I accepted my husband's other wife and we're all happy | Tuko TV
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- Becky Gitau is a relationship expert with a wholesome experience in helping people fix their relationships... Today she speaks to us about some of the things people ignore that cost them their marriages
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Uongo mtupu, hakuna mwanamke atafurahia when another lady intrude their marriage.. this is just a denial and fear of starting over.
Sure,
Starting over single???? Weuuuuwe it's hard earth dear
True 💯
She is not in denial, she accepted and healed a very long time ago, denial comes when you don't believe and also not accepted what happened
She's scared to be alone and promoting nonsense I might unsubscribe and stop watching TuKo
Those are pure lies. No sane woman can accept a strange woman into her marriage
She's scared to be alone
@@salomenewsome4188 sisemi kitu
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@salomenewsome4188
she chose to make lemonade out of lemons and thats okay instead of being bitter happy divocii like you projecting
and yet senegal president has two wives.. wewe mboch qatar hauwezi
Alot of talk but no one with a healthy sense of self worth and love would cosign to this confusing sexual network in the name of polygamy.
Exactly!
I haven't listened yet...but I believe the word is self worth, If you have it, you would never settle for less .
True ❤
On point
💯
Then why is your husband still marrying another woman she talks the talk but does not walk the walk not buying this story this is scaredness.of being dirvoced.
I pity this girl
She's in denial
The only way to fight them is thru prayers,some use some powers to get men.As long as you are faithful in your marriage prayers can make your man adore you, respect you and ignore any outside woman.As for an abusive marriage walk away before you end up to 6ft under.Period!
So many 'happy' divociis projecting as expected. She simply chose her battle and prefered to stay while you prefered to leave and face your own battles outside. She is a counsellor hence more understanding.You are afraid your husbands may follow suit
I will not encourage polygamy I know that a lot of men have side chicks secretly but I will not accept it period I am one Woman Man policy 💪🏿
That is not even polygamy it’s cheating.. polygamy iko na formula, sio just sleeping around
So the man marries more wives because he has seen a more beautiful woman... ok, thats ok... does that mean that women should also entertain men that are richer than their men?... please lets stop decorating Polygamy... ive seen polygamous men die of loneliness because the kids and wives end up despising them.
Nop but when u see woman easily accept, she doesn't full in that marriage
True any man who is in polygamy marriage they die lonely ad with fear of these women bcoz non of them is a friend,we many monogamous for companionship and friendship
They die alone my father had severely mistreated my mother because of his other woman at the time of death he was alone in bed none of us there my mother was only nursing him out of obligation
Thank you! That’s a big topic. Thank you for trying to bring it together 🎉
Other than giving our her story she was also here as an therapist or counseller so shes allowed to echo advise and pointing out the mistakes..there is nothing wrong wth that
A few minutes into the video,I think the lady is insincere.Resigning to fate or stopping yourself from fight is a survival mechanism.Deep inside what do you desire
Very an very insecure that's why she is spreading nonsense
I just know some Kenyans are polygamous but in this case I see a woman that has been antagonized by her philandering husband to accept some bullshit. She needs a self esteem boost. My heart ❤️ goes out to her because you can tell she is a lovely person
She's talking like Millie the Mp. My ticktock follower. I love you
This Ann Waiguru twin's personality is strong, I should say. A PHD in clinical psychology? Wow!!!
I like the way she is relating things with some degree of judgements and conclusions as a qualified counsellor at the PhD. level!!!!!
Its a high time we accept that men are polygamous and live with it, otherwise you'll die of depression
Hakna mwanaume ako na mke mmoja, I'm happily married and if he feels like marrying another wife, well and good
Yvonne. Healthy advise...when interviewing people with controversial life choices, better to just stick to their narration of their own story rather than the guest giving advice or philosophising their issues. Next time just ask what their story is. We're more interested in the details of your guest's experiences than their advice. Bulk of the interview should be the personal story.
