to contact my daughter. What i do is that I unblock them.... send another text abt warning them then block them back again! I did the same with ending my narc relatiinship ( my last line of email was don't bother to respond ... You will be blocked after sending this message)
Reasoning with my entire family or ex narc has never worked.So I give them no room to manipulate any form of toxicity. They are designed for Confusion. Remember if you give them a half an inch they will find a way to multiply that to infinity. I have learned this in the worst way but now I'm starting to enjoy my peace. You can do it ! Now you have to create you own happiness! You got it !
@@kcla3131 Beautifully said, You are me right now family an all.. I beg to differ, narcs DO get hurt when you discard first Especially! When they dont see it coming. I refuse ti give them ANY credict they dont deserve. Im they're worst night mare.I dont play with them sick, bastards i let them have it!
✊' 💃'.
I like my peace
@@lonewolf-oc9vr its a BEAUTIFUL thing...👊
have its the only way you can live again..you have to keep away from them....
Well said. Thanks for sharing your thoughts x M
Great video thank you
Thanks for watching x M.
This is good ..Thank you.
Thanks for watching ☀️
It is like a drug......😔😔
Hey M! Did you take down your video on Duchess Megan? She is bored with her “royal” responsibilities. She is so jealous that she will never be the queen. She can’t stand it. It blows my mind that survivors of Narc abuse can’t spot her for who she is. Thanks for your great videos!
Hey Kevin! It's still up th-cam.com/video/xhMSZVaR_9U/w-d-xo.html
A lot of reports are saying this grand finale has been in the works for a while. I think those who haven't drank the Kool Aid saw this one coming from a mile away x M.
Thank you ❤️❤️
You're most welcome ❤️
Hi is no contact means blocking them every where or ignoring them everywhwre pls. Clear.
No contact is blocking them on almost everything. Leave one way for them to still be able to message you. While you ignore them you should try to be a better you and distract yourself from that person. When that person does message you back be careful. Because that person could pretend to be nice, you start to get happy, and then the narcissist goes back to their regular routine.
it will never be 100% due to children (wife is covert), but 2 of adult children either moved or no contact; tries to hoover them back, and keep hooks in me. Graduations, new grandchild, marriages (where she was not invited), etc. Please discard me 100%. Please! (but she doesn't work, I'm just a paycheck, and a life-altering injury to me, "ruined HER life." smh
Does the narc ever change ? .... does it matter if you are secondary supply when you go no contact?
No, they don’t change. It doesn’t matter if gore secondary supply when you go No Contact.
The proverbial wrecking ball.
I will admit that i am guilty of sending out negative toxic energy the reason why this person that used to be my friend blocked me on instagram on may 11th 2019 last year because i said that i'm disappointed that she did not like my rose drawing art work i was depressed after she blocked me i try to comment on her youtube channel video letting her know that i apologize for my behavior after that happen she end up deleting my comment she does not accept my apologize if i did not pressure forcing her making a big deal taking it personal that she did not like my art work none of this wouldn't nothing happen we still would of been friends i really blew it i ruined our friendship with my ego it's all my fault just like they said if we don't got nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all that's why she block me to teach me a lesson i'm afraid that she will keep my blocked forever i really miss us being friends i wish she will unblock me soon so we can be friends again i know that nobody is perfect we all make mistakes
Crushed for years , learned too late
Never too late
I made a big mistake by replying to her. I won't ever do this.
3 little kids involved, then how no contact work, he using kids against me
FAS adults. And adopted people worst liars in my life
Feeding the trauma bond is what happened when my narc family reached out. My husband said I relapsed. Relapsed on trauma😮 I fed the trauma bond. It literally made me paranoid and scared for my life. I'm not kidding when I say the ringleader, Sharon wants to kill me. She bought a gun just for it. It's pink🩷
Posting this as evidence that it was premeditated😂 not jk
How to stay away if its my neibor ??
Only your neighbor in one place of Earth
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maggie kay,You are beautiful 🌹🌹,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
@@christianpulisic7784 narc free
@@freedom12888 Which country are you from?
@@christianpulisic7784 I am in Canada
@@freedom12888 Wow!!😍😍😍😍😍,are you on Hangouts or Gmail so we can always talk?
Mine should burn in hell
Is it so easy? I don't think so. It's beyond understanding. Actually you are finished , I think.
Things can seem dire after betrayal by a loved one. Among other things, recovery requires willingness, discipline, and consistency - all of which can be challenging. In the final analysis, as long as there is life, there is hope.
I think this is the most difficult problem that one faces especially if the other don't try to listen. If everything bad turn out to be you and only you the reason then it looks like there's nothing more to talk or discuss about. Sometimes feels like having a rope hung on your neck.. Just one more step to history. 🙏🕊️👍. Yes , try it you may succeed . why not. Remember God helps those who helps themselves but if you try and the other don't then it's pointless.
only my opinion...about narcissism speaks narcissist