@nm950 you have saved my time 😘.....thank you for your comment...i thought it will have some episodes where we can learn from ...b4 deciding to entertain what their tittle say. its true "...We're more interested in the details of your guest's experiences than their advice. "
True this is nonsense advice
@@oderavihenda5655stand 🧍♀️ 💪 on your own you are kind of a person that will see your friend has gone to school and scored an E and you will be there oooh thankyou you have saved my schoolfees am not going to school because of your grades😅😅this woman is speaking out of experience and rather than giving her story she also a therapist 😊 let's give her flowers before judging 😊
personal perspectives could be misleading
We don’t need polygamy advice… that’s your choice…
Marriage ia is good but when he goes for another woman it means he is dissatisfied with you. Life is more than marriage and children.Self awareness is key and best thing is to give him space to live the life he wants but stooping down to a third party ????it should not be allowed.You are complete without that unfaithful man.
Weuuuh!!!!🙆. Comment section today has alot of bitterness why??? This her story just sit back, relax and ejoy coz mnapiga Yvonne teke mara bla bla, mara story teller is lying. Then tell us her side story which you knew before. Guys just be nice
Wow Daktari 🎉🎉
Wamama hamuogopi magonjwa? Listen, kulea watoto na finding u a new man is not a crime.. ama stay single, travel .. nje over 50 bado uko soko 😂.. anyway, more power to u mama, hope someday utajipenda ukuwe mselfish Pia kama mtu wako ..
Danganya toto jinga😅😅😅
Self esteem yako madam iko down sana. Keep your advise to yourself, tell us your story only. Were you are you really truly loved??? If so, huezi taka another woman by your husband side. Get love and be loved. Uko down sana
God is so wise, one woman one Man finish and cla. No man can save two masters at a goal. You bring demons into your lives
if GOd is so wise as you put it.. how come there are more women than men?
and muslims who marry 2 or 3 wives, dont they have a God
This lady is very mature,pure African daughter. Those criticising her majority are from broken marriage or singles trying to imagine what union looks like
Exactly
Nah!, probably you are the broken one here. Only weak Men do that!.
true. she reminds them why they are single and they need to stop projecting
Not really, some of us are happily married and from happy religious families. This is her point of view and we do not have to accept what she is sharing. In fact, this story is a shoc to some of us.
it's true, single moms who left their husbands thinking they will get a successful man who only loves them are the most bitter.. instead they found 'afadhali shetani unajua'
Three is a crowd!!! Period!
na ndio wewe uko crowd ya 1.. attitude
Men if u see ur woman wife is easy accepting ur second wife, the know that woman is not fully in you, or that marriage. She will know how to end it
That's true, she either has an exit plan or he has already been replaced
Kila mtu na maisha yake.
This woman is very mature may God almighty bless you baby gal
Smh
as a counseller she must be very understanding
The title did not rhyme with talk. Especially the interviewee did not get to tell how she accepted her husband to have a second partner despite the fact that she stayed in her marriage.
Sarcasm laughter you are right yah
African culture expected women to shut .But have we ever thought that all verses in bible saying a woman should submit and the man is the head were actually written by men?How comes there is no woman version of these verses.One pastor said that the bible was written in a misogynistic era.A woman had no place.
So jewish culture and African culture the same.God never created anyone to be oppressed.This narrative of women this and that is outdated
Leaving a marriage is not easy for women in kenya. Divorce causes the woman and her family a lot of stigma. Most women would rather stay in a humiliating marriage than return to their father's house. What will the villagers say? How will i face my home church members who witnessed my wedding? Won't my divorced make my mother to be the subject of gossip among the women's guild?
Pure lies and utter nonsense! No woman would be happy to welcome another to her marriage willingly, this only happens when you have no choice.
Kwangu ukileta miguu nitakukata😂😂
Are you the man ? The man decides coz he pays your bills....
If you think about it, it is all about power. Why does it have to be a man to have multiple partners? They know it is wrong. If it were right, they would have normalized that so women too can have them if their economic status allows it. Some women are blinded in that cult. If my husband were to love another woman, I would simply step away and let them stay together. This is insane in my opinion.
Uongooooooooo
Jipende mama
You speak for yourself. Not every married woman cheats. Funga mdomo
😅 Gosh..feelings Nazo.
But true!
Foolish encouragement
Why are you annoyed ? We know you..
🤣🤣🤣Vayolence😂
kwani men are cheating with chicken? if men are cheating.. women are cheating too..
Uuwongo mtupu i love mein children and mawafundisa visuri ya kwaza upendo food on the table to be clean and i schow them Digital mapema kwa wiki 10 thau ya mafuta ya gari na hasikuwa ana shida na pesa nime mpa watoto wangu card bank mein schow chidren love like akothe ❤
Which language is this
This lady may have made a decision that we don't agree with but her advice is bang on!! Good advice.
Some of us are quided by Godly principles, where does it say that you accept and stop fighting?. Mislead yourself. We have seen and listen to others come on these platforms with same narrative, yet its the opposite, depressed and bitter pretending to put a brave face😮
Mimi hata siwezi maliza kusikia. Huyu ajiongelelee tu.
U have to be happy cos you don't want to loose your man
Ladies, the bible says, the "Word kills, the Spirit gives life" as long as you are led by the Holy Ghost, let us just talk about the bible blindly, lets also consider our African culture that looks down to women and treats them they are less
Stop the nonsense and get out of the cult u are in in the name of a church
Madam... cheating is a choice... for me l believe love that exist between husband and wife ... can't be shared with third party...any man who marries more than one women is just out of self-control of the flesh..(lust)....coz if what you are advising is true then it could have worked for you...by winning your husband back to yourself 😊🏃...
since kitambo . kwanza mimi nikona mumama
Let me laaaaf in a way that pleases me!!Nooooo
she looks alike eith Ann waiguru
Pple keep trying to study about men n they will never get the answer even wen try to say bibilically the head of a man is GOD dats y even fore fathers could talt to him n they had several wemen n ladies cannot accept reality so akili kichwani yesu moyoni pesa mfukoni......
If my husband marry second wife even me I look for a sponsor outside but I won't leave my marriage But the fact is these sidechics ate always paying games outside.
Sasa na saa na ulikuwa na boy friend uka saa mkawachana bibi ameenda na watoto na akawafundisha je wanafanya kasi sasa bwana anakuja hapa piya tuonge mimi nimekata hawaoni baba yeye alikuwa mtu wa kutomba na kufanya umalaya jibu plz
Hata mimi sijuyi spirituelle sprach
Si umesoma wacha udaku sensi
so umekuja hapa mtu mzima ku encourage polygamy huna kazi ya kufanya
What happened to Abraham's Empire ?
'Ypu have quite an impressive CV so to speak' weuh what does this mean yaani we cannot just celebrate someone without undertones?
..not necessarily. It's 'our' English. We dont understand the real use of phrases and grammar
Talking sense
2 wives those are only for Muslims, and I think with Christians those days were long gone, that's history
I cannot stand anything, just The same way with a soda boda raiders
Black women’s 💔💔💔 😒😒😒😒
So who do we follow
Humans or bible
Gods rule or traditions
How's Ibrahim's so far??? Pure lies.
Did i hear her say..i dont want to share my ..boy!
Waah!
So what is she teaching..
For me i could have said halleluyia..
God bless the young lady..aje anisaidie ..hapa.
Tujenge boma..
Men are not easy to handle .
. So one out!
😂
Hivo tu,
On the other hand ,
.marriage issues we tackle together..ama lets part ways..
Third party (co- wife) in the family Nope!
Stop enabling bad behaviours!
I don't get it..did she accept the second wife?
Though she did all she thought is right..for a man.
Pole Dr .
The English... woi..
This woman has the audacity to lie to all of us.Nkt....
Hehehe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Man lost his leadership once Adam fail he become weaker and the woman become stronger this has continued we better accept it as men
No don’t accept it because you were created to be the head sir and not the tail please 🙏
A very boring story.... She is not even telling the truth...